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DISCUSSIONlydia_cat_lady/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 01:09 AM
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I’ll be 16 in a few weeks and I actually asked almost an identical question here 6 months ago. I grew up in the Mormon church which is known for big families. This never really appealed to me, partly why I left. I’ve never rly wanted kids but something my friend said was “having your own mini you is diff than a bunch of screaming crying kids running around at family events”. I’m currently dating a really good guy and while I know statistically I probably won’t marry him, seeing him handle little…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 02:32 AM
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That’s a very good point. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:12 PM
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Alright thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:11 PM
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For sure! I hate the current climate of picking sides. That’s really cool that you are able to do both. Do you ever feel cheated or like it’s unfair that you can’t put as much effort into your career as your husband if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:11 PM
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Oh 100%, I definitely see the value in considering all options and not blocking any off. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:06 PM
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Oh for sure and yeah it’s important that I realize the diff between mormon relationships and red pill. Often the same conclusion but diff evidence. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:01 PM
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That’s very good advice and things I’ll definitely keep in mind. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 05:57 PM
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That’s true, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 01:39 PM
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That’s very true, at the end of the day I can work for an ambitious job and end up loving it. Then I can pinpoint the sacrifices and I’ll decide if it’s worth it. If I end up hating it I can always change directions. Is it possible to have that believer aspect go both ways. Like believe in each other and encourage and validate one another?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 04:59 AM
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No that makes sense thank you for explaining that. Do you think there are alpha men who don’t want kids?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 04:51 AM
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Alright I’ll take a look, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 04:27 AM
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Wow, thank you for taking the time to respond. I realize my error in the way I used house wife. I meant more as something I don’t want to be as I don’t exhibit many of the qualities of one but it’s totally fine if someone else wants to. I was curious about why I should change my goals based off of the over abundance of men or people filling traditional male rolls in society(I tend to agree with individualism). As far as kids go, if I decided not to have kids or maybe only one, then wouldn’t that…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 04:26 AM
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Oh for sure! I'm so thankful for my debate friends who actually understand the issues but my non debate friends immediate reactions are just oh why do you hate your gender when that's so far from the truth. If you don't mind me asking what are your major reasons for not calling yourself a feminist?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 02:15 AM
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That's a really good point. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 01:36 AM
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Ok that makes sense, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 01:33 AM
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The technical definition doesn't bug me rather than the moment as a whole. I don't like the unwillingness to except and address men's issues and the misinterpretations of pay gap statistics. I definitely like aspects of feminism and I'm not anti women by any regards but the Amy Shumers of the world have given me enough reason to not want feminist as a title.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 01:33 AM
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