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Rotate-fucking seems to be the easy part, loyal women, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 03:30 PM
1

I'm definitely going to be focused on that, your comment is about 3 months late lol
/r/askTRP17/10/21 09:48 PM
-1

So, listen to fictional characters? Got it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 01:54 PM
2

This entire write-up sums up my situation. How do bridge the gap from #4 to #3? I feel like I have a biochemical imbalance AND bad lifestyle, which is why I assume I have little drive to move up in life, even though I am completely unhappy with every aspect of my life currently.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/21 09:54 PM
2

That's awesome to hear. Looking forward to being in that position someday. I don't think it would be hard, the girl I had oneitis for is probably a 6 or 7/10, I've fucked an 8 before, and I don't think it would be an issue to continue with hotter chicks, especially if I increased my SMV even slightly. I'm maybe a 6/10 looks wise, and like a -3/10 for everything else (lack of confidence and no life, etc). I could be a 8/10 minimum if I worked on it, and yet I get caught up over just a "pretty" gi…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 01:54 PM
1

Thing is, we never were anything. She shown slight interest in me, I reciprocated, and once she realized I was mentally weak she dropped all interest, but at the time I was mentally struggling and caught oneitis BAD for her. Probably the worse mental state I've ever been in....over a girl I barely even touched. Anyway, I understand your reasoning, although I don't know how I will act in that situation if it was to arise, I know it's not the best idea. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 01:49 PM
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This is my situation exactly, only except I haven't transitioned to a higher SMV man yet. One thing that crossed my mind, what if I work out, dress better, act confident, get pussy, money, etc. then the girl who I had oneitis for in the past gets interested? I still feel salty over the whole situation, and part of me wants to get revenge and improve myself so much that she desires me and I can be the one to not give a fuck about her. I just don't know if it would mentally be a good/bad idea to e…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 02:42 AM
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Tons of great information, keep it coming man.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 10:00 PM
1

Tons of great information, keep it coming man.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 09:59 PM
9

Out of curiosity, how would one go about telling an LTR you wanna bang other chicks? I could see this going very south....
/r/askTRP23/06/21 12:29 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP23/06/21 12:18 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP23/06/21 12:16 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP22/06/21 04:12 AM
1

Be attractive. Dont be unattractive. What exactly can I do to be attractive? I can't necessarily pack on 50 lbs of muscle in one week. i don't think your ready to try pulling at a party where you already have an established reputation and/or are lacking the self confidence necessary. Thing is, half the people will know me, half won't, so I could be who ever I wanted to be with the new people. Flirt sly, not overtly. If you isolate and escalate, that's a great time to be more overt. This is good,…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 03:40 AM
1

How do you suppose being the life of the party? I lack normal conversation social skills, but I'm also great at being the guy that can make anyone laugh easily. Most of the time my sense of humor is very immature or childish, and it's something I would like to change. I really like your idea of inviting a girl to be my teammate in a game or something, that's something I could do fairly easily I think.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 03:34 AM
2

Thanks man
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:43 AM
2

Yeah probably just overthinking it, probably low T from said examples.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:27 PM
1

?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:21 PM
3

Forever?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:19 PM
1

Thanks man, gives me hope lol.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:44 PM
2

The only thing I can think of for a cause of low T is my sedentary lifestyle (jerking off, sitting all day, junk food, very little sun exposure, etc.) I'm not too familiar with TRT but from what I've heard it's mostly for older guys? I'm 20, so I don't think I'm an ideal choice. Maybe I can supplement with vitamins or something.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:42 PM
21

Yes it's a good thing. Much better than a girl from a disrupted family, daddy issues, etc. But just because she has one green flag doesn't mean she's a unicorn.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:45 AM
6

Ah yes, the cherry on top.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:42 AM
41

High body count, young, calls you daddy? She has daddy issues, far from LTR material.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:47 PM
2

Good advice. I wouldn't ask girls "when she wants to get piped again". It's needy and too direct. Communicate covertly with girls not overtly. You're not talking to a dude. What would suggest OP should have said instead?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:33 PM
1

Who?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:33 AM
1

Sure that shit was lit af, fucking awesome man
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:12 PM
1

This man got it, City Morgue, Cameron Azi, Subjectz, Scarlxrd. Good shit.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:53 AM
1

I don't know if she cheated ever. He's very typical beta bf, like the type to fall in love, etc.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:22 AM
1

She spilled info in conversations related to sex. I don't care to sleep with her, not to focused on it tbh
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:17 AM
1

He's 19-20, yeah he'd be embarrassed probably lol.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:11 AM
1

No, she openly told a group of friends (me included)
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:57 AM
1

Weird ass go look up femdom porn
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:55 AM
1

Is there any real reason for you asking this?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:25 AM
19

Better practice up on Mario Kart man, don't let her beat you, that will be beta af.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 08:43 PM
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Sus
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:27 PM
2

Yeah, I fucked up in that moment but I ain't worried about it to much. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:41 PM
1

Fair enough, I need gym fuel.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:49 PM
2

I usually do, but we were around the other friend and she has a bf so it's not so easy to flirt.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:48 PM
2

Yes, I definitely am. Been getting a lot of RP type content in my brian, but being able to actually pull it off is another story. Progress though!
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:01 AM
3

Thanks man
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:10 AM
1

Thanks homie
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:58 AM
0

I didn't mean I'd fuck the friend just for social proof. I'd fuck her cuz I wanna. I'll admit I been hung up on this one girl tho. I think it has a lot to do with little options, and not getting laid. This happened with another girl before. Bad oneitis.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:57 AM
6

Yes. That's my mistake.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:25 AM
1

Yeah, google shown 5'8 for some reason. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:48 PM
0

Flaking is still possible, but she seems fairly interested, assuming she isn't saying OP is on her "to do list" just for his attention.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:47 PM
1

Oh wow, you're not short man. But I'm sure lots of more populated areas are gonna have the top notch dudes, all the model tier chads either flock to a city, or Cali. That's what you have to compete with in those locations. I live in a very small town, closest decent town to here is a 15 minute drive, and has 15k people. For me, I can just work out, dress nice, act confident, and I'd be in the top 1% of dudes, I'm just average if I was in Cali or the city.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:45 PM
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I really need to learn to shut up, it's been a bad habit. I will admit I am investing in getting with this chick. Thanks for the words man.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:41 PM
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You put that burden to get laid by making a contest about it, which is a dumb ass move - you’re young so learn from it. At the time I was hyped up by the friend I created the contest with and I thought I was gonna get my life together and pussy would be rollin in. I most definitely regret this, since it basically drew all that attention towards my lack of pussy. She’s not going to be into or flirt with the guy who can’t get laid Yeah, I can see that. Its not like I CAN'T get pussy, I put women a…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:35 PM
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OP asked for clever, not short. I think my suggestion was both clever and fairly short. By mentioning "let's cross that off your bucket list" it's doing 2 main things: Giving off a playful / flirty vibe, tying into the conversation topic and playing off it. She said OP was on her to do list, saying you're going to cross it off her list is letting her know sex IS going to happen. I also didn't mean for the two lines to be seperate texts, I'd leave it as a single one. You also asked her when she's…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:08 PM
2

For any US people, 177cm is 5'8. That's not THAT short. I guarantee your insecurity about your height effects your game more than your actual height does. There's always some shit you can't change, but that's the shit you don't worry about. You rather worry what women will think of your height, which isn't even THAT short in the first place, or not give a fuck and show women you don't give a fuck? Women are like mirrors, they will reflect what you project. If you're insecure and awkward, women w…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:00 PM
1

I do regret talking about that. At the time I was hyped up thinking I'd get my life all in order and pussy would be coming in shortly. We aren't actually doing a contest, it was more of a joke, and I said it as a joke to the friend group. Definitely still points out my lack of pussy. Thanks for the opinion.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:52 PM
1

I wasn't talking about getting pussy, we got on the subject of kinks and shit, so we said what we like. I don't know if she knows this or not, but I choose to not pursue women temporarily, it's not like I CANT get pussy. She probably was just messing with me, I just wanted second opinions.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:44 PM
1

Bro, if she’s teasing you like she’s messing around, she’s probably flirting I can see this She was flirting and talking about sex - she probably wanted to fuck you. We weren't talking about sex in a flirty way, more like how you would talk about sex with a friend. “test out” some shit by hitting on her and see if she likes it. We only hangout in groups so I don't flirt, since she has a bf, but I been trying to, not many times to isolate. I just really don't know if she was just joking or what.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:40 PM
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She probably doesn't want to settle down with one guy just yet, she wants to keep fucking you, and other dudes.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:58 PM
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"let's cross that off your bucket list. Friday drinks at 8."
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:56 PM
2

What the fuck
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:03 PM
2

Married is mostly post wall, unmarried are the hot chicks who are sleeping around, not ready to settle down.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:00 PM
1

Flaunting money is gonna attract that type of women. Hard truth, but if you're not good looking and show wealth, women will use you for your money. If you're decent looking, maximize your looks, just don't go around flexing your money. Keep it humble. I'm 20 so I can't say I'm super well off financially, but in the future I don't ever expect to flaunt money, I see it as a compensation for something. "Oh that guy is trying too hard to be seen as cool and wealthy, he must be trying to compensate f…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:18 PM
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Why would you pick the ham sandwich if you could have steak? Why would you approach a married women when there's tons of single women?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:07 PM
6

Fuck him to assert dominance
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:28 AM
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If she is "hypothetically" saying this, she already has it planned with her girlfriends. Second of all, traveling in most cases = easy hookups where she can't get caught. She's gonna be with her friends hitting clubs getting drunk, beaches (skimpy clothes), or whatever other events in the area and it's an ideal cheating ground. Wanting to travel is not the "bad" part, she probably genuinely wants to see new places or whatever, but her specifically saying she would travel alone / with her friends…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:12 PM
11

She seems like the typical highschool / party slut, she's still interested in you, just don't LTR or get attached.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:25 PM
3

I'm unsure of a 100% full proof method for stopping women from being dramatic, that's like telling men to not like sex. Women are dramatic point being. You may not necessarily be able to prevent them from being dramatic, but you should have full control over STOPPING the drama. If anything was to start between them, you let them know there will be none of that tolerated. If they're in your frame this will work in your favor. If they cannot follow your zero drama policy then you make it clear to …
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:15 AM
2

How would you feel if you were dating a girl who’s more mature than you? Isn’t that pretty masculine For sure. I have had a bad habit of acting immature to the point people couldn't take me seriously, they'd assume I was always joking. I been trying to be more mature, but sometimes it's hard when I get around friends and immaturity is my default. Because of this, many girls, and people in general would just see me as a childish comedian. I feel like I'm behind other people in life because I'm ju…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:44 PM
1

It's all good man, just learn from it and fix it.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:33 PM
19

Tell her "hmu when you get back to (your state)" Furthermore learn WHY she wanted to be friends with you, what did you do to provoke that feeling in her? Acting too friendly? Lost frame? Became her emotional tampon? Learn from your mistakes and fix it, this plate can still be good for a while if done right.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:25 AM
1

If you're Like an 8/10 or higher, it may not be a HUGE redflag she invited you right over, since things are closed.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:59 AM
1

Go hangout then, since it's her chose of place, don't get caught I her frame and end up being the tag along, following her and her friends all around. Lead when applicable, can be as simple as "hey lets go play volleyball, you guys down to go swimming?, Let's get something to eat, etc"
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:58 AM
1

Any insight as to why this worked?
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:39 AM
1

Assuming you're not a Giga Chad, this is a red flag. Why would she invite an average or even above average guy over that quick? You know she done that many times before. If she has "stripper vibes" she definitely a total slut and most likely doesn't respect herself enough to care about STDs. Tell her to meetup someplace else, drinks or whatever, use your judgement. For the love of god wrap it up.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:58 PM
9

If she flaked and disrespected you, she will do it again. Don't bother. Have abundance, there's plenty more chicks out there who will respect you and be eager to hangout with you. Anyone who isn't on your side can fuck off.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:53 PM
10

Would I go hangout with a plate? No. Plates are just fuck buddies. Would I hangout with a FWB? Fuck yeah, whenever I wanted. There's no right or wrong answer. Do YOU want to hangout with this chick outside of sex? There's your answer. Don't let anyone tell you it's "beta" or whatever to be hanging with a girl outside of sex. The problem acurrs when you hangout with her and NEVER get sex. This is the friend zone. Hanging out with a FWB is hanging out with a friend that you know you will bang late…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:50 PM
3

I'm 20 so I'm around enough 18-20 year old girls, I'll tell you, they perfer older guys, I think some study said females like men on average 4 years older than them. I know girls my age who been with dudes 28-35. It's not so much about the age (as long as they're over 18 obviously), but more about they're maturity. You'll get some 18-19 year olds who'll act like an immature highschooler, and some others will be be more mature college type girls. Not saying college girls are mature, but I mean th…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:36 PM
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Was she talking about only having raw sex with two people, or while on her period? Depending on her age, I would personally think this is too much for LTR status. Remember women try to make themselves innocent, if she said she rode two dicks raw, then that means she was probably in two LTRs, she isn't counting the hookup/ fwb she did raw.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:37 PM
6

Women have a hymen, which is the thing that "breaks" and causes blood to release. This either happens on their first dick, or it could happen before that if she's playing sports (movement) or masterbating or something.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:32 PM
2

What is the question here?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:28 PM
3

Just to add to this: don't actually flush condoms if you're in the country and have your own septic tank, they don't decompose. Wash them out, throw them out with zero baby gravy residue, or take the condom home with you.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:07 PM
6

Of course she's gonna lie about those things, women lie to make themselves seem more pure, if you were in their position you'd do the same. Watch her actions, not her words. Also you seem very positive this beta ex bf isn't an issue, yet she fucked him after you were in the picture? You know women leave betas for alphas, but they can also leave alphas for betas if she sees fit, beta guys can provides lots of benefit to a womans life (money, valadation, emotional support). Like another commenter …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:03 AM
1

Well, you just said women do sleep around, but because of the conservative society you live in, I'm sure they're a lot more careful with their actions. Anyway, this proves you can still develop sexual relations easier than you thought. Chicks just need to know you can keep your mouth shut about whatever happens, they obviously don't want any word getting out that will ruin her reputation. You say you need "luck" to get women? Not true. It's a common saying "I just got lucky with her." This isn't…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:18 PM
1

Depends on the party, and what's available to play, pool party might be water gun fights like in OP's example, or another party it might be truth or dare, volley ball, bean bag toss, etc. Doesn't really matter what the game is, I said it because it's helpful for getting involved with new people and leading them to believe you're a fun person. If you see a small group of people just standing around talking you could go introduce yourself, crack a few jokes, gain some rapport, then look around and…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:32 PM
1

I'm not sure on any exact advice for your location / conservative society, if the girls there are genuinely conservative then perhaps think of a relationship if that fits into your desires. Another thing to realize, which may contradict my advice about getting in a relationship, while it MAY be true some small conservative areas like where you are still have "good" women (who haven't been dragged into the modern western ways), you should still apply the belief "good girls are just bad girls who …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:07 AM
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You said you were excited at first, but it seems like when you got there you closed up a bit and awkwardly back out of interaction with anyone. I get like this too man. The party itself isn't awkward, you aren't awkward, it's your approach to the situation. You closed up, been the guy on the sidelines pretending to be busy on the phone so you don't have to interact, eventually leaving the situation to your car. If you want to have fun at a party, you need to be a fun person. This includes talkin…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:53 AM
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If you're balding shave it off. Better than the half head of hair. I recently hooked up with a coworker who is clearly out of my league. She would be considered a solid 9. No such thing as leagues, erase that belief, it's gonna hold you back. If leagues exsisted you wouldn't have hooked up with a 9/10 (assuming you're less than a 9/10). Second of all you talk like you have her on a pedestal, you probably don't have other options and you're catching oneitis. This is probably a huge part of the re…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:40 AM
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Did you cheat on her with the guy she cheated on you with while Penguins of Madagascar n chill to assert your dominance?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 10:52 PM
3

I made it clear from the first day that I will never pay anything for her so she can either accept it or get lost. And we talked about it and she actually said she respects that. Accept it or get lost = Abundance (not afraid to lose one chick) + Puts her in your frame (she has to comply with your request) + Shows you're not going to be her beta bucks, she said she respects that because you were being a man and stated what YOU wanted, not the simp mentality of "you can have whatever you want baby…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:20 PM
2

Already a lot of advice here, but I'll put in my two cents since I don't necessarily agree with everyone's comments. First of all, don't be the kid who spends a huge chunk of every paycheck on an expensive car. Stay away from German cars especially, unless you have a shit ton of money and don't care, otherwise stick to a much smarter financial decision. It all depends on how much you make, how much you have, etc. Unless you're able to pay cash for a brand new / few years old vechile and still ha…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:07 PM
1

Give it time to pass, you dont wanna pass it on to her.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:12 AM
5

Tell them to take an STD test. If they're hesitant or flat out say no, then HARD next, she's hiding something. Don't forget to wrap it before you tap it.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:11 AM
3

On the outside you're doing good, boxing, progress on your body, fake confidence,etc. But subconsciously you're still the same overweight kid who got bullied. I'm not the most knowledgeable about this kind of situation, so I can't give you an exact solution. But what I do know, you need to heal from your past trauma. Sexual, bullying, whatever effected your self esteem. When you move past these mentally, you'll be able to raise your self esteem and realize how great you are, how attractive you a…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:38 PM
2

For whatever reason you have low self esteem. You don't think you're worthy enough for hot chicks. You'd rather get laid by a fat chick than to risk getting rejected by a hot one. Even though you may be good looking, when you're around hot women you're not gonna display confidence and you probably set them "above" you. With fat chicks you realize you're "above" them and you won't get rejected. Get some confidence and self esteem and realize you're more than worthy of banging whatever chick you f…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:22 PM
2

Interested in which app(s) you developed, you're still making a full time income off them to date?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:34 PM
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Don't let the situation kill your mojo, you're gonna be fucking tinder sluts, not taking a classy woman on a fancy date. So what if you don't have your own place? Financial status (or in this case the perceived financial status) is only one part of attraction. Just because you don't have the most ideal setup doesn't mean you need to skip out on pussy. Just make sure you're confident and uncaring of the situation, be ready for any "how come you don't have your own place?" Shit tests. All the time…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:10 PM
2

I agree with this guy, I'm 20 and I don't find plates that appealing, I'd much rather a FWB, but maybe this is because I'm still young. I'd just rather be able to hangout with them aside from sex. you know them a bit better which can help with negitive risks involved with sex, if she's a friend I know she's not gonna falsely accuse me for rape, I know she's not crazy and tryna baby trap me, I may even have a better idea of her sexual past / sexual health which can be beneficial for avoiding STDs…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:43 PM
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filtering out bad women "Good girls" are just bad girls who haven't been caught yet. Is it realistic to think we can find a good woman and have a happy marriage nowadays? Possible? Probably, but not common. You'd need to find a small town virgin who had a good relationship with her family, etc. And even these type of chicks can easily get pulled into modern women's behaviors.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:15 AM
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You already have her interested and isolated, now just escalate. If she's wearing those kinda clothes and in your kitchen cooking a meal for YOU, I'm gonna take a wild guess and say she's interested. Her geeky boyfriend probably provides her beta simp emotional tampon support, she's not gonna break up with him just to be your weekend toy without the emotional shit. Just fuck her and let her make her own decision if she will break it off with him. She will try to make you her new boyfriend so she…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 09:38 PM
1

I googled "sgm dominance" and only found army shit. That's why I asked.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:22 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:07 PM
1

I did, couldn't find anything, that's why I asked.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:50 PM
1

SGM?
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:35 PM
9

Good advice Change teams.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:26 PM
2

Just curious, how does cuck behavior lead to you to know he doesn't lift? As if lifting is gonna change that?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:17 PM
7

Help her make some content and ask for a cut
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:08 PM
18

32 from 36 is not a huge range, and if you look 32 then it shouldn't come up. If you're keeping it casual then just keep it 32, they'll never know unless they see your license with your bday or something.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:23 PM
7

Quit porn. #1 cause of ED. It also can be performance anxiety. Learn to stop caring so much, and stay calm.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:46 PM
0

Offensive and defensive martial arts both have their purpose, depending on the situation. Boxing for example would be good in street / bar fight situations, where you just wanna knock the wind out of the other dude. BJJ is good for skillfully taking down an opponent. It's easy to just say you'll punch him in the face, but this could very easily get you into legal trouble. Defensive martial arts you can take down an opponent without "fighting" them, and legally it can be seen as self defense, as …
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:31 PM
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Idk if it's allowed to link shit in this sub but someone here told me about this video, it should be helpful for you aswell. link
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:51 AM
4

If the chick becomes less attractive to you, then she lowered her SMV. This isn't just limited to gaining weight, she may do other things to alter her looks and you may not be digging it (cutting her hair /shaving it off, dying her hair, changing fashion drastically, etc.) No matter the reason, if you don't feel attracted to her enough to bone her then dump her. Simple as that. This is easy for plates, but gf/wife can obviously be much more complex in this situation so make your own decision bas…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:42 AM
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Some chicks thing being a "slut" is a good thing, and it empowers women or some BS. Women also rationalize slutty actions. She may only "count" the dudes she was in a relationship with, the stranger she met at the bar didn't "count" because x,y,z reason. In your situation the chick sounds like she's craves constant male valadation with sending pics, and OF. Probably daddy issues, but doesn't matter why. Not the type of chick you promote past plate, maybe FWB.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:27 AM
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Hey man I live with my parents aswell (I'm 20). Sure having your own place would be great, but don't let the current situation be an excuse to not get laid. Work with what ya got. Take her out then after dark find a good private place to park and hope your backseat has enough room. Another option is to go to parties, either bring a chick or get one at the party for the night. Assuming you're probably young like me, you shouldn't have much trouble finding college age parties. Know some good party…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:13 AM
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I have to drive 10 minutes just to get to a town with 15k population. Funnest thing to do is go to Walmart or a park. If I wanted to move over an hour away I could go to a town with a lot more to do with 20k population. Obviously more people = more opportunity, but I wouldn't personally move JUST for women. If you want to move for career opportunities, or somewhere YOU would rather live, then of course, go. Don't do shit JUST for women. If you want women, you have plenty of them around you. I th…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:19 PM
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I will give it a read, thank you
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:45 PM
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I never driven a bike so I can't speak from experience, but I could see it being a bit nerve wracking, no different than your first time with sex, or driving a car. Just something you need to get used to i guess. Just make sure you're safe and know how to drive a bike. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:01 AM
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I'm not OP, but you are referring to the Zodiac sign? I'm a cancer, what does that have to do with being emotional?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:59 AM
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I agree with the first comment. Rock those glasses if you like them. Don't let someone else dictate your sense of fashion. Keep wearing them and let her be shocked when she sees you didn't follow through with her shit test
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:55 AM
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Hop on it, start it up. What do you feel? Fear? There's your answer.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:50 AM
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Facts. Something I need to stop caring about.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:34 AM
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I don't do anything right now but I have a pull up bar and dumbbells I plan on using. I've heard of that book, can you give a very brief explaination why you think it describes my situation?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:10 PM
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Not much honestly. It seems you have been grinding away at life with little outcome? The point of my post was explaining how I haven't even done anything.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:45 PM
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How much do you find yourself in it? What do you mean?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:14 PM
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If you're in a similar position, check out the other commenters on this thread, they were very helpful.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:07 PM
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Will do. Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:05 PM
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I really just need to focus on building discipline, and sticking to daily goals. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:42 PM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:31 PM
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Thank you for not sugar coating your answer. The second half really made me think. This is good shit man.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:03 PM
2

Good shit man. Glad to see you're doing much better now.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:00 PM
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What a perspective change, I need to remind myself that things CAN change, and quickly aswell. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:53 PM
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Thanks for motivation, congrats on 5 years my guy
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:50 PM
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I don't have a desire for college, but my plan is to be an entrepreneur. Disregarding others opinions is something I need to adapt, and I will. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:48 PM
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I need to adapt this idgaf / fuck off if you're not on my team mindset. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:44 PM
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I will focus on developing discipline, and set long term goals for myself. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:42 PM
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This mindset shift would be huge. I will adapt this. Thank you greatly.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:36 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:35 PM
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Good point. She's hitting the wall and wants to settle down, she's had a past of partying and hoeing. Ideally any "good catch" would be in a relationship earlier than 28 I would assume.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:31 PM
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Why not just leave it in your comment so others can learn aswell? Just a thought.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:51 PM
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Yap yap yap
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:46 AM
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This was very useful, thanks!
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:36 PM
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I don't consider myself attractive. Maybe 5 or 6/10. I have lots of potential, but right now I'm underweight, and honestly don't come across as masculine. I wouldn't say nice guy beta simp level, but definitely not as masculine as I would like to be. I have no clue if she would even find me attractive enough, tbh. I think my best bet is to work on myself, get a few women on rotation, then let the slight flirting, improved self (gaining weight, dressing better, being more dominant), and social pr…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:27 PM
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Yes, we don't hangout one on one, and we haven't messaged each other in over a month. The friendgroup I'm referring to is actually pretty small. (5 people). I'm not too sure on how to "rank" myself in the group. I know this isn't probably the best situation to be in, and I have other friends outside this group, but for this sake the group is consisted of a gay male friend I've known forever, and 3 of his female friends. I don't know if that being the situation is worse or a good thing.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 10:26 PM
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I understand what you're saying, I've been in this situation with another girl before. But in this situation with this girl it doesn't seem like this. I said she would see you as wanting a relationship since you allowed yourself to just be a friend. Women are not stupid....she knows you are attracted to her...she knows you would sleep with her. They play stupid but they know. This would make sense if she was single and I shown interest in her. I haven't. I don't know why she would think I want a…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:35 PM
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The first half I heavily disagree with, but your second point I agree with completely. I'm not in the friendzone. I'm friends with her by choice. I do not want a relationship, I just thought she would be a good opportunity for a FWB situation. If it doesn't workout then I honestly don't care to keep things platonic. To your second point, I agree and this is what I will do. I think getting social proof and showing her I'm desired by other women, and am in the mindset of keeping things casual woul…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:07 PM
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Thanks, gonna implement this.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:38 AM
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This is something I need to work on thanks.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:46 PM
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Thanks. I feel now my post was probably me overthinking the situation.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah, this is something I need to work on. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:37 PM
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Good tips. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:36 PM
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Good shit. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:01 AM
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Hm. Fair enough.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:37 AM
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I'll check them out. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:31 AM
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Good idea
/r/askTRP26/04/21 07:07 PM
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It sounds like you're in a really good position man, the chicks are showing interest. Isolate and Escalate, just remember if you're higher value they will try to monkey branch from their bf's to you. Good luck, although I don't think you need it. Haha.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 06:44 PM
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I made a post about this same question, check my recent post, there was plenty of solid advice from the commenters. You mention how their bf isn't alpha. By this I assume that you would be more dominant, masculine, and forward with the girls than their bf is? If this is true, they will be attracted to the dominance, since it's biological. And if you're more alpha than her current bf she will realize this and hypergamy will kick in, and she will view you as higher SMV than her bf. Second of all, …
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:30 AM
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It was just a joke lol
/r/askTRP24/04/21 11:08 PM
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Yep, username checks out.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 09:53 PM
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This sounds like the chick I'm referring to. Makes sense aswell. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:58 PM
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Thanks for the advice bro
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:30 PM
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Drama related to their relationship being effected?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:40 PM
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I haven't seen them together, but my friend made a comment to me how he saw them together at a party and he was supposedly needy and trying to get her attention, while she was trying to brush him off, haha. Good advice man.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:38 PM
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I didn't plan on wasting a lot of time or energy on this chick, but the last part would be very helpful to implement, I didn't really think of that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:36 PM
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She's definitely very sexual, whether she has cheated on her bf before is unknown. She's the type of girl who's very outgoing, adventurous, driven, etc. I can see how she could be dominant in bed, but at the same time she seems like she also wants to be put in place by a dominant man. You mention how women like this are usually the biggest sluts? Just curious if you have any insight as to why these are the slutty types, or what lead you to believe / figure this out. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:34 PM
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Thank you, will take the advice.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:28 PM
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Thank you for the input.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:28 PM
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True, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:24 PM
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Why do you recommend befriending her bf?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:24 PM
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That's one thing I thought of, thanks for the tip!
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:22 PM
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What did you mean by "you know what she wants and her values"? Secondly, since you have had experience in similar situations, how do you recommend starting a FWB relationship with a girl in a relationship? We only hang out in groups as friends, I wouldn't openly flirt with her with others around. I also think it would be weird to ask her to hang out without the group. Maybe just casually or jokingly flirt when the other group members aren't paying attention? Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:02 AM
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I know that, I don't want a relationship, just FWB. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:55 AM
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