m00ki18 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	How do you avoid the rage?	m00ki18	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/22 11:34 PM
15	Can she come back for alimony at a later date?	m00ki18	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 09:39 PM
14	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce?	m00ki18	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 04:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The trap waiting for you 3 years from now Uggh	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/25 05:02 PM
5	Bumped into ex today Sounds eerily familiar. I've met the AP a few times. I'm always cordial but cold because usually one of my kids are around and I'm not going to be a dick in front of them no matter how much I want to. I have No desire to be besties like the ex wants. They just want to pretend they did nothing wrong and all is well. I've moved on, am actually thankful to be done with her and I am super happy in my new relationship, but I'll be damned if she thinks I'm going to pretend like all is forgiven. Once t…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/25 06:48 PM
9	She is officially out Congrats. That feeling when all of her shit is finally gone is an odd one at first but ultimately will feel great and will be the start of awesome new beginnings for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 11:45 PM
2	I really like Mike the Lawyer - I wish I would have thought of this lol. I didn’t do it, but I dropped an ever so not subtle mention of it to the dude in a fuck you text I sent him. Suddenly I got an offer of 50-50 custody, no alimony and sell the house and split the proceeds. It’s all in writing and all I ever wanted anyway. Neither of them have any money anyway so this is way better. They can now both fuck off in each others poverty!	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/25 06:04 PM
1	What's your custody schedule arrangement like? 2 weeks on two weeks off. This is primarily because of my work schedule so it works best. Sucks not seeing him for 2 weeks but if I had him the weeks I work most I’d never see him and would need constant help getting him to school and back. He’s 15 though and said he prefers this to other options because he hates doing the switch. I imagine if he was younger this would be bad for all.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/25 05:38 PM
4	Amicable divorce after 22 year marriage with 3 kids - serious question… Tossed the love notes and cards. Kept the albums for the kids if they want them someday. A mixture of wedding albums and baby/kids growing up. We are both in those obviously so I don’t necessarily want them but my thoughts are it’s part of the kids story and they should have the opportunity/choice to see them or keep them if they want.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/03/25 12:44 AM
6	How to get over the hump? Get out brother. You don’t deserve that type of life and if the church doesn’t understand then so be it. I was like you and stayed way too long because I thought that was the right thing to do. I was on the brink of a heart attack too. She did me a favor by ending it because I probably wouldn’t have. My life is infinitely better now. You deserve that too. Get out. Good luck bro.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/24 05:59 AM
7	Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one? My ex keeps inviting me to events with our kids and the AP. She can’t seem to figure out why I keep declining and obviously don’t like the guy..despite the fact that I’ve told her repeatedly..and just wants to live with her head in the sand and pretend all is well. Don’t go if you don’t feel comfortable..have your own party with your kid and don’t look back!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/24 06:43 PM
5	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce? Yeah for the most part our household was pretty stable for most of the kids lives. It was clear towards the end that we were drifting apart but we never really fought in front of the kids. That’s why what she did was extra shitty for everyone,but especially my son because the girls were already away at college so he was really the only one to have to deal with the changes and turmoil that came with it. Definitely has been worse for him.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 08:34 PM
5	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce? Thanks man!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 07:07 PM
3	Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce? Thanks. Yes the therapist we found specializes in teen substance abuse so I’m assuming they are used to hearing all the bullshit and charming acts and can see right through them. I hope	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 05:19 PM
8	the system creates "deadbeat" dads Bro this post made me so mad I could feel my BP in my throat and actually teared up. I have no useful advice or wisdom, just that im sorry the system is so shitty.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/22 11:03 PM
1	How do you avoid the rage? Omg hahahahahah!!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 08:53 PM
1	How do you avoid the rage? Good advice. Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 08:53 PM
2	How do you avoid the rage? In NC so hmmmm. Although she claims I abandoned her affectionately…Maybe….but I didn’t cheat.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 08:02 PM
2	How do you avoid the rage? Hahahahaha I have done that in my car. Suddenly have a lot of angry metal songs on my playlist	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 03:15 AM
8	How do you avoid the rage? Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 02:11 AM
1	How do you avoid the rage? Got to be separated freaking year in this state before you can file. Slow burn.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 01:13 AM
3	How do you avoid the rage? Thanks man.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 01:09 AM
26	How do you avoid the rage? Well…I joined the gym today. Partially to work out my anger and partially to work on my dad bod. Slow simmer revenge I like your style.!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 01:07 AM
6	How do you avoid the rage? Thanks. I know you are right. I just need to focus on bettering myself but it’s damn hard right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/22 01:04 AM
3	Can you help me get my head out of my Ass? Ouch. Not OP but I needed that reality gut punch myself. Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 11:01 PM