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| 7 | Dating with a model is the best self-improvement I could havei’ve dated a ukrainian model. she was very difficult to secure despite her having attraction towards me due to the level of competition i had. if you eventually date her, you’ll see they are very traditional and expect you to pay for every thing. they expect you to be masculine and to take care of them it isn’t easy dating them | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 08:42 PM |
| 9 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?I dated a fashion model who worked for a top agency in NYC. Through her, I met other models and gained exclusive access to places in the city I’d never have been allowed into otherwise. I must’ve been the most normal person she had dated at that point. Dating her came with its own set of stressors. Her friends dated A-list celebrities, they partied at celebrity and artist homes, and men in high finance would offer to fly them to the Hamptons for the summer. Her phone was constantly blowing up wi… | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?This is a solid reply. I go to a club where the average girl is in the 7–8 range—in other words, very attractive women, more attractive than you typically see elsewhere. The club doesn’t allow men in unless you either pay for a table (probably $1k+), are a member of another exclusive club connected to them, or know someone on the inside. These women are hard to pull. I’m talking 7s to 8s and above. I won’t say much, but one of the girls I’ve seen there recently started dating an A-list celeb. Th… | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 07:51 PM |
| 48 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?Hard. Most women go in groups. Even if one girl acts receptive which will likely be rare her friends may shut you down. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 12:02 PM |
| 21 | should you fuck mids for experience ?If she is a 7, most men wouldn’t even have a chance. 7s are conventionally attractive, and the majority of men wouldn’t even be able to approach them. 8s are the hottest women in the club—model/influencer tier—where you could get paid for your looks alone. 6s are above average, and realistically, most average men would struggle to secure them as well. 5s would be difficult but possible for the average man. However, women don’t tend to date across, so even a 5 might be out of reach for the averag… | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Being RealisticIf you’re good-looking, you don’t really need much game. If a girl is into you, you can essentially do whatever, and she’ll usually give you plenty of room to mess up—she might even find it refreshing or endearing if you come across as socially awkward. Some girls assume that if you’re attractive, you’re an “fboi” and believe you pull, even if you don’t. Game helps borderline or average guys get a shot. Looks matter a lot, but confidence and charisma also play a role. Ugly or average men with hi… | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 03:50 AM |
| 14 | How often shall I text with my girlfriend in a day? If I don’t hear from her a couple of times- I feel like I miss her .this is a high quality comment | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?Agreed and as you pointed out those 5-6 women will have inflated sense of egos and believe falsely they are 8+s themselves and it’s understand why given the large volume of attractive matches, simps, and hookups they get from attractive men. These men wouldn’t commit to them though and she wouldn’t settle for less. You’re right attractive men would need to approach and convert to dates. If they’re 7s they may even have a high rejection rate both on apps and IRL. Lots of things can influence how … | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 10:23 AM |
| 3 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?You’re right—a woman who is a 5 would likely outperform a man who is an 8 on dating apps. However, let me clarify what I meant. I’m referring more of a “vibe,” where in real life (outside of dating apps), a man who is an 8 would likely receive about the same level of attention as a woman who is a 7. An 8-male would generally be considered quite attractive across the board. On dating apps, a woman who is a 5 would likely outperform a man who is an 8 in terms of matches, dates, attention, sex, and… | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 09:19 AM |
| 5 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?1 - Noticeable physical differences or abnormalities. This may be due to factors beyond their control, and they deserve kindness and respect. 2-3 - Very unattractive. 4 - Below average. There is a drop-off between 4s and 5s, but an even larger drop-off between 4s and 3s. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 12:58 AM |
| 91 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?i think your ratings are way off if you think 7s are mid 5 - average 6 - above average 7 - conventionally attractive / hot. most men would be afraid to approach 7s. 8 - likely the hottest person at the club. some of these could be fashion models. these are influencer tier women 9-10 - A list celeb, top tier fashion models, people that could be famous based on looks alone most men here couldn’t attain a 7, 7 is hot and would have a lot of options. 7+ is hard to date because most men don’t match t… | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 08:12 PM |
| 2 | 10 small tips for guys regarding InstagramI tend to do nothing, lol. I often let the girls make the first moves I’ve had multiple girls like 3–5 of my photos at once, engage with my stories, and even DM me first. Some comment or like all my grid posts. But even with all that, converting them to dates is tough. So I play the long game—only opening up to the ones who seem receptive and seeing where it goes. I don’t immediately ask them out and sometimes stretch things out for a while before making any big moves. My approach is different f… | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 11:39 PM |
| 2 | 10 small tips for guys regarding InstagramI mean stories, I rarely post on the grid. But been posting on the grid a little more frequently (twice in one year so far vs once a year previously) | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:39 PM |
| 27 | 10 small tips for guys regarding InstagramI use Instagram as a dating app. I follow mutual connections, and some of them follow me back—then I unfollow the rest who didn’t. You’d be surprised how many attractive women follow back, even those with high follower-to-following ratios. I think mystery is an underrated aspect of Instagram. I only have a few photos of myself, highlights mostly of food (I keep it ambiguous whether I’m on dates), and I rarely post more than once or twice a week. The women I’m most attracted to have fewer than 1,… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What do players do differently?do you use both instagram and snapchat rarely or just use snapchat rarely? anyways, how do you use instagram? | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 11:12 PM |
| 4 | 3 principles to actually get matches from online datingsoldi advice but hinge and other apps will shadowban you for arbitrary reasons and once your shadowbanned no amount of profile optimization will get your profile seen | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matcheswhy do you think you get 100s of matches on apps but not IRL? sounds like you can’t obtain the same women IRL as you could on apps. so, had you met these women in person they wouldn’t have been into you | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | M29 - Little matches in NYC - Fresh out of a relationshipyou’re likely shadowbanned. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys get the endurance?depends what you define as a success. let’s define it as a first date, then i’d think (gut feeling no hard objective stats) a realistic stat for a beginner would be 1-2% success rate, for more advanced 10-25%, depend how “good” they are. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveOne way is to check the history of the women you dated. Are they attractive? | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Low vs. High Commitment: Why Most Guys Fail in DatingYou hit the nail on the head. I especially like point 3 | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.op, i disagree with many of the comments here. not having a strong instagram isn’t necessarily a disadvantage. my profile is pretty bare—a couple hundred followers, following very few people, only a couple selfies, and a few story highlights. that’s it. this simplicity can actually make you stand out, especially compared to guys with polished profiles and tons of followers. these days, even average men and women have 1k+ followers, so a minimalist profile can come across as mysterious. i don’t p… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Seduction killer?mystery is a key element in seduction if used well imo. if used well, it can be an incredibly effective element in seduction. usually they have to already be attracted to you though. for instance, i can roughly categorize women on my instagram as the type 1: the frequent poster (frequently posts lots of stories/on the grid, revealing everything they’re doing each day—who they’re hanging out with, where they’re eating, memes, and so on), type 2: semi-frequent poster (posts much less than type 1, … | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 09:22 AM |
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