m3sarcher Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
127	Mother kills self and son after "losing" custody battle in which joint custody was issued.	Marriage/Children	m3sarcher	/r/MensRights	08/09/17 01:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Mother kills self and son after "losing" custody battle in which joint custody was issued. Yes, to save him from the horror of joint custody. She hung him, then herself.	/r/MensRights	09/09/17 12:59 AM
20	Mother kills self and son after "losing" custody battle in which joint custody was issued. Killing the son is, of course, the highest form of abuse against both the son and the father,	/r/MensRights	08/09/17 12:27 PM
2	50/50 This is fantastic and a great step forward. Other states will eventually follow. The pendulum swung from too far one direction to too far the opposite direction. Hopefully it settles in fair middle ground.	/r/MensRights	04/12/16 04:19 AM
2	50/50 Maybe nothing. He was abusive to his wife who divorced him previously. But the reason I mentioned it has more to do with how women are treated in general by men that part of the world. Perhaps throwing him in that group is unfair, but his actions did not prove otherwise. If you think women are treated fairly there, then you may need to do a little more research.	/r/MensRights	04/12/16 04:10 AM
2	50/50 ND	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 09:03 PM
3	50/50 Child support in this state is not based on what the custodial parent is worth or makes. She could have married Bill Gates or won the lottery, and I'd be paying the same. It is solely based on the non-custodial parent's income. Edit: I understand the reasoning, which is if you have kids you need to support them. I get that. Some fathers give up and quit working because it can be a catch-22. You need to make more to cover your expenses, taxes go up and then child support gets reviewed and goes up…	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 07:00 PM
66	50/50 I spent everything I had, my parents threw in money, HER parents threw in money, also a good friend of mine also threw in money and none of us were well to do. I was told I should pursue it further if one of the kids were physically harmed. They never were, thank goodness.	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 05:13 PM
2	50/50 Nope, that was not the thinking. It was that it was so abusive, that it would not last and then she would be free of him to raise our kids. Money was not the concern as she is a nurse practitioner, and also receives $1400/mo from me for child support. Meanwhile, I was working second jobs, finding paying roommates etc to make ends meet. Anyway, in the end I met up with a high school sweetheart, and life now is great. My relationship with my kids is good, but I still don't see them as much as I wo…	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 05:05 PM
84	50/50 In this state, it was and still is practically automatic for the women to get custody if they refuse joint custody. And why would they when they can win and get full child support? I applaud states which now have forced joint custody, unless parent is proven unfit. Edit: more explanation... The evaluator and everyone else knew he was no good, and had a reputation as such. The evaluator assumed it was so bad, that she would eventually leave him behind and be free and clear to raise the kids. It w…	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 03:21 PM
135	50/50 It made absolutely no sense, but after spending $30k, how far do you pursue it?	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 03:18 PM
330	50/50 Don't feel bad. My wife had an affair with an abusive Middle-Eastern doctor. Her parents supported my side in the custody case, and after a $30k battle, we still lost. Why? Because according to the female evaluator, her relationship was so bad and abusive, that it could never last. It went on three more years. You saved yourself a lot of headache and money.	/r/MensRights	03/12/16 02:36 PM