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Nope, it didn't work. You must be banned.
/r/seduction26/05/11 03:41 PM
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"...all that's left is action towards public speaking." And the gym/exercise.
/r/seduction20/05/11 12:48 AM
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Sleep with your friend.
/r/seduction18/12/10 10:41 PM
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Why ask us? There is a reason it is called kino ESCALATION. Start small and if it doesn't go over well then move on.
/r/seduction01/11/10 05:18 AM
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What I saw years ago was a video for helping a woman become multi-orgasmic. I'd recommend that one. Hypnosis seems a little wishy washy, not my style, and I've been doing just fine without it. It is also a bit amusing/inspiring that someone that looks/carries-themself like Steve P gets action, so there's that angle too ;)
/r/seduction16/10/10 09:58 PM
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You had me until 'kiss goodnight'. It's not just about how great a time you had - she also invested a bit of time/effort into the evening. By not ditching the smelly dancer she proved she is more comfortable with being passive (i.e. she isn't likely to make the first real move). She might have been hoping for you to save her from him too (i.e. a little alpha display). If she is responding great to kino then don't make excuses and leave her hanging. Girls have needs.
/r/seduction16/10/10 09:42 PM
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TPB
/r/seduction16/10/10 09:22 PM
2

Make it less obvious by doing it to everyone. Be ~that~ guy. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bpx0p/exercise_touch_everyone_you_talk_to/
/r/seduction14/09/10 11:29 PM
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lol. Maybe ~show~ her....
/r/seduction09/09/10 09:11 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction03/09/10 06:20 PM
9

I have been away from seddit for awhile, but I'm not sure I follow. He was in the right place at the right time, with a woman that found him attractive. He did not make decisions and put them into action - others did that. It's a nice story, but I didn't learn how he made himself more attractive to her.
/r/seduction03/09/10 03:41 PM
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You write, draw, and play musical instruments. Yeah, that doesn't scream 'social juggernaut' to me. Hit the gym now. Throw a party in 30 days.
/r/seduction17/08/10 10:48 PM
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Cool. What I was referring to in the 'Mystery Method' search was newer/different than what you've read. It is 10-20 hours of audio, mostly of Mystery's old co-trainers/business partners (Savoy, etc) interviewing each other and BradP/Badboy about different areas. I just re-searched for it and "mystery method interview series" was the search string that found what I was meaning to refer you to.
/r/seduction12/07/10 11:35 PM
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Torrents of PUA audio can be found in the usual locations. Search for "Mystery Method", "Gunwitch" and "Brad P"/"Underground Dating Seminar". Also, "Pickup Podcast" is free on iTunes. If you like free online videos, browse http://www.youtube.com/user/AaactionMan http://www.youtube.com/user/PUATrainingmedia http://www.youtube.com/user/thesocialengineer
/r/seduction12/07/10 06:10 PM
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I laughed... but then I realized you were being serious
/r/seduction09/07/10 07:25 PM
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There's probably a ton of PUA material that will be recommended to you, too much to read and process. Likely, the girl took your silence as [1] you not being interested or [2] you not having enough confidence/social skills to seal the deal. You could have asked her about herself (or 'so how do you all know each other?') and touched her lightly on the elbow. Start here http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bpx0p/exercise_touch_everyone_you_talk_to/
/r/seduction07/07/10 06:55 PM
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"[HB] OH no! I'm too old for you, I couldn't even date you! I thought you were at least 30!" "oh, so we'd have to sneak around so your friends don't find out about us. I like the way you think"
/r/seduction01/07/10 10:59 PM
1

Houston became a ghost town since I was there 3 years ago? "Talking to everyone" includes the cashiers, etc....
/r/seduction01/07/10 07:38 PM
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huh? I missed the part of her post where she was trying to pick-up PUAs. A girl that tries to take me home the first night without knowing anything about me doesn't get into my head. I assume she was just looking for a little meaningless fun, or she has issues.
/r/seduction29/06/10 05:03 PM
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No. I screened out very attractive women for years, because they all seemed boring and self-involved. A 7 that launched into playfully teasing/negging me was always miles ahead of a 10.
/r/seduction29/06/10 04:57 PM
2

or you could try the door bell.
/r/seduction16/06/10 05:22 PM
2

"Hey, we should should catch up" is a fine # close phrase to use for someone you already met a couple of years ago and who is showing interest in you. "am not in love with her or anything stupid." I'm confused. Not having one-itus over this girl is a reason to not expand your social circle/stay in contact with a girl that is interested in you?
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:33 PM
2

"My mind just clouds up and I say something completely retarded like "how are you?"." I assume you have some adrenaline flowing and your body is primed for a fight or flight response. I picture you attempting to respond way too fast. Smile (or don't), hold eye contract, pause, then respond. That gives you alot more time for you to come up with response. Also, experiment with changing your brain chemistry so you feel less foggy under pressure -- look for Pricetam on Amazon.com.
/r/seduction14/06/10 09:59 PM
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Logistics! If she drives then it is less likely you'll be going back to her place. Has she been to your place yet? I'd invite her over, have her park at your place and then drive her to the 'meeting place'. When the date is over she has to go back to your place for her car...
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:26 PM
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Ultimatums are the opposite of attractive. Leave. Don't give her attention. Go out with other girls. Seeing that you are desired by other girls might change her mind and she'll get back in touch with you. If not, then hey, at least you are dating others already.
/r/seduction07/06/10 05:46 PM
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I don't know what happened to my comment - it got cut off near the end... The general-idea was that if you plant the seeds for future activities before you exchange numbers then it is much easier to call them because you already have plans that you are supposed to follow through on. "Where you going?" "Oh that place is shit - you need to check out 'Bank'! I'm heading there now - you should come with." (she declines, so make future plans) "Cool - me and my friends are probably going next week. ..…
/r/seduction06/06/10 02:23 PM
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How did you get the numbers? "Hey, give me your number and I'll call you sometime and maybe we can do something..." or talk to her, find out what she is interested in, or find out which of your interests she is most curious about, then get her number with "Hey, I was going to do X/Y/Z in a week or two, you should come along! What's your number?" This requires that you do some homework ahead of time figuring out 2-5 day two dates for your area so that you can choose which one fits best for her. O…
/r/seduction06/06/10 02:30 AM
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"What do?" Start touching everyone. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bpx0p/exercise_touch_everyone_you_talk_to/
/r/seduction06/06/10 01:46 AM
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:)
/r/seduction02/06/10 03:19 AM
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Was the joke about you filling up the USB stick? That could be creepy. If it was about her filling up the USB stick with pr0n then you were on the right track and she just wasn't fun enough to play along.
/r/seduction01/06/10 09:29 PM
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Instead of labeling her the "annoying girl" I'd probably label her as the one with her "bitch shields" up and see if I could win her over. I have no sound on this computer, but I remember these 3 Kezia videos being informative: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yhNi5OU8FY&playnext_from=TL&videos=OZkbjxMq_es
/r/seduction01/06/10 09:23 PM
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"I talk to a lot of pretty girls who keep asking "do i know you?" when I open" I've never tried Socratic method before... hmmm.... sooo... "eightbitman - what are some good responses to shit tests?"
/r/seduction01/06/10 02:12 AM
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She views most people as having lower value until they DHV. Ex. 'The Game' -- She was blowing off the interview with Style until he started running routines and getting her interest. It was just one example in a world full of them. Saying that people enter relationships based purely on perceived relative value is just a PUA mindset that isn't supported by to the evidence. Telling an 18-19 year old girl on seddit to settle for someone they aren't attracted kinda blows my mind. If it was a young g…
/r/seduction29/05/10 04:40 PM
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Hey! No crashing the pity-party! :) Yes, it does suck but it won't always play out like that. Most here are geared towards improving the guy and his chances, but please feel free to post requests for advice on what to do with the next guy you really like. Or post about the last one and ask for ideas on what you might have done differently. (note: r/seduction is good for basic attraction/early-stage-relationship feedback, if it's a longer-term relationship thing then r/relationship_advice would b…
/r/seduction29/05/10 03:37 PM
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Everyone chooses based on attraction and need. Relative value plays a part but is not the only thing. Case study: k-fed. haha.
/r/seduction29/05/10 03:14 PM
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Agreed. The monkeys have spoken haha
/r/seduction29/05/10 05:47 AM
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Good advice. And I would re-frame living at home with your handicapped little sister as 'protector of loved ones'. But look to get your own place soon.
/r/seduction28/05/10 05:33 PM
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(until intjpua shows up and blows away my advice :) ) You didn't win - she temporarily won an interesting boyfriend but now he's getting lazy. I could see getting bored with being alpha, but I don't get why you would lose the desire to be funny, smart and daring. These are qualities that are good to have even outside of a romantic relationship. And she sounds like the alpha one in the relationship -- she took the risk of asking you out and going for the first kiss. That's perfectly fine, just sa…
/r/seduction28/05/10 05:08 PM
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Fly me over! Do you have non-wingman friends you can trust? Go out with them and give them 50 Euros with the directions to give you 5 back for each new girl you approach and talk to that night. This is a way to get pushed without a real wingman. It's also a decent opening line ("hey, my friends bet me 5 Euros I wouldn't approach and talk to you").
/r/seduction28/05/10 04:43 AM
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haha - I assume you meant "interaction", but it works either way.
/r/seduction27/05/10 05:51 PM
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You've already read too much. Go out and talk to girls. If you are really nervous just go to the nearest mall and see if you can say 'hi' to 10 strangers in 10 minutes. If you aren't that nervous, then try applying what you've read. Or some of the stuff from this guy's YouTube channel (looks like he read the Game too and just went out and video taped himself trying it out) http://www.youtube.com/user/AaactionMan#p/u/37/vyJ6RamhXLU Also read and apply intjpua's first submission: http://www.reddit…
/r/seduction27/05/10 05:13 PM
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wow - how many girls have you talked to in the past 2 weeks? Edit: I've never had any instruction, but some guys have problems that they can't fix themselves and no one can diagnose over the Internet -- poor body language, voice tone, wardrobe, ear/nose hair/fingernail grooming, etc, etc...
/r/seduction26/05/10 08:01 PM
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You aren't really going to remodel your kitchen before you set up your next date, right? If it's still bad after cleaning it up, do the cooking at her house :)
/r/seduction25/05/10 09:50 PM
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"direct me to other threads/readings": I haven't read it, but the "Conquer Your Campus" ebook might be helpful. It seemed to be well reviewed when I came across it a few months ago.
/r/seduction24/05/10 06:41 PM
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lol The Superman fans voted for 'fortresses of solitude' but it set the wrong frame.
/r/seduction24/05/10 05:05 PM
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Be willing to press on. That might have been just what she was hoping you'd do.
/r/seduction19/05/10 11:13 PM
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If you are asking women to go to a restaurant with you then yes it is implied that you are paying. I'm confused why someone into Mystery/Style would be doing dinner dates.
/r/seduction12/05/10 10:24 PM
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I read it in Neil Strauss's voice (i've seen a video of him demonstrating "eliciting values").
/r/seduction12/05/10 07:20 PM
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You have an awesome user name -- I can't believe it was still available only 2 months ago... Some people think that 'door slams' are better than 'wall slams' -- they make a bigger noise with less risk of hurting the girl. Might be something to ask the BF to try.
/r/seduction11/05/10 10:40 PM
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Hmmmm.... (makes note to consider moving to San Diego ;) )
/r/seduction11/05/10 06:27 PM
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I don't know what is up the guy but texting asking if he had fun the night he kinda blew you off might sound like prying. If the funeral was for a close friend or family member he might just need a little more space. I think you have two concerns: is he going to the concert or is he going to blow that off too? is he going to go back to being reliable. For #1, remind him about the show at least twice: today, and then the day before the show. Do it under the guise of nailing down the logistics (wh…
/r/seduction11/05/10 05:36 PM
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Asian PUA approaching non-Asian girls http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lj5D2i2O9D0
/r/seduction10/05/10 06:43 AM
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Stop with the math :) Approach based on eye contact... they'll already know what skin color you have by that point and so won't shut you down because of it.
/r/seduction09/05/10 04:40 PM
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I need a time machine so I can go back and slap some sense into my college-aged-self.
/r/seduction08/05/10 02:45 AM
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I came here to respond but you already said it better than me. You should probably become a mod on this subreddit.... I could petition the mods to add you if you are interested....
/r/seduction06/05/10 07:51 PM
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I hadn't heard of this before but it sounds interesting. The Google led me here: http://face.paulekman.com/default.aspx
/r/seduction02/05/10 05:29 PM
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Some of the acting in this is so-so but the commentary makes up for it. I think this is mostly Mystery Method openers with some BradP ideas (horse girl) thrown in. These have in-field videos of approaches: http://www.youtube.com/user/thesocialengineer http://www.youtube.com/user/AaactionMan#p/u/25/T8Oh3TnGLDM http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDbrq_pSjoU&feature=related (just has the very starts of different approaches, the rest are in the links) Interesting tactile opening video: http://www.youtub…
/r/seduction02/05/10 05:27 PM
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"I've seen it been done with other, taller guys " I can't picture this happening often, unless it is their friends messing with them. "Should I react, not make a big deal out of it, try to get it back," I think you should wait until it happens in real-life, follow your instincts and then evaluate how it went later to plan for the next time. But... don't leave the girl or stop talking, and don't let her see you making a big deal out of it. Make an emasculating sexual joke to the guy ("Sorry, we a…
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:19 PM
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I think she is serious. She sounds like a fun and understanding girl. Some girls could have taken it personally and been really mean about it.
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:06 PM
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I have no idea what your background is. If you aren't familiar with open openers vs. direct openers then google around for them. There are probably more than a few youtube videos showing various approach ideas in action. There some good stuff on TPB too. If you want specific links comment here and I'll hunt them down.
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:52 AM
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To gunwitch the individual or the gunwitch method? This is the only picture I've found of the dude. In his audio book he mentions he had below average looks, but I was expecting more of a long hair rocker look. http://media.photobucket.com/image/gunwitch/Gunwitchhimself/gunwitch01.jpg
/r/seduction02/05/10 01:56 AM
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I don't get the connection between embarrassing stories and being yourself. The fact that I took diving lessons when I was 6 years old and didn't think it was important that one day I couldn't properly tie my swim shorts because the cord had fallen inside the trunks, until after I went off the high dive in front of 12 other kids and realized the draw string was needed to keep my trunks on, has little to do with being myself. It probably makes a good story though if I tell it the right way. "As b…
/r/seduction01/05/10 11:59 PM
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He has clarified that he is already friends with the guy. This guy sounds like an awful wing - he compliments himself, is condescending to others, and likes to put his arms around the girls OP is interested even though he already has a gf.
/r/seduction30/04/10 09:53 PM
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Cool - sounds like you are doing it right
/r/seduction30/04/10 06:23 PM
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I think it is creepy that other sites scrape and republish all of our reddit comments (even with attribution) http://www.backtype.com/url/www.reddit.com%252fuser%252fintjpua
/r/seduction30/04/10 04:58 PM
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"she wouldn't be friends with you unless you are attractive to her." No. It is "she wouldn't be friends with you unless you are a good listener that gives her emotional validation. Most girls are always up for having another 'orbiter' in their lives".
/r/seduction30/04/10 04:52 PM
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Was she across the room? I have glasses but I never wear them, so I don't know if for sure if someone is looking back at me if I am 40+ feet away. If you guys were closer that probably wasn't it. It is work, so she might just be zoned out too... bored or pre-occupied with something work related. Or it might have been IOI. Strike up a conversation soon and see how it goes.
/r/seduction30/04/10 04:50 PM
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I'm upvoting this comment so that people will see that it is "How to deal with AMG that I'm already friends with". I haven't dealt with this directly (outside of some bores in work situations). If these girls are already in your social circle they may already be getting bored of him stealing the spotlight as well. Either way, when you have their eye contact but not his roll your eyes while he's giving himself another pat on the back. Now it's a bit of an in-joke flirt between you and the girl an…
/r/seduction30/04/10 04:45 PM
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Wow - she called you? Congrats! "My biggest problem is negging people effectively, so I poked fun at her for being some sort of psycho, since she had put a door on her cube. (Look up the cube routine if you have no idea what I'm talking about.) I also ripped on her pretty good for a couple of stories she had about ramming her car into stationary objects." I don't know you (or her). If this is just light teasing, that's cool but might soon become unnecessary. Some guys seem to neg to hard long af…
/r/seduction30/04/10 04:31 AM
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I liked what someone mentioned here the other day -- pretend to mishear her. I.e. she is the one with the dirty mind. her: "That's quite an impressive clock tower, isn't it?" him: "A ~what~ tower? Wow, get your mind out of the gutter." her: "What, I said 'clock'!" him: "Uh, sure you did..." Of course, I do the exact opposite. Years ago a girl was trying to pick me up in a noisy club while my girlfriend was in another part of it. her: "So... do you like Peter Jerking". me: "Peter Jenkins? The new…
/r/seduction29/04/10 06:16 AM
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Is this an example of a false time constraint really working for you?
/r/seduction28/04/10 02:38 AM
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But the second girl didn't care much, so he still has an opening for seeing other girls when he gets past his self-worth issues. I would definitely look up the first girl when the 2nd girl ends it though.
/r/seduction28/04/10 01:35 AM
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Sounds like Listro connects just fine with other people. He probably knows to set expectations up front and manage them on an on-going basis so no one gets bent out of shape.
/r/seduction28/04/10 01:32 AM
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Yup, good point --- ebooks, videos, etc :) The "sex god" ebook was written by a PUA guy. The details are on my home machine so I'm a bit fuzzy on the particulars. I don't remember the author's name, but it included a few PDFs, some audio clips and perhaps videos. Searching for "David Shade" may also yield helpful info for the OP.
/r/seduction27/04/10 09:20 PM
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"sex god" e-book on TPB
/r/seduction27/04/10 07:32 PM
2

Is this a keyboard jockey exercise or is this really a problem for you? If Brad Pitt/Johnny Depp/movie star du jour complimented a hot girl they wouldn't drop in value in her eyes, she'd be impressed with how down to earth they are in-person. Same concept applies.
/r/seduction26/04/10 08:28 PM
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Which reality? The reality where hot chicks hook up with guys uglier than you because they push the right buttons? (congrats on the number exchange, I don't think you are necessarily regulated to being her IT guy. I wasn't sure if you were buying-into your bosses impression that she is out of your league (I assume that's what his comment meant).
/r/seduction26/04/10 03:16 AM
0

I haven't had any embarrassing attempts lately, because I've lost interest in being social. It's mostly been in the last week or so. Maybe it coincides with my new (more aggressive) work out schedule. Anyways, I was going to recommend a middle ground of scheduling a weekly social event such as joining a team of some sort. This coming from the guy that blew off his weekly inter-sex dodgeball game today and is currently supposed to be across town at a roller derby bout. I'm starting to get annoyed…
/r/seduction25/04/10 01:18 AM
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I don't tend to overtly game, and I haven't come across this situation -- [1] unless the club is empty many of the girls are near the same hotness level, and [2] guys are pretty chicken-shit and sticking to people know so the hot girls aren't getting cold approached much and aren't blowing guys out. Anyways, Gunwitch would be the first idea that came to mind. He differentiates between the "10 for the club" and your "personal 10". Engage the "10 for the club" to get everyone's attention/social pr…
/r/seduction24/04/10 10:02 PM
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"I'm a huge believer in touch." Yes, OP, if you haven't read it yet, read the best post on seddit in recent memory (and it's from intpua): http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bpx0p/exercise_touch_everyone_you_talk_to/ "I guess it depends on the person." Yup. OP is a 25 year old that has never had a GF (virgin?), and if he mis-calibrates and says/does something incredible awkward ("what's black and blue and doesn't like sex -- the 9 year old in my trunk!") I assume he still has to work wit…
/r/seduction23/04/10 01:44 AM
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She put the suggestion in the context of not having any free time over the next few days/weeks (she didn't mean no free 'right now' literally as 'just that night'). I would have taken as an invitation to find out when her exams/work is due and schedule something short together immediately ~afterwards~.
/r/seduction22/04/10 11:24 PM
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this is pretty much spot-on, but "particularly about sexual topics" could be implemented the wrong way, especially if it's a co-worker. I would recommend letting ~her~ bring up sexual topics, not you (the OP). The frequent touching will let her know where you want to take it... working sexual topics into conversations on your own might raise her defenses.
/r/seduction22/04/10 10:20 PM
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Interesting - thanks for clarifying. I was basing my comment on Neil Strauss asking Tom Cruise about it in "The Game" and Tom denying it had anything to do with Jeffries. Guess Andreson didn't tell Cruise where he got the ideas from.
/r/seduction22/04/10 08:55 PM
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Except that Tom Cruise and the director claim they spent alot of time creating the character themselves and had never heard of Ross Jefferies.
/r/seduction22/04/10 07:34 PM
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That doesn't even count him playing in a rock band. He went to a college that was 60-70% women and got a few girlfriends (even though he says he had no ability to deal with/attract women). Then he graduated back into the real world and hit a dry spell due to his lack of skills.
/r/seduction22/04/10 07:05 PM
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I can't think of a post that adopts PUA lingo to explain their failures -- what brought this on?
/r/seduction19/04/10 10:19 PM
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Don't backpedal, just pretend you never said it go on a date with a different girl Then call this one back with another date idea.
/r/seduction19/04/10 06:56 PM
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If you haven't yet, try reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People". "it's still hard for me to keep a cold conversation flowing" Are you talking about the other person? "What did you do last weekend?" "I took my daughter to the park". Do you let it die there? Or do you ask how old is your daughter? which park? how did she like it? do you go there often? I'm babysitting my niece next weekend - what other things do you recommend? etc, etc... Not a great example, but I get the sense you aren…
/r/seduction17/04/10 05:35 PM
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I have zero experience here. Brad P says he can barely dance - he says he finds a group of girls dancing together and jumps in the middle, dancing with each one, until he spins them off whispering 'you are .... elimidated' in their ear before moving onto her friends. I've never tried or seen it done, but it has a playful neg and a jealousy plot-line built-in, as well as building social proof in the room. I think he did have a comment in his underground dating seminar that dance clubs girls don't…
/r/seduction17/04/10 02:12 AM
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He clearly said 'best' is a 'tough term' and simply launched into an example. If your insecurities require you to slam him then he is right - you need to work on your inner game. And this is not r/AMA.
/r/seduction16/04/10 06:10 AM
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Either he's clueless about making travel arrangements he has had a change of heart he had a crush on another girl at school had a friend at school that liked you I would play it cool for now, and if you are really curious save the questions for the morning after. Have fun out there :) (edited for list formatting)
/r/seduction15/04/10 11:01 PM
1

If you don't want to look younger have you tried facial hair?
/r/seduction15/04/10 05:50 PM
1

After I read the book I looked the author up. He lives 4 blocks from my house. No reason to meet in-person yet, but I thought that was cool.
/r/seduction14/04/10 08:21 PM
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I haven't used patterning. It sounded like it would come off fake/contrived to me, but now I've read more about them and am intrigued. http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_Approaching/11_The_Patterns/intropatterns.shtml
/r/seduction14/04/10 05:25 PM
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If you want suggestions, post your city
/r/seduction13/04/10 04:26 AM
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background: She was hugging him a really long time, which was a major IOI (indicator of interest) or IOBS (indicator of being stoned), either way it seemed like the girl was very open to him sticking around. Unfortunately she might not even remembered that he was her hero that night. so "how": play protector of loved ones. After unpinning the guy from between the truck + his car "hey, I don't want you getting busted by the cops or in an accident. I will follow you home to make sure you get there…
/r/seduction13/04/10 03:09 AM
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What have you done to improve your social life / circle of friends?
/r/seduction12/04/10 07:00 PM
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"they didnt drive home lol. They drove somewhere. Anyways this guy is like low value guy, the girl is a 9.5 so I dont think they are more than a friend. She just recently broke up with her boyfriend." 9.5s could have a fling with a low value guy after breaking up with her boyfriend. Sounds like her judgement was definitely impaired. Although it is a good sign that she is pinning your competition between a truck and your car. She probably made it up to him afterwards. I would have inserted myself…
/r/seduction12/04/10 05:54 PM
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Why do you need to dominate? The uber-cool guy that everyone likes isn't the one that show insecurity by trying to dominate the group. Personally I rather enjoy the randomness/chaos/surprise of just seeing what develops naturally (in a group setting). If someone is being a dick or killing the vibe then using PUA skills (ex. for dealing with AMOGing) sounds reasonable.
/r/seduction12/04/10 05:57 AM
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Understanding and predicting how others WILL react is predicting the future. Most PUA philosophy is to not to attempt to predict but to get out there and do the approaches. Getting into a prediction mind frame will have you skipping approaches that you think won't go well, when they might be just fine. The most successful also have the most rejections, but rejection isn't as bad as you think it might be. The worst I've heard is fellow redditor Rooshv getting punched (covered in his book 'Bang').…
/r/seduction12/04/10 03:30 AM
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oh, I've never read this, but I would check it out if I was in college http://www.conqueryourcampus.com The ebook is in the usual places (TPB)
/r/seduction10/04/10 01:19 AM
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You've already got good advice here. "best years of my life" That is a lie you don't need to believe. Rejecting it may help tone down your bitterness, which will drive away the good catches. Shoot for losing the 'jadedness' - it communicates 'I have been beaten down'. btw- Most of the 'successful' guru guys in the PUA community didn't have much success until after their college years. Tall and skinny, average/below-average looks? Reminds me of BradP (.com). Check out his pdf/ebook "Diary of a Pi…
/r/seduction09/04/10 08:27 PM
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I've been to clubs this week -- maybe these clubs are more competitive for girls than elsewhere. It's near a college campus, might have something to do with it. I've seen some cute girls not get approached (at all) for at least the hour I spied on them. I was just people watching but I was approached by a cuter girl ("want to see a picture of me in my underwear?" -- the guy she was talking to had just pulled up a modeling picture of her on his phone). I've seen other (heavier/less-cute) girls le…
/r/seduction09/04/10 06:07 PM
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Girls never think the following? "why aren't guys approaching me?". and "why aren't guys interested in me after they get to know me"?
/r/seduction09/04/10 05:43 PM
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http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ seems active but I don't spend much time there. Why not list the ones you frequent and get specific feedback about them?
/r/seduction04/04/10 01:30 AM
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Also disregarding getting tipsy before you go out ("before you go to bars drink to get a little above tipsy so that you talk to anyone") -- learn to control your state/mood w/o risking getting too drunk/out of control before the night is up. And going out alone is also cool -- BradP (.com) did 80% of his approaches solo. Hmmm... he also never drinks too. Speaking of TPB -- Brad P, Double Your Dating, The Art of Pickup - Tactics and Techniques Disc 1, ...
/r/seduction01/04/10 07:13 AM
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TL;DR. Multiple walls of text == arguing on the Internet == beta. And why haven't you sold your computer?
/r/seduction01/04/10 07:04 AM
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ok - Mystery Method. I might be a little rusty here. So you are attempting to build attraction and then doing little compliance tests to see if it is working and it is just lukewarm. I think the official line here would be to try more attraction building routines + kino and see if that helps. If the set remains lukewarm to you, try to use them to help you open your next set in the venue. "The Art of Pickup - Tactics and Techniques Disc 1" is a DVD that might be helpful (and can be found on pirat…
/r/seduction31/03/10 05:43 PM
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Are you wedded to Mystery's approach? I like the idea of Brad P's "shocker" openers for weeding our incompatible/uninterested girls much quicker. The horse girl opener may have you hugging within 3 minutes of meeting her. I finally got around to listening to Gunwitch 'the way of the gun' and I like his advice -- essentially never eject, keep escalating until you succeed or she tells you to get lost.
/r/seduction31/03/10 03:52 AM
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the actors are kinda cheesy but u may like the 'The Art of Pickup Tactics and Techniques' DVD, which acts out different openers and how to proceed. You can find it downloadable from the usual places using that title.
/r/seduction28/03/10 03:02 AM
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I never paid attention to Robbie Williams before -- listening to his music I know why. But this video helped clarify how he stole Style's/Neil Strauss's girlfriend Lisa Leveridge. I thought Robbie was just famous - didn't realize he had game too.
/r/seduction27/03/10 02:07 AM
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Sharking+
/r/seduction23/03/10 04:08 AM
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Does SHE want to be more alpha? The quiet, sweet nerdy females I knew in college didn't want to change. I assume the time frame is also just for the next 3 months... (a short time period for a major change). And it has a chance for not ending up worse than it is. If you were dating I'd say you should live there 50%+ of the time and help keep the roommates more in-line. That doesn't sound like the situation though. Has she gone to her father? Maybe she can kick them out and get discounted rent fr…
/r/seduction23/03/10 04:06 AM
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he's controlling the frame ;)
/r/seduction20/03/10 11:31 PM
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"15-20 minutes until she says, "That's enough. I'm done."" Try rejecting her. Try putting up resistance so it doesn't make sense for her to do it back to you. Instead of kissing for 15 minutes, just kiss her for 5 minutes and say (ala Mystery) "That's it, no more for you". Then go back to cuddling, more kino, then more kissing 5 minutes later. Rinse, repeat. Go farther each time. Helpful audio might be "Physical Escalation & Kissing (Sinn & The Don)" from "The Mystery Method Interview Series (Vo…
/r/seduction19/03/10 03:29 AM
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date someone else until they break up on their own.
/r/seduction17/03/10 12:49 AM
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I think so. In some circles chicks can make-out or grind with lots of guys and it doesn't mean that much to them. Doesn't sound like they are dating, and if they are you can keep in-touch for when they break-up.
/r/seduction14/03/10 08:29 AM
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Thanks - glad it helps! I was in a bands since I was 14 and got hit on often enough, and/or all my approaches were "warm" approaches (they knew I was somebody important in that area's music scene). So I never really got good at this, but I did pick up some natural ability along the way. I'm now married and haven't been dating since all this great PUA material started coming out. I've been going out more and just talking to get myself back in the flow of things. What you've found helpful is my re…
/r/seduction14/03/10 04:09 AM
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"She then wanted to be around me more because I didn't worship the ground she walked on" That sounds like a good start with her, but somewhere it didn't progress further to you two sleeping together... "I used them to keep my self-respect rather then to woo her" You are doing it wrong. They know self-respect is internal and isn't gained by putting others down. Women are attracted to people that could kill them, so they need to filter out guys early on in the interaction for bitterness and anger.…
/r/seduction14/03/10 01:11 AM
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I wasn't there so I can comment on what exactly you are doing but... PUA 'guru' advice I've: seen don't use negs on 7s or below. Use a neg on an 8-10 in the first 5-10 minutes of meeting to stand out from the other guys that hit on them. Build attraction (5-20 minutes), then isolate (go somewhere quieter) to build comfort. Building comfort involves opening up with her so she can see you are real person, and doesn't involve negs unless perhaps if she throws in a shit test or two. I get the impres…
/r/seduction14/03/10 01:03 AM
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AWESOME
/r/seduction13/03/10 04:56 AM
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How Twitter works -- RooshV is likely the only one that would have the password to post 'tweets' on his account. Since his main site links to this Twitter account, it is unlikely that the Twitter account is an imposter.
/r/seduction12/03/10 02:00 AM
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Change takes time... bonus points for going back down for the hug/kiss
/r/seduction11/03/10 05:18 AM
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