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23

They need that constant ego boost. Every man I’ve met like this has been incredibly insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:54 PM
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Agreed. I’ve struggled with the fact that I need to prove to myself that I can handle everything myself. But that’s something I’ve already proved to myself. I don’t need to prove it to anybody by trying to do everything on a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:34 PM
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Here’s a YouTube link: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=z5rzzVWQeGQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:25 AM
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I will. Have an appointment with a counselor tomorrow to discuss an exit plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:40 PM
5

No, engineer. But similar attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:38 PM
22

Oh this is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:31 AM
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Update: asked some friends about going and they enthusiastically said yes! Now going with three of my closest girlfriends and am so excited!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:39 PM
26

That sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:58 PM
17

Ugh, I’m so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:58 PM
72

He now said that he will find a similar level of restaurant to go to on his birthday. Which made it clear that he’s more concerned with that amazing 50/50 above all else. I told him I would be happy to take him anywhere he wants for his birthday. But, I am thinking about the best timing for me to kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:41 PM
47

Thanks for sharing your story! Of course he was very generous when we first started dating. It tapered off and has turned into this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:27 PM
63

Why are men so cheap? I wish I found FDS earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:25 PM
35

I’d have to wait until a week after mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:21 PM
45

That same day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:14 PM
7

No, but similar type of place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:13 PM
45

I’m glad to be here! Old me would have felt so bad about asking to be taken out for a nice birthday dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:53 PM
61

Oooo I like that idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:46 PM
15

It may end that way! It depends how he takes my response. If he continues to push it, then bye boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:46 PM
93

Actually, that issue is what made me find FDS! I wish I found it sooner... I’ll definitely do things differently the next time around!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:45 PM
8

Remember, you’re not just voting for president. You’re voting for every person the president will support. In this election, you are also voting for state representatives and everything that the House will vote on in the next 4 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:32 PM
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That’s very likely. Of course, those men couldn’t just stop liking pictures of naked women in a public setting! It was a helpful feature to judge a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:29 PM
27

I think men feel this way all too often. They just don’t always tell us this clearly. When they are happy for you to work full time and come home to do another full shift, but not willing to step up themselves, they are saying something on the same vein. There are so many ways they say this. Women are going to look out for women, men are not going to look out for women as they are more concerned with looking out for themselves. Don’t tolerate behavior like this, and let’s look out for each other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:05 PM
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NVM ex claimed to be a feminist, and when I told him that a senior man at my work had said something very sexist and offensive to a female colleague, ex told me that I needed to leave that job and it reflected bad on my to stay. That’s right, it wasn’t the senior man at work who was the problem, it was somehow my problem. So, I should leave my job because some old guy at work can’t behave. And, the icing on the cake was that he claimed that he couldn’t work anywhere where that happened. Boy, you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:37 AM
16

Wow, what a fantastic line!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:56 AM
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Yes. Yes, this. Sadly, it would probably be more effective if it also said that they would be more successful at dating if they did do therapy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:49 PM
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Men need to learn to talk to each other. Be each other’s emotional support. And, go see a dang therapist. I’m available to emotionally support all my fellow queens, but not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:01 PM
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At least grass is soft on your feet and feeds itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:59 PM
8

This is lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:33 PM
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