lynette-scavo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
323	Always put yourself first	MOOD FOR LIFE	lynette-scavo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 03:59 PM
216	I’ll suck the life out of her & send her to the psych ward and then call her crazy	RED FLAG 🚨	lynette-scavo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 11:33 AM
1	I’ll suck the life out of her and call her crazy!	RED FLAG 🚨	lynette-scavo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 11:30 AM
0	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious.	THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES	lynette-scavo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 11:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this. yes!!! They even have a Tom Scavo complaint flair lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 09:20 AM
4	Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this. OMG yes! He is such a man child brimming with scrodacity. I could go on and on	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 08:50 AM
23	Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this. “He’s grieving a life of leisure, not her” Just wow!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 05:36 AM
26	Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this. Spot on! My ex treated me horribly and when I confronted him, he would say “I’ve never even laid a finger on you”. The fucked up part is he prided himself on that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 09:05 AM
4	If your spouse watches you suffer, then they don't care about you. Happy cake day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/21 02:16 PM
20	If your spouse watches you suffer, then they don't care about you. They know! They fucking know! When I asked my NVX why are you treating me like shit while you’re treating others courteously, he said “If I be disrespectful towards them, they won’t tolerate it. Also you don’t deserve respect.” Thank god, I didn’t waste my entire twenties with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/21 06:32 AM
8	Qualities of Queendom: not giving a fuck about other people being mad at you 👸 I didn’t know that disproportionate rage from my father made me terrified of conflict. Thanks for enlightening me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 07:08 AM
16	Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity. Effing moron. Sex selective abortion is criminalised in India. And it is one of the strictly implemented laws. Also, if a guy in an arranged marriage setting asks for “labia” pics, I’m gonna name and shame him to the family. With Sex Ratio being 812 females to 1000 males, the scrodacity is too much	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 04:07 AM
3	Biggest Pickmeishas in TV history omg..i was just watching seinfeld and did a random google search and found this thread. George is the biggest scrote ever. And Susan is the pickmeisha supreme. She new the whole cigar thing and it got her cabin freaking burnt down. The worthless punk got her fired smh. I hate George viscerally	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 02:38 PM
9	Have you noticed this? this is so triggering. It makes me think of my first and last relationship	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 06:00 AM
23	Male Depravity - Boyfriend won't propose unless OP loses weight, he compares her body to p0rnstars. Zero cost bangmaid!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 02:14 PM
4	NVM calls rich, 24 year old gf a spoiled brat and undermines her success. Asks if he's TA. This! I wish I had known this as a teen. My father takes good care of us. It's not like I have unreasonable expenses. My ex constantly spoke ill of my family. He constantly berated my father. I am to this day livid!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 05:49 AM
4	Reminder that older men who go out of their way to date vastly younger women need to be AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS and this is why So he got together with her when she was barely legal?smh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 05:42 AM
116	Male Depravity - Boyfriend won't propose unless OP loses weight, he compares her body to p0rnstars. He wants to buy a house and supposedly(??) wants her contribution. She should leave him before he financially drains her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 05:08 AM
11	I was disappointed this OP thought this was sexy, but the first comment said everything I wanted to say. Glad to see smart women on other subs! a.k.a I will insult your intelligence and mansplain like my life depends on it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 05:23 AM
9	I’ll suck the life out of her & send her to the psych ward and then call her crazy very true..there was once a lady in our community who was so drained out and mentally wrecked. When her alcoholic husband died she bloomed and started teaching music to children in the community.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 03:19 AM
9	I’ll suck the life out of her & send her to the psych ward and then call her crazy Yes...if I am offering myself in a platter, who is going to say no? Maybe the degree of damage will vary depending on HVM/LVM/NVM. At the end of the day AMALT.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 03:59 PM
19	I’ll suck the life out of her & send her to the psych ward and then call her crazy A guy that feels better about himself by putting you down..totally relatable	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 01:10 PM
3	So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men. Thankfully I am out of it now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 03:31 AM
3	So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men. the bar is inside deepest of the mines!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 03:34 AM
31	So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men. Really true. I was once with an abusive guy. When I brought up the fact that I wasn’t treated well by him, he said at least I don’t hit you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 08:08 AM
9	“For years, I pursued men and got nowhere.” Older Woman and former pickmeisha follows “Getting to I Do”, a FDS book, and marries a HVM after 1 year Loved this article. So much of HVW-HVM energy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 05:35 AM
12	My pickmeisha journey/story OP, I can relate to this. I am from a similar background. I am also trying to work on my issues. It really sucks that we Desi girls aren't allowed to have enriching life experiences. I am thinking of an arranged marriage right now. At least then the guys in it are marriage minded?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 05:26 AM
4	HVM media examples? Ben Wyatt and Ron Swanson from Parks & Rec. Adam Janikowski from Mom. Carlos Solis in later seasons of Desperate Housewives.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 07:03 PM
14	My experience implementing the "3 month rule" on FDS has sold me on making sure it's going to be a Forever Dating Strategy. My experience implementing this has been nothing but positive and empowering! Wow..This gives so much hope	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 09:49 AM
43	She says she felt weird about the first meet up, turns out he hit her car on purpose after months of planning and stalking so he could manipulate her into a relationship. Trust yourself! See it as a survival skill if nothing else D: narcissistic love bombing! R.U.N	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 06:43 AM
2	This video is a tad triggering lol, but she says some good stuff. I can’t discuss things like this with my friends, so I figured I’d post it here. Let’s talk about it! that’s a nice filter	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 09:27 AM
6	This video is a tad triggering lol, but she says some good stuff. I can’t discuss things like this with my friends, so I figured I’d post it here. Let’s talk about it! Being attracted f* boys comes from our deep seated patterns and belief system. If we had an abusive household, we tend to get attracted towards abusive people because our brain knows how to respond to abuse. Conversely, with the HVMs we may find them boring because we are so much used to 'drama'. So I am confused whether I must keep dating a person who I find boring?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 05:30 AM
5	This video is a tad triggering lol, but she says some good stuff. I can’t discuss things like this with my friends, so I figured I’d post it here. Let’s talk about it! I find lady gamers to be considerate but men go as far as yelling at you when you merely come into the vicinity of their 'play area'	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 05:26 AM
8	This video is a tad triggering lol, but she says some good stuff. I can’t discuss things like this with my friends, so I figured I’d post it here. Let’s talk about it! I agree that having money doesn't automatically make him HVM. But I am kind of on the fence on what she said about 'limiting experiences'. For instance, I have been burned too many times by gamer guys. I won't date them. It's imperative to have boundaries right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 04:30 AM
118	I cannot believe this 🤮 ladies, men doing ANYTHING to you in your sleep without consent is assault. apparently, people asking for the link want to report it. As if they really care😏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 04:24 PM
20	Guy keeps spreadsheets and rates sex with his GF....didn’t fit in the screenshot but he also has spreadsheets of all his ex’s too 🤮🤮🤮 why oh whyyyy Is it just me or does anyone else find that the relationship advice sub has a lot of insane age-gap relationships these days?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 06:30 PM
8	On today’s episode of a man acting insane, and his girlfriend thinking she needs to apologize to him for it He asks her to hold in the period blood? What a douche.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/20 06:35 PM
10	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020 What to do if you have a LVM family member who constantly treats you like shit and you aren't in a position to move out?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 06:45 AM
9	Reminder: NEVER EVER EVER SEND NUDES or it may end up on a wall. See story. Once again proves that LVMs value their friends’ “opinions and approval” over you. I suffered a lot because of asshat friends of his. smh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 10:35 AM
8	GiGi Engle, who we’ve called out here multiple times for giving absolutely harmful anti-woman bad sex advice, has written for almost every single major magazine imaginable. Why is this horrible woman allowed to speak for and to us like this? The level of propaganda to promote anal is disgusting. This is from an Indian TV show. There is a party going on and people are randomly chatting. And then out of the blue, a grandma is asking a couple "have you tried anal? it's very pleasurable". Like wtf. There wasn't even a context to talk about sex other than the fact that they were a couple. Leave alone, anal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 04:44 AM
29	Wife wanting to divorce her useless husband who acts like another child. Commenters saying how the sub is biased against men, she should consider therapy, he’s “depressed” and should talk to him about it, and shaming her 🙄 She will take care of 2 children rather than 3 after the divorce.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 05:44 AM
6	I'm so disgusted by my past behavior and what I used to tolerate. How do I move on? In a way I am thankful for those horrible times. If they didn't happen, I wouldn't have connected with FDS principles at a deeper level. All the knowledge in the world is worthless, if we cannot intuitively make sense out of it. Being hurt gives that intuition.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 05:36 AM
28	Dude tells me we shouldn’t waste each other’s time after I asked if his family is accepting of him dating outside of his race/religion?? My past relationship was inter-racial. At the beginning of the relationship I asked him if his folks would accept us. He said "All that matters is that you are going to be my wife, you need not worry about them". In the end problems arose because of the very same thing. It's just a card they play to get a coochie. Thankfully, you didn't proceed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/20 07:09 AM
64	More Sex Work Propaganda from Refinery29: “Sex Work is one of the few ways women have access to upward mobility and that’s why it’s so threatening to the patriarchy”. 🙄 The Patriarchy is not threatened by you sucking their dicks sis, they’re intentionally encouraging it. Please ask these libfem to come to Sonagachi or Kamathipura in India where these sex workers are living in squalid living conditions, dying off STDs without decent medical access. Hell, their kids get stigmatised because of their mothers’ work. Upward mobility my ass!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 06:05 PM
5	Early signs he's no good in bed or with communication maybe that’s also a way to gain sympathy from others. Eventually when the breakup happened he portrayed me as a cold b**ch.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 01:24 PM
24	Early signs he's no good in bed or with communication 14 is so true. He acted so macho and chivalrous around our friends and would proceed to treat me like shit when we were together.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 04:29 AM
21	Eliminating Um and Uh. ‘like’ is also another filler word I want to eliminate from my speech. It makes me seem less assertive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/20 05:32 PM
22	“Will cry if you yell but also will get wet”, “insecure but will wear minimal clothing around you” + the red elbows and knees... what the hell is this pornsick shit Wants a clingy and jealous girl and wouldn't even have an iota of respect for her	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/20 06:02 AM
5	Men who are threatened by your beauty. I experienced this as a teenager. He was sweet, he didn’t do anything wrong at the beginning of the relationship. I wasn’t physically attracted to him but I went on dates just because he was nice. He kept on accusing me that I would eventually leave him and made me prove my faithfulness over and over again. These insecure guys simply don’t deserve our company.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 07:20 AM
19	35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE. I once read that men in Pakistan had sex with Female Indus river dolphin because their genitals look like vagina. That’s when I thought let climate change get those dolphins rather than this sick kink.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 09:57 AM
19	Not to spill your secrets to men Not only potential love interests, even my own brother used my insecurity as an ammunition against me. That's when I decided to keep my insecurities to myself, my mom and my trusted girl friends.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/20 07:01 AM
3	Don't try to pretend a bad ex never existed in your life or that you never really cared. Denying reality is never healthy, learn to accept instead. The trick is to minimise them in a life filled with new experiences. Thank you :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/20 02:20 AM
9	Don't try to pretend a bad ex never existed in your life or that you never really cared. Denying reality is never healthy, learn to accept instead. The trick is to minimise them in a life filled with new experiences. The last line sums it all up. The break up happened 5 years back. The trauma consumed me and I self isolated. Life has practically washed over me and I am still the same person. I didn’t explore new things or have new experiences. The worst thing that I can do to past me is to not level up. I am trying to improve now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/20 06:20 PM
85	Oh! Oh! Pick me! Pick me! Please pick me! 🙋‍♀️👋 Honestly, this girl needs an intervention. and she says she is not a “pick me” because she is in a relationship. Many of us recovering pickmeishas who have been in one or more abusive relationships.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/20 05:41 PM
22	Thinking of ghosting a LVM Giving him any other explanation about the relationship makes him perfect his act and will make him land the next victim with finesse. Just block him girl.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 05:55 PM
13	HVW recommendations (not related to dating) Booktube is my favourite part of YouTube. They have loads of bookish content like book reviews, recommendations, reading vlogs etc., Some of my favourites are Ariel Bissett, Merphy Napier.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 05:51 PM
19	Ladies, save your empathy for... Sprinkle sprinkle!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 05:25 PM
3	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious. It’s other people’s conclusions. As one of the commentators in this post pointed out, I now see my blind spot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 05:20 PM
4	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious. okay. i agree. Thanks for making me realise my blind spot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 05:13 PM
-8	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious. Most of the comments in the original post say so. What seems iffy is that they both grew together and suddenly he has money. The moment he gets money, he somehow re-evaluates her? Although it’s unclear whether she wants a new pre-nup.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 05:05 PM
-4	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious. most of the comments in the AITA post says so. Idk, she built with that man. Now that he has inherited new money, she seems dispensable? Correct me if I am wrong	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 04:25 PM
12	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious. ikr, i am a south asian. Though there is an anti-dowry law in place, scrotes & their family demand it in the form “gifts” or fully paid grand wedding ceremony from the girl’s side.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 12:03 PM
55	Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious. what’s appalling is that when the guy was with a rich girl, he wasn’t a gold digger. But if the situation is reversed, she is called a gold digger.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 11:51 AM
25	Men are delusional. Don’t let their delusions drag down your self confidence This! I wish I had known this when I was a teen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 07:16 AM
80	My friend is seeing a guy who keeps sanitary pads at his house for his female friends and she thinks this is a HVM trait sounds creepy to me. It seems like a trap to manufacture closeness. Also, maybe he has a fetish?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/20 05:07 PM
2	Men are crabs in a bucket when it comes to healthy, monogamous relationships. Other men in your man's life are more capable of sabotaging the relationship than other women are, and here is why You just opened my eyes. My ex would cause needless drama by rehashing what his friends said to him. He would expect me to act according to their standards.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 12:29 PM
6	Another day, another “I wasted my life waiting for him to propose” post. We need a Forever Girlfriend flair 🤦🏻‍♀️ I am a Desi too. Normally here in India, parents ask if we like the guy within two or three dates. How to complete vetting within such a short time period?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/20 05:02 AM