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| 10 | Is me never asking a woman out the exclusive reason I am struggling dating or is it more complicated?Uhh yeah you have to ask them out. They're most likely not going to ask you out. It can happen, but I wouldn't count on it. | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Tall 31-year-old Black guy in Toronto — fear of approaching women has contributed to a crippling addiction to escorts and it's destroying my life and confidenceI can say, as a person who had anxiety with women, it did open up my social world when I had used them once upon a time. But if it's not for you, I'd say clubs are the absolute worst. Build up your interests and try to meet people with similar interests, take classes or do meetups, go out with a friend or two. Not like 10 dudes, but a couple and hit up fun bars or lounges, where you can actually hear people and can mingle. Go out to have fun, not meet women. Build up your style and banter, not j… | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Tall 31-year-old Black guy in Toronto — fear of approaching women has contributed to a crippling addiction to escorts and it's destroying my life and confidenceDude, You're a 6'4" dude that has your shit together. You barely mention dating apps. I think that's your best bet if you have approach anxiety. You need good pics and a good blurb about yourself. Get a pro photographer to take good pics of you or hell, use AI to make some. You're not a lost cause. Just put a little more effort into it. Don't take rejection personally. Just put yourself out there. | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 04:23 PM |
| 16 | I finally understand opening linesIt has to be very obvious she is not wearing a wig. | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 07:05 PM |
| 2 | How to make women feel the "spark" for you?Don't be boring. Look decent. Have your shit together. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 02:05 PM |
| 3 | 18M How do I avoid becoming an incel?Focus on yourself. Travel, take up some fun hobbies, do some physical sport or activity. Don't make your world revolve around what women think of you. It's all about being comfortable in your own skin. Maybe you'll never fully be fully comfortable, but you can get to a point where others won't see it. This is key, don't view women like they're some higher being. They're just people with problems and insecurities like the rest of us. Go out on dates and get comfortable just chit chatting. Build y… | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 08:06 PM |
| 0 | I practiced cold approaching last night at a club. Are women more hostile these days?I think you need a better opener than 'hi how are you' type of open with a compliment. Even if you're being genuinely friendly. You need something casual which leads to an interesting conversation not related to their looks. It has to feel organic, not like you're trying to hit on them. Also, a club is a terrible place to pick up women you don't know. Try a bar or lounge type place where you can actually engage in a casual conversation. If you have touristed bars, that's a good place to start. T… | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to get sexLooks aren't everything. You need a personality to go with it. Work on your mind and banter. Have a strategy for conversation. Looks get you the girl, but a lack of charm and personality will keep you from getting to the next level. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:29 AM |
| 7 | Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up.If they're at your house, they already are comfortable with you and see the possibility of hooking up. Just make the move smoothly without making it awkward. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Kinda fancying the idea of cougar hookupsGood bars on the areas near time Square or hells kitchen area closer to Times Square. Try the hotel bars and the local pubs around there. | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Kinda fancying the idea of cougar hookupsGo to the city, Midtown, they're there. | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | The thing women want the mostLoooong. Didn't read it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why men like "night clubs" for finding womenDid my fair share of clubs in my youth. Never had a great experience if being on the prowl. It's loud, it's dark, it's crowded, it can be a shitshow. If going with friends for a celebration or to hang out, it can be fun, but for the purpose of looking for someone, not for me. I'm so over it. | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateRight. Go for drinks, coffee or tapas as a first meetup. Nothing more, nothing less. Make sure you can hear each other and make sure the place isnt a shithole. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Google offers a domestic violence hotline to men now!Why was it even gendered? Anyone suffering from domestic violence should be able to call. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Muslim girl Rejected me ( I'm an atheist)You gotta convert dude lol. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How to get out of the friendzone?Dude, stop kidding yourself. It ain't gonna happen. Stay friends, but go out and find someone whose actually interested. You are wasting your time trying to make it happen. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | She’s “busy” am I 100% cooked?She's not interested. Get over it and move on. Don't message her at all at this point. You'd be wasting your time. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Approached and got told to F offNot sure you wanna approach in a train or subway station dude. Clearly she wasn't in the headspace to be hit on there. I'd say do your moves at a more socially acceptable place where people are there to meet people or at least be open to talking. If she didn't send you any sort of signal or sign prior to talking, I'd tread lightly. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 11:31 PM |
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