lyrian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Inner Qualities and Approaching Conservative Women		lyrian	/r/seduction	27/01/13 09:04 AM

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1	[FR] From a not so experienced lurker. Lots of opportunities but need to capitalize. Girls often are very receptive at parties moreso than they usually are, So it is natural sometimes that they flake after giving out their number if a powerful connection hadn't been created. Physically this can be done by k/f-closing, but at college parties this can often lead you to just a one night stand/hookup. Emotionally you really need to connect with the girl in order for her to want to continue to get to know you, through common interests, passions, similarities, etc. It's good to always…	/r/seduction	26/09/13 09:43 AM
2	[FR] First time out there, weirded her out. You should look up the kino escalation ladder. In general i will always save the face for last unless it's clear she's into me enough that i can escalate drastically like that. I know you thought you built up but there's more layers beyond arm/shoulder such as sitting w/ legs touching, touching her thigh, arm on small of her back, arm around her, etc.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 02:24 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13 Haha that's crazy, the character approach is exactly what I've been using to fuel my interactions to good success recently. I still need to work on maintaining that frame though.	/r/seduction	20/08/13 04:45 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13 Great answer, thanks a lot man. Appreciate it	/r/seduction	20/08/13 03:39 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13 I think what happens is after my questions, etc, I sometimes end up at a dead end. I know of conversation threading, etc, but naturally in the moment sometimes my head draws a blank. How do you react during these silences?	/r/seduction	20/08/13 03:06 AM
4	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/19/13 I think my sticking point at the moment is that I struggle after having isolated the girl. In initial conversations where it's just small talk/joking around I do great but after isolating the girl I'm often at a loss as to what to say. I genuinely want to get to know the girl but I think what holds me back is a fear that the questions I ask or the way I talk to her in isolation may place me in the friend zone. I'm not scared to kino and I know when to, but I just struggle with building up the co…	/r/seduction	19/08/13 10:19 PM
1	Inner Qualities and Approaching Conservative Women Hey dude, thanks for hitting me up. I'd love to hear what you have to say.	/r/seduction	13/06/13 02:42 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/16/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Haha it's just to keep it simple for you, having a convo plan laid out never really works. And since shes new offer to show her cool things in the city.	/r/seduction	17/04/13 02:43 AM
7	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/16/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Ask her what she's listening to.	/r/seduction	16/04/13 11:14 PM
0	Why I find this scene a little ridiculous at times. do you mind PMing me too? I'm interested in learning more about this.	/r/seduction	16/04/13 11:59 AM
2	Lack of self confidence in my body Since you can't really exercise all that hard on a bad ankle I'd suggest getting a really healthy diet.	/r/seduction	15/04/13 11:33 AM
1	How can we make friends with attractive girls? One of the easiest ways to friendzone yourself is to talk to them about their issues or ask them if they see any cute guys at the party.	/r/seduction	15/04/13 03:25 AM
2	Complete novice to the game going to college in 5 months. Would appreciate any advice Work out over the summer as much as you can. Read some books. Start looking into dressing nicer. Wherever you go try to make small talk with whoever is there, whether it's someone at the gym, a cashier, a waiter, etc. It can just be small stuff like "busy day today huh?" or a light joke, but it will slowly improve your confidence with talking to people you don't know. Texas guy is on point with body language. In college SO many people are so uncomfortable and insecure about themselves that guys …	/r/seduction	14/04/13 07:24 PM
4	Openers that immediately skip small talk ShootTheRat is definitely on point. Something to add though is that I personally don't like to directly compliment on looks or physical features because there isn't much for the girl to say in response: "oh, thank you!" is really the best she can do. You can go into something else from there and it can work on more sexually aggressive women, but it can also push away a lot of others. One thing that stuck with me is a quote I read somewhere that basically went along the lines of "Compliment a gir…	/r/seduction	14/04/13 10:19 AM
5	Genuinely dislike crowds and big parties. But do really well one-on-one. Any tips? May I ask what your current situation is? City you're living in, what you are doing as a job or if you are studying, etc? Because I think those things could be a huge factor in this. Generally though I think it's not so much finding that certain type of girl but finding an environment where it IS relaxed and allows more room for talking. Even at a club, if the girl is relaxed etc. it'd still be annoying to yell over music and the other loud people, etc. With that said I would recommend places li…	/r/seduction	14/04/13 10:09 AM
3	Advice requested regarding state; What do you do when you no longer feel like yourself? Hey man, I'm guessing it's the fact that you're not very comfortable with the shift you had in your environment. I'm actually a lot like you in that in high school I was very comfortable but now in college where you're constantly meeting people I'm a lot more overanalytical. And similarly I would use weed as a crutch to avoid social anxiety. Hell I'm even a second year too lol. But my input as to how I personally overcame it is that I stopped worrying so much about what people would think of me.…	/r/seduction	12/04/13 09:34 AM
0	Inner Qualities and Approaching Conservative Women Haha okay, this is what I was considering doing. Thanks for the advice man.	/r/seduction	28/01/13 08:07 PM
0	Inner Qualities and Approaching Conservative Women Hi, this is great advice and I'll definitely keep that in mind. To be specific though I was wondering if there were certain ways in conversation with these sort of conservative, less outgoing girls to be more subtly sexual since they usually don't pick up on overtly flirty/sexual comments or get creeped out by them. Any example conversations or things like that would help me out a lot.	/r/seduction	27/01/13 11:04 PM