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| 2 | Trans Women Disclosing - Hypotheticals vs RealityOh, I see what you're driving at. I think he called it "cruelty" mostly as a kind of metaphor, like "cruel trick of fate," or with respect to the emotional harm it causes, regarless of questions of intent. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/11 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Trans Women Disclosing - Hypotheticals vs RealityI know several people who married closeted gay people. And, yes, they're now divorced. You can understand that they strongly support gay rights and gay people in general, if only because they don't want anyone to ever go through what they went through. In that context, it's bitterly ironic that it's called the "Defense of Marriage Act," since discrimination against gay people (or, as you point out, trans people) is a sure way to destroy a marriage before it ever begins. As a trans woman, I can a… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/11 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Trans Women Disclosing - Hypotheticals vs RealityI think most are in denial That's precisely the point. Why would they ever be in denial in the first place if not for the transphobia and homophobia that pervades our society? | /r/MensRights | 11/05/11 11:52 PM |
| 2 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Um ... wow ... Congratulations. You win the prize for presenting me with the most bizarre and ill-reasoned argument I have ever come across in all the discussions I have had on the Internet. I really hope you're drunk or high or haven't slept in three days. Um ... yeah ... I don't even know where to begin to reply, so I won't even try. Have a nice life, General Ripper, but please stay away from any military installations, especially ones equipped with nuclear capabilities. p.s. As I said above, … | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 08:04 AM |
| 3 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Suck my cock, loser. Don't you have anything better to do? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 06:41 AM |
| 2 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?And in that case he should be punished too. No, he shouldn't. I'm surprised you don't see that lying about STDs or lying about pill as an assault or stealing something very powerful from another person. Morally, perhaps, in a sense. I just don't think it's any business that ought to be controlled by the government. By that logic you'd have to say his penis belongs to her or his tong in her mouth belongs to her... and maybe when you enter another persons house you belong to them... So I take it y… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 05:00 AM |
| 2 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?I think that the safest route is to disclose it in a public place Or over the phone, as this woman did. But doing that doesn't necessarily make it less likely you'll get attacked. Plus, it's her business to worry about her safety. This kind of argument often strikes me as false concern, similar to victim-blaming of rape vitims: "I'm not saying she was asking for it, per se, but she really shouldn't have _____. That's just not safe." Yeah, it's probably risky, but why is that even relevant? I can… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 04:32 AM |
| 0 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?I think it's horribly wrong in both cases, and lying about either makes you an incredibly bad person, and of course the consequences are real and severe. I just don't think that there ought to be legal repercussions. I don't think it's the government's place to police what you do in your bedroom, period. I would rather live in a world where sex is risky and the government has no say in it, than in one where the government tries to make it less risky. in the other you're utilizing their sperm (li… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 03:51 AM |
| 7 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?I think its better that she disclose it while they are in public as opposed to just going ahead and sleeping with the man, who if he were more experienced might have spotted it. That is not at all a reliable way to avoid being murdered by a bigot, especially considering that anti-gay bigots (who are generally anti-trans by the same token) are often repressing their own homosexual feelings. It's essentially a free pass for someone to fuck with someone else's sexuality. That's called "having sex."… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 03:38 AM |
| 6 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?I agree that the concept of "rape by deception" is stupid, but I don't agree that the exceptions you mention. Lying about stds or birth control are both incredibly horrible things to do - whether you're a man or a woman - but calling that rape is just wrong. I might agree that lying about stds could amount to something like reckless endangerment. With birth control, I could see how it might be reasonable to have some civil penalties for lying. But for me, it comes down to this: When you fuck, al… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 02:54 AM |
| 5 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Just a deceptive person who isn't watchinig out for their own safety. I don't agree that it amounts to deception, although I understand how withholding information about your past might be seen that way, depending upon the context. That's holds in general, and whether it relates to trans people, especially trans women, depends upon a lot of different factors. I don't think it's cut and dried. I definitely disagree about the safety issue: OP's reaction might have been "much worse" even if she did… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 02:44 AM |
| 2 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?some feminist hypocricy. No, that's just stupidity. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 02:36 AM |
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