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1

What you are doing may be “love bombing” which works if you’re calibrated.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:20 AM
-2

I guarantee you that he is spending more time than anybody that has an intermediate level of game. Dates + pruning SA + hours worked to pay these sluts takes a LOT of time. Not to mention establishing yourself as a beta provider, essentially guarantees all that work leads to no booty calls. This is blue pill max.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:15 AM
17

Condom, wipes. Don’t get any of her aids juice on u.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:06 PM
1

They’re all branches on the same tree
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:46 PM
1

So now trp is about being a happy beta male? Good to know. Now I don’t need to question where all the trash posts are coming from.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:41 PM
0

All he’s doing is tit for tat - textbook definition of beta bux. He’s still putting in the time to go on these SA dates. All to be with some gold digging whore
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:30 PM
2

You’re right - this is what happens when all the incels move here. This has nothing to do with sexual strategy. This is beta male strategy. A shame this sub is going to shit.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:22 PM
-8

You are beta as fuck. Learn how to pickup plenty of women for free.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:51 PM
5

Probably because all the fools around him are trying so hard to look like they’re having fun.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:46 PM
1

Hell no. If you have an actual mental illness that needs treatment, you most likely don’t need to even touch on anything red pill related. If you are doing so, it’s a waste of time.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:49 AM
4

Dude there is nothing wrong with having emotions. Red pill isn’t about suppressing yourself 24/7. It’s about having constraint around women.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 01:00 PM
12

It’s worse, most of these women don’t even put out. This is the pinnacle of beta behavior - paying for women’s attention.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 12:55 PM
2

I hope she’s talking about self defense.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 12:50 PM
1

Some form of anxiety disorder, maybe ptsd.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:43 PM
7

Cuz they’re flooded with robots from overseas. A culture based company needs people familiar with the culture
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 03:15 AM
2

Good point. Also I’m curious if the rule changes affects what we can talk about. If they do, it’s better they ban us then water us down.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 03:11 AM
1

I’m so god damn tired of worrying about censorship.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 02:35 PM
2

Good, you realized what most people spend their lives chasing isn’t worth it. What are you going to do with that knowledge?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:05 AM
1

Don’t fidget
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:46 PM
1

If this happened once it’s on her. If it happened with multiple women, clearly it’s you.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:44 PM
1

You set a good initial impression and then bored the hell out of them. Girls give out kisses like candy, it doesn’t mean anything.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:43 PM
2

Clearly flirting
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:37 AM
13

You don’t have to talk to them. Just play with them. Game, as in the name, is a game. It should be fun and flirty. Tease them. Push pull. If you’re not having fun it’s most likely because you’re not playing the game.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:17 PM
4

Had you not mentioned she passed away, this post would be downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:44 PM
3

Yeah cuz your dick will be burning from stds
/r/askTRP15/09/19 06:33 AM
3

It’s all about flirting. You should not pedestalize her by being super direct. Instead, play with her and rile her up in a sexual manner. This is “indirect” - but it’s the most direct way to her emotions.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 06:22 PM
1

I think you’re only gonna find peace in acceptance. You are living in the past at this point. I’ve fucked up my mind in similar ways, but things get better only when you stop wanting them to. Don’t worry about how - just give it time. It’s going to take a long time - but you WILL adapt to living in this different mentality to the point where it doesn’t even matter anymore. The human is very good at adapting. Just try and mix your life up a bit and find something stimulating.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:52 PM
4

Lmfao. This has nothing to do with your career. You are just an insecure bitch and until you recognize that, you’ll always make excuses and suffer.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:45 PM
5

Nobody wants to kill themselves more than a ginoed loser whose balls don’t work properly anymore.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:40 PM
2

Speak to them on an emotional level. Rile up their imagination.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:32 PM
1

Depends on your major
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:31 PM
38

You don’t trigger logic with women.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:06 PM
1

Reputation is a form of status. While reputation depends on others opinions, status does not. Depending on ones status, a person may or may not have access to resources through independent means.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:03 PM
1

Status grants access to resources
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:21 PM
18

You’re learning that women, like other possessions, don’t bring happiness.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:24 AM
20

When in doubt : Ignore Agree + Amplify
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:18 AM
1

Just don’t supplicate or be too scared to disagree
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:24 PM
1

I’ve never once seen a fat dude with an attractive face. You probably just look like a big baby which is why they find you amusing to look at.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:22 PM
1

You lack social skills, nothing special.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:19 PM
2

Jerk off before going out in order to establish some regular ass.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:53 AM
1

Don’t ltr without first spinning plates. Why? You determine your own value You vet, instead of going for the first whiff of ass You gain skill in dealing with women
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:51 AM
1

You can get robotic follicle treatments nowadays if you’re not totally bald.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:48 AM
1

Don’t take it personally - you are just low in social skills. Improve your verbal wit.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:47 AM
1

You are pretty high smv, but have no game - aka no way to demonstrate it.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:44 AM
2

Practice not being a faggot for once
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:41 AM
3

Not necessarily, she could also just have low self esteem and is too shy to be sexy.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:39 AM
6

My bad didn’t see that. The advice is still the same: start small. Have a regular conversation, but throw in a little teasing. Then act like nothing even happened.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:35 PM
7

You’re trying to run before you even know how to walk. If you can’t hold a regular conversation with a girl, don’t even bother learning to game her yet. Say hello and talk to random people
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:26 PM
3

Easy but cheap way to establish the fact that you’re not a square
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:49 PM
5

Anything that a monkey can do
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:09 AM
2

Then you’re still wrong
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:49 PM
4

They’re a bit less psychopathic
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:49 PM
1

Some zen for you: https://youtu.be/T7EcixhiQl8
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:12 PM
1

“Should, should, should” Act how YOU want.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:17 PM
1

And nothing to do with his current problems
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:11 PM
1

Context matters here. He’s not growing man boobs and crying. He’s feeling approach anxiety, at 17. He doesn’t need to worry about hormones right now.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:06 PM
2

Dude...what? Why are you creating problems out of nothing
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:16 PM
5

That feeling is chemical - learn to not depend on your feelings just to eye fuck a chick. It’s much more empowering that way.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:12 PM
1

+u/User_Simulator u/lugrulo
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:37 PM
2

Not a chance. See: all the insecure people on steroids. It’s a matter of taking action. Has nothing to do with “how you feel”. Eventually you’ll stop letting yourself overthink.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:37 PM
2

There’s no cause and no effect when it comes to this. It is simply a state of mind that you put yourself in by overthinking. The moment you stop, and become present - judgement, not being enough, etc - all that disappears. The moment you start questioning and engaging doubt, you’ll once again experience that “down”.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:26 PM
9

Don’t hype up a date. In fact don’t hype up anything to get attention from a girl. That shit is so beta.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:19 PM
5

“An Illuminati member hit me up on Facebook”
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:49 PM
5

Febreze
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:49 AM
1

Not really, they like men with the capability to step out of social custom when required. Constant display of antisocial behavior is repulsive to pretty much anybody.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:40 PM
117

Right, it’s called being calibrated. Those YouTube pick up artists are mostly just entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 07:28 PM
1

I thought they already were
/r/askTRP25/08/19 04:49 PM
2

Just don’t make it look so obvious. Say a few words, get her number.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 03:03 PM
18

No good deed goes unpunished. Shoulda smashed.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:51 PM
4

The kind of thing a gay dude would do.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:02 PM
1

“How much do you make ” “2400” “...A month? A year?” “2400 BITCH”
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:37 PM
1

No, but it’s not good either.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:28 PM
1

Yes, girls will start seeking you out. Random guys that want to impress you will show up with new girls that know about you somehow. It’s like a taste of being famous.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:24 PM
9

Just keep escalating. It’s just a shit test to see if you have the balls to handle a little opposition.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:21 PM
1

Feelings aren’t just “caught”. They’re manufactured. What did you do to put yourself here? You know why this other guy is more successful in making her wet? Because he’s not needy.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:19 PM
6

She has a kid with the guy, wtf do you expect
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:36 PM
1

I did it with the help of alcohol, personally. It shuts off the vicious self hateful chatter. You realize that the chatter was just a falsehood, and can be ignored until it dies off.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:32 PM
2

That’s narcissistic to you? Man you’ve had it easy. It’s called a shit test. It’s beta bait. Keep doing you.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:31 PM
1

Evolution would like to have a word for you. Let’s be honest - disposable sex is not bad for civilization. That’s a religio-beta rationalization. It’s so easy to claim that women are playing the game unfairly. That what they’re doing is shooting themselves in the foot. It is only bad for a civilization that is unprepared to handle it. Culture/institutions have a way of adapting.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 03:21 PM
6

Legally give women all the power in relationships, and they can do whatever they want without worrying what men think about them.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 03:05 PM
5

Because women are actually care about status way more than men. They always have.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:11 AM
1

You’re not drinking are u
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:10 AM
3

That’s not attitude, it’s a shit test like you said. So no, don’t confront her about that- she’s not doing anything wrong.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:31 PM
6

She’s trashy, so who cares what she’s trying to do?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:15 PM
2

Who cares?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:12 PM
1

I hear you. Thats really sad. Keep trying new approaches. For example, experiment with how much validation you give him for “talking about change”. Maybe roll your eyes, and say “I don’t believe you, you’re just gonna be miserable till you die”. Maybe you need to be a savage, maybe you need to give him love. Mess around. Maybe recommend something where he would need to be monetarily invested. I also recommend therapy if he’s willing.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:18 AM
2

Learn to enjoy the game, and you won’t look so negatively upon it.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:12 AM
33

This is the problem with LTRs. You have no leverage except your presence. However she doesn’t even value that at this point. Make yourself more scarce than her, that’s your only chance to salvage some dignity.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:52 PM
0

Nah, he’s already doing all the right stuff. He’s just horny. Once he blows his load again he’ll realize oneitis is an illusion, and women are a dime a dozen.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:48 PM
1

The best way to get over someone is to find someone else.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:46 PM
1

Just learn regular game. Dancing is try hard.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:43 PM
10

That’s omega. Betas can actually get woman, occasionally. It’s just on her terms.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:40 PM
1

You need to slow down. You want to make him red pilled, but he doesn’t even seem to understand basic survival. This man needs to first stop the absurd amount of drinking, and playing video games every day. Start there, this has nothing to do with the red pill.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:59 PM
3

Gotta keep the girls sexual radars untouched bro to reach the next sexual dimension. Only if you’re sexless social obviously.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:27 PM
6

No, it’s proof you’re easy to manipulate. Are you gonna fight every person who disrespects you? I have had the same problem. I’ve learned its better to use social skills.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:28 AM
9

Sometimes you gotta lay it down. This was not one of those times.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:16 AM
1

Find something worthwhile to do with your life? Pussy is a trap for most.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:46 AM
3

You are not special. Stop doing blue pill shit, and you will be a little less of a beta male.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:42 AM
5

Glad to hear. Lmfao
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:40 AM
8

You’re not supposed to meet more than once a week. You’re practically married.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:54 AM
2

Ssh, you’re not allowed to say his name here, unless you’re a globalist feminist pig.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:50 AM
4

Yes. The influx of look obsessed incels have been flooding our glorious shores with waves of feminine insecurities. But alas, all good things must come to an end.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:46 AM
4

Nah, Seeking Arrangement is the beta wet dream.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:37 AM
6

Don’t try and shut off the chatters. Its not possible. However, you have the option of engaging them and making them worse. It’s more important to direct your attention to things that are worthwhile. When you’re not doing anything, you will start to get existential and more depressed.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:19 PM
10

She deserves support? No, she deserves prison.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 08:52 PM
4

You know why you feel like a bitch? Because you’re acting like one. That’s not even your girl. This guy has every right to call you out.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:48 PM
1

Lol idk how you are so tilted by her old man
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:39 PM
1

You should never be making your interactions look like game. Just because she sees you with another girl isn’t a problem.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:46 PM
1

You need to close in some way - either number, instant date, or fuck. Why else would you talk to her?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:39 PM
2

Cybersex I imagine. When you spooge all over your phone.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:09 AM
3

People always have some excuse. There’s always some reason.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:08 AM
1

N count of 6 in high school isn’t nearly enough to make a thread about.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:07 PM
1

Strength alone won’t get you the girl. However if you can use it to intimidate other men, then it will help. But this isn’t really a strength on your part, but lack of it in those easily intimidated.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:03 PM
1

By reminding yourself of the alternative
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:55 PM
1

Normal people don’t get complexes by being broken up with in a straightforward manner. If they do, they were already predisposed. It’s not your problem.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 05:14 PM
20

You don’t need game with drunk sorostitutes.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:10 PM
2

You wouldn’t be feeling guilty if you had some abundance. So is it guilt or regret?
/r/askTRP15/08/19 12:29 PM
3

In the short term - Western boxing has a much lower initial learning curve than Muay Thai or bjj.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:40 AM
6

I personally get uncomfortable when people assume for me to lead them. It feels like a lot of pressure, but I think it gets better over time if you just be confident in whatever decisions you make.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:37 AM
2

You might have depression, but in general doing things to feel good will not work. You must find the “good” in doing things.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:55 PM
2

You’re not that old to start working dude. It’s not a big deal, plus there’s more to life than a salary
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:53 PM
2

You could say trp is the solution to the breakdown of marriage and religion.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 02:51 PM
11

Everything men ever do is wrong apparently
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 01:24 AM
12

It’s just a tv show - it’s not trying to take you down any path. As a character he is a dancing monkey, and everyone thinks he might be gay - does that sound attractive?
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:34 PM
84

Good summary on an objective asshole, and an “asshole”. Be the latter.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 03:14 PM
1

If she truly got offended over that you’re gonna be walking over a ton of eggshells. Don’t be afraid to tease and flirt, even over text. You’re gonna lose some, it’s inevitable.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:23 AM
3

See a therapist
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:03 PM
1

“I hang with the hottest dudes”
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:11 PM
2

People here are too invested in her morality about whether what she said/felt was right or wrong. It doesn’t matter. She is damaged goods - definitely not ltr material.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:27 PM
1

Feelings can’t be wrong. What does that imply? The girl is a skank. Plate her - it’s not punishment, just incompatibility with a man who maintains some level of decency.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:25 PM
5

When he mentions become useful, I interpret as become useful so you can help yourself. After you demonstrate an ability to help yourself, then you can help others as a leader. Not so you can be used like a beta bucks tool.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:38 PM
1

Her asking the question was good, it means she was probably interested. And from your example you did fine up until the silence which you caused. It sounds like you stopped talking? Keep doing a bit of flirty push pull. Don’t be logical, just flirt. The problem is it seems you are going for a reaction. You do that with your silly dance moves too (which I would avoid doing, personally). Don’t be a dancing monkey. You need to lead the conversation a bit with the flirting until she starts getting i…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:17 PM
5

You get better at game by being technical with it. If your goal is to consistently pull, then you’re gonna need to find what part of the interaction leading to the close is bottlenecking you
/r/askTRP10/08/19 05:55 PM
2

It’s only a shit test in your head. To her it’s just casual playful talk. Shittests are good, it’s how bitches flirt.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:16 PM
6

Curious how you know her menstrual cycle if you haven’t even banged yet
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:15 PM
1

I think it’s also about you having a source of happiness other than her.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:17 PM
18

You are lacking social skills, and denouncing people that have them as “dumb”. Believe it or not, but connection has nothing to do with shared interests.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:36 PM
3

Recognize how much a blessing women are to men who care about improving themselves. They wake men up from the warm fantasy of mommy’s unconditional love and shake them into reality’s cold grips. Don’t use this as an opportunity to game the system. This has nothing to do with frame, but lack of accountability over your direction in life.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:48 PM
3

Father then
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:36 PM
1

That explains the comments. He probably is. Keep drilling him on that if it makes him uncomfortable (only when he attacks you).
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:36 PM
1

Only if you poop your pants.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:33 PM
2

Learn to be comfortable with long silences.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:31 PM
3

Try taking some heroin too. Also try taking some meth to know how not to act. Then try taking it all at once for the ultimate social state.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:29 PM
1

Some dudes who don’t know how to work on themselves get off by bringing others down. It’s much easier to be destructive towards others than to actually build yourself up. Also angry looking people seem to sniff each other out. Try and mellow out a bit.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:16 PM
6

The good news is once you realize this, life becomes a lot easier.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:09 PM
-3

If you can fuck, then fuck.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:43 AM
3

Depends on why you’re in an ltr. If it’s for dependable sex, then I see no problem.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 01:07 AM
3

You make a good point about women always being “on”. It’s true, and strange how they almost always seem ready given the right approach etc. They almost always wear makeup, attractive clothing, and sexualize themselves. Women are definitely highly sexual creatures. Idk about obsessed, but it’s close.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 10:14 PM
10

There was a study that showed people that have 100% chance of getting zapped when pressing a button have less anxiety than people with 50% chance. The possibility of failure builds up anticipation anxiety. This is normal.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:48 AM
5

Your color
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:49 PM
2

Look into a specialist who does exposure response prevention. You need to stop engaging in compulsive behavior.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:09 PM
1

Lions mane fucks with your hormones, be careful
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:01 PM
3

As we love their submission, they hate ours. As they love our domination, we hate theirs.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:58 PM
14

Also, known as the second noble truth, the origin of suffering - attachment.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 04:56 PM
9

Go jack off 5 times a day for a week and report back how you feel. Libido is a limited resource, and should be channeled toward productivity. I’m all for hedonism, but it’s not self sustaining.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 04:46 PM
37

I think it’s dubious to consider this canon. For example the type of girl to date somebody in the ufc may (shocker) have a strong desire for an aggressive masculine fighter, and him losing broke that weird fantasy. Most women don’t have expectations that high in regards to fighting. I think it’s more important to observe the behavior after the loss. If his whole ego is shattered, then that is the real reason for unattration.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 01:26 PM
5

Treat yourself like a best friend
/r/askTRP06/08/19 01:18 PM
2

I don’t understand why any of you guys would risk it. A few minutes of pleasure < 18 years of parenting/child support.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:28 AM
7

Sounds pretty close to the natural maximum assuming very low fat
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 12:17 AM
1

Yeah, but you gotta be pretty popular. Get invited to parties, make older friends through sports, etc.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:55 PM
2

They’re basically cursing themselves to never get laid. Their mindset is so pathetic.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:53 PM
2

How about don’t frame such a useless and invalid position in the first place? Natural selection has nothing against you, and your genes don’t have to spread if you don’t want them to.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:50 PM
2

If this is common behavior, yeah it’s most likely his dad is sick. Maybe borderline personality disorder or something. Being around psychotic people can be mentally destructive - physical violence isn’t required.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 12:49 AM
1

Yeah, you’re basically telling them you’re insecure in yourself. Its always much better to assume attraction. Don’t be afraid of them rejecting you.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 12:42 AM
2

Doing a bunch of external superficial stuff doesn’t make you secure. It just helps with external confidence - similar to an actor. For internal security you need to really dive deep into understanding and accepting your flaws.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:12 PM
0

Contrary to what other people are saying, depending on your major I would actually recommend an ltr for college. It takes so much time and energy to consistently fuck as an average dude with no game. You would be better off using that time to study. I know too many people that fucked up on this end, costing them hundreds of thousands in time dollars. You would still be able to apply rp principles to yourself, at your own pace and practice on your gf.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 04:36 PM
1

Yeah, it’s the same as somebody telling a joke with a faulty premise. It’s pretty lame.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 04:33 PM
14

... as you can take a beta to bath water
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 04:30 PM
2

Or even just “I am enough”.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:45 PM
3

Yeah your game is way off. Never ask a girl. Lead. And don’t ask what’s your name as an intro. Why the fuck does some random person name matter at that point? Ask when you get to know her a bit. Instead comment on something about her, casually. Then grab her hand and lead her in a dance.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:30 PM
1

You could be good looking, and she thought you had a solid genuine frame. Or it was totally random luck. Only way to find out is by getting more results.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:31 PM
1

What is more decadent than strategy around creating scores of alpha widows? Not all of us here aim to be beacons of morality and honor. Enjoy the decline.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:22 PM
3

Dude stop depending on Tinder. I used that shit for a month, and I was mind blown at how much harder it is to get a date than in the real world. It’s such a waste of time. And stop identifying with your mental illness. You are not an illness. You are a man capable of behavior (action) which is all people take notice of. If there are certain actions you take that hinder you socially, observe and fix them. Move forward, work on yourself.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:02 PM
1

Smash
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:36 PM
2

Let life run it’s course. Most likely you’re gonna get hurt since this is your first, especially since you probably have a scarcity mindset. Just relax, and remember there’s more where that came from.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:53 PM
6

Don’t go too early. Don’t stare at people. Walk around, so people don’t see you alone. Go a bit later into the night. Talk with dudes and make some friends.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:47 PM
4

LTR makes no sense to make open for a guy. My opinion why: Men are drained of resources in a LTR - time and money. If a man gets into an LTR (which I see very few reasons for doing so) it should be under perfect circumstances, and great behavior. I think what you really want is FWBs. But as long as you are not responsible for her well-being in any way, and not married, then you’re fine without worrying about labels.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:43 PM
5

What do you think plates are?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:35 PM
1

Alright well your options now are: Use this as an opportunity to grow by showing some balls, and not responding to every message etc Move on with another chick. But from what you’re saying about yourself I wouldn’t expect much different behavior unless you actively try harder to monitor yourself.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:17 PM
3

You make it sound like the generations before us lacked masculine men. This is untrue, in fact they had many more role models and less in your face feminism than we did. Trp always existed to those who were aware of the world around them.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:11 PM
1

Don’t reciprocate at the tit for tat level, in her frame. Demonstrate interest at the beginning, and when encouraging good behavior.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:03 PM
4

Yes cuz seeking a relationship is the pinnacle of feminine behavior. To her, your dick pretty much fell off.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:01 PM
7

You don’t need to cut somebody out of your life if you catch feelings. That is fear based preemptive behavior. You just back away, and recalibrate.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:48 PM
2

You need to distance yourself, but you don’t close the door completely. Use Snapchat as a means to demonstrate your unavailability - this will turn her on. Stop messaging her for non logistical reasons.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:46 PM
1

Light Blue - d&g
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:21 PM
2

I do both. The sessions help me determine what needs improvement, and then I fix it up and try again immediately. I also approach way more, since I don’t need to get back into the “mindset” each time. I think of it as practicing a skill like any other. It may help to turn some errand into a session. I use that knowledge to help me in the regular world.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:18 AM
2

People talk in a high voice to seem unthreatening. Just start talking in a neutral voice to everyone, like you do with your friends.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:14 AM
3

With women, yes it is. You will be much better off improvising. Women care much more about how you say things, than what you actually say. If you’re trying to negotiate a raise or something strategic like that, then being a little prepared by rehearsing is okay.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:08 AM
0

Steroids if you really want the body that bad. It’s pretty common, but I wouldn’t do it.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:06 AM
3

This is so vague. If she’s still around, then maybe you’re just being a bp wimp. If you still want to fuck her, then keep her. If you’re uncomfortable, then let her go temporarily.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:00 AM
2

I personally find myself most unhappy when I’m lost in my thoughts. When I’m trying to figure out why I’m unhappy. When I just give up and accept the world as it is around me, my happiness slowly returns. In a sense, pondering too much about purpose and meaning is exactly what an unhappy person does. It’s like you’re getting exactly what you ask for. Look into zen.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:54 AM
6

I prefer the gainit sub for getting big. Remember most of your work will be diet.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:46 AM
13

Don’t self qualify. Always try. It’s never over until you get ghosted
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:15 PM
2

Sexual looseness is a bad thing yeah, but not for men. We encourage slutty behavior from women.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:34 PM
14

She’s trying to bait you to self qualify, to “prove your worth” to her. Just don’t.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:32 PM
3

Maybe they just didn’t mind your presence as a dough boy, but now that you’re an actual sexual candidate you’re being tested (which may feel like rejection if you are new).
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:47 PM
4

Sounds like you’re in the anger phase. If so, you’re gonna have a hard time alpha windowing anyone. If you’re just a psychopathic sadist, then Godspeed.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:47 AM
1

Yes, compulsive rumination is common among people with certain anxiety disorders. It can be about anything. Not analyzing things is very simple. You just stop. The hard part is making the decision to no longer analyze something. It may take time for you recognize this. If you’re having severe trouble, I’d see a specialist.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:42 AM
1

Read the charisma myth.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:36 AM
22

This is actually really impressive game for a first time hj. A better location, and you woulda got some head too. I think you’re a natural charmer. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:35 AM
1

This really has nothing to do with her, or relationships but is essentially an overthinking issue. You probably do this in other aspects of your life as well, and may not even realize it. Your suffering is coming from focusing on that specific point, which causes you anxiety and leads you to ruminate further. Break the cycle by not actively analyzing the situation, even with initial discomfort. It may take a while but your anxiety will slowly fade.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:19 AM
32

There is literally no moral to this story. The guy said “cuck me”, with the open relationship - and then complains?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:16 AM
1

LOA is based on positive thinking/visualization/affirmations. Actually it’s based on much older occult principles, but it’s also an oversimplification. And yes, some of those principles can be useful for practical purposes.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 12:45 AM
13

I’ve been there. Social skills are just that - skills. There is nothing about you as a person that is preventing you from interacting in a sociable manner. It sounds like you have social anxiety. That’s fine. You will get through it. But first, stop trying to say the “perfect thing”. Just listen, and be present in the moment. Meditation will help you in this process. The natural thing will be the “right” thing to say, and that takes being present. You have a propensity to overanalyse. When you r…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:38 AM
12

Any long term behavior change is going to be a challenge. With TRP It’s really a lot to take into account.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:31 AM
3

Poor little dude. Honestly feel bad for him.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:25 AM
1

Waiting tables would be a bit of a step up
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:19 AM
1

Start small. For example: just try and look anywhere at her body for now. Then move to face, the eyebrows, etc
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:49 PM
4

Girls play the game too. Relax.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:45 PM
3

Don’t worry, you’ll harden right up again after they chew you up and spit you out (assuming you go back to your natural bp tendencies).
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:39 PM
19

Trp is about sexual strategy. Gains are the most effective way to boost your smv. If you’re weak, you will get stronger. That’s the point, pussy.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 04:10 PM
2

IMO any nicotine fucks with the gym, because it devalues the natural reward systems.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:17 PM
1

Be wary if you’re new to meditation. Sometimes these retreats can be really intense and trigger an anxiety disorder. There are support groups for people this happened to.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:10 PM
2

No, you’re overthinking. Do what you did over a span of months, and then maybe you can start to think about brain damage.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:00 PM
0

Go more often and take a dance class. Go with friends.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 09:58 PM
6

“Looks like a nice guy” then change subjects. Maybe show her a funny YouTube video on her phone or something.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 10:03 PM
2

Affirmations. Observe your negative thoughts without judgement while you say things like “I am a strong confident man”. If you have a hard time saying things like that, you need to train your brain a bit.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:58 PM
1

Depends what kind. Xanax? Next.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:55 PM
4

Why are you trying to flip it onto him? He’s trying to give you advice. And what exactly do you disagree about?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:51 PM
5

English, motherfucker.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:14 PM
2

A real “nice guy” is genuine and giving, not supplementing and giving to get. The stereotypical nice guy is nice cuz he thinks he has to be to get his needs met. Straight out of no more mr nice guy
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:51 PM
1

The street
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:01 PM
1

Take her shittests as you would from a child
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:56 PM
2

Do you have energy to do other stuff? If so then it’s not bad, If no then you might be lacking energy/depressed.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:53 PM
1

These conversations are just a way for her to get validation. How does that help you? Make her learn to get it through sex.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:48 PM
2

I think the point is it leaves you open to other options, and assuming your game is top notch most women out there would only want you anyways. If she wanted some new dick, she would get it either way.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:44 PM
4

You don’t increase attraction by flaking. You do it by being less available. Flaking is a female trait because they’re so damned disorganized. Anyways just stick to your story, and hit her up in a week.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:41 PM
1

Thank god men don’t get this sort of attention or we would be really doomed.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:29 PM
2

You’re too in your head, trying to control everything. You clearly need to step back and use frame as a general guideline instead of some binary thing.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:12 AM
1

Trp is not about learning to be “alpha”. It’s about following a set of behaviors, and avoiding others. It’s almost robotic - but it takes self awareness and practice. Don’t worry about being “beta” or any of that shit. That’s just an abstract label. Nobody is literally alpha or beta.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:04 AM
3

Therapy, and lots of meditation. Don’t run from your fears, trauma, etc. Look it dead in the eyes and observe your negative emotions without analyzing or judging them.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:01 AM
1

Waiter
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:23 PM
1

Try and find out
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:20 PM
1

You can use your intelligence to mask your lack of social skills. Eventually it becomes natural
/r/askTRP22/07/19 07:18 PM
1

Good luck attracting anyone without showing emotions
/r/seduction22/07/19 06:56 PM
1

Who fucking cares? Move on
/r/seduction22/07/19 06:16 PM
7

By lying for validation.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:51 AM
2

You’re not going to get the best advice from somebody trying to sell you something
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:41 AM
1

Game has almost nothing to do with looks. Trust me I know some ugly people that are very successful. Blaming shit on looks is just avoiding responsibility
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:38 AM
6

There’s something called diminishing returns. If your game was actually high, having a better chin would have almost no impact on your ability to pick up women.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:11 AM
2

Nothing you can do about it. Young women get their validation
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:30 AM
9

Call it a journal, you fucking fairy.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:06 AM
1

Betas don’t ask for help cuz they feel undeserving
/r/askTRP21/07/19 06:15 PM
2

“What’s your number”
/r/seduction21/07/19 02:12 AM
7

Start doing things that help you identify with your more dominate masculine side, and avoid doing things that feed your bitch side. Don’t watch that type of porn for starters.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 10:18 PM
3

He’s emotionally dependent on you. You’ll never be the man you need to be if you stay around.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:28 PM
1

Radio silence for a bit
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:26 PM
1

This is just the way it goes dude. This isn’t a unique situation at all. In fact you did a great job, and were direct. It’ll take some fine tuning, which will happen automatically over time.
/r/seduction19/07/19 04:38 PM
6

To me, Dan seems like an insecure macho persona type. He inherited wealth, and needs to prove the world that he’s a somebody. I’d say Joe Rogan is the obvious big one right now. Everyone wants his attention now, and he’s got a ton of power.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:32 PM
1

Don’t overthink it, just acknowledge her emotions. It doesn’t take anything out of you to just be like “ok, I’ll remember that” and just keep doing what you’re doing. She’ll think you’re the greatest thing ever.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:28 PM
1

Since your asking a medical question on trp I’ll give you the trp response you hopefully already know. If you want to keep your woman, make sure you keep yourself composed. Don’t act like this is the end of the world for you. Don’t let things fall apart around you, and don’t identify with your illness. Once you identify with it, you will no longer understand your true strengths and weaknesses.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:22 PM
1

Great practical advice at saving face while avoiding the conflict
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:08 PM
0

Bitches have their guard up at night, but you can also bag some honeys within an hour depending on your luck.
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:46 PM
23

Probably, but don’t shit where you eat. If you have tons of woman doing it to you, not worth risking your job.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:42 PM
1

Some women just use men for drinks, you might just be filtering out those ones now.
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:11 PM
1

You could be. Look into acceptance and commitment therapy.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:20 PM
20

Make her wait Prevents her from getting bored, and she’ll be even more desperate knowing she can’t control you
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:53 PM
1

Thanks, makes sense
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:23 PM
1

Dude literally all women do this through shit testing.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:05 AM
3

I’d highly recommend therapy. You had a really traumatic childhood, and there’s some things a psychoanalyst could help you come to terms with.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:01 AM
1

Take a break for a few weeks. Apply what feels right to you, come back with your questions.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:57 AM
5

I just say “Put it in your mouth” in a sexy way. You could ask too, but why? She wants to be told what to do.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:53 AM
2

This would suck for me since I have a studio
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:47 AM
2

Harder than it sounds. Is there a guide on first dates? What to avoid talking about, how to not seem needy etc.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:45 AM
1

Say hi
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:48 AM
1

Forget about her
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:41 AM
2

I feel the same way. I feel like I’m sort of manipulating them or something and it feels wrong. I’ve always been more socially adept with people older than me - it might be the “I’m young I can do no wrong” feeling.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:28 AM
2

I’ve recently learned this doesn’t apply to girls with low smv since they are insecure and it makes them feel like shit. Also rejections from low smv girls actually sting. At least you more likely expect it with a higher smv.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:25 AM
1

Then find a hooker. You’re gonna have a bad time with that desperation.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:23 PM
6

You’re already a step ahead of the rest. Stay off it and improve yourself. It’s not about whether or not you’re getting pussy. It’s about being mentally healthy.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:55 AM
2

He was trolling
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:39 PM
1

The impact muscle mass has on attraction is actually an interesting question when compared to all the other smv indicators. I wonder if there are studies on this.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:19 PM
1

“My conservative girlfriend goes to sex parties”
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:07 PM
-2

Have swag
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:47 PM
3

“But I wouldn’t care if you spent - “ “NEXT” rinse repeat
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:33 AM
55

Honestly the respectable thing to do is break up. That type of behavior shouldn’t be tolerated.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:34 PM
7

Did you fix your teeth? If not, you should.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:04 PM
5

The movement needs a community to foster ideas in a continually evolving environment. It’s pretty simple.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:02 PM
1

I agree 100%. Fasting did wonders for me in various parts of my life.
/r/seduction02/10/18 06:44 PM
7

Let me tell you bud, Your looks are fine. Also looks matter but not as much as you’re making them out to. You need to learn to accept yourself and use that energy to quit being a sad boy. There are plenty of resources out there. You sound like a woman. Nobody likes weak, self conscious men, and that’s the reality. Accept, understand, and love this fact. Then give yourself to the world.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:35 PM
2

Generally it is when women embrace their femininity. Basically when they are a “good girl”. The problem with most men is they want the good girl, but don’t do their part to be a man. Negative feminism is the world balancing out, and a result of men not being men.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 05:22 PM
1

Why not build something off of Reddit’s open source code? I’m sure there are other reddit like code bases as well which can be used.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 07:06 PM
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