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Mine was a nurse too. Apparently cheating is very common in that profession and first responders. cops & fireman would hit on her often bringing patients in.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 06:46 PM
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Married last year?? At least a man will get half of the woman's house for a change. You'll be ok. This will make you stronger. Focus on bettering yourself and the kids. Telling them will be tough. Mine were 7, 10 and 12 when we told them, and it was gut wrenching. You didn't ask, but be the better person when things get nasty (and they will), never involve the kids in the drama. My ex and her boyfriend try to make my kids hate me (unsuccessfully), so I had to add a disparagement clause into the …
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 06:57 PM
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Hide your money.. seriously. Have family hold onto it. I wish I did. I'm about to sign and it's gut wrenching dividing by two and seeing my long term plans for financial independence being knocked back a decade
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 02:21 AM
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Its a phase, and it'll toughen you up. If it creeps into depression territory, talk to someone. I was there for 2 months and it was a torture that I went through alone, because we weren't even telling family or friends at that point. I was holding out hope she'd stay. I wish i packed her bags for her in hindsight, and not looked weak.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 04:27 PM
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We have separate parties because she's an absolute psycho that has been harassing me. So far, she's waited until the kids weren't around to go full-karen and scream, be verbally abusive etc. Do whats best for you. Don't get rattled. Focus on the kids and being the best version of yourself you can be. You'll attract an awesome woman naturally, if you haven't yet.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/26 05:29 PM
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Go get laid. And then do it again. Realize that she fucking sucks and you're better off without her. Focus on you. Level up your career. hit the gym, get jacked. Put the kids first. Don't cause drama, also don't be a bitch. Be stoic. Don't give her the satisfaction of getting worked up. You'll be ok.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 06:13 PM
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😂😂 that's the biggest FU to her I can think of. Well played
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 06:49 PM
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What did yall do about the cloud storage of photos? I had them on my Amazon cloud storage and we both used it as a repository for phone dumps. It had all sorts of nudes and flirty pics too. She wants access and I won't give it to her since it's tied to Amazon purchases and a host of other things. It's not easy to download them all to a flash drive, but I did. I'm worried she'll use it against me in court if I hand over a thumb drive with nudes. So I haven't handed it over yet. We're still in the…
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 04:02 PM
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A psycho. It's taught me to be the zen master. Learn stoicism gentlemen. She's a cunt every time I see her and she never gets a rise out of me. It drives her nuts and I'm smiling on the inside
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 01:13 AM
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My peach of an ex emailed my parents an 18 page letter explaining why her leaving me for another guy was all my fault. I should scrub it and post it online someday for posterity. Its a hoot. Get that anger out. Work on yourself, and let it go. Get comfortable in solitude. Clear your mind and find peace. Being successful is the best revenge. Don't hold onto that anger or develop trust issues taking it out on the next woman. Just because she was a cunt, doesn't mean the next one will be
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 06:03 PM
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There was only one friend couple I wanted to keep, but my ex blew that up.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 03:28 PM
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You can stick your dick in crazy, just don't let them see where you live
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 03:25 PM
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Get your own appraiser. The difference should pay for itself
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 07:22 PM
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In mine, if they live with someone, alimony stops. So she is ineligible.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 04:38 PM
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My ex wants alimony too, but she's LIVING WITH the guy she left me for. She's out of her fucking mind. She also wants a 65/35 split of the assets. She was never materialistic, until she decided to leave. Stay strong brothers
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 04:01 PM
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I would if I had one! My ex is the one that left, and she oscilates between calm and c*nt every other day it seems. Insults, trailer trash behavior. She has no shame and even did that while cc'ing her lawyer and the financial consultant she hired to "Divide by two", as my lawyer said. hah. I've already told her when she's a cunt, I stop replying. I won't be dragged into the mud with her. If she doesn't course correct, I tell her to communicate through our lawyers. She can't afford to pay her, so…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 07:38 PM
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The only guilt I have is the impact on the kids. She left me, but i still have guilt thinking I didn't try hard enough to keep her to keep the family together. We're in the process now and those iPhone photo memories that pop up with what you did last year, show a family that was "happy" and together as a family. But I wouldn't take her back
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 02:39 AM
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This is the way 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 02:35 AM
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I'd look if she flashed me, boobs are boobs. But fuck her. When the love and respect are gone and she's actively being a cunt, it would chip away at your soul to pine after a succubus like that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 02:34 AM
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So fucking true… my ex was logical, not very emotional. She went full on batshit crazy. Overcompensating for a perceived husband controlled dynamic. Now if I suggest something, it’s an automatic no. Even if it’s the correct move. She doesn’t want me to have a win, so she’d rather suffer financially, with schedules. Doesn’t matter
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 10:44 PM
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Congrats. As the hawk tua girl famously said, “The best way to get over someone is get under another” Also, shouldn’t this sub be divorced men? Not divorce men?
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 09:08 PM
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Plenty of ammo on both sides. She had boyfriend, I have the sex tapes. She set me up with her friend and we’re FWB. It’s not cut and dry. Had an open marriage and I wanted to close it, she refused. Shit went sideways 3 weeks ago
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 06:00 PM
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I am living in the house. She’s getting an apartment to live in a few days/week. We may share it and alternate. Not sure, but I haven’t “left” the house
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 05:52 PM
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I won’t go that route. I just don’t want him in my home. She’s a great mom and my best friend
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 05:50 PM
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