madnyx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationships Oh girl so proud of us for doing better for ourselves now! My ex was a porn sick asshole who kept lying about it, my “friends” knew this and still went his way. We’re deffo better off in the long run tho - big hugs x	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 08:58 AM
108	Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationships Today is a week since I broke up with an lvm after two years... best friend immediately slid into his dms straight away and all my other friends (except sister) took her side. Lost my bf and friends in 24 hours. Devastated but glad to have dropped a whole lot of dead weight. I’m so glad fds exists, these little reminders of support help immensely ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 06:26 AM
7	Stop giving men so much power. Thank you so much!! It’s so hard right now but there is so much to look forward to. And you’re so correct about the friends thing, I’d been friends with them for years introduced them a few months in and we all got on well but he had his own mates also. I’m thinking my ex best friend low key fancy’s him (like good luck sis) and that’s why, ah well not my problem anymore thank god.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 07:07 PM
18	Stop giving men so much power. This whole post highlights exactly why I left my bf (early 20s) a couple of days ago after putting up with crap on and off for 2 years. Break ups are fucking shit and yes I am incredibly sad, but I know it’s what needed to be done so I can have the life I deserve. Found out the next day that my “best friend” had actually reached out to my ex and talked to him all day and even encouraged him to sleep around/rebound before even messaging me back and seeing how I was. Ended that 3 year long friends…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 09:27 AM
17	Dating and what I've come to understand: I can't control men and men can't control me! Wow needed this today. Ended a 2 year relationship with an lvm (both early 20s). I was often trying to get him to be more responsible, mature, clean, etc. I even begged him to stop watching porn and while he did actually stop for about a year he recently started again and lied to me for weeks about it. It’s one thing to bring new ideas to their attention but the actual change has gotta come willingly from them or it’ll eventually bite you in the ass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 09:40 AM
11	Please tell me how this is misandry? Having standards? Lol these LVM will do anything to avoid admitting that they are in fact shitty people. Will never understand why having standards as a female is so crucified, like god forbid we want a good partner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 08:58 AM
10	The male expectation of women to be completely shaved These days I reckon it’s more of an indication that they watch way too much porn (or even just porn at all). So yuck that normal female bodies are constantly being shamed. My partner genuinely doesn’t care - his only preference being that it’s not so long it gets in his mouth heaps when he goes down lol which I think is fair cos I wouldn’t like that either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 02:04 PM
4	I know it might be silly, but I’m scared for future children and it makes me want to cry when I think about them Oh wow that’s so fucking terrible like no words can describe how sick that makes me feel. Idk how people like this exist, and I wish their was some magical answer that’d solve all this bs that circulates among misogynists, rapists, etc. It’s ridiculous what people get away with these days, and the idea that labelling things “kinks” and “fantasies” makes wanting to hurt, degrade and pretend/actual rape others ok is just disgusting. I don’t know how people can be so complacent about this, let alon…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 12:35 PM
31	I know it might be silly, but I’m scared for future children and it makes me want to cry when I think about them I have very similar fears to you! I wants kids, but everytime I think about that future and their future I get so scared and want to cry. I'm worried that all these issues will continue being normalised, and that my kid will have to face all the struggles we face with misogyny etc. but worse. I'm also worried that no matter how much I try to teach and shape my kid into someone with good morals and sense, they'll still end up falling into the beliefs of their peers. Its scary. I just hope things …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 02:10 AM
9	On oral sex My partners really good in bed, almost always makes me come first, will always go down on me if I go down on him, listens and communicates to work out what best works for both of us (not just him), and never treats pleasing me like a chore. It’s pretty rare to get a guy that’s not totally selfish in bed but that doesn’t mean you should settle for less. My partner was anxious to go down on me at first cos he didn’t think he was very good, but communication and effort goes a long way so it didn’t …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/20 01:32 PM
15	LibFems: Rape Culture is Terrible! 😡Also LibFems: Just because a man is sexually aroused by strangling women & calling them degrading names doesn’t make him a rapist, BDSM is normal and that’s just his kink! 🤡 Pick a Struggle Kinkmeishas! 🤦‍♀️ Yes this pisses me off!! I saw your reply on that relationship advice thread and just couldn’t believe the downvotes. People are legitimately supporting those who’s greatest fantasies are to hurt others, rape, degraded, be sexist and racist, etc. I will never ever understand why these things that libfems fight so hard against usually suddenly become ok when sexualised!! The mental gymnastics of trying to justify with consent is ridiculous. Why are these women wanting men who finds it hot and sex…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 10:47 PM
9	Is it a bad idea to send your long term partner sexy videos and pictures? Whatever you send you have to be ok with being leaked. No matter how much you trust a person, shit can always go wrong. I personally wouldn’t care too much if some revealing photos got leaked of me (definitely the minority with this tho) so would send some slightly revealing stuff to a person I feel I can trust because if the worst happens I’d still be ok with it. If you wouldn’t be ok with that then maybe find an alternative like phone sex if you can.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 04:40 PM