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My boyfriend and I have a deal; we only ever say "I love you" when we mean it, and neither of us say "I love you too". This means that we hardly ever say it, but prove it in actions instead, and really only use the words when we're feeling overwhelmed with it and have nothing else. Breaking that "I love you" - "I love you too" cycle is really important IMO. The first time I told him that, I stopped him from replying and explained that I didn't want to hear it as a response, but as something he w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 10:08 PM
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Thanks - it's in my amazon basket.
/r/MensRights20/12/09 04:53 PM
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Thanks! That link is exactly what I was looking for. Kudos to both Germany and Switzerland, and to you for the info.
/r/MensRights20/12/09 04:50 PM
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That's what I took from it. Thank you.
/r/MensRights20/12/09 04:39 PM
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A rose by any other name, right?
/r/MensRights20/12/09 04:34 PM
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Thanks. I'll do my best. This group's responses have really helped.
/r/MensRights20/12/09 04:34 PM
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Thanks for your wishes.
/r/MensRights20/12/09 04:33 PM
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I think a lot of the inequality is based on stereotyping around roles where children are concerned, and if we can sort that out, at least the rest of the inequality will be more visible if it doesn't disappear entirely. In the last company I worked for, they advertised for new jobs in the broadsheets. They worked out that the broadsheets had an 80% white male readership, so they started looking for other places to advertise, too. This is the only form of positive discrimination that I feel posit…
/r/MensRights17/12/09 02:01 AM
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Nobody wants their kids going to the house of a single man, which I can understand Is your name on the sex offender's register? Are your children withdrawn or acting out at school? Is there any reason for the suspicion, beyond your gender? I don't understand the power that the media has, or why it's chosen to demonise men this way. I don't understand why women are now seen as capable, strong and intelligent, but men aren't seen as nurturing, caring and protecting. I don't understand, and I wish …
/r/MensRights17/12/09 01:56 AM
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I assumed that you might want to avoid hypocrisy. Never mind.
/r/MensRights17/12/09 01:18 AM
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INTP. Close, though. My F is very strongly driven by my T. What are you?
/r/MensRights17/12/09 01:15 AM
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It was TL. My bad.
/r/MensRights17/12/09 01:14 AM
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It used to, then they invented breast-pumps and single fathers. Times change, and I'd like to see societal pressure change with them.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 11:48 PM
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I reached the conclusion based on all the possible things you could have done with that 30 seconds, and in which you chose to improve my command of the English language instead. I requested the capitalization because pedantry without it makes my brain glitch. Thank you for your wishes. I appreciate them, and wish you good luck in your vote karma. I'm not the one downvoting you, as I also appreciate your feedback, however humorously I might respond.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 11:25 PM
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I hadn't heard about the laws in Australia. That's insane. I'm so sorry, and glad that your company managed to find a good position for the woman. It shouldn't have to be that way. I know that this kind of enforced equality is meant to lead to genuine equality later, but still... it feels wrong. I don't want to be a part of it.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 11:15 PM
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I was thinking of one-in-three when I wrote the "treated fairly in cases of domestic violence" - lack of shelters, the idea that men "can defend themselves" when they shouldn't have to and would probably get in trouble if they did, etc., all bug me. I've been following the very different way in which the Tiger Woods incident was reported, compared to how it would have been dealt with if he was female. Thank you for the link.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 11:10 PM
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Thank you so much. This kind of data was exactly what I was looking for. I wish I had more upvotes.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 11:05 PM
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Well, I came to care about men and their situation because I wanted to improve the situation for females. That's where I started. Trying to improve things for men when I don't get anything out of it feels patronizing. As it turns out, most of the issues in men's rights also impact on women's equality (and not in a zero-sum way). So, I'm driven by feminism, and it turns out that the logical extension of this is gender equality. Now all I have to do is convince the others.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 11:04 PM
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That's why we make better fighter pilots. ;) (I'd actually heard that this was because women's smaller size means less blood flows away from the head, allowing us to endure higher g-forces. No idea if this is true though!)
/r/MensRights16/12/09 10:59 PM
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Yes, this is fucked up. I like the way you've worded the argument. It goes even further than mine. Before reading this, I might have said something about "maintaining a reasonable standard of life", but now I play your words against the experiences of my divorced male friends and find that their standard of life usually involves a tiny flat with hardly any furniture. In one incident which differs from this, a woman I knew was trying to get more money out of her ex than they'd agreed when they pa…
/r/MensRights16/12/09 10:34 PM
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Something better than that which exists now would be a good start. False rape accusations don't help the real victims, either. I'm thinking, the same level of compensation that exists for sexual assault victims (we have that in the UK, not sure what the current sums are) plus a serious sentence for the accuser. Please note that I don't consider a failed rape accusation to be the same as a false one.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 10:25 PM
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I detest positive discrimination. It's caused more suspicion of my abilities as a software developer than being female in the first place. Again, it's a kind of "equality" that doesn't help anyone in the long run. Do you have any links to the laws you mentioned? I find this comment fascinating, as it's different to my experience and the hearsay I've come across: Only women can be promoted to management level or leadership level positions Can you elaborate? Any stories?
/r/MensRights16/12/09 10:07 PM
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Equality isn't discrete, and can be provided by force, law or societal norms. I would like to see greater equality between men and women, and provided more often by societal norms than by force or law. If we had equality, we'd be there already. I am merely looking to move society in the right direction. I understand that correcting English is a driving force in your life. Would you consider encouraging people to use better phrasing, instead of denigrating their efforts? I find this is more const…
/r/MensRights16/12/09 09:56 PM
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It's not indicative of all feminist attitudes or even feminist attitudes generally, just the many attitudes I find disrespectful and unhelpful. IvanRedBear gave me the term "gender feminism" which is probably more accurate than the poor language I used; hope this helps clarify. Oh, and I was linking to the specific message on that t-shirt, and spitting because propagating disrespect like that doesn't help promote equality, adds to anti-feminist fuel, and helps to turn it into the war I'm trying …
/r/MensRights16/12/09 09:47 PM
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Ta!
/r/MensRights16/12/09 08:41 PM
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I'm in the UK, so we don't really have a constitution - just a constitutional monarchy. I suspect the only reason we have healthcare, education, food etc. is because it stops the savage masses from needing to break into our houses and negate our private property rights. That's why I like them, anyway. I can get my head around the idea that a woman who's entered into a contract with a man to support him, in lieu of working, while he earns money, should get some kind of recompense when that contra…
/r/MensRights16/12/09 08:39 PM
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Ooh, I didn't know that I was an equity feminist! Thank you. I also have a problem with gender feminists, though I didn't have a name for them before. I don't think a false perspective is helping anyone, including themselves.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 08:22 PM
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Thank you. I'm particularly noting the "Mommy&Me" toy and the Virginia billboard.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 08:17 PM
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...of course, we don't always help ourselves achieve this if we're unwilling to share the responsibilities and fun of home and family. I have a sneaking suspicion that many women expect the best of both worlds, though no evidence to back this up beyond my fight with my own biases.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 08:09 PM
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Thanks. That's a new one, and reminds me of something I need to add above...
/r/MensRights16/12/09 08:07 PM
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My brain immediately jumped to the female equivalent, then I thought, "I really want to focus on equality in western culture, and female circumcision doesn't really happen here." Doh. There goes another of my biases. The media really does under-represent some issues, doesn't it? I hadn't even thought about this before you mentioned it.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:59 PM
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Thank you; this is encouraging. Do you have any links to the studies you mention?
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:53 PM
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Could you give me some examples of the rights that you see as privileges? I'm not really interested in battling the militant feminists - I find many feminist attitudes disrespectful and unhelpful. I am very interested if anything I say comes across as militant feminism, and welcome your correction.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:52 PM
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Perfect - thank you!
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:47 PM
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My point is that it's currently harder for women to perform as equals, have equal experience and do the same job, hence they will be less valued in the workplace. It's harder for men to have time at home with the family, get healthcare, keep the money that they've worked hard for in the event of a split, etc. - men are less valued in the home. This is a deliberately broad and horrific generalisation, on which I welcome your opinion. How much of what I've just said do you see as accurate, and wha…
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:45 PM
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Thank you. I have added some more specific questions to the original request.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:37 PM
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All of those would be useful - laundry list added to my request above. Thank you!
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:36 PM
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The only way to have pay statistically equalize is to have statistically equally split custody. Yes! This is at the heart of what I'm fighting for. I also firmly believe this. I'm not surprised that companies value women less - whether subconsciously, economically or otherwise - when we're statistically more likely to take six months off on the company dime, have large gaps in our work history, exercise the right to work part-time or have to disappear unexpectedly because little Billy's been tak…
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:20 PM
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Thank you for that. I believe there's some work which needs doing to encourage women to step into "men's" jobs and vice-versa - for instance, there are hardly any male nursery / kindergarten teachers in the UK any more. I got laughed at in school for suggesting I wanted to be a firefighter when I grew up, so I may have some bias here. If you could please find and link these sources, I'd love to have them to add to the evidence.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 07:13 PM
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You just prompted me to unlurk. Some of us feminists are already over here on your group.
/r/MensRights16/12/09 04:56 PM
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