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Tomato potato, you at least agree with the point I was making
/r/askTRP18/02/17 08:27 PM
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Sounds like you are handling it appropriately. You have no obligation to ask her out, especially considering high school "relationships" typically mean nothing but a license to fuck. You don't owe her the explanation of why, but it's not necessarily bad that you gave it the one time. Now she knows, and she knows what she is doing to reinforce your decision not to LTR her. Ask yourself - is she going back to her old ways only because you didn't become exclusive?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:46 PM
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Meh. Some guys go nofap, I personally don't. If you think you have a problem with porn, it's probably best to cut it out for a while and assess what else is going on in your life that is enabling your addiction. In all likelihood, if you're jerking off every day or multiple times a day, you don't have enough going on in your life and are doing it out of boredom. In that case, it would be wise to find hobbies to take up that time that will increase your SMV and get you in contact with women. Ther…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 09:03 PM
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Women have very short attention spans, especially when men are in the picture. It's likely that she never really had a reason not to love you anymore, you just weren't in close physical proximity to her while she was away, so she branch swung to someone who was. AWALT. Meh. What are you gonna do, that shit is a guarantee. Since they never really went away in the first place, they were just covered up and buried by more recent inputs, that means when she got back in town they all resurfaced. Doub…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 08:10 PM
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Ummm I guess I'm the weirdo here, but I don't really see anything wrong with this situation as presented. If she texted you, volunteered the info that she wasn't at the movie, and wasn't saying sketchy stuff, I don't see what the big deal is. Unless you have other reasons not to trust her, it seems pretty innocuous to have a girls' night IN. As for being on coke around a baby, these prudes in here need to chill out. Cocaine does not cripple your judgment or motor functions. It's not like they're…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:44 PM
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Everybody is saying "it's your turn, she's not yours," and that's not wrong, but I'd just add this: the fact that she's doing it in front of you is definitely a shit test. Especially if she's pushing for LTR status, she's trying to check your level of mate guarding. Don't let it phase you, don't show any bitterness toward it, don't IN ANY WAY let her know that it gets under your skin. She's looking for a reaction, and it's time for you to be a rock. The lack of respect for you while simultaneous…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:27 PM
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Well, I don't know what you want to hear. From an outside perspective, it sounds like a normal reaction from a normal girl who wasn't into you. I'm disinclined to believe you're the Casanova you seem to think you are, considering you sat around and chatted for hours, and you straight up asked her why she wouldn't kiss you. All of that screams insecurity to me (and to her), which probably presented itself throughout your entire interaction with her. I would say work on your escalation game and DG…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:20 PM
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I definitely tried to escalate physically From what you posted in the OP, it sounds like it was too little, too late. Maybe work on your push/pull, but multiple denied kisses with zero success means something about your escalation was off. In what ways did you touch her?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:35 PM
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Sounds like she was enthusiastic about getting free weed, which you supplied for nothing in return. We smoke and chat for a few hours This is not sexy. "Chatting" with a girl is a sure way to blow your chances. She was willing to come to your room, so she may have been dtf, but your inability to take charge and escalate led to her putting you in the BetaBux category. It will be very hard to escape this classification now, best to next and move on. maybe she knows I'm running game The problem is,…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:26 PM
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Be the guy with the drugs. Don't give them out for free (money is not the only currency). Everyone there will want what you have, this automatically puts you in a position of power and raises your spot on the social hierarchy. But BE SUBTLE GODDAMMIT! It's just like having a lot of money - if you wave it around, you will come off as a tryhard and people will take advantage of you. Be outgoing. People at festivals, in my experience, are more open to socializing than in the outside world, because …
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:07 PM
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I thought this post was going to be about Carrie Fisher and party girls' cocaine habits
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:03 AM
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This is what I came here to say. "I know," with a smirk. If she gets it, she'll laugh and think it's cute. If she's never seen Star Wars, she can gtfo anyway
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 10:49 PM
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"My awareness gets very sensitive. I pick up on micro expressions and body language more so than when sober" Bro that cop across the room is on to me, I swear!! His feet are pointing towards me and he keeps glancing in this direction and then talking to somebody and I'm pretty sure they're watching my house cause I saw two cop cars drive by yesterday in like twenty minutes of each other and this cop is talking on his cell phone and I'm pretty sure he blinked at me funny SHIT OP I've been there. …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 01:58 PM
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Maybe you instantly recognized it because you read the title of the post?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 07:53 PM
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No need to over think things. The bouncer's there to do his job and make sure people stay safe. I can see where you're coming from in that this automatically puts you in a submissive position to him, but that's not something you can change, as it's inherent to the social roles in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:12 PM
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"You got it." Walk away from fire exit. What makes you look like a bitch is whatever insecurity you have that apparently leads you to think this interaction makes you look like a bitch. Can you really imagine someone seeing this scene and thinking "wow what a pushover, that guy didn't even start a fight over blocking that exit"
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:03 PM
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I dunno, I take the opposite stance. I see no need for anyone to stick around as a regular at this point. It's cool that some of the EC's do, but not necessary. The material is all here. The sidebar and top-rated posts are a complete red pill education for anyone with the motivation to educate themselves. Not to mention askTRP, other manosphere sites, and books that are, again, collected and listed in the sidebar. There's enough information here already, and if you can't figure out how to apply …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:39 PM
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One thing to note is that while visualisation-based meditation is useful for helping to increase focus, mindfulness meditation has been shown to have more pronounced effects. Even the action of visualising something can distract your brain from connecting with your subconscious in the way that mindfulness allows. (Mindfulness is taking that focus and turning it toward sensations in your body; Zen and Vipassana are mindfulness techniques.) Apparently this is what the Buddha discovered under the t…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 02:38 AM
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Da fuck you talkin' about? If anything, she pushed the bitch down!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:14 AM
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I still believed this myth, and I never heard it straight from a girl. Women find a man attractive who is: supremely confident, knows what he wants, not afraid to get what he wants, physically fit, not going to put up with her bullshit. It takes a certain level of maturity to balance these qualities with selflessness, so I think a lot of it comes from when we're young, when most of the people who act this way really are assholes. As we get older, confirmation bias keeps us from realizing that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 07:04 AM
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Impossible to tell. The descriptors you've given tell us superficial details that make first impressions at the most. How successful they will be is entirely dependent on how good their game is, how socially fluent they are, etc. Small guys can get laid if they're overflowing with confidence, and jacked guys can get passed on if they act like a chump when presented with female attention. Am I missing the point? Is there one? I can really see all of these going both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 06:50 AM
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Seems like another reason marriage was originally invented. We know that marriage has always been stacked against men's game, but here's an added bonus: it provides the woman with a constant incentive to stay with her man. If she leaves AT ANY POINT, she reaps the consequences, so her man is ALWAYS providing her at least some benefit. Now that marriage has become a shill and divorce is exalted, that constant threat of social ostracism has been replaced with a constantly present opportunity for c…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 09:03 PM
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I like the idea of energy being value, that's a good way to put it, and it seems to fit even the broader definition of value to humans - what people/things can I surround myself with that will be energetically favorable? Therefore, value is a fundamental part of the universe. Are you saying you believe this? That's the idea I was going for, as opposed to OP's "value is made up" stance
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 08:36 PM
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It's not a perfect analogy, you're right. I don't think they do it consciously, which is why I think there's such a large movement of "women are oppressed." They don't see what's really going on and how they have actually shaped society. But it's like, almost everything that a man does on some level is done to impress/keep/take a woman. It follows that women have some subconscious control over what gets done. For instance, if women could somehow make themselves be turned on by only astronauts, w…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:42 PM
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Wow, you seem to be pretty upset at what I said. Maybe hitting a little too close to home? It's not that I can't learn anything from a fresh perspective, it's more that I don't really get anything out of people repeating verbatim the same ideas without adding any attempt at insight. I've seen many posts that conclude with something along the lines of "lessons learned: AWALT." Okay? So? That's already discussed prettttty thoroughly around here. If you think you have something to add onto that, or…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:36 PM
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First, I'll say that I agree with the macroscopic points of your post, as far as how bringing value to the table is important in developing and maintaining social connections. Anything I say should not be taken as a defense of letting yourself be of no value to anyone else. But I do have a different perspective from you when it comes to the idea of intrinsic value on a "floating debris in space" level, and wrestling with these ideas really helped me on my personal journey, so the hope is that pi…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:20 PM
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If by "adapting," you mean "being overrun by noise because of the influx of people who have no idea what they're talking about compared to endorsed contributors, yet feel the need to post garbage anyway so they can feel all alpha bruh," then...yes. If by "adapting," you mean some way of adjusting to this noise to let the signal come through, then no. In my ideal world, only those who had proven their merit in comments on previous posts (ECs or at least those with a few points) could post new top…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:03 PM
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Thanks, I'll definitely check it out. I've lived the best of both worlds Would you personally say that an LTR was worth the effort? Are you still in it?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:38 PM
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Yeah, yeah, I know it would never work in reality. It's just so nice to see the front page not full of complete shit for once
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:31 PM
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In my opinion, this is the biggest oversight of feminism: that they do not accept/understand this law. Women are already more powerful than men, in terms of shaping the world, because men have to constantly achieve to keep women around. Men are the grunt laborers, the bodies to hold the weapons, while women were designed by nature to be the ones directing us from the background. I used to see it as a financial deal, where guys are constantly making interest-only payments, only to get fucked 30 y…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:34 AM
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Questions below, here's my predicament: I find sex rather boring. I've had a fair amount - I certainly haven't slayed mad pussy, but I have a mid-30 n count at 24 and 150 pounds, so decent enough that I've tasted a few different parts of the rainbow. I've tried various ways to make it more interesting (light bondage, I'm naturally rough and get more so all the time, different body type girls, threesome, roleplay, public locations, etc), but sex pretty much always ends up just being a chore I do …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:01 AM
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And anyone who thinks this is a bragging post about someone's sex life doesn't get TRP. At all. Look at the title. This is a post about THEORIZING VS ACTING. This post is about how so many people on here spend their time nit-picking and tearing apart semantics because they're too busy being a neckbeard to actually go out and DO SHIT. The fact that sex is involved in this particular post is completely secondary. This is what makes 80% of TRP stupid assholes: YOU CAN'T READ SUBTEXT! This should be…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:11 PM
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