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I was an early member of the redpill, but if this place turns into a racist cesspool, I'm out. I am no longer subscribed. Scapegoating a group and blaming something on "the other" is beta, in my book.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:19 AM
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If you hit anybody, man or woman, don't be surprised if they turn around and go apeshit on you.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 05:55 AM
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I've never heard of the second type. Can you provide a link to an example?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:07 AM
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I'm in my early forties. I was trying to organize a date with a 41 yo. My first suggestion of restaurant was 'too noisy', my second was fine (she just wanted me to keep going until I picked the one she wanted), but then she kept texting me about what my favorite dishes were, blah, blah, blah. She kept giving me the runaround and couldn't make definitive plans to meet. I texted her back and said that it was just too hard to coordinate with her and that I didn't think we were a match. It flipped a…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:33 AM
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Bachelor Pad Economics. Worth the minimal cost to get. It as an absolutely red pill way to look after your finances. Discusses the recommended case of not getting married, but also discusses how to handle your finances if you decide to do so. I read it and highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:15 AM
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My dad was alpha. He also drank and was a major narcissist. Because of him, I never drank. When I read No More Mr. Nice Guy, it said (paraphrasing) "You don't drink because your dad did and you want to be nothing like him." Like you, peering into my soul.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 09:31 PM
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This guy deserves to be in jail. I could understand if Jay-Z clocked Beyonce's sister. But this is just a sociopath who punched his girlfriend and showed little to know empathy afterwards. What does it mean to be redpill and alpha? Is it to be a sociopath with no idea of right and wrong? Not for me it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:40 AM
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Thank you for sharing that. Sometimes you have to make a decision about how you choose what perspective to take. You framed a perspective that works for you and you engaged the world to make that a reality.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 02:49 AM
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In my experience, there is that one tall guy/doctor in the room that every girl wants to get with. You are merely a distraction until it comes time to talk to him. Do you think that's true? For me, that's why I avoid speed dating.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 12:14 AM
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When you don't feel worthy, it makes it seem ok for others to disrespect you. You feel like you can't be angry at the person because you want find other friends that will treat you with respect. I have been where you have and I was disrespected until I got to the point where I said I'm walking away - and I was ready to. Only then, when another person can see that you are willing to walk, will they get the message that they're losing something valuable. Also, if they don't change, and you do leav…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 01:23 AM
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I'm an Indian guy and I've met this girl a hundred times. I think this article can be read without regard to her race. From what I hear in this and related subs, her attitude is standard. It's amazing how every single Indian guy she's met, not one single guy can meet her standards. It's like seeing The Joy Luck Club again: all the Chinese guys are geeks or assholes, but the white guys have halos around them. And I think that's the subtext behind everything she wrote. She really wants to be with …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 02:09 PM
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Dalrock: Thoughts from a happily married father on a post feminist world.
/r/MensRights25/04/13 05:36 PM
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You may also want to ask in /r/divorce. Good luck.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 12:58 AM
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I heard this on a tv show when I was a kid: A holocaust survivor was taking to an anti-semite and said, "The truth is softly spoken and lies are shouted about." Kudos to the doctor for speaking softly. He will never be able to convince the host, but maybe his true audience are those open-minded enough to hear what he has to say.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 11:42 PM
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Let's see what her sentence is. If she gets a light sentence, when a man would get the electric chair, then yes, it could be a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 06:41 PM
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My favorite line: "Young men need jobs so they can pay child support and contribute more meaningfully to the households they are living in." I think the second part was added as an afterthought. These are single mothers; we're assuming the dads aren't allowed in the household, so the only meaningful contribution allowed is monetary.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 06:37 PM
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I thought, when reading this, that it sounds just exactly like western culture; the world I live in. For example, it talks about the woman who has children from three different fathers, and a career as well. How exactly is their world different from say like, Cincinnati?
/r/MensRights21/01/12 03:29 PM
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All of the claims that Kobe cheating on his wife other than the one time he got caught is only backed up by the innuendo of other basketball player's wives. Even the author writes that these girls may have an incentive to stab each other in the back.
/r/MensRights01/01/12 05:24 PM
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It's not ok either way. Civility goes in both directions.
/r/MensRights18/12/11 03:19 PM
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It makes me think about a phrase I've heard recently, maybe I heard it first on dalrock's blog: the "feral woman". Men have not changed for a long time, in my opinion. If a man acts like an asshole, he has stories he can look to in order to anticipate what could happen to him if he continues to act that way: He's going to get his ass kicked in. Women? They can act in any manner they want and the sisterhood will step up to defend them. But maybe then only up to a point. Maybe some women will, eve…
/r/MensRights07/12/11 01:42 AM
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Rixstep link with subtitles There are seven parts to this series. Make a week of it. For each episode you must type in a password. The password's the title of this article in lower case - 'hjernevask' - for all seven episodes. Enjoy.
/r/MensRights03/12/11 03:21 PM
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Read this as well. It's a pdf. I was in a sexless relationship and I believe that the book accurately described my predicament.
/r/MensRights22/11/11 12:23 AM
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It's interesting that they are talking about a men's rights issue on what is a seemingly unrelated topic: economics. It looks like men's rights is becoming more mainstream.
/r/MensRights15/11/11 03:05 AM
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Was there anything about her personality that would have predicted that this is how she would have behaved?
/r/MensRights28/10/11 04:39 AM
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I'm not sure why this is being downvoted. It's what I thought. Women don't want to come out and say they're cheating. Instead, they try to make their guy's life a living hell in the belief that he'll leave. And, for some reason, that rarely works.
/r/MensRights15/10/11 01:36 PM
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Every man must watch this movie.
/r/MensRights13/10/11 12:03 AM
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I do feel a sense of brotherhood when I see other men talk about shared experiences. I know where you're coming from.
/r/MensRights08/10/11 06:17 PM
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I'm a fellow Chicagoan and I would be down for this.
/r/MensRights02/10/11 10:20 PM
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i absolutely loved this book. One of the few books that I can say truly affected and changed my life.
/r/seduction04/08/11 03:46 AM
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There was no single person on the panel that supported her, though she is the rare woman who supports men's rights. The default assumption is that men are just pathological. I hope her opinions become more mainstream and won't be shouted down as false by definition.
/r/MensRights19/06/11 03:57 PM
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I know this is silly, but I want the girl from "It's a Wonderful Life". I think that was the ideal that most women aspired to be when I was growing up. And, that was the model of who I wanted to be married to: A loving wife, a concerned mother, a person you can lean on, someone that supports your dreams and aspirations, even when the road got tough. I can't even remember the last time I met a kind, feminine woman.
/r/MensRights17/06/11 12:02 AM
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I would like to hear a woman's opinion on this. For me, listening to these guys is sickening. But, I have to admit, I used to be one of them. Do women respect men who talk like this? Or are they just laughing at them. Or are some smirking to themselves that feminist mind games have made these guys so easily manipulated. Quote from video: "I also have a growing awareness of a dimension beyond all dualities ... free." Sounds like Deepak Chopra nonsensical crap talk. I'm going to go outside now and…
/r/MensRights07/04/11 04:35 AM
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I think what I wrote may have been misinterpreted and I want to clarify my train of thought. I am not trying to disparage Sweden. Sweden is arguably a lot less pathological than the U.S. in a lot of ways. My initial belief - and I may be wrong here - is that Sweden is about a generation ahead of us in terms of the presence and effects of feminism. So, when you say that you don't see much change happening from the time you were young to now, that's almost certainly true: feminisms been around lon…
/r/MensRights25/03/11 02:58 AM
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Like I said, I googled quickly: I typed in Sweden divorce rate. First link is from 2007. The first link from your search is from 2004. It also shows the latest countries available, not every country - which is why Sweden isn't on the list.
/r/MensRights25/03/11 02:50 AM
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But doesn't it bother men at all that women would leave them after having their kids to be with someone else? Is it that relationships are so ephemeral, and this kind of thing is kind of expected between people, that it's just no big deal. That's really what I'm trying to answer. Are we in America (what I meant by the West, my apologies) clinging to an outdated model of relationships. And is Sweden the new model we will develop into? I guess I just want to be prepared.
/r/MensRights24/03/11 06:02 PM
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I think what you say makes a ton of sense. I think its called assortative mating where men and women choose themselves for 'value'; like matching with like. The problem I see is that only alphas get chosen and many, many men become the losers like the guy in the article with low skills and a gambling addiction. Now, men have two choices: they can either earn more money to attract a higher quality mate, (or get game I guess) or they can just opt out and go their own way. Which I think many of us …
/r/MensRights24/03/11 05:46 PM
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I don't get it. I just googled Sweden and it has the highest divorce rate in the world. Do Swedish guys suffer the same way that men in the west do after a divorce? They don't see their kids; they lose their house, and the have to pay alimony. You're saying that guys over there think that's just no big deal. Or are they wising up and never getting married in the first place, so the only effect is that they never see their kids?
/r/MensRights24/03/11 05:38 PM
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I'd love to hear from a Swedish guy all of the different ways men have changed in response to feminism. I'd like to know how things will be like for me in the West soon.
/r/MensRights23/03/11 09:40 PM
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Was - past tense. You should read the rest of the story to see why he had to stop being that way and what he is planning to do about his problem. More man than most of us. More than just talk at least.
/r/MensRights16/03/11 03:02 AM
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Did any of you actually listen to this? She agrees with most everything people say on this subreddit.
/r/MensRights14/03/11 04:52 PM
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worker bees can leave even drones can fly away the queen is their slave -- Fight Club
/r/MensRights24/02/11 02:18 AM
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Naomi Wolf right now defending Julian Assange.
/r/MensRights08/01/11 11:35 PM
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Loved him. But every time I mention him, I get downvoted. His website says he's coming back on air in April of 2012. Here's a link to his old podcasts
/r/MensRights19/12/10 06:39 PM
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This was an extraordinary article where the author, though she doesn't like what the pickup artists say about the way women are wired to behave, ultimately accepts that it's true. At the same time she has great sensitivity to the plight of most men.
/r/MensRights25/03/10 03:43 PM
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This is not your kid. Get a paternity test.
/r/MensRights15/03/10 02:29 PM
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