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Well, you’re 17. You have a lifetime ahead of you. You’ll meet this girl eventually so why not have fun for now? Like I said, she might be someone that doesn’t match any of the boxes, you might even meet her in one of your flings. Only way to find this kind of person is to give chances and be vulnerable. The right girl will give you enough confidence to be vulnerable with her. The others are more for the learning experience, this is just as important btw, don’t want to fuck up when you do meet t…
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:43 AM
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I’m sorry but I have to say this; You don’t know those “less worthy” girls, don’t reject them before you do. Sure, they don’t come from wealth or an important family and might have difficult time with their looks or education but that doesn’t mean they’re not as good as the “quality” girls. I understand that what you said here is mostly because of how you grew and what you were taught as a child but it’s time to change this mindset. You could miss on so many good things if you keep thinking like…
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:13 AM
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Edit: apology for the long post, just trying to help.. —— Well, unfortunately the only way to gain confidence is by doing what you’re afraid of. It might sound cliche but the only way to overcome your fears is by facing them. I have social anxiety so I know how hard it can be but one thing I learned is that the more I put myself out there, the better I become. Sometimes it’s really hard and I allow myself to fall back cuz I realize that I’m just not ready for this step yet and sometimes I do wha…
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:25 PM
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Know that there's nothing wrong with taking time to open up, do it at your own pace. Faking extroversion could be useful if you're trying to change yourself but to get the girl, being a little mysterious is actually a good thing. I am attracted to outdoorsy down to earth girls. Kinda pain, not really standout ish. girl next door sort of thing. Well, you'd be surprised at what kind of girls go to clubs/bars. All girls want to unwind from time to time and many of them do it there with their friend…
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:31 AM
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Well, let me show you your first mistake. try to get to know her instead of speedrunning the asking her out thing. Showing interest to this extent is amazing and you should keep doing this but not when you just met the girl and are trying to get her number. The girl was in the place you met her because she had an agenda, she wasn't planning on meeting someone new and telling about herself. Remember, it's not a date, it's only the first encounter. When you do go on a date then be more attentive. …
/r/seduction30/10/21 09:59 PM
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True, one needs affirmation in order to gain confidence and keep going but if you want something to happen, you don’t quit, you find other ways to succeed. And if no one else encourages you, you encourage yourself and be your own hype man. How many girls have you asked in one night? Did you try only one or two, or did you go for 10+? The more you try, the higher the chances you succeed. Go even for girls you find semi attractive, it’s more about practice now than actually pursuing the girl. If t…
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:35 PM
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Just keep working on yourself and you’ll meet someone eventually. You might even meet her in a place that’s related to your hobbies or work and it’d be easier for you to connect You can also go to bars and clubs and hit on any attractive girl you see. Some will reject you (which in this case just be respectful and excuse yourself, don’t push it) some will give you your number. You might feel like hitting on many women is a lot but you don’t have to text everyone, it’s mainly for practice and to …
/r/seduction30/10/21 04:27 PM
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Advice from a girl, don’t put any lotion on it or try to change the taste, it won’t work and might even make the experience worse for the girl and never want to do it again. Imagine putting lotion in your mouth, would you like it? If you really want to use something, use natural substances like jelly or whipped cream or peanut butter if she isn’t allergic. If you want something else, use a lube that has a taste but make sure beforehand what flavor the girl likes But really, why are guys so weird…
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:12 PM
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A green message means that the person has an android and a blue message means they have an iPhone. Ffs people.. OP I really hope you didn’t bombard her phone with messages just to see if she actually blocked you
/r/seduction29/10/21 11:21 AM
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I second what he said here. It’s pretty much the same for girls, being with an older guy taught me a lot. OP I understand that you’re afraid of the unknown but how will you know if you don’t try? It’ll always be in your head if you don’t do something about it. I always advice to wait for someone you’re comfortable with but I think here you should just get it done and move on, it’ll help you so much mentally and like the guy here said, being with a 40 year old, especially for the first time could…
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:43 AM
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Obv those things are not an issue for him. It could be his personality is not deep enough or that the girl doesn’t connect with him in this way or that he doesn’t actually try things that would help him in this direction. There are many reasons as to why this happens but we can’t know since we don’t know OP I’m not saying what you said is false, it does have an impact in general but I don’t think this is his issue here.
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:09 PM
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Honsetly none of us could help him really since we don’t know what’s really ruining it for him. I offered him something that could help his situation in case he never tried it. If he did try then there’s nothing more I can say. Personally if a guy did to me what I described, I would’ve developed feelings for sure
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:30 PM
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It’s not boyfriend vibes you’re giving but unavailable vibes lol for some reason that attracts girls way more Instead of saying that you’re open for anything, I suggest you say that you’re not really interested in something serious right now. If you didn’t click with the girl from the start, chances are you won’t either later on. Those who are looking for a relationship will leave and you’ll be left with those who are in the same mindset or are delusional still. But know there’s a chance that yo…
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:25 PM
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First of all, people change. No one is who they used to be, we evolve repeatedly. Maybe they had to get to know him better or gain trust/comfort before getting involved. Some people need time before they can start something. Some have baggages they need to drop before being able to move on to something new. Some were immature and it took time for them to grow up. There are many reasons to why people act in a certain way. Whether you should agree to give them another chance or not is completely u…
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:05 PM
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A therapist can fuck you up only if you’re not comfortable or didn’t connect with them. And usually when things get more fucked up it’s usually because the person talked about old wounds and opening them up made things more clear but also more fucked. To heal, you gotta take care of the old baggage first and that could add some new one but both will fall once you get better
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:24 PM
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Edit: I saw you wrote you used to be the anxious type and now you’re more secure. Anxious types usually attract their opposite, the avoidant. They start dating, everything is great but then the avoidant pulls away and the anxious doesn’t get why and becomes more anxious. It could be that you keep going for the avoidant girls and that’s why you can’t start a relationship. Think back about all the girls you’d been with, what do they all have in common? Once you find the answer, try to go for girls…
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:20 PM
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Actually, if a guy I was seeing came up to the door I would’ve found it weird, yes, but also impressive since like you said, no one does it anymore and that’s a shame
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:00 AM
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All depends on what the girl prefers. Does she want you to meet her parents yet or does she still want to keep it private? I personally always preferred to wait at least a month or two before introducing the guy so texting “here” or even calling would’ve been my preference. But like I said, depends on the girl. It’d be best if you ask her beforehand what she wants like another comment here has suggested. It also shows that you respect her wishes and care about her opinion.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:56 PM
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Honestly, no matter what happened, just be respectful to both girls, even if one of them wasn’t to you a few years ago. Don’t be a fuck boy, date whoever you want but once it gets exclusive, drop the other. Cheating is never an option no matter how old you are.
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:48 AM
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If she doesn’t like it it’s her loss. Better to be honest than a “nice guy”
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:11 PM
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No don’t tell her you were seeing someone else, that could make her feel like a second choice. Just tell her you were dealing with some personal things and didn’t have the time or energy for something new. Chances she’d take it better and give you a shot are higher than if you tell her you were seeing someone else.. I’m a girl myself and if a guy tells me he just got out of something I don’t take him as seriously and it even ruins it for me cuz I feel like he’s just looking for a rebound. If it’…
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:08 PM
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I can only say from personal experience. I usually try to keep eye contact when I want to show the person that I’m interested in what they’re saying. It is harder for me to keep eye contact with someone I like cuz I’m too nervous. So I’d say some of them keep eye contact because they’re interested in what you’re saying and some of them do that because they like you and have the confidence to hold your stare. Also, you’re 6ft tall. It could be guys are intimidated by you and girls are attracted t…
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:22 PM
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Not his fault the boyfriend is stupid
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:10 PM
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Why not text the boyfriend? It’s his stupidity that makes him see OP as the bad guy instead of his cheating girlfriend, not OP’s. OP did well when he texted him. A smart guy would’ve said thanks and dumped this girl’s ass
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:08 PM
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I guess I misunderstood what you were saying, seemed like you were focusing on the studies and that it was preventing you from opening up but never mind. There’s not much that I can say to you tbh, I can’t fix this issue and me telling you that it sucks won’t help either. I guess just keep your head up and good luck
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:41 AM
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OP anyone can tell you anything here, at the end of the day no one knows her, she could be any kind of girl. I saw in one of your comments here that she has a kid, if she does then I bet her life isn’t very flaky and that she’s either looking for something casual that won’t affect her kid (which I don’t think so if she came to your workplace) or she’s looking for something serious and stable that won’t put her kid in a whirlwind. You gotta be upfront with your intentions and tell her she has to …
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:35 AM
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The no fucks given mindset is even more important when the others don’t care. Because if they don’t care then you shouldn’t care. And when they realize that you don’t care then they’d (usually) start caring. It’s actually less about not caring and more about just growing as a person and living your life. White or non white, people are usually attracted to those who feel content with who they are. I know that racism makes it harder in many aspects and I know I’ll never understand how it truly is …
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:46 PM
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My best friend is dating an Indian guy right now, she dated an Ethiopian and a middle eastern before as well. I myself dated a Yemeni one and my other friends dated colored guys too at some point. Like I said, not all girls are like that You need to develop the no-fucks-are-given mindset. The criticism and racism will always exist no matter what you do, you just gotta keep your head up and ignore the looks and comments. You would never achieve anything if you let the others affect you. And remem…
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:41 AM
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Well, I understand what you mean now. I didn't realize how much race played a part in it. I'm a girl as you already know and I'm also white. Personally, I'm not one of those girls but that doesn't matter. I guess white guys are more wanted because they feel "safer" to girls and I mean it in the physical and financial way. I know it sounds racist but unfortunately, this is how things are. People of color have had a bad reputation for centuries, they've been portrayed in a certain way for a long t…
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:37 PM
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Some girls are different, some do give the chance once getting to know the guy, some are pansexual and some just honestly don't give a fuck, they just want a decent guy. You just gotta find them. Edit: Ik, easier said than done. One of the ways to do so is by changing your environment or giving a chance to new things (or people)
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:40 PM
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You've been aiming your game at the wrong girls then. It's obv you either don't appreciate yourself and go for girls who'd never show you around or you do this exact thing to girls because you care about what people would say. Could be both. Gotta lift your confidence.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:12 PM
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You need success just as much as you need rejection. Rejection will get you to the place of not giving a fuck of whether this girl would want you or if any girl approaches you. I'm not saying it's the magic pill but when you get to that headspace, it could very much happen. Besides, I wouldn't count on getting girls in a bar or something like that. Why? Because there's so much stress around this area, it's expected of people to connect and maybe go home together or exchange info there. Imo, if y…
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:04 PM
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You can be the most handsome guy but no woman would approach you if you lack confidence. This is what attracts the girl, nothing else. If you want to keep the girl, you’d have to work on yourself (personality, hobbies, ambitions). I’m a girl myself who dated several ugly guys simply because they had the confidence
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:58 PM
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It’s all about the confidence. Ofc tidying up helps but confidence is certainly the key here
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:55 PM
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It’s not that easy unfortunately, you say “make a small talk = success”, we think “make a small talk = how did I look? Was I weird? How badly did I fuck up? Oh this person is never gonna talk to me again” it’s a constant battle that changes everyday, one minute I could really be like “success” but the next it’d be the latter. Only way to overcome this is by exposing oneself to new uncomfortable situations like going to a bar or learning a new hobby or maybe even taking a trip alone, and trying t…
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:16 PM
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Oh to be able to go to a club alone and genuinely have fun without having to worry about anyone hurting you.. the envy.. Edit: well look at that, I forgot to write my tip. As a socially anxious girl myself, I suggest you hit the bar first before the club. Clubs are usually packed with people and that could cause your anxiety to go into overdrive. Start small by going to a chill bar by yourself. Take a beer and just try to relax, scope the room for friendly faces, focus on your breathing if you f…
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:56 PM
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It’s actually a very good psychological trick. It makes the person feel like they can’t say no in a non-threatening way. It also intrigues them. Ofc it also depends on the vibe and interactions prior to this, as op tells, it sounds like they have a chill connection so him telling her that most probably will work Edit: to make it simple, him saying “let’s have lunch together” is a lot less threatening than saying “we’re going to have lunch together after class”. The former gives her the feel that…
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:45 AM
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The fact that she took her time before asking for his number shows that she’s interested but doesn’t want to show it completely. Could be she also wasn’t sure if she was really interested or not but decided to ask for his info just so she doesn’t miss her shot. She basically needs to play the game of mouse and cat to stay interested. Childish, true, but necessary to her and many more people. She asked for op’s instagram, in my opinion she should’ve been the first to text. It’s just like taking a…
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:17 AM
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About your first paragraph, many people don’t care about someone’s experience, whether they can do certain things or not, but they do seem to care about someone’s virginity. Others are actually turned on by it. Honestly depends on the person you find. “I just think that people who say “You can’t know until you try” don’t really know themselves that well” no one knows themselves completely and truly, especially not without trying new things. We’re all evolving creatures, we keep growing and learn…
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:05 PM
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Good luck! ☺️ please update lol
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:15 PM
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“As long as you have experience dealing with people in various situations, you have experience” No, when I say experience I mean sexual experience, not interaction or relationship experience. It’s a whole other thing and if you’ve never had sex there’s no way that you could have experience in it, even if you watch porn repeatedly. “If they’re not experienced enough to be patient with other people and putting themselves and their satisfaction first, they’re probably not ready to be in a legit rel…
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:10 PM
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Well, sex is a physical need and it can be meaningless and casual, you might even find yourself some day wanting to have sex without a connection and that’s okay. But I do agree that sex is better when there is a connection. SO much better. I personally can’t even have sex without a connection, I’m just not aroused no matter how hot the guy is. And it can be any type of connection as long as it feels right. Just don’t put too much pressure onto it. It’s important to have it with someone you feel…
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:34 PM
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Well she offered the group meeting so you can ask her about that coffee and be like “I’d have actually preferred meeting with you alone but if you prefer them being there then I’m okay with that” it shows that you’re interested in her but also respect her wishes. She might change her mind and meet one on one or she could say something like “next time” Btw if it’s been a little while since you guys met, I’d suggest waiting another day and then asking. Ik, those games are childish but they’re nece…
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:09 PM
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I mean, I get that you want that special someone but I feel like your age and lack of experience would make it harder for you as you go, especially when you finally do meet that someone. It could also kinda startle her you know, not all women are thrilled to have sex with a virgin man who doesn’t really know what to do.. at least educate yourself on the matter, on how to pleasure someone and see what gets you going. And you can’t say you don’t like something when you’ve never even tried it. Casu…
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:55 PM
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Don’t listen to the other comment, I lost my virginity a few years ago just so I could be “done” with it and today I regret not waiting for a guy that really appreciated me and that I felt secure with. It really made me insecure and feel like without sex no one would want me. Idk if you’re a boy or a girl, if you’re a boy then it could be different for you, and it’s true that virginity is nothing special but I still suggest waiting, not for “the one” but yes for someone you feel comfortable with…
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:39 PM
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Well maybe she wants this setting bc she’s nervous and knows having her friend there would help her. Maybe she’s even trying to set her friend up with the other guy so she wouldn’t be left alone, who knows ;) try not to read too much into it and have fun (easier said than done ik lol)
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:51 AM
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Really depends on the girl tbh. Me for example, if someone touched my elbow I’d feel like the person has a liking to me but that’s mostly because I was deprived of physical touch growing up. My love language is also physical touch so when someone touches me, I take it pretty personally. Ofc I also take into consideration their other behavior, I don’t just fall in love or assume the person likes me based on a simple touch. I’m also an overthinker with a social anxiety so there’s that lol How did …
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:29 AM
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Do you even know what a double standard is? If you want to be paid, get a job, go be an escort or even a stripper, these two get you a lot of money. If you look good, try being a model. If you don’t look good, be a body part model. Start a social account and gain enough followers till you get sponsorships. If what you want is a girlfriend that sugar mama’s you then I don’t think anyone can help you with that. Men are easier in that department because a girl can offer them sex or even just a pict…
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:28 PM
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Difference is onlyfans girls sell their pictures in return for money. What you want is to get money without doing anything. This is why it can’t be a double standard. The fact that you think girls don’t do anything for that money... rich men are rich for a reason you know, they’re not stupid when it comes to money, they invest in something only when they know they can get something in return. Expect the same from rich women. No one will pay you to just sit around and jerk off. You’ll have to do …
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:02 PM
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No.. you should just focus on yourself, your job, your hobbies and all that, not add more girls to the mix, too much drama.. besides once you focus on yourself the girls will come by themselves
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:47 PM
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No, tell her “let me know” or something. If she takes too long to get back to you, tell her you can’t meet up on the day she offered and that you’ll update her on when you can. But if you want to be the grown up here and not play games, tell her “let me know” and carry on with your life. If she texts you with a date, no matter how long it’s been, follow your gut and decide whether you wanna see her or not. Leave your ego outside of this. If this behavior keeps going, when you meet her you could …
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:43 PM
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Amazing. Same goes for women with men. Women are taught from a young that love is everything. Love is everything indeed but not any love, self love. Other types of love will come once you fill your life with things you love and cherish. It’ll come once you’re fulfilled and content with yourself, once you can be alone without feeling lonely. Otherwise you’ll always have a void and you’ll always obsess over it and never be happy.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:53 PM
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My last ex and I met at a temporary job. He noticed my nirvana shirt and started talking to me about music. After he felt the connection he asked for a number. If I hadn’t felt the connection too, I wouldn’t have given it to him. Another one hit on me when he was a pedestrian and I was in the car waiting for the green light. You just gotta shoot and hope to score. Sometimes you’ll get rejected and that’s okay but just keep trying. Know that some girls such as myself don’t really pay attention to…
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:15 PM
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There are so many things that could’ve made her say no besides the car you know.. cars are not everything. “Explain that dating style”: If we set up a place that’s near us, I don’t need the guy to pick me up. If his city has more things to do, I won’t force him to come pick me up and then drive me back. If he lives near then it’d be nice if he comes to my place and then we walk together to the date, that’s actually better than a car because you can focus on the conversation and at the end of the…
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:40 AM
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My last ex didn’t have a car, I had to come by myself each time and meet up with him there. He lives 20-30 mins away from where I live (by car). There were also a few times where I picked him up and we drove somewhere, there’s no shame in that. Ofc it would’ve been more convenient if he did have but personally idc about this stuff, if the vibe is right I would make the effort. And before you say anything, he was willing to come to my place by bus but I didn’t let him. When I didn’t have a car, I…
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:48 PM
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Did you think that if he had told her that he’d pick her up, which is basically a lie if he doesn’t or a crime if he does, that it’d have made her say yes? If this was your point then it’s really idiotic
/r/seduction01/09/21 10:37 PM
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