luxecalme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Just say you are broke and go. 🥱 Personally I think pit hair on a woman is beautiful. Like the argument in support of pubic hair, it shows that the person is an adult woman. And given mainstream beauty standards, the confidence demonstrated by rocking fuzzy pits with a classy dress/tank is magnetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 02:15 PM
13	Ultimate Alpha Male Requirements 😂 The must have no debt thing really baffles me. That rules out most women with a degree, a car, or a mortgage. All commendable steps that typically require debt to finance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 10:27 PM
11	How to give FDS advice to a preteen??? I think the principles of self-respect embodied in this sub can absolutely be packaged in an age-appropriate way. Twelve is a great age to start talking to her about this stuff. If she's exposed to social media, it's crossed her mind. Plus it's not just the boys at school who will start paying her notice. I remember being sexualized by adult men at that age. She could use some defense tactics. To insulate and elevate her mind, maybe expose her to some feminist literature! Go to a bookstore toget…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 10:21 PM
54	Why are men such cowards? “White women’s tears” is a (real, academic) term used to describe how WW leverage their privilege to silence women of color specifically. Now your ex is co-opting it to dismiss and silence women of all races. It’s gaslighting and a weak attempt to devalue the descriptor.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 07:06 PM
14	Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us? Once a gay friend commented to me on another woman’s ass when we were out at a bar. She was a legit model and had “two perfect little cups” for cheeks. I was overweight (and hot!) at the time and my ass was not remotely that shape/size. Weird and rude and unsolicited.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 08:19 PM
21	Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us? This is less about you and more of a sign of how few bodies he’s observed IRL.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 08:15 PM
32	Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us? What they don’t say is also hurtful. One of them I dated remarked to me several weeks into our relationship “...you know, you’re really pretty!” as if it had just occurred to him. He never complimented me otherwise. If only I knew better back then!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 06:57 PM
2	I think I am dating a NARCISSIST ... am I? Here are my red flags Labels are comforting because they help us make sense of nonsensical behavior. But these labels don't excuse or explain much of anything. If he's not treating you right, you have to move on, narcissist or not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 09:53 PM
2	Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here. You are worthy. I made so much more progress in leveling up my life when I decided to be kinder, softer, gentler, more loving toward myself. Your gradual efforts will pay off in time! As for the weight loss, intermittent fasting worked for me like nothing else has.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 09:36 PM
1	Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When Dating Great advice! Someone recommended the Break the Dating Code podcast a bit ago. It has a great template for writing a DETAILED list. Seconds the "positive only" stance. Time to MANifest what we're looking for. :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 09:13 PM