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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESmadhunnybee/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:46 AM
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Saying you're bi or gay could've ruined your life back in the day. Now it doesn't mean anything and people can say it, so they're saying it. The number of gay people hasn't really changed on average, and I don't believe the majority of people who claim to be bi actually aren't. If you are attracted to both men and women, you are by definition bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:02 PM
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That's hardly the case. There's no female hivemind. It's possible one of the friends pointed out something about the man in question that the other girl didn't see before. Changing your mind isn't groupthink. My friends have no saying in my choice of partners, if you're asking about personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:02 AM
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True, but very fun to watch. I also admire his love for cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:03 PM
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Acting as if your daughter is some fragile flower is a pretty bad move. Giving her boyfriends panic attacks is as well. It's made to look funny in movies but it really isn't. Overbearing fathers who don't see their daughters are human being usually end up raising incapable/overly self assured daughters. My dad personally taught me to always fight my own battles and not expect the world to fight them for me. He was gonna do it if it came to that, but he always let me fix my own shit first. He nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:21 PM
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He looks like a rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:31 PM
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Louis Litt from Suits. Great character, by the way. Just purely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:49 AM
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Honestly, at this point it isn't up to the structure of society. Technically speaking, we're all pretty equal. There is prejudice, of course. But prejudice is not the direct cause of current standards/norms but rather past ones. Every system has its flaws, although some have more of those than others. However, if you live in a country where human rights are being respected, it's really only up to the general population to get rid of their prejudice. That doesn't happen quickly and some people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:45 AM
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It's as stupid as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:52 AM
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Time of day - any, aside from late night. Type of establishment - anywhere you can talk, within the norms of common decency. That means no movies or loud nightclubs. A quieter place where you can get drinks is fine. Any form of art establishment where you can passively observe the art in question is good (art gallery, museum..). Activity - it's better if it isn't a skill based one. Nobody wants to compete or do hard work on a first date. Just talking or any light activity that allows for talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:31 PM
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I wouldn't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:27 PM
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Well, everything except for the children. Company for one. Fun and all that. Whatever you're looking for. Relationships are usually better when there's no kids around and there's fewer things to worry about. I'd like to keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:25 AM
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Which is why I gave you the closest I have done to what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:11 PM
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So, I stated it. Doesn't mean I was dying to state it and did it for a reaction. Bragging is when you state something over and over because you're very proud of it. Every brag is a statement, but not every statement is a brag. I'm admitting I have an ego. Not that I need to bolster it at other's expense. That's not a very good way to feed your ego, and more often than not, it's a clear sign of a fragile ego. The reason I have said that in an argument is because the argument was about how charmin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:12 PM
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It was part of the question. As you can check for yourself, if you feel so interested in my bragging habits, I rarely talk about the number of people I've had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:08 PM
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Am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:00 PM
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So, I have to be on the losing end of this made-up dynamic to answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:39 PM
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No, I have not been there. I've never set foot outside of Europe. Maybe the women around you have the mental age of a high school student, in which case you might wanna change that. Women surely do not use makeup to win arguments. Them wearing makeup to be attractive does not imply wearing makeup will get them to win a fight unrelated to makeup. If they're arguing over who has the better makeup skills, sure. Otherwise, that just doesn't make sense. Since you asked directly about looks winning ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:43 PM
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No, I should not post it there. You asked if women here if they ever use the argument. I simply answered. Your first mistake is believing women's lives revolve around how attractive men find them. Your second mistake is that there is no war to be won, not every debate is part of a bigger feud. Women aren't all petty and trying to get back at each other. You're mixing apples and oranges in attempt to prove women do it. Debating skills and looks are separate categories. Also, the "bitchy" mean gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:30 PM
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That's just pure idiocy and not the viewpoint generally accepted by most. You having allegedly seen this happen every now and then says nothing about the way women argue, unless we're talking about high school girls from 20 years ago in which case I might agree. I have, on some instances told men who claimed they were very badass that I've had sex with more straight women than them, but in all of those instances the person in question was going on and on about how charming they were which is dir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:06 PM
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Monkeys also lack the skill and development we, the better primates have attained. What monkeys do is hardly of any noteworthy value in modern society. Also, while I get what you're trying to say about mutual benetif and such - bees and plants are not the same as humans and humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:50 PM
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Good to know the term. I would have sex with myself any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:20 PM
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When I say intelligence, I mean the ability to learn and understand new information with a certian efficiency. I also have general knowledge as a requirement, and yes, that means the ability to talk about quantum physics, history and such. However, I value the ability to understand more than I value what they know as of now. I don't quite like the term emotional intelligence as it's a bit too abstract to be seen as a valid variable. It's a term that's tossed around often, yet many of the people …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:01 PM
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Neither. I was implying that I would personally not enjoy the housewife lifestyle and that I do not wish to be a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:35 PM
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That makes sense. I live in the Southeast of Europe and people here are family oriented too. There is some shame in a man (or a woman) being bad to their families too. However, in a large part of the world that's just not the case. Or at least, when speaking of Western culture. I'm gonna argue that the US has always been more sexist than the Balkans which is where I am. We don't even have those debates here. My grandma worked a full time job and had every right men had. She chose to get married …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:24 PM
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Well, you don't lack control technically speaking. You chose to remove control from your hands and submit instead. Kind of like smoking - a smoker had the choice to be free of addiction or to smoke. They chose to take their own control away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:40 PM
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The rights to own land, hold a job and generally choose her path in life. Also the reason divorce rates are going up. There's actually something else out there aside for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:16 AM
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Really? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:13 AM
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That's not true. It's objectively a huge gamble, and a bad one at that. Your entire life fully depends on how your husband is gonna turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:01 PM
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You don't need a study to figure out that having rights, options and generally living comfortably is better than the alternative. Depression and such weren't things people saw as a real issue until very recently. You're missing the point. Not having a choice doesn't mean they didn't want it either. The idea was for women to have the actual choice and decide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:58 PM
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Good times allow for secondary issues to be explored. First comes survival, and then comes comfort. Given we've ensured survival and the common citizen has much more of a voice than back in the day, as well as the fact we can now store data easily all contribute to the way the situation may look. Women also didn't have much of a choice back in the day, for the economic reasons I mentioned. The idea of happiness was also somewhat different - it meant nothing was wrong. Now we focus more on how pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:16 PM
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I'm all set - I have a partner and the thought of children alone makes me a little bit ill. That's personal. But anyway you look at it, generally speaking, you're still better off investing in yourself rather than someone else. Intelligent, educated women are also more likely to end up with intelligent educated men. Marrying young is also getting less and less popular as we speak, as people tend to think differently nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:57 PM
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So can being a housewife, with a greater risk of it breaking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:43 PM
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Here's the thing - investing in a decent education or skills you can get paid for, while not guaranteed to pay off at first, stays with you forever and it can be used again even if you lose a job or two. Investing into someone else, on the other hand loses all value once things go wrong and you're left with nothing. Would you let whether or not you starve to death depend on someone else, no matter how much you think you love each other? Would you feel good about yourself doing it and knowing tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:41 PM
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That's a gamble. Also, there's the issue of not wanting to be a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:32 PM
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Are you suggesting this model for women only or in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:30 PM
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Hell no. Unless you're just hitting puberty...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:56 AM
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I would suggest you don't slut shame yourself like that. It's okay, you haven't done anything wrong. Lying about it or beating yourself up is much worse than just living with the fact, although in my opinion there is absolutely no past mistake to bear with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:23 PM
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This may come off as weird in English, but where I'm from people love "straight legs" in both men and women . It basically means well shaped legs and it's a compliment older people give.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:52 PM
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The existence of multiple choices doesn't cancel out the possibility of still going with the primary one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:03 PM
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There is no evidence? Your kid is likely to look like you. You'll see parts of yourself in them. Also, paternity tests exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:10 PM
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Invalid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:08 PM
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Bullshit. Nearly every parent has the instinct to protect their offspring so that their genetic material can be passed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:21 PM
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Facts can be proven as true. Prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:06 PM
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Yes, simplistic generalities are inaccurate, exaggerated and often abused. What boys seem to be getting out of the whole alpha/beta/*insert Greek letter* thing is a gross one-sided ideal of who they should be and contrary to popular belief, trying to be an "alpha" doesn't make you into a better man. Labeling yourself as the Greek letter that fits your level of masculinity is as immature as it's useless. We're not dogs and we shouldn't want to be. We're way past relying on our animal instincts so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 11:50 AM
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You just generalized half the population into one single character. Is there anything really bad about wanting an exciting career? Were you as a man automatically denied one or did your life choices do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 11:36 AM
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Where I am, you have two options. You can go to a public hospital for almost no money at all (two bucks maybe) but public hospitals are crappy. You can also pay a fortune to a private one and have a better experience. In any case, the public hospital will diagonose you just fine, you just might wait in line and the conditions might not be great. Yet, even though it's very close to free, many men are still ashamed to go visit a doctor. Now, I like how you assume the doctor won't have the answers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:01 PM
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The pride of not needing medical help. Seriously, there's nothing to be ashamed of if you need to see a doctor. I don't know why many men would rather suffer for months than see a doctor once.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:58 AM
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Actually, I'd think I should probably leave her alone in your place, assuming she really just changed her expression because of me. I'm not a man in any case. On the other hand, I have a constant resting bitch face myself and it's not because I want to avoid getting attention. It's just my face and I've always had a rude smug expression for no reason at all. Maybe many of these women aren't doing it to send you a message. They could be in a bad mood. They could be in a neutral mood like I am. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:30 AM
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Oh I don't care how good looking he is, I'm not dating a deadbeat. Damaged isn't sexy, especially when he brought it upon himself. I honestly have no idea why and how being damaged is attractive. I can see myself feeling sorry for someone who was just very unfortunate in life, which is not to be mistaken with me being attracted to them. However, what's there to feel sorry about someone who clearly, willingly decided to make 100 kids, get no education or usable skills and sell drugs for a living?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:24 AM
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If the parent who has custody of the child doesn't poison their child by speaking ill of their other parent and if the other parent is consistently present in the child's life, that would be okay. However, I feel like this rarely happens. After all, if both partnets were reasonable most of the time, there wouldn't be so many divorces. It's also hard not to be hateful towards your ex if they cheated on you or abused you in any way. I believe the ideal divorce situation is when both parents just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:14 PM
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Women, like men watch porn to get off. What do you expect? A complex reason behind women watching porn involving quantum mechanics? I do not watch porn because it's cheap looking. It looks disgusting, unrealistic and low-budget. People need to learn how to be vulgar without looking cheap. If I were to direct a porno, it would be better visually and there would be less screaming and abuse for the sake of an orgasm. Let's be honest, do you people scream like idiots when you have sex? Do you make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:08 PM
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Gee, I couldn't care less. Being pretty is a good thing and dating someone pretty is also a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:41 PM
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Yes, for sure. Being single is neutral, while being in a crappy relationship is, well crappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:40 PM
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Most of the women who like "bad boys" are too young to be called women. Dating a criminal is a generally bad move, legally or otherwise. I feel like you're describing the preferences of a 15yo girl who wants to make out with the edgy kid. I hate the alpha/beta division, but I'll use it for argument's sake. I would not even think of dating someone who calls himself an "alpha" and if I were to somehow end up with someone who exibits the traits, the relationship would very quickly turn into a pissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:10 AM
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Times are changing. In some ways for the better and in others for the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:01 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:29 PM
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Alright. Random historical trinkets. My god, you oversimplify things worse than a 7th grade physics texbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:28 PM
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Some good things you can find in a pawn shop and wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:22 PM
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Nobody is like a car. Being sexually attractive isn't the only thing that gives a person value. Relationships aren't as transactional as buying a car and there's more factors to them. Unless, of course you're getting into an arranged marriage which is not something we do where I come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:09 PM
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And what exactly are those opinions based on? Generic models of women from stories? A couple of women you know? In any case, it's an outrageous generalization. So women have no value aside from sex, but if they do work towards gaining value, you don't like that? The car analogy is bullshit because unlike cars, women don't have owners. The reason the world as we know it has mainly been built by men is because women weren't allowed in those fields for the most part. I also personally don't give a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:57 PM
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Men tend to have very low standards. That means they would have sex with a wider range of women, which is why they fantasize about all kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:54 PM
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Unlike in the movies, opposite characters rarely work together. You're going to wanna be with someone who shares at least part of your interests and opinions. I'd say you shouldn't look for a dude whose interests and opinions you can't stand. I personally hate the 'masculine' types of men. By masculine, I mean people whose only character trait is that they're male and they base all of their interests on the generic image of a man. It's more boyish than it's masculine in reality. Look for a menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:47 PM
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Dude, not wanting to date a certain type of person is all good, but stop acting like TRP is all about ending the opression of men or whatnot. Here, let me quote you some things from TRP subreddit: "Women are creatures that live in the present, meaning they are incapable of taking ownership of their past and incapable of iterating and premeditate [..ing] the future consequences of their actions." "Because women are more dependent on men for survival than vice versa, they have collectively develop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:50 PM
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That put a bad image in my head. I'd probably tell him something equally as disgusting or maybe worse. Maybe talk about skinning his scrotum and then making a phone case out of it. I would probaby try to make him miserable if he's being disgusting and disrespectful, but I wouldn't feel violated or scared or any of that. The trick is to be more disgusting than the person making unwanted sexual moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:53 AM
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Did I ever say men cannot be victimized by women? Now that's all peachy, but none of it is common sense. You should pick your partners carefully, but the chances of a random single mother ruining your entire life are not that high since single mothers aren't usually crazy or evil. There's of course some other things TRP is about...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:36 AM
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No, I want to avoid men whose opinions and ideas, while very well presented, are far from common sense. Stop playing the victim in situations where it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:49 PM
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Exactly. TRP has no impact on my life whatsoever. I'd like to keep it that way for the sole reason I don't agree with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 01:32 PM
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Their partner is a grown adult who can take care of himself. Children are a responsibility, they depend on their guardian for everything. You can't just leave them because they will not be able to survive on their own. Why is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:16 PM
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Both parents are educated and with high paying jobs. My mother is mildly religious and my father is not. They both used to be involved in politics, but they're not far-right or far-left. They do not apply any gender roles to their marriage. They're anti-socialist/communist in every way but one - religion should have no business in politics. Economically, they're right leaning but morally they're central left. They don't like promiscuity much, applying to both men and women. They believe it can o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:13 PM
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For me to even consider it, he would need to be smart. He doesn't have to have a degree but he needs to have general knowlegde on different topics and be a logical person. I don't make decisions based on feelings and I don't wish to deal with someone who does. This might be strange, but I refuse to date someone who votes for the political party I hate. It's a deal breaker. You can't vote for people with the mental capacities of a flamingo with learning disabilities and be attractive. Also, there…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:23 AM
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Maybe they just aren't happy with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:46 PM
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I would rather shoot myself in both feet than be a housewife and have a couple of kids. The very idea of it makes me slightly ill. On that note, MGTOW is one of the least qualified communities when it comes to deciding what makes women happy. Now, I'm sure there are many women out there who really only want a family, but that doesn't make pooping out babies the ultimate life goal for everyone. My personal advice to any woman is not to be a housewife. Housewives have no money of their own therefo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:44 PM
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A date can signify anything between boredom and interest. It means close to nothing to me. Overthinking first dates is bad. I can agree to a date because I'm interested or because I'm bored. I most definitely wouldn't give a fuck about someone I just agreed to go on a first date with, unless I know them well enough from before. Honestly I can't tell. Depends. If someone thinks we're soulmates after a day of talking, that would be pretty weird. I don't expect anything and I always offer to pay. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:07 PM
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Umm, sounds like a bad girlfriend to me, assuming she is indeed disgusted and that was the reason she cheated on you. Well, whatever the reason was - cheating makes you a bad girlfriend/boyfriend. I can't speak for half of the population, but I don't lose my attraction to people when they open up, unless of course they tell me they like to have sex with cows or that they killed their twin brother or something. No woman who has shared such details about her relationships with me has ever remotely…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:08 PM
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Women joining the workforce gave them the freedom to date, marry and have children as they please and if they please. Now, if the average man can't form a relationship with a woman who won't die of hunger without him, maybe the average man needs to work on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:37 AM
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That obviously shouldn't be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 11:23 AM
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Oh no. I'm very far from enjoying rape fantasies. Honestly it makes me a little bit ill just thinking about it. I have heard that a large number of women do actually find that stuff sexy, but definitely not all women. Religios opression wise, I'm not sure about this particular case but many of the hardcore Christians I know are some of the most perverse and sexually messed up people imaginable. There was the teenage Christian boy I went to school with and all he would talk about was questionable…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:06 PM
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Well they shouldn't have studied liberal arts in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:54 PM
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I'm gonna admit socialist ideas are on the rise in North America, but that's only because the people you described have never really seen socialism. It sounds good in theory with all the stories of equality and what not, but in reality it's the furthest away from equality and fairness you can possibly get. If everyone (except the party) gets the same reward for different tasks, it means your hard work and excellence has no value whatsoever. Now, ex-Yugoslavia was a mild case for its time and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 07:44 AM
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So does rejection in its own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:40 PM
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Rejection isn't terminal. Murder kiiind of is. I'm as qualified at deciding that murder causes death as the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:23 PM
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I am not implying that men do not experience problems other than rejection. I'm implying rejection itself isn't such a relevant issue. Men obviously experience assault too, as well as many other issues. I was in fact implying that men face worse things than rejection and those are the things we should aim to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:59 PM
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Sounds like you guys depend on validation too much. You should learn how to let things go every now and then because true ego trips come from not giving a rat's ass about how people see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:47 PM
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How did you come to the conclusion I thought that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:42 PM
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So, what exactly is the solution to this very big problem of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:36 PM
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Nope, I'm just so self absorbed I don't even care about it. I was rejected in front of a live audience, in a theater hall a couple of years back. I kind of laughed about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:35 PM
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Of course they are. Those are objectively bad things (much worse than rejection) that affect all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:28 PM
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Dude, I've been rejected myself. Guess what - I lived. I'm sure it hurts your feelings but that's just how it is. Sometimes other people don't cooperate with our wishes and that's not their fault. They do what's best for them and we do what's best for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:26 PM
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Gee man, I don't speak for all women in the world. I have never pulled any of that crap as I do not enjoy being disrespected. Of course some man named Chad doesn't owe me shit. And no, I'm not a 6 and I have already found a guy who cares about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:20 PM
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Wait, do you think I'm a socialist? I come from an ex-socialist country and I know very well how bad socialism is. What's even worse is what comes after socialism, which is a very broken nation, stuck halfway in between two economic models with some people sucking the budget dry from within while others still worship their socialist overlord. Matter of fact, my parents got attacked on the streets for even considering a more than one party system and they threw objects at my mother while she gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:15 PM
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I'm well aware of all that. I didn't imagine a society where women aren't accountable for anything, but rather one where they're held accountable only for the things which are their fault. I never believed the idea you can change a compete psychopath and violent criminal. What I mean was - fight crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:31 PM
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I hope he sells those ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:17 PM
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Kids can be cruel but I highly doubt most adults would avoid people because of looks. Could it have been social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:04 PM
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Of course we don't live in that world and it's because of mentalities like yours that we won't get to. What do you mean hug a thug? I'd make prisons 10 times more horrible and I'd have child molesters executed. That's how you discourage crime. You set an example and keep setting more examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:03 PM
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If there's less crime, there will be less crime for men too. It's not victim blaming to teach your daughter that but have in mind you won't always be there for her, so the safer bet her is to find better ways to fight crime. Criminals are going to commit crime but they should be prosecuted. It's not less delusional to accept everything that's wrong and let the target victim do all the work. It's just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:59 PM
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Like what? Looks? Get a plastic surgery or find a woman who likes the way you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:55 PM
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Excuse me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:54 PM
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It is possible, but it's far from probable. While it's possible in theory that every woman you stumbled upon was wrong, it's much more likely that you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:33 PM
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It is possible, but it's far from probable. While it's possible in theory that every woman you stumbled upon was wrong, it's much more likely that you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:33 PM
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It is possible, but it's far from probable. While it's possible in theory that every woman you stumbled upon was wrong, it's much more likely that you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:33 PM
1

How did you come to that conclusion sir? I'd love to keep talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:31 PM
1

How did you come to that conclusion sir? I'd love to talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:31 PM
1

For their entire life, they were doing something wrong. At the middle of it, they figured they'd hate women for it but they still continued to do something wrong. Maybe it has nothing to do with their passionate hatred. With all of that being said, hating women won't help. It might not be the sole reason for rejection, but it decreases your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:37 PM
1

Again, I don't. It's not really a dating problem. It's an insult like any other - meant to offend and disgust. When said to my face, I respond to it the way I respond to any other insult. I can sleep with however many people I want to (assuming they want it too) and someone else's opinion on it really doesn't concern me. Legally, unless they're my commited partner or parent while I'm underage, it's none of their business. Why do you assume I care about irrelevant issues when they concern women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:25 PM
2

Oh I don't personally. I feel the same way about the opposite scenario. Sexual preferences are well, preferences. Nobody owes you anything. You're under no obligation to find a fat woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:12 PM
1

Yes. That is a legitimate issue. We should work towards getting rid of said issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:53 PM
2

Because it sells. Stories of beating all odds and love being stronger than anything are very popular because it doesn't happen so often in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:28 PM
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I hope you'll find one that agrees with your way of thinking. And yes, couples that have nothing in common don't usually end well. It's made to seem romantic in stories but it really isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:22 PM
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That's the stereotype. It seems to be changing to, which is good. I personally enjoy figuring out machinery and I also don't like stereotypical macho men. Hence, I'm studying engineering (there are lots of women doing the same thing) and I'm in a relationship with someone who shares my values and opinions. Going after polar oposites of yourself isn't a very good move. Opposites do not attract in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:13 PM
1

I'm assuming you're a woman then. So, aren't there men with similar hobbies and opinions as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:04 PM
1

Well, I'm sure there are women who have similar opinions and hobbies as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:01 PM
2

Looks to me like you've never met a woman that isn't shallow in your life. That, or you generalize women into one big fat shallow mess. Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes in prison - a place full of violent criminals. It's true that most rape victims are men, however most of their rapists are also men and it's set in a prison. Prisons function separately from the rest of society and have no impact on it whatsoever. Well, tell me one valid reason why rejection is an issue we shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:36 PM
1

I understand what you mean, but I don't think women should go through all of these battle strategies in order to safely engage in a casual activity. It's on men, social norms and law enforcement. I for one love battle strategies. I have fun designing them and I'm not gonna lie - they give me ego trips. But they shouldn't be something anyone should do on a daily basis for their own well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:32 PM
1

It doesn't, the same way someone telling you you have schizophrenia doesn't disprove the realness of your imaginary friends to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:20 PM
1

If you see women as the enemy, you'll never get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:14 PM
7

And what is she supposed to do differently? Don't get me wrong. I do not fear for my safety one bit, but that isn't the case for most women and it doesn't have to be linked to dating at all. Many women are afraid of walking home from work at night and that has nothing to do with dating. It isn't the choice to walk through a certain alley the victim made that causes the incident. The direct cause of the incident is the person commiting the robbery/assault/murder. Legally speaking and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:59 PM
3

It seems to me as if lonely men create them by trying go make a transaction out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:56 PM
12

Who creates the league? Is there a law that says you are only allowed to date people of a certain social status? Nobody owes you anything and the moment you understand that, you will begin to improve in all fields. If you don't like the way you are now, change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:48 PM
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Yet, both the average and and the average woman don't like being ghosted, getting cheated on, being degraded one way or another... Both want to feel comfortable around that person, they want happiness and loyalty as well as good fun. The issue is that the man you're descrining hasn't learned how to get there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:28 PM
1

Nope. I don't flirt. I find it tacky. I have chats with people and not the teasing small talk kind. Then I ask straight up if they want to take it to the next level or not. It's important not to be a douche here and not to be creepy. Respect boundaries. Or well, I used to do that. I'm in a commited relationship now. Honestly, I'm not sure if it would work for guys, as you might get straight up slapped in the face if you ask someone if they wish to fornicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:25 PM
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Oh please. Men and women aren't so different. We all have similar lives. We eat, we sleep, we go to work. We enjoy spending our free time wity friends or in front of a screen. We like it when we do a job well and we don't like it when we fail. Really there's more things that are similar about the lives of men and women than there are things that can't compare. With all due respect, if your entire personality is based off your gender stereotype, you probably aren't a great person. Stop playing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:15 PM
2

This isn't the only type of person who wouldn't make a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:19 PM
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Correct. But, I do believe that the topic of conversation was relationships. Neurotic people do not make good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:16 PM
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Oh, he would be interesting as a movie character, but unbearable in real life. Goofy people are fun in theory, but it gets really old really quickly. I know this absolutely batshit crazy guy from my hometown. People love to talk about him and the crazy things he does because it's interesting, but being next to him for more than one hour is not very far from torture. While he is quite a character, he is irresponsible, annoying and kind of evil. The goofiness also gets really boring after some tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:10 PM
2

I mean, women do tend to gossip about each other a lot. We've all seen it and we've all been friends with someone who talks about other people to us and then probably talks about us to them. It doesn't matter, but it's something that happens a lot which means there was a high chance some woman was really talking about her. I hope she stops giving a damn though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:34 PM
2

Programming is really cool, by the way. Useful too. Woodworking sounds super boring. Also what is mauve?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:22 PM
2

It's the natural response but it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:21 PM
1

Glad I could help a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:37 PM
1

I guess it depends on the woman. I personally don't expect my partner to provide for me, but he shouldn't expect me do to the typical wifey stuff. I obviously don't want to be with a deadbeat I'll have to carry on my back either. Which is why I try not to be a deadbeat myself. My family is pretty well off and so is my boyfriend's. I'm currently at college, studying engineering and I expect to make a decent amount of money in the future. I don't really care if my boyfriend uses my credit card to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:31 PM
3

So, what all of you are saying is that people are absolute assholes. I guess I could somewhat agree with that. Now then, for the question. I dislike the way girls bully other girls in school. Before I get into that, let me clarify that I dislike all forms of bullying. However, while boys beat each other up and more often than not forget about it later, girls torture other girls mentally by making them believe they are the biggest losers to ever grace the Earth. This kind of bullying often leaves…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 04:36 PM
2

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:39 PM
2

I have nothing against legos. It's actually pretty fun and it's harmless.. If you wanna play with them, go ahead. I am also female. Therefore, your statement that no girl would be remotely interested in you if you did that is incorrect. Keywords: no girl. I'm not talking about all or most girls here, as I would have no way of knowing that. On that note, I would have an issue with some other hobbies. Something along the lines of taxidermy or torturing small animals. You get the point - questionab…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:27 AM
1

To me, a confident person is one who is mature, well-developed as a person and isn't afraid to stand up for what they think is right. You can act confident as a teenager or with the mental state of a teenager, but that's nothing more than an image as a person who hasn't even developed their opinions yet cannot possibly be confident about said opinions or lack thereof. What a confident guy would do, that the other less confident one won't is be a real human when trying to hit on somebody (in sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:17 AM
1

I'm older than 15, so no. I am not attracted to bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:56 AM
1

And what are your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:28 PM
1

So then, you have impossible standards but you nag about women having them? Are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:04 PM
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It's not funny at all that I have the mindset. Men who are worthy wouldn't mind the current standards women have. It's only the unworthy who complain because they can't reach them. Judging by your idea on standards, I would assume your standards are pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:48 PM
0

r/ihadsex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:40 PM
1

Or what? You're gonna be sad and horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:14 PM
1

Usually it's the first one. The second one doesn't seem like a good reason to divorce somebody and I believe some people are making it sound more extreme than it is. In any case, neither of those is the actual main reason for divorce. Usually it happens because one of the partners cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:00 PM
1

I don't know, I've never dropped subtle hints to people so I wouldn't know if they'd pick them up. On the other hand, my friendliness has been confused for flirting many times before. I'm not mad about it, misunderstandings happen. As long as it stays just that, of course. As for the contradictory situations you mentioned, I believe both happen to different men. I'm sure there's men who don't realize someone is flirting with them and I'm also sure there's men who look too deep into it and think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:38 AM
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They become angry after they get the idea that women owe them something for their niceness. Nobody owes you shit, but being respectful makes it more likely for them to wanna be around you. My advice is only worthless to people who practice it the wrong way. Being respectful for the sake of getting laid and then lashing out when rejected isn't exactly respectful. That's called being entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 03:49 PM
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Sir, are you mentally challenged? We're talking about a make-believe man, who either is or isn't a jackass. It's fair to assume not being one will help you with your relationships. Sexual frustration tends to make many men angry, which in turn makes them look like an asshole. Expressing your sexual frustration by being openly angry tends to draw people off. I've seen many men shoot themselves in the foot like that. I don't know the staristics, nor do I care about them. The post was about kindnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 03:42 PM
1

I am not. I'm saying that if they were a jackass, that wouldn't help them in their goal, which is why people give men advice to be respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 03:33 PM
1

How is it insulting? Please explain. What I am implying is that the sexually unattractive man in question will have much better chances if he isn't a jackass. I do really believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:58 PM
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Kindness and respect are the bare minimum for social situations, romantic or otherwise. I'm not saying women will want to date you just because you're showing basic human decency, nor am I saying they should want to date you because of those reasons. However, that's where you start. That's how you're not seen as a complete asshole. There are many other qualities which are seen as desirable, but you don't suppose the average woman has Stockholm syndrome and wants to be treated like a piece of gar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:51 PM
1

I define this particular example as being edgy. You think you'll stop the government which is for sure out to get you with a single gun? Or two of them for that matter. Now it's always good to have more control over your own life, but sometimes it does more harm than good. I'm not going to go too deep into how not liking guns is feminine and how women allegedly all think alike, as it's spiteful and sexist. Bottom line - personal responsibility isn't about gender and it also isn't about edginess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:37 AM
1

The only reason I probably wouldn't is because I don't ever in my life want kids. If I had nothing against the idea of raising kids - sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:30 AM
1

Well, tough luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:24 PM
1

What makes you think people are losing their minds over a comment you wrote somewhere on the internet? I was pointing out that your observation led to the wrong conclusion, by using myself as evidence. While it's possible that the women you know all happened to not have hobies, it's much more probable that you're generalizing in order to make yourself feel superior in some way. Of course, I could be wrong, in which case you probably need to meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:11 PM
1

Working on yourself is always a good thing. There's nothing wrong with correcting your flaws, assuming they can be corrected. Accepting means you'll stay at the same place and do nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:45 AM
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Really? You've never seen a girl who has a goddamn hobbie? Alright, hello. Nice to meet you. I like playing the piano. I'm also female. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:31 AM
1

I wouldn't make the choices which would lead to the situation in the first place. What kind of idiot lets random people take their condom off and then refuses to have an abortion, after which she gets married to some guy who took off his condom during a one night stand and barely knows her? Yes, it would bother me, which is why I won't work towards getting into that situation. I do not show understanding because it's a series of bad decisions. For both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:07 AM
1

Personally I'd be ashamed in that situation. Those things are childish and uncalled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:02 AM
2

Being good with words would mean more to me. Unless the voice you're talking about is physically painful to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:09 AM
4

Nah, the past always seems better because we only know of/remember the highlights. When you think of the time period, you imagine nice cozy living rooms, fluffy dresses and such, while the present is always more detailed and uncertain. While I enjoy the general atmosphere I imagine the time period had, the last thing I would want is to be a housewife. I would rather shoot myself in both feet. The vibe might've been cool, but that was not the case for human rights and social norms. Nowadays you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:06 AM
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It's always good to be more confident, but I wouldn't say there's a strict algorithm on how to be desirable to women. It mainly depends on the kind of woman you're trying to attract and the kind of relationship you want. Besides, I've seen many guys forcing their confidence and talking non stop about how alpha they are. It looks really fake, for one and also it works against their narrative that they're so macho and alpha and what not, since they're clearly so obsessed with it. Sometimes just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:14 PM
1

Slavic parents usually advise their children to marry into rich families, so it doesn't surprise me that they're looking for exactly that. The thing about Slavic women is that they dress way better than the men in their regions. It's common to see a guy wearing sweatpants walking next to a girl in high heels and a nice dress. That's probably where the stereotype comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:07 PM
1

Well, as a Slavic woman, I could agree that your average old fashioned Slavic man isn't that great. They're known for being filthy and rude. However, it isn't fully the case with younger people. While there's still many guys who change their socks once a month, I wouldn't say the majority is that bad. Another thing is that, on average Slavic women aren't all that great either. The stereotype is that they're evil and they always spread rumors about everybody. Again, it really depends on the gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:11 AM
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He was known for giving good speeches and making people follow him, no matter how insane his ideas were. It's not that strange that he managed to make some women believe he was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:02 AM
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Alright... I play the piano, I enjoy painting although I don't have much time for it nowadays and I really love debating. I used to be into karate, but now I have hip pains because of it and only practice in front of the mirror in the bathroom. I also love hiking and camping. There's lots of mountains in my area so it's a great place to have an adventure, especially now that most other activities are unsafe. Have your questions been answered?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:12 PM
1

Because happiness doesn't mean the same thing for everybody. Some rely on religion, others on relationships, hobbies or drugs for all I care. We don't all have the same interests and we're at a point where we don't have to actively worry about survival. I personally don't believe in god, I don't want to be a mother and I don't want to make a home. To me, it would be hell, so I won't take that path. Also, how is men's only purpose to provide for somebody else? I'm pretty sure what I just said app…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:30 PM
2

Well that's the thing I was trying to say - you will get riots of those proportions if you try to pull that off. I suppose you understand why. As for where they got the ideas, I do not know. I'm sorry but a woman calling an innocent man creepy doesn't call for legal action. It's not serious enough. Obviously if these men she sleeps with are really criminals, they should be arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:23 AM
1

That's a bit out of proportion. Having babies is good for humanity, so it's good to support them. It's not a messed up system. Also, no system like welfare cases. Not even socialism. Take it from someone who lives in a country recovering from it. Really, if you don't want to directly finance a single mother - then don't. It's not your job to do so. But I see nothing wrong with said single mother getting help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:16 AM
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Well those things are exciting to the audience. It sells. Same goes for movies and books and games. They show us exciting things we wouldn't do in real life because they're dangerous. Rap music makes people immoral as much as video games make people violent. So a woman calling a man creepy is a sin greater than leaving someone to die because they had sex with somebody else?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:23 AM
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I mean, the quality of her sexual partner means nothing to me whatsoever. That would be her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:34 AM
2

And choosing someone's boyfriend for them is not abusive at all? What's the impact it has then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:28 AM
2

Reaching consensus on what a clearly terrible person is isn't that simple. It's very difficult to come up with a definition and have it accepted as fact, as the issue in question doesn't rely on fact but rather on morals. Now, let's say we both agree that this person is terrible. This isn't a question of whether any of us should be sleeping or hanging out with terrible people, but it's a question of whether or not we're allowed to. Most would agree we're indeed allowed to. If someone wants to je…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:26 AM
1

You have somewhat of a point. The traits most commonly seen as desirable aren't very useful in the modern world. We don't need big strong men since we have the technology to produce goods without them. We don't need people with slow metabolisms because food is everywhere and there's no need to store fat in order to stay alive, etc... However, much of our civilization which brought us to this point is based on ethics. We decided not to respond to our every instinct and it has been working pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:17 AM
1

Yes, I know that. Thank you for clearing it up, in any case. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:49 AM
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And women have a duty to reward or punish certain groups of men because of what? Some twisted ideology? Should we start slapping people on the wrist every time they sleep with someone we don't like, so we exaggerate the consequences of their affair to the point it sounds like our species is about to go extinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:45 AM
2

Well that's another case of tough luck. It's not like this shit actually has a real impact on the world, while the act of regulating sex the way you imagine, there's a higher chance of shit going very very wrong. Also, what hierarchy are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:39 AM
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Yeah, and animals with harmful mutations usually don't live long and can't reproduce. I'm not saying it's a perfect method - hell, it's a crappy method but that's how nature works. While there might've been instances where evolution hasn't gone well, more often than not, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:36 AM
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Hmm, let's see. You yourself might have a better chance. But people are usually more appealing than that. As for the laws, there's anti-discrimination laws. There's the fact it's illegal to buy or sell a human being. The fact that it's illegal to smuggle a human being, in case of, uhm..import. There's probably more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:50 PM
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Yes, you know the way where you socialize with people and maybe eventually you end up dating them. You know, without breaking any laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:30 PM
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So, what you're saying is that you invented the problem by demanding the women you're describing and now you're bitter because they answer to your needs. Also, I haven't the slightest idea what hiphop and rap have to do with it. Right. You're trying to tell me that you seriously believe people should be denied healthcare because they slept with a person you don't like. Please, for the love of god, get a good fucking therapist before something goes south.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:28 PM
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I have a solution for you. Nobody forces you into paying for sex, the old fashioned prostitute way or the other way. Just don't do it. But you see, that's not gonna happen because you're too damn horny and you'd do just about anything for the alleged idiot women you're talking about. Another thing that might not have occurred to you is that distributing women like welfare is a highly questionable idea, also one that breaks a couple of laws here and there. You know, somewhere between a speeding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:20 PM
2

Right. I like how you believe I actually need to traffic a real living human being so I can get laid. That's just you guys. The rest of us do it the regular way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:51 PM
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No wonder women don't like people like yourself. Or men. Or people who have a distaste for human trafficking and the act of buying yourself a wife and making her sound like a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:44 PM
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Oh, there we go again with sexual communism. The sexual marketplace, as you so childishly call it, was never meant to be equal. There's a thing called natural selection, where the people (or animals) with the most desirable genes get to mate and pass them on, so that the species could improve as a whole. I'm not saying it's an intelligent design, but it's how things work. Now, if you choose monogamy for yourself, that is completely fine. If you want to be with a woman who has never had sexual pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:39 PM
6

Imagine replying to said two paragraphs with the most invalid comeback I've read all year. Got nothing smarter to say so you have to resort to calling people names? It's okay, not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:33 PM
8

Oh my! I highly doubt it would be worth it for someone who calls women sluts and expects them not to have sex, but also wants to have sex with women. Now, you see the logic flaw here. But regardless, I'm just saying you're giving yourself too much credit. This isn't the 50s. Let's imagine the woman you're describing. Now you've either had sex with her or you haven't. If you haven't, it's safe to assume you're calling her a slut because she slept with other men but wouldn't sleep with you, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:15 PM
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Improvise. Adapt. Overcome. And yet again, tough luck matey.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:45 PM
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Then, by your logic, you'd be the one making the bad choice of marrying a woman who is wrong for you. Tough luck, mate. Choose your partner carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:42 PM
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For one, because it's none of men's business. The question of it being fair to men or not is invalid because it doesn't even involve the men in question. Nothing to be fair or unfair. I also have to point out that what you're saying sounds incredibly entitled. If you don't wanna be with a certain woman, then don't. That's a matter of personal preference. But that's as far as your power over it goes. Sorry to break it to you, but relationships, one night stands and everything in between are not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:23 PM
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I'm met countless men and even teenage boys who have told me they wouldn't allow their wives to work or travel and they would give them a limited amount of pocket money for them to spend, as if they were little children. One even had the audacity to tell me (a high school student attending competitions on a national level in the field of physics), that as a female, my true purpose is to reproduce and serve my husband, since I cannot possibly understand the complexity of the natural and social sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:28 PM
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What good has lowering the standards ever done to improve a situation? They say it like it's this whimsical thing that will forever fix relationships and not, you know, make them worse overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:38 AM
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