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This only applies to seemingly upper middle class predominantly white women in non rural areas. And includes no thoughts of anything other than how she feels. Any view with a scope this narrow and subjective isn’t here to be changed. You’re not genuine in the topic posted in the title versus what’s said in your text.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:45 PM
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This is victim blaming, it assumes everyone is always right about their partners feelings and loyalty. And you sound like someone who has dated and is just here discussing theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:19 PM
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Because for some people it’s not about love. It’s about having g what society views as the best and having something others want and highly value. It’s a form of validation for them that brings them security.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:40 PM
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So, I agree. However, over the last several years as TRP has grown I think it lost its foundation and became whiny bullshit. I needed something like TRP 12 years ago, I was angry, confused etc. And what clicked were two things. 1. very basic every one knows take people off pedestals, your as much a prize as anyone else. 2nd and way more important. I needed to hear that my situation, was my fault. I needed to take accountability for everything in my life, no more excuses or complaining. If you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:16 AM
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I mean we all kinda do, we have best friends and regular friends and work friends. We have family we are closer to than others. Your not wrong, but its not an intentional or thought out thing. They just don't want to fuck him. but just like he isn't entitled to romance they aren't entitled to friendship and it does not mean they became friends for the wrong reasons either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:13 PM
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I think they mean having different groups for different things. Family for one, BF for another, one friend group for partying, one for chilling, one for hobbies etc. Again just trying to convey what I think they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:29 PM
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So there was this awful but entertaining reality show called fuck boy island. 3 women along with some self proclaimed fuck boys and some more stable career men were all put together. Sure enough most the men voted off in the first few waves were the non fuck boys. The women all were surprised because they thought for sure they could tell. Turned out they just assumed the ones they didn’t like were fuck boys. I’m aware this is mostly scripted and what not. Just a funny anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:38 PM
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These aren’t corners of the internet this is pretty common place across multiple generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:07 PM
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We can be. But we will always be the emotional punching bag for the ones who love us. This is based anecdotally on my mother and my wife. I’m not sure I’ve been happy a day in my life. Therapy and pills don’t help anymore. This isn’t the place for this. But I’m not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:33 PM
12

I totally agreed with your title. But is the rest satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:46 PM
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Those men like to preach TRP without practicing it, they want to see themselves as victims and blame others for their problems. They are stuck in the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:33 PM
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For number one. Do you also think women should have shoes clothes or make up that make them look like a more attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 01:54 PM
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Taking personal accountability to change yourself to be able to get what you want is foundational to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 01:53 PM
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So what actual consequences are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:09 PM
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What actual power did this man hold over these particular women? They didn’t work for him or report to him in anyway. I don’t follow what you are saying at all unless again you think women are less then men in some way. You seem like you some beneficent misogyny and you need to take a step back. People are people. Start there and once you can see that as equal worry about their preferred gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:59 PM
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Did you just compare adult women to pre-pubescent children as if they have the same agency? You must really not think much of women. You need to check your misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:56 PM
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Wait what? Harsher treatment for actions but receive a fraction of the court punishments men receive? What your saying isn’t true in the justice system at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:54 PM
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That's not what he said. He said women fitting a very specific set of conditions don't and cant know what hard work is. Stop changing other peoples arguments adn read what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:42 AM
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You just described me from age 24 to 26. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:40 PM
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I think going on dates or getting a first date is easier, for the reasons listed in your post. But I think getting relationships is much harder because there are so many options available and so much comparison between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 08:00 PM
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No one said they don't. Relax, people just talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 07:19 PM
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If you don’t think thousands of women would be happy to have sex with those men you are fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 01:22 AM
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I went through a similar set of changes a few years ago. Honestly the anger and bitterness faded from me overtime, I learned from my experiences and I would say now I am in a good balance between red and blue that works well for my relationship. I spent a few years doing casual relationships but have spent the last 2 years with the same woman quite happily. Give yourself some time but also try and remember that "women" didn't do this to you, people treated you like. Hold specific people accounta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:05 PM
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I don't think it is just the emotional ride that grabs people. I have known several men and women in their early 20's that were excited by the idea of competing with others for that one HOT person's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:01 PM
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Your 24, you are not post wall. If you feel like your looks are drastically going down now I would ask how is your diet? Are you getting enough sleep? Are drinking more or taking drugs? Do you exercises? Are you getting the vitamins you need? Do you find ways to do things that make you laugh or smile often? If you want a new job, find a new job. If you want to go to grad school you are not even close to too old to do it. If you want to get married and start a family then focus on that? Try and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:57 PM
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From the information we have he asked her approx 28 times in 42 days. Just over half of the days for 6 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 05:48 PM
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Can confirm. Every girl I was ever with. Except 1. Cost something. Being that time and patience. Money. Excessive energy. Or a combination it was always there. Except for that 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:43 PM
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Your last line is to long. Should just read. 'Women are Hypos"
/r/MGTOW05/08/18 04:38 AM
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I would call my self retired red pill. Was blue pill from 18 (age i lost my virginity) to 22. Lucky for me I spent those years at a state college and I am tall and decent looking so I think I had something like 10ish partners during those years. Then after discovering and taking the red pill in the fashion I did (working out, eating right, focused on me and being the version of myself I wanted to be, Stopped putting women on a pedestal or caring about them at all beyond physical interaction and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:45 PM
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She works at Fender, this job she is posting about does not seem to be at Fender.
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 02:54 AM
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No, because I know like other marathons and almost all sporting or athletic events they separate men's and women's. I read this and think wow an American women beat all the other women who entered for the first time in 33 years. Regardless, my point was that even if it is bad wording why let it take up your time? What worth does giving it any thought or attention bring you?
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:58 PM
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Most Marathons list a Male and Female "Winner" (best of each) every year this is nothing new. You're looking for things to be upset about at this point, go your own way and stop letting media impact your day with this trivia.
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:48 PM
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You'd have to ask Ms. Sandberg, my guess is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:33 AM
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Ok thanks for clearing that up for me. I'd like to ask how you propose going about getting rid of the current system and building a new one or adding female centric workspaces to balance things out. I am not against either one but I do think they sound like daunting tasks that could make things worse before they could get better, which would be a tough sell to any large populous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:32 AM
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Sorry I am not sure I understand your comment, unless your being literal. But assuming you are not being literal can you elaborate on what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:21 AM
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Oh that makes more sense. I would say no, while a number of laws have been past over the past decades to help things I think there is a way to go. Specifically talking about women to men equality of opportunity this is closer in my eyes as I think the biggest gaps in equality of opportunity comes from the differences in wealth per family. There are a number of things I could not have done and would not have had the opportunity to do if I had not been born into a middle-class house hold and faced…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:11 AM
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Well i don't support equality of outcome but was interested to find out if there were people here who were. I would not say equality of outcome has been achieved by any standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:02 AM
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Thank you, this was informative and helpful. I appreciate the time and effort you put into this. I will keep this in mind in how I think about and approach the topic going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 04:07 PM
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Hey 100% serious question. Can you tell me modern feminism is about? I have asked before and done some research but there seems to be alot of different and some time contradicting information. If you have a clearer message I would be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 02:08 PM
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This is a phtoshopped picture. The sign actually says "i wish I only got 2 minutes for hooking." A Sauce http://weknowmemes.com/2012/04/i-wish-i-only-got-two-minutes-for-hooking/
/r/MGTOW24/02/17 08:25 PM
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Do you think he cant get laid, it's never touched in the stories because the Batman universe is relatively sexless despite its ocassional brutality, or becasue he simply doesnt want to? I don't think having sex with women is neccesarily a dealbreaker of being Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:19 PM
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I mean unless someone deletes it, yeah whats stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:17 PM
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Thats kind of why I asked, we all talk about these concepts and we all ahve varying definitions. I think its interesting for us to share our own ideas and see where we all overlap and where we have alot of differences in opinion. That and I just thought it was kind of fun to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:29 PM
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Barney is an interesting character to think about. He definetley changes throughout the seasons, do you think at the end he is still Alpha? I believe he gets what we call oneitis for a stripper and spends thousands of dollars on her in the champagne room just to talk to her. It's an interesting character shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:21 PM
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The Joker as Alpha makes sense but is really interesting to think about. That would fall unde the dark triad category I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:20 PM
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One now the better posts I've seen here in awhile. Thanks for taking the time to remind us or teach us something important to success as a man today.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 04:55 PM
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THis describes my experience with TRP almost to a T. I internalized alot of it and browse it a few times a week but ahve internalized the valuable messages and have a better, more active, successful, and healthy life because of that subreddit. YOu can say the advice can be found elsewhere, but this is where it resonated with me enough to make a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 03:49 PM
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gay? no it just dosnt appeal to me. I have thought how much simpler my life would be if I had 0 sex drive at all and all I ever wanted or cared about was friendships. That would be pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 01:57 PM
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As an attractive guy in his mid 20's this is the way I feel 95% of the women I interact with view me. I'm good to show off to friends and get attention from in bars, and I'm a wild oat they sow before finding something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 01:55 PM
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For me it's not about a number, its more so the way they occured. If she goes to club and ends having a 3some with two people she met that night of any combination it would give me serious pause before dating her exclusively. It dosnt make her or anyone a bad person or a slut or a whore to do sexual thigns they want to do and enjoy. However, many people have things that would make another prsons sexual history uncomfortable for them and its fine to not want to date them because of that. Not bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 12:41 AM
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You didnt miss it, there was no cute girl in this video. Certaintly not a pretty one either as OP suggests. I saw 5 out of 10 going by just looks from this video.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 08:13 PM
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Neither are ok. Both happen. This is a dumb thread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 11:28 PM
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I think the issue is they have no recourse. WOmen have abortion, adoption, and I believe areas where withing a certian amount of time after the child is board they can give up the kid and way all legal rights and responsibilities. These are the mothers choices after conception, the father has non and in cases is forced to pay child support the mother can use for whatver she wants for 18 years on a child he did not want responsibility for in the first place. It puts men ina position where their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 03:35 PM
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If you knew you could sit back do less work and get to reject people who come to you and only pick the ones you like facing almost no rejection, or do alot of work face constant rejection and never get the validation of being approached which one would you choose? Everyone would choose the first one which is what most women do and it would be silly of them to change the way things work if it only benefits others and not themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 03:34 PM
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Ok, so some are and some aren't and we really dont know know. Let's apply that same logic to men and not jump conclusions that James Deen has to rape women to get off at this point. I can appreciate the point your trying to make but I feel an edit of it is very much needed. A look at the same potential effcts on the other parties side would be an insightful train of thought as well, to both outline very real possibilities and help keep people in the thread in perspective that there are no facts …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 04:43 PM
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Do you also believe all female porn stars must have a completley warped view of sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 04:30 PM
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I mean if you want to immediatley jump to an 11 and be extreme yeah, id say TRP hangs out around a 7 on the AWALT meter compared to you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 09:34 PM
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THink of it like this we dont say "Evrywoman could pulla gun and shoot us so better always where a bullet proof vest" but it works just like your statement. AWALT is best used in relationship dynamics as a mental insurance from getting sucked in and thinking your partner is incapable of hurting you, it's not about the woman or what she might or might not do as much about mental and emotional chekc for the man to keep from going full beta in his relationship and putting his SO on a pedastal that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 07:51 PM
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TIL i am in the 9%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 10:02 PM
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If i posted on here about having sex with a girl I had been dating who accused me of rape afterwards citing it wasnt becasue she had given me her sexy look before and during I would destoyed by the online community. If all a girl gives me as consent is a look then as soon as we are done I'm a phone call away from being arrested, fired, and ostracized by friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:57 PM
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Honestley I would love it if a woman just showed up on time consistenley. Like lets start there and move onto putting in actual effort once the bare minimum has been accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:26 PM
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I agree with this, though I am a straight man that feels sexually used quite often and emotionally ignored more so. Horay for being an outlier!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:57 PM
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yeah, its unreal how much free time and lack of real stress the youth of the middle to upper class of america has. Like throuhg 4 years of college while working 20-25 hours a week I still could get drunk and party whenever i wanted and still do well in shcool. It's pretty great to have that much free time. To bad most of us waste it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 08:26 PM
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If a woman wants to keep her maiden name thats fine, we just wont get married then. I dont have good or rational reasons for it but it is VERY important to me, I wouldnt break uo over it but we would be lifetime relationship rather than husband and wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 10:46 PM
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See it, disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 04:14 PM
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So shaming people till they correct the behavior is good there, do you also agree society as a hole should shame all people who are obese and unhealthy until are no longer unhealthy due to obesity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 02:04 AM
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Not everyone should feel better about themselves, if people treat their bodies like shit and get fat, then continue to do the same things and hurt their health they shouldnt be told messages that make them think they dont ahve to change. Wouldnt a negative reinforcement towards being healthier "shaming" be better thana positive reinforcemnet to keep doing the things making you un healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 02:02 AM
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it is hypocritical but id thats what she prefers I back it, gotta do you when it comes to relationships. Settling just wont do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:28 PM
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It would vary, if shes 22 and has had like 30 partners thatd be an issue. For me though if a girl has gone through college worked for a year or so and has a number of like 15ish I would probaly be ok with that pending on what acts (group stuff is a dealbreaker), with who (did she do hook up with athletes and muscians becuase thats what they were i.e. groupie), if she has cheats or branch swung. There is no magic number to many variables to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:27 PM
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TIL i am a 1% dude by those standards. I appreciate the ego boost :). But no i assume TRP is filled with with all kinds of people from the bottom to the top of the spectrum. Probably even people who hate it and are subscribed simply for the conveience of finding things they say on there to make fun of. We have no idea though and cant ever know, its all specualtion and/or blind trust of anonomyous strangers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:14 PM
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I think when she says muslce she means veiny bodybuilders and by nerdds she meand fit and in shape guys who are confident but have nerdy hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 09:25 AM
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Well your asuming everyone there posts, of 100k members the percentage posting success stories is maybe 1%, but people dont tend to flaunt failures as much as success. Your assuming that the tip of the iceberg represnts the whole, and its a faulty premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 09:24 AM
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I think you would be suprised with how many women call themselves a feminist when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:41 PM
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Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:46 AM
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My opinion is that its the internet and everything should be taken with a large grain of salt. For all I know you could be a depressed married man bound by ideologies. Now if what your post was trying to question is "Do TRP's believe all the stories they read on TRP are true" then I misunderstood and would encourage you to edit your post. To answer that no, I take it all with a large grain of salt just like everything else I read on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:46 AM
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Your telling me if polled readers and viewers of 50 shades and asked them if they were a femminst the overwhelming majority would saty no? I think you'd be dissapointd which is where feminism runs into issues with alot of people. It's so vague ever changing and free flowing now, there are no concrete goals just societal changes. Not even how those changes should be brought about is even close to unifrom. OS you get alot of clickbait saying "feminist things", alot of women who aren't feminists sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:42 AM
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Fat acceptance movment is just so people dont have to feel bad about treating themselves badly, they want society as a majority to say its okay to treat your body like shit as long as your "happy" to alleviate their guilt. Fuck that and fuck everyone perpetuating this movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:35 AM
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No, this is dumb to even bring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:33 AM
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Shit post, there is no way to chage your view becasue there is no way to know. You'll believe what you want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:32 AM
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I am much harsher on the scale than that but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:28 AM
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TIL OP thinks I'm an 8, thanks for the ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:27 AM
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If they want fake boobs they should get them, If I dont like their boobs fake or real I wont date them and they wouldnt want to date a guy who isnt dosen't like their boobs either I'd guess. I really dont care what individual women do since there are billions of them and I will never meet even 1% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 02:32 PM
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There are no 3+ blue pill posters on PPD. Now we have both said something completley objective that wont ever be proven and wasted eachothers time. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 02:29 PM
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Weak? I'm not sure about that I do see alot of women my age (young 20's) who have no sense of personal responsibility or accountability. I see alot of men dont have those thigns either, but to a lesser extent and they are more often forced to deal with consequences whether they want to or not. Keep in mind fiction, even based on true events is often massively exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 02:28 PM
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My two older siblings never dated, my mom and dad always talked to me and told me essentially that women are fragile and need to be treated nice all the time. Basically I was raised to put them on a pedastal and had no examples of people I was close to to show me otherwise. i gre up in avery samll conservative town in the midwest and saw little of the world outside of that town and tv till I went to college. Pair 2 decades of that with watching everybody loves raymond over dinner each night and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 07:32 PM
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Yes it's hypocritical, Cant wait for the same thread to come out next month. This is old news, lots of people are hypocritical in their dating and mating habbits, most of TRP is self aware of the hypocrisy, open about it, and ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 03:04 PM
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I have never believed I am the first to do anything with any girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 01:04 AM
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The best way for an average man to get dates or more success with women is to stop being average. Maybe he becomes the best at his job and gets raises and promotions or can start his own businesses becasue of it. Maybe he gets in better shape than anyone he knows and starts being someone people come to for fitness advice. Maybe he gets really really good at one of his hobbies like rock climing or dancing, or whatever he's into. No one worth wanting, wants a completley average person so he needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 02:44 PM
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I prefer truly confident women. however most women (and people in general) I encounter are less confident than they present themselves and as I see through over time and getting to know them attraction and respect fades to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 08:09 PM
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As far as burning fat you cant burn fat just in areas. Your body will lose fat all over at once in varying degrees depending on who you are. If you eat a low carb, high lean protein diet at a little under your matienance for calories per day you'll have plenty of energy for the gym if you get sleep and maybe use some pre-workout when needed. As far as lifting you can try limiting your rests between sets to 40-50 seconds and make sure your intesnity is high EVERY SET if you dont come close to fai…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 11:28 PM
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I would guess that you need to cut %BF at that wright and height. Im 10-12% BF right now and I am 6'5 202lbs. But at the end of the day what do you want your body to look like? If you want natural resting abs and sharp defined msucles all over then cut carbs and calories down to below matinanance keep lifitng and add some cardio/core work. If you want to add muscle over your body do a clean bulk and keep lifting heavy, refrain from cardio.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 07:45 PM
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I think you have my most and least favorite comments on the sub. I dont always like what you say but I am almost always interested. Keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:03 PM
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Natural Alphas are everywhere, and no one is Alpha they just may have alot of Alpha tendencies which is what people at TRP normally strive for. To increase their Alpha tendencies as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:58 PM
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Women are leterally everywhere. At work? yes! At the gym? Yes! in public? Yes! At bars? Yes? At restaurants? Yes! On the internet? Yes! On your phone through apps? Yes! If you were in a frat, congratulations meeting and sleeping with women just got alot harder once you left, since now you wont have dozens of them coming to your house for a organized party every weekend. But seriuosly its not hard to meet them or find them, just literally live your life as normal and approach women you see who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:56 PM
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I know their are other ways, this is the most effective and most fun way I have found to live my life. If I encounter something that I think I would like more then I would change. Which is how I came to TRP to start, I wanted to change my life or the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:53 AM
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To be fair a decent prostitue is probably around $200/hr in most major cities. High-end gorgeous women are more like $300+.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 02:44 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to respond. It's appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 09:55 PM
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Are you teeling me 100% of the men you knew as more than an aquaintence that you liked turned into a romantic relationship...... We have lived incredibly different lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 08:07 PM
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Ha, no I tried this method for a few years and was dissapointed alot and dissapointed a few girls as well. A mostly RP approach has kept me happier since then, though I ackowledge there are problems that come with the strategy. I believe in chemistry but I also believe that there is an explination for it, and it may be on an individual level. For example there are things I like in women that others dont find as a turn on, I would like to be able to identify those things to gaina better understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:46 PM
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She got and took the belts..... congratulations you actually made me angry with this story.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:37 PM
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Thank you for the indepth response, I really appreciate your time and effort here. Did he ever make his intentions known? Who made the first move here, how did it shift from just business, to friends, to romantic? It seems at first niether of you were interested in the other and only started hanging out due to outside circumstances would you describe this as accurate? I find this very interesting because I have seen these kind of relationships happen and thye usually go very well and are long la…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:28 PM
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Thank you again for taking the time to respond. I appreciate your candor with me. Your explination makes sense to me here I do know people this has happend for though in my experince its rare for people to meet this way with so many variables that can make something potentially perfect not happen. My next question would be have you ever met men and had a frienship grow with them where romantic attraction didnt grow, since I;m assuming your male friends would be those you consider awesome people …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:22 PM
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Thanks for the response I would like to dive deeper here if we could, so you know I want honest answers and I wont be replying to them or using them in other comments anywhere I am simply curious as to your experiences and how these things worked. It seems that getting know their personality is the sole catalyst for attraction in this case (at least). Can you pin point or ball park some instances you noticed this or what this consists of? it sounds alot like simply becoming friends with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 06:34 PM
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I am curious to learn more about the journey from not attractive at AT ALL! to SO. You say its time spent together but not "orbiting" can you fill me in on where you see the differnce in the two? Cause I'm wondering if the difference between him having been an orbiter to you and simply being an outlier rather than oing something different is simply the outcome. What things did you get to know about him? Why were those thing important?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:14 PM
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What kind of thigns do you find interesting about these men that shift the balance towards one or the other? Is it specific things or more of an increased or decreased attraction based on time spent and quality of interaction? Is it just look and personality that impact this or would you say style, other people he and maybe you both know, interest from other people into him, confidence/assetiveness? etc? I am curious about how you would descirbe the process of growing or losing attraction toward…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:06 PM
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Right but they aren't throwing people out who break those rules, they are throwing people out for being accused of breaking those rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:57 PM
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The DNB as you describe them are women I date off of tinder, meet in bars and so on. They can be attractive, educated, fun to a point but I am never interested in them beyond an occasional casual date or weekened hookup. The only women I am interested in a LTR with are women who impress me becasue I see them as someone who brings something to a relationship beyond looks and a laugh which can be gotten on short notice pretty much anywhere. If a girl has a drive and ambition and work ethic towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 04:23 PM
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I spent a few summers coaching men's and women's highschool soccer and I definitely had to adjust my criticisms from boys to girls. The fair times a coach didn't you ran into feelings being hurt and or tears, now I'm sure some guys feelings were hurt to but they never let it derail the practice which did happen with the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:43 PM
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^ This, what people mean when they talk about this is if you did something and enjoyed it with some one else. Also it dosnt mean that you should do it with a new guy if you dont want to but it does mean that he should get to know that and if he has any self respect he will walk away knowing you just wernet as attracted to him as you are some other guys. In this case you tried something once and didnt like it, your good not to do it. Consistency is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:18 PM
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For me one day I realized that i hadnt been happy with my life for a long time and had placed blame everywhere but myself. Started reading TRP, started taking responsibility and changed my approach to relationships and dating. My life has improved in literally every way since then imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 02:58 AM
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Tall, blonde, works out and is skinny and fit, has interesting hobbies that are her own, ample t&a, intelligent, confident. Assertive on her own but finds it attractive when men take the lead on things. Submissive and enthusiastic in bed and in relationships in general but not afraid to let her opinion known So that she doesn't become resentful. (See successful captain and first mate dynamic) I have met 2 of these women in my life and 100 or so more who only got the first half though maybe not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 03:47 PM
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i mean i go on a lot of dates and just wish one wonan could be interesting to talk to but it feels like 9 out of 10 are a bore who are just trying to play like they arent gonna fuck me long enough to to not feel slutty. No effort on my end. I show up, act assertive, dress well and shell out 40 bucks for drinks and an app make her pay the uber for us back than pants on the floor. I am bored and frustrated.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:54 PM
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Probably less than I would guess, I am not special there are no slowflakes etc. etc. But for my guess I'd say height, I'm 6'6" which is likely taller than most of them. That and I recognize than in many ways I am still a massive pussy who loses fram and reverts to BP and second guessing AWALT, despite making that mistake I have to seriously watch myself not do so again. Bitches be crafty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:57 PM
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My experience is much more distant I would say. Of people I talk to or see frequentley there is very little feminisim invol ved in any of ou lives as something we care about on daily basis. So I am impacted more but what I see coming from news sources, random interactions, internet experience, etc. I dont really see the personal level impact it has on people outside of a few morning annoying facebook connections. Thanks for the subreddit reccomendation, I will be sure to check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:17 AM
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I agree with alot of your points here and you have a had much different personal experience than me it seems like. I see where your coming from and alot or merit to your arguement. Let it never be said no one ever changed their stance on a point on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 06:25 AM
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It's different in that there is no central leadership of the feminist movement. I would say that if there were like those other groups we could absolutely condemned or praise them based on that central leadership stance on issues. But their isn't one in this case which is what makes it vague and harder to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:08 PM
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I've asked many feminists recentley what feminisims goals are and what the movement is striving towards. Other than a generic gender equality comment there is no answer. The methods on how to get there and what is and isnt gender equality varies from feminist to feminist. In the same way im sure the narrative varies in the mind from redpiller to redpiller. Its to vague at the moment to condemn as a movment, only specific actions or words of specific self proclaimed feminists which other are then…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:11 PM
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Well this guy sounds like a huge wack job more click bait cherry picking cant wait for TRP post of some outlandish feminist comment tomorrow. Really focusing on the polar extremes of feminism and MRA dosnt contribute much to PPD, actual discussions happen when we focus on topics that arent so extreme that more than 5% of the people here are on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:28 AM
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Great point, see the section over where the devious strategies won more early but less long term. How long is long term? We have no way of knowing how long the nice strategy has to keep going to reach a "greater" pay out. But if one of the main thing smen vaule from women os physical beauty and ability to give him children both of those things deteriorate over time so being nice runs the added risk of getting a worse pay out if you dont beat the clock. Where the devious is more liekly to win mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 09:51 PM
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Well I don't know if it made me smile but I did enjoy and agree with it. Thanks for posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 11:59 PM
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Closing a massive deal to a hige well-known new client and calculating my high 5 figure comission check after taxes. That's why I got into sales, for the win. But the best of sex i've ever had was pretty close to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 07:39 PM
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I don't speak for everyone, but somehow until about age 20 I never figured this out. I just thought that way, idk if i got it from my parents or media, or friednds, or if im just weird but it's what I thought and believed. Foolishly and clearly not well thought through I guess I just some how came to the conclusion thats how girls were, and that guys were different. Now this casued me alot of confusion and frustration in my relationships with girls and over a few years of college I finally figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 04:32 PM
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if 50% of the women are cooking wont 50% of the men have to make their own dinner? Well I dont like those odds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:53 AM
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Feminism has no currently defined agenda or goals, its just something people throw around when they do things. The definition fits each different groups desire of what they want it to be. Clickbait fems use a differnt one than people on twoX who use difffernt terms than the one on r/feminism. Your interpretation may be differnt from even those in your friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 05:52 AM
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what if next time i go out side a car veers off the road and kills me? What if what if what if? I rock climb, lift heavy weights that if dropped could kill me, fly multiple times a week. All of these are choices made with calculated risks. What if the next girl I take home is a crazy girl with a gun who wants to kill someone before she kills herself so she dosnt die alone? We can play this game all day. As far as bills thats why I have health and disabilty insurance. But your right waiting on th…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:44 AM
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Might get sued by the agressor but I doubt that, but police here (if they got involved which would be unlikely) aren't gonna do much to someone either A) defending himself or B) defending someone who couldnt defend them self.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:08 AM
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No I dont, but having been in situations similar to this before I know my intial reaction is going to be to step up and confront them. These are all good points and things to consider, though the city I am in and places I hangout it is very unlikely for anyone to have a weapon. Again though I only enter these situations when I feel forced to.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 11:42 PM
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I agree this particular guy probably wouldnt have stepped in for another guy, and that is fucked up. Good Point.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 11:17 PM
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It might not help you at all, It helped me in every major aspect of my life. It is not for everyone, and I dont think that all parts of it are for everyone I certainly dont implement everything I read there into my life but I found some that works for me and so did others. TRP is not for everyone, but it is life changing some people for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 02:27 PM
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If they want to, thats up to them obviously. I know that I am not attracted to hair on women off of their head so I will choose not pursue them, and niether I or she will really care and everyone will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 02:13 PM
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Yeah I switched to the platinum role. Treat others as they want to be treated. Though most the time I just do what I want as long as it dosnt really hurt anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 06:49 PM
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Id be happy to post. But I'm almost sure some bp would try and doxx me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 06:44 PM
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No, I believe some people become less valuable than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 06:25 PM
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That is what you call it and you might not be wrong, but I am sure not gonna be the guy who worked hard and struggled with women for decade and became finacially stable, healthhy, and safe who marries the girl that wouldnt give me the time of day because "she hadn't grown up yet".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 07:59 PM
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I tell people I fail every day, every set of lifts I fail. The 10 or so meeting invites I have to send that exec to get time that dosnt get cancelled. The differnt solutions I have to pitch before I find one that excites the customer. I fail a dozen times a day to succeed once. Totally worth it.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:20 PM
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I will describe pretty young women in the U.S. because those are the women I tend to approach and date. To sum them up they are entitled and most of them dont have any idea, I also dont think they should be blamed for this. Since they have been pretty society overeall and 90-95% of men they have ever interacted with have treated them favorably and better than they would have a less attrative women or a man. If for 95% of your life you have been treated above and beyond how most people are treate…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 03:46 PM
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Id say at least 50% of parents dont teach their kids any of this. Alot of fat people who eat poorly and turn on tv right after work have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:44 AM
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I'll look at who she has dated and talks to romantically and see if thats accurate. Trust peoples actions not thier words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 06:32 PM
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Lol this garbage got posted on the TRP to, im just gonna copy past what I told them. The show is seantioanlist journalism like the rest of cable news, with little to no actual news being reported filled with unbiased facts. They also encourrage guests to be outlandish and extreme for ratings much like salon.com does on femminist issues as click bait, this "news" show is a waste of it's viewers time and sadly there are very few actual quality alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:10 PM
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You forgot be attractive. but yeah pair being attractive with that and you can get laid semi consistenley by 6s and 7s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:08 PM
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1st Hot, succesful, confident men with social status (10's) 2ndHot women (8-10's) 3rd attractive women (6's-7's) 4th Hot/Succesful men (7-9's) 5th average and unattractive women (rest) 6th average and unattractive men This is strictly related to hookup culture where relationships are built quickly and are often short and based almost solely around parties and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:02 PM
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Yeah pretty much every girl i have ever known romantic or otherwise has exhibited an AWALT trait at some point. The important thing to remember is it is like mental and emotional insurance for a guy, a mindset where you are prepared for the worst from her but hope it never happens. I'm sure AMALT too in their own way but since I ahve never dated a man im not sure what traits they might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 03:01 AM
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I would want my daughter to date someone like me, I have a great job, make fitness and health a priority, im attractive, i dress well, and I treat people with respect until they show me why I shouldnt, I am also very direct and assertive and will naturally take the lead in situations though if someone else speaks up I always listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 10:20 PM
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The show is seantioanlist journalism like the rest of cable news, with little no actual news being reported filled with unbiased facts. They also encourrage guests to be outlandish and extreme for ratings much like salon.com does on femminist issues as click bait, this "news" show is a waste of it's viewrs time and sadly there are very few actual quality alternatives.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 09:59 PM
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Females have all the same rights to run for government positions in the US as men do, its equal, what you want is a female quota or some kind advantage to make end reults equal and not opportunity. Media in capitalist country will air what sells, you want that to change you have to change what gets ratings, rape-culture in the US which is the only area I am familiar with is purely made up of media sensationalism rape crime rates are and have been on the decline, wage gap is shrinking dramaticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 04:10 PM
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Yeah they hit some degree of genetic lottery, it gives them an advantage in the majority of aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 03:59 PM
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First thing this makes me want to say is fuck you. Because I really would like someone to love me for me and not the spot I fill in their imagined life or because I am nice to show off to people. I'm not talking about unconditional love or that looks shouldn't play a role but in my experience pretty girls exclusively want me as essentially a high end sex toy that also takes them on a fun date before hand. No depth or substance or desire to be challenged/work for or at something by young pretty w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 11:35 PM
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Nothing. Do whatever makes you happy. People should adapt themselves to succeed in their goals in the world. Not try to get the world to adapt to what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:19 PM
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Well the curretn feminist movement has no actual consistent goals throughout, its simply a label people use for different reasons. So it dosnt really help anyone in a concrete way more of a social club and anger outlet as well as a banner to let you stand on a soapbox with some protection from ridicule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 03:04 PM
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I have sex with women very regularly and have no problem meeting someone new almost every weekend. It's about limiting and hiding your insecurities. You better believe if I am in a bar and well know chicago athletes come in I will be insecure about how I look compared to them to the girls I am talking to, though I may not show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 02:59 PM
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I disagree with 5 and half of 6. Ithink the majority of the time most women are rational i.e. work, at the gym, everyday stuff. My experiences in relationships I have seen alot of girls act irrationally for seemingly no reason or at best poor reasons because of their emotions. The rest (1-4) I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 02:52 PM
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No I dont feel sorry for you, you sound like the girl version of me two years ago. At that time I was the only one responsible for not being with the girls I wanted to be with. And it was only my fault that I got hung up on uninterested girls for months at a time. IT was on me that I soent time complaining about this to myself and not actulally doing anything than being overley nice. Today I realize if I want to be with the nicest, smartest, most succesful women on the planet (which is my goal) …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 02:07 PM
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Well i would hope you wouldnt let yourself go physically for you and not for anyone else though thats not really your point. I cant explain it better than I have because it comes down so much to how I feel and level of attraction I have for people based on this not that its the only or most important factor. This is a fault of mine and not the only one but so far most the women i've been with havnt seemed to care among the few I have been exclusive with for extended periods of time and I was alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 07:51 PM
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Congrats man! I rembeber about a year and half ago I got there I've only felt bigger than that 1 or 2 times since. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 07:08 PM
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This is going to take us into a conversation on nature vs nuture I am not qualified to have lol i would say both are contributing factors but to what degree I have no idea. And no it wouldnt make a difference to me, like i said its not rational and I am hypocritical about it but its how I feel about it. If i had been ona few dates with a girl and say we ran into two male friends of hers from college that through a series of fun and interesting events that happened one night she had a threesome w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 06:56 PM
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It varies, sometimes I think I should pump the breaks on some of the things ive done. Othertimes I think ot the great times and fun experiences I have had because of those actions. I have alwasy had a hard time pin pointing why its a deal breaker because its not a thought out reason I cam to logically it is a feeling I have and it affects my attraction to that person and in some cases where the promiscuity of the girl isnt out of confidence and her desire but from insecurities, low self esteem, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 06:20 PM
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Probably a deal break based less on number and more on acts at that point. Like places she had had sex, threesomes, sex where you had no idea what their name was, etc. But if say we were in our 30s and she had slept primarily with people she had been dating in some capacity with some ONS sprinkled in that would be more of a toss up and come down to our interactions, how she treats me, and quality of our sex life. To many hypotheticals to give you a more concrete answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 04:38 PM
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Well thats what I am doing now casually dating 1 or more girls at a time (they know I'm not exclusive) and between my job and hobbies I dont really need or want anything more right now. Like I said there have been 2 or 3 girls over the years I did want more from and would have made serious comittments to and potentially had kids with. I can be hapoy either way I think though since I work very hard to make myself happy regardless of others and have gotten pretty good at it. But in regards to your…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 04:29 PM
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I dont want her to be forgiving about it, though if she decided being with me was better than leaving over that it would be her call. Ideally she would simply not be bothered by past or see it as a positive though I can see why she wouldn't. If I really wanted to get past it and just deal with a girls past I was turned off by as far as relationships and commiting go I probably could I am not the kind to settle though. I am perpetually unhappy with my successes regardless of what they me be I akw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 04:14 PM
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How ever they want. if they think I am gross, or just aren't comfortable with the # then thats fine. They feel how they feel and I cant control that. I have a high number, wont commit to some one else who does and I am knowingly and happily a hypocrite about this issue. If other men and women want to be sluts, for lack of a better word, then more power to them and if not then thats good for them too. But actions have consequences and sometimes that is your sexual past being a deal breaker for pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 03:58 PM
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Well I'm a slut of a man no doubt there, so I probably wouldnt commit to a relationship to anyone above or around my number. But its preference Im sure some people dont care, some never want to know, I do want to know and it will affect how I view them because that is how I feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 03:50 PM
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We are not all gonna make it. Knowing that is a key to motivation
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 02:46 AM
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Right I think most of us feel that to some degree. I think the orginal author meant the posts and comments that implied a high and clear level of hate at least without the tone to imply sarcasm or joking about it. My take was that it was referencing the comments that get cherrypicked occasionally, but again these are supposed to be the group defnitions so we will see how the rest of PPD feels about this and adjust from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 01:25 PM
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That's defnietley not the feel I got when I read it about the TRP. I guess I could change it to a similar context as the feminisms and do with "trpers" as is done with "radfems" but agian they are both compilaitons of several different peoples definitons. I will make changes based on the consensus of the thread in a few days. Thanks for your comments it made me open up my mind to a different interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 07:53 PM
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Another good point and I think the group will agree with that one as part of the philosophy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:58 PM
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That's an interesting point I think that should be included in TRP section, I will adjust the definitions after a few days when the thread is for the most part dead. Thanks for posting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:54 PM
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Your advice might absolutley life changing for some, and the others might not even remeber it 3 minutes later. The package of the TRP and the advice in it struck a chord with me that lead to a long term high level of self motivation. It's not for eveyone just like some people who want to ge in shap do crossfit while others dont like the it and prefer power lifting, just cardio and diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 03:19 AM
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Its intersting I find pretty much all these posts accurate but the all have small subtle differences or things added/omitted. Once its done maybe I'll make a post with all the serious and different items listed for each one as general definitions for each and submit them for opinions. Thanks for contributing!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 06:01 PM
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I think you hit nail on the head where most of this. Really good job at describing why the discussions here fall apart more often than not. Hopefully we can stop making blanket statements about each other so much and generate some actual and informative discourse with eachother more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 05:59 PM
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I like both of these as starting points, I'd love to see us as a subreddit define each deeper to include more. These are solid dictionary definitions, I think longer more unbiased encyclopedia definitons would be the most useful to our discussion. Thanks for responding and getting us started!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 03:44 PM
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I am very happy with my life. I like my job, love the city i live in, I have alot of close friends I enjoy seeing, I have some time for my hobbies, and I'm doing well enough financially to look at much nicer apartments in a better part of the city while still saving some to eventually buy property. Finally I am seeing a girl I like and considering going into a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 07:22 PM
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Right I wasnt trying to imply all had some degree of mysogyny and hate for women it was more like if they were on scales from 0 to 100 you would see people all over including at 0 which is where alot more TRP people fall then they realize. Unfortunately those post aren't as frequent and dont rile any one up so they are never talked about out side of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 12:54 PM
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"Be yourself" could be awesome advice, it could also be the worst possible advice someone can get. It all depends on who you say it to. If Brad Pitt comes to me freaking about an upcoming social interaction and I say dont worry man just be yourself, he's gonna be fine. If a meth addict comes to me asking for life advice and I say just be yourself probably not the best advice I can give. (I realize these are extreme examples, if you dont like them then apply the same prinicples to others. You'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 07:27 PM
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I agree, on an indivdual level I think all people on TRP posess the mysognistic and hate levels TRP is often associated with to varying degrees. Myself for example, I dont find those posts useful or read them because they dont help me improve myself which is my main point. I do look at all people equally capable of good and bad things and then be prepared for the worst will living and hoping for the best. Before this I, for some reason unkonwn to me, held women on a pedestal as people like to pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 07:00 PM
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Necessary no. But for me it was catalyst to work harder. Get a better job. G3t into the best shape of my life. Move to a new city I am very happy in. And improve my attractiveness to alot of girls I've met. Yeah I had heard alot of the stuff there before but this one worked for me. Like there are dozens of different fitness routines you can subscribe to but people respond better to different ones. This is how TRP worked out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 02:35 PM
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Yes. Things I read on trp have had a massive positive impact on all major aspects of my life because of steps parts of it lead me to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 02:24 PM
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I always sing that fleetwood mac song when we talk about this. Also understand where they are coming from and have considered that lifestyle for myself more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/15 05:17 PM
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Yeah that is the article I was thinking of. Like I said lots of crazies, best to ignore them till they go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 07:17 PM
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I'm not saying you dont or that men dont say it more often. Either way if you add up all the men and women who actually think or talk this way its such a small amount of the population that we would be better off ignoring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 06:49 PM
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The same argument can be made for men, keep some as slaves and farm the sperm kill the rest. There was a feminist blog that actually talked about it. People say and post exteme things because they either A) Dont think about what they say or B) its clickbait and we are feedng the bear so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 05:22 PM
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Who has the time to write all that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 10:59 PM
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What is the agenda you mention? I have asked close to a dozen people hoping for an answer as to feminisms agenda but no one has an answer for me. Which leaves me to take everyone who says "I'm a feminst" and everything they say as part of the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 07:28 PM
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Something you may want to consider while continuing to improve yourself (and I recommend reading all the posts here a lot of people have solid advice) is to see prostitutes every so often. For me if I go to long without sex it becomes a bigger focus in my head and I lose focus on other more important things. Also these women will have conversations with you if you want and may help improve your social interactions, practice makes perfect. I know its not for everyone but it is something to consid…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 06:27 PM
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I'll say the smiling thing again. For me it was like having strong posture helped me fake confidence until I got it for real. The forced smile often enough each day not only affects how others see but will affect your mindset overtime. Also I would see a doctor if you haven't if your brain has chemical imbalances then the right meds can go along way to correct that and help you achieve things.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 06:21 PM
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Pretty accurate for me. One of the better insights I've seen on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 01:38 PM
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No. I think each person should do whatever they want. The person your referencing sounds like an extremist for TRP. Just like the click bait articles of feminist that get posted here are often extremists as well. The majority of both groups is close to the middle than the other side thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 02:49 PM
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Right yeah I agree with that, the change is happening and many changes have happened already. What are specific things that currently are trying to be changed today? I can watch friends season 1 then the last season and see the changes. I am interested in what is happening now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 08:57 PM
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Probably the best comment Ill reade today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 04:53 PM
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Well I dont hate much of anyone. I guess, out of genuine curiosity and for my own education, I have to ask what are the things that are being fighting for specifically? I get equality of opportunity but what are the specific issues trying to be overcome? What laws need to be passed and what general societal cahnges is the group looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 03:58 PM
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Laws can and have been passed, and racism is way WAY down in my generation from my grandparents. But there are still racists and there still is racial profiling. In the end there will be pople who dont like you for shitty reasons, and there will be popel who do like you for shitty reasons. I am all for creating equal opportunity for everyone, but beyond that we are most likely making ourselves less efficient for the sake of political correctness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 08:47 PM
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If they are smaller and weaker they should learn from their mistake so they dont do it again. Most of us learn this lesson as kids, but if a smaller and weaker person was continuosly hitting me I would hit them hard enough back to remove any threat of me getting hit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:01 AM
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There are plenty of people who go there that hate women, there are also plenty of people who dont. Like anyhting the most extreme people get the most attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 06:30 PM
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SILENCE MANLET!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 06:28 PM
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Depends on the feminist you talk to, or person in general. I believe whole heartedly in gender equality but if i ask 100 people what that is and what it should or shouldnt include I will get dozens of answers. Then you have extreme feminists who kinda ruin things for everyone ina debate atmosphere ( just like any extremeists do and yes they appear in nearly every group there is)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 05:26 AM
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alot of muscle generated from steroid use also has an unnatural looking quality to it. Spend enough time around guys on it and strong guys not on it and you can pick them out of a crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 10:58 PM
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The 'lean' men in those photos are still very stong and go to the gym a ton unless they are genetic freaks. When TRP tells people to lift the majority of them would be lucky to get to that point. You need to be lifting for almost a decade or more on a heavy nutrition regiment to get SUPER big. I feel like we all have these discussions with such warped views in our heads. Those men ar ein great shape, strong, confident, and have good style that is the look TRP is preaching for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 10:55 PM
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I think thats where the malicious intent comes in. Just because someone is accused and found guilty dosnt make the accuse automatically making false accusations. It has to be proved that it was done with the intent of destryoing that persons life. Which is almost as hard to prove as alot of rape cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 05:03 AM
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the option is there and the laws are in place. Reports can be filed, rape kits can be done, if it cant be proved no one should be punished. It is a fucked up situation but I cant think of better way without alot of innocent men and women having their lives ruined either way. The problem with this world is it will never be perfect no matter how hard we try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 05:01 AM
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I saw that post too and that wasnt the only comment, just the only one he referenced, also your not taking into acocunt the idea that maybe that comment got 2 or 3 times the upvotes as the OP. Im not sure but it is a possibility worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 01:33 AM
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Well no one knows, since reddit in anonymous we only have peoples word. I am sure there are losers on TRP but I also know I visit there a few times a week and by current american standards I am a very succesful and attractive man. However, Ive also learned over a year of browisng and reading that I am very different from alot of TRP people while still sharing some of their larger views.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 07:31 PM
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No I dont think women are inferior and I dont think the majority of TRP does either. I do think that men and women are different not just physically but in how a large portion of each sex respond to different situations and operate in relationships. Now why we do that idk and I dont really care. Just making the most of the world I live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 07:21 PM
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When I am at a work function like a holiday party or something like that, my date becomes part of my image to my colleagues and her attractiveness is part of that but so his her personality and ability to interact with people.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:05 PM
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semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 10:40 PM
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It works both ways in a sense. I think men are more likely to tell you exactly what they want but as far as attracting them in a single social setting I bet girls in that scene and lifestyle know the best ways to get them attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 01:16 AM
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I've always taken it as All women are capable of being like that or all women have those thoughts/urges on some level. People have different levels of willpower, different levels of desire, and priorities. While the AWLT poster child would be a gold digger party girl who has cheated on like 80 guys and branch swung every time those are outliers. The average attractive young social life kind of girl (which for the most part are the only ones TRP cares about) is probably more likely to have cheate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 04:57 PM
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No, let people do what they want. I personally don't want women who are promiscuous for anything other than sex, I am upfront with them if the subject comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 05:47 AM
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Based on the post she sounded like he raped her, I don't get her logic for letting things start again in the morning. I do like she is taken some personal accountability. I would love a world where she can put herself in that situation and be safe, just I like I would love a world where I don't have to lock my car and can have no worries of being robbed. World is full of shitty people who might do shitty things to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 06:54 PM
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Many don't go to court because it's often he said she said with little to no evidence. Sexual assault is a very difficult thing to prove in a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 06:48 PM
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I'd sat those other people are assholes, but if I get drunk, follow strangers into an alley to do coke I have made some poor decisions and am responsible for the consequences of those decisions. So I guess I victim shame myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 06:41 PM
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Actually what attracted me is the sidebar section about personal accountability and that everything I didn't like about my life and my situation was my fault for letting it be that way. The self-improvement stuff can be found anywhere else true, and I had heard it all before but TRP gave me another way of looking at things. Before it I thought "Girls wont like me because I must not be very likeable or attractive to them. Since girls and people care more about what's on the inside and me being ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 05:30 PM
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TRP is amoral, red pillers are individuals and vary in degrees on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 07:59 PM
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If I had to judge myself on my attributes and qualities I would say yes. I have a good and interesting job, I am tall, in excellent shape, and attractive. I have hobbies I enjoy and lots of friends I live in a major city with a lot of fun things to do. I go to concerts, I try new things, and I travel. However, while I know any weekend I want I can go out to bars and find someone new to have sex with I struggle pushing relationships past the casual sex/dating phase when I am interested. From this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 07:57 PM
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I think the part that deals with women that sums up well. I also think their is a major part on taking responsibility for anything and everything that happens in your life and not making excuses. And a section on improving aspects of your life outside of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 09:20 PM
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TRP is amoral and they are welcome to do what they want. I see this and see their laziness. Probably why I am only 70-80% RP, I guess my purple is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 09:09 PM
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last Saturday, met on tinder she booty called me Last Friday ( heavily made out at the bar) her friend approached me and told me she was interested 3 weeks ago, she came to a party with me we had an awesome time earlier that week, she is a FWB. 2 weeks before that same FWB. I close by talking to them and being awesome. There is no trick, just confidence and being assertive paired with being tall, attractive, and lifting a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 07:52 PM
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Yeah I saw this and my first thought was these guys think they are alpha but are cutting corners and only worried about getting laid instead of actually improving their life. If you have to lie about being rich or imply it to get laid then you need to go monk mode till you get your sorted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 07:43 PM
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Then we should start paying the stay at home person should be paid from the working persons check. Average cost of a maid + babysitter = daily wage or something like that. 80% joking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 07:38 PM
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k so I get your playing devils advocate (I'm guessing) so I'll play along. I cant see myself in this situation, my attraction towards doing sexual things with a woman is largely driven by the fact that she is attracted to me and wants to. Now if we are in a long term dead bedroom or something like the above situation I would leave the marriage (I am big on pre-nups IF I ever get married) and find one of the thousands of other women I'm into that wants to do whatever it is I'm looking for. In my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 05:33 PM
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because violently forcing yourself into some one is gross to me. I don't even think I would get hard for it, doesn't do it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 08:25 PM
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no, that's super fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 03:01 AM
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longest dry spell was 19 years ( probably trying from 15 up so 5 years ish), broken by an overweight promiscuous Mormon girl. I grew up putting women on a pedestal so high I couldn't even touch their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 06:13 AM
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Yes men hamster, lie, cheat, steal kill, etc. but the TRP posters don't concern themselves with that since they aren't usually trying to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 06:28 PM
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Well part of TRP says over time you internalize the game actions and your personality changes to them, just all becomes habit. I believe games are used by most everyone at the beginning of relationships and then fall away as time goes. However, without the games I am still a strong confident and dominant person or "Alpha" to a point. Dread game also is normally viewed in the extreme, at its basis its simply keeping yourself in a place that your SO will notice that other people are interested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 06:06 PM
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As far as being a sociopath, I have my own set of morals that I cant make myself break from but societies norm morals don't really sway me though there is some overlap. I am good at and on a small level enjoy subtle manipulation, I generally fill my friends in after I've done it and it is normally very trivial things to keep myself in line a bit. They are mild symptoms but still there, empathy and emotions are felt on a smaller scale it seems than most other people I know. How a women wants to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 07:02 AM
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Thanks for your input, mentally stable enough could be argued (I have some sociopathic tendencies) but self-esteem is not an issue. There is a lot of dehumanizing done to women on TRP but it only bothers you as much as you let it. I don't think plate and think of a person only useful for sex, I think of a girl he likes in some ways but isn't ready (at least yet) to enter in a relationship with. I take pretty much everything with a grain of salt because most things are tilted to seem more extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:51 PM
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Yeah I'm sure some people argue that, one of the first things I read on TRP that stuck with me was essentially to stop trying to change the world and circumstances to fit me and to improve/change myself to make the most of the world I am in. I don't concern myself with things on that scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:48 PM
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I believe people prioritize different values, I wouldn't date a female version of me. Relationships often have complementary personalities with common interests. So they share hobbies but bring different personality traits to the table, this is the type of relationship I find works for me. Plates is just a word, it is only as negative or degrading as someone makes it like any other word. Someone says plate I think " non-relationship material girl" its just quicker. Any girl who asks me would get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 07:55 AM
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I'm not sure what part you aren't getting so here are some main points. This theory isn't meant to applied to everyone, only those who do feel this way about the topic. Even among TRP people the number and what sexual past becomes unattractive to them varies by a lot. I and a lot of others realize and accept the hypocrisy behind being with a lot of women and only considering girls with sexual pasts we are okay with as relationship material. If those girls have a problem with it that's fine and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 05:03 PM
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First off they don't need to be virgins or have 1 partner, every person is different and I couldn't tell you what my number is that would be a deal breaker but I know I have one. So we just changed that. Second I don't care or encourage others to go TRP and it will always be a fringe movement so there's no worry about every guy having those standards. See your taking all these things to an extreme when I am just speaking for one person. This isn't a theory I posted, I simply explained my stance …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 02:29 PM
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They are hypocritical, I am a hypocrite I wouldn't date a girl who ahs been with as many people as I have because I am a slut. If they have a problem with it then we wont date, if they don't then we will. People are free to judge me on my actions but that's not changing what I look for in a relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 05:48 AM
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Rok is click bait and not useful. A lot of people I talk to at TRP don't visit there anymore. I find myself enjoying the Blog RedPillZen much more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 02:54 AM
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Casually dating a few people (all are aware that we can see other people) 25 1-2 times a week 5-10 times a week 5-10 times a week 3 (the people I am sleeping with for the most part aren't satisfying me very well)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 04:40 PM
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I come to this sub for balance of opinions. I enjoy some posts from TRP but I come places like this and 2X to read the other sides perspective. If I just read one sides posts and opinions over and over I will lose my objectivity of the issues and start spewing random other peoples opinions instead of my own. We need places like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 04:38 PM
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Personal accountability. If I choose to enter a relationship with someone, then I have accepted the risk of being cheated on. Also, if I am not attractive enough to her overall that she has desires for someone else and acts on them then I should have improved myself more so that didn't happen. If I am cheated on then I will cut that person from my life, but I will accept responsibility for the failure of my relationship. Relationships are teams, if your team loses it's not just one person's faul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 04:35 PM
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You think if someone gleans helpful information from TRP they are not a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 04:27 PM
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true if you choose to only include men that have their acts together then you are taking about I would guess 20-30% and the ratio will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 04:25 PM
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The update cant come fast enough
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 03:57 PM
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That's my main point. I know a lot of people go on trp and use it as a soapbox for their own problems and make it real easy to hate it. But there is no way i'm the only one there not for that, the people really focused on it don't post much because they are out doing things and learning. Best of luck reaching your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 07:36 AM
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It does to people what they let, I take from the red pill what is beneficial to me and keeps me motivated. I leave the rest there, the same I take from books i.e. 48 laws of power. Not all of it is relevant to me but I take what I can. Weak people will find a way to yell and feel strong regardless of what its called. I don't try to change the world or blame it for things since everyone is playing with same rules, I am changing myself to be as successful in this world as I can (success as I defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 07:12 AM
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ROK is trash, that's a fair point. Mostly click bait, I wish they would switch it to RedpillZen. Much better, much more based in reality and focused on improving yourself than how women act and societal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 06:57 AM
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I was exposed to other self help opportunities and sources most of my life, but the improvement I have made on my life in the last year since the RP has been more than any other 3 years in my life. Hearing the ifno was good, but understanding why it was important was big for me. Growing up I always thought something was wrong with me because I was nice to people, didn't step on any toes and never expected anything in return yet I had no romantic interests. I was NOT entitled to them by any means…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 06:51 AM
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Not based on hate, based on viewing the world for "what it is". anyone who says they are RP and truly hates women isn't red pill at all. To make debates here better I wish TRP side bar had been read by everyone so we all know what its about. Anyone can post there, that doesn't mean its RP even if it has votes. Just like any other social group there are ignorant extremists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 06:33 AM
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Most of the media I see tells me women think that way already. Also I get it, I lock my doors because everyone who walks past is a potential thief. Safety first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 12:56 AM
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I've slut shamed myself a few times as a guy, no one else has said much but some girls have done a double take when we have the number conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 07:31 PM
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Personally I place a high value on everyone's accomplishments equally, if someone brings in a big deal at work or cures a disease who give s a fuck what gender they are I'm glad humanity is moving forward. I also value the feminine traits others have mentioned here a lot because in my experience they are difficult to find in girls today. I am not saying all women should act like this, they should act how they want but they are characteristics that go along way when I consider dating a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 09:42 PM
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Yeah I agree with a lot of stuff on TRP but I don't read anything from RoK anymore. I feel like he is mostly sensationalism and extreme either to his views or just to get more clicks on his page. Either way it's normally low quality imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 03:26 PM
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It's fine for you or anyone to believe that and I encourage them to do what makes them happy as long as it doesn't harm me. But I do give a flying fuck about a girls sexual past if I am going to be in LTR with her. I wouldn't mind that she has had multiple partners before or flings, but certain acts and number of partners or frequency of flings/ons are all potential red flags for me. And that has to be okay because we all get to live our lives the way we want to. People can have as much of a sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 11:34 PM
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great analogy, as someone who works in sales you HAVE to have that attitude and confidence to be successful and their are customers who don't like you for it for various reason but you get a lot more people who were on the fence to begin with to go your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 07:21 PM
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Women only want to be seen as sexual creatures by the men they feel some attraction to. This would remove the task of having to reject the men they aren't interested in. But put a well dressed tall attractive confident man with a little money in front and you'll see them fix their hair adjust the shirt for more cleavage and suck in that muffin top.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 03:23 PM
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That's the thing the biggest part of pick up is continuous approached because in the end its a numbers game. The idea is that it works on a larger % of the women they desire than they are currently able to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 05:08 AM
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I don't think anyone likes that guy, ive also never seen someone suggest that but there are super extremists of every group, outliers if you will. The majority is usually more middle of the road than anyone thinks because the louder and more extreme you are the more coverage you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 05:06 AM
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I feel like the phrasing of these questions "have fantasized" is a skewing things a little. Maybe when I was 15 or 16 as a boy I would fantasize about older women but the age group of women I think about has never really changed. Also I know my sample size is small but in my experiences girls I have known have had varied fantasies and things they want depending on the partner. Finally saying you have fantasized about something could have happened once and may not be a common fantasy, I think if …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 07:21 PM
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Something I read there that makes sense is "its not my job to keep them faithful" in same way if I was dating a girl and she cheated I wouldn't be mad at the man/men it was with, I would simply be upset and done with the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 11:54 PM
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Both genders can give advice equally, however the quality of that advice is all that matters. Most women I would talk to (when I asked them about these things) would give me the advice they wanted to have work for me rather than advice that would work. i.e. be yourself, smile, make her laugh, be friendly, show interest in her. Now I wouldn't call that bad advice but other advice I got from male friends who were more successful than me romantically and the other group of girls was better. i.e. Dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 11:43 PM
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Thanks for elaborating, I think every thing you said applies and is accurate excluding any specific outliers people feel the need to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:21 PM
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The traits you listed seem to me that those should be traits every person strives for. I know you have the etc. listed there I am interested in your opinion of other traits you might mention and what some people may think that makes those traits in a man or anyone undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 08:03 PM
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I knew. Everyone knows they can improve themselves. Trp got me to stop being angry at anyone but myself for where my life was. Since then I have made a number of improvements to my life and am in general improving my life. I don't agree with all of trp and I take everything I read regardless of where with a grain of salt. Personal accountability is a part of trp and one that to few people there remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:28 AM
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Actually it told me everything in life was my fault and I was responsible for improving tons. TRP or what I took from it blames no one but myself for anything in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:26 AM
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That guy is lazy. If he is so confident his personality rules and its just his looks maybe instead of bitching about women he wants and can't have he should improve himself. Get a better body, better clothes and a better sense of his own style. His entitlement. I think it's something blue pill and red pill can agree is pathetic. If you aren't willing to work for something you shouldn't expect to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 04:06 PM
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All of you hating on this are making this sub look very hypocritical. Ive seen plenty of posts with the roles reversed where everyone praises the guy for standing up for himself and not dealing with a cheating spouse. If that guy wanted to fuck other women he shouldn't have gotten married (which even if he didn't want to, probably shouldn't have gotten married). Being rp dosnt mean living with black and white blinders on, leave that for the femnazis.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 08:47 PM
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Yes, I see a girl smoking and I pretty much immediately become unattracted to her. That's just me though, I don't like having friends that smoke either but I also don't see how this really relates to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:06 PM
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I feel like these are things that I find annoying in most everyone. Entitlement due to gender, warped views of "equality", etc.... would be things I find annoying about women
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:35 PM
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She struggles not getting her way. She wants to do whatever she wants whenever she wants, your simply the man facilitating her to live an unrealistic life without consequences.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:03 PM
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I cant even make my brain understand this...... I kind of hope he never wakes up from feeling this way. It might destroy him to realize what is actually happening here.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:00 PM
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Not all of them feel that way, I don't judge a women as person on whether she has a high partner count. She could be an amazingly accomplished person. That doesn't mean that it wouldn't be a factor I consider before entering into a LTR with her though. Her number may be to high for me to feel like I want to be with her. Slut may be the word used by some but I don't think it is always meant as negative it simply easier than saying she enjoys casual sex with a lot of different men. Ill grant you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 02:01 PM
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I am new to the Red Pill (2 months give or take) so I could be off base here. I feel like this article encourages women to give men a break, I personally don't want that. I don't want people to make things easier for me I want to work hard and earn what I get because if it was easy everyone would have it. I also don't want women to change how they think or what they want. They should want everything, its natural to want the best for yourself. I want the best for myself and I wouldn't change thos…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:11 PM
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