| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Corona fucked me upSo majority of comments are on how badly I messed things up, I KNOW I messed up, that's why I posted this in the first place. Back to the original question, should I reach out and play beta for a bit until the situation is normalised or, just say fuck it as a life lesson? Thanks for all the tough love, I get it. -M | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | There is no fucking difference between cold approaching and swipe right on tinderSeeing a lot of excuses and justification for not approaching on this thread. Good stuff OP, keep it up. | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Finding wings - Birmingham UKGood taste. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good move to call women out on their IOI’s?It's fun to acknowledge it. Makes them all shy and feminine. After that it's a great excuse for kino since they're being adorable. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Vasectomy at 24Saved. Super solid insight, I have a lot to think about. Good luck on your journey my man. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Vasectomy at 24Agreed, I just want freedom to do what I want. I could be trapped with a kid at any point if I'm not careful, then that becomes my life, whether I like it or not. Do you find it harder to find long term partners? What you think about your future when your 40+? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Vasectomy at 24Not to sound edgy or cliché but life is meaningless, with or without kids, kids can add meaning to your but so can building a life size yacht out of fudge. It depends what you value out of life. Life is what you make it. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Vasectomy at 24About a year and a half now. The thing is I don't see children enriching my life in anyway. Maybe it's because I haven't achieved all my goals yet. Having kids just feels like the 'Well, I've done everything else so let's do this' kinda mindset. At least for me. Freezing my guys is an option, hopefully soon when I'm better off financially. Plus, 40% is decent odds for when I'm 35 and probably have my life in much better order, not only that, but medical advances might be made before then for mor… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is she dtf?This is a great, albeit confusing learning experience. She's left me on read after I replied with 4 words, 6 hours later LOL Thinking about throwing out a hail mary in about a week or two if she doesn't start chasing hard. What's a good way of saying 'I'm coming over to fuck'? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Is she dtf?I already am soft nexting her. There's no attention from me unless she basically invites me over to bang. I am confused though, I literally had her on top of me holding her by the throat while she's dry humping me but as soon as I go to stroke her pussy she moved my hand away. OK cool, I'll back up, try again later. Moves my hand again, I try the opposite and try guide her hand to my cock, moves my hand again. I don't understand how I'm communicating that I'm not sexual. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Is she dtf?LOL too late, I replied 'So far so good' and she just leaves me on read. I'm done. No pussy is worth this hassle. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Is she dtf?True, but she's already been soft nexted. I'm thinking she can earn one more shot based on the effort on her end. I won't be suggesting anything from now on. If she invites me out, cool. If we don't bang after that. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Is she dtf?I enjoy her company but I also value my time. A week in advance is too official for a girl who I haven't even fucked yet. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Is she dtf?My gut is telling me to do something like. She's displayed some good behaviour but I've soft nexted her. If she doesn't invite me out / over to hers, she's not getting my attention. + If she does invite me out and we don't fuck. She's done for good. Can I subtlety communicate that the frame of the date is 'I'm open to seeing you again, but this time we're going to bang and if we don't, this is the last you'll hear from me'? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Is she dtf?3 dates is enough to form a connection imo. The premise of the 3rd date was 'Let's get drunk and half-watch shitty Netflix movies together.' Which she gladly bought into. Side note- Before the date I said to her 'Don't wear anything to sexy, I won't be able to control myself' which she replied 'What's too sexy?' I then described an outfit for her in a good level of detail. Low and behold, she shows up in that outfit almost word for word. I'd say my intentions are clear. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Flaked within 2 messages?Good perspective, thanks | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Flaked within 2 messages?I gotcha, I need to be at a stage where I don't even question a flake because a flake allows me to see my other options | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Flaked within 2 messages?I didn't flake, when she asked me out we met up | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Attention seeking conversationsSo let this die and if she initiates again keep it minimal until it's time to try and setup another date? Got it, much love bro | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Other men of higher skillEdited the OP, hope my question is clearer now. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Other men of higher skillHow do I retain value and high SMV in environments/circles where I am around other high-value men of greater skill in areas I am working on? Edit: Wording | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 01:38 PM |
| 33 | 'You have a babyface'Lighten up lmao It's a simple question, IOI or IOD? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Best way to build a network?Isn't that a bit strange approaching someone with no context? Maybe not in a club or event setting, they're pretty much social catalysts, but what if I want to build connections outside of those? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Withdrawing attention after LTR refused sex - she criedShould have let her continue the handjob tbh. She showed signs that she wanted to please you even if her body wasn't playing ball just yet. Guide her, tease her, talk dirty. Go with the flow and escalate, slowly. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 11:52 AM |
| 2 | The "Apathetic" RejectionPut more conviction/energy into your approach. In a non-aggressive way, be someone they can't ignore. And if they do, who cares? Move on. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Should I get a job as a side hustle?What about using that spare change to go out to events, bars/clubs, classes, etc. That way you'll be honing your social skills whilst doing something enjoyable | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 01:06 AM |
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