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| 1 | What should I do boys?Listen bro, we're about the same age, I recently turned 18. I was going through a similar thing a year ago. I didn't have any experience with girls and I was shy. You're doing a good thing by going to the gym. I do it too. It builds confidence. But you have to change emotionally and change the way you approach girls. The easy part is getting a fresh new haircut and new slim clothes. If you look as good as possible, you'll feel good too. Stop listening to sad music too. Realize that you have valu… | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How can I build confidence FASTI'm turning 18 in 2 days, and until about 9 months ago, I had no confidence. We're in a similar age range so I'd like to help you out because finally getting some confidence will change your life forever. I've been through a break-up myself. She was my first gf and my last, atleast for now. Girls leave all the time and that's their loss. If she knew her worth, she would have stayed with you. Use this situation to your advantage. Go to the gym and focus on yourself. Let out all that frustration. … | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move?You made a mistake. It happens especially if you haven't learned how game works. You gotta learn how to keep the pressure on. If you don't make moves, she'll lose interest and see you as a friend. Break the touch barrier early, touch her arm or her leg and that'll tell her that you're intrested in her sexually. Flirt with her, build sexual tension. Once you do all of that, when you two are alone and you can sense some sexual tension, you gotta go in for the kiss. If she's comfortable with you to… | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Update: Just lost my virginityAt the end of they day, it comes down to what you want. If you're looking for a gf and you feel that she's good for that, then go ahead. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Update: Just lost my virginityI'm in a similar situation. Except we're not bf/gf, we're both "single", and that's ok because she isn't gf material. We just hang out and fuck when we feel like it. But my advice to you is, don't take girls seriously. They lie and play games all the time. Now you're a bit older than me so you might be thinking about an actual relationship, which is ok. Relationships are very fufilling and I enjoyed mine while it lasted. Just enjoy yourself, but also try to get a feel for what she wants. If she'… | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Update: Just lost my virginityYou're a little late to the game at 23, most people say I was late at 17. But honestly, the age you lose it at doesn't matter. I'm glad you're finally getting you some. Sex is great. Nothing makes me happier than hearing about a homie finally getting lucky for the first time. You're officially a man now. I don't know exactly what kind if connection you two have, but for the most part, the first couple times having sex is kinda awkward and a bit overwhelming. Once you finally get more comfortable… | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Getting someone back to your place?I consider myself a master at this. But I usually hook-up with girls who are pretty "easy." If she has any self-respect or aspirations in life it won't be that easy. I just ask, "hey, wanna chill at my place later?" And if we're on a "date" and we're eating out at a restaurant, I plan ahead and make sure that the places we visit are close to my house. Just asking straight-up is good if you can tell she's in the mood. If she's more of the serious type, you're gonna need a cover-up. If you play a … | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Just had my biggest success with a girl yetThat's fair to say, but that's my personal experience I've tried to be with nice girls, but they only seem to reject/ignore me. The only girls that even give me a chance are the bad bitches. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 8 | Just had my biggest success with a girl yetI truly wish I could fall in love with a girl while showing her how much I care. But sadly, shit doesn't work like that. Girls have tons of options regardless of how hot they are. They'll use you and then leave you. So you gotta use them first. I've given girls chances before and all they do is leave me hurt. So sadly, you have to play the dating/hook-up game. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 04:51 AM |
| 13 | Just had my biggest success with a girl yetNo problem. It may seem kinda douchy, but at this point, getting into serious relationships and falling in love isn't worth it. Girls aren't mature enough to handle it and they have way too many options. They might seem to love you at first, but then they'll act dry or leave you. Just focus on getting pussy right now. Trust me, I've been through a lot myself and looking back I've seen my mistakes. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 76 | Just had my biggest success with a girl yetI'm glad to hear that my dude, that's a big milestone. But remember to not be ashamed of being a little sexual and making advances because if you don't, you'll end-up in the friendzone. Your first kiss will get you some confidence, so feel free to run with it. Hopefully, losing your v-card will come soon. But don't worry too much about it, your first time is gonna suck more than likely. You'll be really nervous, you won't know what you're doing, and you might not even cum. So for the first coupl… | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 5 | You know what’s attractive? Knowing your own worthIt's difficult for us guys to feel confident. We don't get much attention from girls even if we are good looking and interesting. You just have to learn how to keep your head up and value yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 05:45 PM |
| -1 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanThat is the truth and it hurts. She really isn't yours, it's just your turn. That's sadly how it is these days. I've been hurt so many times. But then again, I try to not be single because then the loneliness hurts and I just keep wishing to be with someone. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | No status, wealth, or exceptional looks? No chance, they sayI don't consider myself anything special. Everyone says I look slightly above average. I have decent confidence. I'm 17 and I still don't have much money yet. I do however have nice clothes and a german car. I'm not popular, but I do have friends. I don't play sports, but I do have some muscle from working-out. I'm pretty good, but don't have the status that the jocks and popular kids do. Even then I seem to pull girls pretty well. I've been with 4 girls in total. 2 of the girlfriends and 2 were… | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Once you're together how are you supposed to escalate sex every time?Her and I usually will be in bed or somewhere private. We'll start looking at each other and start building tension. Then we'll make-out and she'll either start grabbing my dick or one of us will say "let's fuck." | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 10:04 AM |
| -9 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.It's not, you just don't wanna constantly baby her. If you do she'll get bored real soon. If you treat her the same, she'll be the one manipulating you and then leaving you. It's not keant to hurt her, it's just a method of building attraction and interest. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 12:11 PM |
| -20 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.This is the key to making a relationship last and to getting girls wet over you. Girls like emotion, they like uncertainty. Don't constantly shower her with attention. Sometimes when I'm texting my girlfriend, I say that I'm busy today and that I'll get back to her later. Sometimes I'll act a little cold and she'll immediately start wondering why. It keeps her curious and engaged. One day you want her to feel happy, the next sad, the next a little angry, and the next day you want her horny. Keep… | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 12:05 PM |
| 10 | Are You Sacrificing Your Self-Respect To Get Women?This is good advice guys. I used to cry over all the girls that I liked when they rejected me. But guess what, none of it was my fault. You have to realize that you have worth and that it's not worth being depressed over some thot at school. You need to work on yourself a little and stay in the dating game. You will find someone eventually. But even then, don't give every ounce of yourself to her if she's not gonna be your wife because the pain is unbearable when she leaves you. Girls will alway… | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Masculine v. Effeminate menI'm lucky that I have the perfect balance of both. You want to be able to physically attract a girl with your masculine traits. My girlfriend loves my muscles, body hair, and deep voice. And around my friends, I act more like an alpha male. But, I still have an effeminate side that drives girls crazy thet they almost never see in other guys. I like to dress effemintate. I love skinny jeans and tight v-necks. I have a great sense of style in general. My girlfriend loves how I protect her, but she… | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Maybe a girl is not meant to be our soul mate. Maybe as a guy, we are meant to have a group of guy friends as our soul mates, or soul tribe. This makes us less needy on girls, which is more attractive to them.I went through the same thing. My first gf broke-up with me and I never felt so much pain in my life. But guess what, the first people to comfort me were my friends. The next day, we went to hang out and had a hell of a time. Over time, they were there to listen to my problems and help me through it all. It's been two months since we broke-up and I don't miss her one bit anymore. I have a new gf and I've never been happier. Always live by the rule bros before hoes. Girls are sometimes temporary,… | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 10 | Maybe a girl is not meant to be our soul mate. Maybe as a guy, we are meant to have a group of guy friends as our soul mates, or soul tribe. This makes us less needy on girls, which is more attractive to them.My girlfriend is very important to me. I love her and she means the world to me. But, no matter what, you gotta make time for the guys. It's great being with your girlfriend, but at the end of the day, bonding with the boys is something special. You need both; especially a gf because you won't feel complete without one. But even if she leaves you and you end-up single, your friends will always be there to help you through it. | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Left on readThey don't care at all. Chicks have guys hitting them up constantly just begging for a date or sex. There's 20 other guys she's got to talk to. It's sad because girls always have options but us guys never do. Girls aren't hitting up our DMs, but girls have guys doing it constantly. Even if they're ugly, they have dudes lined-up at their doors begging for them. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 05:03 PM |
| 0 | What are some good coronavirus text openers for girls I had good chemistry with but haven't talked to in awhile?U can't spell quarantine without U R A Q T | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorIt's a work in progress. I've been working on it and it has gotten better. But it's still not perfect yet. There are some days where it's better and some where it's pretty bad. | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorI know, in-fact I think better looking guys get rejected more often. And it hurts more. Women don't give a fuck of they kill every ounce of confidence and hope you have. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorAnd I changed my hairstyle, I grew it out a bit, I liked the fauxhawk but it made my head look too square. I look better now. That was kind of an aggressive look and added to that ultra slavic/eastern look. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorI also fucked-up my nose on a Kawasaki Ninja motorcycle when I was 12 in a field. I had a helmet on but it kinda broke my nose and made it crooked af. If I ever get money, imma get plastic surgery for that. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorYeah, I'm Serbian and I think girls here don't like the eastern look. I'd rather have a Serbian or Balkan gf, but I still go for american girls too. In the Balkans, I'd be considered more attractive. And I don't care if I'm bald later in life, at that point I don't have to care as much. You didn't see any pictures of my whole body, my face might not be prefect, but I have a good body to make-up for it and I dress really well. I'm not bad looking and I could pass for an 8 on a good day when I dre… | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorYeah, that's my own personal view of myself because I suffer with my confidence and self-image. Most people would rate rate me higher, but I don't see that in myself because I get rejected all the time so I think I'm ugly even if I'm not. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Looks will only get your foot in the doorYeah bro, I really felt that. I'm 17 and I've struggled with girls a lot. I only dated one girl, it lasted a month and a half and she was emotionally unstable and pretty plain and not very hot. I still loved her tho. It always puzzled me why. I'm pretty decent looking, like a 7.5 or 8/10. I drive a nice car and have tons of spending money. I got a decent circle of friends, I'm a talented musician, and I workout so I got a big chest and biceps. And I have an amazing sense of style. I know how to … | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 0 | How often should you text a girl?Well, most of them are like that. I've talked to dozens and it's rejection after rejection. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 02:46 AM |
| 0 | How often should you text a girl?Yeah, we talked and sent pics of each other. She said yes to a date and said I was hot. Then this hoe just decides to pretend like none of that ever happened. Girls are literally poisonous snakes with no souls and no logic whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | How often should you text a girl?The thing is she said she wanted to facetime in the first place. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 5 | How often should you text a girl?A similar thing happened to me last week. I was talking to this one chick over snapchat and she showed tons of interest and said yes to a date. Then a couple days later, she declines my facetime call and ghosts me. Girls are a fucking mystery and they're unbelievably cruel and difficult. Good luck bro. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How often should you text a girl?Texting is just for setting up dates. You don't wanna talk too much before because she might lose interest. If she really likes you back, she will check-in with you, but if you're DMing her, she won't initiate anything. Every other day is probably good. Just ask her how her day with, just small talk. But other than that, texting is for setting-up dates. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up.I'm only 17 but even with my limited experience I can tell you that being single isn't anything like being in a relationship. I workout 5 times a week, take good care of myself, and I have a great group of friends but I'll never really feel complete like when I was dating her. You can never truly be 100% happy and fufilled when you're single. You can get to a point where being single is tolerable, but humans have that need for that emotional connection and nothing will feel quite like being in l… | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 12:10 AM |
| 2 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!I'm 17 and I'll tell you that it's harder as a teen, atleast from my experience and from what I've seen from my friends. Teen Girls are really stuck-up and emotionally unstable, they'll leave you at the drop of a hat. Relationships are hard to keep at this age. Not to mention the fact that you'll get rejected 99/100 if you talk to a girl and ask her out or tell her how you really feel. I kinds think it'll get easier later in life, especially in college. By then it seems that you no longer have a… | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | FR So I got a girl's number today. First approach since a break up.Great story, I hope I find someone after getting broken-up with. I've been looking for someone else and stories like these give me hope that I'll find one soon | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Girl I like.If she says she thinks you're cute, then you're in a good position. Ask her out on a date soon, don't wait or else she might lose attraction. | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone who succeeded and grew despite starting off with anxiety or poor social skills give me advice?I'm 17 and I'm in the same position bro. I used to be quite overweight, but I went on a diet and dropped to 150lbs, I've been working out for 6 months, and I'm now muscular and in amazing shape at 165lbs. I've always been quiet and awkward around girls, so I never even talked to them. I still am to a degree, but it's a little better. I never had a gf up until a couple months ago, we got along really well and the relationship was amazing, but she left me for no reason a week ago. I was devastated… | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | First dateYou'll be able to gauge when things are going well, then look into her face and look at her eyes and lips. Slowly move towards her and if she wants to kiss you, she'll follow your lead. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Looks are the most important thing about seduction, please change my mind.Attractiveness and looks are by far more important for men. Even if I've never met a girl before, I'll fall madly in love with her if she's my type. But, I honestly don't know what girls want. Me and some of my friends are good-looking, and most of us workout at the gym, but we have no success with girls, while many hot girls at school are dating ugly dudes. They seem to go for complete idiots. Like the dudes that do drugs or get in trouble a lot. It's probabably because they're teenage girls an… | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 10:28 PM |
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