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Those men need to get out in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:04 PM
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This is honestly the truth. It's what I did after my divorce. The combination of that and online dating has led to one of the best times of my life. Use all the tools available. You get out what you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:02 PM
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Go check some of the infidelity subs. You'll find posts of men lamenting the fact that their cheating wife would let her affair partner do things that the betrayed partner asked for and got denied. The cheater would tell her husband "I don't do that, I've never done that, I'll never do that". But, after the affair is discovered and the details come out, the cheater will explain she did all those things to keep the affair partner around, because she knew he had other options because he was attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:24 PM
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Women will do more for men they are more sexually attracted to. I've seen it, heard it, and experienced it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:19 PM
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I get what you're saying, but that was your personal experience. I dated a 20 year old when I was 30. Just hearing that, does that make me a creep? Honestly, if an older guy that was attractive and well put together came into your orbit when you were younger, I'm sure you would've been interested. That guy obviously never appeared for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:21 PM
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I don't think financial contribution should be really factored if both are working. I will say the type of work does matter. A physically exhausting construction job takes more out of you than a desk job. I'll say this from personal experience. I think women overestimate what they do around the house and underestimate what men do. I see women talking about cleaning the house, but they never mention that the husband does maintenance on the house, does the yardwork, takes care of the vehicles, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:35 AM
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Oh look, a pigeon playing chess. Knock over all the pieces, shit on the board, and strut around like you won.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:29 AM
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Yes they do. You're looking at it as women want men to give fat women a chance. The more common situation is a guy starts dating a woman, she puts on a lot of weight, and the guy is shamed for wanting to break up. Men are told they are shallow for doing that. But, if a man was making a lot of money at the beginning of a relationship, but either loses that job or take a lesser paying job, women are told it's a-ok to drop that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:50 PM
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Woman- "I want a tall man" Most people are ok with them saying that, only some will say it's not ok Man "I want a woman with a low n count" Most women "you're so insecure, the past is the past" Side note, the past is the past only go for those things women don't want to count. If a woman found out a man has been with an inordinate amount of women, then the past matters. If a man used an escort, then the past does matter. If the man spent more resources on an ex, then the past matters. If a man s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:56 PM
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"why didn't you date that woman??" "She's had sex with too many guys for my liking" "Oh, you're insecure" See, the whole point of the post is that men are called insecure and controlling when they choose what they would like their partner to do while in a relationship. Why is everyone completely ignoring the premise of the post?? Probably cuz they know it's true and the commenters don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:51 PM
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Then, based on the original post, not dating that woman makes the man insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:51 AM
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Yeah, your comment here is one dimensional. Men and women behave differently when single vs when in a relationship. That's reality. Arguing against that is buffoonery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:35 AM
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That's the crux of the post. If a guy tried to establish an expectation, he's controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:33 AM
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I had experience, and I still got fooled, twice. Sometimes you really hope what you want to be true is true, and the other person is great at manipulating you. Still my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:02 AM
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It's all fair. There are different rules for different people and that's how it is. Play the game the best you can with the cards you were dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:58 AM
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That's true, but lot of women just lie there and don't do much for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:41 PM
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I won't say the girls I've been with have starfished, but a lot of them are kind of passive while having sex. It's as though it's all on me to get them off. A lot of women would do well to let their inhibitions go a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:40 PM
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A lot of women really don't do much in bed. Even when they are on top, I'm doing a lot of the work. I think a lot of women would be served well to become a more active participant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:36 PM
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In my experience, the men who don't do what you're suggesting are either A. Socially inept, so they don't understand style, and are not able to relate to most women anyway or B. Did do all those things you've suggested, it didn't work, so they see no reason to keep putting in that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:16 AM
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I was living the gimmick 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:42 AM
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I've found a couple of the women online, and there they are, dressed up so classy with their husbands at their side. And all I can think is she was on all fours with my dick in her ass telling me to fuck her like a slut🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:19 AM
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It isn't lost attraction. They did things with me they NEVER did for their husbands. Anal, ATM, facials, beg for cum, beg to choke on my dick, drag them by the hair, tell me to fuck them like a whore. A whole bunch of degrading stuff. And I'd hit them up when I'd swing back around in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:15 AM
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Lots of women still have a biological urge to have a baby, and I think a lot of women talk themselves into thinking they are attracted to the guy they married. I believe my ex wife did that with me. Also, she needed me to support her. Then again, if I called her a POS, that would be a day I'm thinking fondly of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:37 PM
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I'm guessing you're a guy. My story shouldn't be a libido killer, it should be a marriage killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:31 PM
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On your first point, it depends on how you view that 80/20. I've seen more like 90/10, but it's not that 90% of men are unattractive or ugly, it's that those top 10% get the majority of the attention and action. I'm friends with two guys who I would say are top 5% in looks, and the attention they get when they are out is eye opening. They both claim that there n count is probably in the 200 and I believe them. I don't think I'm all that attractive, but when I was younger and travelling, I had se…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:26 PM
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It's like, do they realize that unhappy unhealthy men probably can't get married or can't stay married??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:56 PM
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bUt Do ThEy HaVe ThE aCtUal NuMbErs!! If not they're just guessing!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:54 PM
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Women will most definitely invest years into a man to be financially provided for. Fucking happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:51 PM
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Lot of times those guys don't actually provide the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:49 PM
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I wrestled professionally for quite a few years. One of my first monikers was "The Wisconsin Homewrecker", and that graduated to "The Midwest Homewrecker", and I earned those nicknames. The amount of times I heard married women say they would never do (current sex act) with their husbands/fiance/boyfriend was astounding. Karma bit me in the ass because I married a woman who was just with me to support her, and got shitty starfish sex, and discovered she lied about all the sexual stuff she did in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:47 PM
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So, I kinda got catfished by a heavy girl last year. Didn't know it until I met her, but I stuck around anyway throwing axes. This group of younger women came in and the shade my date threw at them was intense. "Look at those Barbies" "they're not real women" "guys who go for those girls are shallow". Obese women think men SHOULD date them despite the obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:25 AM
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Men hate being lied to. "Treat a woman right" and "personality is the most important thing" are two of the biggest lies. Back in my younger days I had a few girls who would tell me how I treated them so well, and how much their ex boyfriends treated them horribly. And those women would fuck their exes behind my back. Even the supposed nice girl did this to me, so don't give me the "you pick shitty women" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:22 AM
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Just today I went back and forth with a girl trying to gaslight men saying personality is the number one thing women go for. It's a fucking lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:17 AM
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This post is such bullshit. First, you will read in any relationship sub men being called insecure, not meeting the bare minimum (whatever the fuck that actually is) and shallow. Second, men are the ones shamed for their standards. Especially when it comes to looks and sexual history. A man says he doesn't want a woman who's been with a lot of guys, and he's a misogynistic asshole because sexual past doesn't matter. A woman says she doesn't want to be with a guy who paid for sex in the past and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:15 AM
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Bullshit. That's absolutely "look at me I'm so smart and mature" talk you got going on there. Hey, so get this because it might blow your mind. When I was 30, I dated a 22 year old, and then a 20 year old, and then I dated a 42 year old. Guess what, guys date women they are attracted to who are willing to date them irregardless of age. I laugh at comments like yours, as though you know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:21 AM
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I hung out by a bar near Midway Airport. What I'm about to say is not politically correct, but, there was a reason they were referred to as sky whores. I made the mistake of actually falling for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:08 PM
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I don't care who goes after who and for what reason. I just laugh when a man or woman keeps getting fucked over because they overestimate their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:15 PM
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I don't think the argument is people should be attracted to people they're not attracted to. I think the argument is that women think it's ok to judge a man by his height, but are offended when judged by their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:09 PM
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Height matters to women. But it's not the deal breaker a lot of men in the internet say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:07 PM
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Exactly. And cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:33 AM
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Don't listen to blebby. That person honestly doesn't sound like they actually know what's going on, based on the superficial subjects they've touched on. My GF is a 1st grade public school teacher, and they know boys are disadvantaged in the ways public schools are taught. But, no one wants to actually change the system as long as test scores are being met, and also the ideas that have been brought forward costs too much money. That's the funny part. They threw money at girls to catch them up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:32 AM
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Really?? My GF is a first grade teacher and she openly admits that the way the public school system is set up disadvantages boys. That's why she sends her son to a private school that teaches boys differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:26 AM
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Y'all make this so much complicated than it is. When you meet someone, you're going on a lot of physical attraction. Once you're with someone, the emotional attraction develops. My own example. I thought my ex wife was hot when I met her. When we broke up, I was crushed. But, if she looked like she did when we broke up when we met, I probably wouldn't have dated her because I wouldn't have been physically attracted to her. I hope that made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:03 PM
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Chances are you'd be an average man, and therefore wouldn't be able to have sex often anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 08:15 PM
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I cared about my ex wife's body count. She swore up and down it was less than 15. She also told me most of her sexual experiences were in long term relationships. And, that she had never done a whole list of sex acts. Well, her count was over 50. Her longest relationship besides me and her kids dad was 8 weeks. Lots of ONS. And she participated in a lot of different sex acts. What I learned. Well, she never loved me. She doesn't get emotionally attached to men who are emotionally available. She …
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 08:14 PM
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My experience with women with higher partner counts A. They are insecure. They see obtaining sex as validation. B. Impulsive. They can not stick to a plan and will do whatever whenever no matter. As far as women knowing their bodies better, it usually is a guy who shows them things that they respond to. So, just be that guy.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 08:05 PM
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If we're to speak logically. Most women with a lot of sexual partners are the insecure ones. They use sex and attention as validation. On the flip side, a guy who is secure has no problem turning down a woman for any reason, a high body count being one of the. An insecure man will accept a high body count woman because he's not confident he'll be able to find another woman.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 07:59 PM
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You're always going to find outliers on the "who wanted vs who filed the divorce" stuff. Instead of comparing individual cases that go against the common thought, I like to look at same sex marriages. And lol and behold, lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rate by far, gay men, the lowest. If you want anecdotal evidence, I've seen that women get bored in relationships. Side note. The other interesting thing looking at same sex relationship and marriages, the lesbian ones have the highest …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:28 PM
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That's great and all, but fact is women rate most men as unattractive or below average, and men rate most women as attractive or above average. That's really all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:15 AM
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Any poll or informal study I've seen has women finding a good majority of men below average, and men find the majority of women above average. Fact is, women only think their beauty standards for them are higher because women judge other women much more harshly than men judge women. As far as attracting the opposite sex, the beauty standards are much higher for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:11 AM
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Fucking a lot of dudes makes a girl repulsive to men, or are we only allowed to judge men on sexual past and not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:09 AM
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They rarely are vulnerable. I knew one guy who got exposed by a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:01 AM
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Here's a short post of a guy John. He was socially awkward, paid a stripper for services, but she would make him buy stuff for her and her friends. So, who was exploiting or coercing who??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:00 AM
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I worked with a guy named John back in 2013. He was in his mid 40's and a helluva worker. No wife, no kids, had money. But, he was socially awkward, like, couldn't get a girl awkward. He went to a strip club, got close to one of the girls and became a regular. Now get this. He would pay for services, but, he would take her out for dinner. And everytime he took her out, she would bring 2-3 friends, and make John pay. Now, who the fuck was exploiting who?? Get out of here with your bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:58 AM
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I would hope you're not a hypocrite and would support a man who wouldn't seriously date a girl based on her sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:48 AM
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I've gone on Tik Tok and commented on videos where a woman is demonizing men because they won't date a woman with a high body count. I'll ask some women in the comments if they would date a man who paid for sex. Most of them say no, because a guy who paid for sex doesn't like up with how they view sex should be. It's kind of a double WHOOSH, and they can't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:47 AM
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I know the studies say 7, but I have a hard time believing that. Maybe it's because I live in a more populated area of the U.S, so my frame of reference is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:44 AM
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Misogyny and patriarchy are two terms that have been twisted to match whatever agenda they need to fill at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:42 AM
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Just wondering, do you support males having a preference for a woman who hasn't been with a lot of guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:39 AM
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r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:44 PM
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Those scrawny guys names?? All were named Albert Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:43 PM
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Look, someone else putting down guys looking for a partner on foreign soil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:41 PM
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Who says they have to leave the country?? It seems a lot of passport bros visit a country, and realize that the women in that country are just better than the women in their country. Your question of "could I get this woman in the US" doesn't work. The reason you're going to a different country is the women there were raised differently, and have different physical, personality, and financial preferences. You're basing your opinion on a highly edited "reality" TV show. That's not a good look. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:40 PM
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You let this person completely derail the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:30 PM
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That is not a tu quoque fallacy. If anything, you equating a foreign woman to an 18 year old is a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:23 PM
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She looks young because she didn't suffer at the hands of men?? It sounds like you're a 23 year old who can't figure out dating so you're looking for an excuse as to why "you" are choosing not to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:34 PM
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Most guys will talk with their matches. I saw something that the average guy only gets 3-5 matches a month, so of course they are probably going to communicate due to scarcity. I'm convinced that the guys who don't talk are the guys who get all the likes on the apps. They can pick and choose who they want. Unfortunately, since those are the guys the women actually want, their responses(or lack of) are the only ones that register with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:46 PM
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Wait. Scandi calls out someone who blames men for the state of the apps and Scandi is the bitter one? No, Cycle sounds like the bitter one, and you sound like a delusional troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:36 PM
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Like women don't lie about what their body type is. I don't know if the apps still have it, but I remember a lot of obese women would check curvy or a little overweight. You could compare it to guys flubbing their height, but a 5'10" dude claiming 6' on an app isn't nearly as bad as a 300 lb woman claiming curvy or just a touch in the heavy side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:01 PM
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Vast majority of guys don't use deceit, guilt trip, or lie to get a girl into bed. Girls just say that shit to cope with the fact they had sex with someone and then got rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:18 PM
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I've got lots of female friends, so I've seen how they operate. They hook up with a guy, maybe once, maybe a few times, and then the guy moves on. If my friends like the guy, they'll complain that all he wanted was sex and that he used them(I know I'm switching back and forth with plurals here), when those guys never once said they were committed to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:13 PM
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If you're a woman looking to find a male partner, then males will decide your dating/relationship/marriage value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:17 AM
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Women being independent and actually not needing a man is a good thing. Women overestimating their value because of their independence is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:55 PM
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Your comment reminded me of this scene https://youtu.be/XHCfLtAAEzM
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:08 PM
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Isn't this sentiment that made 50 Shades so successful?? Because there is a large segment of the female population that love to see the average (by Hollywood standards) woman tame the successful fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:09 PM
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You'll hear more stories of men acting up after getting rejected than you'll hear of women acting up. But that's because way more men approach and put themselves out there than women do. But, in my experience, women take rejection a lot worse than men do. I've been yelled at and demeaned by the few women who approached me that I rejected. And I was not mean or nasty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:14 PM
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And then the bitchy ones make videos talking about how men are too insecure to handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:00 AM
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I find a lot of these red pill guys really just bitch about women tirelessly. But, the biggest problem I've seen is they'll discuss men's problems, and will slowly introduce far right talking points. I can't remember which creator it was, but he made the completely illogical jump that the CEO of the Titan expedition made a diversity hire and that's what doomed the submersible. He claimed an old white guy would've saved their lives, but he was fired because he was old and white, and this minority…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:52 AM
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The guy is willing to provide for her and her kids. I learned that the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:42 PM
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You're so close. You say women sleep with a man because they want him. Now, picture two guys. One, an average height male who's not in good shape and has difficulty talking to women. Now, imagine a 6' man with a good body who is very good at socializing with women. Which guy will have the higher body count?? I mean, you basically answered the why guys with higher body counts can get women with lower body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:13 PM
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Dude, I'm embarrassed it happened. But, even though I've lived it a couple of times, it seems people on this website have a hard time believing a woman could do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:16 PM
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They're not poor. They're just looking for well intentioned men to take them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:46 AM
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I've been the victim where I took the girl out to dinner once or twice a week just for another guy to go to her house afterwards. Once I found out, I ended things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:21 AM
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I don't think Nicenap was talking about her ex. I think he feels more sympathy for the guys taking the girl out. I mean, these guys are spending time and money on this girl, and after the date, she calls the one guy to fuck. That's the disgusting part. I've been the dude taking the girl out, just for her preferred man, who won't take her out, to come over 30 minutes after I drop her off to smash. Last year I took a girl out 6-8 times. I always paid. She wouldn't even kiss me. The last date was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:19 AM
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Part of the money he paid was also daycare, even though his ex didn't really work. That's just one situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:32 AM
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I was Indiana, and this was 10+ years ago. It's not a problem anymore. The guy I talked about was Illinois. We worked construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:27 AM
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He didn't have decreased income. He brought home 4,400 a month. Judge ruled he needed to pay 3,800. I will say in Indiana, when I got laid off, I would have to tell the system of my lower earnings. It would take a couple of months to go through. The new support amount started the day the order was accepted. But, if I went back to work, the first day I started working, the amount went back to normal. I was never laid off more than 3 months, so I always had to pay $350 a week on a $450 unemploymen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:24 AM
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I will say this. I knew one guy I worked with who continually went to jail for not paying the full amount of child support. You'd think he was a bad guy. He took home $1,100 a week, how could he not pay?? He showed me the court order. His total monthly maintenance/child support was $3,800 a month. That didn't include sports of doctor visits that he had to cover 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:14 AM
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I know a couple of single moms who don't get help from the dad's. I fucking married one. I can tell you there was every indication that the dude would be a terrible dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:10 AM
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Feminists shut down events discussing male suicide. Feminists are trying to ban paternity tests for married couples (they already won that one in France) Feminists protest against abuse shelters for men. So it does seem that feminism is actively working against men. Yesterday, in a feminist sub, a woman told me that feminism is the solution for men's problems. I asked what feminist organizations are pushing for issues affecting men. It was then revealed that feminism isn't directly helping men, …
/r/MensRights18/06/23 07:28 PM
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I don't see overweight men making videos or writing articles about how women need to find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:13 PM
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Here's an article than runs down the myth you'll see about women's health being underfunded. Like, it's literally a machine right now that's elevating women while gaslighting society that women are being held down. https://www.theatlantic.com/past/docs/issues/96jun/cancer/kadar.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:57 PM
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Honestly, look at the raw numbers when it comes to funding for men's and women's health. Money is pouring in on the women's side even though they live longer. But, if you look at a Google search, you'll see up and down how it's supposedly women's health being underfunded. But, if you read the articles, you'll see it's more in the line that stuff like heart disease has been studied more in men over the years, so sometimes women's symptoms are not as noticeable. As far as my comment on the top % o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:55 PM
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Western society only cares about the very top % of males, the rest are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:38 PM
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Paying for Tinder doesn't seem to matter. The top chosen men don't pay. I originally paid for it, and I think I got more matches when I stopped. If you got the number of quality matches you say, you're probably a pretty good looking dude. But I know it doesn't matter how many people tell you that, you still sometimes don't believe it. My current GF insists that I'm hot, and I just don't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:36 PM
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I've seen, and it's happened to me, though I'm about a 5.5. But 4s and 3s will approach me and my friends. It ain't all that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:37 AM
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Less attractive women know they're not getting approached alot, so some of them do approach. TBH, they're confidence does make them a bit more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:59 AM
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Poster: Men do yard work Typical redditor: That takes an hour at most a week!! Poster: How long does it take to vacuum the house?? Typical redditor: Misogynist!! Misogynist!!
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:25 PM
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Yard, house, and vehicle maintenance doesn't count in females minds.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:22 PM
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And when women mention chores, they don't include yard maintenance, house maintenance, or vehicle maintenance. None of that counts.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:20 PM
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I've noticed that. And women openly admit it as well, which is strange cuz they often virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:00 PM
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It's similar in nature. What that wife was doing was even shadier than a woman staying with an ex, and the poor husband got shamed by being called insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:40 PM
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Here's another example of men being gaslit with insecure. If a man states his preference for a woman with a low body count, women will condemn that guy for being insecure. Yet, find any thread asking women if they'd date a man who's paid for sex, and the resounding answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:44 PM
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This isn't a one to one, but a couple of weeks ago, a man posted in Relationships about not being comfortable with his wife staying at a hotel for a work party. He explained that spouses were invited to the after party, and to stay at the hotel, but his wife didn't invite him. That there was a male co worker clearly hitting on her, and not only wouldn't she shut it down, she wouldn't tell the man she was married. And that he offered to pick her up after the party to take her home, but she refuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:38 PM
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I'll bring this up. Data says that men cheat more than women. But an actual expert, who is a woman, said straight up that women cheat more than men but don't admit it publicly. Just another example how poll conducted data conflicts with the real work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:12 AM
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"Actual data". Hi miss, why did you leave construction?? A. You couldn't hack it or B. You were harassed?? Yeah, until there is a non bias third party that witnessed it, I'm gonna go with what I actually witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:04 AM
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And the majority of "harassment" is women be held accountable for their productivity, or lack of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:46 AM
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Yes, I've witnessed first hand that the majority of women don't want to do the work to keep up with the men. Keep skirting the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:44 AM
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Way to skirt my point. Once again, women do not avoid construction because of sexual harassment. They avoid it because they don't want to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:57 AM
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I know the code construction trades in Chicago are dying to hire more women. Women are treated really well and often don't even work with the tools. They become safety supervisors, work in the trailers, and are often paid just to be in the payroll. When I started my apprenticeship, there were over 50 people in my class, at least 15 were women. Most didn't make it out of the initial classes, and only 2 made it to become a journeyman. Women don't avoid trades because of sexual harassment, they avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:24 AM
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Women know if the father could be different than her husband. France already outlawed husbands from getting paternity tests, and I'm sure the feminists in the U.S. will get that law passed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:27 AM
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France outlawed husbands from getting a paternity test. Germany is on the way too. If things keep progressing the way they are in the U.S., paternity tests will be illegal (for married couples) as well. It's women fighting for more rights to escape responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:25 AM
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Exactly. "Don't dress too nice! Don't be interesting! Don't get a good job!! That's being manipulative!! Just stand there and ask about her job and family, and don't be funny!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:59 AM
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I ask, why is game bad. It's, boiled down to simplest terms, increasing the other person's sexual interest in you. And it doesn't have to lead to a ONS. Guys use game to attract females they want to commit to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:56 AM
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They don't have any examples that are widely used by most men. They use these nebulous terms and will come up with 1 example out of 15 and act like that's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:52 AM
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"Applied friendliness" is exactly what I was talking about in another comment. Being too friendly, as social experiments have shown, will not lead to successful outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:49 AM
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Their tactics do not involve assault or harassment. Stop coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:48 AM
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Who's being disingenuous and how? And how are they lying?? And your use of social experiment is ridiculous. Hey, guys "socially experimented" and a couple of the things they found out is be confident and not meek. Also, dress nicely and not like a slob. My god, what lying and manipulative monsters they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:45 AM
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There's tons of YouTube videos teaching women behaviors and strategies on how to get a guys attention, yet no one cares. Why? Because men don't lie about what they want. The reason women don't like PUAs is simply that the strategies PUAs use go against what women outwardly say they want and the strategies work. Example, I use to be the nice guy. After my marriage ended, I didn't give a fuck anymore, so I started just being upfront about stuff. I'd talk about sexual stuff(not that I would tell a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:40 AM
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My ex would complain I didn't do enough around the house, and when I pointed out shit I did do, she would sarcastically say "do you need a pat on the back?" even though I was just showing her she was wrong. Or she said my cleaning was bad so it was like I didn't do anything. That's why I laugh at these studies where it says women do so much more housework than men do. It's really just their perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:16 PM
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I'm not sure OP got his point across very well. We're not talking about Tate as a whole, but some of the stuff he has said is true. And when he made those comments, he was criticized for those comments by feminists and their allied males. This phenomenon isn't exclusive to Tate. It applies to every individual that calls out some of females bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:38 PM
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Women are worse off after marriage because, generally, they seem to be worse with money. They carry more debt than men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:25 AM
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These women are in danger of having that higher tier man give them attention and fuck them, and then they think these men will date them. Women can get a false sense of abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:13 AM
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I've found getting women has gotten easier with age. I'm 44. Honestly, I have no idea if it's because women like old men's looks, their perceived value, or my confidence (I'm much more sure of myself than in my younger years, but I still suffer from severe insecurity sometimes). If you have no interest, just keeping building yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:54 AM
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I personally don't care what a woman does to find a man. What I don't like is that men are vilified for doing this, while women are celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:07 AM
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Best example of woman good, man bad is Eat, Pray,love. Id a man did what that woman did, he'd be a cartoonist super villain. That girl got a multi million dollar movie made about her journey starring Julia Roberts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:05 AM
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I support anyone who wants to travel to meet someone. But the sentiment will never change. Men will be criticized for traveling to find women, while women travelling will be seen as empowering. The greatest example of this is Eat, Pray, Love. If a man did what that woman did, he'd be the Villiam in every story. Yet the woman was celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:03 AM
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Because of posters he's replying too often say the same shit in every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:00 AM
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Probably got bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:56 AM
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Bad people exploit others in all walks of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:56 AM
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If you want to date younger women who have the same romantic experience as you do, do it. Don't worry about being judged by internet strangers, especially from reddit. Just remember this website has a bias against men dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:54 AM
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The argument is a fetus is a separate organism from the woman. And people have no obligation to give up any of their body-organs, blood, etc, to anyone else. Imagine getting a knock at your door and the government telling you you have to give up a kidney for someone else, that's why abortion should be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:54 PM
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My ex wife, right before we separated, bought a willow tree and planted in the backyard. Never asked me if we should get one, and she planted on a day I wasn't home. I came home and there's a willow tree in my backyard. Fast-forward a bit, and after we separated we got in a fight. And she brought up how she paid for the willow tree and put it in by herself as an example of how I never helped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:28 PM
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Funny you brought up heterosexual relationships. The stats in divorce rates in a marriage between two men is much lower than the divorce rates of heterosexual couples. And lesbian divorce rates are much higher than heterosexual divorce rates. Women are less content because they know they can find someone else much quicker than a man could, so they always have an eye on the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:14 PM
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Men desire romantic relationships more than women because that's the most sure fire way they can get companionship. The reason why it's women who end most relationships is they know they can get their physical needs met when they want to. Also, I think men are better built for relationships. One of the eye opening occurrences of legalizing gay marriage are what the divorce rates are for different couples. A lesbian marriage is much likely than a gay male/male marriage to end in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:09 PM
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Dunno, popping open a bottle of wine and watching the Kardashians while whining that she doesn't have enough funds left on the credit card to buy a new purse while also complaining about not being able to take a bath because the husband is renovating the bathroom after working ten hours days is exactly what Terraneaux was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:41 PM
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Except the percentage of women who didn't have sex in that time frame is noticably lower. There are men at the top who have sex with a lot of women, while the bottom 75% are left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:36 PM
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It all turned out ok. Her two best friends actually defended me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:59 PM
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Me in my sophomore year in college. One girl decided she needed to get laid that night, and I was the best option. The fallout: people found out that she "lowered" her standards to fuck me and ridiculed her. On top of that, she had a boyfriend she was constantly cheating on. She was so embarrassed she said I raped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:42 PM
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As a somewhat recently divorced man in my mid 40's, I was surprised at how accessible sex was with women in their late 30's to early 50's was. I honestly don't know why, but I'm not the only guy that's noticed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:36 PM
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There is no unconditional love in romantic relationships, nor should there be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:29 PM
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Just to back your point, I tried with my ex wife. Told her we were barely having sex, like twice a year. She would get mad and say "all you think about is sex, sex isn't everything!" She even said she didn't care if she had sex ever again. Here's a couple of shockers. First, less than a month after she took her ring off, she met a guy at a bar and went home with him. Second, she told her mom she never loved me, and I finally got her to admit it. She never wanted to be with me. I was just there f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:26 PM
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Once again, emotionally damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:13 PM
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Found the person with severe emotional damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:08 PM
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Big if there. Thing is, there are enough of these men, so Andrew Tate, the lonely man hero, exists. And like a cult leader, he's spewed the right bullshit to hook em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:48 PM
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I'm not, at all. I don't own a gun, nor do I have any desire to acquire one. And I'm not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:45 PM
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Why are you answering a question with a question?? I want to know why my comment that was based on you spelling mass "masa" prompted a "Goddamn single men" response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:38 PM
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Why'd you change it?!? Now my comment doesn't make sense. And what does single men have to do with anything??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:24 PM
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It really works like a cult. Find struggling, impressionable people looking for answers, and give it to them. First, give decent advice so more reasonable people believe in it, then get crazier from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:15 PM
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Those plantation owners are really on edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:13 PM
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Only Minnesota lacks a way for a rape victim to cut off their rapist. Every other state allows a victim to terminate contact of the rapist and the child. Every state in America requires males who were sexually assaulted to pay child support to their rapists. https://www.mylifetime.com/movies/you-cant-take-my-daughter/articles/how-parental-rights-for-rapists-vary-by-state
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:15 PM
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There are cases where a man was sexually assaulted, and during the assault, the perpetrator got pregnant. Courts in America have ruled that in doesn't matter if the man was not complicit in the conception, he still has to pay. Same if an adult female rapes a child and gets pregnant, that child at 18 must pay support and all back support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:56 PM
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The bigger national crisis is by far the suicide rate of males. How can you mention how today's society is really impacting female mental health, transition into talk of suicide, and not mention once that the ratio of suicide for men vs women is close to 4:1. I'm sure it wasn't deliberate, but your comment is a microcosm of the problem. People like to talk about how things affect the female population, without much thought to the fact that males are suffering more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:42 PM
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This is exactly what someone says when they can't get find anyone interested in them. It can't be your fault, can it?? I would bet if I actually got to observe you for a week, it would be clear you get very little male attention, and can't face it. Therefore, you blame the menz to cope. Seriously pathetic. This is the equivalent of a guy in this sub talking about all the pussy he's drowning in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:26 PM
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I'm laughing at the women here avoiding the subject. How about this more realistic scenario. A couple freezes a woman's eggs because of a medical condition. They break up. The man finds a way to get the eggs, fertilizes them, uses a surrogate, and boom, there's a kid. According to to way every law has been applied to men, this women would 100% be responsible for this child. Here's a case that the genders are flipped. At the time of the story, the man was paying $1000 a month is child support. ht…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:12 PM
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When we talk about things, it's almost always generalized. There will always be outliers. I fully expect there to be men that find a woman physically unappealing at first, only to fall head over heels for her because of personality. Thing is, just because it happens, doesn't mean it's common, nor does it mean we should use that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:11 PM
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I don't know. There are people out there telling men that they should find overweight women attractive because it's society that told them overweight women aren't attractive, not mother nature. Disagree, and you're fat phobic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:07 PM
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Most women who say they are demisexual are virtue signaling. Sure, they may need an emotional bond to have true attraction, but they won't create an emotional bond with someone they find physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:05 PM
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Do men really tell women they "expire" at 30, or is that just a very loud minority??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:23 AM
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I've mentioned this girl in another topic, but I found her physically attractive at first. But her continued trauma dumping, drama seeking, and blame shifting just made it feel like work to hang out or talk to so I broke it off. She ended up ringing my doorbell at 1 am, drunk, on a Monday morning and barged in my house telling me how terrible a person I was, and that I wasn't man enough to handle her. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:21 AM
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I mean, you really didn't. Men can be just as petty as women. Like I said, men and women both have their deal breakers. And what gets even more confusing is these deal breakers are on a sliding scale. So a woman might reject one man for being clingy, but accept another man with the same level of clinginess, because he has another trait that is favorable to her. You have to look at yourself in the mirror. I don't know how you approach bringing up your hobby, but it seems like you need to change u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:59 AM
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Honestly, you could make a similar list for women. Different people want different things. Can't be everything to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:45 AM
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Most of the posts/comments on these pages are just women dragging men. It has nothing to do with a guy cheating, or a assaulting women. It was filled with "reviews" of men on how they acted, looked, and if they paid. Most of the bad reviews come from women who were rejected. This isn't surprising, in my experience, women don't handle rejection as well as men do. I'm sure the woman I just broke up with, who showed up at my door at drunk at 1 am telling me how I wasn't good enough for her while cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:17 PM
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Your claim that half the kids that have a claim on child support don't get any money is incorrect. https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2018/cb18-tps03.html
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:26 AM
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The example in the main post is anecdotal as well. People here are acting like the scenario in the main post is the only or likely way this plays out, when, in reality, there are numerous paths this situation could take.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:21 AM
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So, I was seeing two women recently. One was conventionally more attractive than the other. However, I chose the "less attractive" woman because she has a more congenial personality. The "more attractive" woman had so much trauma with the father of her three kids, she had heat with her 26 y.o. daughter, and just complained constantly about work. It was a never ending trauma dump. No thank you. I am happy that I chose the woman I did and we are now exclusive. So, I guess my final answer is, I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:58 PM
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Don't know what town you live in, but they should hire you to clear the streets of ice and snow with all the salt you just displayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:08 AM
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Ignoring women as a good thing?? No. Having other options to spend your time and energy (not necessarily on other women) so you don't dote on her?? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:42 PM
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It's a very loud and vocal minority that seems to be growing on social media that talks about the bare minimum for men. It started as mocking men who wanted appreciation for, example, cooking and cleaning. The men are told that's the bare minimum so they shouldn't expect anything from women. Of course, this group also believes that men showing their appreciation to their woman for cooking and cleaning is also the bare minimum. And this is not done ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:57 PM
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Always take those men on the internet with multiple grains of salt. Their main purpose is usually to make money. So they take a situation that's real, and exaggerate the severity and prevalence to make it seem like an overbearing problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:39 PM
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I mentioned it on another part of this post. Taking care of the house when I was laid off was like a vacation. I will concede that I would only be laid off at the most two months, and the three children I cared for were out of diapers. Taking care of babies and little kids is tough, and whoever works should definitely help in child rearing when at home. And perhaps the daily grind after years of doing the stay at home job wears you down. But still, my point stands. It's not as difficult, on aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:09 AM
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His(I assume) comment is such an over generalization. What does destroyed mean?? And no one does everything right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:01 AM
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Don't bother. They said a vast majority of jobs are low skilled. In the U.S., it's about 40% of jobs are considered low skilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:59 PM
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What do you mean when you say MISS?? Of course SAHP say their jobs are harder than it is. I would say the job is very hard when young children are involved. With that being said, all the guys I have worked with have the same opinion I do on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:52 PM
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No one in a romantic relationship loves or is loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:43 PM
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Wait, wait, wait. That's YOU!! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:39 PM
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Oh boy, you know damn well thrown in the streets was used as a colloquialism. The fact you had to use that as a literal statement shows your argument is meritless. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:36 PM
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It's not just me, it's reality. Taking care of the house is not nearly as hard as working 12 hour shifts. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:31 PM
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Someone who puts their life on hold to support someone else can't just be thrown out on the streets. I will argue alimony/maintenance can be ridiculously overbearing, and should not automatically be a lifetime payment. But the person who took care of the household needs to be given resources to develop a marketable job skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:27 PM
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You are so wrong. When I was married and laid off, I took care of the house. I cooked, cleaned, helped with homework for her kids, and laundry. It was still like a vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:13 PM
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If a woman stays home to support her family so her man can work and focus on his career, she deserves a fair and proper allotment of assets. Half of the assets accumulated during the marriage, and a fair maintenance payment. I think the problem arises when the payment becomes too overbearing. Two examples. First is the woman I'm dating. She stayed at home while her kids father worked and took care of finances. Notice I did not say husband. Since they never married, she got nothing when they brok…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:08 PM
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Yes, women and SJWs. Look up the Asian man who hugged contestants in a blind date game to see how big they were. He was shamed for rejecting bigger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:54 PM
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My one comment isn't showing so I'll kinda rehash it. A stand up comedian did a bit about a physically attractive fit guy. She changed her behavior for him, called him dry, unintelligent, with no personality. She still let him smash while the female audience members clapped and agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:08 PM
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There will always be exceptions to the rule. Actually, I think both sides kinda exaggerate the prevalence of what they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:03 PM
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This person is just spewing whatever, I think it's she cuz I don't know how to check gender on here, wants to perceive. Fact is most women find most men unattractive. And these men are friendly, well groomed, gainfully employed members of society. Not all to be sure, but most. But their physical attributes don't measure up to women's standards, so they have a hard time getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:01 PM
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Most men can find one or two girls a year to have sex with. While a minority of men are smashing everything. So it depends on your perception of how much sex is too little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:57 PM
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She'll stick around to have sex with him. I've mentioned it in other posts, but a stand up comedian straight up admitted she changed her behavior to be more accessible to a hot guy at the gym. Then she called him dry, and unintelligent. And she still smashed him. All the while the women in the audience are agreeing and applauding. Some women will admit this, but most will lie and say personality and intelligence is more important. Maybe for marriage they'll settle for that, but not casual sex. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:53 PM
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A 7"+ dick is like 1 in 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:33 PM
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Men are being shamed now for not dating overweight women. It's considered fat-phobic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:31 PM
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I don't live there, so I don't know. At least a 5'11" gets more attention in Germany, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:25 PM
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The main difference is you don't see nearly as many men stating that personality is more important than looks, especially when it comes to casual relationships. I always tell women I'm drawn to woman physically at first, but it's the personality that keeps me interested. I'm not gonna lie and say that a woman I find physically unattractive win me over with their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:22 PM
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The body acceptance movement has been taken over by unhealthy obese women it seems. The whole point of the movement was to show that most women, or men for that matter, can't meet the ideal look of models and movie stars. Now it's been corrupted by people who shame mostly men for not wanting to date large, unhealthy women. I've dated all shapes and sizes, but I've always been a sucker for cute, thick girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:12 PM
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I would argue women don't have as much casual sex because they find most men they encounter unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:07 PM
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Untrue. Stand up comedian Elena Gabriel has a bit on dating a fit guy. Described him as dry, not intelligent, and no personality. Yet, she still screwed him, and the women in the audience applauded and we're verbally agreeing with her. Looks are #1 when it comes to who women choose to have casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:03 PM
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There's a stand up comedian named Elena Gabriel. I watched a bit on her dating a fit guy. She fully admits to changing her behavior to hook up with him. She even described the date as having "dry" conversation because he wasn't intelligent or had any personality. She still slept with him, oh, after she made sure his dick size was up to her standards. And the women applauded every part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:59 PM
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I did hear recently that when it comes to height, a lot of women in the U.S. are stuck on 6'. In most countries, where centimeters are used, there is no perceived cutoff that drastically changes a woman's mind on whether a man is short or tall. Women still prefer tall guys, but there's no steep drop off from 183 cm to 180 cm on verbal or written preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:41 PM
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Recent studies are showing women cheat more. https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2022/08/23/women-are-more-likely-to-cheat-than-men-heres-why/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:21 PM
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Maybe it's just my group of friends, but we all knew if you bought your significant other fake tits, you're not gonna be the guy enjoying them. Of course, I have personally seen women who got bolt ons or lost weight stray rather quickly. As a side note, and this is anecdotal to be sure, it seems that men who improve their looks while in a relationship don't stray after the transformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:18 PM
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Women looking for a long term partner will definitely examine more things than looks. But, for sex, women will generally only sleep with very good looking guys. And, they won't move their look standards down until they realize the really good looking dudes won't seriously date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:43 PM
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The theory is a majority of men don't get laid often, because the majority of women want to sleep with a minority of men. But, after these women finally get tired of these Chads pumping and dumping them, they'll settle for the nice, stable guy because he'll provide and take care of her kid. The problem that arises is the woman will still pine for the Chads, because they make her loins ache. She cheats on the good guy with a Chad, and then they get divorced and the man who provided for her, who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:29 PM
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She runs a daycare, the fathers of the kids run something else on her. Makes sense though. Women cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:21 PM
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They're both divorced already. Ones 43, the others 35, for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:16 PM
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Don't even bother with this chud. It's a troll, and not even a good one. They're the ones that need therapy. Find our exchange in this post. You'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:19 AM
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No, the hot guys are there. I've seen videos of them online. It's a 🦫 buffet for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:06 AM
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There's a few people, who I assume are women(I don't know if there's a way to check) that got personally wounded by this post. Either they had multiple Chads break their hearts, or they realize that it's them, not men, that bring absolutely nothing to any relationship. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:56 AM
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It didn't take all my mental capacity. I can understand why you'd think that. You saw how much thought I put into those comments and you knew if you'd use as much intellect, you'd fall to ground shaking. So, for your safety, I implore you to try and not match my efforts. Just stick to the basic structure of your troll job. Contradict no matter what, make illogical leaps in thoughts, and pretend you're right. I'm done with you for now✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:53 AM
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He already caught her twice. Dudes hopeless. It's actually why she hasn't visited yet. She got caught before she could get to Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:50 AM
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🖕🖕🖕🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:44 AM
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That's the thing. In reality, yes, half the men would be above a 5 and be above average. However, women rate about 80% of men as below average. Of the 20% of men deemed above average, I think only like 5-10% are deemed attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:40 AM
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It's not one story, there's a few well known ones, and the one I personally knew about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:29 AM
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I had three, quickly. And according to my ex, her boss wasn't the only one thinking about getting out of the game of coaching women. Her boss was moving towards teaching attachment styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:28 AM
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Dude, there's a girl that lives about four hours away. She's a friend of my friend. She's married. I wish I could show you the messages I get from her. She wants a misogynist jerk to dominate her. Not sure if I'm actually gonna go through with it if she visits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:19 AM
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If they have a celibate period, it's like 55 until they die. That's when their looks completely fail them and they never learned any actual people skills to form a personal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:17 AM
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Rebecca Lynn Pope, that's three. You can find more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:11 AM
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It's not hard to find more. But, I'm guessing you won't look and pretend that you did. Seriously, it took 30 seconds to find just the one link, and there were more listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:08 AM
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The link I posted wasn't related to the girl I dated, that dating coach was a male. So, that's two, not one. 👆👆 See?? 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:06 AM
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Please keep posting, because that hole your digging yourself just keeps getting deeper. So, I wasn't sure if it was you had no friends, were delusional, or just posting B.S. But, looks like you're hitting everyone. Congratulations!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:04 AM
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A woman I dated this year worked for a dating coach that helped women. When we broke up, he was leaving coaching because the women had unrealistic expectations of the men they could get. Here's one of the coaches that quit and the reason why. I hope the link works. https://www.instagram.com/p/CVLM5N1lyBX/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:59 AM
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100% agree on the friends and family. They aren't in the trenches and have a view from above, for lack of a better phrase, to see what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:35 AM
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Just something on the cheating, it always seemed like the women cheated slightly more. Turns out, my hunch was right. Women do cheat more. So, more women than men can't reach that bar of being faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:32 AM
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You have little to no close friends is actually most likely. I've been very close friends with a lot of people, male and female, over the years. And some of them have told me they are cheating on their partners. I mean, I've got friends who tell me their friends I don't know or barely know are cheating. So yeah, back to my original point, you're either delusional, don't have any friends, or just posting B.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:30 AM
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Honestly, no one really knows what they are getting into when you start to pursue someone. My current example is one girl I'm now kinda seeing presented herself as something she wasn't. She's now fallen below my bar as someone I would seriously date. But it took a few months to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:20 AM
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Your comment about friends not telling other friends they cheat shows you either are delusional, have no real friends, or are just posting B.S. to make a point. Whichever it is, it's kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:14 AM
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Your point is valid, but I think what you see online is a bit over emphasized. But, I have two good female friends. They both were hooking up with a guy they really liked. Those guys were clear they didn't want a relationship nor did they even want to date, they just wanted to hook up. Both of my friends would talk forever about the tiniest shit those guys said that would point to them wanting a relationship with my friends. But, those guys moved on to other girls eventually. And yes, they still…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:11 AM
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Women have set the bar too high so that average looking men don't stand a chance. You don't see dating coaches for men quitting because men's standards are too high. But you do see dating coaches for females quitting because average females demand way above average men to wife them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:00 AM
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Yeah, this one is a certified man hater. Loves to call multitudes of men children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:54 AM
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Women do have unrealistic standards for men. Female dating coaches are quitting because their clients won't date men that match their level. Someone I dated this year worked for a dating coach. He quit coaching because his clients wanted too much from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:54 AM
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Hypergamy is very much alive and well and has led to female dating coaches quitting because their clients have completely unrealistic standards for the man they want, especially for the type of female they are. Someone I dated this year worked for a dating coach. He quit because his clients were ridiculous in what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:47 AM
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I had women on the divorce post a couple days back just straight up man hating. It goes both ways in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:01 AM
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Calls you laughable and then says you're rude. Dudes a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:54 AM
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Your reply right here is pretty laughable to be honest. You talked about how men are trying to level up financially and how women seem to want a guy with a fat wallet. Maybe that wasn't the point of your post, but the way it is written, wealth and how much someone earns is prominent. Apprehensivefig9733 just stated that money doesn't actually matter to women, and even asked for a TLDR. Your response was very similar to someone who made a shitty argument and then says something like "you're not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:53 AM
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Red pill often uses the terms high value and low value, but they do define the values they associate with those terms. Women may not use high and low value as terms, but they make it pretty clear what values they consider desirable and undesirable. And they are fond of using the term mediocre men. On kind of a side note, there has been a spate of female dating coaches quitting because women have unrealistic expectations. One of the girls I dated this year worked for one. He quit being a dating c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:41 AM
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Not everyone. People fighting severe depression, like myself, judge themselves very harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:39 AM
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Before that horrible abortion decision came down, she would have a choice to abort or give the baby up for adoption. She has the right to not have that child in her life, and the man should have that right too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:36 AM
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I'm a man on this sub and I am 100% pro choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:34 AM
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So, I sometimes meet women at bars who are attracted to me. They buy me drinks all night long. I don't ask, I don't lead them on, and I usually inquire "you sure you want to??". At the end of the night, when I politely reject them, THEY GET PISSED!! I used them, I owe them, I'm an asshole. It's ridiculous. Here's an interaction I had a few months back. A girl who was a hairdresser told me I looked like a cancer patient because I buzz my hair myself. She was 48, very attractive, with jet black ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:30 AM
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What I learned from reading comments. Women hate being judged and will word vomit to avoid the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:18 AM
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If this post had the sexes reversed, we wouldn't see women saying they don't like this, and we wouldn't see posts stating "men and women".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:15 AM
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Top 5-10% can eat whenever they want. The rest get the leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:21 PM
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This ain't a problem for the guys. They can find plenty of women who are willing to share. I can not comment on the woman side of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:20 PM
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The other things TRP get right are women lie about what they really want. Basically, looks are far more important to women than they care to admit. The other is women will go through multiple "Chads" in their younger years until those guys no longer desire them. Then they will settle for a guy who is stable. And ya know what?? How about women clean their act up a bit. There are a bunch of genuinely good guys of average looks who can't sniff a date. Instead, I see a lot of "men are trash" from wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:53 AM
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First, I was just correcting one of your statements. Second, and this anecdotal to be sure, I have had conversations with my some of my single chick friends, and they have had a guy in the past year that they really want, but that guy didn't want to date seriously and just wanted to smash. Each of these friends, 2 to be exact, still talk about dating that guy as soon as he's ready to get serious, even though they both are in exclusive relationships. To be fair, I have a few other female friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:42 AM
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It's been said, but they're trying to make money. Watch Coffezilla's video on joining Tates school, Hustler U I believe it's called. Its entertaining. And Fresh and Fit are, I don't know, just so ridiculous. I think they once said a woman should appreciate their man, which I agreed with, then said an example is to get lotion, get on her knees, and rub his feet. The way they said it was just so, like, disgusting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:47 AM
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I'm actually not blaming women. My whole point with all my comments is we don't know. Honestly, none of my reasons that blame women for marriages ending have any statistical data to back it up. But neither do any of the reasons stating that women are initiating divorce because their fed up with the inadequacies of their husband. My actual view point is that almost all relationships and marriages end due to a combination of both parties not meeting the others needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:16 AM
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Listen, I fucked up plenty as well. My point is actually we have no viable statistics on who actually is to blame for the breakup of marriages. Almost always it's a combination of both parties. That's all I'm getting at with all of my comments. Thank you for the support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:09 AM
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So, shows that women cause breakups more than men do. Catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:07 AM
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And my stats show that breakdown of the hours. And you have shown no data that women initiate divorce more than men because they, on average, do more admin work. I'd like to see that admin statistic by the way. All you do is write stuff you feel is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:03 AM
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I don't think you've shown any cause and effect in your assumptions either. Actually, I've provided more data than you have. I'll admit, it's circumstantial, but still much stronger than yours. Thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:58 AM
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https://www.cbs.nl/en-gb/news/2016/13/lesbian-couples-likelier-to-break-up-than-male-couples
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:56 AM
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You can't. And I've posted it multiple times. Lesbian marriages fail way more than gay marriages. Heterosexual marriages fall in the middle. It's easy to look up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:55 AM
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BTW, lesbian marriages end at a far higher rate than gay marriage. So, who's to blame when a lesbian marriage ends and who do we praise for gay marriages lasting?? It's a conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:52 AM
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Picture this, you're a man that makes 60% of the total income yet pays 90% of the household bills(insurance, groceries, utilities, etc.) Your wife takes the extra money and spends it on herself. Also, that's not enough, so you open credit cards. She maxes out those credit cards buying non essential things. She doesn't cook, she doesn't clean, she refused to spend time with you and you have a dead bedroom. You talk to her about these things but she doesn't care, and finally when the money has dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:50 AM
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Your point still isn't backed by any statistical data though. It's more of a hunch. Based on my experience, women end marriages because they squeezed all the resources they can outta someone. I found out, way after the divorce was finalized, that my ex never loved me(confirmed by her mother and one of her friends), only dated me seriously because I provided for her, and that she had someone to screw around with ready before our separation. So when I see comments trying to take blame off women fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:43 AM
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I kinda did. I apologize for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:35 AM
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Good luck. None of the people blaming the man have any significant statistics to back their claim
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:24 AM
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That's so easy to say when you're not in the thick of things. It took me a while to 1. Stop blaming myself for the failure of the marriage. She gaslit me, a lot. 2. Lots of therapy post breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:23 AM
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Maybe, from an outsiders perspective, your attempts at fixing the relationship weren't the ones needed, and your partner was trying, but not in the way you needed?? I have no idea, but I always question someone who thinks that the majority of a failed relationship is on the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:21 AM
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And they get unhappy for various reasons. Some get bored, some find a new guy, some reconnect with an ex, some can't squeeze anymore resources out of their current husband, and some just want to go back to the streets. Basically, so you don't misconstrue my point, is sure, there are a lot of women who are tired of putting the effort in. But, that's not the only reason they leave marriages. So stop unreasonably trying to put the blame on men. Question, which marriage is most likely to end?? Lesbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:15 AM
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Until you show that data proves that men are more at fault for divorce than women, ya got a false equivalence fallacy. And I looked up the data. Women do more of one thing, men do more of another. But, you know who spends more money in marriages?? Women. So, using your method of assigning blame. Women leave marriages after they use up the resources of the man they married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:07 AM
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The most likely reason women leave marriages is they use up all the resources of their current husband, and don't need those anymore. Doesn't matter how much effort the man puts in. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.military.com/money/personal-finance/credit-debt-management/credit-card-debt-and-the-gender-divide.html/amp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:02 AM
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The lesbian divorce rate is much higher than the divorce rate between men: in the same period on average 100 women and 45 men divorced per year (i.e., Lesbian divorce rate = 14%, Gay Male divorce rate = 7%). A study tracking married couples over a 10 year span found lesbian marriages were most likely to end in divorce. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_of_same-sex_couples#:~:text=The%20lesbian%20divorce%20rate%20is,likely%20to%20end%20in%20divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:00 AM
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Found some stats on your claim. Yeah, women do SLIGHTLY more household stuff, but men do more yardwork and house repairs. Thing is, these stats aren't significant enough to prove your point. Want something that proves my point?? Lesbian marriages are the most likely to end in divorce. Gay marriages (male/male) least likely. Look it up. Stop the man hating, ya sound bitter. https://news.gallup.com/poll/283979/women-handle-main-household-tasks.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:58 AM
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You're right. I'd say 80-85% of women kill the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:42 AM
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I promise you, men will stay with toxic women because they love them, and will still be devastated when she uses that man for everything he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:36 AM
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Your responses are typical man hating rhetoric. I get it, you're mad at your dad for cheating, but saying if men got attached enough women wouldn't leave. How about women stop getting bored in marriages and yearn for the CC they wouldn't divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:33 AM
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You're so full of it, keep up the troll job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:27 AM
2

That's pretty sexist in today's day and age. I did all the administrative stuff in my marriage. She still decided she wanted to divorce and she filed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:26 AM
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My wife left me because she refused to put effort in. I cooked, cleaned, paid 85% of the bills even though I made 56% of the income. So, women are leaving because they don't want to put the effort in with the guy they are with. Cue blaming me for her not wanting to work on the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:24 AM
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That would go for men filing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:19 AM
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I read that between the three different types of marriages in the world, straight, gay, lesbian, lesbian couples have the highest rate of divorce, followed by straight, and gay couples were the least likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:17 AM
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I'll just focus on the divorce point you brought up. Yes, we don't know what caused the filing, but your implied meaning is that women file because the man caused the downfall of the relationship. Newsflash, women cause the downfall of relationships as well. And please don't say you never outright said women couldn't cause the end of a marriage, but, like I said, it was clearly implied. Fact is, women end marriages far more than men do, and of their own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:13 AM
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From what I've read/watched about red pill, it isn't that attractive men date ugly women. It's that attractive men won't date ugly women, but will have sex with them. They also talk about the consequence of this is that it's hard for an average/ugly woman to date a man more in her range. These women will eventually settle for an average man, but will not be passionate about that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:46 AM
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Body cams are for everyone's safety, including police. This video was released only two days after the arrest. When police have video that makes them look good, it'll be given to the media quickly. If the video makes the police look bad, they'll try to bury it.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 08:00 AM
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To add to your point. People use that false rape statistic incorrectly. That 2-8% number actually represents the number of rape reports that are proven 100% false. It does not mean that, out of 100 reports, only 2-8 of the accusers are lying. Every study actually points that out. However, the media doesn't point that out. They let the readers believe that only 2-8% of the accusers are lying.
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