lurkinginplainsight Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	My a Wife Scheduled Couples Therapy According to my friend, couples therapy is a prerequisite for a couple with children to gain a divorce decree in GA. He pointed out that We would have to check that box either now, or later as part of a divorce because we do have kids. I am not an overly emotional person to begin with. I had a hard time seeing myself talking about my butt-hurt feelz to a guy, even one who buys into such things. I just figured I would be more comfortable talking about emotions with a women. I also thought that my…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/15 06:37 PM
3	My a Wife Scheduled Couples Therapy I'm going to go against the grain with this one. Tell her to find a therapist that fits criteria "X", to make you feel more comfortable and then go. I had my wife want to go to the therapist as I was ready to call the lawyer. I told her no at first. Then a friend of mine who had just gotten divorced told me to go. He had some good points. The first point was that in our state we would have to go to therapy anyway, because we had kids. Additionally, he said his therapist (that his wife chose) kep…	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/04/15 10:37 PM
1	Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce? I'd take Thailand over sing-sing anyday.	/r/askTRP	24/02/15 09:11 PM
1	Wife cheating - is it worth a divorce? Here's a couple thoughts regarding the hiding/safeguarding of assets: I had a friend who's wife found a "friend". The first thing he did was refi the house and cash out the equity. She signed off on the refi because of the savings, but missed the cash out (I guess, she was shocked at their divorce signing to find out he did that). He used the cash to fund the divorce. This may be something to pursue with you having multiple properties. Once you've pulled the equity, give her the houses, she'll t…	/r/askTRP	24/02/15 06:32 PM
1	Is she ever "just being friendly" or interested? Outstanding.	/r/askTRP	20/03/14 03:29 PM
2	My Little Red Pill Story of Alpha-fucks, Beta-bucks I think my most blue pill trait is that it was my "duty" to be good and get married etc. As i'm thinking over the rp-bp, I see a lot of my bp beliefs are rooted in my idea of "duty" as I learned from my father. Ironically, he wasn't very bp, it only appears that way from a distance.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/14 12:36 PM
43	Stop me if you've heard this one before: Man moves across the country to please GF. She immediately leaves him .........and because they all raped her. She's actually the victim here. Why can't you see that?	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/14 07:32 PM
1	Perception is Reality: Dating Poor Girls Wealthy to upper middle class girls have seen and experienced a lot. Her lawyer daddy wanted her to have the best and now on your dates shes not impressed. Her dad drives a better car than you. She's gone to fancier restaurants with her family than with you. In her mind a man like her dad is her model husband and you don't really compare favorably. Very true. Her friends will spend all their time slagging you as well. Even if she looks past the difference, it will stick in the back of her mind.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/14 05:03 PM
6	"Don't get married at 23, be selfish, cut your hair, get tattoos and ride, ride, ride that cock carousel!" 20,000 likes on facebook. Amazing.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 07:07 PM
1	Should the MRA movement discourage men from marrying? Yes. Hence my confusion. Have a civil marriage (if you will) and move on. I've never understood why fight to include gay marriage into law when the real question is why is the government involved at all?	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 10:24 PM
2	Feminist Men's group's article on how to be a good Dad. Shut-up, and give $$$$ to the Mother. This was my takeaway.	/r/MensRights	28/12/13 10:26 PM
1	Interesting case of LMR Context, context, context.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/13 04:40 PM
-1	Should the MRA movement discourage men from marrying? It seems to me that there are no real advantages to legal marriages. Makes me wonder why gays want to marry so bad. I've been wondering this for years. Have a civil ceremony, a lawyer draw up living wills and call it a day.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 07:40 PM
2	There is a lot of talk here about self improvement but I think we often miss something important. Also good for new guys to see. "lift weights, get money" Being new I was taking it kind of literally.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 07:37 PM
2	Man's wife has been cheating on him for two years with her co-worker. Man proceeds to convince himself (and his wife) that she was raped. Should have dug deeper. Thanks	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 07:30 PM
3	Man's wife has been cheating on him for two years with her co-worker. Man proceeds to convince himself (and his wife) that she was raped. I'm kinda new to RP and have my jaw on the desk at this. Did anybody see why she even told him? Looked through it twice and don't see that. 7 years later; I'm betting she brought it up in the middle of a argument with him.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 04:14 PM
1	Feminists angry that welfare no longer focuses 100% on women's needs: "Americans have viewed men as capable of caring for themselves ... women were always viewed as people to be cared for and protected." I'm not sure why, SNAP is what they were pushing me to. My experience it was harder to turn it away than just take it. I have a friend who got on it last summer because she was having her minor niece (who received benefits in another state) stay with her for the summer. She received so much money a month, that 12 months later she finally depleted the money on the card. Granted, she budgets her shopping very well.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 12:12 AM
3	Feminists angry that welfare no longer focuses 100% on women's needs: "Americans have viewed men as capable of caring for themselves ... women were always viewed as people to be cared for and protected." Agree completely. What I meant by the commission comment was; our case worker acted like she would get an extra hundred on her next check if she signed us. She took it exceedingly personal.	/r/MensRights	26/12/13 07:42 PM
5	Feminists angry that welfare no longer focuses 100% on women's needs: "Americans have viewed men as capable of caring for themselves ... women were always viewed as people to be cared for and protected." Good Comment. I've got something similar: I decided to start a business several years ago. So I saved my money, quit my job and went to it. My wife was pregnant at the time so we were forced to COBRA my company insurance. The cost was so high, we COBRAed her insurance only, I went without, and we used a subsidised insurance plan that was available through our state for our 2 kids. The subsidized plan was means tested up to 80k, so we easily qualified (even before I quit my job). It cost $20.00/ …	/r/MensRights	26/12/13 07:21 PM