mPhoenix Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My slef-esteem is so low that I can barely make any friends, let alone get laid. I don't know what to do anymore. Go for it. Counseling can be an invaluable step up.	/r/seduction	09/03/12 12:06 AM
4	LMR 3 nights in a row... Why would a woman lie in your bed w/ nothing but panties on and make out with you for 3 nights in a row if she had no sexual interest?	/r/seduction	29/12/11 10:24 PM
2	Help me... Oneitis is eating away at me! Well, either way, no reason to assume you've been friend zoned. She may just be in to dating around and exploring, who knows? She's let you get to 3rd and is going to homecoming with you, so there's obviously interest. Keep assuming attraction, have fun at homecoming and move forward. If it really bugs you that she might be dating around, then just ask her if she's seeing other guys, clarify you're not into that, and move on - no big deal. The truth is, you do have abundance - it's a concrete re…	/r/seduction	04/10/11 09:31 PM
1	Help me... Oneitis is eating away at me! Did she tell you, directly, that she gave this other guy head? Or did you just hear about it from a third party? If it was the latter, there's a good chance you're getting all worked up over something that didn't even happen. You should take everything you hear through a third party with a grain of salt, especially while you're still in high school - people your age love to gossip like its nobody's business. I can't tell you how many fake stories I heard about in my high school days that I later…	/r/seduction	04/10/11 03:51 AM
24	Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks. My worst: closing time at the bar, the crowd is slowly filtering out into the street. I see a set just outside the door, talking and laughing. I open with a simple, "you guys seem like you've had a fun night." One of them looks dead at me, gets this squeamish look on her face, and backs away going, "Eeeew! ew! ew! ew! oh my god, GROSS!" It was the most comical thing in the world. It was such a gross caricature of every guy's worst fear when approaching a girl - that she will be literally disgust…	/r/seduction	22/09/11 06:29 AM
2	Tips for first date with a stripper? I would honestly suggest just treating it like any other date. Leave the strip club at the strip club and go from there. Demonstrate that you're a higher value guy, who treats women well and gives them fun and pleasure once they've demonstrated they're worthy of your company, and then just go through the steps of push/pull, building comfort, escalation, etc. Be aware of the fact that she could just be trying to play you, like others suggest, but until she demonstrates that's what she's after, ju…	/r/seduction	18/09/11 08:02 PM
11	Tips for first date with a stripper? I've dated a couple of strippers, and in both cases, they were the ones that asked me out. (I've also had strippers give me their number for "outside services", and in my experience they usually make it pretty clear that's what they're doing.) Strippers dating clients is more common than you may think, especially if you're someone who's successfully demonstrated higher value to her. If you think about it, that's way easier to do in a strip club than in a lot of places - the clientelle don't tend…	/r/seduction	18/09/11 05:45 PM
10	Fucking Lesbians. She never said (unless you left some part out) that they were exclusive, also said straight out that she's not just into girls. "Lesbian" couples playing w/ guys on the side isn't that uncommon. An ex-gf of mine who was bi always loved to quote some article she read about lesbians actually having more straight sex than straight girls do, just to fill the physical need for cock. No idea how accurate it was, but, hey, there ya go. Can't hurt to just ask if that's something they're into.	/r/seduction	18/08/11 10:59 PM
2	They say you should go in there with full confidence, often believing things that are clearly not true, how is this possible for some people? This is gonna get kinda trippy, but bear with me: Self-perception and judgement is different from perceiving and judging other things. Why? Because when you perceive/judge yourself, you perceive/judge all parts of yourself, one of those parts being: how you perceive/judge yourself. It's a feedback loop, dig? In other words, it's impossible to make an observation about yourself that isn't in some way self-fulfilling. So when you're going into a situation believing you're attractive, it's not just…	/r/seduction	15/08/11 05:03 PM
1	I just had a girl cancel a date on me kinda last minute. What are some alpha responses I can use in this case? It might be too late this time around, but in the future bust a girl's balls about being flaky when she does this. There's a good chance it's a shit test, to see if you're a self-respecting guy that values his time. David DeAngelo has a good snippet about this here (scroll down to 'mistake 4 and 5' for the goods): http://www.fastseduction.com/mailbag/2003-01-10_qa_what_if_she_flakes_out.shtml	/r/seduction	02/08/11 11:08 PM
3	Heckz and my souls are not dead. Give us challenges. Hit the Castro. Find a straight, real girl there. Seduce her by getting her jealous of a tranny.	/r/seduction	02/08/11 09:49 PM