| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | I've reached the point that I can't have a normal conversation with a girl | maddermonkey | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 08:02 AM | |
| 7 | This video inspires me (Approach Anxiety) | maddermonkey | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 10:02 AM | |
| 5 | [FR] First time clubbing last night at a 21+ | Field Report | maddermonkey | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Entering a career now that I've graduated college, what are good ways to maintain relationships with college girls? | maddermonkey | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 06:53 AM | |
| 2 | What to do when you actually annoy the girl? | maddermonkey | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 07:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolPost a pic of yourself. It could just be your style. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I [28M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show interest in meHave you tried talking to them about it? Maybe they didn’t like it before or it hasn’t been brought up as an idea yet | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?I maybe have approached ten girls in my whole life for a total of 2 successes. One of which gave obvious IOIs and the other was a fluke. End of the day, it could just be your numbers. Not everyone will connect with you but someone will. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 02:31 AM |
| 0 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.I have had maybe 200 matches over five years and have had almost 100 dates, the numbers don’t add up unless OP ghosts all of them | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 08:43 PM |
| 3 | When Hooking up with a woman, is it better to go to her place or take her to yours?DM;HS | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 09:40 AM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginIt’s never too late, there’s always someone down to bang out there | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 01:37 AM |
| 2 | X-year-old still a virginI guess for now focus on yourself and your education then revisit your virginity at a future date. I lost mine a bit late too but for me it was due to being awkward around my peers but after traveling for a bit with online apps I was able to find someone and lose it. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginMaybe you should try moving, I had my first hookup on a vacation despite getting barely any attention where I live | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginNo I mean how did you end up at that point. What's the cause of the problem and what are you doing to fix it? | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 03:36 AM |
| 0 | X-year-old still a virginWhy? | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneI love happy endings :) | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Got a cute girl’s number, but I’m hesitant to text her after learning more about her life on social media [x-posted to r/dating_advice]Dude she sounds perfect, what’s the issue? | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)I would honestly put this on hold and do some reputation rebuilding before going back into it. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Holy shit. If you don’t get matches, visit NYC.Are you coming from San Francisco? | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl at the gym and she said she's in high schoolAsian guy here, I actually used that same line on someone once just to see her reaction. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 08:11 AM |
| 1 | After a great first date, girl wants to be “just friends”San Francisco? | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 03:14 AM |
| 2 | After a great first date, girl wants to be “just friends”You know I just had a date with an East Asian girl who said the same thing. Where are you? | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 03:06 AM |
| 12 | In an extreme girl/guy ratio at a party, how to focus attention on one?No for real advice, invite me. | /r/seduction | 27/11/16 04:26 AM |
| 1 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.It's never too late. Same age as you and had a terrible high school life too but college was where I broke out of my shell. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 03:15 PM |
| 1 | trying to get a girlfriend while I'm unemployed, worth it or not?Have you tried Tinder? I got to my early 20s without anything going on but that app has been helping out. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Touch is so important!! (kino)Last week, I was working an event with a woman much older than me (she's 30) and midway through conversation I started playfully touching her and escalated quickly to the point I was able to wrap around her and lightly touch her breast/butt. She responded by touching me back and laying her head on my shoulder. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 09:13 PM |
| -4 | 2 months of college left never kissed a girlHow's that possible? College is usually the best place to get action. Even I as a weird awkward nerd got some attention by graduation. | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 08:57 AM |
| 8 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.I dated a girl who did this. She checks all her texts at night and responds to them all at once and even turns off notifications for them so she won't see them until night. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 11:59 AM |
| 0 | I couldnt kiss her...need advice for kiss closesMy first kiss, "Want to kiss?" and it happened. It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 09:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys overcome the age barrier?Well to be fair, I'm assuming you grew up with strict Asian parents too, they probably pushed the idea that older guys were creepy to your sisters and that they should date guys close to their age as long as they were Asian also. You don't really grow out of that mindset until you're older and realize how little these things matter. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys overcome the age barrier?I just turned 23 and started feeling this way around 18 year olds. Some would flirt with me but the second I admit my age, they look shocked. But I'm Asian so I appear 19-20 based off appearance so they may think I'm joking with them. Then again, when I was around their age I thought it was weird for older guys to talk to them so it takes times for them to develop. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How to word it when I'm asking someone out?I've had a similar problem. I asked someone "Wanna go out with me?" and they thought I meant hanging out as friends. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 10:31 AM |
| 0 | Entering a career now that I've graduated college, what are good ways to maintain relationships with college girls?Have you tried it? | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet women.Don't give up on finding someone but realize your chances are way higher after self-improvement. Think of it like a game, you can't beat the final boss unless you level up first even if takes hours upon hours. | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Where to meet women.Girls shouldn't be your priority now. Lose weight, make friends, get a job, save up, get your own place. It's all self-improvement at this point. | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Open and Closed Social CirclesHow did you get into standup? I really want to give it a shot and meet people that way. | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Disappointed at my first try, failed miserably...That's me on a daily basis. | /r/seduction | 25/01/14 12:12 PM |
| 1 | List of Subjects not usually considered when studying Seduction that will help your game.What I've noticed is, some guys have a really funny aura to them, over the years I realized that guy is me. I have a naturally goofy look and with the right amount of charisma can turn any conversation into an engaging comedy routine. TL;DR: Find out what fits you and do it. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Tips for college parties?Depends on your fraternity. I know a frat that had a party where there were like 20 bros and 3 girls (two of which taken). I also know a frat that is quite reputable with the sororities on campus so they had a good mix of 20 bros and 20 different girls every week. It's obvious which one everyone wanted to join. If your frat has good connections with the sororities (at least three), you're gonna be in luck. My advice is actually try to make friends with a couple girls in each one during the parti… | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 07:22 AM |
| 2 | How to act at a college party where you know few/no people?On the night before my 22nd birthday, I walked into a party. By midnight, every single person in a 200 person party said, "Happy Birthday!" to me, even the cops shutting it down. Just be social and talk to everyone. A couple shots in don't hurt either. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 12:12 PM |
| 2 | How to still make it happen after beeing creepy?Move on. If she's attracted she'll come to you, if not, don't worry there's other girls who will. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Things you can do to get a party started and getting a ''higher status''Was at a Halloween party recently, by the time I left, a lot of people mentioned I was the life of the party. Some things I did: * Network through your friends, your friends might know other people at the party * Don't drink until your wasted, just to a good level * Approach groups light-heartedly and joke around with them * Kino everyone with everyone by giving high-fives to guys and hugs to girls * Say/Do some hilarious things to get everyone laughing/smiling * Definitely isolate a few girls t… | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl I've never spoken to asked me out. Caught me by surprise.Happened to my buddy a couple weeks ago. Was a tourist so there's a chance she's on vacation and wants some D for the road. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 08:24 AM |
| 12 | Best response to "why are you single? You're funny/atttactive?"This is my legit reason. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Any have experience with coffee shop game?I saw a guy do this today. From my experience, just find a place to sit. Usually there's a table with an empty chair and a cute girl on the other side of it. Ask if you can sit there, bust out your phone, use the wifi, and start a conversation. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 06:56 AM |
| -2 | Struggling with club game. Help needed!Are you Asian? | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 10:09 AM |
| 5 | For the new guys: Give it a shot! Some insights from a noobOne thing that always bothered me being Asian was my parents never overly cared one way or another if I progressed with girls. In fact, it reached the point if I had a girlfriend, they would just be like, "That's nice, did you finish your homework?" | /r/seduction | 23/09/13 07:27 AM |
| 1 | College game problems.You're not being direct enough. Make it clear your interests. | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I've reached the point that I can't have a normal conversation with a girlReceptionist and even then I would occasionally flirt with clients who walked in if they opened or seemed receptive. | /r/seduction | 31/08/13 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I just don't really care about girls anymore...?I'm starting to think I'm an introvert. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 08:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time clubbing last night at a 21+Sound advice. | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 06:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time clubbing last night at a 21+Problem with that is that I'm a lightweight and become incomprehensible. | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 06:15 AM |
| 5 | Texting over summerThen why waste time bro? If you're graduating high school, you're probably from the same area they are meaning it would be easier to set something up. A beach day sounds good (bikinis anyone?). | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 10:06 AM |
| 0 | FR: From Facebook add to F-close in two daysSigh. I've been stalking the girl I used to like and probably reciprocated those feelings back in high school's facebook and it depresses me what could've been. I'm seriously scared/nervous to talk to her like she's going to think, "How bad is his love life that he's crawling back to me?" | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 09:24 AM |
| 6 | FR: From Facebook add to F-close in two daysA buddy of mine is still in college and owns a 3-bedroom 2 bathroom house. Of course he's a little older than me (25ish) but it's an accomplishment considering he's unemployed and goes to school full-time. | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Thought up a possible technique, what do you guys think? [FR]One time at a party, I threw a beer pong ball and missed hitting some girl in the chest with it. She smiled and tossed it back at me, I threw it back at her and hit her friend when she dodged. The two of them had a ping pong dodge ball game with me and introduced themselves. I wish I closed them that night but I was too shy/nervous. | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Don't ignore Facebook!I live in San Francisco and do this often when someone I dislike is the main speaker of a group interaction, otherwise I keep my phone away to show attention and respect. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 10:34 AM |
| 1 | In high school i was a dorky awkward kid and once i got to college i blossomed and became quite the ladies man. AMAAre you still dorky and awkward? Cause I have the same stats as you did and am quite dorky. | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 10:31 AM |
| 2 | As a 5'3 Asian male virgin in his 30s, am I doomed?If it makes you feel better, I'm 5'10 and have incredibly limited experience with girls. I'm also Asian so I get the usual talks from female friends all the time so I ended up tuning them out over time. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Im embarassed to ask but im a 24 year old male and I have no clue on how to officially ask someone to be my girlfriendJust did that today and she still hasn't poked back. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Using facebook instead of getting her number?Pretty much this. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How old are you?Personally, I believe you shouldn't have a relationship in college. The downsides being that by spending time focused on one girl, you miss out on meeting thousands that your school is probably crawling with. Once you graduate, unless your relationship was strong, you gotta start all over with less opportunity. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 06:49 AM |
| 2 | I just realized somethingI used to be a hoverhand and didn't even know that girls hug their friends until college. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 08:29 AM |
| 13 | How old are you?21 and also in college. I'm kinda scared to graduate now that I realize it's easy mode in college. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 11:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm a freshman in college and I've become the campus creeper. How can I change my reputation to a positive one?San Francisco State University? If so, I think I know who you are. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Willing to help beginners out who can't even approach in Southern California (no cost.) Any takers?Come to NorCal and I'm down. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 09:54 AM |
| 2 | This video inspires me (Approach Anxiety)Because he just randomly approached a chick he doesn't know, asked her two questions and got her number, showing how simple it really is. | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 10:46 AM |
| 2 | This video inspires me (Approach Anxiety)For those that don't know, he has a YouTube series where he goes around acting socially awkward in public. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 10:02 AM |
| 1 | College Game: No parties, bars, or clubsThat's my point. You have time to explore nightgame simply cause classes are that easy. Then again I'm a business major, so maybe my classes are just naturally easier than yours. Tell me how this goes. | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 06:27 AM |
| 2 | College Game: No parties, bars, or clubsHey man, I took a CCSF class for summer school. It's easy as hell there, I spent more time talking up the girl next to me than taking down notes, and at least twice a week I would skip class. You can probably guess I got an A. Anyways, here's a warning, the social scene there pretty much sucks. I was thinking of taking some classes for fun there after I graduate college though. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 12:35 PM |
| 2 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some Insights80% of my female friends are through college. And I almost never keep in touch with the other 20%. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 12:20 PM |
| 0 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsThis. I honestly don't believe half of what happens in the FRs I read, but I do believe that there's a guy out there getting laid and that guy could be me in the next FR. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: "Text Game" is almost always an oxymoronWhat if the girls are texting me? Am I friendzoned? | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 10:05 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with getting ignored?21 here and same thing. We grew up in the age where all we do is text someone when we want to speak to them so if we are going after girls between 18 and 25, why not? | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 09:07 AM |
| 2 | I'm a shy, awkward, average looking guy who has slept with over 50 women. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 20. Here is my storyKino is what gets me. I have no problem approaching, no problem getting numbers, no problem holding a conversation, making them laugh, getting them to show IOIs, having them play along with whatever the fuck I'm trying, but I'm so reserved about touching cause of my upbringing that anything beyond a hug seems awkward to me. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 10:59 AM |
| 10 | Where do you go to "get out there" if you are under 21?As a thin Asian guy, I'm going to do this. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 09:58 AM |
| 1 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?I would love to watch this, if only there was a way to film a group of guys sarging and getting rejected without them knowing. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 11:11 AM |
| 9 | 7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (and how to avoid them) | Dating TicketHas happened to me. Makes you realize why girls might not respond to you because if some unattractive chick was texting you non-stop and trying to force conversation on you, you would understand why they wouldn't want you to do the same thing. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Commuter college PUA adviceIt wasn't a bad move, but your intention wasn't made clear. Luckily you're bound to see her again so try to establish something with her next time. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Commuter college PUA adviceHow does that work? She's going to think you want her number solely to get your friend involved with her organization. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 11:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First Ever RejectionShe could have made that up though | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Your friends will hold you back.If your friends don't know what to do, don't push them out of their comfort zone. Ease them out of it. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 12:17 PM |
| 4 | [FR] First house partyIt's a good way to gain experience. You should have closed though. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 09:32 AM |
| 5 | Help! I tried some class-game stuff and I am starting to look like the class idiot, any way to redeem myself for the last three weeks?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females?Although you raise valid points, I say work out and eat healthy anyways cause it's good for you. It doesn't matter if it raises your value or not, but it's better to be healthy than dead. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Calling or Texting? It has become apparent that there many other ways of communication. What are your guys'/girls' opinions?If you have about 5 targets, it's much easier to text them and as they respond to you, you will be busy with other ones. Just don't overdo it and annoy them. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 09:37 AM |
| 3 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?I'm trying this. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How can I be seen as more than a sexual object?Considering how you look, I don't think it's even possible, there will always be a guy out there who views you as a sexual object. However, the good news is a lot of guys will look past that if you have a personality that connects :) | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Girl here and very annoyed with a guy using the pua techniques on meDoes he have no experience with women? Unless you hide it completely, most guys can pick it up. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 08:37 AM |
| -2 | Girls I approach keep asking me this..."My friend actually dared me to approach the love of my life and see how far I can get, wanna take me to my peak?" | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How to gain social capital in collegeExactly. Although the benefits of meeting a lot of people at once do exist (such as at a party, meeting lots of people and seeing them at other parties), the true to build rapport is isolate and let it grow naturally. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 09:37 AM |
| 3 | How to gain social capital in collegeSometimes this can backfire however, a couple weeks ago I saw a dude try to open everyone sitting next to him, only to get repeatedly shut down. It wasn't that he lacked confidence, it was that he lacked manners and acted like he already had high rapport with each person he interacted with. Remember to build it up. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 10:17 AM |
| 2 | How to gain social capital in collegeOne girl constantly asks me why I have so many female friends. Every ten minutes, somebody stops me to talk and every three or four minutes, I bump into someone I say hi to/give a hug. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 10:08 AM |
| 3 | For the love of pickups, don't pulling your phone out to check the time!I have a G-Shock that gets a lot of attention...from other guys with G-Shocks. Recommend a cheap but nice watch that can tie a suit together nicely? | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 08:38 AM |
| 2 | How to gain social capital in collegeI hate mine though cause we barely ever bring girls to our parties. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What are little things you can do that girls like?I'm serious. Most girls wouldn't do shit for a guy unless she found her the slightest bit attractive or he was such a good friend she wanted to keep around but not date. But even then, there's an obvious difference in how you're treated when liked. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 06:37 AM |
| 4 | You've got a reputation, now what?I'm a known flirt on my campus...of 30,000 people. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 07:41 AM |
| 10 | What are little things you can do that girls like?This. If a girl buys you stuff, let's you use her things, asks you when you're free to chill, etc. She's into you. When you do it, it's desperate. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 07:41 AM |
| 3 | how do i get friendzonedTell them, "You're like a sister to me!" and follow up with, "Dude your friend Sara is fucking hot, nice ass titties on that chick, can you hook it up please?" | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 11:02 AM |
| 11 | Girl friendsThe real benefit of having a female friend is that you build huge amounts of confidence around other girls cause you're not shy around them anymore. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 10:50 AM |
| -1 | Fraternity pledge pin.What fraternity is this? | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 10:24 AM |
| 4 | Thank you, Seddit! A girl broke up with me and I couldn't feel better!I'm getting there, if it's not a girl I had a deep, emotional connection with where I can't see my life without them, then why the fuck should I care? | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 08:53 AM |
| 3 | what I've learned with a bitchI got to play with my friend's puppy for like ten minutes and the amount of girls who opened me up just to play with her was astounding. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Where are good places to meet girls at college, outside of a frat?No not sweet, it puts even more pressure on me than I'm used to. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 09:29 AM |
| -2 | Where are good places to meet girls at college, outside of a frat?I've become so popular on my campus, that if I hit on a girl, everyone will know if I succeed or fail -__- | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 07:56 AM |
| 1 | When to hugI do them right when I leave. | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 08:19 AM |
| 3 | When I dress down I pull more chicks, anyone else?Maybe you have really nice legs so the shorts extenuate them. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How to be charismatic?Everyone knows me as the charismatic one. Truth is, I watched a lot of pro-wrestling growing up and mimic by favorite performers like The Rock and Stone Cold, so with a persona that I created, I come off as larger than life with whatever I do. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 08:07 AM |
| 5 | Is it ever "to late" to approach?Hell yeah! Get it in! | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Is it ever "to late" to approach?Sit next to her anyway. Be alpha. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever "to late" to approach?Why don't you just sit next to her and start talking to her? | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:16 AM |
| 1 | how to get numbers of girls you kinda know?I usually grab their phone, call myself, and then pick up. If they have an iPhone with emoji enabled, I add a heart to my contact name. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How old is everyone here?But think of how experienced he'll be by 16. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:50 AM |
| 9 | How old is everyone here?Even if you're 14, you should go out there and sarge anyways. Hell you're at an advantage, you have 4 years of high school to meet girls, and then 4 more years of college to meet more. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Don't put too much emphasis on getting the number.I'm annoyed cause there's a good chance I really won't see her again. I met a wonderful girl yesterday, but never got her number so I'm unsure if I'll ever see her again. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Height and seducing women?Us Asians tend to compensate for our lack of physical attractiveness with mental and social attractiveness. Also we most likely have a hidden talent. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Height and seducing women?As a fellow 5'10 guy, I feel like girls taller than me are attracted to me more than shorter ones -___- | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 08:09 AM |
| 1 | I, an AFC, *had* oneitis. You guys were right all along.He is an AFC or shall I say an Awesome Fucking Champ. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Walking through campus today i realized,No lie. As a senior in college, I was so used to having someone I knew in each of my classes to small talk but one of my classes had no one I knew. The first guy who sat next to me got both small talk, a tic-tac-toe game, a "that one chick is cute" note passed, and ended up being my project partner in less than 20 minutes. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Walking through campus today i realized,Last week, a girl approached me to compliment my Angry Birds shirt. I said "Thank you!" and she left. I feel stupid for not continuing the conversation because I could have easily used the common interest to my advantage. However, damn the confidence boost I had knowing a cute girl would do that to me. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 08:41 AM |
| 1 | how can i pick up cool guy friends?Are you in school? Look for the coolest guy in class. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone here tried gaming for the first time and found out that they were fucking amazing at it?This. He doesn't even want to be there so it's obvious he doesn't care if he meets these girls or not. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 06:35 AM |
| 3 | College protip: know one girl in every sorority if your campus has a Greek system.Main reason I don't chase sorority girls. There's also the fact you know they're brother fraternities took turns with them. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Kino escalation in classHow did you talk to her without getting her name? | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Mini-FR #Close but she forgot to save her number... What now? (High School)Usually once they put their number in, I give them a quick call or text with something playful. Use this as a learning experience. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 08:29 AM |
| 7 | Hiding evidence of your average frustrated chumpness on facebookThis is cringeworthy. Accept the friend request, I promise you she won't care if you don't have any pictures or activity going on. Hell, I don't have any recently tagged pics of me either, but there's still a decent amount of people posting on my wall each week. In fact, care more about your in-person interactions with her and how you can spend time with her so that she can write on your wall and be tagged in pics with you at parties/clubs. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I realized something crucial today, I am not funny.I make situational jokes when I'm around girls cause there ain't no way my "Shooting the shit with my boys" humor is going to work with them. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 09:01 AM |
| 2 | The greatest thing about abundance mentality.I want the abundance mentality, every single failure I can account to my oneitis tendency. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 08:31 AM |
| 1 | How NOT to chat up women (with real example)This could work if he was being sarcastic. Please tell me he's being sarcastic! | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Tips for getting freshman?Shouldn't you still be taking GE courses? Wouldn't there be a plentiful of them in your classes? | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Community CollegeIf you have so much free time, why not get a job? Maybe you could meet coworkers who will be your best friends. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Community CollegeIf you like a certain race, join the ethnicity club and make it obvious you want to meet chicks. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Community CollegeTerrible "I just came here for class but now I really want to go home" atmosphere, also the conditions and buildings looked much older and depressing compared to my college. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Community CollegePretty much this. Day 1 is when you make friends, Day 2 onwards is when you seek girls cause least you have someone to comfort you when you fail. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Community CollegeI practiced daygame at community college once, not a pretty sight and made me give up for a bit. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Trend I've Noticed - Are more guys hitting the gym now than ever before?I would have loved to attend the gyms back in 2004-2008 then. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm new to college this week, any advice? I'm pretty shy.Not the community college I visited, everyone was in their own bubble and wouldn't give you the time of day. But I guess different locations play a factor. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Changing someone's opinion/impression of youIt happens. I became really close with my group of friends as a beta so they're always going to view me that way cause that's who they're comfortable with. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Does being fit help a lot?I think it works if you also have a decent face. I'm very fit (aside from chicken legs) and have an amazing upperbody but I think my face detracts from it so much I never get any action. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 09:05 AM |
| 0 | Texting questionAsk her if you can touch them. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 08:47 AM |
| 6 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?What I do is surround myself with lots of female friends that I occasionally flirt with so that when others look at me, they assume I've been with plenty of girls. Then I use the fake confidence and turn it into real confidence. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 06:23 AM |
| 1 | I constantly feel that I'm too boring to have a girlfriend.I know how you feel. I had to start drinking just so parties don't feel boring to me. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Bros before Hoes, a question about the rule.There's also the possibility you're his only real friend and he feels jealous that you would choose a girl over him. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Bros before Hoes, a question about the rule.He's probably in love with you | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 09:04 PM |
| 3 | School's Coming UpWhat I did was start early. If you have summer school, you can easily meet girls during their orientation. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Just got braces, any advice on getting over them?What I like to do is choose colors that match the upcoming holiday. Orange for Halloween, Red & Green for Christmas, Pink for Valentine's, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Just got braces, any advice on getting over them?The bartender didn't even think I was old enough to buy cigs yet. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 08:19 AM |
| 5 | Just got braces, any advice on getting over them?I'm 21 and in college with braces. No one believes I'm in college. That's how rough it can be. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 07:10 AM |
| 0 | A Question from a Pessimistic LadyTo be fair, most of the guys who are looking for more than sex probably wouldn't be subscribed here. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 07:05 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Daygame from a noob..3 number closes!As a fellow Asian guy, how did it feel getting at girls of different races? It's the main reason I usually don't do it. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do I only get AA around one specific woman?She's the one you definitely want to be with. Use her as your standard to do better. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 01:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you get past being a big guy?r/fitness Then when you look good, get some clothes that match. Bam! Instant confidence boost. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 09:24 AM |
| 7 | Text ExchangeBut you haven't seen her yet? | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Being Fun Vs Being the JokeThis is my problem, I always come off as the butt of the joke rather than the one telling the joke. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Fun games to play with your wingman instead of boringly approaching?The way I learned it was, remember the bottom card, have them choose a card in the middle to put to the bottom. Carefully shuffle it until they say stop, then look for the bottom card and choose the card right before it. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Fun games to play with your wingman instead of boringly approaching?I like to use card counting tricks since they're easy and can amaze girls who don't realize the math required to make them work. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 06:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First FR at a friend's Birthday PartyWalk up to any girl at all and just start dancing. Even if you suck, it's better to try than to go beta. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?The first girl I ever tried to date is my consultant when it comes to which girls to get at. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:37 AM |
| 1 | 10 Mistakes I Made in CollegeAw screw it, I'm joining. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 09:49 AM |
| 2 | 10 Mistakes I Made in CollegeIt's hard to hit on the girls at the gym though, even harder to take one of the classes without everyone questioning your sexuality. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 06:39 AM |
| 2 | 10 Mistakes I Made in CollegeEntering my last year of college, where the hell were you my last three years? | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 06:31 AM |
| 6 | For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)?I just finished three years of college and realized this is probably the best chance to get with someone and have yet to. Why was I such an ignorant youth in my first few years? | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What have you lost?Girl cause she had a boyfriend. Girl cause I didn't want to suffer from oneitis when she lost interest. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 07:29 AM |
| 1 | How to stay out of the "creep zone".I've always wondered if the kino phase would ever creep a girl out. Hell making eye contact in the first place always makes me think I'm creeping her out. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Why you should never ask about how to get any one girl (singular)Of course not, the goal is to find a girl better than the one in my head so comparisons should end by then. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Why you should never ask about how to get any one girl (singular)I like to keep a "Dream Girl" that I use as my imaginary goal. Such as, sure I may not ever get with her, but if I improve myself I could find a girl of equal or even greater value than her. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 03:53 AM |
| 1 | My first [FR]. 3 approaches and 1 #Close. Did really well for my first time out!I'm trying the quarterback trick and it loses its effect after a while. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 08:14 AM |
| 2 | What exactly does a wingman do?How the hell did I miss that? | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 06:16 AM |
| 0 | [FR] #-close. This is for you new guys out there who need to take baby steps in any social situation.You're Asian and got with a 8.5HB? Show me your ways! | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Best ways to socialize at a party.The host pregamed at a friends place and I know their roommate well enough to just walk in | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 12:11 AM |
| 9 | Best ways to socialize at a party.No wonder I'm so popular at parties, I'm the only person who ever comes on time. There have been times people confused me with the host since I've been to parties before the host showed up. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.At least three times a week due to class, possibly everyday depending on who I hang out with. I've tried treating her like any other girl but I always end up coming off as awkward and a bit weird around her. The worse part was when we as a group had a kickback and did our goodbye hugs to each other, me and her just sorta stared at each other and walked away. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.Okay the thing is, now I feel like it's better if I just move on since it doesn't even feel like I will ever have a chance with her again. The circumstances that separated us still exist and won't go away anytime soon. However, when I do see her she acts very awkward around me and is very inconsistent with her behavior toward me. How do I get her to just stop cause I do still want to be friends with her. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.Eh there's nothing I can do about it now. If a situation like this were to arise again, what do I do? | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.You still got farther than I did, my kino level never reached hook-up levels. | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.What's your situation brother? | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.Eh whatever, it's too late. Besides according to my friends, she wanted to be the one who makes the move. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Tip: Had a girls interest but lost it? Just go away.Where the fuck were you with this advice two months ago? I had a girl who wouldn't leave me the fuck alone and was talking to me nonstop and trying her hardest to get my attention. I was literally waiting until things would escalate and that I would be able to get her, but right when we were reaching that moment...she stopped talking to me. Now we're super awkward around each other despite the fact we have the same group of friends. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you actually annoy the girl?To be honest, I don't think at the moment I do things, I just do them. I think my logic at the time was, "She's annoyed at me, let's not annoy her more by saying hello!" | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 04:53 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you actually annoy the girl?Okay I've successfully went one day without talking to her, but I bumped into her on campus today. I didn't say "Hi" back to her though, I feel like that was a mistake. | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 01:40 AM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMAI'm glad Kong hasn't had any rejections :) | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 06:10 AM |
| 1 | We are Simple Pickup AMABe honest, how many times has Kong won a girl over Jesse or Jason? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 05:56 AM |
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