lurkythelurkingbean Archive

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–	What y'all thinking about porn and masturbation in redpill? Meh. Some guys go nofap, I personally don't. If you think you have a problem with porn, it's probably best to cut it out for a while and assess what else is going on in your life that is enabling your addiction. In all likelihood, if you're jerking off every day or multiple times a day, you don't have enough going on in your life and are doing it out of boredom. In that case, it would be wise to find hobbies to take up that time that will increase your SMV and get you in contact with women. Ther…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 09:03 PM
–	Women and their nature. Women have very short attention spans, especially when men are in the picture. It's likely that she never really had a reason not to love you anymore, you just weren't in close physical proximity to her while she was away, so she branch swung to someone who was. AWALT. Meh. What are you gonna do, that shit is a guarantee. Since they never really went away in the first place, they were just covered up and buried by more recent inputs, that means when she got back in town they all resurfaced. Doub…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/17 08:10 PM
–	How do you deal with plates that are touchy with other guys? Everybody is saying "it's your turn, she's not yours," and that's not wrong, but I'd just add this: the fact that she's doing it in front of you is definitely a shit test. Especially if she's pushing for LTR status, she's trying to check your level of mate guarding. Don't let it phase you, don't show any bitterness toward it, don't IN ANY WAY let her know that it gets under your skin. She's looking for a reaction, and it's time for you to be a rock. The lack of respect for you while simultaneous…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 07:27 PM
–	She's no unicorn, but how do I deal with her? I definitely tried to escalate physically From what you posted in the OP, it sounds like it was too little, too late. Maybe work on your push/pull, but multiple denied kisses with zero success means something about your escalation was off. In what ways did you touch her?	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 06:35 PM
–	She's no unicorn, but how do I deal with her? Sounds like she was enthusiastic about getting free weed, which you supplied for nothing in return. We smoke and chat for a few hours This is not sexy. "Chatting" with a girl is a sure way to blow your chances. She was willing to come to your room, so she may have been dtf, but your inability to take charge and escalate led to her putting you in the BetaBux category. It will be very hard to escape this classification now, best to next and move on. maybe she knows I'm running game The problem is,…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 06:26 PM
8	Never Get Complacent & Be Careful Of Your Male Friends "My awareness gets very sensitive. I pick up on micro expressions and body language more so than when sober" Bro that cop across the room is on to me, I swear!! His feet are pointing towards me and he keeps glancing in this direction and then talking to somebody and I'm pretty sure they're watching my house cause I saw two cop cars drive by yesterday in like twenty minutes of each other and this cop is talking on his cell phone and I'm pretty sure he blinked at me funny SHIT OP I've been there. …	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/16 01:58 PM
17	An Alpha Gentleman's guide to bar etiquette No need to over think things. The bouncer's there to do his job and make sure people stay safe. I can see where you're coming from in that this automatically puts you in a submissive position to him, but that's not something you can change, as it's inherent to the social roles in this situation.	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/16 08:12 PM
62	An Alpha Gentleman's guide to bar etiquette "You got it." Walk away from fire exit. What makes you look like a bitch is whatever insecurity you have that apparently leads you to think this interaction makes you look like a bitch. Can you really imagine someone seeing this scene and thinking "wow what a pushover, that guy didn't even start a fight over blocking that exit"	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/16 08:03 PM
1	On Value and the Value of Women I like the idea of energy being value, that's a good way to put it, and it seems to fit even the broader definition of value to humans - what people/things can I surround myself with that will be energetically favorable? Therefore, value is a fundamental part of the universe. Are you saying you believe this? That's the idea I was going for, as opposed to OP's "value is made up" stance	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/16 08:36 PM
2	Briffault's Law It's not a perfect analogy, you're right. I don't think they do it consciously, which is why I think there's such a large movement of "women are oppressed." They don't see what's really going on and how they have actually shaped society. But it's like, almost everything that a man does on some level is done to impress/keep/take a woman. It follows that women have some subconscious control over what gets done. For instance, if women could somehow make themselves be turned on by only astronauts, w…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 07:42 PM
3	Briffault's Law Wow, you seem to be pretty upset at what I said. Maybe hitting a little too close to home? It's not that I can't learn anything from a fresh perspective, it's more that I don't really get anything out of people repeating verbatim the same ideas without adding any attempt at insight. I've seen many posts that conclude with something along the lines of "lessons learned: AWALT." Okay? So? That's already discussed prettttty thoroughly around here. If you think you have something to add onto that, or…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 07:36 PM
7	On Value and the Value of Women First, I'll say that I agree with the macroscopic points of your post, as far as how bringing value to the table is important in developing and maintaining social connections. Anything I say should not be taken as a defense of letting yourself be of no value to anyone else. But I do have a different perspective from you when it comes to the idea of intrinsic value on a "floating debris in space" level, and wrestling with these ideas really helped me on my personal journey, so the hope is that pi…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 05:20 PM
0	Briffault's Law If by "adapting," you mean "being overrun by noise because of the influx of people who have no idea what they're talking about compared to endorsed contributors, yet feel the need to post garbage anyway so they can feel all alpha bruh," then...yes. If by "adapting," you mean some way of adjusting to this noise to let the signal come through, then no. In my ideal world, only those who had proven their merit in comments on previous posts (ECs or at least those with a few points) could post new top…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 02:03 PM
4	Briffault's Law Yeah, yeah, I know it would never work in reality. It's just so nice to see the front page not full of complete shit for once	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 01:31 PM
10	Briffault's Law In my opinion, this is the biggest oversight of feminism: that they do not accept/understand this law. Women are already more powerful than men, in terms of shaping the world, because men have to constantly achieve to keep women around. Men are the grunt laborers, the bodies to hold the weapons, while women were designed by nature to be the ones directing us from the background. I used to see it as a financial deal, where guys are constantly making interest-only payments, only to get fucked 30 y…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 06:34 AM
2	Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread Questions below, here's my predicament: I find sex rather boring. I've had a fair amount - I certainly haven't slayed mad pussy, but I have a mid-30 n count at 24 and 150 pounds, so decent enough that I've tasted a few different parts of the rainbow. I've tried various ways to make it more interesting (light bondage, I'm naturally rough and get more so all the time, different body type girls, threesome, roleplay, public locations, etc), but sex pretty much always ends up just being a chore I do …	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 06:01 AM