luigiamarcella Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	“Women can’t handle the truth” is manspeak for men not being able to handle incompatibility or not being able to handle valid reactions to his wrongdoing You can leave a relationship at any time, even a marriage. Anyone can, at least in the western world. It only becomes shameful if you clearly lied for sex alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 11:26 AM
3	Stop gaslighting men into Therapy I wish people didn’t misuse the term “gaslighting” so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 09:09 PM
–	fat women are hypocrites Do you have any basis for this claim about the majority of fat women or is this just a vibe thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 09:11 PM
8	Why do women always attack their man in public? I mean I see it but it’s trashy and not some norm and people will stare/look at you funny and judge you if you’re like that. It’s odd that OP is positioning it as a thing ALL women do and a norm that is just accepted in his reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 09:33 PM
–	Women don't owe men "sexual equality" Right, none of that is “owed” on any basis of their relationship history. It’s just something people should expect in romantic relationships. Just like having a healthy and fulfilling sex life should be the expectation of a relationship and that comes down to only that recurrent desires of the people in that relationship and nothing to do with anything outside it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 04:06 PM
5	There should be same standard of proof for accusations and false accusations So women are free to believe women. It’s a free country after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 08:30 AM
11	A lot of guys here endlessly whine about dating, but only give the most lukewarm effort into actually doing it You’ve been trying to date since you were 8 years old?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 02:25 AM
6	doordash girl, amber heard and uswnt court cases showed how certain people abuse feminism to excuse toxic behavior of women So in other words, it doesn’t exist. You posted an article highlighting female sexual violence against men to try to make a point that isn’t in the article. For some reason feminists are at fault because they didn’t highlight a problem faced by men and yet men share no blame for ignoring the problem themselves. Interesting how that works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 02:31 AM
6	doordash girl, amber heard and uswnt court cases showed how certain people abuse feminism to excuse toxic behavior of women Can you quote the parts of this article that prove that “feminists totally ignore women who rape men”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 02:09 AM
3	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. I didn’t ask why men were in charge though. I know that men have taken charge by brute force. I asked why men didn’t give women the right to vote immediately if they didn’t have a problem with women voting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 06:00 PM
12	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. Source this claim (I know you can’t because it’s just a rant and not based in anything concrete).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 04:52 PM
5	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. They don’t put women in jail for not paying child support? Can you point to the law that only jails men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 04:41 PM
4	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. That’s fine. It’s still not a violation of their rights to give them an option they don’t have to use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 04:00 PM
5	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. No it wouldn’t have been undemocratic because they could simply choose not to vote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:56 PM
9	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. I think a discussion about the existence or effective influence of patriarchy in the US today would be interesting. Because it’s not something I think matters much to my life or to the lives of most American women anymore. Arguing that it never existed or can’t exist because we’ve evolved is just stupid anti-intellectual nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:45 PM
3	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. It is still patriarchy if their systems promote the dominance of the men within them. This doesn’t erase other concerns but is still the reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:43 PM
11	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. The existence of patriarchy doesn’t erase nepotism as a concern though. People can acknowledge and care about both things at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:37 PM
17	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. This is why I think OP’s initial framing that the patriarchy implies all men subjugate all women is false. I believe the OP knows this is false but needs to frame it in this false way to try to win. The patriarchy is a system that promotes male dominance over women. Some men have always disagreed with this philosophy. Some women have always agreed with this philosophy. For a long time, western rulers and laws have upheld these concepts but in recent generations alternative thought has broken thr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:11 PM
10	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. Weird. I see tons of examples of tyrannical countries with strong and growing protest movements, such as Iran.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 03:00 PM
19	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. This is hilarious. “Women can’t debate in good faith” yet you avoid a direct question that’s directly related to your claims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 02:55 PM
4	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. Explain in detail then why the patriarchy existing precludes women from taking to the streets to protest then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 02:54 PM
11	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. The patriarchy is not defined as “women being physically prevented from ever doing anything and nothing societally ever changing” though. Patriarchy can still exist even as women gain new rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 02:49 PM
27	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. Yeah, OP, can you explain why the vote wasn’t given at the start of the US if men didn’t have an issue with giving women the right to vote?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 02:36 PM
–	Why are women like this? Two issues are going on with this post. 1) the assumption that we know for a fact what “league” this woman is in and that it is an immutable characteristic/there is no leeway etc 2) the assumption then that all the men who attended these events were good looking enough according to these designations There really is very little to go on with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:51 PM
–	Why are women like this? Based on one Reddit post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:46 PM
–	Why are women like this? “Why are women not willing to date people they aren’t attracted to”? seems like the question. I don’t know, this is confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:40 PM
3	No way most men are friends with a rapist This comment is so creepy that I legit can’t tell if you’re trolling or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 07:08 AM
5	Sexual history can never be over-written. Her best will always be better than you. I think a lot of people won’t get this because their mind has decided that sex is something that is “done” to someone, particularly something that women have done to them. It isn’t properly being contextualized as a shared experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 03:38 PM
21	I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kids I am a childfree woman as things stand but would we willing to have like 5 children if this were the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 02:48 PM
–	Women act like horny sluts with previous partners but if a guy wants his gf to act like a slut then he’s “porn brained”. Because a lot of people don’t want to stay virgins until they’re settling down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 02:47 PM
2	CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfair Men should do whatever they think is best for them but I imagine it would be practically impossible to get a woman to agree to marry you with this type of longterm behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:11 PM
3	Logically seen, because the hypergamy theory is a objective reality for women, it is reasonable as a man to not value a Relationship as much as society tells us to value it. The vast majority of women will never be in the social circle of a billionaire. This is like me saying my man is more likely to replace me with a model because there are way more female models than male billionaires. That’s be silly cause we don’t hang out with models.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 04:12 PM
17	Logically seen, because the hypergamy theory is a objective reality for women, it is reasonable as a man to not value a Relationship as much as society tells us to value it. Since men leaving their wives around middle age for younger women is common enough to be a well-discussed phenomenon, women should treat their relationships the same way according to your theory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 01:23 PM
3	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? Yep, especially at a younger age, income itself doesn’t matter as much as ambition and making plans and taking steps.m Now that I’m over 30, a dude still on the lower rung of his industry would be a bit concerning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 01:57 AM
5	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? A lot of those women are also working either dead end or low wage jobs. Most people aren’t making bank a few years out of college and most people date within their income bracket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 01:55 AM
1	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? Right, women with low standard or self-esteem issues are not that hard to find. Usually they come with similar issues to the man so it’s kind of a “they deserve each other” type of situation anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 01:53 AM
3	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? Over 30. Can’t speak for younger people now but at 20-25 I was in dead end jobs and struggling so guys experiencing the same thing wasn’t all that concerning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 01:50 AM
8	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? So many posts and takes on this sub seem almost entirely based in a social media reality. I’m entertained but if you think hard enough about it it’s concerning how many people may be almost entirely “experiencing” the world this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 01:03 AM
7	Do you believe women have higher income standards now? Right. This shouldn’t really be a major issue for the dating market. Men who are currently struggling and driving for uber or something should be looking for women who are work h retail, etc in reality. As a woman with a steady white collar job with a middle income in my area, that’s all I’d expect from a man as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 12:58 AM
6	So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize it Homophobia is absolutely relevant. It’s the driving force of this dynamic. What a strange conceptualization you must have of relevancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 01:49 PM
7	My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbands I just don’t want to financially support another adult. I think it makes separating or divorce so much harder as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 08:42 PM
18	Why do so many women exaggerate about their standards? I’m simply saying that your perspective of their attractiveness may not line up with how women perceive them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 06:29 PM
31	Why do so many women exaggerate about their standards? I was going to say that if OP is a man, especially a straight man, then his assessment of how attractive his male friends are might not reflect how women feel about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 06:25 PM
8	“Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted. So is your last sentence implying that when men have dominated anything it’s been because the playing field is equal but when women have dominated it’s because it’s unequal? Please correct if I’m wrong cause if that’s what you’re saying then…lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 07:29 PM
21	“Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted. I mean, if that’s how you feel, then I don’t wanna hear any moaning about women outpacing men in education now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 02:39 PM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse ❓	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:07 PM
5	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse Agreed. Just pointing out that claiming no one blames women is so silly, especially when there is evidence in this very post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 01:48 PM
7	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse There is someone saying women lack accountability for this epidemic right above this thread too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:30 AM
6	Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men? Everyone is assumed to have a past but that doesn’t mean we’re going around asking for numbers and details. Things may pop up but it’s not like people are having accounting and inventory-like conversations about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 02:48 PM
–	Q4M: Who is in the wrong here? I feel like so much of the content on this sub is just based on people who really don’t understand that TikTok/social media content has very little to do with real life and how people actually naturally act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 04:25 PM