| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1515 | Do not rush to get into relationship with a girl | Logistics | lukasbo7800 | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 297 | Wisest thing I've ever heard | Logistics | lukasbo7800 | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 06:16 PM |
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| 3 | A girl's interest in me went from 100 to 0 real fastFirst of all, do not blame yourself. Sometimes women interest level can drop without any particular reason. Maybe she just didn't feel like dating you or someone else has raised her interest level. It's completely normal. If you are really in to this girl, give her some time, maybe she'll come around | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 16 | Advice on first date flirting and first kissYou do not have to touch her to be seducive. Seduce her by the way you are talking, smiling, looking. Personally, I never kiss a girl on a first date. If the girl is really into me, I keep her wondering if I do like her or not. When she's not able to fully understand you, when she doesn't know if you are going to call her for a second date, she's going to try harder, it's possible that she's going to start testing you, texting you more often, trying to figure where do you two stand together at. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | topic to talkIt can't be anything: TV shows, dogs, fitness, hobbies, etc. Just make sure she's the one who is doing most of the talking, bring the topic and ask her questions. You have to stay mysterious, keep your answers short and make her wonder if do you like her or not. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Do not rush to get into relationship with a girlYou should calm down. See a therapist, seek a help from your family or friends. It's obvious that right now you are not in the best mental state and really should be getting help. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Do not rush to get into relationship with a girlI do not want to hurt your feelings, but what's going to happen if you two would break up? I bet you would feel even worse than before you've met her. Remember, two halves make a whole but two wholes make for full and healthy relationship. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 07:07 AM |
| 75 | Do not rush to get into relationship with a girlThe man is truly an icon to so many people. The wisdom he shares and the work ethic he has is truly inspiring. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Can’t wait to go in fieldA little bit of advice here - keep your expectations low. All those guys have years of experience in dating women, they've been rejected hundreds if not thousands times. The true wisdom comes from failures. You can listen to what they're saying, be learning from them for hours and still be failing to succeed. It's good to have faith in yourself but do not expect to get laid with the very first girl you'll meet. I don't know about other guys you have mentioned but AMS is fairly good looking, fit,… | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 09:14 AM |
| 16 | To guys that are struggling to get over your exI fully agree, there's a thousands of men who are afraid to leave toxic/unhappy relationships just because they think they can't do better and sometimes that's true. But I wanted to apply my words to those who cannot forget their ex'es because they are in love with them. It does not matter if you are an a guy first time in relationship or an "alpha" who has had plenty of women, you cannot escape your feelings if you've truly loved her. Of course, scarcity mindset just makes things worse. | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | To guys that are struggling to get over your exDo not do this. It's ain't worth your time. Let your actions speak. Improve your body, get fit, seek career opportunities, treat yourself, date women. Let her regret it as the time passes. But do not use self improvement as a tool to seek revenge. Just be the best version of yourself and one day when you will be succesfull and will have another women by your side who will love you dearly, your ex or a girl who rejected you will understand what did she missed out on | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | To guys that are struggling to get over your exYou should be proud, mate. I know how hard it is and you've found the strenght to overcome it | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 12:31 PM |
| 5 | How can I improve my conversational skillsTry standing next to a mirror and try having coversations with yourself. Create various scenarios and situations and talk about it. Talk to your friends, try to be indulged on what they're saying. Try to really listen what others are saying, smile when they're telling you something funny, do not enterrupt them as they're talking. Especially with women. | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 06:44 AM |
| 66 | How to offer value to girls?First and probably the best tip I can give to somebody at your age is to improve your body. Start working out and chose a healthy diet. You are going to be amazed how much confidence and sexual value does working out give you. Fix your posture, increase your muscle mass, lose some body fat, it may be a slow proccess but it's totally worth it. Always smell nice and wear clothes that fits on you. These things will indicate girls that you are a guy who spends a lot of time on improving yourself. Le… | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to “pull away” after feeling you’ve been friendzoned?I partly agree with the second part of the comment. Do not try to make her jealous, that's what a guy with very low self-esteem would do. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How to take chat to a next level?Well, in your place I would just dump her. But if you are really into her, maybe try taking things slow, start taking longer responses, if she will do the same, then probably she's not highly attractive to you and the problem is, that it's very hard to increase her interest level due texting. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How far should you chase a girl ?Don't chase women. Let women chase you. Spend your time on being worth chasing, not chasing girls. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How to take chat to a next level?Why don't you just ask her on a date? | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:17 PM |
| -1 | Do looks matter?Women are not attracted to money nor status. They're attracted to men who can make money and build their status. And that's two different things. Women love men who can handle themselves, who can achieve things and who are able to provide | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Do looks matter?In my opinion, looks does matter. But not as much as some guys may think. I've seen many below average guys getting gorgeous girls. Attraction is very primal thing. Most of the guys will feel attracted to a young and healthy women who has strong indicatives of child bearing and has high procreation potentional. To put it in more simple way, most of the guys will feel attraction towards women who has big breasts, are young, healthy and has good butt to hip ratio. There's some other variantion whi… | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | What to do?Finding a new girl is not going to make you feel better. Take some time off, learn some new things, get in shape. And when the quarantine is over you will have plenty of options | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Do I text her back?It looks like her interest level in you has dropped. It may be because you very too needy, texting her too often, giving her too much validation, etc. You should not text her, wait a week or two, then invite her for a date. If she does not respond, it's fine, just forget her and move on | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What's helped you?What I've said is just examples of what success may look for some people. Work on what you can do, there's a lot of skills you can improve on and lot of things that you can achieve if you are willing to work hard. Amadeus Mozart, Lewis Carroll, Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton, Nikola Tesla. All of those successful people showed the signs of autisim, of course it's impossible to tell if they really had it now, but if they did, it never stopped them and now we see their names in history books. I'am … | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Getting out of the friend zone (in my experience)Did she forced you to be in friend zone? She wouldn't let you go away? | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Afraid of rejection, how to not be so insecure?First of all, cheers, mate, it looks that she may have a high interest in you. Now, back to the question. It's impossible to avoid rejection. It's going to happen and there's no way avoiding it, that's just the way things are. Yeah, it may hurt sometimes, but the best thing to save your feelings is to keep your expectations low. Let's say you have agreed on date, you are both going for a drink. There's always possibility that the girl may flake and there's a tons of reason for her to that, but d… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:08 PM |
| 11 | Getting out of the friend zone (in my experience)In my perspective of things, no women has ever put a guy into the friendzone. Guys just does it themselves. If she has no interest in you and you continue trying to gauge her interest level by validating her, giving her all you free time you could have spent on yourself and hoping that things may change and one day her interest level in you will skyrocket out of blue sky, then congratulations, you successfuly put yourself into the friendzone. If she's not into you, thats perfectly fine, just mov… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I talk dirty?First of all, there's s very little chance you will increase her interest by talking dirty if she's not even into that. It may even creep her out. You should ask her if she's into dirty talking and if she is, you should let it flow naturally, There's no rules for sex nor speciffic words you should say during sex | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 44 | What's helped you?I will start this with Morgan Freeman words - "Do not chase women. Let the women chase you". Number one thing you can do to improve your dating experience is just by focusing on yourself and your goals. Yours goals are the only thing in this world that's worth the chasing. No matter how good the girl looks or how much you are craving for sex, your ambitions should be always number one thing to seek on. No sex in this world can compare to the feeling when you climb the mountain which you wanted t… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Wisest thing I've ever heardIn my understanding of the said words, the bait is your personality, charisma and confidence. The rod may be your looks, so in order to "catch a bigger fish" you are going to need a stronger rod. So, work on yourself, build an abundance mindset, start hitting the gym, find a new hobbies, put more time in to things that are outside your comfort zone and put less time in to more distractive and unproductive things, for example, video games. I'm not saying that you should dump things like gaming co… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 36 | Wisest thing I've ever heardYou do man. Everybody has something and it's not just looks. Maybe you are good at drawing or you can play a guitar or you just like working out. You must be good at something and improving yourself at those things will boost your confidence. That's your bait, brother | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 08:22 PM |
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