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| 1 | When at the bar, how to not waste time with one girl?It doesn't look like the case. Because if they saw me making out with a chick and now hitting on them, it doesn't shine a good light on me, right? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 09:34 AM |
| 3 | I just did the worst approach ever. Is it about the mindset?IMO, it's better to approach and fail just like you did, then not to approach at all. We learn from failures. Avoiding doesn't teach you shit. So good job, on your approach. Next one will be better and this one will be forgotten in a week. Of course it's about a mindset. I feel you are not really upset much, because you didn't really care that much. It was more of a you dare'd yourself to do it. I think you just need to work more on your self confidence. That will fix everything. I felt some vul… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 16 | Chick showed me a slide show of every dude she’s dated/fucked. I’m on it, don’t know how to reactMe, as a non US citizen, everytime reading posts like this, I'm shocked how loser a guy should be not be able to get laid in USA. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:39 AM |
| -1 | What the fuck is this retarded shit of going out with your sister?Duh yeah. But speaking of a specific chick which is hot now. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:36 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is this retarded shit of going out with your sister?While maintaining eye contact with sister. (And facetiminng with their dad) | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:35 AM |
| -3 | What the fuck is this retarded shit of going out with your sister?Do you hit on a girl that is in a group of 4 men? Obviously not, because the chance that one of them is her bf is pretty high, right? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:34 AM |
| -9 | What the fuck is this retarded shit of going out with your sister?I think you're retarded. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:29 AM |
| -8 | What the fuck is this retarded shit of going out with your sister?Why the fuck would you wanna go to the bar with your sister? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Feedback my approach please.Thanks | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Feedback my approach please.Where have you been all my life. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?You are 100% right. I am in my home gym as we speak. I am working on that too. But its fine to wanna bang on weekends. Just fuckin pandemic and tinder is like hell. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?Man I know and thats what I cam to realize when i say that i turned cold towards that idea. The question is about a disrespect and a frame. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?Im arguing because you answering a question that I didnt ask. This is more about a frame, than an oneitis post. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?She does want me. As i mentioned in other comments. She randome sendnudes and texting me how she missses fuckin with me . So def not the case. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?What if she texts me today saying she is flyin over? Whats ur point then? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?No, def not the case | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:39 PM |
| -1 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?I absolutely agree with the point that I don't have options now because i had 2 local plates, both broke. And its impossible and very time consuming to get new ones during the lockdown and tinder attention whore era. I really have a feeling she might hit me up today or tomorrow saying she is ready to fly over. How should i react? Disrespected? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?What if she texts me today telling me she is coming? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:37 PM |
| -3 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?Even if she texts today? "Hey, im able to make it" | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:37 PM |
| -1 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?Tbh I really doubt that due to the amountof texts and random nudes she sent me all this time im away. But it can be a possibility | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:36 PM |
| -4 | Bringing a girl over from another state. Is the way she acts a disrespect?That's what I would have thought, but she is. Before this she texted me all the time. Asking me to come back, that she wants to fuck me. Sends me nudes out of a sudden and etc. That's why this behavior of her confused me a bit. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 10:01 AM |
| 7 | approaching(dying) anxiety in russiai wish one day my friend | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 11 | approaching(dying) anxiety in russiaSochi is not Moscow. And russian girls are more open to foreigners, than locals | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 4 | approaching(dying) anxiety in russiaRussia is not only moscow. City i am from has many conservative people living here. Mostly guys, who are disrespected if a girl in their group is approached. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 3 | approaching(dying) anxiety in russiaЯ не баба! Просто перед каждым подходом нужно присмотрется, она одна или ее парень отошел в туалет. Так же, когда я подкатываю на меня смотрят странно, потому что тут у многих девушек менталитет не такой как в Москве | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?How do you manage to do it? Whenever i start a smiling conversation with a female(not in a bar or a social gathering), but even in the supermarket, they have their guard up. And i am def not creep or weirdo. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Yes exactly. It's basically non existant | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Spot on. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?True, same for my country, but you need to understand AWALT. Same thing with the 'cold approach' on the streets, you can do it, but don't be confused when the girl asks you 'where's the camera' implying that you're pranking her with your friends. Exactly man. So daygame is way less effective in eastern european countries, do we agree on that? Also I agree that no matter the country, improving SMV is still #1 priority, before blaming other factors. Sorry for being rude. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Definitely not the same scenario. Conservatism is way higher over here. So lucky you. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 8 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?If you initially shared your opinion in this normal manner, it would be easier to understand you. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 12:41 PM |
| 13 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?This. America is just 52 countries living as one. That's why it's hard for them to think that there is other part of the world besides them. Like for example, NFL world series. LMAO. WORLD series for a sport that exists only in North America. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:40 AM |
| 6 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?No, it's just your SMV is low. Does your stubborn brain allow a chance, that even if SMV is high, girl WILL reject a guy, just because he approached her on the street? Great. So those chances are pretty high in europe. Way above 50%. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Sure, but what that does it decreases the amount of girls you intereact with | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Amen | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:35 AM |
| -1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Get your head out of your ass please. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Couple of weeks ago, I was speaking to a chick that i know that is HB8. I asked her, what does she think if a guy approaches her on the street. She said "probably some weirdo". I asked "even if he's good looking? She "yes, doesn't matter. approach on the street with ~heey can i get to know yoou? bla bla..~. come on. Me: where do you meet new guys then? She: social circle, where else? A birthday of my friend or sumthn, i dunno haha. Just for you people who can't beleive this shit. and this is VER… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?exactly | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?They think that day game means approaching like thirsty pickup chump , stopping chicks on the street just to talk to them. So yea, if you do that here, you'll be labeled as a weird fucktard. OTOH, social circle, bus, uni, stores, bars, clubs etc, bitches are everywhere, just talk to them. Day game social circle? Sorry but you sound like a guy who just wants to oppose, without hearing what the topic is about. How is approaching a girl on a bus, different from approaching on the street, for a girl… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?I assume that that person hasn't even approached more than 10 girls in his life. Approaching is hard only for one reason. It needs guts. If you don't have them or if you are not courageous enough you won't succeed in it, just because you won't do it. If you have guts and approach girls and learn from first mistakes it becomes such a fun thing to do and girls are always happy you did it, few become your potential dates, others are in ltr or you just don't hit it with them, but that's still cool, … | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?for sure, but we talking cold approach here | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:26 AM |
| 5 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?in USA they are. Because as i posted above, when girls who were born in the society influenced by soviet union, after they leave the country and go to the western part of the world - they feel that the societal judgement is no longer there and feel the freedom, comparing their homeland culture - and slut mode turns on. So stop your "everyone is american on internet. even bulgarians" bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?This, 100%! I keep on pushing to improve my SMV also, no matter I live in EU or far east. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?I think that maybe Brazilian/American girls are more "open" to talk to strangers than girls from Post Soviet countries? Definitely they are. Soviet Union culture has roots very deep into society brain here, even with the newest generation, which considers itself pretty open minded. Still you can see that they are under influence of soviet education. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Haha, that is so common, that when a chick from easter europe travels to western part of the world, she feels being unchained from all those cultural rules and strips herself down to being a total slut | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?and your point is? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:18 AM |
| 6 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?100% agree with you. Plus in my culture - small talk is not a thing. Either you discuss something or you stay quiet. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Plate cancel reply.Why i doubt she is banging another guy, is cuz she was more excited about coming over than i was, yesterday and she told me, if her job doesn't becomes a barrier, she'll come. Forgot to mention that. But as i said, i don't really care even if she is banging someone else. Obligatory soft next, let her re-engage. If she doesn't, move on. Meaning, if she re-engages, starts chatting me up again, should i wait for her to offer a comeover or should i tell her to come over again? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 10:42 AM |
| 1 | It's like "not my day" everyday..I used to approach a lot, couple of months ago. Took girls home the same night. But something changed recently. Maybe i understand that i was forcing myself to approach even though it was all successful. And now i just dont feel like putting myself out of a comfort zone? But comfort zone aint that comfortable either...(( | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | It's like "not my day" everyday..It was an open air festival | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | It's like "not my day" everyday..Ive heard that too, but i want to fuck all the time, so i dont think thats the side effect of pills. Yes, will change my life habits also. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | It's like "not my day" everyday..But ive been approaching way less recently | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | It's like "not my day" everyday..What is a supply demand law? I have most focus on my work. Thats why i want to go out mostly to take my mind off work | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | It's like "not my day" everyday..Only eating well. For last two months amount of excercise i do is decreased. I do cardio 2-3 times a month. Sleeping issues too. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | 150$+ lessonI hate it. I went there because my friends dragged me there. Loud music, you cant talk to anyone, everyone being a snob, overpriced alcohol. I prefer bars way more. But i realized i think i lost interest in picking up chicks, and the fact that i am still doing it, is some kind of a "muscle memory". | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis for a girl that i got turned off on, powered by my depression.Block, delete. Nothing good can come out of this. You have heavy oneitis. The sooner you remove every trace of her from your life, the quicker you can get back to 100% and you'll wanna slap yourself for feeling like this. You've lost this one. Pack up and leave with any dignity you have left. She has a hairy asshole ffs. I'm a 6 foot 2 dark, hairy Eastern European and I don't have a single hair in my asshole and this girl has. Get the fuck outta here. I was just thinking maybe i just enjoyed han… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Banged Flakey Tinder Girl... What is the reason?Will listen to it. Thanks But Then wake up every day and refuse to love or care about anyone more than you care for yourself. Doesn't this support my ego? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Banged Flakey Tinder Girl... What is the reason?How? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Banged Flakey Tinder Girl... What is the reason?Yep. That never happened to me and probably it hit my self-esteem and that's why i can't digest it - even though she was bad at sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Banged Flakey Tinder Girl... What is the reason?"She's Just Not That Into You" So I was just a fuckboy? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me?Haha thank you brotha. Im ghosting her for two weeks, since im going outta town anyway, and she wont know about that. Shell think im still in town. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me?Great advice. Thanks man! Thats what im planning to do. So if she texts me today, should i just not open the text or reply that im busy? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me?Yeah i know, she isn't good in sex either, but somehow it hit my confidence, that she just ignored me, without even saying that she wont be coming over today | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to disappear for a while and not lose a chick?Yeah i thought that too, but if B finds out there is another girl in my life meanwhile i am getting 0 pussy from her. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl is a snorer...We just started dating. And i really do like her | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Girls flake ratio is pretty high... What i might be doing wrong?Basically, i was ruining my frame?. But won't that make me look like too needy? Like, if me and girls are there to have a good time, and me and one of them clicked. And she isn't ditching her friend, and meanwhile i am being "aggressive" - doesn't that make me a creepish? Or it is better to take her phone # at that moment of the evening and ditch them for the rest of the evening? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls flake ratio is pretty high... What i might be doing wrong?So, you mean i need to be a bit more "aggressive" and show my intentions more earlier on? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Holding frame but short on timeOk, i follow you. But can you tell me what would have been a logical situation for her to be dtf. Ditch and leave her friend alone in the bar no matter what that night?(they travelling together) I just wanna feel the opposite scenario | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Holding frame but short on timeBut why did she agree on a date for the next day? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Holding frame but short on timeDo we count the first night when i couldn't isolate her from cock blocking friend as a strike? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Should i hit the gym and do martial arts there by myself?So, you say, going back to MMA would be better option as for next couple of months? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Should i hit the gym and do martial arts there by myself?My initial plan wasn't to become a professional fighter. I just wanted to know how to punch and defend myself - just for a regular bar fight. In case it happens. My main mission wasn't becoming a pro. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl's friend became my wingwoman and also potential sexual partner. Please feedback my solo field report and advice.Thanks for painting picture so clearly. I agree with you. Your chances of closing C are extremely slim to none rn. At this point, C is flaking out, so I would just make plans with A and fuck her instead. She's local anyhow, and you probably won't be fucking C anytime soon. Here i don't exactly follow you - because even though she didnt answer my call, she texted me after when she woke up. The downside was that she said that she can't today anymore, cuz feels like shit, and when texting with A i … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Shamed for not banging... or i am really just a nice guy?I see! Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Shamed for not banging... or i am really just a nice guy?Even the one you not planning to bang? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Shamed for not banging... or i am really just a nice guy?I see. And the reason for that? Makes me look weak? And why exactly is it good that i didn't try to bang her? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Shamed for not banging... or i am really just a nice guy?Friends i mean the people who were at the party. Not some other ones. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Shamed for not banging... or i am really just a nice guy?Thanks for your answer, but can you evaluate on your points more ? Why did i do good by not trying to move on her and bad by telling about my experience with anti depressants. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Shamed for not banging... or i am really just a nice guy?Nice move there. Telling everybody what the girl is doing What do you mean? Where did i do that? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What does she deserve - Hard or Soft next?Yes, but i still think she'll get back herself later at night. And offer to meet then. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Not comfortable to hit on her?bang her. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | My approach and weird outcome...FYI, Your mother is retarded. I know my text gave you 50% of the description of the situation, but you even managed to get that 50% wrong - so look for retarded genetics on your side of the beach buddy. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | My approach and weird outcome...Right now listening to your perspective of the story that is exactly how it sounds - Cringy, needy and creepy. In reality it wasnt like that. She initiated a conversation, when she saw me first (fat bluehair ancient landwhale comes up to you part loses its value here). I can collect all that you said into one thing, she is 20 and very naive. 99% a virgin. That's why you think she just played it away like not interested, but apparently she was more nervous than i was. But despite all this, i stil… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 08:10 AM |
| 1 | My approach and weird outcome...About her being nice at work: Yes, you are partially right, but she was extra nice with me and we did some talking which is pretty rare there, as far as i notice, when i'm there. About holding her hands: I know you can imagine everything through your perspective, but it definitely wasn't cringy. It was just connecting hold for a little while and that was it. I'm sure you have seen some PU artists do the same on youtube and said WOW THATS COOL, and if i am writing this in text, you for some reaso… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Does curing depression improve your game?I'd more use it as a chance to observe how others react to you with different behaviors. A lot of game is trying different things, and assessing people's reactions. Yes, i want to do that, but sometimes when i go out, i feel like i have no power to do it. It's not fear of approach for example. I can approach, i just won't be able to maintain the convo after, because i don't really feel like talking and when i force myself to do so, it downs on me way more. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Does curing depression improve your game?Thhanks for your concern man. She prescribed it for me for 5 days. Told me to take it in the evening. I have some sleep disorders. This is not the first time i've tried Xanax. I had been through curing depression with antideps + xanax many years ago. 0.25mg isn't that large doze to get me high. It just removed the anxiety i have going on as a background process throughout the day. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | I pussed out, because the place was busy.First of all, i appreciate your feedback and your tough way of mentoring. Part of it is true, that i might be justifying some of my backing off. But the point is, she 100000% doesn't get him by 100 guys each day, because the city i live in is BP as fuck. And it's not in her nature to flirt. You are judging all by the US standards, which are diffenent in the eastern world. But thank you anyway, i needed this. You fuckin asshole :D | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I pussed out, because the place was busy.Please, take that passive aggressive bullshit out of here. And read the first part of the post. Plus, i am not in US and the place is not hooters, so you guys have it way easier, so please either share some advice or stfu. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Cant continue after cold approachingMaybe you are right about the build up, but doesnt "i thought you were cute/ijust wanted to say hi" opener, totally disregard the mindset of the RP that you are the prize and not her? To be honest, for example, i would feel more comfortable asking a girl if she ever had sex with a person she just met rather than i thought u were cute line. Dont get me wrong i appreciate all your help, just it doesnt fit in my head and mindset. Maybe because i am from Ukraine and here people communicate different… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Cant continue after cold approachingThats a great tip, but somehow when saying "i think your cute or i liked your style" i feel very uncomfortable and it sounds cringy and vulnerable in addition. I just can't say thay. I can easily say hey im Radz, whats ur name? And after she responds i need to move a convo somewhere | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Something is off. Please help me figure out how to turn the switch back on.Its a bit that as well that i need to approach. But also its because i dont know where to take a convo after cold approach probably | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Did BP guys ruin it for us?Yes, but what if she flakes and i act alpha after it, and she regrets. She won't get back to me. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Which is the better way of asking outWhy exactly? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Just got fired. Open for any tipsGroup responsible for customer service of a certain services my company provided was fired, due to that service not being needed anymore. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Take out a group and escalate or take her out alone?***** topic title "isolate". Not "escalate" | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in not friendly societyAm doing that. But the problem is i want to approach girls when i see them, but it is pretty hard to do, because saying "hey my name is ...." makes them look down on you. That's how the society is here in Ankara. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Approaching in not friendly societyI won't worry, but my point was that approaching those girls and saying "Hi, i think you are cute, my name is" would be something that gives them opportunity to look down on you. But for the other hand, if i ask for a lighter in a bathroom line and maintain conversation somehow, that would make it more normal for them. Since i do not smoke, there aren't much things i can do and can't stand in bathroom line all the time xD LoL. So that is exactly what i am struggling with. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Approaching in not friendly societyYes. Exactly. Turkey* | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 12:21 PM |
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