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| 10 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.I actually think somatic psychotherapy has helped me cope with anxiety issues as well. My therapist taught me to start incorporating bodily movements whenever I would feel anxious thoughts coming in to help me "get out of my head" and back into my body. By bodily movements I mean: dancing, gently swinging my arms, exercising, going for a walk etc. I feel like a completely different person compared to before I began my treatments. I'd recommend it to someone who suffered from anxiety because it t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 10:12 PM |
| 35 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.I would never trust someone like this because he comes across as a “born again” spiritualist. I’ve met a lot of “born again” Christians who have done some of the darkest things in their pasts and are now “saved” because God forgives all and has given them second chances but it’s just a front. I only believe people who’ve done the work and don’t spout nonsense because talk is cheap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.For cptsd, what worked for me was somatic psychotherapy. Being able to identify, feel and sit with uncomfortable feelings that triggered scary flashbacks has helped me re-create a trusting and harmonious relationship with my intuition. I find it very easy to listen to the signals my body gives me now and this has made an impactful way on how I show up. I find it easier to identify when opportunities, places and people simply aren’t for me just based on the fact that I trust my first impressions … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:40 PM |
| 13 | Working with a sociopathic manHonestly, I hate to say it but if a manager is AWARE of his behaviour and he’s on thin ice with the union but is still employed then you may not be able to win this one. These types of coworkers are capable of having you fired because they have more seniority and connections within the company and one complaint to the wrong person can be enough because to them you’re still on a contract and it’s cheaper to let someone go who’s not a permanent staff member. I know you said you’d stick it out unti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:30 AM |
| 42 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadIt's honestly tricky because I've heard of situations where people hide their true personalities for x amount of years and then reveal their true colours after all that time. If someone is deceitful there will be signs that one should heed. Time has nothing to do with character and strong integrity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 14 | You can never convince a man to love youWatch SheRaSeven1's youtube videos. Use this time to level up and learn from your past experiences. You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:47 PM |
| 86 | “LoVe YoUr HaIr If ItS yOuRs” me and my hair will be ignoring you. Half the shit black women deal with. They try to tear us down by any mean necessary yet men still fall at my feet and that won’t stop.They secretly do hate the women of their own race because of how their mothers treated them growing up (they use this as THEIR excuse, I am not saying black mothers are responsible for their internalized colorism and self hatred). A lot of black men have internalized self hatred and colorism issues due to what's absorbed through media, society etc. I've also observed that the darker skinned black men treat black women poorly because they're constantly battling and projecting the self hatred they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:43 AM |
| 7 | RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut OffSomething that I learned specifically during this quarantine period that brought things to an end: Indirectly refuses to speak on the phone or speak/message more frequently with you. Does not follow through with the things you need or want from him. Does not put in effort to make you happy but will be quick to apologize (without changed behaviour). Doesn't care whether he'll be seeing you any time soon and uses excuses that "the world is on a halt so nothing interesting is going on in our lives"… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:40 PM |
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