madcapitola Archive

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1	"just treat them like humans" I agree. To put someone on a pedestal means you see them as perfect, like a statue of perfection. Humans are imperfect beings by nature, so I take that advise to mean treat women as imperfect beings, neither better or worse than yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 05:54 PM
1	Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness? "I'm with him because of his personality and how he animates his body. Not because of his body." I love how you put this. This is exactly it for me. Well worded!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 04:01 AM
1	Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through? In answer to your main question, as a woman I also have the feelings you describe that come from comparing yourself to other people and using their success to measure your own against. This causes self doubt, anxiety and resentment. For myself, it takes a lot of awareness about my thought processes and what is driving them so I can self talk myself out of the faulty ones. It can be exhausting. A big thing to remember, you really don't know the experience of another person. What looks easy for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 07:48 PM
2	Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through? As someone else already pointed out, the OP is about whether women struggle as you do when dating, and you're asking because you find it hard to believe they do. You didn't post this on an academic subreddit about academic envy. I would posit that your inferiority complex is an underlying issue that affects many aspects and thought processes in your life. But when it affects how you view women's dating struggles and that in turn affects your viewpoint of women in general and your belief in your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 07:31 PM
4	Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through? For instance, that women have it easier than you and don't experience rejection. This is a faulty thought process that has led you to... well make this post. You didn't give detail on what romantic subplots would be invalidated but it could be these very subplots that hold you back and invalidating them could be the best thing rather than the worst thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 07:16 PM
4	Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through? And what's the worst thing about that? Sometimes invalidating a faulty thought process is exactly what's needed to adopt more productive thought processes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 07:10 PM
1	Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past? I feel happy my husband was rejected by or rejected whatever women came before me (I don't think it was all one way or the other but a mixed bag) because otherwise we wouldn't be together since he would have been taken. No, I would not like it if he got on tinder or a like app as an "experiment." Before this post I haven't thought of his past as full of rejection or not and now that the idea has arisen, I can't say it concerns me at all or changes my opinion of or feelings for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 01:04 AM
1	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. People also change and don't want to do certain things again. Lying is bad in relationships and I wouldn't lie about that myself, but if you're wondering why someone would in this situation, look at the overwhelming reaction from the guys on this thread... The comments seem to imply that if she's done something before with someone else and she doesn't want to do it anymore with anyone else it somehow means it's all about her attraction level to you. There's even a comment saying that hearing tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 01:02 PM
1	Most men present themselves poorly in public. Personally I don't think this is a division of the sexes but rather that some people of both sexes place a lot of value in physical presentation and others don't. I think the type people that place value in it may equate physical presentation to other aspects of character like ability to provide or sexual viability but I don't personally believe those conclusions to be accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 08:18 PM