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| 2 | Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women?these commenters are men who are mad about the fact that they can’t be creepy towards women. my advice is just don’t be creepy. if you want to approach a woman, read the room, see if she gives any indication of interest. maybe learn more about eye contact and what it looks like for someone to be interested in you. and if you want to approach them simply go up to them and say hey i think you’re pretty can i buy u a drink. or just have a conversation. but don’t follow them or stalk them. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Thank Youwow this is so amazing !! so happy for u and learned something from this too so thank u!! i’m so glad u have learned to prioritize ur own happiness and value yourself more | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?so women have actually said they see awkward amd nervous as creepy | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?it’s not and u know that | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | I find cold approach addictiveask him not me | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?just be like ahah thank u | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”chad is not a good thing | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?even if that’s the case that term is significantly less derogatory than “slut/whore”. and most men won’t even go out with a girl with a high body count. so again stfu with the pity party because out of the two genders men are definitely the ones allowed to have sex more than women | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?that’s literally what it means so yes i think it’s justified to call men players if they’re doing a bad thing by hurting women in the process. because they’re playing women. stop trying to act oppressed as if women literally don’t get called whore/slut all the fucking names men only get shamed when they’re being disrespectful and not upfront about it | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?men are called players if they’re PLAYING women and stringing them along and not being upfront | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?when did i tell you what you experience? i’m talking about the experience of women as a woman i’ve never heard of a woman saying that unless the man was being disrespectful/creepy in some way. if you’re getting called those things it’s literally because you’re being creepy about it that’s it | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?guys are literally celebrated/worshipped for having numerous “conquests” | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?i think that is over exaggerating it. and let’s be real here, men are the only ones who call it conquests they literally invented that term for sleeping with women. there’s nothing wrong w a guy just wanting sex and knowing what he wants but he gets called a pig if he’s disrespectful about it. i’ve never heard of a guy getting called a pig for simply saying he only is interested in hooking up. and we both know damn well how much more shame women receive for having/enjoying sex so save me the fuc… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?wow really ? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Is he a player or just not that interested?i think if that were true he would be acting differently and putting in more effort so you can choose him. but also maybe he’s more mature than that | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Is he a player or just not that interested?i think the confusion is the goal tho. idk | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?ew | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Is he a player or just not that interested?um men definitely are allowed to enjoy sex are you fucking kidding me. they’re the only ones allowed to enjoy sex. it only becomes a problem when you’re leading someone on and not being honest about it | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Is he a player or just not that interested?from reading this he doesn’t really seem that interested in you romantically and is probably just looking to hook up. maybe try asking him what his intentions are/what he is looking for right now/is he seeing anyone else. what does he want out of this. if it aligns with what you want then great if not cut your losses. i would tell you to play the game back and stop responding to him when he messages you too but that’s so unproductive and just leads to you having to manipulate someone to date you… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helpif this is the advice for every girl then he will never make the first move? this is so stupid | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helphey how’s it going, correct me if i’m wrong but i think this is the same girl that told me i have good genes right? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 0 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helpfirst is fine. don’t sweat it bc she is obviously interested in u | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?right | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?terms get redefined all the time that’s how it’s viewed right now by most ppl | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?maybe insecure assholes like you need to, but i’ll tell you right now no self respecting woman is going to fall for that because it’s unattractive as hell | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?idk what that is, but nowadays that’s what people mean by it lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?fax | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:18 AM |
| 8 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?just sounds like he’s forcing the teasing | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 7 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?negging is a dating tactic used by men to insult insecure women w backhanded compliments in order to sleep with them. if you’re thinking of light and playful teasing that is different from negging | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:18 PM |
| 107 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?you’re not supposed to neg women period. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 10 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?u respond by apologizing for being a dick and stop negging, lmao | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?well u need small talk first in order for it to develop into a deeper conversation. if it’s too awkward u could always start talking to her by asking her a question depending on ur surroundings. like hey do u know how to use this because i have no idea or did u get any of what the instructor said. idk. and then from there start a conversation like i’m insert name by the way nice to meet u how long have u been doing this for and why stuff like that. u need to ask her a lot of questions because ev… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | how to handle gf tantrumswell if it’s a genuine mental health disorder that she’s trying to work on i would understand. but if she’s in denial about it i would try confronting but if she doesn’t listen i would cut my losses. i’m not her therapist | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 8 | How do I get attractive female friends?if u don’t want to sleep or date them then why does their attractiveness matter | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | how to handle gf tantrumsimo | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | how to handle gf tantrumswell i think they meant in the sense that if they know they have bpd, adhd, autism or whatever the case they recognize that it’s a problem but if they’re in denial about it and pretend nothings wrong with them then yes they still have it but that is grounds to break up | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | how to handle gf tantrumsyea that’s what i was thinking too. however if she’s not even rly willing to talk about it and see his side of things then i think he should break up w her | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | how to handle gf tantrumshonestly if she’s not willing to talk about it at the very least then break up | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?no i don’t think we all do. i don’t even know why we’re still talking about this. u said white women have big egos, i said we simply have big egos for not being attracted to men who instantly call us baby ? because that’s what OP was talking about, u said no it’s when they act stuck up and give rude responses, which i agree with | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?maybe ur right white women tend to be mean | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 3 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?well ik a lot of women who do that. not sure if it’s a race thing tho | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?u just validated that a stranger calling me “babe” was verbal harassment and then switched it up saying it’s not a big deal and that i shouldn’t care so much about it. again i never fucking said it was my biggest problem. all i said was that it’s something that would make me uncomfortable and that would not make me responsive or want to talk to that person. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:17 AM |
| 0 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?oh so now verbal harassment is ok? lmao. don’t pretend to know my life. no i’m not crying about it i move on from it but it just feels creepy and weird in the moment. so yea i’m not going to be responsive to someone i’m creeped out by. that’s it move on | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:56 AM |
| -1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?OP mentioned that he can say things like “babe” or “baby” pretty early on in the interaction with black/hispanic women as opposed to white women. and there were other commenters that got that impression too. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:45 AM |
| 3 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?bro why are u complaining about it. yes it seems they have higher standards in regards to who they sleep with. so what? what is the issue with making sure this is the person who’s dick i want inside me lmao. either work for it and meet their standards or don’t and move on but stop complaining. i think everyone should have those standards | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:31 AM |
| 4 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?i think this depends on ur race and the approach that u use | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:28 AM |
| 5 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?for simply being with who they want sexually | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?i don’t get how white women act “entitled” lmao | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 11 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?i don’t get this, just because we don’t become instantly wet when a random stranger calls us “baby” on the street suddenly we have big egos? it’s disrespectful and weird and creepy. that’s how we view it at least for a stranger we don’t know to call us that. but don’t put the blame on us - put it on society and how a lot of american women grew up in very strict christian households so grew up very prudish i guess. also a lot of western European women are the same | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:18 AM |
| 5 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?right? like it would just make me feel weird and uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:12 AM |
| 5 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?v true | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?but hispanic and black women can be american too obviously but maybe they don’t fall into that weird non touchy vibe that white americans have. i know hisapnics r very touchy and it’s just part of the culture to give kisses when u meet a friend and stuff. it might be also that americans are just more alert and on edge especially women bc so much shit happens, but shit happens in every country so | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?i think it is more of a cultural thing. i’ve had friends from different countries say that americans are weird in that we’re not very touchy because i guess american society sexualizes any kind of touching. it’s very weird honestly | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 0 | How to text a cute girl on instagram?my message was meant for OP and not u | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How to text a cute girl on instagram?say hi there i think ur cute and was wondering if u would like to get to know each other? or or try being her friend and like send her a funny meme | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachand vice versa | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachif u have that mentality that’s fine just don’t be surprised when girls don’t respond to your texts lmao | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachin what universe would a girl have to “work hard” to get your number. use your head and humble yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachmy guess is that they were pressured into giving you their number the girls that blocked u, that’s what i do whenever a guy keeps persisting and won’t leave me alone then i’ll just block him. the other two girls just weren’t that interested maybe or did not yet have the chance to respond to u | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I find cold approach addictiveomg wow i had no idea this was a thing | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I find cold approach addictivei always see this online what does it mean | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I find cold approach addictivehonestly i don’t think there’s anything wrong with approaching women and enjoying it. i don’t really see anything wrong with it and don’t know why u would try to talk yourself out of it unless ur in a committed relationship. idk tho i’m not a mental health professional or anything so take this with a grain of salt. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?i do like it it can be flattering. however don’t be too persistent if the girl says no she’s not interested then leave her alone. those r my only reservations but as long as ur respectful there’s nothing wrong w approaching a pretty girl and being like hey i think ur really cute can i get ur number | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | My co-worker sent me a nude .. do you think she likes me?definitely attracted yes | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls with attitudeu are lucky tho. u should honestly have that confidence yourself too. u should say an affirmation like people are lucky to be my friend or lucky to be in my life | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkthere’s nothing wrong with a woman having sex or wanting to have sex. guys like u claim to have sexual needs and then turn around and shame women for the same thing | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkwhy not can i ask? did the nudes make u uncomfortable ? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 08:11 AM |
| 14 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinknot loving the terminology i’m seeing in this post nor the slut-shaming of women | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | i have been rejected by every girl I've asked outyes king | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:35 AM |
| 3 | i have been rejected by every girl I've asked outhow could u be starving for something you’ve never had before | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | i have been rejected by every girl I've asked outthat’s a different weird thats like quirky and off beat not weird like creepy. idk | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a short, below average male?focus on the qualities u do have. if u act confident u can become confident and then ur confidence will make u all the more attractive | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Confidence, assertiveness - so hot!agree to disagree i guess | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Confidence, assertiveness - so hot!yes key word if. of course it would go badly in that circumstance but he was able to read cues and was able to tell from her vibe that she was into it which is why he persisted | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 03:54 AM |
| 6 | Confidence, assertiveness - so hot!why are all the comments deleted | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 03:52 AM |
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