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My wife and I ended up coneiving about 4 months into the relationship unexpected. We got married about 4 years later, and recently had our 2nd child. I just wanted to be sure she was the woman I wanted to spend my life with despite the cocumstsnces we quickly got ourselves into. That part takes time.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 03:18 PM
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Do you cook dinner for him regularly? I know it's not so common when both are employed. I always greatly appreciate when my wife takes time to prepare a nice meal much more than sex.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 04:02 PM
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A man needs a woman to create a family, something most men desire at one point or another with the right woman.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 04:16 AM
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Oh okay. Military introduces a whole new aspect to relationships. We are not easy to love, and a lot of soldiers have the unfortunate tendency to lose their composure. If he is not showing any signs of progress in the right direction though for the relationship, I'm afraid it doesn't get any better.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 05:02 PM
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If he was honorably discharged, he can get free mental Healthcare from the VA, sounds like he could really benefit from some help.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 04:08 PM
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I am of strong opinion that no man should be having emotional meltdowns where they lash out especially over trivial matters. Definitely a big sign of lack of self discipline and maturity.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/25 03:55 PM
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You can't share the images in your mind or permanently store them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 02:28 PM
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OF will significantly lower your chances of finding a good man that will lead. The only people making good money on there are the top 5% and they work pretty hard to maintain that, it's definitely not money that just comes in for barely any work unless you are already famous. As for everything else, not knowing what you look like or your personality, maybe consult a close friend and have them give you an honest and objective opinion. Just be prepared emotionally because it is possible you may he…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 02:23 PM
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Too much social media is damaging to people's brains. They lose touch with reality and get the wrong idea. My wife rarely gets on social media and when she does its just to message family members. She passes the time either watching her shows or making candles. I strongly believe people just need to have creative hobbies for better mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 03:45 PM
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Its definitely a possibility
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/25 12:33 PM
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I suffer from the same kind of issues at 33. I manage my pain with CBD and THC. Hope that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 05:53 PM
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Manage your expectations and decide what's most important to you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 07:10 PM
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I think it just adds to more sexual frustration and hurt ego
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/25 03:42 PM
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Men, like women, are people who are not infallible. Stop and consider the type of man you commonly engage with. If they are constantly after new women, that's not a man you want a life with. You probably know women who have the same behavior of having infinite sexual partners.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 07:42 PM
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Is it that you don't want to work with him or is it that you want to spend more time with him outside of work? Because if it's the latter, just tell him that. He can't read your mind.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/25 09:42 AM
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Encourage your man to be more masculine if that's what you want. Support him and help him grow.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 07:50 PM
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People of all kinds of looks find love. If you aren't comfortable in your own skin that is going to cause relationship problems.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 04:43 PM
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Personality goes a long way. Not being rude/argumentative/combative etc. As for looks, men's personal preferences vary widely so there's no one size fits all for attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/25 06:57 PM
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Just be honest. It would be 0 but not that you have done anything sexual.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/25 06:01 PM
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It is simply perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/25 02:28 PM
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Men, and women, are all people. There are good people and shitty people from all walks of life. Gender has got nothing to do with it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/25 01:28 PM
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The job I had when I was 28 vs now at 33 I'm making way more than I was. Couples should help each other grow and improve.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 03:00 AM
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Men will generally approach younger and more conventionally attractive women in a subconscious attempt to impress them. I think it is just an instinctual thing for humans that comes down to seeking potential partners. As women age, a lot of men will assume they must already be married/divorced and have their own family.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/25 06:00 PM
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Just remember all those trending videos on tiktok and other social media platforms are usually fake and staged.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/24 08:41 PM
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It just takes time. Crawl before walk, walk before run etc.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/24 11:54 PM
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People can change but only if they are willing. Sometimes they need guidance. However she will never know if she doesn't at least communicate this to him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/24 09:44 PM
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If you want your man to lead, you should talk to him about it and push him into that role. He may have no idea how to or lack to courage to. A lot of millennial and gen z men have this problem. Communication is everything.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/24 07:52 PM
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He sounds just as, if not more emotional than a woman. That is not what you need in a man. A man should be your rock (and you his on rough days, but that shouldnt be a daily thing.)
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/24 06:14 PM
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Okay, so it's the wedding. I will say my wife and I have been together 8 years and didn't have a wedding because neither of us cared for one for the same reason. Though if she really wanted one, I would have just dealt with it. To me, it would seem that he feels you are not worth the stress for 1 day. I'm not going to suggest you leave or stay, just sharing my perspective. What you do is completely up to you and not Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/24 09:11 PM
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Most Reddit subs are breakup happy. In your case, have you talked to him and asked why he feels hesitant about marriage? I get that you have had the marriage talk, but just keep it simple and to the point. What is the reason, in his own words, does he feel hesitant about marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/24 07:55 PM
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Men want pleasant, lady like women. Etiquette here means behaving in a manner that befits a lady, to include conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:27 PM
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I can only assume he feels like he needs to speak to you like a child, for whatever reason.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 08:59 PM
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You left out if you said anything after he sent you the $300. If you didn't show you were grateful or talk to him about your purchases with his money, in his mind he sees you as only after his money. This may be a tactic he uses to screen potential partners. Then you asked for money and you have not even met him. Men do not like this. After he asked if it bothers you and your one word reply simply saying no, in his mind, tells him that you only initiated that conversation to ask for money and yo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 08:32 PM
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Absolutely. I'm the first person she thinks to call when there is any problems.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 12:12 AM
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From the perspective of a reasonable, hard working man: I just need my wife to be my peace.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/24 02:19 PM
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They are words. Does she show his love through his actions?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/24 07:51 PM
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Whatever the reason you two need to talk and clearly communicate your emotions and intentions about things. No assumptions, it will only get you both worked up.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 06:20 PM
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