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From a man's perspective, if you stay at home you do things in 'your own time' with limited fuckery od the world. A man has do things under 'someone else's time, either a client or boss's beckon and call., and deal with all the external fuckery as well. So when he gets home, he has essentially shielded you from that and needs to deal with it in his own way, that may not include you at certain times. Sometimes the best thing to do is 'STFU'.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/26 06:47 AM
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They aren't stupid. These men aren't simps. Disciplined, focus and the games women play with other men don't work on them. Men don't lift with intensity, have brute strength, on point physiques to simp. The primal triggers she is feeling indicate this man is free from debilitating genetic signatures, this man can compensate her when she is in her luteal phase. These are the type of men that can walk in the room and stay silent and project uara effortlessly to make her feel safe. Yet she wants th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/26 12:01 AM
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Reads like unhinged MAGA talking points for domestic policy. But it was well written, and thoughtful even if I disagree with it. If you've got the time and brilliance to write something like this, you could be directing it elsewhere for something more meaningful, advocating for a political solution to cultural misalignment isn't risky, your expectation might not be met, if there is cultural and political push back especially from women and non conservatives. I wish you well, you are talented. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:32 PM
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That is interesting. Sure, the gym can be superficial at first glance, so I can understand your sentiment. People, not only women want to be understood. A woman that I have never spoken to but have seen for over three years needed equipment I was using for hip thrusts. I gave her the equipment and dropped a comment about her being consistent. It wasn't about her looks, or physique but the behaviour behind her physique, I wasn't creepy telling her that because we both share the same sentiment. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:17 PM
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Proximity toward a man is a modern womenss approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:11 AM
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Disagree, gifts favours and rides DO, if that or person finds you attractive. They are significant multipliers, from experience, especially if it's done genuinely and outcome independent. I have experienced this with women, and the result is they will be your sex toy if done right 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:49 PM
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This writes like a 4chan post 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:21 PM
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You are right. At first glance it seems exhausting. But the same effect she is feeling but opposite, the emotional spiking and attraction, playful dominance, wrapped in humour or wit. She too finds it addictive. The duality of making her feel safe, yet dominant and bold enough to protect her. The polarity and the play is the romance. No friend zone vibes here. Sure there has to be mutual attraction but it's not as exhausting as leaning on wealth and status, attaining that and then presuming a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:27 PM
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She became a permanent member in my mixed sports team. I saw her every week. Thought she was a bitch, still do. She would trigger me and do shit that was insolent, inconsiderate, brazen or bold. She is great at sports. She is and always like this unapologetically. Whenever she used to trigger me I started giving it back to her but as a man, I had to use tact, wit and timing. Had to balance dominance, dial down aggression, use wit and intellect to disarm her. Whenever I addressed her bitchiness i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:39 PM
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I have plenty of platonic female friends and sometimes I have to say nothing and change my masculine input frequency, dial in to implied settings, I can't get real time interpretation. Most men have to train themselves to change their settings, especially with romantic interactions, women want it in real time and to be tuned in emotionally about how they are feeling in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:19 PM
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Agree with OP, women speak in code, innuendo and filing in the gaps. The things that are not said verbally and emotionally implied are more profound on women, than being direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:58 PM
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Yes women are grown adults. Men and women's brains are wired differently Leading a woman is natural not necessarily in a professional setting but relationship wise it's hard wired into them. Doesn't make them any lesser of being an adult. Furthermore they want to be led, not overwhelmed but guided in a way that is mutual and emotionally connecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:15 AM
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It's not that deep. Men and women have different phases of sexual arousal. As a man you have to gauge where she is at and lead her there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:07 AM
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I think women who deemed themselves independent, should be applauded, should they wish to be single mothers by choice. That is a truly independent position to take. It's respectable and honourable. Somewhat different to a woman who claims independence but gradually back tracks and seeks a man to breed her and raise a child or children with her. Sure you can have choices but be self aware and mindful of how your choices get perceived by others, especially men. It's not cool to reassess your attit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:21 PM
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I think women shouldn't be. Men deal with their decisions in life and accept full accountability for their past actions. So long as this generation of women who don't settle, accept full responsibility for whatever outcomes they may face as the age ie social isolation, unstable housing , which modern men will have to endure as well, they shouldn't be shamed. If you're that type of woman that is only attracted to 1% of men, as the bare minimum for him so should you be like that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:26 PM
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Boy math is doing the calculations and coming to the conclusion you only get a very small portion of what you put into a relationship. Different situation if you have children with a woman but a lot of women who casually date for fun carry on like they have had 2+ kids from the men they are dating casually. Absolutely disgraceful. That's one good reason why men don't court women anymore and women feel invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:12 AM
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The women who live in temporary setting situations. Living in a city for a year or two, travelling or t about to leave town. Whenever a casual situation represents itself, it is always this, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:42 AM
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So, men your age probably don't have the capacity for that. They haven't lived long enough to either be high earners. It's probable that you are after an age gap relationship that would align with you. Can you see where this creates issues for women. If women are after the same sort of man, how competitive do you think it is to keep and attract a man. Women may find themselves being played, pumped and dumped by such men. What makes a woman stand out for such a man. Or perpetually single, if that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:42 PM
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Somewhat disagree. There is always that one person that we know who is so endearing to others and they are average normal, they just make people feel at ease and are great to be around. Then there is that person that has a lot going on for themselves and people find them insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:31 PM
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You have a core group and the periphery is where you seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:22 PM
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Yes and the majority of them are in committed relationships and are their looks match. They provide security, protection and consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:33 PM
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Yes you are correct. The scenario was for illustrative purposes but can be dialled done appropriately. It's the vibe and aura, once women feel it, the games end real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:15 AM
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I think it's perspective. Did you ever remember your dad taking the whole family out for dinner. He is relaxed, in the moment with his children and has presence. That aura comes from a place that is grounded, sure of himself and selfless, the dad isn't outcome dependent and doesn't accept any reciprocity from the family at that moment. He isn't performative, he just is and he doesn't need to explain himself or pine for approval. When men get performative and outcome dependent on sex when the int…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:58 AM
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This confirm the modern male sentiment of women only want winners at the finish line. Men who endured alone don't want some waiting at the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:22 PM
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I got approached by a woman at the gym. She has been observing me for days or weeks. She wants to engage in deep and meaningful conversations with me. She is still determining if my exterior is a true reflection of my interior, she wants to know about my inner world and we just met. Please let that sink in for a moment. Over a series of weeks she has observed my behaviour and picked up on my micro expressions, how I speak to others, how others speak to me. How I am mindful, how I don't leer at o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:30 PM
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Understanding a women's monthly cycle and being mindful of your behaviour and her emotions during it Providing care and companionship during this time. Giving a woman emotional space and time where she doesn't need to explain herself. That includes what some insecure men would describe as ghosting. Embracing her fits of rage, anger, anxieties and emotions not because she is a bitch but because she feels emotionally safe to to show that side of her. Most men would consider that an inconvenience, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:17 PM
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The modern standard is emotionally availability. Women want men to tap into their emotional frequency and as a man that takes time to adjust, it's something we have to pay close attention to. Plus meet her attraction threshold physical and also behavioral traits that she deems desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:01 PM
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I think jumping through hopes means her figuring out if you vibe. You define it as work, women define it as emotional connection. Work for a man means, how much the date is, how witty or interesting you have to be. She would define effort as does he see me for me, my nuances and my emotions. You can do all the conventional things a man considers important in a date or interaction but that means nothing if you dont emotionally connect with her. It's a quality over quantity thing. Women are more e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:53 PM
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It's hard and your experience is common, maybe a time will come for a man to love and appreciate a woman from a safe distance until she is ready. Experience men know sometimes you just have to let them go for a little bit, give them some space and not pine on our own insecurities. I do feel sometimes when women are in the courting phase they are grooming me to understand and appreciate such sentiment, far from redpill vibes. Thanks for sharing your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:33 AM
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That's a tough one sorry to hear about your experience, especially with children involved. I don't know your exact experience but I could love a woman like that if we bonded over a decade plus, sure people change but I feel if I got to know and appreciate a woman over those years, I would be able to accept that. Separating or not. What isn't good and I think men need to exchange notes and experience is just to be weary of a 35+ year old women looking to settle down. Men want to commit but not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:57 AM
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Those beta men that knock up a 38 year old who is probably going to experience perimenopause in 5 to 7 years with a young child is wild, poor things are going to suffer in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:13 AM
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I play mixed gender sport where the majority are women. I play to win and to be sociable and I am good at it. I'm not there to date or to get laid. But as a by-product of that, dating and getting laid has occurred, but not in a toxic or disrespecting way. Intent determines your vibe and in most cases outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:26 AM
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It stops being circular when you do it for yourself and not for the validation of others. Take the gym for example. Women can sense and feel men who are going to gyms to perve on women or there to pick up. Such behaviour is focused not on himself. The opposite of that is a man who goes to the gym to make himself stronger and committed to that and won't let him get distracted. He isn't distracted by women in cute gyn outfits with amazing feminine physiques. That behaviour implies other things as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:35 AM
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You are an adult, independent financially and emotionally yet chose to freely be in the company of some that takes the time and is patient to understand me. If you don't have the capacity to give yourself what you want in a financially sustainable way, please don't expect me to do what you can't do for yourself. If you don't love yourself to take care of yourself physically and your health, so that you arent a financial and emotional burden to others, don't expect me provide that for you if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:14 AM
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No hook up culture, but women subtly putting men on the 3 month rule program after ghosting them is becoming the norm, it's had its time and not useful any ire, problem is men with options and meaningful lives aren't waiting for a woman they barely even know to commit, we see it as creating false scarcity to an unknown woman 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:37 PM
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Both genders are good at slowly separating a person from their support network and then gradually increase the gas lighting to make a person solely dependent on them. What tends to happen is there is a mismatch one person can completely be subservient to the other. Once this happens it is too late, the support network is gone and no appropriate criticism is leveled at the manipulator. At times the manipulator is extracting so much emotional and value out of their victims it's perfectly legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:25 AM
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The young female equivalent are struggling too from body dysmorphia, being underemployed and socially autistic. Everyone is struggling. Women like the idea of a man but some are so attuned to their own reality they can't fathom anyone liking them, they'd much rather ghost or not date at all. It's hell out there for everyone. I think we aren't too far when virtual relationships and the virtual world will become the preferred reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:55 PM
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It's a thing. 1) fit guy protects his sanctuary so he doesn't date the same way women that regularly go to the gym. After daring a women at the same gym things can get awkward 2) fit guy is cultured and discerning and has dated gym girls before , he niw gets the ick from them because that's the women's only personality. There are exceptions but this is the main rule. 3) fit guy can sense a woman that is internally confident in how a woman navigates the world despite her not so perfect physique. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:53 AM
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Can't do that. It reveals women's hand in defining the relationship. If he won't some other sucker will 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:38 AM
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No. I prefer them with a short skirt and long jacket. Why? Because "I want a girl with good dividends".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:25 AM
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Still waiting on my charge sheet 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:14 AM
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Pick a woman up and rock her like a baby girl and then throw her on the bed 👌 See how that works out for you 😉 Caveat - be hot 💪, don't try this if you aren't jacked and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:24 AM
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Most men, not all. I've got a personal policy of not texting platonic women friends after 10pm. I get replies from women at 945pm from messages I've sent earlier in the day and don't reply until the next day. These women are well adjusted and decent, not degenerate and I have this personal policy because I know these dms can morph into booty calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:55 AM
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This. You get it. Modern men need to put in effort into their lives,.probably the best antidote to being thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:41 AM
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After working out in the gym for over two years, something has psychologically changed on how I view women. It comes down to this. The level of intensity and consistency that I have to exert to achieve results makes me demand more out of women. Being a slim, young women with a regular job isn't enough. I've become more demanding and guess what a helluva a lot less thirsty. I get meals paid for by women who earn more than me, taller than me and have a tendency to stalk me or coincidentally bump i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:10 PM
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Let nature and people individual preferences determine how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:39 PM
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We still have to figure out if a) you aren't barren and b) not a head-fu$k 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:28 PM
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This. It's a flex. To show dominance over other women and to be desired by multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:51 AM
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Gotcha moment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:19 PM
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Mmmm.... TL:DR - daddy issues. This one is a tricky one. If a woman has felt a man's love in a deep way and if loves the equivalent if not more than a woman. When he is angry at her or treats her like shit, it might be interpreted as him caring for her. Much the same way a daughter loves his daughter, she has felr that love, and then there are moments when a father is deeply disappointed, upset or angry with his daughter. But the daughter knows that anger, frustration comes from a very, very dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:54 PM
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I got things to do. But what I can say, you have a talent for writing a lot with little substance or value to the discussion. As a final remark, I think you would be pitiful in real life 🤦😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:54 AM
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Thanks. Thanks for the insults and lack of depth or nuance on the subject. Using capital letters to argue a point without any regard to social context or addressing challenges already highlighted in this sub reddit. You've written enough to show your hand 👌.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:46 AM
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The amount of stunted, socially retarded unavailable man boys getting around in modern society, I'd say it's good judgement. Oh wait maybe these you men will get their inspiration from Andrew Tate shorts while the bedrot wtih Dorito crumbs on their fingers. What do you propose, add some insight into the conversation and display how much nuance you have on this matter 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:27 AM
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Cuts differently when your mentor is the father of the woman you are in a relationship with. He'd be able to give more insight into a women's temperament and nuances compared to his own father. All women are different, remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:28 AM
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Men commit to women, and their father in law becomes their mentor. Ideally a cultural attitude that is part of a committed relationship. When a man commits to a woman this is part of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:37 PM
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This is the way. Like something reoccurring around a mutual interest that is social, an activity where you have to interact and let time and circumstance unravel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:21 PM
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Mmm.... I got low-key asked out by a woman to join her on a sporting activity that she enjoys on a weekly basis. I didn't say yes or no. It was very subtle. Didn't realise until after the conversation. She may have thought I rejected her but I haven't warmed up to her, if the vibe is right I'll revisit it next time I see her. It wasn't pushy, rude or embarrassing. It was too subtle, I guess you could call it the "talking stage" in real life. I know what it is like to be asked out and not respond…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:31 AM
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It's the best. Young and naive. If the relationship is genuine, it's the best you'll ever get. Because you know they like you for you, even if it won't last. Sure it can happen when you get older but the requirements get more cumbersome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:08 PM
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It's the mismatch. Women will just say approach, but they themselves have never done it directly in a way where she needs to lead the interaction. I'm not talking about th bombastic side eye or the subtle bend and snap. How about this. Why don't modern women at least experience the logistics and the emotional intelligence to decrypt how a man interacts while SHE leads and see how that goes, while men do the opposite and proclaim "but she is supposed to know" and "all men are different". If more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:12 AM
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Disagree. It's attractive men that have shallow emotional intelligence. Women are drawn to them and these men don't know how to adjust but the women will insist on fixing him up because he is hot or attractive. Like that hot, crazy woman that is debt-ridden and unstable, some simp will white-knight her but she won't change. In both instances it's sunk-cost fallacy that compels them to stay in these unfavorable conditions, both emotionally and financially. No one wants some one who is an emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:27 PM
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I was playfully swimming with my daughter at the beach. This woman watched us from a distance for a while and then decided to swim near us for a little while and went back. She certainly didn't have any vibes about being choosing a man over a bear when she came near. There is something that triggers a woman's instinct where she sees a brute of a man that has the potential to be very destructive. Has the ability to be emotionally present with a very vulnerable child and make that child feel safe …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 PM
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You need both. Some threshold where a woman finds you attractive AND behavioural traits as well. They are both equally important. Once you satisfy these requirements being emotionally aware "and just getting it" is the pinnacle. Men aren't mind readers, but if men can intuitively tap into the way a woman feels that makes a big difference. Picking up on social ques, being thoughtful without an ulterior motive for sex, such traits in a man go a very long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:44 AM
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CORRECTION - the average man has a higher libido than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:12 PM
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Nothing has changed. A woman's default position is commitment per se. The amount of fu$ckery a woman would do to test a man's commitment to her is next level, especially at the initial stages. The young generation of men don't know or don't want to articulate and/or communicate commitment to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:41 PM
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Every Monday at the gym I do my over-head press day doing 80kg , 5x5 over-head presses and there is this teenage girl that religiously works out in the racks opposite me every week. It's all harmless fun, she seems to appreciate it and I act like she doesn't exist so she doesn't get too self-conscious about herself. I'm much too old for her, same age as my nieces. Only downside to this is, if she is comparing me to her male peers and finding them inadequate, that would really suck for them, ngl.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:21 PM
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When you mentioned insecurities. Insecurities linked to their behaviours when vetting a man are counter productive. I think deep insecurities are what is self-sabotaging modern women these days. That's what my response is in relation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:42 PM
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This amuses. Men know how to plan, commit, provide and protect. But.... Do we feel obliged to do that to a woman we barely even know. Women give other women woeful dating advice. Yes we can do all that you want but women have to convince men she is worth the risk. Granted women have their own challenges when it does to vetting men. But men vetting women is rarely discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:19 PM
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This is the type of response the world needs to read and it won't be blasted on the internet or traditional media. Well written 👌
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/24 01:28 AM
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What age did you meet her and was she childless at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:48 PM
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Partially agree. Women open the door but a man has to constantly deal with how she feels about herself internally during the courtship phase. I've had confident women approach but when leading the courting some women get incapacitated to deal with the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:30 PM
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I can understand the sentiment. But I am cautious. If a man doesn't want kids, it works. Do men really want to be a 60 year old new father 🥴. Or a 80 year old with health problems and smothering a 20 year old or 30 year old child with health and emotional support while they could be living their own lives and figuring themselves out, without the burden of being a carer 🤔. That child could potentially be the only child and subject to such family commitments. What capacity would such a man have on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:07 AM
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You wrote that really well 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:54 AM
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Scratch deeper. It's the interaction between hypergamy and fertility/nurturing that are very feminine traits. Outrageous hypergamy and declining fertility and inability to nurture due to being time poor/over worked is going to give men the "ick".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:36 AM
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It's already happening 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:41 PM
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Women can't take a passive role. She can in her twenties but at her peril. She'll have no game by the time she is 30+ and her desirability wouldn't be the same. Eventually she'll have to get more active willingly or unwillingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:29 PM
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Serious question, have you ever lead the interaction with a man for romantic pursuits and if so how many times? When you write like that I get the impression you are oblivious to the male experience in leading an interaction for romantic pursuits. I'm not gaslighting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:24 PM
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Well written but step back a bit and think like a man for a moment. If a woman isn't expected to lead, the idea that "we aren't a monolith" doesn't irk them as much as it does a man. From a pursues point of view, that sounds so unreasonable. So everytime a man initiates with a woman he has to start from a blank slate and intuitively "get her". If he doesn't get it right, she gets the proverbial "ick", rinse and repeat. I think if women become a bit more actualised and was satisfied with around 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:27 PM
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From a man's perspective it's too much effort. The bar isn't in hell if woman would actually go through the check box requirements a man has to ie imitate and lead the courtship phase. Not for a lack of trying but just tired of it. Imagine being a man and having the right requirements but then expected to be a mind reader, thoughtful, not boring, planning logistics, when "no" means "no" for some women and then for others it's means try harder. Even if a man has all these things and is committed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:57 PM
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It's equally applicable to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:07 AM
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In hindsight, being polarising is essentially what lead to it's mass propagation. Some parts of the manosphere are outrageous but the level of awareness for men has been a net positive. But it does seem like a zero-sum game where it can negatively impacts women's options for an ideal male partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:21 AM
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Worthy of respect is a baseline for everyone 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:23 AM
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Hair tied up in a messy bun, no make-up on with skin imperfections showing in "flow state" doing something menial. *Caveat is meeting my attraction and personality requirements 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:21 PM
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I would rather work in a prison labour camp with good men around me for the rest of my life than let any of these women into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:40 PM
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How to write an argument for religiously sanctioned relationships, with the flair of subtly 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:17 AM
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BS is how daddy treated her Problem with what women is their dads didn't sit them down and tell them you shouldn't feel entitled to that behaviour from other me without earning it. If more dads told their daughters this, it would solve a lot of dating problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:08 PM
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What about the man that is indifferent, not interested and has vibes of "stay the fuck away from me in public". The type of men that have the means and the ability to knock her up and get her into a family home before her 33rd birthday. Plenty of these types of modern men. In Australia this is a thing. It's along the lines of "she looks nice but I don't want to deal with the head-fu$kery she'll bring into my life later on" 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:07 PM
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Some of these comments are interesting. Seriously, how much value do both genders put on culture and language? The people that like being single and child-free, are you anti-immgration and get casually racist? As you age, who will be subsidising your health care costs and social services once you have aged and are out of the workforce? If this trend is as common as this subreddit.akes out to be, is this the generation responsible for breeding their culture and language out of existence 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:57 PM
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Worst behaviour is the 30+ year old women, broke and ready to breed. Really? What makes a woman think she is so special some man is going to commit his time and resources to her within 2 to 3 years, breed with her and find himself trapped in dead bedroom relation ship for years. I do wonder these scenarios corner women into finding the 6+ figure man, that's fine but it puts women in scarcity mode, they convince themselves they are too good to settle 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:08 AM
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Agree. But it has to be during the initial stages of the relationship. I am skeptical when people say this. The one that provides less value would be incentised to propagate such views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:38 PM
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"Looking for a woman who is not fat, no kids, thigh gap, nice smile" hOw daRe yOu miSogyni$t 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:09 PM
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They way you wrote that, it's like you unlocked a hack in life, congrats 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:02 PM
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So true, selective constructivists 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:38 PM
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The one chasing has less value or there perceive value. Imagine that, a man that has his life sorted out expected to chase a woman that is in causal employment, at times underemployed, next to zero savings projecting that she demands more effort from men. Even if a woman is a man's equivalent she'll still think she is too good for him 🤦 There is no incentive for women to chase because it reveals her hand. Women distort reality to low-ball manifest it. Men aren't falling for it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:19 PM
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Women love men who have proven they can dominated other men. Keyword here is proven, complete opposite to nice and caring man. Think cage fighters and thugs. It's instant attraction without all the hoops men have to jump through. This is the hack PUA can't imitate, at best PUA simulate those traits with little risk to himself. Brutalising other men is the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:52 AM
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Insulted would be overkill. Amused at worst. I've had my arsed pinched at work by a colleague, didn't report it to HR. Biceps and shoulders groped while lining up at bars. Rocks thrown at me by women to get my attention. Get the "Do you have a lighter" cold approach by women, every now and then. From observation the less my looks match the more direct and blatant. Equal or more becomes a game of cat and mouse. In either case amused regardless, after a while the allure of women subsides and these…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:05 PM
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I think stress is inhibiting modern women's libido and the enthusiasm to date. From experience, they do want a man that's going to remove the stresses of modern life. I dated a teacher and she was dtf during school holidays and when school restarted we left it at that. Another women went to a music festivals and took two days leave to de-stress. So if course they are going to go for the best men they can. But in practical ways this is never going to happen. From a man's perspective can many of u…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:50 PM
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It's not funny or edgy anymore to have a child in your early 40s or late 30s with down syndrome, ageing parents when the child reaches 30 years with no siblings or extended family. The potential for that child to have a decent quality of life reduced. You call it revenge fantasy I call it accountability and appropriate planning beyondself interest. Yes this sentiment doesn't apply to women who don't want kids but whenever I hear women wanting children later in life it really, really irritates me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:57 AM
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It's relative and I think men I intuitively know we have to put in more effort as a functional man. Does a 23 year old man have discipline, leadership and rislinence, strength but also the latent ability to be firm or brutal to other men when required, apart from looks these behavioural traits are very attractive to women. There is no expectation for women to have these traits to be deemed attractive and a potential suitor. I think there is some validity but it's relative to the male experience.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:38 AM
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Maybe ask a sample of both genders at 60 to 70 years old who didn't have children. If you are looking for answers you are asking it to the wrong people and the wrong age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:44 PM
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Body count to men is what short height is for women. Don't try to understand it, justify or complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:52 PM
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Not humanity, Western Civilization will be bred out. The world is watching and taking notes. Just by default, industrialising before other civilisations and obsessed with extracting as much productivity out of every able bodied person, Western Civilization is the guinea pig. It's a big issue if you are not concerned about preserving your culture and belief system and not being replaced by new migrants. If it's not an issue for you that is fine. But don't complain when you are 65 years old and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:22 PM
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Women are crazy. I've dated women who have literally spun plates and got the men together in the same room, enticing them to commit acts of violence against each other. Yes I am more than capable but I think the baby rabies are making you crazy and it's giving me the ick 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:11 AM
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You get ghosted. They aren't good enough to get me sexually aroused. Big hit to their egos, the look of you gives them anxiety 🤷 Took a girl out on a second date. Drove her home and she starts rubbing my hand with her finger tip like flicking her bean, I pull up and tell her I'll see her later and she says "oh but it's so early". Wasn't feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:10 PM
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TL:DR - have rich parents. A practical answer and sustainable one is the parents underwrite the financial security of their daughter/s. Not the husband/son-in-law. Most men the same age as their female peers have little to no assets to underwrite the financial security of the household. For example, patents set up a ROTH/401K/investment fund to offset their daughters absence in the workforce. Or a home she can live in without paying any rent or mortgage. If such was a cultural arrangement modern…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:53 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:42 PM
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When I was in my teens and early 20s , if a woman was loitering around we'd go for it, the kiss, the grope or the inner thigh finger tip touch but backing off and letting her anticipation get the better of her. Never got turned down, ever. Didn't date most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:21 PM
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The 30+ old women trope is fine if she doesn't want children. If she does she left it too late. So what if she is attractive and has her life sorted out? Imagine being a man, meeting a woman who is 32 years old, and breeds her at 34 years old, only to have a dead-bedroom that will last at least half a decade? Can't modern women see how unfair that is for a man? He'd barely knows her 🤷. Yet he is expected to forego all his resources and time for such a women. Sounds like a shit deal to most men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:49 AM
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Women want men to lead and a multitude of masculine traits but want to purge it out of men in the initial stages of dating. It gives men the ick. Women are better of keeping tabs on select men and monitoring their behaviour without the onus of a relationships to vet men, over time. When you figured out who is who in the zoo, it's your job to endear yourself to him, if that means a pickmeisha so be it. These type of men aren't going to hand it over to you in a platter. Yes, some of us are more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:04 PM
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Men who complain about self-improvement have not breached that threshold were their efforts have proven results INTERNALLY and ETERNALLY. This aspect is gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:47 PM
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I believe it's gender neutral. If you don't want to socially invest in others expect to live a life of solitude . I get booked out socially with tight time schedules, I get the shits when people don't arrive on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:25 PM
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You are right about that.."if he dies, he dies" 👌❤️💪🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:05 AM
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This interesting. I have two very wealthy friends. Both met their partners overseas, not Australia. The local women knew these men are loaded, albeit through inheritance. What did they do, they acted like they were sub par men and commited to the women they wanted without revealing the wealth they would inherit. In these instances there was a massive difference in wealth between them and the women they chose to commit to. One of the women has no idea how much privilege she has married into, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:00 AM
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From experience gym matters a lot. Unfamiliar women don't ask me out but they sure do have a way of getting close and make sure I get to inspect the goods before trying. It's in a woman's subtly and a man's vibe that closes deals 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:17 AM
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Men have the female equivalent of filters, make-up, good lighting and angles. Reminds me of a work function that was held on a yacht. By the end of the week everyone posted a pic of them on the yacht they didn't pay for. I also remember preparing and planning a birthday event for a friend, the most narcissistic friend in the group watched as we prepared throughout the day and was the most active in posting pics on social media during the event. Such behaviour reinforced the idea that social medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:30 AM
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This is what I like to refer as the fire alarm option. When overwhelmed and stressed people can shut down. The trait of a man who is swayed by the external chaos od the world and deal with it. Two things, firstly, that trait in men is rare and developed over time. Secondly, you can't simulate that in a man to figure out if he has it in him. Women need to know but when they do it in an inorganic way ie shit tests and when they do it gives men the "ick". Let life reveal itself and the right man wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:53 AM
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It can change. Women need to realise the women that they can bag are the ones that will commit. Not the men that will do causal with them. Oh wait 🤦 getting a man to commit is where the challenge is. Are we circling back to no sex before marriage? Maybe tradition has its value and takes on or two generations it out again. Or should we just do causal and take 15 years at the decline of our fertility and virility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:57 AM
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I go to a gym regularly, from experience it takes about 3 to 6 months for women to gauge you and express their interest with social ques.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:35 PM
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Went out on Saturday night. Saw a woman who was talking to a man she didn't seem comfortable with. I asked her if she is ok, and told her I'll take you home safe, nothing more nothing less. She replied "but I just want sex". I ended the conversation and walked away. But I agree with your post, most women are not going around sleeping with randoms. They do exist. They are human just like us. She probably did get laid but the sex could of have been underwhelming. I'm sure she settled with whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:25 PM
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Just enjoy yourself regardless of what outcome the event will have. It's your vibe. If a woman wants to be part of that she'll make her way to your space. For women it's not logical but rather emotional. I was refusing to tell a woman my name, told her I was a walking red flag and I am going to ruin her life so she better walk away, grabbed her like I was going to kiss her and pushed her away and she kept on coming back. My vibe was fun, playful and cocky, with zero desperation. It's not logical…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:56 AM
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Go to music festivals. I went to one recently and got approached and indirectly hit on from a rock thrown at me, alcohol spilt on me deliberately, asked for a cigarette lighter twice, asked if "I was sexual or violent"... Women get their freak on at music festivals 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:20 PM
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No, that's not for me. Everyone there is obsessed with options which is above my risk profile or my ignorance on trading that sort of instrument . An understated pleasures in life is conservative leverage.
/r/MGTOW01/01/20 09:38 AM
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After living expenses, invest/save $30000 in blue chip equities and using this as collateral get a margin loan for $20000 and gamble.
/r/MGTOW01/01/20 08:26 AM
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So tempted to get a screen shot of your post and ask the ABC to prove me wrong, essentially triggering all the feminist editors and journalists to scramble and find that one woman firefighter out of 1000s of male firefighters for their ideological agenda.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 07:20 AM
2

Max out on their credit cards with eye watering, unsecured interest rates and expect you to pay their bills. If you can't "pay her bills" and dates "you're not a high - value male". Pity the simp who subsidieses her past life of consumption to be deemed worthy.
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 04:44 AM
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Honestly, it's an "art" and to develop what traders call "feel" can be achieved by being at the coal face and learning from your experience and mistakes. Watching the numbers day-in, day-out. A lot of what is taught is mere fodder for smart money to get out of trades they couldn't otherwise get out of due to low-volume trades. There are plenty of resources on YouTube and internet but just consider it as fundamental knowledge, you won't make money based solely on what is offered for free from the…
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 03:23 AM
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Starter pack is $50000 in assets in the form of blue chip shares that you use as collateral to have a line of credit to borrow another $50000. Swing trade for a living. This assumes you already know how to swing trade successfully. Start saving if you don't have $50000 and begin learning the "art" since you're asking. Deflate your living cost by moving overseas.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 10:55 AM
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That's pretty bad. Poor guy, can't understand why her name wasn't disclosed.
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 01:29 PM
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On another note I notice a more blatant frustrated post-30 year old women invading my space in public just to get close. It's like the mall is wide enough why do you need to zero in on me 10 metres away to barely brush past me as we cross paths - creeps!
/r/MGTOW13/12/19 08:09 AM
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As a foreigner who is pursuing a Korean woman (we're both outside of South Korea) I think it's a shame Korean women feel like this. I understand the viewpoint. TBH the woman I'm pursuing would probably overlook me if she was in South Korea. I suspect once some Koreans leave South Korea and emerse themselves in a different culture, the social and cultural norms they hold get diluted. Not gonna lie to South Korean men, foreigners will wife up Korean women given the right circumstances outside of S…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:11 PM
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Invest in a financial education by doing, get in a social circle where people talk about finance and business topics. Become an investor, learn how to swing trade with your own due diligence with trial and error. By the time you are 50+ you would have accumulated decades of experience - work roles change, businesses go bust but there will always be an equities market to buy & sell for "pocket money". Good luck young man, the world awaits.
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 09:36 AM
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I view that parable as "men pay for the actions & opinions of women" unless they intervene. First high end dinner date to emotional decisions on paying for an over priced mortgage. Men will pay if women go uncheck.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 09:35 AM
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That's all she's got, "an emotional connection" with you. Your "emotional connection" in the past didn't mean anything to her. Be a man and hold your ground and tell her it's too late. She doesn't want you, just your resources. If you do get back with her, you'll be too insecure, fearing she's fucking Chad. Do you really want this life?
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 11:10 AM
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Malaysia 90 day tourist visa, recommend Johor Baru and do the "shuffle" to Singapore to renew tourist visa. Johor Baru is literally over the causeway to Singapore.
/r/MGTOW18/11/19 09:06 AM
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That slogan should be on merchandise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 06:27 AM
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This post is never going to be deleted.
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 12:47 AM
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Go to as many prostitutes as you can and go through a period where "pussy becomes pussy", don't be simping these whore as well... Be emotionally indifferent and demanding with them. You could do this by being a PUA but the emotional and time investment isn't worth it, pay for it, get "pussy scarcity" out of your young mind.
/r/MGTOW27/10/19 10:34 PM
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No, mid cap yes. Small caps are very risky, once a stock gets to mid cap it's proven itself to the market. I I belive there are more realistic gains for a mid-cap to go to a large cap. Small cap is part of the "investors starter pack" once you've done your "time" you move on and don't look back...
/r/MGTOW26/10/19 05:38 AM
1

Somethings are worth it, I like Lacoste shirts because the quality will last 5 cheap shirts over a period of many years.. Very good value, I also like how the logo is small. It's important to recognise the brand for its quality but it doesn't scream "Look at me".
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 11:19 AM
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I reckon throughout unrecorded history their have been societies led by women but they aren't celebrated because they were disbanded, vanquish or absorbed into more dominant cultures. I fear the fate of Western civilisation.
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 11:57 PM
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I've experienced this, I had to train up 19 year old who was still with a boyfriend similar to her age. After 2 weeks she broke up with over the phone while we were on our lunch break. I suspect that it was hypergamy kicking in. I would advise that this is female nature, I understand you are upset and that's OK. Moving forward pursue women that are 3 - 5 years younger than you. I think we as men need this discussion and realise if you are under thirty always date women 3 - 5 years younger. Don't…
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 11:24 PM
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Never psychologically put yourself in a position where your wellbeing and happiness is dependent on one person ie a woman. Regardless if you continue to pursue women or not only you have the monopoly on what determines your well being and happiness. Do not substitute yourself for anyone else, this is why you are feeling the way your are.. Good luck and all the best in the future...
/r/MGTOW15/10/19 11:14 AM
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No you didn't understand how she was feeling at the time and you misunderstood her ability to navigate the world as a strong independent woman.
/r/MGTOW29/09/19 11:41 AM
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Savage much
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 07:20 AM
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Appreciate the view-point, that could be the case for some women but I suspect not the overwhelming majority. To experience a menstral cycle for a period of decades only to deny her biological identity not utilise her ovaries as they where designed and intended, that nature has bestowed upon her would be soul-destructing. I'm sure this can be overcomed much the same way incels and MGTOW monks refuse to breed but this would be the exception not the norm. p. s I upvoted your comment!
/r/MGTOW08/09/19 03:28 AM
2

Good Luck, I've been married for 9 years and my advice is know what value you bring to the relationship as the provider, if need be you have to be Alpha and not give a fuck at the same time if she feels threatened by something even if it is trivial you gotta be Alpha and not give a fuck. First 7 years is going to be hard until the kids gets a little independent. Tell her she's only got one job in the early years and that's looking after the kid, sorry mate but when that baby comes you'll be gett…
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 11:06 AM
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Single mothers are fair game, she says she doesn't want fwb but if she ain't getting it from anyone I'm sure she might consider a bit of casual cock once she starts feeling lonely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/19 10:42 AM
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Thanks brother I needed this, nearly cried. I've got two daughters and sometimes I don't know if it is even worth it these days, I'm not MGTOW but adhere to the idea that women should know their place and not compete with masculinity, they need to embrace it because it compliments them biologically. If I left the relationship I would be a failure as a father should my daughters become 3rd wave feminists and beyond due to my absence. Rock bottom is for me to endure, I'm not happy but I need to be…
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 09:36 PM
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I'll get my food delivered at 8pm and visit the brothel at 930pm...Feminism commoditised the Vagina, before that women were sacred..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 09:18 AM
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Made my day!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 09:04 AM
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No thanks I'd rather have rough sex with a 23 year old whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/19 08:17 AM
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