m0dera Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Too old to divorce Given the amount of doctors I see over the age of 75, I'm don't think you should stress too much. Unless you have a family history of dementia/Alzheimer/etc I'm also in IT and I'm not terribly concerned about working later in life if I need too. Also, as people continue to take decades to get out of student loan debt it is going to be the norm to work much later in life.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/25 11:19 AM
7	Too old to divorce I don't see anyone in IT who's 75 That's because it should be a good paying gig and most are able to retire well before 75.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/25 02:49 PM
5	Cash-out Refinance or HELOC? Since she isn't on the mortgage and you have a sweet sweet 2.75% do not refinance. Get her off the mortgage with a quit claim deed and then get a HELOC to get the cash you need to pay her the equity. Then you'll still keep your ultra low interest on the remaining balance of your mortgage and only have to pay the crazy high rates for 1/2 of the equity you need out.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 04:57 PM
2	What Did You Tell Mutual Friends? Maybe for you, but certainly not me. That is some BS to think it is the default.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/23 10:53 AM