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19

it will NEVER get easier than it is right now. I liked this.
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:38 PM
10

This comes just in time. Some of my friends are graduating from med school today, I still have 2 years ahead and i feel left behind. A good reminder that life isnt a race.
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:40 PM
2

Depends of what you think about them. I dont mind if she has 3,4,5 tattoos. If she has more ink than skin, shes out
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:49 PM
3

Is this cognitive therapy ?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:54 PM
42

James Clear talks about this in Atomic habits. He calls it "Plateau of Latent Potential". You will grind for days and not see a single difference, until you see one. “When you finally break through the Plateau of Latent Potential, people will call it an overnight success.”
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 10:31 PM
7

Im pretty sure that all this works, but im too fuckin nice to be able to do something like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 11:26 PM
1

What have you done to calm that?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:05 PM
3

How did you give up external validation? We all crave it a little.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:59 PM
12

This is me right here. I know i should ignore and wait for her to tell me whats wrong, but sometimes cant resist the urge to know
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:58 PM
3

Too easy to be true
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:45 PM
5

Lol last part
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:56 PM
1

Why do u think shes tryna get him into her frame? Looks like she wants to enter his frame again.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:07 PM
0

You are talking about honest, direct communication, but its said here in trp thats not the way women communicate and understand things.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:46 AM
1

Never worked being an asshole for me. Girls just give me same treatment and pull away
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 05:15 PM
2

This is it. Easier said than done, anyway. Sometimes im able to stop that line of thinking (thanks to "The Power of Now") but it comes back.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 11:30 PM
4

Also, she giving sex to you isnt a favour. Sex is enjoyed by both.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 12:32 AM
1

Nice! Where did you learn from? Im considering Codeacademy, although its not free
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:07 PM
1

Hey! I been thinking about learning programming in phyton. How is it a hobbie for u?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:56 PM
3

I suck at cookin. Any tip on how to learn?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:55 PM
8

Lol u okay buddy?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:54 PM
29

Hey! i went through something similar a week ago. Dated a girl for 3 months, catched oneitis with her but kept spinning other plates. 2 weeks ago she was all into me saying things like "i want to make this work, i dont want to lose you, you make me happy, bla bla" proceed to have the best sex ever. (I totally bought those words, she was being honest in THAT exact moment) The weekend come by, she starts ignoring text, answering too late (rare in her), and by monday she tells me someone from the p…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:31 PM
1

Had the same problem. Decided to focus on lifting and when objetives are met, then I will get into martial arts.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:51 AM
4

lol u must have some really bad sexual life. Hope it gets better anita.
/r/seduction19/02/21 01:14 PM
1

Been in this place. I had to tear her apart from my life eventually, because it was affecting my development. (block her). As other said above, remember everyday that there are millions of women you can go after.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:21 PM
1

Red them, but I mean what kind of changes u took in the relationship (the way u treat her)
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 02:02 AM
5

Hey buddy, what actions you took? Care to give examples?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 01:37 AM
2

I was in the same place recently, spinning plates and catched oneitis for one. It broke and hurt a bit, but the presence of other plates helped. I tried to low down my interest in her, but was impossible to do that while seeing her every week. In your place, i would soft next her for some weeks and then try to bang after. Ik this will be hard to do but catching oneitis and her nexting u after will be worst, believe me.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:44 AM
13

How did u destroy that idealization?
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:24 AM
1

examples of qualifiers?
/r/seduction12/02/21 12:19 AM
1

Hey i want to know more about this. Care to share the link?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:41 AM
1

Man's search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. Hey! googled it, and wanted to know, what does it has to do with oneitis? thanks.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:36 AM
1

How you did it?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:49 PM
1

heh that first sentence hit me hard.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:09 PM
1

How much time it took you?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:23 AM
5

What type of meditation do u recommend?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:24 PM
1

Not OP, but in my case i keep falling for a girl (oneitis) while having 3 more plates. I always prefer to see her, and not see the others. The problem is that i have her in my mind a lot and it fucks with myself, makes me feel weak. Been thinking about dropping her before, but is hard to do it. I know that when i get older, this wont happen again.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:38 PM
1

agree. Texting makes this harder.
/r/seduction03/02/21 10:43 PM
9

But if women get behaviour cues from men, and you dont show her that whats she doing is wrong, shes not gonna stop doing it. Unless you are telling him that the relationship is over and this boundarie shouldnt be adressed.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:53 AM
4

What changed?
/r/seduction23/01/21 01:45 PM
1

How do you evade appearing butthurt in text? Always had this problem. Right now im in a similar position with a girl that i know is not LTR material but im slowly thinking more and more bout her. Sucks how our mind play with us.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 11:03 AM
1

Heh that makes me a little nervous to be honest. I had some bad and amazing acid trips in the past, but feel confident right now to try shrooms. I will be taking them on the beach at night with some close friends. Thank you
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:56 PM
2

This happened to me with my former oneitis when we were dating. She started to blow my phone everyday, and i engaged with it. Later she got bored talking, if u talk everyday and you have a grinding life (work-study-gym), days are pretty similar and you cant be entertaining her with new things everyday. A little less than a month of that and i was feeling her interest dropping. That plate broke and the lesson I got was that I shouldn't have waste so much time texting a girl. What I would do in a …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:49 PM
1

A friend told me to do 1g. I would like to meditate under the effect.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:23 AM
1

hey! i will be trying psilocybin next week, any recommendation?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:58 AM
2

What do you want to achieve with this? If you need space, just dont answer for a while and later excuse urself with i was busy. Stop with the stalking behavior of seeing when she's online, doesnt helps at all.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:30 AM
3

For me, it didn't. That girl will always be my weak spot. I know i must stay away from her.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:30 AM
1

Will record myself in postnut clarity. Thank you for the idea. What exactly made the girl more attentive?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 02:59 AM
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Update us!
/r/seduction12/01/21 09:51 PM
3

The thing i dont get about this, is that if after acting cold in texting, she asks u whats happening and you tell her “nothing”, how is she gonna understand whats bothering you?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:13 PM
1

I went through a similar situation before. She ended things, some months passed and she tried to date me again. Keep us updated.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 05:56 AM
1

I want to start learning but dont know where.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:40 AM
2

Pmed u
/r/seduction10/01/21 12:51 AM
1

Whats this about
/r/askTRP09/01/21 02:53 AM
2

How is your frame right now? What steps you took to develop it?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 08:55 PM
1

How you cant produce if you are happy? I cant be happy without: social interactions, family, money, sex.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:03 AM
2

What you mean?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:02 AM
1

Im trying to minimize the time with it. As i said before, I use it a lot to get dates.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:01 AM
0

I date a lot thanks to social media. Its the only thing why i use it for.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:00 AM
3

I just feel like that is evading the problem, not dealing with it. I dont know if that makes sense to you.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:09 PM
1

How to verify?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:53 PM
1

What do you mean with conditioner?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:21 PM
1

I want to shave my balls but im scared that i will cut myself and my testicles will go on a wild trip to the floor lol
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:19 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:17 PM
2

This. Its amazing. Eau de perfume or eau de toilette?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:46 PM
3

Hey its ok. Its hard to be a rock when hearing about their past.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 01:39 PM
2

You need knowledge for this.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 11:40 PM
1

I understand what you say, but she talks to me all days and i cant make a date everyday she initiates texting, i have other things to do. So should i shut down her attempts at chit chatting? How can i do that withouth being an asshole?
/r/seduction21/12/20 10:35 PM
1

I still cant calibrate how much texting is good while knowing someone. Being going out with this girl for 3 weeks already, chemistry is amazing and she is being really sweet in person and in text. Looks like shes getting infatuated (or at least act like that). She initiates texting in 3:1 and we talk all day long. - isnt it unhealthy to text all days, for all day long? Im trying to resist the sweet texting but i end up going with the flow
/r/seduction21/12/20 09:42 PM
2

Elevator pitch?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:17 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP18/12/20 09:16 PM
51

Whats yes ladder?
/r/seduction18/12/20 06:41 PM
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finish medschool meditate meditate meditate read lots of stoicism, journal, reflect on every week lift and eat: objetive is grow bigger. Im a skinny guy stop wasting mental health in pussy save money so I can travel
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:23 PM
4

Let her be. Girls come around later
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:19 PM
1

Why are you doubting yourself?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:58 PM
1

What do you mean with this?
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:45 AM
4

This is a good answer. However, when they act unpredictable (for example in this case) its hard to manage it.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:57 PM
1

I know this, but still find it hard to swallow that pill when i get attached to someone...my mind always tries to make that person “mine”
/r/seduction02/12/20 07:37 PM
1

Do you think with more exposure over time i will be over this feeling? Now that i write it, it looks like impostor syndrome.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:54 PM
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Im not used and never liked to be the “center of attention”. Since a child i never even like to celebrate my birthday because that would mean i would get too much attention. Maybe someday i will get used to it.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:15 PM
2

Where can i learn more about attachment styles?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:24 PM
3

Sometimes i feel like they stare to test me. To see if im congruent with what i show on the outside. I feel like i have improved on the outside more than on the inside, so i feel a little incongruent. TRP really is making me an autist mfker
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:06 PM
1

Maybe u started to have more dates when daygaming, so u stopped obsessing. Im in the place right now where i read a lot of seduction. I should go search my balls and start daygame
/r/seduction27/11/20 02:58 AM
2

Hey, i was like you before. To move on, i needed to block. Then i realized, thats giving that girl too much power. Im so affected by her that i need to block that chick? Also, I realized that maybe the girl was into me but something happened, an ex came back to her, her dog died, other BS, etc. I let the door open, and they come back sometimes.
/r/seduction25/11/20 01:47 AM
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Its puts you in a position of lower value, because you see urself like that. I took some girls back and always thought "heh i knew you would be back". Actually makes me feel good and had the upper hand.
/r/seduction25/11/20 01:26 AM
1

Happens to me still, after being in the dating game for 1 entire year after broke up with ex. It feels like i try to "lock" down a girl to be my sex buddy, (because my mind thinks "when will be the next time i will get laid?") so everytime i have free time i want to invite this girl over to my house. I dont do it, I just feel like doing it but resist the urge. " You classify the situation as being an opportunity that does not come around too often, and become scared of blowing it. " This hits ho…
/r/seduction25/11/20 01:16 AM
2

How do you imply it? Care to give example?
/r/seduction24/11/20 07:34 PM
6

If you got flaked two times already. Even if she comes to you weeks later, you invite her to a date?
/r/seduction24/11/20 01:06 AM
1

What type of meditation do you recommend?
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:42 PM
2

If you withhold sex, and dont fuck them right/enough, the plate will break faster, isn't it?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:39 PM
1

With meditation, what kind of meditation you talk about? Mindfulness?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:10 PM
1

I have tried ignorin questions in text, but what you do when she asks again and again?
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:43 PM
-1

“What does it matter to you? Are you insecure about your height?”
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:25 AM
5

The problem is when you approach thinking “all women love me” and you get rejected, your mind understand that thought isnt real.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 04:26 PM
1

Dont ask lots of questions. Use affirmations.
/r/seduction12/11/20 09:48 PM
1

I have some days i dont give a shit what others think bout me, and days where I care. Guess confidence is somethings that varies easily
/r/seduction12/11/20 09:46 PM
1

I wont. I get lots of dates from it, but still tryna calibrate my attitude with it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 04:31 PM
1

I recognize my previous simp behaviors, however fail to recognize when i look like a simp on instagram (answering stories, for example). Is it simping answering a story to a plate? Idk
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 04:26 PM
2

Interested in this also
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:03 PM
2

Dont shit where you eat.
/r/seduction11/11/20 03:57 PM
1

care to elaborate how to build sexual tension over text withouth appearing thirsty?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 08:03 AM
2

You probably have good genetics + idgaf mentality since you were young. Most people dont get that. If you dont offer any kind of value (be it status, money, etc), at least you need some genetic to boost urself at early 20’ to be able to get laid often. Thats how it is in south america at least.
/r/seduction07/11/20 11:28 AM
2

Like you, I have been improving myself a lot lately and im proud of it, but still get a little depressed if I dont get laid once a week at least, or when a woman i really like flakes on me. I think my problem is I think i deserve more woman than I actually get after all the hard work. Probably more hard work will get me more woman, but still it sucks that my inner game is so shitty right now.
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:41 PM
1

Chemicals in the brain. Thats your answer. Its not something that one look forward to. You dont get it because you are probably dating many women, but when you focus on only 1 and spend time with the girl, your brain starts to play tricks with you and you eventually end in this position.
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:38 PM
2

This is the answer to happiness. Dont expect anything from anyone. Still working on reminding this everyday
/r/askTRP06/11/20 12:37 PM
1

I think ignoring her would make the plate break because it will crash her ego.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:26 PM
2

People here say “ignore” her, I know hypergamy is a bitch and AWALT, but ignoring that girl thats crying for your attention just feels bad to me. Why would she come back for more D if you are crushing her ego by ignoring those texts?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:56 AM
1

So u should ignore it with what end in mind?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:54 AM
1

I will look into upper- lower split routine. Never did it before. I normally do push/pull/legs
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:52 PM
4

Just remember AWALT and hypergamy and behave accordingly. I know its easy to say, but if you dont control your emotions right now, you are going to crash eventually
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:47 PM
1

Dont be hard on yourself. It will pass eventually. Silence/block on all form of social media, you dont need to know nothing bout her life (what shes doing, who shes dating, etc). Catch yourself when you are thinking about her and change your focus to other things. Stop talking about her on forums/ to friends, it just makes it more important in your head. There will be more and better.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:44 PM
3

Dale boquiiiita
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:29 AM
7

Examples of showing high value texting?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:29 PM
1

I wanted to write “push” instead of “pull”. You are going all for her, complimenting, showing interest all the way. Im no expert though, so i would like to know your opinion about this. Will search for the book.
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:24 PM
-1

Theres no pull in all that sequence. You are pushing all the way.
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:15 PM
1

Going to read that book. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:55 PM
1

Can you use a cock ring with a condom?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:55 PM
1

Missionary is OK for me. Doggy makes me weak and cum faster
/r/askTRP27/10/20 08:54 PM
10

I think the answer will be “withdraw attention”
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 12:06 PM
2

Im in this situation right now, after getting oneitis for a girl and dropping all plates i had before. Im thinking about going into monk mode for a while, because i understand that worrying about getting laid, or when is the next time i will get laid (a week? 2 weeks? a month?), or getting jealous about other people getting laid, is the way to not getting laid at all.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 01:51 PM
1

Im not talking about her. I tried to say that moving to another gym would only make her more important in my head. Maybe im just trippin
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:59 AM
2

Huh, thats hard but seems you are doing OK. I should get into stoicism.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:29 PM
1

Shes givin me mixed signals, maybe she wants me to orbit her. I will go from now on with what you said in my mind
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:54 PM
1

Okay. Thank you for your words.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:32 PM
1

Im working on the external validation thing, by validating myself with my goals (gains and my carreer). I know i have to get over myself, but you cant just turn a switch on your head and forget all.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:46 PM
1

I will try to endure one month. If its not enough, I will switch to another gym.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:18 PM
2

Maybe i did wrong because i didnt give her any plausible deniability? Just told her to come over and have fun. I dont know if being so direct with ex-plates is a good move or turns ASD on.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:17 PM
2

I do this already. Just hello and nothing more from my part. I ignore her in the gym, but seeing her makes all the “move on” harder
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:14 PM
-1

Doing it already, but its not my focus on life right now.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:13 PM
1

I try to, but sometimes she changes too and we end up seeing each other.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:04 PM
2

No she didnt said that. A week ago she dm’d me on instagram and i told her to come over, she didnt reject me but didnt accept the invitation neither, so i just left her on seen.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:03 PM
1

When she talks to me, i dont pay much attention to her. She didnt give me the LJBF talk, but I told her to hit me up if she want to come over sometime. Maybe I will tell her I dont need more friends if she keeps talking to me.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:33 AM
1

I have been considering switching to another gym, but that would be giving her a lot of importance. Maybe its the only solution, i dont know.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:31 AM
3

Not going to play that game. Would be childish as fuck. Lifting heavier than ever right now.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:30 AM
1

This would be the ideal scenario. Getting over this would do wonders to my ego and my confidence.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:25 AM
2

I thought I could handle it. Never thought i would develop Oneitis with this girl.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:29 AM
3

Shes probably going come back, but I dont want it. I would only revert to my beta ways.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:29 AM
52

Easy to say.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:52 PM
2

Nice post, but on my mind im still thinking, how can I achieve this state of mind?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 11:41 PM
2

Hey. So i went through a similar situation recently. Dated a gym chick for a month and developed oneitis. Of course, she dropped me and now i have to see her on the gym. Sucks. Things that help: - no fking contact, or almost none. - lifting -have sex with more women. At first i would compare them with my oneitis, but now the feeling is slowly dissappearing.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:32 PM
1

As others commented, a more natural picture would be better. Massive shoulders brother, well done.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:20 PM
11

Dont shit where you eat. Did that before, bad idea.
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:52 PM
16

Learnt this lesson some time ago after dating a girl from my gym, catched oneitis, plate broke and now i have to see her everyday. Dont be me.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 12:51 PM
14

I do drugs on festivals, but cant trust any chick that do them. Not gf worth, only plates to have fun.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:43 PM
1

Will do. Thanks
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:48 PM
1

F R I E N D S
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:56 AM
1

Nice insights. Would you ask her out again in some days or soft next?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:07 PM
1

Thats what game about. Any insight?
/r/seduction29/09/20 02:56 PM
5

This is QUESTIONS vs STATEMENTS. Questions sometimes get boring, statements normally make she answer withouth feeling the interview.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 07:02 PM
1

Ik. Thats why this guy says hes more productive in a LTR. Dont you date chicks all weeks?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 09:36 PM
1

Heh, same situation. I dont blame them, thats just their nature that i completely forgot for a moment. Remember, you got someone like her, you can get something better. Cheers
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:34 AM
4

I have other goals, im in med school, lift 5 days a week, but i feel like im missing out when i dont have sex every week. Still thinking about this
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:32 AM
2

Yep. Not extreme neediness, but still she probably sensed it. She opened a bit, then i thought okay i should open a bit for her.. bad move. Didnt acted jealous, although i really felt it. You will act better the next time. Take the loss and improve.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:08 AM
1

This is good suggestion. However, you cant make sth “more romantic” if you are not really feeling it.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:57 AM
3

Hey, recently went through the same situation. Still dealing with the breakup but in a better place right now. I learnt the lesson and next time i find a girl that “could be the one” bullshit, just remember that she can and will drop you in a second for a higher smv guy. Feelings arent worth it.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:56 AM
103

This would be my ideal mindset. I just waste too much mental energy flirting and gaming girls, just to get my testicles empty.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:23 AM
6

How do you get validation from urself? Whenever i pass more than 1 or 2 weeks withouth sex or without a woman texting me i feel like my worth is shit. I know its not real, but cant help it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 10:42 PM
2

Hey i know the post is old. Wanted to know, how you deal with jealousy and the fact that other guys are better looking than u?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:27 PM
1

If it was so easy.. the fact that she rides or not another dick doesnt delete the good moments out of my head. Just makes me angry. I dont know if i should hug that angry feeling
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:18 AM
2

I know that feeling. Before this chick, i was right there. Hope to feel again like that
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:16 AM
2

I know why do i feel like this. Overinvested in her because we had the same tastes in life and sex was amazing. How do i go from that to not care anymore?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:02 AM
1

I dont play videogames anymore. Im in shape, bulking up.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:55 PM
1

Thats a nice way to see it. Thank you
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:46 PM
2

Thats my error. Once i connected with the woman, i seeked her companionship. At least i learnt the lesson. Thanks for your words.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:53 PM
1

How to get to that point?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:45 PM
1

Will try the buteyko thing. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:44 PM
1

Im on my purpose and chasing my goals. Still get distracted by those feelings.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:44 PM
1

I have been journaling to understand those feelings, that relieves me a little.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:43 PM
1

im 24 and only been through one rough breakup. I guess im just too soft still
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:41 PM
4

I know she will be back. But i dont want to entertain that thought. Hope=oneitis
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:40 PM
7

Angry for realizing its probably true. Angry with myself for even wasting a minute of my time dealing with thoughts of one woman. Probably angry for overinvesting time and thinking on a chick when i knew that was going to break the plate.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:44 PM
10

Doesnt work for me. Doesnt even makes me sad, just angry.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:22 PM
1

Yes im already trying on connecting with other girls but feel its too forced. Going to keep meditating to see if i can control my thoughts better. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:02 PM
2

I think you should reflect where you started acting beta, so you can learn from it and dont repeat the same story in the future.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 02:30 PM
2

In my opinion, You did right. Pulling back is not the perfect strategy to get the woman back but a move to show urself your own worth. Lets see what others think
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 11:54 PM
2

What are your tips mr alpha
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 08:35 PM
5

Pull your attention. Stop messaging her. Feel the emptyness while you do it, and understand that you are OK with it. You dont need her.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:46 PM
3

I think thats all you can do. You cant control anyone but yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:11 AM
25

Hits home. LTR are really hard nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 01:32 AM
1

Thanks for your great answer. Personally, i dont think shes special, im aware of AWALT. However, I catch myself thinking of her pretty often and drives me nuts. Oneitis is a bitch
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:52 PM
1

I fall into that "beast mode" where I work out like hell but eventually I go back. I'm trying to figure out why. I'm usually a pretty driven guy and really ambitious, and that's not really being affected much luckily. Hey you sound like me. Im going through the same thing right now. Where you able to cure that oneitis? Advice needed.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:59 PM
1

Sunk cost fallacy? I understand what you say. Still, even if im not doing any favors nor giving commitment, i will feel like she owes me it, only because i have given her my time. Trying to wrap my head around this
/r/askTRP13/09/20 07:24 PM
7

How many times you experienced that a woman called you something which was EASILY true about her? It not only works with the abusive code word, it works with any negative label. This really hits home in my ex LTR. Made me go berseker on her. Nowadays I understand i simply have to ignore that kind of BS.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 07:15 PM
4

Good for you for not giving a shit about those feelings. Been struggling with something similar
/r/askTRP13/09/20 07:11 PM
1

You are right. I actually like to think im the prize. But its hard to always think like that when there are higher smv guys out there. Always working on maxing my smv anyways.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:36 PM
1

You never dealt with oneitis and possession? Guess you are a lucky one. Thanks for your insight
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:33 PM
2

I understand. Some people just are not like that. I see that as a gift and an advantage in dealing with women.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 01:50 PM
2

I think we all know and realize when to turn it off. What we dont know till we learn it is how to do it.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 01:47 PM
1

The problem is that catching oneitis makes me act weird on the girl and the plate almost broke. Just soft nexting her while gaming other woman right now
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:38 PM
1

What was the text?
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:32 PM
3

Whats the point of the good mornin text?
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:46 PM
1

I thought that you never should talk about relationship with a girl unless she talks about the topic first. Feels like giving away power.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:47 PM
2

Not a special case. Just looking for more advice thats not the typical “go lift bro go approach 100 woman bro”
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:31 PM
1

I dont think shes sucking some rando in the toilet. Women in my country are less slutty (southamerica) However, that would not surprise me. Writing those red flags and reading them again helps me see what kind of woman im dealing. Back to spinning plates i guess.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:30 PM
1

Got to agree with you. Social media dont make a woman a slut. Going out and getting wasted does. Whats your advice?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:27 PM
1

I recognize im acting like the woman here. How can i date her with low emotional investment?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:26 PM
14

Liked your point of view In a RP dynamic she holds no pussy power. And she loves that. Only by making that power mute, can she truly relate to a man beyond the social conventions. She can start out as a sexually liberated woman - and she doesn't lose anything. The RP man wasn't chasing, courting or respecting her anyway - there's nothing to loose by not playing the madonna role. And as a PUA you know how liberating it is for women to be in a position where they have nothing to lose. Care to expl…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 01:05 PM
11

A search engine, next question
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:02 PM
7

Whats that tale about?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:31 PM
2

No te haces una idea vecino.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 02:27 AM
15

Increible nuestra sociedad. En trp hablan mucho de como el feminismo es tan fuerte en norteamerica/europa y me parece que aca ya alcanzamos un nuevo nivel. El hombre totalmente en segundo plano y silenciado.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 02:25 AM
7

😂
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:34 PM
1

I never understood the fact that you “cant open up with a woman” I have recently started to read the sidebar, but i cant understand how you can have a LTR being totally misterious. Part of getting to be with a woman is connecting “emotionally” with her ( through storys, childhood memories, similar tastes) etc. Correct me if im wrong please.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 12:31 PM
1

Me puedes pasar algun sitio o lugar? Gracias amigo
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 06:19 PM
2

Me encanta el hecho de que haya sudamericanos en el Sub. Conoces alguna página en español de TRP? estoy procesando de a poco todo esto y me gustaría leer más contenido en español.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 02:52 AM
8

Nice post. Im being a pussy this week thinking that i need people in my life. Its because I lack a hobby thats not social and can bring me joy while im being along. Dont know what to get into, any advice? I already read and workout.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 03:55 AM
2

Que bien hermano! Yo soy uruguayo y ando hace banda dando vueltas por este foro. Hay alguna comunidad argentina de redpill?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:57 PM
1

Where are you from?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:26 AM
1

.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 02:51 PM
1

How do you learn bout amused mastery?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:00 PM
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