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r /auntienetwork if you want to be able to help or may ever need help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:25 PM
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Ooof. The last comments pic is such a great example of ingrained misogyny. "I know older ladies who handle these situations with grace and empathy", is exactly the attitude that advises sympathy for rapists and gets women killed. GTFO idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:57 PM
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Can someone please pass me the eye bleach?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:38 PM
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Less loss now versus in 5 years. The second he thought you were trapped he showed his tail, imagine what it will really be like with him. Don't wait another minute or embrace the analysis paralysis, just get out. Call your mom and tell her you will be there in 20. ❤❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:53 AM
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Sending this stuff is seeking his validation. You're better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:01 PM
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Die mad, losers without evidence or standards. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:42 PM
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I noticed that the first response from the interviewer is a laugh when DLH brings up that "Ye wouldn't get any if he didn't produce hits." All the important things DLH said prior to that, even calling out society, and yet the interviewer felt that was the first moment in which he needed to show alliance or support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:44 AM
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Theoretically, the damage can be undone. We now know that the brain is very adaptive, especially in young people. But it is a very, very difficult process just like any other addiction, and since most do not see it as a problem until it negatively affects their life, most will not try. Dopamine fasting is the best way-as most addictions are rooted in a quantity of Dopamine in the nucleus accumbens and over time the body has to have more to avoid stulimulating the unpleasant effects of the amygda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:48 PM
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Whoa. Talk about a Catch 22. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:20 PM
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The likelihood of me ever again having sex with a man was already slim, but after this and the "my husband peed in me" post the chances are in the negative. I guess it's good that most of them suck in bed anyway, I'm really not missing much. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:37 PM
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Not only is nothing done, pedos are protected as long as they are wealthy. Or they "hang themselves" as soon as they could write a snitch list after literal decades of highly visible child trafficking. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:01 AM
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It's almost like... early signs of someone's lack of respect means... they won't respect you. 💡💡🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:50 PM
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I didn't know you could be that pretty and still look so embarrassed. Edit a word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:40 PM
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❤ Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:30 AM
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Girl, stop boosting this male ego. You are wasting energy and making others think that you pursue. Also, this "male friend who sees your chemistry" is just as likely to be a male who benefits from making you ignore your standards and boundaries. Remember that undermining a woman's confidence benefits any male in the vicinity who can use her insecurity/confusion to his advantage. You are not desperate so do not accept lazy. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:19 AM
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Gee. He's SO funny and SO creative. His IQ must be SO high. What an intellectual comedian. Clearly you must give him 82 more chances. You could be missing out on the unique, once in a lifetime opportunity to feel grosser on even more holidays!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:57 AM
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Oh JFC, now she is going to attempt to educate this teeny peeny boy who is about to have a child. I CANNOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:44 AM
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I strongly advocate for journaling. I was dating someone much larger than me who did jiu jitsu and my arms and legs were always covered in bruises the size of his fingers. He truly convinced me that I must have gotten really clumsy. My friend finally asked me to get assessed for leukemia (we work in the medical field), because I was covered in these bruises and had lost over 10 pounds in 2 months. I was struggling to eat, having bad headaches and chronic fatigue at age 28. It hit me then like, O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:49 PM
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Me too! Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:03 AM
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Meh. I'm not a fan of this guy OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:09 AM
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I recently experienced something like this. It was in a male dominated professional group where someone asked for info about the profession itself. I offered the info they requested (since I, you know, do the job full time and all) with kindness and transparency and was then attacked and downvoted by a lot of males. I actually left the group, because why would I risk my joy for that nonsense? Honestly, I have found that people who are on reddit mostly have 1 of 2 goals. Goal 1: collaborate with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:54 PM
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I love this post. I don't have any family and it isn't a secret to those who know me. When I was a young nurse, older nurses would always (with great concern) invite me to their homes on holidays. They would also teach me anything extra I wanted to know and they encouraged me to apply to a very selective school. I am now working on my doctorate at that school, only because they convinced me to apply. They believed I could do anything I wanted to do, long before I realized it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:52 PM
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YAS!!! Go get everything you want in life girl!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:31 PM
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Not only did you firmly quickly resolve the situation, but you came to terms with the true nature of your relationship with this person, AND you did it all on your own terms. What huge personal growth in such a short span of time. Thank you for the update! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:45 PM
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Everything about this sht just grosses me out now. FDS has made me into an analytical btch and I love it. I was watching Gilmore Girls between clients today and analyzing the males. Dean's insane jealousy and adultery, Luke never being open about what he wants, Jessie needing to be misunderstood to have an identity = things I used to intellectualize/accept. It is so freeing to remove the insanity glasses seeking some man to complete me and to find true joy within myself. End of random rant. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:36 PM
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This. Person. Is. Not. Your. Friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:56 PM
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Yeet him into the sun 😄😄😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:00 PM
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WTF. This is such BS. He's clearly a whiny little POS. I hope to god that the comments told her to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:37 PM
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Hey love. Sunken Cost Fallacy is when you keep something around based on the investment you have made rather than your current feelings. I think that is what is happening here based on your statements. The statement "I would cum in her" is so horribly degrading and gross. A part of you knows that. It is normal to be scared of change, but it is silly to stay in the same place when it is clear you have outgrown it. You have outgrown this man's gross behavior and realize that you desire freedom. Go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:28 PM
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I know we spend a lot of time analyzing things here, which we all need and appreciate. But, can we just take a moment to CELEBRATE THIS BAD MAMMAJAMMA WHO LET GO AND MOVED ON. This is a success story. This is a woman who refused to take shyt and even now is seeking the insight of others when out of her depth. She is exactly the mom America needs more of. Love this story where a woman doesn't stay and put up with garbage. According to her history, she is likely to take the suggestions and further…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:04 PM
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Wow. This is just horrible. She intentionally destroyed her daugters opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:50 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:42 AM
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This. These women clearly knew his predatory behavior personally. Instead of looking out for a young person, they removed their support when you were manipulated and harmed. These women failed to protect a vulnerable teenager. If anything, this whole "friend group" was a cycle of unhealthy behavior that you were not equipped for. Regarding the apology: It's a no from me dawg. Move onward. Use your past to learn and grow, but not to keep looking backward and having regrets.❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:31 AM
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Be careful with this line of thinking. Often, you CANNOT tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:44 AM
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LIFT WEIGHTS. Self defense classes are great, but weight lifting is very cheap, easily accessible and truly, TRULY makes you feel, stand and walk differently. I am 5'4" and 115 pounds and I can pretty easily disloge a person twice my size. FYI, my regime is about 30 minutes, 3 or 4 days a week. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:48 AM
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Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:39 PM
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Ugh. I just heard how some acquaintances are "kinda engaged". They have been together 6 years and her grandma is dying and wants her to be married first. He didn't even propose, they just came to some kind of agreement. The male who told me this got really pouty when I said "a man who doesn't propose before this isn't sure". I feel kinda bad, but also know I'm right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:33 PM
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"He can catch you in the next lifetime." Lol I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:37 PM
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Spread the word girl. Old PickmeME once met a guy at work who blew her mind. She thought he was sooooooo amazing, ignored 145 red flags and gave him a chance. Turns out all his exes were from his job and had since quit. They all QUIT. I have since followed the pattern and feel so at peace with being no contact. Vulnerable narcissists are so gross. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:11 PM
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I am highly intelligent, kind, successful and smoking hot. I can do anything I want. I feel so free and open to experience life. I vow to never allow anyone to make me forget these things ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:50 AM
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Healthy chronicles? Ironic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:51 AM
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Hmmm, idk about HV as it pertains to dating, but here are some that contribute positively to my growth as a person. Ana Psychology talks about mental health in a way I find honest and responsible. Dearly Bethany has style topics that I find lovely and responsible. Whitney Simmons is one of my favorite fitness influences, as she is very open about her struggles. Life Over 60 with Sandra helps keep my age in perspective when worrying about missing out on youth. Nick Keomahavong is a Buddhist monk …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:55 AM
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If your leases are separate, you can break your lease without conversing with him. If you do that, it sends your landlord a clear sign that this guy is bad news. In the meantime, keep your room locked and check it and the bathroom for cameras. There are youtube tutorials for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:25 PM
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Sobering. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:21 AM
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Yes ma'am. My ex seemed like a huge attention seeker, always looking for the next shiny thing as distraction. Turns out, my thoughts were correct. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:57 PM
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Just ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:30 AM
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To clarify: I do not want to get married. It would take my perfect match for me to ever be interested in a male again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:30 AM
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Me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:29 AM
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Unpopular opinion to follow. Sorry in advance. I'm military for 12 years, sleep with a loaded pistol beside me (there are never, for any reason children in my home). If you are not this comfortable with a gun, get something else. Taser, mace, ax, knife, baton, some kind of hitting tool. I cannot tell you how many women I have seen (I'm a nurse practitioner now), who had a gun taken from them during momentary hesitation and used to control them during an assault. I've also seen women shoot themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:24 PM
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This. The sad part is that she won't realize it for a long time, if ever. Everyone around her does. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:10 PM
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Congratulations!!! ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:07 PM
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JFC, what the actual fck. Reading between the lines, it sounds like he may have messed up her first pregnancy. Absolutely no concern for his wife or child, yet she uses the words "picking a fight"?! Since when does calling out BS and acknowledging that someone is a gross liar encapsulate "picking a fight"? When self advocacy leads to a fight, you are already in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:03 PM
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Great post. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:59 PM
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Keep spreading the word queen. Love this. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:36 PM
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Cool question! As a medical professional, do your research. Very limited ability to get background on donors in some states is colliding with a population that needs alternative income. Google: Sperm Donor 1558. While you research, be aware that much of mental health has some genetic component that no environment can account for. Epigenetics account for some gene expression, but you also cannot overtly control life experiences or you create an anxious child with severe self-recrimination habits.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:24 PM
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Jealousy of pets or children is a sign of serious mental health issues. If you see this red flag, consider it an absolute and immediate no. #addittoyourlist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:24 AM
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Wow. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:17 PM
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Omg my favorite dumpster, Bumble is just on the other side of that Taco Bell! Small world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 01:36 AM
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Wow. Such a validating post. I work in psych and the scariest one is the guy who likes girls on SSRIs. What a way to minimize a health crisis that is currently a garbage fire in America, which sometimes results in death. Also, how fcking predatory of him to specify a population that definitely doesn't need his disgusting impact in their life. Dear god, the statistical probabiliry of me ever having sex with one of these creatures again is so, SO low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:03 AM
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I appreciate you normalizing a child's response to abuse. Small acts are what will eventually challenge stigma. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:18 PM
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My ex has cystic fibrosis. He sucked me in with stories of how he always thought he was going to die at any point so he had always dated "fun chicks" and my intelligence and confidence intimidated him. He played on my mental health role to flip me into a place I often go professionally to make people feel comfortable during sessions. I let the diagnosis explain to me his drug use, all of his friends being females, his mom and him being weirdly close, him ignoring my boundaries and standards caus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:53 PM
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Girl, did you date my ex? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:53 PM
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Dating someone I thought was kind and possibly my future who tried his best to wreck my life and self value. In hindsight, I realized I have never met a man I would want to make decisions if I were brain dead on a ventilator (I work in health care). At that point I said screw it, I'm done. I'd rather be alone than stressed, self conscious or controlled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:14 AM
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I hope you had fun with it! I painted the grass in the backyard with it and smelled minty for days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:02 PM
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I was once like this. Past history includes multiple foster homes and parent abandonment, so I have been a walking ad for anxious/disorganized attachment. My tip? Channel this into canned food drives, book drives, school supply drives, adopt a child/giving tree drives, hats/coats/scarves drives, etc. There is even one near me that let's you adopt a foster child's birthday! Step 1: observe a firm budget. Step 2: choose an appropriate gift(s) for your partner. Step 3: spoil your community by choos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:26 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Recently dated an abusive narc who was so LV it could be a reality show. I work in medicine, make good money and have recently decided not to seek romantic partners. I'm actually really happy looking into a future of freedom and stability. My issue now is finding a friend group that has the same standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:05 PM
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Don't date military guys until they are at least over 50. All of them are garbage. Source: I've been in the Army for 12 years and am in on the "boys club" conversations. I'm glad you're okay. Screw this guy. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:51 PM
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Ugh. I was getting my nails done today. A girl near me was beautiful, well spoken, and kind to her nail tech. She said she is getting her nails done so that her bf of 3 YEARS, with whom she OWNS A HOME, may consider putting a ring on it. She said she had asked him multiple times. 😳 I'm so glad I am here now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:47 AM
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This may be unorthodox, but I must say this applies to local travel as well. I recently wasted my time and energy on a man a half hour away who I always went too and picked up. Turns out he was a full blown narcissist. And that's coming from someone who is credentialed to diagnose. Lol If he won't come to you most or all of the time, move on sis. Now if only I knew that last year. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:20 PM
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Yes!!!!! I'm tearing up. Hahaha ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:14 PM
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Great book: The Gift of Fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:31 AM
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I had a POS who said my kindness. He just thought I was a sucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:13 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:20 PM
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I really, really needed to read this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:17 PM
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