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You said you have ADHD. Are you on medication? Have you considered talking to a coach/therapist?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 08:09 PM
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How much do you know about electromagnetic waves?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/21 07:57 PM
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You don’t need to be a physicist to have a basic understanding of electricity, lol. This reminds me of ppl thinking 5G towers are leaving them charged. Too much pseudo science and Facebook physicists.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/21 04:02 PM
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Yup,a self aware woman is LTR material
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:30 AM
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A woman can’t give you the sense of fulfillment you’re looking for. Having a purpose can though.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:47 AM
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Change nothing, and nothing changes.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 05:18 AM
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I find loneliness tends to disappear when I keep myself busy working on my life’s purpose. In the 7 habits of highly effective people, it’s called “sharpening the saw” which is your mind.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:17 PM
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Part of being human is our tendency towards negative bias. You only gave us examples of negative things, yet I bet there’s also positive things that you don’t selectively remember. I tend to only want to rate restaurants I have bad experiences in. Why? Because I’m human. Your sisters, friends, YOU, everyone is like this. Go read some reviews on random products on Amazon if you don’t believe me. Be aware of your natural human biases, and act accordingly. I like to pray at every meal and I’m not e…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:31 PM
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Ima go against the grain and say it’s not just her, it’s you. If you’re not leading her well, then you get this kind of situation. Take initiative to help her make change. Lead her. Eat meals together, encourage her to get on a similar sleep schedule as you. Take her to the gym, even if it’s only for a bit a few days a week. For some people, even baby steps are progress. Those baby steps can help her become more confident to keep up the good habits. But you gotta take the initiative to lead the …
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:57 PM
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I have family in Mexico and I’m pretty sure she’s going to want to keep it. Anytime Mexican girls over there see American guys, they just see cha ching signs (Not all but most). It literally will benefit her to keep it because you can’t ghost (she’s semi family). The best way to go about it is to convince her it’s not in her best interest to keep it. Idk how tf you’re gonna do that though
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:54 PM
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Unpopular opinion (for this sub) but it sounds like your wife is depressed or is lacking a sense of purpose. I know y’all agreed to that, but it was a terrible agreement from the start. If I were you, I’d try to encourage her to find a sense of purpose and to challenge herself before you decide to end the relationship. I’m sure (or hope) you married this woman for good reasons. And if you didn’t, idk wtf you’re doing. What I’m saying is, try to support her (emotionally not financially) while at …
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:16 PM
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Where would you hide the cash, in some fireproof safe somewhere? I’d be afraid of having that much cash physically, but this smart
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:05 PM
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Return the perfume, get her something more thoughtful like a book. If she’s a real one, she won’t really care how much you spent or what you got her, it’ll just be the gesture that counts.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/20 04:02 AM
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Because a vehicle is a depreciating asset. With the exception of classic cars, every mile you drive literally decreases the value of the vehicle. Your most powerful wealth building tools are: 1. Your income 2. Appreciating assets. Having a nice vehicle is just a status symbol. I’m speaking purely from an economic perspective. From an emotional perspective, having a motorcycle is probably fun as hell
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 07:12 PM
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I just want to suggest giving the book “Atomic habits” a read. I know you said you want to change as fast as possible, and sure, that’s possible. But it’s not sustainable. If you want to create change that lasts, then we’re talking about the topic of habits. An Olympic athlete doesn’t train by running 100 miles before their event. A boxer doesn’t practice sparing for 12 hours the day before a match. Similarly, you won’t be able to drastically change your life overnight or even in a week. But you…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:06 AM
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The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:33 PM
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“Wyd” “About to shower” “Without me ahaha jk”
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:48 AM
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Sometimes it’s best to retreat the battle to fight the war another day lmao AKA catch her on her own. Set it up to see her in the future in those few moments you have in case the logistics don’t work out. Girls act real different around their friends.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:21 PM
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Social media posts are the positive highlights of peoples lives. No one posts on social media the hard work, grueling hours, dedication, and sacrifice it took to get where they are. They just show the good parts. So why are you looking at it?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:01 PM
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Oh thanks for the info, I never knew that! I’ll have to read the research. Does it happen just about with any SSRI?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:39 PM
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Just curious, why do you recommend to stay away from SSRI’s? I assume it’s like a cheat code to tricking your brain to be happy rather than doing the hard work required to be happy but then again I’ve never taken SSRI’s.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:29 PM
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I highly recommend the book “A Mans Search for Meaning” by Viktor Frankl. Where he speaks on the atrocities of the concentration camps, the death of his family, surviving the most hopeless situation someone could find themselves in, and still having hope through it all. Two quotes resonate with me: “In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds meaning.” “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the last of human freedoms - to choose ones attitude in any given set…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:39 PM
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I think a big part of it is the mindset you have when you talk to your girl about something. If you talk to her with the mindset of trying to get sympathy and being negative about it, then yea. The truth is bad stuff is going to happen to everyone in life and even females understand this. If I tell a girl my hardships, it’s not going to be for sympathy or to make it sound like my life has been hard, or because my life is harder than hers. Instead, it’s because I’ve went through hardships that I …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 01:31 AM
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Totally agree!! When I was deciding my career choice, that was the biggest thing I took into account. I did civil engineering because that is probably the biggest example of working on a project with a definite end result that many people will see, use, and touch years after I’m probably dead. It’s still very much information and technology based, but the end result that can be measured gives a sense of satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:52 PM
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Yea I am because that’s what many men can more easily relate or empathize with. I’ve been suckered out paying too much money for something I could have probably done myself. The concept that you can get shit done on your own is more important than that though. Someone else commented how their 90 year old millionaire grandpa still does stuff himself around the house.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:48 PM
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Right, I mentioned that in my post. Saving money is just a plus, the real take away is the learning experience and the feeling that you have control and are self sufficient about your surroundings. That you can fix stuff around you as it breaks without having to rely on someone else gives you confidence not easily taken away. I’ll be making more than technicians as well but this mindset is above just monetary value.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 08:51 PM
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I thought the same could be said for any habit, even negative ones. Some people get more of a dopamine rush by getting hundreds of likes on an instagram photo. This gives them the same sense of confidence and positive feedback, even though in reality it probably doesn’t mean much. I don’t think a lot of males in todays society even get that sense of pride and confidence you mention by being self reliant. Just like some of my roommates, they prefer to get those feelings via video games, social me…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:52 AM
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Also definitely depends who you work for too. Either way, trades are more lucrative than many useless college degrees now a days. I’m sure there’s many plumbers, electricians, etc that make way more than some useless college major.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:30 AM
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To a certain point, yes. I already mentioned that in the post.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:43 PM
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Jesus Christ I can’t believe the news lady was trying to make him feel guilty for suing his ex wife. His sons will probably fall into similar traps if they’re defending the actions of their mother as if it was okay.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 11:48 PM
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If that’s the case, then what really makes this subreddit differ from seduction and PUA subreddits? The description of the subreddit should be changed. I stay for the self improvement aspect of this subreddit. If it weren’t for that, it’s useless. Read through your post history and damn I had a good laugh hahaha. You’re one of the guys this post was meant for. If you’re that obsessed with laying average dirty bar sluts, just go to a PUA subreddit. This sub is already full of shitty field reports…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 10:07 AM
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100% agree with this and this is the lens that I’ve viewed this subreddit and life in general with.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:31 PM
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I disagree that it’s useless but I agree there’s a lot of shallow and repetitive advice. While a lot of the advice can seem generic, I stay for the specific advice. You should sort by the top posts of all time to get an idea of some of the best things posted on here. ———————————————— Generic advice: Be smart, make money. Specific advice: Here is the Feynman Technique, a tool to help you learn complicated subjects, efficiently and effectively. ———————————————— Generic advice: Be disciplined. Spec…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:02 PM
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This whole post reeks blue pill beta. Betas objectify women. Don’t believe me? Go listen to love songs. Every other love song blames some other dude for “stealing his girl.” This is bullshit. Women aren’t objects to be stolen from other men, they’re humans capable of making their own choices. This is why they should be held accountable for their actions, not seen as something you own. No one stole your girl from you, she left your ass for a more confident man. I speak generally when I say this. …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 04:28 AM
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Don’t fix what isn’t broken. If she’s having sex with you and still wanting to be with you, why would you change your attitude? There’s better guys out there. There always will be. Don’t let it give you anxiety. Fact is, she may leave you at any second for another dude, that’s why we advocate to always have an exit plan. Her being hot and getting attention from guys won’t be enough for her to dump your ass. What will is you behaving like the guys who give her attention, I.E putting her on a pede…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 10:39 PM
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Going back to something mentioned in the sidebar, never get into a LDR. Women are driven by emotions and you can’t really spike those in an LDR. She will almost always follow her emotions in the moment over her logic of the future.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 07:15 PM
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Fuck em, it leaves more women for the ones who’ve swallowed the pill.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 07:08 PM
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Stop reflecting on the past. Learn from it. Your sexual peak isn’t 26-29, your sexual peak is the effort you put in *now***. Men age like fine wine, but only with discipline and effort. I’ve seen guys more attractive in their 40s than dudes in their 20s.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:50 PM
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Your sexual needs don’t matter if you keep comparing the sex you’re having to the sex you could’ve had with your oneitis. Drop the girls, you’re never going to be satisfied with them. Fuck em. Women come and go. Your happiness and freedom matters more. Wack it off (no porn) if you need to. But withdraw and work on yourself with 200% effort. Women will distract you from doing this. You can get them back easily anyways. Why should you deserve a woman as good or better than your ex if you’re not cl…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:46 PM
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Yes, or at least a few ready to go. Most of all, not letting yourself go. In today’s society, it’s not hard to compete with other males. You just have to not be fat and awkward. Have female friends. Hang out with them from time to time (in group settings if you don’t wanna seem like a scumbag). Flirt with them covertly, in their language. I don’t condone cheating in an LTR, but you shouldn’t stop doing the things that attracted your girl to you. This means confidence, playfulness, and most impor…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 03:49 PM
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Agreed. I’d rub it out until dust comes out for good measure.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 11:15 AM
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I ain’t even mad, it leaves more women for those who’ve swallowed the pill. Sometimes, silently applying red pill principles is best. The only guys I feel bad for are guys like OP, although he handled it ok. Many guys have lost jobs, money, and even their lives for the pursuit of a single poonani :(
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 11:09 AM
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First off, kudos to you my dude for coming a long way. You’ve made good progress but still have a long way to go. TRP really applies to all women. Read an earlier comment I replied to about why women will cheat in LTR’s and you’ll see that no dude is safe out. Second thing, I almost guarantee that you’d not feel any different if you’d have fucked your ex. You have this idea that she’s special because you haven’t found better yet. “She’s not your girl, it’s just your turn.” Her investment was how…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 11:01 AM
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Because she disrespected him so badly she wasted an extra 2 years of his life. Any girl that fucks you over that badly does not deserve a single second more of your time. If you have nothing better to do than have revenge sex with your ex, you need to set a better mission for your life. I’d rather take the 5 min to rub one out and do more important things with my day. If you don’t respect yourself, neither will she.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 10:37 AM
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I agree and this is what I was referring to when I mentioned pair bonding.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 10:27 AM
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Any decently attractive girl has a line of guys waiting in her DM’s. This isn’t what’s threatening. What gets the girl is the vibe and emotions shared in person. 90% of communication is literally just body language, tension, and emotions. This is why messages from random guys aren’t bad. But this is also why you should NOT get into a LDR, ever. It’s bad when she’s seeing someone in person. I’ve been in situations where I’ve flirted with girls who’ve had LTR’s of 5+ years (even made out with one)…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 10:18 AM
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They downvoted the hell out of anyone with good advice on there lol, but I actually disagree with you. Revenge sex or guilt blow job, you’d just be disrespecting yourself even more as a man. Abundance mentality, no contact, mind-shift (I’m the prize), and move on.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:34 AM
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Honestly. Sometimes you have to know when it’s time to call it quits and rub one out instead. Side note: Before breaking up with any girl, beat your meat until only dust comes out. That way you’ll be thinking clearly.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:29 AM
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It’s harsh but it’s the truth. I was lucky enough to have a father tell me shit just as harshly, lord knows how I’d be if he didn’t. In this day and age, the way you portray a message is just as important as the message itself. No sugarcoating, no beating around the bush, just cold hard truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:26 AM
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Exactly, which leads back to my main point of the post and his biggest fuckup of all: always have an exit strategy.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:23 AM
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Mind-shift my dude. You’re the prize, not her. If you don’t believe that right now, you better start working on yourself until you do. Read red pill books, hit the gym, diet, hang out with good male role models, set small incremental goals, crush them, and set them again. Don’t try dating until you get that mind shift change, otherwise you’ll come across as needy and desperate. Hang in there my guy, and remember that indifference is more powerful than love or hate.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:22 AM
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readslike a beta book Like some sort of high school first love romance movie that feminist society wants you to conform to.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:03 AM
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Homeboy saw it coming 2 years ago, he just rationalized it away. He knew it was over a long time ago, just needed the confirmation. Glad he took it ok, I wouldn’t have if she wasted another 2 years of my life.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:02 AM
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No contact as soon as he found out she fucked Chad. Blocked on everything. Act like she died. He shouldn’t have given her closure, just like she didn’t give him sex. Revenge sex is another way to disrespect yourself because you’d be getting Chad’s sloppy seconds and you’re letting her walk over you. The mind-shift needs to change from her being the prize, to him being the prize.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 09:00 AM
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This post serves to show that the female lizard brain is wired to think that way, regardless of what special circumstances you think make your girl different. I was guilty in thinking virgin LTR’s were different. Virgin LTR, mother of your kids, or 10 year relationship. It simply doesn’t matter, these principals apply to any and all.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 05:35 AM
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If you have to (some people do for cultural/religious reasons), make her sign a prenuptial agreement.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 04:47 AM
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I love cooking as well. When I’m on my phone, time passes so quickly, I don’t even realize it. Cooking really doesn’t take that long so I’ve been telling myself that it’ll take less time to cook a meal than browse reddit the amount of time that I used to do.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:31 PM
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Someone linked a video down below in the comments, you should watch it! The video describes the benefits and importance of meditating.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:24 PM
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That’s a good idea! I love bullet journaling, but always forget to so I’ll give this a try instead.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:22 PM
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I read about someone who cut out smoking a lot easier by ingraining it into their self identity. When the person quit, they said ”I’m not a smoker” rather than saying “I’m trying to quit.” I believe this is what Bill Burr is doing when he talks about it. And I agree, much of it is psychological once we change our perspective of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:21 PM
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You’re absolutely right, what you just described is another concept I want to go over in a future post. Thats the concept of “Small wins.” You do the small and easy things to build momentum and confidence and then you go for the hard things. Making my bed, spot cleaning my room, and getting ready for the day are all small wins for me. Without these, I wouldn’t know where to start.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:17 PM
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Whatever works for you is the best thing to do! Just because something works for someone else doesn’t mean it will for you. Someone suggested I take cold showers instead but that doesn’t work for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:14 PM
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That’s a really good place to start! Last year, I was a terrible student and did horribly in all my classes. I was going through what you describe. I’d productively procrastinate by weightlifting, sleeping, and reading. Always saying, “eh I’m late to class, I’m not going” or some other excuse. This year, I fell off weightlifting but I’m a good student and about to graduate with my engineering degree. When studying with classmates, they’re surprised at how I’m ahead in classes. When they ask me, …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 07:11 PM
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The trick for replacing routines is replacing them with new rewarding routines. If the replacement routine isn’t rewarding, you won’t stick with it. Cold showers have benefits but I feel there’s a time and place for them. Hot showers are my replacement routine for being on my phone, it lets me think and plan for a bit. Cold showers just make me think “damn it’s so cold” rather than planning.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 06:59 PM
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Great question and I’m glad you asked! I’d been wondering myself so I’m going to work on a post that dives into this deeper. The best way to answer is by looking at the concept of self discipline. There’s a lot of components that go into self discipline so I’m going to make a separate post where I’ll analyze the most important of these. One of the most important components is the idea of self identity. Your sense of self identity is actually a really powerful tool, yet it’s not something many pe…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:43 AM
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You have to learn to walk before you can run. Building habits isn’t an over night process and it’s VERY hard to build even 5 habits at once. You need to pick and choose most important to least important. It really depends on someones circumstances. For me that is: Daily productivity Sleeping/waking up EARLY Healthy diet Exercise This is going to change for me pretty soon with weightlifting and exercise being first.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 03:39 AM
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I will have to give that one a go! I think the power of habit covers this concept but they call this concept “keystone” habits. Either way, these are life changing and profound concepts everyone should learn about for lifelong self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 03:28 AM
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Yup, highly recommend the audiobook if you’re lazy to read or commute a lot. Totally forgot to cover the concept of keystone habits. The book goes in depth about this concept and gives excellent examples on how keystone habits have changed peoples lives and made companies climb to the top in their respective fields! One of the best books I’ve ever read.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 03:26 AM
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Another additional thing covered in the book that I didn’t cover in the post is the concept of “keystone” habits. These habits are similar to the domino or snowball effect and I highly recommend reading the book to learn more about them. You can listen to the audiobook if you’re lazy like me. Basically, there was research done that building NEW habits can be more powerful than changing old ones. The reason is because it sparks a domino effect that creates many small, positive, and consistent cha…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 03:22 AM
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Always make the first date something simple and low commitment like coffee so you can dip if there’s no tension or chemistry
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:00 PM
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For starters, if you didn’t read, I was asleep on a god damn chair. My friend put me in my bed with the fat chick. I was basically asleep or just passed out for all of it. I didn’t even know until the fat chick told my gf, so for all I know she could have lied about it but she was still at my place the next morning. Second: Thats why I said it’s a university setting. Girls are at their prime in sex drive, they get drunk and don’t give a fuck. Many potential girls all around and they’re super wil…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:30 AM
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Now I can agree with you on that, and I’m not by any means trying to avoid the consequences of my actions. But it doesn’t retract from the fact that what the girl did was wrong.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:21 AM
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If my girl was black out passed out drunk in her bed like I was? I wouldn’t if she was unconscious and even if I did dump her, can you imagine the shit I would get from her friends for dumping her for being “raped” or “sexually assaulted”? Thing was I saw snapchats of me passed out on a chair, that’s how I know I wasn’t ok to consent. It’s not a question if I had control or not, I was passed out drunk. It’s a double standard because if it was the other way around, people would be saying “oh poor…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:10 AM
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I agree, I’m just annoyed that even in my own place shit like this happens. I learned my lesson and will cut down on my alcoholic consumption.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:48 AM
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