lyricalpearl Archive

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3	What to do when overwhelm affects the marriage Have you by chance read The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle? I love the audiobook. It will help you sort through your feelings, get in touch with the heart of what you want, what your vision is, and receive graciously when people do nice things for you (which is surprisingly difficult for some of us!). It will help you sort out bedroom/intimacy issues too, and help you learn more about what respect looks like to men and to give him that gift more. What I love about it is it's pro-women, pro-men, p…	/r/RedPillWives	22/10/24 07:46 PM
7	Husband being inappropriate online Emotional manipulation may work in the short term, but it won't build trust, attraction, intimacy, emotional safety. If you're setting the stage for the bigger picture of a long-term, happy marriage, I wouldn't recommend this approach. I tried it using my genuine feelings, not acting, and it didn't work in my situation. It made him more distant. Men can sense the tiniest hint of manipulation and control, even if we're coming from a good place. They resent it.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/24 02:41 PM
3	Husband being inappropriate online If you want to stay married and improve the dynamic, Get The Empowered Wife audiobook and start listening asap. Full of practical information. It miraculously changed my marriage and my life. I can't recommend it highly enough. I know it seems like there are only 2 options. There is always another way. Look back at other difficult times in your life. Didn't they often work out in a way you didn't expect and couldn't have predicted? Did it turn out ok or better than expected? You're understandabl…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/24 01:32 PM
1	My husband is broken Men are wired to be the hero. There are some simple, practical things you can do to make him feel like YOUR hero. It will make you so magnetic and attractive to him and make you more attracted to and appreciative of who he is. It's a win-win-win because your kids will also benefit from having parents with a healthy relationship and a culture of respect and safety in your home. Check out The Empowered Wife audiobook by Lauda Doyle. Life-changing!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/24 04:09 PM
2	Whenever I say I like something…. So sorry to hear you are going through so much. If it helps, try to remember that the night can only last for so long. The morning always comes. It may also help to try to remember to focus on what you can control. If you don't, your brain will keep gravitating back to focusing what you can't control (you husband, for example) because it's a habit. An exhausting habit. I can relate to a lot of what you've shared in recent posts regarding your relationship dynamic. Especially what you just said a…	/r/RedPillWives	23/08/24 03:40 AM
4	Whenever I say I like something…. I can so relate! This sounds hard. I have some thoughts, but I'm curious, what are you looking for with your post? Advice on how to handle it? Advice on how to improve the dynamic? Validation of evidence you're presenting that he's a bad guy or doesn't love you? Help seeing your potential blind spots? Psychoanalysis of him? Do you just need a safe place to let your feelings have their day in the sun? Genuinely curious and sending you a hug.	/r/RedPillWives	22/08/24 09:36 PM
3	I need stress management/life advice Just want to add that I saw you mentioned you've read the book and that your H views a messy house as disrespectful. He's entitled to his opinions/feelings, but that's on "his paper" as Laura Doyle would say. You're still responsible for honoring your limits as a human being and a woman. Saying "I can't" (and leaving it at that, saying no more), sounds simple but can be very challenging. I've found whichever "skills" are the most difficult to implement, or I have the most reasons why I can't use…	/r/RedPillWives	16/08/24 12:59 AM
6	I need stress management/life advice Firstly, I'm sending you a big hug. You are doing amazing with what you have going on. You know you have limits, you want things to be better, and you're looking for functional solutions. Not to add more to your plate, but have you read The Empowered Wife book? The audiobook is fantastic. You can put an earbud in and listen when you're driving, getting ready for the day or for bed, doing chores, etc. It's very uplifting, pro-marriage, pro-women, pro-men. It has actual simple, practical advice th…	/r/RedPillWives	15/08/24 05:20 PM
2	I’m overwhelmed by the change of becoming a SAHM 100% also recommend The Empowered Wife audiobook. Pop in a headphone and listen while doing your daily stuff or on a walk. So so very good because it's uplifting, practical advice that creates win-win-wins for you and your family. It's advocating for yourself without controlling others and it lifts up everyone around you.	/r/RedPillWives	01/08/24 08:28 PM
1	I’m overwhelmed by the change of becoming a SAHM Thank you for sharing your perspective. This is super helpful to me even though it's not my post ❤️	/r/RedPillWives	01/08/24 08:23 PM
2	struggling with biting my tongue You might find the book and podcast "The Empowered Wife" by Laura Doyle to be helpful with this scenario. It's helped me a lot (but I'm still super imperfect!). Marriage helps you build character. These trying times will make you a better you and a better mom & partner. I applaud you for seeking support and positive change!	/r/RedPillWives	14/07/24 05:59 PM
8	In a limbo with my emotions with my husband Sending you big hugs. Have grace for yourself, for him, your marriage, everything. You're both new parents. Your body and hormones have been through and are still going through big changes. He's going through big changes. I highly highly recommend the book and the podcast The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle. So good and uplifting and very practical. What you focus on increases, so choose your focus wisely <3	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/24 08:01 AM
3	How do I change to be a better person? I love your humility and vulnerability! Read/listen to The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle. So much practical and helpful info on how to become your best self as a woman, to cultivate dignity and integrity, and to understand men better. She gives an excellent formula of what an actual apology looks like for if/when you're ready to do that. And get ready to give yourself and others lots of grace as you embark on this journey of growth. People close to you will be skeptical of any changes you make…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/24 05:31 PM
12	Feedback needed? Kudos to you for working on making positive changes to move towards what you want in life. I see you were thoughfully and tactfully trying to communicate that you like him and would like things to progress towards phone calls, dates, etc; but you'd prefer he initiates that. Your last paragraph was a lot of words and unclear though. I've been working at being more clear in communication LOT myself because I have the same tendency. I could have written that text myself! Laura Doyle's book The Empo…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/24 12:38 PM