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| 9 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her? | Fundamentals | madamcurryous | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | how to rekindle desire of an old fling, new era | madamcurryous | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 09:03 PM |
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| 4 | My first cold approach was interrupting her being cold approached lolAlso helps you didn’t want anything from her really, your not desperate vibe prolly also worked in your favor and that you’re hot etc | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?yeah, I go in waves of understanding what my needs are.guess that's growing. the situations are definitely variable by person. when I was younger, everything was more fluid, unattached, but also crushingly emotional (bad boundaries), but I just had more game going on. After losing myself to the fantasy so long, I started looking at relationships like this is what I get from our combination, they can meet me here, that serves me in this way. I was finally secure in myself and didn't 'need' as muc… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:57 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?yup yup. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?yeah maybe its a self-worth issue, like I just assumed he's not choosing or he has a specific set of needs that I don't adhere to to be his choice pick. and so there's nothing for him to worry about, he gets what he needs while finding one that serves his primary needs or dreams. I also never take into consideration who else may be vying for him, to me the other girls are just other girls, not competition. I'm just competing with his ideal. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?damn, well you got me there. thanks for priming back any sort of code I'm trying to act like is an insurrection of truth, when its totally subjective, variable. well, hopefully meetings are legal again soon, for now we go with communication to take care of discrepancies? | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?don’t want to throw myself at someone prematurely. rather show interest, not lose myself, show we both have more to learn about eachother rather than blind infatuation or blindly jumping after someone’s every whim. if that makes sense i agree, i’m gonna try dating up to 34/35 i haven’t found anyone yet, can’t wait for day game again, sorta get the vibe when i’m on runs but corona killed irl vibe | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?yeah i sorta prefer a more even playing field but i’m starting to think i need to let the dude feel like he’s winning something more. also scared of showing disinterest and them moving on. guess i can always pull back and give more green lights. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?yeah, too much cat and mouse is never good. the good ones won’t make it so ambiguous. likewise i don’t want to be too available. naturally i’m balancing more in my life so it helps to have a couple focuses and date but i finally feel like i like this guy. true if it’s a de facto relationship, it doesn’t matter to me. as long as he’s really into me, and it shines through by treating me golden and communicating our needs and lives, i’m utterly happy. also when you come from a lack it’s harder to g… | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 08:52 AM |
| 2 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?exactly i’m sorta going for the amp up and show him i’m interested while still keeping my worth. it does occur to me i could be wasting my time. he’s definitely interested in me for sex. we had to rearrange plans to meet in general but now i kinda see it as ball in his court. he’s still trying to talk to me and so on and interacts with my social media ... yeah i wanna find an older guy, i keep dating 22-25 since i look so young i think. i look 23. i have a 39 yo on my roster but he bores me sk l… | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?true. i think when things loosen up here i will. basically we talked a lot and flirted a bunch, were making plans to meet and he suggested another time cuz he’s not entirely ready but wants to in the future. i was super offended but he’s still picking up convo with me occasionally felt like seduction withdrawal ... | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?yeha i just started on pretty sexual intentions with someone, afraid i can’t take make it serious or whatever or exclusive | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 08:29 AM |
| 1 | if a girl wants a relationship to start, does the guy primarily have to chase her?well if that ain't the truth. by chase, I didn't mean literally more like lead, show they want you, and not lose you etc. Right, by player I just mean in it for sport, not necessarily gonna slow down for you even fi you are a super catch. Not like a derogatory thing as I'm dating too, and I wouldn't really assume commitment on that level of the talking phase or whatever they are agreed with towards you. I would hope that I could offer a unique chemistry, that it's the integrity but about our mat… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | how to rekindle desire of an old fling, new erayou're damn right. it dawned on me earlier too all of the above, so message sent! I need to always be this straightforward, we don't have time. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | how to rekindle desire of an old fling, new erashould I wait, or sooner than later? | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 10:26 AM |
| 1 | how to rekindle desire of an old fling, new eraFk it might as well. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | how to rekindle desire of an old fling, new eraLol should I text that? It’s actually the most real. if he’s left me in read, it gets to the point. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Are beta males undesirable?tbh, i'm not even trying to be positive and speaking from experience, because reality is harsh. women are tired of douchebags - they come in all sorts of personalities and packages. once you realize a good person is a solid person to have in your life, the superficial things don't matter. especially when a good-looking person or someone with connections or stature doesn't give you respect. you are definitely worth improving yourself for yourself, others and the world! i'm trying to mirror myself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Are beta males undesirable?hey, i love betas! always attracted to the more withdrawn beta types, regardless of their income. do not form your ideas of women based off of the internet. alphas suck if they aren't a good match for you, supportive or sweet. good hygiene and kindness go a long way for me with romantic partners. start exploring your hobbies in groups and talk to women, about this stuff. that's how i aired out my preconceptions or ideas about what men find attractive. also i saw this among my female friends who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/18 05:51 PM |
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