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Yes as someone who dated older and younger, older women know what they want, play less games, more to the point, which I prefer actually
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:13 AM
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It's not about loving rejection, it's about overcoming your unrealistic fear of rejection, instead of seeing rejection as an attack to your self worth see it as getting an definitive answer and not having to waste time on a woman/man who doesn't like you when you could be spending time with someone who likes you instead, not everyone you like is going to like you back but at the same time there are plenty of people out there to be getting tunneled vision over one person, understand abundance and…
/r/seduction02/04/22 10:27 AM
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Damn you really digged dip stalking my profile lol, kinda sus, anyways to answer your question that was me trying to develop more as a well rounded trainer. I was good with free weights but struggled with a different kind of strength system in bodyweight workouts, part of bettering yourself is recognizing your flaws, being self confident enough to ask others for advice and working on it, this what I preach to my clients too, hope you learn something from it my friend
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:46 PM
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What about ripping your top off at the bench or boat? I'm not trying to pick any sides here I'm just saying being in a low body fat percentage makes you look better aesthetically speaking
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:34 PM
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For the purpose of looking good naked, it does matter buddy
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:01 PM
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Was chilling at a bar with my boys while next to us there were these two chicks dancing and making out with each other, I pointed them out to my friends and they go "why don't you get in there bud" so I did, as I walked over they stopped making out and one walked away to get drinks leaving her friend all alone, so I walked up and introduced myself, and frankly I don't remember what I said, but I guess she was still kinda hot from making out with the other chick cause we ended up sucking face in …
/r/seduction07/09/20 04:23 PM
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Ok 2 girl one cup guy
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:12 AM
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"no matter how hot she is, just imagine her taking a shit"
/r/seduction31/08/20 06:48 PM
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Lmao that's hysterical. Can I get a link to the actual thread? Curious to see the comments there
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 05:17 PM
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I literally just lay flat on my bed facing up, arms to the side (without the pillows, you want to keep you body line straight) set a timer for 10 minutes close my eyes and just focus on the sensations my body is feeling, mainly my breath. Whenever I notice my mind starting to wander, I notice it and bring my attention back to my breath. It's really all about practicing mindfulness and being present in the moment. How you do it is up to you really.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:22 PM
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Exactly lol some people you gotta literally spell it out for them smh
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 05:30 PM
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Man great story with some lessons in it, well worth the read. You handled those lmr like a boss. Read her actions not her words, when encountered with lmr you agreed and continued and didn't stop unless she would've physically stopped you but she practically opened her car door for you lol. I'm not even sure I would've pushed the way you did when she closed the door at the apartment so definitely a learning moment for me there. Good shit
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 05:28 PM
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It helps. Stop making excuses for yourself and get in shape. If not for girls do it for yourself.
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:07 PM
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Dude stop comparing yourself with others. The only person you should ever compare yourself with is your past self
/r/askTRP05/08/20 06:47 PM
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Same scenario as you op except prolly even less time cause instead of a club it was a college Halloween house party in my own house lol, invite this chick to the dance floor started making out in a minute, I had a bottle of Andre asked if she wanted to go downstairs to my room and help me finish the bottle and just like that I was in. From meeting her in the main dance area to my bedroom in prolly 5 minutes haha. Friend of mine described it to me the next morning saying "I saw you sucking face o…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:27 PM
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Fuckkk this is what you been doing wrong dude. Jerking to porn is some fucked up beta shit I agree with you, jerking yourself to a dude fucking a chick that you rather be the one banging? Fuck that shit alright. But masterbation without porn is totally fine dude, use your imagination, use your memory whatever. In moderation it can be healthy for you, just take care not to fall of the deep end and start jerking it multiple times a day, that'd be bad for you. Keep it once a week, twice at most. Be…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:22 PM
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I've done the nofap thing I had a streak of 92 days and honestly the effects of nofap only applies to people that are vigorously masterbating multiple times a day. If you're not jerking off to a point where you're emotionally dependent on it and have no control over it like a fucking addict then you're fine. There's literally no difference between when I was on the nofap life and my life now where I'm jerking off every other week. Nofap isn't a magical answer to life and happiness, you can do no…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:48 AM
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You are coming off as an incel right now with your desperation and your "I can't get laid but I also don't want to jerk off" altitude. Stfu stop crying go lift weights go focus on yourself and go jerk off. Ffs yes porn is bad don't watch that shit but everyone jerks off it's not a big deal if you're not doing it excessively, I jerk off every other week and I can still deadlift 500 squat 405 and bench 315 stop making excuses for yourself "oh if I jerk off I'll lose my gainz" do you know how ridic…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:21 AM
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That's what happens when reddit bans incel subs they just flood over here and give this sub a bad rep smh
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 02:28 AM
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You're being downvoted but you're absolutely right. Women come and go, your dreams and goals should be what you focus on in life and if your dreams and goals are just banging chicks you should reevaluate your life
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 06:31 PM
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Yeah I know about LMR but it's just that it's always the "I'm on my period" excuse, never anything else. Like just say no or something lol why lie about it. Always yes I use condoms. Most of the time
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:02 PM
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I work part time as a resident DJ at a college bar and meet most my women there, recently had to resort to tinder because of bars being closed from covid and I can tell you the quality and quantity of women I get off tinder are NOTHING compared to meeting them IRL. Like 3-4 times worst
/r/seduction02/06/20 09:23 PM
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Haha that was more of an expression lol, she was alright.
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:09 AM
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Idk how you came to that conclusion but it was actually the opposite, she was a decent kisser but terrible dancer haha. To me when it comes to girls at clubs, being good at dancing is important because usually it translate to being good at sex in my experience lol, I've took home girls that just put no effort in moving their hips or doing anything when we dance and they were terrible in bed and I've took home girls that are wild on the dance floor and make you feel all kinds of things with how t…
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:40 AM
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Lol it's funny how things can be left to interpretation. The first time I thought they were together, so I walked away, the second time I got a chance to speak to her and found out they weren't together, so it's free game. I didn't stop to think about what kind of drama and lies it could've been, I just took the facts given to me at that moment and took my opportunities, the fact was that she says he's her friend so I stayed and hooked up with her, I would've done the same even if the guy was th…
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:07 AM
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Lmaoooo
/r/seduction04/01/20 05:07 PM
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I could tell that he really wanted to get violent with me but didn't, probably cause he was like half my size haha (going to the gym and lifting pays off). As for that red flag you pointed out, if I had to guess, the girl probably hangs out with him because she likes the attention and validation the guy showers her with, but didn't realize how possessive he could get, to a point where it's stopping her from meeting and talking to guys she wants, if she still keeps him around as a friend after la…
/r/seduction04/01/20 05:05 PM
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We are all men, we should never be using violence and fighting each other over a girl. It's not worth it. And yeah I did feel like I was being disrespectful to this guy to some extent but at the same time this guy gotta learn. I was also once a helpless dude stuck in the friendzone, feeling disrespected by other guys that the girl I liked was hooking up with, in the end that experience showed me the way and I cannot be thankful enough, and I hope in the end this guy experiences the same
/r/seduction04/01/20 04:08 PM
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Ok I stopped reading after the second paragraph cause u just make no sense. "He was free to do what ever he wanted and made a deliberate choice" that "deliberate choice" was the change, don't you get it? The guy used to choose to do A before he met the girl, and now because of the girl he "deliberately" chooses B. Going from doing A to doing B is the change, rewording it to "made a deliberate choice" doesn't make it different. Get outta here with your feel good pseudo philosophy, it doesn't appl…
/r/seduction17/12/19 01:14 PM
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That's cause a lot of people lurking in this sub never talked to real women before lol
/r/seduction17/12/19 01:04 PM
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Bro what?? If you have never experienced a toxic relationship yourself do you at least known friends who got whipped and changed as a person after finding a girlfriend? The guy that used to always go out for drinks with the boys and lifts everyday who now stays home and watches romcom with his girl cause she turned him into a bitch. Doesn't lift anymore cause he's girl told him she rather him be fat and unfit cause she doesn't want to be threaten. Then as soon as he becomes a fat, soft, pussy he…
/r/seduction17/12/19 12:47 PM
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Damn that dude got real. Social media is a real problem. Depression, anxiety, suicide rates are at an all time high. This is not just some statistic I read off a website but true interpersonal experience that has opened my eyes. A lot of people I know, girls mostly are suffering from some sort of mental health issue and it's mostly because of people comparing themselves to other glamorous profile they see on Instagram and Facebook and feeling like they're never enough. I had a friend of mine tha…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:25 PM
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I don't understand why you guys get so insecure when your girls be acting like this. Insecurity and neediness is a huge turnoff and girls can smell insecurities like shark smelling blood in the water. Just stop being a little bitch and let your girl do what she wants. You locked her down cause she's a hoe in the first place right? Now that you locked her down don't be stopping her from being a hoe, that's the whole reason you like her in the first place. As the great Patrice O'Neal once said "wh…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:03 AM
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Ah fuck this makes perfect sense. I used to think about it the opposite way cause I once heard the saying that men get turned on like a switch, men will see what they want and instantly know if they're dtf but women get turned on like a knob, you have to slowly crank that shit up. So the way I applied it was = the more you kiss them, do kino, the earlier and longer, the more chance they'll come home with u. Guess I was completely wrong with that aha. Great advice tho, the whole women and validat…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:13 PM
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Yep I'm in the 18-25 range lol. So u telling me it gets easier after 25??
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:49 AM
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Also this ^ stop with the whole get together in a group thing. Are you planning on having your group of friends there watching you when you fuck her? No. So stop suggesting you'd get together in a group and just get straight to the point, say u want to do the hot tub thing just you and her no one else. Also with the grow some balls or she's gonna friend zone you, this is 100% true and this ties in with what I was saying about how she won't give you a fourth chance and the whole fear of rejection…
/r/seduction09/06/19 05:59 PM
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Look man you gotta find your balls and just go for it cause she ain't gonna give u a fourth chance. Overcoming the fear of rejection is understanding her opinion of you doesn't define who you really are. A girl rejecting you doesn't make you less of a man, know your own worth and you'll be free of the fear of rejection. Another reason is because you put the girl on the pedestal, u have to understand there's ~3.5 billion girls out there, chances are there are girls as beautiful and funny and char…
/r/seduction09/06/19 05:41 PM
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This actually made me watch a few episodes of that season and my God that man is a fucking legend. He keeps everything real and calls everyone else out on their blue pill/nice guy mindset and behavior and gets all the betas triggered and takes up all their headspace. It's absolutely hilarious and also great RP learning material. He only got eliminated too cause all the other guys hated him and it was causing problems so it kinda forced the chicks hands but you could tell the girl was into him th…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:18 PM
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Jesus.. the things people do when they have onetits. What's funny is that in my experience no women I've ever met is 100% lesbian and impossible to win over. Just last weekend I was at a bar where this girl was grinding and making out with two other girls, I asked around and the bartenders tell me that she's always making out with girls every weekend. I walk up to her and I went from "hi what's your name?" To fully making out in less than a minute. You don't have to marry a lesbian to get her to…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 07:46 PM
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This! Getting rejected by my oneitis in high school (while at the time seemed like the wrost thing that ever happened in my life) turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. Immediately after the rejection I found out her best friend had a crush on me and I never realized how attractive she was until I got over my oneitis, I hooked up for the first time ever a few weeks later. Since then it's been a journey of self improvement, I started lifting, reading, meeting new people, and no…
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:45 PM
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Also this. The behavior of the guy is not a reflection of YOU. THEY DON'T KNOW YOU. That person was acting that way because of his own ignorance. Like u/RogerNorvell said, if a 9 year old kid came up to you and said "hey stupid idiot, go get a haircut you ugly", are you gonna fight and beat that kid up? Ignorance has no age limit, if a grown man says the same thing, you should think "oh poor guy, the guy is having a troubled day or a bad life, I'mma let him live on with that" but to let that per…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:09 PM
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This. In any kind of tense situation, no matter if you're trash talking or already in a street fight, distance management is key, you never wanna stand within arms length in front of your opponent, it is very easy for them to land a quick and damaging shot that can put you in an instant disadvantage, you either keep out of arms length so when they attack you they have to step forward into your space and that would give you a chance to react, or you close the distance all the way up when you're b…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:19 AM
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This! My friend still suffers from putting girls on the pedestal so every time we're out in bars or clubs and he tells me "man that girl over there is stunning 10/10" I'd simply say "yeah? Now imagine her having explosive diarrhea, odds are it's happened to her some point in her life"
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:19 PM
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r/nofap
/r/askTRP07/04/18 03:19 AM
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Failure breeds success my dude, don't be afraid to fail. This experience might be embarrassing to look back on but because of it you're stronger and wiser as a man than you were before. Everyone here has failed at some point in their lives in a similar fashion, treat it as a blessing, because now you have the experience to know what not to do when you find yourself in that situation again.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:24 PM
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It's a confusing aspect to be desire-less yet having to show interest. But basically, your mindset should be "you WANT her, but at the same time you don't NEED her." You are a man and you're not afraid to embrace your sexuality and show girls you desire that you want to fuck their brains out, but at the same time you live in such abundance that you can walk away from her at a moment's notice. She has to be the one to chase you and make sure you don't leave, not the other way around, this is the …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:12 PM
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You know how they say body language takes up 55% of communication? Well in clubs body language takes up like 99% of communication. I love gaming in clubs because most of the time I can make out with girls without saying a word. All you gotta do is dance and have fun, when you see a girl approach your proximity try and see if you can make eye contact with her, you can almost always tell if a girl is down just by her eyes. If she holds eye contact with you for more then a few seconds you're golden…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:35 AM
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Always. Assume. Attraction.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 07:23 AM
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"How else am I so supposed to imply I'm interested?" Deep eye contact. Kino escalation. Communicate interest with action, not words my dude. In the end, people won't remember what you've said, but how you've made them feel.
/r/seduction07/01/18 10:48 AM
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This is spot on! I've bartend a lot of frat parties and seen this happening all the time. Drunk girls are always down to have some fun making out on the dance floor, but at the end of the party they break off before you can blink and run back home with their friends and leave you standing there wondering what happened. Happened to me more times I can count, in my experience I've only pulled on nights like these when I've previously pregamed with the girl and have built rapport during the pregame…
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:37 PM
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You're not going to get noticed if all you think about is getting your dick wet.. Have fun, dance and let loose
/r/seduction12/08/17 02:30 PM
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"Time you enjoyed spending is not time wasted", unlike you there are people out there that likes to read. I get where you're coming from that we should focus more on doing rather than being bogged down by reading materials, and I agree, but it doesn't hurt to read a few self-improvement books here and there every once and a while. There was a study done that we are an average of the 5 people we spend the most time with, meaning we are usually like the people we're closet to. Successful people ar…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:41 AM
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Your body is never "restricted to a certain mass to muscle ratio". Anyone can bulk up as long as they're putting the effort to be constantly eating above their TDEE and lifting on a consistent program. I for example have been eating a target of 3000 cal a day and lifting 5 days a week split between Chest/Shoulders/Legs/Arms/Back, I leave one day for rest and the other for cardio which is usually swimming or basketball. Is it a hassle? At the beginning yes, it can be difficult to find time, it ca…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 06:12 AM
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"At the end of the day people won't remember what you've said or done, but how you've made them feel" This one quote changed my mindset of talking to people, it doesn't matter what you say to them it's how you say it, bring positive emotions to your conversations and people will like you automatically
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:07 AM
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Reading this right now! this seems to perfectly summarize the first few chapters
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:32 AM
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Bruh, the last Mr Universe or something was Indian, stop obsessing over race and limiting yourself with this mindset, accept and embrace yourself for who you are. You're not going to get girls to like you if you can't even like yourself
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:39 AM
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Hey man that's a great first step! By putting yourself out there you've done much better than some loser who's too afraid to go out and stays home jerking himself off. I should add, never go out trying to get laid or make out with girls, go out to have fun first, clubs are the only place where nobody gives a fuck and you can do whatever you want so stop giving a fuck and just let go, getting laid is just a side bonus if it happens it happens if it doesn't then at least you had fun, that's called…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:40 AM
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Solid A+ advice brother! Especially with getting contacts in clubs.. I will be sure to do this in the future and not make the same mistake thanks
/r/askTRP12/07/17 04:54 AM
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Ok in my defense on not being able to recognize her, I was living in an Asian city, my tinder match was Asian, and I was in a club full of Asians, and I'm not trying to be racist (can't be racist against my own race can I?) but they all look the same. And regarding my mistake on not getting her number.. I don't exactly know how to get her number when in a loud club unless I can pull her to some place where we can at least hear each other, and if it is my tinder girl asking for her number again w…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:53 AM
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"All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not." Tyler Durden is probably the most alpha character in cinematic history.. annnd i've broken rule no.1 goddamnit
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:16 AM
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I had a crush on this girl in throughout my high school life, I'd talk to her two best friends but I couldn't give two fucks about them while I was hopelessly chasing this girl who put me deep in the friend-zone, senior year I finally made a move and she freaked and rejected me, so I said to myself "fuck that, not gonna be a beta to this girl no more" turns out her two best friends were attracted to me the whole time just for the fact that I don't give them the same amount of attention I gave to…
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:48 AM
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trump voice "all these white dudes coming over.. they steal our girls, they're rapist.. they're criminals.. we gotta build a wall.."
/r/seduction17/06/17 09:16 AM
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"I'm not only above average looking, I'm very exotic where I live." I'm guessing you're a white dude in Asia?
/r/seduction17/06/17 09:03 AM
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"Hey, I haven't met you yet, what's your name?" shows that you're a social guy that knows people in the venue and wants to get to know the person you're approaching
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:13 AM
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Not a veteran myself but I've been watching a lot of RSD infield videos, one of my favorite ones especially when dealing with a girl with her bitch-shield up is "you seem like an easy target, a low hanging fruit" or "you're just too nice!". No confident girl wants to be called too easy or too nice cause they take pride on being on the pedestal and out of people's league, she's so use to guys trying to qualify themselves to her and when you say that you become that intriguing/different guy that c…
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:47 AM
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Haven't checked it yet cause I'm at work aha
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:06 AM
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Well.. Maybe it's cause he didn't give a fuck about how the title sounded? :)
/r/seduction13/06/17 01:55 AM
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Been reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson. Good read for anyone who wants to know more about not giving a fuck
/r/seduction13/06/17 01:50 AM
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You might be coming off too strong if you just grab her and not give her a choice, she'll dance with you out of pressure from you but she won't be into it unless she was down in the first place. I see this all the time, some guys even go as bold as to grab the hips from behind and try to start grinding immediately, you accomplish nothing except for scaring her off. Instead, establish eye contact first, dance up to her from the front or side, NEVER from the back unless you want to scare her away,…
/r/askTRP
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Clubs are scams - they create anxiety through loud music, flashy lights, and crowded environment. An average guy will walk in, and be bombarded to his senses, he becomes nervous, uneasy, and clubs will sell you the solution at a high price - alcohol. You pay 20 bucks for a pint of beer and you think you can finally let loose, but after a few minutes of dancing the alcohol is all gone from your system, you repeat the process until your wallet runs dry, then you go home and jerk off to the memory …
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