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lukeyj_gtfc/r/MensRights18/09/19 12:14 AM
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Mafia guys were lovely to their mothers....
/r/PussyPass30/05/20 08:48 AM
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This triggers me. There was a suicide note she wrote that says "if I can't have him, no one can". If that isn't evidence if premeditation, and jealousy, I don't know what is. This whole case was chilling.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 02:10 PM
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Never trust someone with your future. Unprotected sex is great, but you surrender your power. Don't do that shit without a vasectomy unless you are prepared for the consequences. Marriage is another source of your power and independence. Don't get married or allow someone to have your children against your will.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:34 AM
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Focus on your life. Who you want to be. Your future career, health. Get in the gym and feel better about yourself. Start to challenge your views. You've suffered confirmational bias where you see information that confirms your view and disregards that that contradicts it. Look for, and focus on the contradictions. Get to the point where you balance those thoughts. Where there are fors and against, and those views logically fall away because the evidence doesn't support it. Try and focus on the p…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 09:13 PM
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Not at all. I'm just less comfortable with people living in poverty than billionaires paying as bit more tax. There are less billionaires in most countries than the USA. The conditions created by the state such as education, R and D and infrastructure give an advantage in making money and that don't come free. Those billionaires are making more of it than they're giving back. Leaching of it and the backs of workers that put that effort in. Not many of them are self- made. Most stated with inheri…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 04:53 PM
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I don't assume it's easy for white people. I'm white myself. My view doesn't promote excuses or bad behaviour. Pretending a problem isn't there doesn't solve an issue. You're assuming it's all attitude and excuses. You don't want to consider there may be challenges. You don't want things improving. Is it any wonder people are annoyed when people are refusing to accept the problems they face. Minorities can lift themselves out of poverty. White folk do. It's hard. Some face harder challenges. Acc…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 04:18 PM
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I read all that and have no idea what your point is. I'm glad you think you know so much more about history than me. You may want to brush up, on logic, debates and being concise and to the point... Maybe your point is other races got involved in slavery, but Africans came to America through the British, the triangular trade and the point that follows it was white British folk and later Americans. As a white Brit, I'm quite ashamed of my countries actions in this. You on the other hand don't see…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:47 PM
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I don't live in the USA... there are many countries with many different outcomes. If you only look at one case study, your analysis is inevitably going to be flawed
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:33 PM
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Again, it depends on the areas. Black neighbourhood's tend to have less investment in schools and infrastructure. Just because you've seen black people succeed, doesn't mean it's easy. Doesn't mean they haven't had to work their asses off to get where they are. Unless you've walked in another man's shoes, you can't judge how easy or hard it is. Avoiding empathy and understanding is straight up lazy.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:31 PM
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My children? You're assuming I'm black. You've made an incorrect assumption. I'm white.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:26 PM
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I did not say that. You're misrepresenting my point. A straw man argument. The point I made is it is harder to succeed from poverty. That black folk in America live disproportionately in poverty. That black folk face greater barriers and blockers such as discrimination in education and in work. Which of those points do you feel are wrong. I'm talking nuance, about more likely, not 100%.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:25 PM
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Mate. I'm white. I quite like some white folk. Some are dicks. It goes for all races. There are good and bad. I ain't the one generalising.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:21 PM
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Doesn't alter my point. Just because 1 or 2 people make their way out of poverty, it doesn't diminish that it's harder to succeed from poverty than not. Just because something isn't impossible, doesn't mean it's unlikely. So if you're not white, a few things are possible, either you are black and are advocating that black people are less or you're other a different ethnic group and still hold racial bias. I'll give you a newsflash, racism isn't exclusive to white people. Based on your postings t…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:18 PM
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I don't think you detect the irony in your post. You just mentioned father's leaving as the problem while insisting on genetics. Is it nature (genes) or nurture (absent father). You're confused, illogical and irrational.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:13 PM
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You call me a retard. When you link crime to genetics, you're implying that some genes are more predisposed to crime. That some genes are less successful and by continuation, some genes are better. That is literally what white supremacy is!
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:10 PM
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Oh, so there is books to help excel? Sweet. Really would be nice to read, study hard and get blocked out of opportunities and achieving. It's like saying to a straight guy you can sleep with anybody in this room you want, whenever you want, and putting him in a room full of men. Pointless. African immigrants? How did those AE folks get to America? By choice or by white folk capturing them, chaining them, boating then and enslaving them, keeping them down and then blaming them for it?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:07 PM
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You'll find that if you take the statistics for poor folk vs rich folk, you'll see a big difference for criminality, if you separate by race, you'll see the same difference with black people from wealthy areas having significantly less crime. Having an opportunity to take yourself out of poverty has a massive positive effect, if you're born into desperate situations with no way out, what do you expect people to do? I'm assuming you believe in the American dream, but don't support a way of facili…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 03:02 PM
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Or being statistically more likely to be brought up in poverty due to the policies of political parties I assume you support. For perceiving yourself to be genetically superior, you seem mentally incapable of grasping cause and affect.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 02:53 PM
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I'm assuming usually people kept in desperate poverty are more likely to get involved in crime.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/20 02:50 PM
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Disagree. A woman often sets the tone of this. As a guy, you want sex as quickly as possible. A woman decides whether she goes through with that. The lass I'm seeing now slept with me on a first date, a previous one made me wait months. Both had positives. If you perceive value, they have a lot of power. The narrative that women don't have power or can't wield it is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:17 AM
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I mean attraction is important. Doesn't mean hot necessary. It can be about actions and dynamics. I've been more attracted to less attractive partners than I previously had. I don't agree with your premise that it's the only factor. Sounds either trollish or inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:07 PM
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I think you're generalising only a fraction of men leave their wives for younger models. I suspect it has more to do with negativity/effort than looks. If a man is dating a woman 10 years younger, he's still dating a woman 10 years older even he's 50...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:47 PM
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Most men don't leave happy relationships. They aren't emotionally or physically content. When I'm unhappy in a relationship is when my eyes naturally start wondering, when I'm content and my needs are met, it doesn't even cross my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:26 AM
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Victim blaming is fine if the victim is a man. Society struggles to see a man as a victim or a woman as a perpetrator. It's a subconscious bias through which most information is filtered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:31 PM
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Average partner count for men and women was both 16. Even with different distributions, the average was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:30 PM
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You're missing the point. For every heterosexual sexual encounter, the is a man that has sex and 1 woman that has sex. If the population of men and women are the same, then if sex happens 50,000 times. 50,000 is divided by number of men and number of women and if those population sizes are the same, it's the same average. Yes, it can be skewed differently and unevenly distributed, but the average will be the same unless the sample size is not indicative of the general population. That would be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:08 PM
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How can men have more partners on average unless they're having sex with other men? If 1 guy sleeps with 20 women, 19 men sleep with 0 and 20 women sleep with 1 man, the average is 1 across a population of 20. Am I being dumb to suggest it's mathematically impossible? I think the truth is in the fact that men exaggerate their number by 3 and women divide it by 3. Women and men sleep with the same amount of people on average. That's if we're taking mean and not median.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:32 AM
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How can men have more partners on average unless they're having sex with other men? If 1 guy sleeps with 20 women, 19 men sleep with 0 and 20 women sleep with 1 man, the average is 1 across a population of 20. Am I being dumb to suggest it's mathematically impossible? I think the truth is in the fact that men exaggerate their number by 3 and women divide it by 3. Women and men sleep with the same amount of people on average. That's if we're taking mean and not median.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:30 AM
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Laughing at child abuse and the lack of rights men have... Why are you even here? I'm certainly not one for PC, and if you think that, chances are you're on the wrong sub, a sociopath and here because you're a Trump supporter rather than giving a crap about issues affecting men. If you've been through family courts and not seen your kids in months and still think it's hilarious, you're not the sort of person with any form of human decency. Ah, you're 27 and your mummy tracks your finances. Cute.…
/r/MensRights19/09/19 08:24 AM
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Credit to you, I didn't expect this online! You're a good person.
/r/MensRights19/09/19 06:40 AM
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Nope. I'm a socialist. A proper leftie and it's good to see people addressing the problems in the family courts... we need more courageous people like her.
/r/MensRights18/09/19 09:22 PM
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Saw the video for this. Say what you want about the chap and what he's done but joking about parental alienation isn't funny. He had tears in his eyes and anyone who's been though similar knows how painful that is. The fact people find this funny it's really uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights18/09/19 12:16 AM
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Until you need to buy blades and that's where they make their money.
/r/MGTOW29/08/19 01:27 PM
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And definitely don't fuck raw. She may be looking for either a baby or someone to pay for her while she has one.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:37 AM
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Have you seen the video? Which of his points do you agree with or disagree with? Or are you simply defensive in dogma without question. The analysis is excellent and presents a whole new twist on something that was taken as read. If you can't critically assess, are you any better than those swallowing the blue pill?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 09:42 PM
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Silence isn't bad if it isn't awkward. Enjoy your silence. Own it like it's your choice. See how she responds to the silence and the eye contact. You don't have to keep anything going, you don't need it, you're just enjoying the moment.
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:15 PM
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Their rivals are growing. If the market was screwed, they'd be struggling too. Their market share is shrinking as well as the overall market size. Focusing on that which is technically true, distracts shareholders from their lack of competence. In England, Carrillion went pop despite telling markets everything was good. It ain't the first. I actually don't think it was incompetence on Gillettes part. I think they thought the women's leg razor market was more critical than men's shaving and thoug…
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 10:41 PM
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Sounds a lot like manslaughter...
/r/MensRights12/07/19 04:14 PM
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Some men are dangerous, some women are dangerous. From what I understand, women are more at risk when they meet someone at a club. Stranger incidents do occur but they are rare. The media has overstated the risk. It's more dangerous to cross the road and people aren't freaked out about crossing the road. It's discriminatory to assume all men are dangerous. Some may appear intimidating and being are of that at night is logical, but it depends if it's genuine concern of risk or just general dislik…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 09:25 AM
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At one point she mentioned her mother didn't feel her response was excessive. It seems she was the victim of parental alienation. I suspect her mum turned her against her father and enjoys this situation. The effects of her now is a likely a result of the abuse she suffered at the hands of her mum. Parental alienation is child abuse.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 11:44 PM
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Not all women, just unfortunately the ones I end up with. It describes the last 10 years of my life. It's more commonplace than you'd expect.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 09:47 AM
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Ultimately it's worth reflecting on use of the courts. If you can't rely on good will from your ex, it requires an independent actor to make the decision. Meditation is usually the starting point if she is receptive, if not, court. It ain't easy and it costs but it depends how sustainable you perceive your arrangement to be. It can heat things up so don't proceed for minor things, as it'll probably cost more than it gains.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 06:01 PM
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Why do you care if she spends her time on Instagram. Focus on yourself. Make a plan. Your ship has hit an iceberg and is heading to a second, are you going to grab the wheel or sit in the fetal position?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 08:58 PM
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A victim complex in which there don't take responsibility for any of their actions and make horrifically manipulative decisions justified on how they've been treated in the past. Controlling jealous behaviour justified by anxiety etc. Lying about birth control to get pregnant and get regular maintenance. Using sexuality to manipulate people to buy them meals, progress in work and fulfill any needs while leading the guy on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:35 PM
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No. Because if you're in a country such as America or UK, she's entitled to your money for 18 years and your existence becomes far less free or enjoyable. Anything but that unless you're set on it.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:10 PM
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You had a good option and you decided up discard it. Which is of course, your choice, as you get older, you become less attractive, not unattractive, and with effort that becomes quite negligible. Ultimately you have to separate those that would sleep with you from those that would want a relationship with you. It could be not that you're unattractive, just that your standards were too high and competition is fierce. Initiating is helpful because some guys that are a good catch may have confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:58 AM
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That's a law over at /r/feminists. You'll be lynched if you say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 10:09 AM
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I'm in the UK and I think it's just as bad. Family courts definitely are. A woman's words and not their evidence is enough.
/r/MensRights26/03/19 07:24 AM
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Lawyer up mate. Shit is getting serious.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 02:09 AM
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Are you me? I do exactly the same thing for exactly the same reason! My girlfriend mocks it but I can't stop it...
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:30 AM
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Always start small and build up. You're building trust, confidence and awareness. It's safer to be too tame at first than too rough. Let her responses during and importantly after lead you.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:34 PM
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Don't put anything in text messages. You could say you're surprised but reassure her she's always in full control. Can stop anytime. Maybe explain the traffic light system, but this is worrying. You probably want to reassure her and get over this initial hurdle but you shouldn't ignore the need to slowly move your way to the door. Maybe sleep with her again and have a nice safe non rough approach unless she asks for it but air on the side of Disney tame. Leave no marks, get nice after messages a…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:31 PM
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I'm wondering if they thought they'd offset male losses with new female customers. Go for the leg razor market and sell for higher because guys favour facial hair nowadays. Maybe this boycott should be in Proctor and Gamble. Ariel, bounty, Charmin, fairy, febreeze, head and shoulders, oral-b, pampers, vicks, pantene, braun, flash, tide, bold, daz... I'll remember this...
/r/MensRights26/01/19 04:33 PM
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True. And it depends how long. I hold a grudge for decades. I can't imagine buying a Gillette again. Wilkinson sword or one of the other rivals for me. I will also remember this is Proctor and Gamble. I'll favour Unilever or another rival from now on.
/r/MensRights26/01/19 04:23 PM
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You don't need to. Being single is better than that. Get out, focus on you, get regular contact with the kids. Get in the gym, make yourself awesome and once you're mentally ready, you'll find someone that treats you better and isn't using you as a stepping stone to better. The problem is her, not you.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:31 PM
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Are you suggesting guys are not allowed to get upset? Do you believe guys shouldn't express their feelings and bottle it up? Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:51 PM
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It's far more generous than the UK. They'd probably be on half that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:43 AM
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It pays that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 10:28 PM
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I don't think men are nervous about having a good job. There are economic challenges around it. If there was more good jobs, people would be in those roles. Good jobs are scarce. There are a lack of decent women around too, for other reasons of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:34 PM
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Good is subjective. Enough that meets your standards. Well unless you change society or the economy, chances are your expectation doesn't meet with reality. Your.... expectations... aren't.... realistic. Keep believing them but it won't solve your frustrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:15 PM
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Probably similar because cleaners, bus drivers and teachers don't make a killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:37 PM
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If they can, it's their choice. Who are you to impose your morals on them? Maybe they're awesome but can't commit because they're m they've suffered a lot of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:35 PM
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And an equal number of dodgy women too. Asking for twice the median means you need to be twice as awesome as average to keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:33 PM
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Check the stats. Several and thousands of eligible women. If you are asking for income in the top 2% while being under 30 and you're not in the top 2% looks wise and other traits, you need to lower your standards. $30k + $30k = $60k. Expectation that you find someone to carry you without you justifying it is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:31 PM
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Fuck me. Red flag. Don't marry this girl and give her more power. Anyone that threatens to take your kid away with have no reservation on bleeding you dry financially and putting you on the streets.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 10:48 AM
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You are unhappy because your "slave master" hasn't given you a pat on the head. "Boss, is it ok, boss? Are you happy boss?" Her choice to be happy or not is her power that you have her. Do things because they are the right thing, not for gratitude. Don't get angry at her nature. That's the way they are. Hormonal. Illogical. Ungrateful. Live by your integrity. Make the decisions you are proud of. Do it for you and your child. Not for her.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 10:45 AM
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Generally I'd agree, but Victoria Wood has some hilarious stuff. Most are pretty terrible though.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 07:20 AM
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If you say so... If that was really the case you wouldn't exactly be in the situation you are. You have to own your actions. You can eat pussy in a dominant factor. You can treat your girl good for good behaviour. All negative all the time and there isn't inventive. That isn't Red Pill, that's neglectful. The captain looks after his crew but is stern and strict when he needs to be. Your post history is pretty butt hurt. Frame gone...
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:18 PM
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Does he go down on her while you don't? Is he bigger down there? More enthusiastic, excited? Who knows, but he isn't you. He's new exciting and different. She'll get bored and eventually regret her choice. She may even come crawling back until the next branch looks tempting to swing to. Focus on you and your kids. What are the right choices in that? Make them and commit to your actions.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:41 AM
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Guy here. Please feel free to take my opinion with a pinch of salt. My opinion is that we should be egalitarian, not feminist. Care about the causes of the all the down trodden and the humans who may have a tricky time in certain circumstances. It's a human, rather than gender-biased cause.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 07:56 AM
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60k a year for 30 years is 1.8 million. That'll take you to 55. It becomes clear you cannot retire. Put it in a bank account until you know what to do with it. Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. Real estate or a house is a great investment. That saves rent long term and you can always sell if you need. Soul searching time. What do you want your life to be. Don't tell anyone too. You'll be the one constantly getting the drinks and the wrong type of attention.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:11 PM
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Guys perspective here. He sounds insecure and not great. If he believed in himself, it wouldn't bother him much. Part is knowing you are valuable and no matter what is on show, your girl is interested in you and others also. He sounds controlling. The sort to bring you down to keep above you rather than build himself up. My view is your vetting wasn't great. You picked the wrong one. A Red Pill guy would lift, work on himself, stfu and not get butt hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 12:28 PM
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Sorry to hear that. If only there was something you could do about that.
/r/MGTOW10/02/18 02:28 AM
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Egalitarianism. It's called egalitarianism. Say goodbye to feminism.
/r/MensRights17/12/17 09:28 AM
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Don't apologise over text. That could easily be used against you or misconstrued as something it wasn't. Bad event. Bad night. Don't fuck a stranger raw unless you really want hiv. Even with certificates. They're only good the minute they're done.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 03:34 PM
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I was married at that point. Into the unknown and the world got disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:48 PM
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Indeed. It's why I've given up on it. Not settling for the dregs. However, if a 6 out of 10 girl is going for a 9 out of 10 guy with great traits, it's crazy to expect any sustainability. I personally accept less attractive for personality as it's attractive but women don't to be too pragmatic on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:43 PM
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If the pictures are not ideal but the bio is pretty cultivated, results are not great so your conclusion can't be drawn upon. Disregarding the bio because of looks isn't helpful if this is accurate. I don't get swipes from lasses who'd be in to me IRL but I wouldn't be keen on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:17 PM
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Then the bias towards looks would surely be less noticeable. There is a desire for looks and traits. Which is a very small fraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:09 PM
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In No More Mr Nice Guy, Robert Glover talks about caretaking. Give her some task to do. Give her some belief she can do it and build her up. Captain isn't leading first mate. She blames you for controlling because she feels powerless. You can instil this on her. Or at least try. Signs are a little worrying and you're very aware of the chances of failure but maybe the powerlessness is building resentment. Give her something you don't have to do yourself. This will verify for sure if this is the i…
/r/askMRP12/10/17 07:09 AM
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Sleep well. Diet well. Exercise. Keep on top of things in life like bills. If you don't like your job, change it. If you don't have enough friends, change it. If you don't have enough fun get hobbies. Dress well.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 01:57 PM
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Seconded...
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:01 PM
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I was going to down vote you for bad advice but I don't have hate in me. Abstained.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 07:16 AM
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I'm strongly left and a Brit. Doesn't mean I can't stand idiots that try to shut down debate. They represent a messed up form of liberalism and I'm a socialist. It tarnishes the cause of workers rights and batting income inequality.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 07:14 AM
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I don't think you come across as secure. You're obviously effective. In society there is an expectation to pay first and most attractive girls do have many options willing to throw the boat out. If you don't, you might not even get in the door. However, you still felt the need to buy a 5 star hotel. That suggests you deep down believe if you didn't, she may not be interested. There is no problem treating a girl well that has shown willingness to pay, however, diving into that, you create the imp…
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:30 PM
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She's an unpaid intern probably relying on parents. She probably has very little cash. The fact she tried to pay for cinema shows she wants to but has little means to pay for it. You chose the hotel for sex, that's on you. She chose not to order drinks as she's probably struggling to keep up but doesn't want to feel embarrassed. If they have an income and don't bother, that's a problem. When they don't it doesn't give an indication on mindset. I think the pizza is a bit of a red herring. After s…
/r/seduction23/07/17 01:29 PM
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You misunderstand my point so I'll complete it. 228 mil white folk, 38 mil black folk. 6 times as many white folk so would expect 6 times as many suicides. So it's 50% more than it should be. Absolute numbers are misleading.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 07:51 PM
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These are absolute numbers. 10 times more white guy suicides because I assume there are 10 times more white guys. Let's not misuse statistics.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 06:31 PM
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Headphones on. When she asks, say you'll be there in 5 mins. Don't. Be vague in help and suggest googling the following. Say you'll happily review code. Act surprised and say "oh, you haven't looked into this?". The constant asking for help is going to get stressful for get. Remind her you have your own work to do and will help if she puts the time into it too but can't do her job for her. Be polite but firm. Look helpful but don't be. It makes life uncomfortable. If she's no good she won't succ…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:56 PM
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It is. What you are looking for is egalitarianism. Feminism doesn't care about male suicide rate or parental rights. Egalitarianism does. It also cares about female pay etc. It's all about equality.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/17 11:59 AM
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You need to privide the research. If 30 is the failure rate but 33% us the average, it's hardly significant. If however 50% is success then that's massive. This is also very simplistic. Women with less women partners will stick in poorer relationships. If for example girl did no sex before marriage due to strong cultural background, but got beaten up every day but stuck around, that's not a positive story. If you assume staying in a crappy relationship is a positive, that's not much in line with…
/r/askMRP19/02/17 05:26 PM
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Either she likes you or she doesn't. The uncertainty is affecting you. It could go either way. Make a move. If she's into it, good start, if not chances are it is a write off. Accept the answer, she's not that into you. If you do succeed, keep it in that lines, don't allow it to go back to friendship. Be clear you don't want to be friends and you don't want to be fwb if you have to talk about it. If you're cutting her out, be honest. At least she'll know and can make her choice from it. She did …
/r/ExRedPill18/02/17 04:41 PM
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Don't look back. Look forward. What you have lost its gone. You have a place to live and an education. Get a job. Stop bleeding cash and focus on what you want to be or what is the best path to keep your options open to find yourself in the ideal destination. No one gets rich gambling. The house always wins. Maybe one or two do but for everyone of those, there is hundreds of guys like yourself that blow everything. The ones that succeed know when you say no and walk away. You don't have that con…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:28 PM
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For me it was to stop accepting this feedback as valid. If you accept it's true, you feel upset and the need to defend it. Secondly, what they say should be mentally prefixed with "I feel right now that". This is cliched here but when you start to see how often women contradict themselves you realise it's just intense feelings and spewing thoughts. For example, some days I'm a great partner, other times I'm terrible. I can't be both. It's just she interprets me that way at different times. I've …
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:13 PM
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Don't bother. Not worth it. I separated and went RP. I ended up progressing and she tried and tried and tried to rebuild and renegotiate on my terms. By that time, I was mentally checked out and she was too hurt by it all. Any false hope and lack of follow through is going to result in insecurity and then resentment and that isn't a good situation with children. Decide, do you want an amicable separation with good access to kids or do you want some second rate pussy that you used to have but isn…
/r/askMRP08/02/17 09:24 AM
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He could deflect, argue or rationalise. It'll kill the conversion perfectly. She'll pretend it's cool while it secretly destroys her inside. She'll catch him again and it'll get worst. Before you know it marriage will be a smouldering block of resentment and he'll be beta'd back in seconds with a shitty relationship. This isn't about frame, this is about comfort. Have you read the materials I've shared or successfully transitioned a relationship?
/r/askMRP30/01/17 02:53 PM
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In this case and from experience, go beta. Reason. Porn to some women is like cheating. They like to think you see them as a goddess. Like men live off respect, women live off desire. If they even consider you don't get off on only them, it can break them. I had this same issue in my relationship about 4 years ago. I didn't comprehend it at the time, but the desired response is like one to the worlds biggest comfort test. DEER will not work. Ignoring leads to resentment. Own this. You lied, you …
/r/askMRP29/01/17 10:34 PM
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He wouldn't have chosen you if you weren't. Guys like a low n-count for a girl. If you're uncomfortable with him telling you stories about his ex's. Tell him it doesn't make you feel good to hear it and you don't want to hear it. As a guy, I've accidentally done the same thing. Didn't realise how it would affect her. He's slept with others because others found him attractive. Guys with low n-count may not be attractive to yourself or others. There is a fine line between experience and impersonal…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 10:35 AM
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Agree with both of these. I'm a divorced male and this happened to me. The feelings doesn't go away and you do coast. You have to learn for yourself. Females sometimes want to settle down younger than guys so equal ages is actually a tricky one. Older guy, younger woman is so prevalent because the female desires strength and the same family feelings. They happen later for a guy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 11:45 AM
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Maybe your CV is crap. Work smarter, not harder. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. Ask your friends how they did it, what they focused on. Build your network. Don't have too much pride to see if their companies are hiring. Companies often trust recommendations more than a blind CV so will give it more weight. If you're better, you'll excel. Don't complain, own this. Blaming it on luck is stupidity. Things happen because you make them happen. The real answer is you…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 11:30 AM
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How is it embarrassing? Your friends won't be embarrassed by your wives behaviour. You're embarrassed by the lack of respect shown by both your wife and friends. You need to set boundaries. You used to be a cuck and you haven't recovered from that. Take down the site. Stop taking the pictures. Delete them from shared devices so she doesn't share them. You're pedestalising your wife. The desire for her is opium and lifting her SMV far above yours. If your friends don't respect you around your wif…
/r/askMRP14/01/17 06:44 PM
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Agreed. Reward good behaviour or you won't get a follow up. She's looking for leadership and guidance. You'll not be perfectly red pill straight away. You can go with what you think is best and learn. Sounds like you're doing a good job so far and aren't anywhere near chaos.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 02:20 AM
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Read r/NoFap i think you're bloke has pornography addiction issues. It will potentially kill your relationship and any others he may have in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 10:48 PM
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You sure he hasn't got pornography addiction. Can give misleading and unrealistic expectations of the human body. If he's not happy with it, consider the problem is his, not yours. If he don't like it, don't give him it ;).
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 10:44 PM
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Quit the porn. Your mind is wanky. Check out NoFap. After that, you'll find your motivation return.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:30 PM
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I wouldn't bother. Only key points for me are highest suicide rate amongst males. Feminism is sexist and egalitarianism isn't.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:49 PM
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The fact you don't value yourself to believe that even if your fucking these girls, they're going after other guys screams self doubt. If you believe you're great, and know you're the best option for them, and they know it, why are you worried? Chances sew they're trying to stimulate a response. Playing dread game on you!
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:47 PM
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Read no more Mr nice guy. You're still approval seeking. Care too much about what she thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/16 08:38 PM
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Not at all. She's saying he's not nice for this. He is saying he is nice. He's giving reasons that fit into his frame. The point of it is control. He defends against being controlled but goes above and beyond on his own terms. Doing it as a choice, not because coerced. It still has the same effect, the woman knows she doesn't control you, even in social situations.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 10:38 AM
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You are ignoring messages that are trying to get a point to you. You claim the child is like your own. She walked away from you, stole the child and didn't care about the effects it would have on the child. It is only your child when it suits her. You could build a life with her and at any choice moment she could easily walk away. It's summer holidays and you're a great childcare option. After summer this could very well dismantle. What has she done to earn your trust and faith again apart from …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 02:32 PM
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You're probably better placed in the reddit for NoFap...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 02:01 PM
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You're getting wound up by her behaviour and antics. As the oldest teenager in the house, you shouldn't allow her frame to have so much impact on you. You later proceed to wind her up like winning matters. You desperately want her to admit she's wrong or antagonise. Which no leader does. You know you're right, yet you're looking for validation or to lash out as you're butthurt. Her behaviour is unacceptable and you letting her know she's pressing your buttons is good to galvanise her stance. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 01:17 PM
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You're reading too much into it. Believing her spin and falling into her frame. Work on yourself and what you want. Make yourself great and either she'll want it or others will. Who cares what her end game is. Think what you want and get it. If it's her, you need another mission. Your priority is the kids and you. She comes last.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 07:06 PM
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You got a reference for this? I'm seriously considering this...
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 11:09 AM
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The fact she says an orbiter is good looking but doesn't escalate is probably a pop or challenge at you. Why else would she tell you? Either she's cold and callous and she doesn't respect you or sura telling you to stop being a pussy, escalate and dominate her (I'm not saying break the law, but post escalation pick her up and don't be a softie). If it fails, move on.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:23 AM
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Almost agree with most of what you say here. Great philosophical point. Marriage vows I think are intended. You can't absolve men of responsibility. They were likely too beta and dried their woman up and she was repulsed by him. It's honest to divorce. Dishonest to live in repulsed misery.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 12:47 PM
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