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The logic can be along the same lines as a prenup. A prenup isn't pretty. Who, when getting married, wants to talk finances if they split up? If you're getting married you want to believe you're gonna make it. But 50% of marriages don't work out, and a shitty divorce is an emotional and financial catastrophe. Not only that, in the case of marriage and paternity, there is legal discrimination against men--men having to pay child support for children that aren't theirs in the latter instance, whic…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 02:30 PM
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This 'privilege is invisible to the viewer' is kaftkatrapping. How many times have women bitched about male privilege that doesn't exist? Seems like they are equally blind to reality. If I said 'many women take their biological maternity for granted' it would, I suppose, be the same, but IME less accusatory. It's a "both or neither" situation. I'd argue neither MRAs or SJWs/feminist groups resort to that kind of rhetoric, as opposed to it going both ways. And really? You would believe that women…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 01:53 PM
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I can only imagine what her tantrums looked like. "Wah! Wendy's picking on me! It's not fair that I have to support my arguments!! Rape culture! Patriarchy!" I wish I could see the Q & A too. Valenti's parts were shitty (and embarrassing now that Sulkowicz's story has fallen apart) but she had a mostly sympathetic crowd. With a few direct questions I bet she would've been foaming at the mouth. Sadly McElroy mentions that the transcription was "clearly done by someone who was very sympathetic to …
/r/MensRights18/09/15 11:39 PM
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"I am exhausted of having to talk about rape culture in a framework that assumes its existence is up for debate." I bet it "exhausts" ISIS to "have to" talk about Islam in a framework that assumes the existence of their God is up for debate too.. it must be soooooooooooo hard to be her... go home Valenti, you're clearly outclassed and your whining is tiring.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 11:29 PM
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I suppose some women must enjoy that kind of attention... But even in that situation it doesn't lead to much for the man in the equation. My boyfriend's allowed to be wrong, he isn't the ambassador of men or anything--but I think that you both agree that there's a socioeconomic component.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 07:14 PM
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One of these things is an egregious breach of civil rights and a display of the sad lack of integrity in American journalism. I do believe in trying to change the dialogue when I can without being combative and/or getting written up for a hate crime. But the other thing is cat-calling--It makes you uncomfortable for a few minutes and then you move on. The bad logic of "if you don't do what we want, you're complicit with the crime" masks the fact that the "crime" is a non-issue. I asked my boyfri…
/r/MensRights17/09/15 03:36 PM
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Men not giving a shit drives feminists crazy. There's no 3rd option of like, "hey, you're into helping the homeless, or saving puppies, or just trying to fix yourself before trying to fix others. Whatever, focus on your own attempts to better society and we'll do ours." I don't know why, maybe because the end goal of feminism is really control over people as opposed to some tangible goal.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 03:13 PM
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thank you (and others in the thread) for a good rational discussion. It's upsetting to think that a potential prevention won't be spread to everyone but these conversations have to consider the cost effectiveness or they're a waste of time. I too am split. The availability of treatment to demographics is a tough place for discrimination, and if we looked deeply int the system I think it's likely we could find evidence of a bias towards protecting girls. Despite that it's good to keep the big pic…
/r/MensRights17/09/15 02:44 PM
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An engaging conversation on Reddit! Refreshing! I don't know how I feel about an 'I hate niggers' group since that ties in existing censorship rules, and I cannot imagine it being anything other than a shock value troll thing. If subs like coontown were made to test the limits, are they not even more deserving of protection, due to parody rights, because the people don't believe their message? I don't actually know, I wasn't considering that angle. Keeping to mensrights, if my group was 'I hate …
/r/MensRights06/08/15 11:29 PM
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I hope the sub won't be banned or quarantined, but I don't think your argument is addressing the issue. Of course you don't think the speech here should be censored, you're part of the community. I don't think so either, of course. Pretty sure no-one thinks "yeah I'm in a hate group, and what I believe is disgusting and wrong and the government should censor me." The issue is that when one group wants to censor another, it's so easy to rest on harassment, offensiveness, think of the children, et…
/r/MensRights06/08/15 08:20 PM
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username andrea dworkin, think we can downvote the purposefully inflammatory comments and move on without losing any sleep eta: but damn, if troll talk about dedicated. The poe is too much for me. I'll follow my own advice and go to bed
/r/MensRights28/07/15 03:11 AM
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I feel you. I had a lot of negativity for a long time. From controlling, anxious, bipolar, depressed people in my life and the people who rubbed salt in those wounds without realizing it. However, good news is that it truly can be better. I'm not totally cool about the things that happened, but I'm not holding it against the general population any more. Most importantly I don't feel like shit all the time. Wish you luck.
/r/MensRights25/07/15 02:11 AM
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Well, if you want to look at the world in a cynical way, any person's only value is their goods or services to others, although some of those services may not be tangible (emotional support, empathy, reliability, companionship etc) and any human relationship can be seen as a business transaction. It's important to stand up for yourself and get back what you're giving, but it's not just a male thing. I find that I don't like to think about life that way but it helps some people.
/r/MensRights24/07/15 03:03 AM
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Many have speculated about this choice. It seems to come down to two things: Columbia has money, while Sulkowicz may not. Someone can clarify this further, but as I understand it, this allows him to publish his side of the story while she cannot do anything about it, because she is not involved in the suit.
/r/MensRights15/07/15 09:30 PM
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Fix the link with the read only version dude. Interestingly both groups believe themselves to be in the minority. OP insinuates that because searching feminism on youtube turns up some anti-fem results, that MRAs are the majority. Whilst many MRAs here feel that they are in the minority. Both groups will insist that they hold the underdog card as they push their beliefs. A feminist went and complained about hair streaks on Asian characters (yes, really) and a film character she perceived as raci…
/r/MensRights13/07/15 07:14 PM
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Thats okay. I support the MRM because I know that there is data and other factual evidence that shows men are being discriminated against in western society. Strongly dislike it all you want, change will come, maybe slowly at first, but the basis for the MRM is solid and it's not going anywhere.
/r/MensRights11/07/15 02:58 PM
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I agree with what he said about thinking critically about the media and deciding not to give a fuck, regardless of gender. It's way easier to change yourself than change society. I personally don't know how much the toys influence children though. I think children understand that cartoon people don't actually exist, and therefore they do not have to look like them, while actual people may be more of a benchmark. (just my opinion tho)
/r/MensRights02/07/15 03:01 AM
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Intersectional feminism takes mental illness pretty seriously—across all genders. citation needed
/r/MensRights21/06/15 09:09 PM
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That's fine, but understand if I gag a bit when I hear people saying "feminism benefits men too! Men just need more feminism!" "Feminism is just gender equality!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 05:38 AM
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better relationships or sex with women Well, when I was a feminist, I believed that equality meant not being passive in a potential relationship. I still believe in paying my way for dates and that men shouldn't be obligated to make the first move, so I have approached all of the men I've been interested in dating. Sure sometimes I felt like men just went along with me because I was "easy", but that's a consequence of choosing to do what I think is the right thing, I guess? I typically like more…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 05:35 AM
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Personally, I don't really want to be sterilized, and if I did I would pay for it. Well, men wouldn't be thinking about that until they were older and perhaps more financially secure, yeah? If the male birth control shot that people have been talking was legal in the US but not covered wouldn't you feel differently?
/r/MensRights18/05/15 06:25 AM
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There's no reason to classify birth control as different from other prescriptions, no matter what the cost of it may be. Yours is clearly not a small thing. Mine is essential in regulating PMDD, and that's not optional or small for me. The issue here is that men's birth control isn't being covered, not that women's birth control is.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 06:21 AM
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I can't think of any women's rights policy changes that I want to see, or even that feminists want to see, in my country. What is there even to advocate?
/r/MensRights29/04/15 05:25 AM
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Not only was he lying, but he was also making up these entire fantasy stories of sex that we’d had. They were so graphic and disgusting. He had every detail made up: “And then she put her hand here and then she said this word.” It was scary to see someone’s mind work like that. I think it is pretty reasonable to think that she is saying they never had sex before the alledged rape here, but I'm not dealing with reasonable people. Is there another place where she confirms that or says that more ex…
/r/MensRights29/04/15 05:18 AM
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I'm confused. Fact check what? The number of people here who are bitter and depressed? It's not an insult, it takes one to know one.
/r/MensRights05/02/15 04:09 AM
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I feel like maybe a lot of people In this sub have been hurt In their lives or possibly have resentment we don't see. Agreed. In my experience though it's the same with staunch feminists. I go to a very liberal college and I hear plenty of unchecked man-hate, in person or on facebook. Often from people who are mentally unbalanced or have had an incident of xyz. Sometimes from otherwise good people that are just highly sensitive and tend to get irrational. When people are in the majority they bec…
/r/MensRights04/02/15 04:25 PM
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