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There was a storm in my area and I saw something about it on the daily chat - I replied to that comment saying I am not leaving, and just chilling out. After a bit of back and forth, I ended up evacuating. The storm tore apart the house I was staying in so I may not have made it to my 22nd birthday if I just hunkered down as I was planning to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:11 PM
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Throwback to that time someone on PPD saved my life :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:55 PM
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Because we have similar values in how we want to raise a family and how we want our marriage to be? That’s more important than shared politics for us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:44 PM
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Not really, I’ve learned to forget our differences in politics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:05 PM
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We don’t prioritize politics, similar values in how we want to raise a family and conduct ourselves in our marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:05 PM
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Unfortunately he is, thankfully I have an IUD so no need for an abortion anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:47 PM
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My husband is reeling from the underwhelming midterm for Republicans and blames single women. Man’s out here spewing almost PPD-esque talking points about how killing babies is such a priority for single women, they showed up in record numbers to protect that right. Happy to have fended off whatever the hell the red tsunami would’ve looked like, let’s keep it that way in 2024😤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:09 PM
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Tldr please😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:13 AM
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This is genuinely disgusting video of a woman trashing her loving husband, that takes care of her bills and gives her the opportunity to work part time instead of full time. All because of some Facebook romance scammer typing some nice words on a screen. Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:45 AM
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I am not trad, I can barely cook lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:31 AM
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Damn that means I am coming to a city near you😅 And combo, 2 of those cities I can drive to from where I live pretty easily, the rest I’ll fly to and have to rent a car
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:40 PM
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How am I suppose to live in America without driving? And it’s barely a lie, it’s a ✨white lie✨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:39 PM
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The cities I will be driving in before the year ends: New Orleans Dallas Atlanta San Francisco/Napa Providence So, will I be driving near you?👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:28 PM
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It’s my 4th this year in general, so not as bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:27 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:19 PM
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No, I left a note with my number saying I’d rather pay for the damages. If I get insurance involved, my husband is gonna tell me yet again I need to lose my license asap💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:18 PM
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So I got in a car accident driving my husband’s car, my 4th accident of the year. His car had no damage to it so I am trying to just keep quiet, but I feel paranoid and I am gonna take it to a mechanic. The other person is willing to just let me cover their damage so 🤞🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:57 PM
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I am glad someone else is terrified of bugs too. I can shoot a gun and skin deer, but a little spider will have me running circles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:26 PM
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I have a few FDSers on my IG from my days on the discord & in other private groups. I posted a story an hour ago of me feeding my husband some grapes while he did some work on his laptop. She blew up about it. Granted she doesn’t know I got married, but ooof what did I ever see in that cult😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:55 AM
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Yeah I get it, but if someone says to me “hello, is this Cindy?” I am not Cindy so I don’t care why they’re calling, I’ll just say wrong number. That’s more so what I meant. Some people wanna know why you’re calling before they say wrong number, I find that odd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:51 PM
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Phone banking ≠ fundraising calls, and most phone banking is done by real people. It’s not that deep, just makes me realize people don’t know how to just hang up. Would make my couple of hours go much faster
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:25 PM
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He sounds dumb. What man is completely happy in life while getting 0 pussy and interest from women? Probably gay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:20 PM
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I’ve been volunteering to phone bank a few hours a week for a couple of local candidates and it’s so weird how men pick up their wives phones and pretend to be them?? I’ll say the name and I have the gender + party affiliation pulled up, and a dude will literally say “yes that’s me” Other pet peeve has to be when people pick up and I have to ask them if they’re I.e Joe Smith…they’ll ask you who you are and why you’re calling, when you tell them, they’ll say no wrong number. Just hang up ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:13 PM
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Yeah I don’t put gas in my car anymore, he does. But he also hasn’t touched his laundry for a while & doesn’t have to shop for anything. Win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:32 PM
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My favorite thing about marriage so far has to be the fact that I don’t ever feel alone in any conflict so as a result, I feel much less drained by issues that come up. I can also delegate all the man things to someone and focus on the things I like. I recommend marriage🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:48 PM
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I genuinely think this is worse than pornsickness. Porn hampers your sex life, but these women are glorifying abuse, and entire relationship dynamics because the man is some tatted ew rich mafia boss. Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:25 PM
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I am so embarrassed I used to read eroticas, they’re all over Tiktok and now I am realizing how fucking toxic they are. There are hundreds of thousands of women liking a video because the book in question is about some rich guy falling for a plain girl because she called him an asshole. I didn’t know how cringe these books were until I actually got into a normal healthy relationship, I hope booktok stops with this nonsense. They’re setting so many women up with a false impression of what reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:18 PM
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Tomorrow I am going to a political fundraiser for an absolute crook, and I am pretty sure I’ll meet the politician there. 70% chance I tell her she’s horrible in person if I don’t watch my liquor intake
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:11 AM
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None of my business regardless, especially if the other SO isn’t my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:08 AM
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I mean if I am friends with the cheater and not their SO, I don’t see why I’d snitch. None of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:49 PM
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There is a guy in the ppd discord that had this issue lol, he was a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:00 PM
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Paris, but it’s dirty and French people are disgustingly arrogant even though they’re from a country that shuts down monthly over yet another strike
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:59 PM
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Wildly surprised the popular sentiment on the cheating post was that most people would dump a friend over it. Maybe I am just morally weak, but I don’t care in the slightest, as long as that friend added to my life in other ways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:57 PM
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Personally I don’t care what people do in their free time, as long as they don’t impede or impose their lifestyle choices on me. So I suppose I would be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:56 PM
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Lol, I met her and automatically knew her family was probably racist. The reality is that most Eastern European families don’t want their kids marrying out, and her family is no different. No idea how he got to the marriage track with her somehow tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:07 PM
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Financially maybe not but yeah in general. She’s pretty good at being vague, I am sure all the other guys also think they’re exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:06 PM
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I have an Indian coworker that’s primarily into white women, he’s seeing a fellow Eastern European girl right now and wants to take her home for thanksgiving, and she can take him home for Christmas so he can meet her family & eventually propose. The thing is, I know the girl’s family and we’re friends…she’s seeing other guys and won’t accept his thanksgiving invite. Her family is also a lot like mine in that although me dating non white men was tolerable, they’d die if I brought one home or mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:54 PM
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The Queen (Taylor Swift) has dropped a new album. Reminder ladies if a man doesn’t like her, he has small dick energy 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:49 AM
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So I hate to double post but this is strange: I haven’t been on ppd for a bit and just recently returned to weird ass DMs from someone saying I am stalking them and strange comments like this under a post I made in a different subreddit. Any idea who this troll could be? There was one in my inbox who kept saying I am someone’s alt, accusing me of still talking of them (?) and countless other weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:06 PM
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I have to get over it soon or I’ll be late for work…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:47 AM
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That’s weird, I haven’t worn sweatpants outside barring last night at 11pm when my husband was driving me to the friend’s house since I was 13-14. It’s sloppy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:44 AM
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It’d look awful since these are baggy sweatpants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:43 AM
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I stayed over at a sick friend’s house last night and now it’s morning and time for me to walk the 10mins to my house and get ready for work but I am legitimately so embarrassed to be outside wearing sweatpants😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:35 AM
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I support the dumping. Everyone replying to you is acting like it’s okay to have to tell a man to text you. His communication style doesn’t fit what you want in a man. So find a man that has one that fits, good luck bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:06 PM
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I have in the past, and we just got married recently but I think it’s understandable how they react since this is a complete 180 from how I dated 18 months ago before I met my partner. So I am at a point where I kinda don’t have the patience to keep having those conversations, especially now that he’s a long term partner, hopefully for life and not just a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:34 AM
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😩🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:28 AM
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I use the term loosely lol but I got married early (21) and some of my friends weren’t compatible with my new lifestyle. It doesn’t help I was a complete POS in my past relationships so my friends were probably shocked when I started having to respect my partner’s boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:28 AM
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Ugh, had early dinner with some of my college girlfriends and my partner. They didn’t like him much when we were dating but it was all because of his politics so I said whatever. But Jesus Christ, it was the most awkward 1.5hrs of my life so far. He always orders for me and when he did that at dinner with them they all acted shocked and made a face, he took a work call and one of them jokingly asked if I forgot how to read a menu😭 Safe to say I am about to drop more friends unfortunately. Wish p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:24 AM
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Disappointed in men, not my case but my other friend could take it far since she’s single and she got a different guy’s # (5mil followers on IG) and he’s been really letting men down in their messages. Down horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:44 AM
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I was shocked when they put money on it like wtf😭 but to be fair, all the men present are super out of the loop on any mainstream chatter and living under a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:41 AM
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He’s not actually Arab, he’s a Sikh and Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:36 AM
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Apparently not bestie, I won some $$ to buy Pringles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:36 AM
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Well I call it simping because I am assuming what would happen if I carried on which I can’t since I have a man - but when guys with “clout” have messaged me, it’s been to fly me out and give me access to their shows/games all without me guaranteeing I am fucking. Beta Bucks behavior almost just to get laid, I have a friend that doesn’t even fuck them when they do all of that. She asks for a flight back after enjoying front row seats somewhere and good food
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:34 AM
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Should’ve caught this before the edit🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:27 AM
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Black, don’t know why she answered when I clearly didn’t. Tiktokers are getting out of hand too with these interview style vids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:08 PM
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If she would date certain race of men and she said no. Damage control mode now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:58 PM
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He asked me a question but I didn’t answer and he asked my friend and she answered. It was a non PC answer so she wants the video to not be posted either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:36 PM
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I was out and saw one of those interview TikToks. The guy took the video and it’s been really hard getting a hold of him so he could delete it. I might have to send some fake cease and desist letter at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:12 AM
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Your comment was about women. I responded in context, I don’t care about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:40 AM
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I don’t know why women justify their preferences that way. I like tall guys, full stop. No need to make up how they are safer to be around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:13 AM
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Omg thank you for the tea👀. Purple square/throwaway doing that is crazy to me, I thought she had a life. And yes I did!! Got married July 30th, never thought I’d be one of those people that would be married young but when ya know, ya know I guess. Glad you’re still around!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:04 PM
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I kid you not there was a man with an obesity fetish on here at some point. He only wanted extremely overweight women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:47 PM
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Throwaway getting busted for that👀👀 what’s the tldr? Why was she trying to dox someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:47 PM
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Omg please fill me in, I love drama that has nothing to do with me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:46 PM
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Smurf is a big loss, loved her chats. The one with the purple 🟪 looks like deleted her account, anyone know why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:23 PM
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Abs are the bare minimum for young men. Imagine being a man in your 20s and not having abs🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:16 PM
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What happened to all the oldies? Simenta, Smurf, the guy with the fat fetish, Bandit, and the girl with the 🟪 as her flair??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:15 PM
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Getting married had me busy😤 and I graduated so I have a big girl job now unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:24 PM
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My brother is in his final year with the marine corps and he has to decide whether he wants another few years under his belt after 10+yrs or not. I wish I could advise him out of it because he’s changed so much, he doesn’t see it at all though. His wife isn’t onboard either He used to be really chill and fun to be around. Now, he has his whole life regimented + he missed a lot of time with his kids because of deployments. But I unfortunately think he’ll serve for life, he told me once it’s gotte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:56 PM
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Boomers of ppd: do you know what a soft launch is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:28 PM
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Q4Married peeps: how long was your honeymoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:37 PM
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It’s called addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:02 PM
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I don’t think this is deadbeat dad tell. Enough men in traditional relationships can’t tell you those things but are providing and protecting their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:41 PM
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Coffee is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:38 PM
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In California for the 2nd weekend of Coachella. Excited but also worried I won’t have as much fun completely sober (no alcohol for the past several months). I am seeing a lot of people sleep in cars this time around. Not sure why you’d put yourself under the financial strain of going to Coachella….just to sleep in the car you rented.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:37 PM
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He was selling halal coke😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:18 AM
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I made a bunch of Muslim friends in my new city and now I get homecooked meals everyday since it’s Ramadan. They have a feast when they’re breaking their fast😋 Had some couscous, chocolate stuffed dates, chicken tagine along with cocktails. Apparently there are Muslims that drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:11 AM
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these people who get to adulthood and can’t cook blow my mind Hi…let’s not call me out🙄😭. I am convinced I’d be a chef if my mom was willing to teach me but growing up she said cooking dinner for the family would distract me from school so my much older sister helped out. Did your mom try to bring up the topic of you jerking off at 13 (isn’t that early) or basically ignored it and never walked in without knocking again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:44 PM
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Wait why👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:26 PM
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Last month, I went on a girls trip with some Bumble friends we stayed at my old professor’s place since she insisted. We all got a room but I just remembered how weird I felt that she kept knocking on my bedroom door and asking to enter the room. My parents never did that growing up😵‍💫, I didn’t realize that what she was doing was normal people shit until a chat a few hours ago with a friend talking about all the privacy she had as a kid. So PPDers, what things did you think were normal in your …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:19 PM
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Aren’t we all in ppd :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:36 AM
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u/SmurfESmurferson, u/Bandit174, and a third place tie between u/MisterFlipside and u/-angels-fan-
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:50 AM
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Life is good and rewarding. Sending good vibes to my favorite nut jobs on the internet❤️😚
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:24 AM
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Has anyone else noticed some of your favorite snacks being out of stock for weeks??? I went to 3 different stores trying to find BBQ pringles and they’re all out. Covid has ruined everything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:27 AM
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My boyfriend is sick so I am taking care of him and some errands for him. I can’t figure out how to listen to the voicemails he gets on his landline tho and he’s sleeping😭 Why do people still have these ancient things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:52 AM
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I think it was just a combination of posts that annoyed me? I started sensing that 90% of the community is to hate on men and even though that’s based, I’d rather we discussed girl game/strategy not how their exes were all shit. Lots of trauma bonding and I didn’t think I fit in. I have good exes, no trauma with men, and don’t really hate the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:38 AM
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u/MisterFlipside I made some pasta with pesto sauce (store bought) and got seasoned chicken from Costco that just needed to be popped in the oven😌 Day 1 of new chef life👩🏻‍🍳
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:02 AM
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Hi babes🙇🏻‍♀️ I am here, David from David and Annie was for me, I don’t know how they’re casually in pillow talk. Never thought he could keep a relationship going once his sugar daddy left the picture I am so over Mike for his Reddit shenanigans much less his relationship. He just wants someone to finance and have had a bangmaid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:39 AM
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Is tilapia a cheaper alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:50 AM
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Please do!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:50 AM
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I make enough that sort of spending shouldn’t be an issue but I wanna FIRE and this is the one expense I can cut easily if I just cooked at home more😭 I would be at 1k+ a month in food expenses if I didn’t frequently eat out with my bf & spend most weekends with family where the food is free basically. Major L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:17 AM
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Not being able to cook is getting expensive enough where I actually wanna learn. Spending $30-40 a day on food is yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:08 AM
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My bf got me into these fighting sports and now I am out here telling people Barboza has to have his takedown defense on point if he wants to beat Mitchell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:05 AM
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Go right for their country first bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:02 AM
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That might be for better if you actually wanna win. There is a study out there by the US Marine Corps showing women are slower, less accurate, and more likely to get injured/killed in frontlines vs men. They had to stop short of essentially saying women would be a liability vs men in combat roles since it’s not very PC. I am all for women being drafted regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:01 AM
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PPD men: Equal rights means women should be drafted into the military, why is Ukraine only telling the men they can’t leave Women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:43 AM
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I shouldn’t say Westerners, more so Americans. They tend to be like this irl too, rarely multilingual and almost always wanting the places they visit and the people they interact with to adapt to their inability to speak other languages
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:51 AM
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The r/Ukraine subreddit has grown exponentially since this whole Russia-Ukraine possible WWIII thing started, and it’s getting to the point I am starting to hate Westerners even as one. They go into that subreddit without knowing the language and every other comment is “can someone translate? What did they say in this video?” At first I was appalled that I know their language better than them but then realized it’s just people from various English speaking countries filling the sub with “Slava U…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:41 AM
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Nope, I am European American and plan to retire in the US. I need that amount here, I’ll have to probably buy healthcare on the market. In Europe, I could probably do with 1mil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:23 AM
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Wait what’s so great about them? You know they’re a little crazy right…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:15 AM
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Good luck❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:12 AM
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It all depends on how much you want to spend in retirement. I am aiming just to be able to retire early not really go through with it. Looking at ~$3mil as the magic number. I got that number since I wanna be able to spend safely 120k annually in retirement. 4% withdrawal rate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:11 AM
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It seems like men will need to do compulsory military service so you can be all the Ukrainian women’s +1😉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:08 AM
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~67 people are coming to my wedding from Russia and Ukraine. Might have to rework the seating chart at this rate. Putin needs to chill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:02 AM
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Early Retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:56 AM
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Okay, if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:10 AM
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Google what fmr. I stopped following that sub when there were 5 posts a day about their trauma with men. Gets boring fast
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:03 AM
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I don’t hate men lol and the main reason I literally stopped browsing that sub is because I don’t have enough trauma with men to justify daily bashing. And the men in my life are excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:32 PM
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I’ll never understand men or women who actually hate the other gender or even the majority of the other gender. That much energy for people you deem less than you🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:21 PM
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I only met 3 since those were the ones in my city. I only keep frequent contact with 1 since we’re from a similar background and she was the only one without LVM trauma. Overall, I think you can avoid FDS women if you’re the kind of guy that frequents clubs, wants low stakes meet ups like coffee and walk dates. Almost all the girls that are actually “dating” and not going through some weird trauma induced nun mode are easy to filter out. Just like for me and other women, we can avoid the guys th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:13 AM
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Yes, I’ve literally had meet ups with FDSers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 AM
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I don’t know why but the people on here have surprisingly good music taste. First I got addicted to The Beach Boys because of you guys, and the other day someone was talking about Billy Joel songs and I played his album The Stranger and now I know something more than Piano Man by him. Gracias PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:56 PM
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Remind me to tell you someday how I have to formally book a spot in her calendar to even meet with her😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:30 AM
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I exercised some snobbiness when I just hung with her and she said she’d be fine with sleeve tattoo as long as it was clear they would cover it up😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:13 AM
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She’s paying for it and I respect her so I don’t mind her involvement. I like her a lot but damn she made this harder for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:47 PM
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My MIL is driving me crazy with this wedding planning. First, I picked a DJ and a photographer and she decided men with tattoos, a piercing, unkept beard, and/or unnaturally dyed hair are not welcome at the wedding which includes the DJ and photographer I picked. So I’ve been scrambling trying to replace them but there is literally no DJ I can find that doesn’t have tattoos for instance and the wedding is in ~4 months. I have a late lunch date with her and I am gonna try to convince her to at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:27 PM
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The man doesn’t have to be traditional in the tradcon sense to pay for the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:23 AM
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Intriguing👀 no worries never take this stuff personally. I can’t watch it but I’ll try to grab the book sometime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:42 AM
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Oddly, I have never seen the movie or read the book
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:18 AM
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Muscles are beautiful🥰 gymbros are the chads of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:31 AM
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A long way of saying you’re gonna listen to this song tonight🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:05 AM
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Lol I am the wrong person for this. I am not going to church because i believe in god but for the network
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:02 AM
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Ooof it’s Friday which means I gotta go to church in 2 days😩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:46 PM
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I also did LDR with my boyfriend and when I had the choice to either move to his city for work or another one, I chose another city. He put his foot down about that and it being hurtful so now I am in his city. If someone loves you, they cut out the bullshit and choose you🤷🏻‍♀️ Don’t be afraid to ask for what you need. You need someone that’s not far away and that you barely see. So if he can’t be that guy, I am sure another man will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:58 PM
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This is so weird. Yes, a woman should leave a man that feels comfortable hitting her. If he does it once, that’s enough of a sign he’ll do it again. Don’t wait for a pattern of abuse, leave at the first sign of it. Why are you acting like she’s divorcing over something petty when he literally physically hit her?? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:59 AM
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Ugh you got me all worked up and it’s 6am. Another day on ppd where everyone thinks that guy is above a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:36 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:36 AM
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Added to my list👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:38 PM
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You didn’t like it?🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:30 PM
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I also think 90s were definitely the golden age of cable television. Now for a show to be that long lasting, you have to put portions of it on streaming services so newbies can catch up. The cast is definitely hard, I wonder how hard it is to get the chemistry right on camera. I know SATC had a lot of issues but you’d think on camera they were actually besties
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:29 PM
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Ugh so many people have recommended ozark but have been afraid to take the plunge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:28 PM
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Do you guys have shows you wish you could forget just so you could watch it again? I am on my annual rewatch of Sex and the City and I feel that way. Why can’t Hollywood just make a show as good as that was😡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:01 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:53 PM
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I don’t think most women are sexually aggressive enough to initiate sex as much as men. They might initiate other forms of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:53 PM
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Yes, in the sense that women that don’t initiate at all and are into their partner are probably very rare. I think most women initiate but not as directly as men do, I tend to tell my partner I want him in different ways rather than just stripping him naked and having my way with him. So don’t worry too much about ending up with a woman that really never initiates, she will probably initiate by dropping hints verbally, dressing sexily to bed/around the house for you and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:47 PM
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I suppose once a week is the bare minimum. I am normally low libido and even I want sex with my bf more like minimum of 3-4x a week when he’s in town
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:38 PM
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Aww🥰 have a wonderful time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:35 PM
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Born and raised in America but I feel more Slovenian
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:56 PM
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Thanks for the giggle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:47 AM
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Finally, interesting article about my country. Hopefully we’ll have more mainstream new sites covering us so people stop calling us Slovakia (crap country)😡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:45 AM
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Agree, my level of misandry fell significantly when I started falling for my fiancé.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:43 AM
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I know from a lot of my female friends that it’s possible for a guy who looked meh to look 10/10 after they start having feelings for him I literally have never experienced this but every other woman seems to have. Unless a guy has a lot of money then yeah sure he’s a 10 now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:36 AM
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They Venmo me usually while we’re together. Although they always ask if I plan on doing shopping first and if I do, they’ll try to take me and cover it. Lowkey why I never considered sugaring seriously when I was a broke college student and struggled with covering my necessities. A) My brothers would kill me and b) it’s so much easier to just ask the men in my family for money than have sex for it and be with some old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:03 PM
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Not the only girl here but my sister is in her early 30s so they aren’t as generous with her. I am 21 and one is 5yrs older and another is ~11yrs older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:52 PM
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I tell them I have a job and make good money but to them I am still their baby sister and they insist. I am not gonna say no twice though xD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:34 PM
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Had early lunch with my brother today and it made me realize why I love being the youngest and having older brothers. They always just assume I don’t have money and every time they see me, they give me money. I have also told them when a man is bothering me and they take care of it👀 gotta love Slavs. Men are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:27 PM
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She’s not a woman. She’s a freaking 7yr old girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:57 PM
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Too busy working
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:56 PM
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Last week, I had a Hispanic neighbor-ish that told me her daughter comes back from elementary school everyday with a new bruise. She calls the school and they always say their Spanish language interpreter is not in. I decided I’d get in involved to see if I could get a hold of the school. They were very receptive to me and I just said I am a family member. We went to the school, they took the girl’s statement, and said they’d contact us later when they got a hold of the school cafeteria footage.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:52 PM
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Aww, I remember you saying this might be one of the few ones you guys do something special together since he’s been away🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:12 AM
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If she’s hot enough, it’ll work lol. But if she’s playing these games while being average, this guy will get fed up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:08 AM
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Ugh I am jealous. Homemade cheesecake is fab
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:01 PM
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I’ll offer and if he accepts, I’ll just never see him again. We both avoid wasting each other’s time because we’re not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:09 PM
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For some reason, I’ve never met a man that’s explicitly wanted things for Valentine’s Day. I just got mine cuff links and a handmade picture book. Men are pretty low maintenance on what they need/want to feel happy and appreciated🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:03 PM
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You’re so weird how are you from the same region as me😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:01 PM
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Happy Valentine’s Day and reminder there are women rationalizing why their boyfriend forgot to get them a present today😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:24 PM
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Ofc, I’d feel guilty if it was one way. I am gonna attempt cooking tomorrow night even though last time he came home to his smoke alarm going crazy. A for effort
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:43 AM
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Respect for consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:50 AM
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Fair enough, practical reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:34 AM
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Genuine distaste is fine. I just don’t get the weird evil holiday/consumerism angle from women online lol same can be said for bdays
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:26 AM
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Only on Reddit have I come across women who aren’t into Valentine’s Day and think it’s some evil holiday. I wonder if it’s virtue signaling, genuine distaste for the holiday, or just a coping mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:10 AM
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6.5 max overall, his face doesn’t break the Chad tier for me. If this is his gf, they’re matched Imo, with her edging him out if I had to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:44 AM
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Other than some people being nasty to poppy for her on going divorce, not much. Wedding is July 30th👀🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:20 AM
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Excellent, you’ve gotten too busy for the daily chat🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:20 PM
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Where is my girl u/_mwk 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:41 AM
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Nooooo I promised myself no more binge watching of mindless shows until I get this wedding done with. Any returning cast members👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:33 AM
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Fucking him doesn’t sound impressive. Let’s see if he LTRs her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:32 PM
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Yeah totally, you should avoid taking the high road when your parent is on the verge of homelessness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:26 PM
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Yeah, the parents should have done better when they were in their prime working years but they didn’t and now they’re on the verge of homelessness. So now the onus is on you to do better for your kids and not let your parent out on the streets as well. Also, my point was obviously If you have to choose between “feeding your kids or parents being on the streets”, you need to choose helping both. That’s what family does for each other, make sacrifices for one another. It’s so weird having to expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:21 AM
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If you can’t help your parents without sacrificing your children’s future, get a better job or multiple. It shouldn’t be an either/or. I’d rather be the one doing hard labor than my parents in their 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:17 AM
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My father was in the trades most of his life and didn’t really financially do well until he was in his early 50s. Up until then, my siblings and I understood my parents wouldn’t be able to retire and we knew we’d have to financially support them and/or accommodate them in our homes. I don’t understand why more Americans don’t consider that. Your parents sacrifice for you, the least you could do is make their final stage of life as comfortable as possible not facing homelessness and working a bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:41 AM
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I barely eat I gotta start there for sure it’s part of the lifestyle change I want to make. Haven’t been outside during the day as much either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:31 AM
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Other stuff I asked to get checked for were anemia/my blood count. I also did a liver panel just to be safe since that was also a blood test, was all clear. I’d suggest asking your doctor to test for vitamin D and standard stuff, and then asking if it’s possible to expand to whatever else you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:26 AM
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I don’t know what the issue is lol do we not go outside enough? Vitamin D making itself hard to get
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:23 AM
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So a few weeks ago I said on here how I was suffering from fatigue even though I sleep 8hrs every night and haven’t been doing anything too extraneous. A few people on here told me get my Vitamin D levels checked and after a blood test, apparently I am deficient. I thought it might be some sort of seasonal depression but glad it’s something I can fix with supplements and a slightly altered lifestyle. I didn’t know low vitamin D levels could make someone feel groggy for a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:12 AM
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I dated a few Indian guys and fell in love with SRK movies (very basic). Now have expanded into even watching Koffee with Karan😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:16 PM
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Same reason people consume Korean movies/shows lol shit is good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:02 PM
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Any Bollywood watchers here? Saw Veer Zaara last night and jfc, has to be one of the top 10 movies based on soundtrack. Almost as good as K3G
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:13 PM
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YESS but it was such an underwhelming reveal of what we were all speculating would be some crazy scar. Why the hell are all bald guys that insecure Also, did you hear the rumor Hamza is in the US so he probably married miss sexy time? If a man marries you after you vividly discuss your shit, give him the green card asap😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:18 AM
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😂❤️ could be worse, imagine if you had compared him to a 90DayFiance guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:04 AM
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I’ve only been dating him since July 2021 and haven’t had pizza since the lockdown of 2020. Looks like the wait will continue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:56 AM
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Have you compared the types of jobs you’d be able to get in the civilian world vs in the army? For something like Arabic, I do think Army will serve you better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:47 AM
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My brother got into the military through the ROTC program and now has been a commissioned officer for about ~10yrs. Honestly, people online seem to think most military roles are straight up combat and they’re not, pick a solid transferable skill/degree and you’ll be solid afterwards. I know there are a lot of people that just do the basic 4yrs afterwards and even that helps: lots of government contractors eager to higher vets & benefits are good. I would only be concerned about the time commitme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:39 AM
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I don’t use slang with my parents but I do sometimes say “hey fam” when they’re both in the room as a greeting. Don’t act like an old man, you’re a Zoomer too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:11 AM
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I don’t know how other places do it but where we’re going is charging us for tastings. They have a tastings package😬
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:07 AM
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9.5s because they can’t eat all the fun food😭😭 what’s the point of living
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:02 AM
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POV: You’re wedding planning with a gymbro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:52 AM
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Yep, you’re wasting people’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:48 PM
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The worst thing about living in the suburbs at 21 is the fact that kids are EVERYWHERE. I can’t even have a brunch with a friend without a goddamn toddler in the room. We need people with kids to also get their kids to understand the first time they say hi to you it’s cute but by the 5th time, I am annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:48 PM
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I feel like an incel, I am just sitting in my car because I don’t wanna walk into my new place. It’s too empty, so instead listening to Maluma🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:20 AM
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🫂🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:14 AM
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Children that aren’t mine, yes. But I am young and men my age don’t have kids, I am sure the older women would be more open to it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:09 AM
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click here for boob pics!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:09 AM
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No, I don’t wanna raise someone else’s kids. I can barely stand kids biologically related to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:55 AM
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Men are wonderful❤️😌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:49 AM
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Probably true, I can’t even masturbate right and I am 21
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:40 AM
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Bestie, this man is BROKEN beyond repair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah, I don’t understand claiming he’s some Chad. The women he banged were no stacies, at least not the ones on Tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:01 AM
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I don’t think this guy is attractive but it seems like I am in the minority on this…and he’s a designer which isn’t a hot profession for a straight man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:33 PM
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Omg😂 have mercy on bad gift givers bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah, he occasionally does but it’s always unknowingly. I showed up 45mins late to our date and he got me a really nice watch I liked afterwards but it falls under his gift giving philosophy of practicality. I am trying the RPW method and praising him when he does eventually get it right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:06 PM
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Ofc he always gets A for effort
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:56 PM
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I am uncomfortable with telling anyone what to get me on special occasions so it’s not just a him thing. It’s better to let people buy what they can As for a gun being a cool present, I am super anti-guns so not really for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:44 PM
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Why are we celebrating the bare minimum👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:42 PM
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Yeah that’s why his practical gift giving style will eventually lead to me getting a vacuum for our anniversary😅 The book is Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:37 PM
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My fiancé got me a book for Valentine’s Day. I am convinced when we get married, he’ll buy me a vacuum at some point because he keeps buying me the opposite of what I want and my principles won’t let me directly ask for what I want. Last couple of presents were stocks for Christmas and a gun(!) on my birthday😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:14 PM
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Big families🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:31 AM
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I thought you had a granddaughter already
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:05 AM
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The best looking guy friend I had almost matched women’s like ratios on Tinder. An average woman can expect to get to 99+ likes before she even fills out her entire profile (interests, more than 1 pic etc). He put 2 pics on and had 99+ likes within an hour or two albeit this was in LA during the pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:37 AM
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Even in Millennial households, aren’t the women responsible for more childcare than the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:24 AM
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Just sharing an anecdote babe no need to get snarky😘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:16 AM
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Most of my friends around my age ~19-24 in relationships seem to be fence-sitters when it comes to kids while their boyfriends know for sure they would like to have kids someday, some even have a timeline in mind. Same thing in my relationship; my fiancé is fairly certain he wants kids in the next couple of years and I wouldn’t mind having them then but I also wouldn’t mind having them in 9yrs when I am 30. Maybe it’s because men’s bodies aren’t affected, but it seems like Gen Z men are more sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:58 AM
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Be Civil
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:38 AM
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I worry about the wait times tbh. I can get a hold of most of the specialists I need fairly easily and within 1-2 weeks if it’s not holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:28 AM
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I am talking about healthcare bestie not Hulu🤣 it would bring down the cost. Do you wanna pay $85 for an x ray? Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:54 AM
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Papa Biden has to figure this universal healthcare stuff out. I just paid $85 for an x ray, somewhere in the EU, people are paying $10/month for this crap
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:33 AM
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He sounds unattractive but she might be too. I don’t believe women stay with unattractive men when they could do better across the board (looks+status) and she simply might not be able to which makes her unattractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:57 AM
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Literally what the discord channel is called. Ask the mods😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:47 AM
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Not quite. Paying the bill to leave asap isn’t even the two step😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:46 AM
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I’m out of the mourning phase bestie. This was more of a response to some of the chatter in the basement of the discord (channel for sexless men)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:24 AM
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Also that sex drive is responsible for many great things in this world Yeah kinda pathetic men making the world a better place to live just to get pussy😭✋ but I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:23 AM
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The more I learn about men’s sexual experiences, the more disgusted I become of male nature. Most men do way too much just to get laid. And then wonder why women think their pussy is platinum…it’s because the vast majority of men are dancing monkeys for it. It’s appalling, I wish more men were voluntarily celibate because the power a man’s sex drive has over them is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:04 AM
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Yeah I don’t have the balls for that. I’d be up all night wondering if she could afford it😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:07 PM
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You haven’t met weird zoomer girls and it shows😩 if you ask for the check and end up texting on your phone for several minutes when it comes with no intention of looking up or making conversation, it’s safe to assume you’re not trying to pay. She’s also unemployed so l assumed this was just her fleecing me and she couldn’t afford to pick up even her half (she ordered way more than I did). And I ultimately paid because I just wanted to leave without making a scene. Yeah no one wants to pay for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:57 PM
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Damn, what did I do to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:55 PM
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I am not even dating these girls thooo it’s ✨friend dates✨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:45 PM
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It wasn’t even a real date it was friend date😭😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:24 PM
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I just wanted to get out of there and I doubt she could afford the bill being unemployed & all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:20 PM
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Went on a Bumble BFF lunch date and it was the worst thing that’s happened to me all year. Girl was on her phone the entire time overthinking texts to her ex, ordered 3 courses and didn’t finish a single one, and asked for the check only to browse her phone for 10mins leading to me eventually paying. She picked an expensive restaurant so I am out a pretty penny after an utterly dreadful afternoon with her. She didn’t seem bothered for one second by her behavior and said we should hangout again t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:53 PM
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I would abort because single motherhood is not cute at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:23 AM
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Being a mature adult is knowing when to listen to your head. This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:37 AM
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There seems to be an epidemic of women playing themselves by saying they want a relationship and then sticking around and sleeping with men that make it clear they don’t want one. I just don’t get how stupid you have to be to hear someone say “I don’t want/am not ready for what you want from me” and just say okay cool let’s have casual sex for the next 2yrs😭 Say what you want from FDS, but I’d rather someone didn’t get played like this and stuck to being single with their high standards than con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:42 AM
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She’s not as attractive physically and on paper as she thinks she is💔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:37 PM
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A lot of family friendly places are like this I bet. I am just not used to those spaces since the major city I lived in had more gyms/places targeting single young people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:51 PM
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The rings helped me feel more comfortable mainly because I didn’t feel like they’d hit on me and they didn’t. Mostly minded their own business and polite chatter Not sure if there are women that see the wedding ring as making the men more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:43 PM
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This morning I thought I would go to our community center gym for the first time right when they open to avoid the “morning rush.” I get there 3mins before they open at 5am and there is a line to enter🤨 WASPy place too. I spent an hour and a half inside and it was the most peaceful stint I’ve ever had in a gym. The men were all wearing wedding rings and many were with their wives too since there are early morning group yoga/Pilates classes. Everyone minding their own business, courteous men that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:36 PM
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Omg such a obscure show. Wild someone here knows it too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:29 PM
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I think there was a somewhat similar show called “Beauty and The Geek” but I don’t remember if they did makeovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:29 PM
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Don’t you feel overdressed when you do that😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:26 PM
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By the time we get married, we’ll be engaged 6-7 months. Yeah we’ll move back in together when we get married, we just don’t believe in cohabitation before marriage. Had to briefly since I moved to his city and the apartment I wanted wouldn’t have a unit vacated for a month or so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:56 AM
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With you I’d settle for one date a month😩
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:21 AM
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Are you just hanging out at his place indefinitely or moved in?👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:10 AM
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Moving out of my fiancé’s place this Friday since my apartment is ready. Living with him for 1.5 months was great but damn do I miss being able to blast Taylor Swift while in the shower. I was chatting with a friend about my brief cohabitation stint and she has a similar complaint: before we moved in together, we had 3-4 date nights a week minimum since that’s when we saw each other. The 1.5 months of living with him has made our date nights somewhat infrequent (1-2x) a week. It’s like moving in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:40 AM
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I consider them both same tier but I had a strong suspicion someone I recently unblocked would lose their mind over me calling her fat too😮‍💨 and we’re not allowed to block people for being wrong anymore so anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:24 PM
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Her stomach is literally hanging out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:20 PM
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Same thing to me but I do think she’s smaller than him so I am sure others would get nitpicky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:07 PM
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I am worried about their blood pressure and them being at a higher risk for cardiac arrest!! Humanitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:06 PM
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As long as it’s chocolate chip💋
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:04 PM
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No babe it’s not all about looks🥲 worry about her blood pressure and risk of cardiac arrest vs a slim fit person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:00 PM
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Thick is literally chubby or fat most of the time. And yes he’s fat, how the hell can anyone else not see this😭 he has a big belly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:45 PM
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We really need to do something about all of these fat or chubby people in this country. Yes this is chubby for a woman even if most men find it attractive. And this is fat for a man no matter how many women find it cute. Health is beyond aesthetics folks💯 flat stomachs for women and abs for men is what I say we should impose
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:34 PM
2

Probably asked him for boob pics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:16 AM
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They’re dragging it out. Was Alina cut out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:25 AM
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u/SmurfESmurferson Gino’s ex messaged Jasmine that he’s basically sending her nudes out and what did she do? She lost her shit with the poor girl. I always knew this was gonna happen because of the show season trailer having a clip about it but I am so exciting. I haven’t seen tonight’s episode yet but I will in an hour😱 I regret introducing my boyfriend to this show because now I can’t watch without him😩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:17 AM
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I don’t mind, it’s the price you pay for wanting well groomed gymbros with a skincare routine that shave daily
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:52 PM
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Wow, she’s down bad. 2 days in and acting like that…by day 10 she’ll be scrubbing his toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:54 PM
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I am 3/10 in the looks department but my personality is sooooo good that men ignore my looks🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:34 PM
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Bad skin makes you less attractive so it’s not just skin and for a lot of people, their lifestyle choices are the reason they have bad skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:12 PM
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Lol just last night I was being accused of being gay sexual on the PPD server because I need a man to have near perfect skin. I feel like women that don’t have really good skin use more make up anyways so both genders should attempt to better their skin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:50 PM
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Not really, we have a lot of discord users who used to post on here but stopped when they joined the server because it’s much more active. Maybe 3-4 regular sub users are active on the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:32 PM
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My pettiness backfired last night: I was upset with my guy so I moved all the way to the edge of the bed. When his alarm went off this morning, I woke up to the sound of me falling off the bed😮‍💨 Every petty action has a consequence and mine is a red bruise on my forehead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:12 PM
2

You’re such a jerk but I like you wtf😪
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:41 AM
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Not sure if it was atlas or another regular that said this but I definitely think male love is possessive and him posting her on Reddit for all men without her knowledge isn’t something a man that loves his wife would do. Annoying how widespread the “therapy will fix all” propaganda is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:08 AM
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This post about a woman finding out her husband posts her nudes on Reddit on a throwaway which is linked in her update blew up on the r/Marriage sub got me thinking. Q4Married Women: If you found this out, would you divorce over it? It just feels like a step too far for me. A big break of trust and I don’t believe couple’s therapy can fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:01 AM
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Thriller and I have a rec: Before You Go To Sleep, amazing psychological thriller starring Nicole Kidman. She’s playing the role of a woman that wakes up everyday without her memory. Only suggestion is to go in blind, don’t read anything online about it beyond what I wrote. Makes the movie better and it’s on Amazon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:53 AM
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It’s weird being on Bumble and not having 50+ likes so hush let me enjoy my male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:55 AM
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Already found a few gals into the show😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:15 AM
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Female friendships are borderline gay anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:59 PM
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Update on my Bumbke BFF excursion: 15-16 matches, messaged all of them first because I am extroverted and women would let our match expire. 9 replied, 4 gave me their number and the rest are in the first few chats so haven’t asked for number yet. Looks like the only one I have texted so far on her cell wants to meet up tomorrow night😀 I kinda feel like a man with so few matches but I am pretty happy all of my matches are with other Swifties/engaged/taken women and we seem to have a lot in common…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:50 PM
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Omg that’s goals, yeah I moved to a completely different region of the US. Only friends I have right now are through my fiancé so trying to find my own circle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:14 PM
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Yep, I doubt men use it though🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:14 PM
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I am making a Bumble BFF profile and I am so nervous. Men are easy, women are a whole another ballgame😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:54 PM
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Ah I see, I don’t subscribe to that TRP logic and haven’t seen it occur with me but seems like a lot of women keep dating men they don’t like on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:04 PM
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Thanks bestie, guess I am just an AWALTy woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:33 PM
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If you have requirements for who you find attractive, how can it be “achieved by all kinds of dudes?” Idk no matter what, I am not finding a guy my height attractive irl (5’9) and accepting advances from him. Same thing goes for someone who went to a school I don’t like or makes way less than me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:16 PM
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I am shallow, don’t use me as an example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:14 PM
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Lol I am engaged so seems fine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:11 PM
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This post made me realize I don’t have preference, I have requirements since I wouldn’t date men outside my “preferences.” Everything from race to height/education/body+face, and income feel like non-negotiables to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:58 PM
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That’s a little much, I’ve never been on a dinner date with a man I didn’t find attractive. Would rather pay and hangout with a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:30 AM
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Not my fault men are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:48 AM
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Based. I remember I went through a phase where my grocery shopping for a month was like $100 because I was eating out on dates so often. Men are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:37 AM
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Who says I am paying😌 last time I paid for a dinner out was with a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:33 AM
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It’s hilarious but a time sink. You won’t see many regulars from the subreddit though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:57 PM
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He’s 56 and looks pretty bad to me but this sub keeps surprising me with the ratings so I am expecting the consensus to be something crazy like 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:40 PM
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FDS ruined that emoji for me😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:35 PM
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Not all of those standards, but she’s young enough and above average so she could probably get some 35+yr old guy that makes decent money. Idk why her looks standards skyrocketed, her boyfriend (now ex) wasn’t attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:30 PM
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Not all of those standards but I think she could get some older guy that makes like 100k which would be a big improvement in comparison to her broke ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:28 PM
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Lol this secured the bag lingo is funny, I left way before I even met my fiancé. They trauma bond, I don’t have any relationship trauma to bond over and I am okay with giving men the benefit of the doubt occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:27 PM
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I don’t see the issue with giving someone I’ve met IRL my insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:22 PM
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I am probably gonna block her but bestie really sent me a list of requirements before even asking me how I am doing😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:19 PM
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23 iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:17 PM
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When I was on FDS early last year, I met up with this girl and she decided to message me 8 months later to ask me to set her up. We have each other on social media and she’s not too bad but off the rails with her standards. She was actively posting on the subreddit about scrotes while in a relationship with a scrote😭. Sometimes I pinch myself to check if this is real life like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:10 PM
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I feel like all of those social programs / “free stuff” have become so synonymous with modern liberals/progressives that someone like you would probably be considered Moderate/Independent. I vaguely recall discussion about the electability of Biden vs Bernie in 2020 DNC convention from political commentators and the main worry in the party being that Bernie would alienate voters like you: people who would otherwise vote for a democrat but may not because of Bernie running on a lot of “free stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:00 AM
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I’m a basic urban liberal and probably even lean progressive: Medicare for All Camapign finance reform Free community college Universal Pre-K Protecting women’s right to choose Increase worker’s rights (mandate PTO, paid maternity leave, regulate union busting methods used by large corporations like Amazon/Starbucks). I am practically Trump on some issues like Immigration and transgender rights though, but the latter isn’t important enough to sway my vote just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:42 AM
1

Do you plan on having kids at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:20 AM
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Do you have to announce it when they’re asking for license and registration?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:19 AM
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Yeah fairly often since they’re very politically involved and we rarely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:12 AM
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It would. He lives in a poor city in the US with one of the lowest literacy rates and girls desperate for sugar daddies. Also the girl he’s talking about is a butter face with a good ass so idk what world she’s an 8 in (he posted her in the ppd discord server a few nights ago)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:03 AM
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I have come to terms with all of my boyfriend’s weird Republican tendencies except his need to carry a gun. We got pulled over and he HAD to tell the cop🥴 I was half expecting the cop to pull his on us but he asked for his permit and was really nice. But damn, my liberal heart almost stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:00 AM
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He’s the guy that tells women he’ll pay them for sex but ghosts afterwards😂 this woman is from sugar baby site.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:58 AM
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Not me bestie🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:28 PM
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Yeah it was fairly recent, you haven’t been as active since Nov-Dec
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:00 PM
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I find the discipline pretty sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:56 PM
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I’d be fine with it being considered Chapter 13 bankruptcy. Your credit score being fucked for 7yrs and having to pay some of the debt is a decent enough incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:20 PM
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Slovenian, close enough😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:59 PM
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Huh, our aid included room & board. Did you go to a private school that was known for bad packages (I.e NYU)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:52 PM
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Thanks bestie but no. My parents made really good money for the first time in 2019 when my dad bought his fleet of trucks after saving for nearly a decade. He was a bus driver for most of my childhood and my mom worked part time in my school cafeteria and babysat neighborhood kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:46 PM
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I always thought I broadly supported Student Loan forgiveness because I thought it would help poor students that got into debt for college. But now that I am thinking it through a bit more, I am a little confused. When I started college, my family’s household income was 90k but my brother was attending college too at the same time and I am one of 5. That qualified me to attend my university practically free of charge although I had to do work-study as part of my financial aid package. So I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:36 PM
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It would be practically advising him to completely overhaul his personality and change who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:21 PM
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Lol why does this sound like something guys say to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:21 PM
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Getting fat together is part of the American dream I am sure😂 As for telling him there is someone I am interested in, I am engaged so he knows there is someone I am interested in. I feel like women are easier to comfort, men poke too much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:49 AM
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He’s very average but has a great personality and good job so I think he can date up easily. He just seems to go after girls that care about his flaws…so him being a 5’7 guy hitting on girls that often date guys in the college basketball team, him being shy/nerdy and wanting girls that often date super outgoing frat boys. He’s attracted to people that he has little in common with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:39 AM
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Lmao I am not sure what I am but all good lines. I think I am gonna settle on something like “I am very shallow and crazy, you don’t want a girl like me!” It’s always awkward because it’s rare for men to open up about their physical insecurities and i don’t know how to handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:17 AM
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I really hate it when you’re trying to make a guy friend feel better about his looks and he points out you wouldn’t date a guy that looked like him😵‍💫 wtf do you say to that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:58 AM
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This is legitimately redpilling to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:03 AM
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Lol fair point, the girls I know that cared about this didn’t cohabitate before marriage either so it makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:12 PM
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I don’t believe love is enough for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:10 PM
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I understand the former but not the latter. Do you have a bad relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:09 PM
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Yeah same, I trust my dad’s judgement, wouldn’t marry a man he thought ill of
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:00 PM
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HVM👑 although I am not sure why a woman would want to marry a man her family doesn’t like. Marriage is the joining of families
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:40 PM
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Is it considered old fashioned in the US to ask for a girl’s hand from her dad before proposing nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:29 PM
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u/Bandit174 remember the guy that got a PS5 and MacBook from the old white lady? He wouldn’t sleep with her even then but he finally did😂. I don’t believe they just laid there all night and no sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:08 AM
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Modern women want Beta Buxx to not only move states for them but also live in a different house after marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:58 PM
2

Okay you win, how many links you got bookmarked😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:33 AM
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The soldiers were men👩‍🦯 why are men carrying out destruction hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:55 AM
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It’s just unfortunate men are to blame for most things. Sucks to suck🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:42 AM
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CMV: Women doing sex work is almost always due to childhood neglect from their fathers - either financial or emotional. Men could significantly decrease destructive expressions of promiscuity by being present, providers, and fathers😌 Men neglect their daughters and wonder why they have to fuck men twice their age for college textbooks smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:15 AM
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50% seems somewhat low, i lowkey think gender matters too. A female senior colleague is the only person who went dutch with me, the rest were men and older so they covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:30 PM
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Solid, 90DayFiance historian. Although i think the show became somewhat Twitter mainstream during Mohamed and Danielle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:51 PM
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Q4A: Do you pay on outings with siblings/friends that are younger (I.e you’re 30, they’re 25, 5+yr difference) I have been having lunch with older colleagues and they all insist on paying and cite my age
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:47 PM
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TLC producers are going to hell, have you noticed how they always have translators with good translations and then let couples use shitty Google translate knock offs instead for maximum “lost in translation” drama😂 u/SmurfESmurferson u/simeneta_two
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:40 PM
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It’s not off, the contrast is just funny especially since those are all “A list” celebs of our generation or the previous one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:58 AM
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Yeah I think that and coupled with the fact he’s never had social media and it’s understandable albeit rare. Idk how a guy would know how the Kardashians look if they’ve never even opened IG…not like most men were finding out about them through KUWTK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:32 AM
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In my mostly Gen Z friend group, it’s turning into a game seeing how many celebrities my boyfriend doesn’t know. We hungout for dinner tonight and discovered on top of not being able to tell the Kardashians apart, he has no idea who Zendaya is, Miley Cyrus, or Sarah Jessica Parker. Meanwhile, he can name his favorite football team’s players just from their shirt numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:12 AM
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For ALL 90DayFiance newbies on here, please watch this 2min clip in which a man explains what happened when he stopped fucking his American wife. I liked the guy for at least not saying why he wasn’t gonna fuck her anymore but she had to say it😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:11 PM
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Especially since there is an episode tonight😤
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:10 PM
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Everyday that passes, my misandry dwindles. Need to look at r/FemaleDatingStrategy again soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:08 PM
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Smh would rather die than be fat😌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:32 AM
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110k base but with sign on bonus and performance bonuses can go back up to ~160-180k probably. I always assumed r/FatFIRE would be for people who made a lot more like 300k-ish and were looking for an FI number that’s 5M+. I am used to being frugal and I am only 21 so the demographics fit me a bit better at r/FIRE but that sub has given me money anxiety. Might check out r/FinancialIndependence instead
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:20 AM
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Are you looking for the RE part? I am much more interested in hitting the FI number so I can do more rewarding work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:51 AM
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The one this season is bad but not as bad, remember the sugar baby from Miami???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:38 AM
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No, although I’d worry about that if I didn’t make a rule to not check my portfolio often. I went to dinner with my wedding make up artist and it was basically $120 + tip, I paid but I felt nauseous at spending that much even though I am making good money. I have issues not feeling guilty spending money and it’s more or less made me miserable. Even though I make more than my college years, I am trying to spend as little as I did back then and it’s a little anxiety inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:33 AM
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Coulda been me but you’re playing games bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:30 AM
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Yeah my rent is technically gonna be 2.5k/month😭. I think it’s too simplistic to just say FIRE is all about living below your means, you have to make some very prudent and somewhat fortunate investments over the long term as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:29 AM
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I have so much anxiety around money now even though I am making more than I ever did before. I need to boycott r/FIRE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:01 AM
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OOOH I know who you’re talking about. He was the big guy that got into a bar fight so he couldn’t come to the US? Bearded fella
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:00 AM
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It’s worth it bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:58 PM
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I think we only had one British guy and that was Tom (Darcey). He was awful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:58 PM
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Omg you’re beautiful u/Mrs_Drgree, thank you for this thread😤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:57 PM
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I don’t believe in 80/20. I think it’s more like 90/10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:12 PM
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A few weeks ago someone on PPD server asked me to post an average guy from my school and I did, he was subsequently dubbed above average since he was tall and athletic. It’s easy to say I am underrating men but I don’t even notice the statistically average men. So when I think of the average man, I am already filtering for “the men I notice” and most likely they’re just plain, not chubby or short. I feel like men on PPD can’t grasp the fact that when women go outside, they’re not noticing the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:55 PM
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I hope he doesn’t get fired because some weirdos on the internet feel entitled to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:23 AM
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Yuck, bitches need to chill tf out. Edit: just saw a pic, the face isn’t hot so idk, maybe nyc girls dig designers and 6’4 is obviously nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:23 AM
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Tldr on whatever this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:08 AM
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This is different: go to any Tiktok video with a woman that has something that men understand is expensive I.e an expensive car and you’ll see a decent # of comments calling it her daddy’s or that her daddy bought it for her and it’s said to be a “diss.” I just personally don’t see why it’s bad that someone’s parents can afford them certain luxuries through their hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:33 PM
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It’s standard jealousy, I just don’t see how it’s shameful to benefit from your parent’s hard work. That’s probably the c*ope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:31 PM
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I don’t understand the logic when presumably their fathers worked hard so they could give their kids certain privileges in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:19 PM
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Same, and I just don’t get why I should feel bad for spending money my father worked hard for so I could have it easier than him in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:08 PM
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There is this trend on Tiktok in the comments from men whenever a woman is showing off a shopping spree/an expensive car etc, dozens of men are in the comments saying something about “daddy’s money” (if the woman doesn’t say anything about a bf in the video). Weird shaming tactic, it’s like men don’t get gifts from their parents too😂 or aren’t financially supported by their parents when they can’t figure shit out. I think most things I own over a certain amount of money are bought by my dad/brot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:39 PM
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I don’t get all the shaming of porn usage that’s happening apparently. I rarely see people shame moderate usage of porn, they shame a dependency on porn. I don’t use porn and prefer a partner that doesn’t but even I am not hating on the guys that can fuck live women just fine and use it to masturbate when alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:06 AM
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I doubt many people can buy a house “flat out” which I am assuming you mean with cash? The common media narrative I am hearing is with a loan, somehow it’s very popular to state Millennials can’t afford homeownership due to the burden of student loans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:58 PM
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Millennials of PPD, can your millennial friends afford buying a home? Everyday there is some video or news article about how student loans are stifling Millenials’ homebuying ambitions but there are loans that let you put down as little as 3.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:32 PM
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I already do that but I am engaged so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:32 PM
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I just found out they decided to make Super Bowl weekend clash with Valentine’s Day weekend. WTF is wrong with modern men😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:27 PM
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PPD always boosts my ego whenever there is a post about fitness. I am out here eating pringles and somehow in better shape than most people😤. In a much more related note, this OP concluded men have to date down in fitness, has anyone else noticed a lot of bodybuilders are with heavier women anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:47 PM
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Yeah I am 21yr old and I prefer pretty boys right now although I keep hearing I’ll change my preference when I am 25+
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:04 PM
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I think the fact that guy is in contention for top of all time is absolutely distressing and just proves how low women’s standards are. Idk why men think on here only real chads get laid, an average fat guy is getting these women wet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:34 AM
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This is the fat guy I was referring to but the guy you posted is chubby to me. I know he’s probably average to most American women though. I am gymbro-sexual so my standards for men’s bodies are not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:26 AM
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I go on there and wonder what age range the users are because the men aren’t hot to me anymore since they’re much older than me. Or someone like Tom Holland who’s short. They literally upvoted fat men to the front page of their sub🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:06 AM
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On whim after reading your comment, I decided to look through the user manual since the box it came in was near me and now my issue is fixed😅 um I should start reading those things Thanks a bunch!!🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:04 AM
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Do you have an iPhone with a headphone port??? I miss corded headphones for their reliability, could pick them up for less than $10 and last you several years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:34 AM
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Yeah hoping I’ll get tired of only hearing my music on one ear and get past the nausea I feel when I spend money on non essentials. Might take a few months tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:34 AM
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I need new AirPods because I dropped my old ones in water but I feel utterly nauseous spending $100+ for headphones so I bought these instead and the ears don’t even connect to one another so I can only hear music from one ear. In trying to save money, I took a considerable step back in quality😬 not sure this is what r/Fire fellows mean when they say we have to live below our means to FIRE comfortably. Edit: nvm a ppd smartie helped
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:26 AM
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Bestie, his first whaaaat? How old is your man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:10 PM
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Similar reason here, I probably use it the most just to see what stores he’s near so I can ask him to pick me up snacks🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:04 AM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:19 AM
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I did it when I was about to travel through an unsafe area in his city without him and he was worried about me and it just stuck. Makes sense not to if you’re spending a lot of time together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:13 AM
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Follow up: why? have you guys never seen the use in it or does either one of you see it as controlling/weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:11 AM
1

Q4PPDers in a relationship: Do you and your partner share locations (through an app like Life360 etc)?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:06 AM
1

Did you see last episode when she was in the car talking about how men would be all over her if she was skinny😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:13 AM
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The old male model that has never FaceTimed? Knowing TLC, we’re losing our fat white girl obsessed with Asian men for that guy for a few episodes before he discovers she’s a catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:10 AM
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u/SmurfESmurferson How do you feel about a post like this ending up in the uncensored sub? I have seen plenty of the white trash ladies called “ratchet” and doubt many members of the sub are using it to mean much more than just a synonym to “trashy/unkept” I don’t understand why a post like that needs to end up in the uncensored sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:21 PM
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I don’t care about it like that, I care in a “huh he knows these topics too so I can chat to him about it” sort of way. I think you’re misunderstanding why I wanna know if he’s TRP😂 it would be an interesting coincidence to talk about openly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:15 PM
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I just wanna know if he’s lurking some pill subreddit I am in. It would be interesting, nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:06 PM
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21
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:17 PM
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I haven’t heard of that being referred to as an “epiphany” outside of the pillsphere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:09 PM
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I am convinced my older Marine brother was on TRP or a pill adjacent community at some point. I was telling him about my engagement and he said “I am glad you had your epiphany at 21, most women have it at 30” - that has to be something from TRP. He fits the general RP mold of being obsessed with his physique, has a sahm wife that’s pretty submissive, thinks modern women aren’t marriage material etc. Are there any RP influencers I can see if he follows on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:02 PM
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Based, enjoy the good life🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:56 PM
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5’5 guy tweeted about it and decided to revel in his cucked status so let’s see what he can do in the ring🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:46 AM
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Good dad things❤️ have a beer bestie. You deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:44 AM
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I am in the closet though, can’t have my girlfriends knowing I like watching men beat each other up🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:43 AM
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I am ashamed because I know what the hell you’re talking about😭 We need Dana to book the fight already even though they’re different weight classes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:09 AM
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👏✨ good job! I am sure it took a lot of hard work to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:53 AM
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I am pretending I am not working today by taking 20min breaks every 2hrs of work. Just when I was convincing myself I am totally not working on a weekend, a friend at a tech company sent me his pics in Cancun where he’s working remotely😥 How these tech companies function while half of their workforce is at home working 4hrs a day is beyond me but I am jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:42 PM
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Bestie wtf😭😂 is it purge again already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:26 PM
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I’ve never seen an uncircumcised one oddly enough😭 hard to find many uncut ones in the US I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:19 PM
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Q4Americans: Will you circumcise your future sons☕️? I feel like if I ask most normal American men outside of the manosphere, since they’re circumcised, they’d just say yes. But I might get more No(s) here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:12 PM
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I’d eat her ass HVM things🍾👏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:50 PM
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At least your issue with it is logistical, respect it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:36 AM
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She’s your girlfriend, you’ve been exclusive for 3 months. Does that change your response? Girl in question was called clingy and overzealous for doing so, curious if that’s how men here would see it too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:09 AM
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Q4M: How would you take getting roses from a girl you’re dating for a 3 month anniversary?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:46 AM
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I don’t believe any woman that truly vets the men she likes is ready to go in 12 seconds. She can feel attracted to a man, and he can totally ruin that with his actions/words subsequently. And for myself, I’ve never thought “this guy isn’t my physical type” and somehow got through that because I found other traits appealing. A lot of women are like that somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:28 AM
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Atlanta is one of the few I kind think of but it’s full of transplants. The city I am in has way less transplants, it could be class too to an extent I suppose. Most of the guys I am coming across have their finances order thanks to their families, college educated, and tend to be Christian. It would make sense why they wouldn’t need to worry about “setting” themselves up in their careers before considering marriage + children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:01 PM
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It’s a little bit of a culture shock having lived in one of the biggest cities in the country that was also super liberal and everyone would avoid talking about wanting kids or a family until they were established in their careers in their 30s. Now in a mid sized southern city in a mostly Christian social circle, it’s not out of the ordinary hearing a 24-25yr old guy saying he wants kids and a wife in the next couple of years. I feel like the general consensus I was raised on is women get baby f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:53 PM
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Not Anfisa making a Tiktok 😂 u/SmurfESmurferson - it’s hard to say this woman wasn’t always honest at least
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:07 PM
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Obviously not a 100% but we all have our major turn offs🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:34 AM
1

Wait til I tell him!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:44 AM
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Last aka clean shaven. You look younger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:26 AM
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Not my VP messaging me at 9pm my time to ask me to go over something🤡 people in finance don’t understand work-life balance ffs. Go to bed old man and leave me be on a Friday night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:24 AM
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You’re like a much better version of Aldabruzzo🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:32 PM
1

Part of how I see some hobbies are more suited for a man over gaming is about the amount of activity involved and how intellectual I find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:27 PM
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I literally agree with him on this, and they were both pretty awful in their exchange. I wouldn’t have said anything tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:19 PM
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Mine is having a double standard for men doing mindless activities smh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:18 PM
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We both tend to believe it’s not a masculine hobby. I’ve lucked out now dating any guys that do, most usually like working on cars and playing sports/working out. I would personally be turned off by a guy that actively games, but I also associate it with all the stereotypes of gamer dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:17 PM
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Oh hush, don’t expose me like that!😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:12 PM
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Thankfully we weren’t in his home👀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:11 PM
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I tend to agree with him that men shouldn’t game, I just wouldn’t ever say it to a guy that games IRL. We’re a good match😋
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:03 PM
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Mostly because he’s never that way with me and I actually agree with him on the gaming stuff. Can’t stand gamer guys, and his belief that men need masculine hobbies is one I share. 99% of the things he says I agree with lol I just wouldn’t say them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:01 PM
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Seeing your flair yeah for sure. He’s definitely old fashioned, thinks men should do manly things and not play video games. I am only annoyed how it manifested, I 100% agree with what he actually said. Can’t stand men gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah but it would disrupt harmony for our men to not like each other and still hangout. So I take the easy route and just cut that person out if they’re not too meaningful. Have known the girl only ~4 months
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:30 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:24 PM
1

Not sure, but gaming from 4-8:30pm daily doesn’t really allow you much time to do other things I’d assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:18 PM
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I kinda dig it when I don’t lose a friend over it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:17 PM
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Sadly I am attracted to toxic masculinity😢 but I’ll tell him even boomers game so he’s just living under a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:15 PM
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Last night, my boyfriend and I went over to a friend’s house and met her boyfriend for the first time. The guy is in tech, believes 40hr work week is a scam, and has an entire section of his apartment for his gaming gadgets (as he eagerly showed us pictures and told us he games from 4-8:30pm most days). Somewhere during his talk about his gaming consoles; my boyfriend says “aren’t you a little old for video games” which led to a 2hr debate where my bf was being a douchebag and my friend’s guy ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:07 PM
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Some men can actually masturbate without porn😅, shocking revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:04 PM
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It’s so satisfying seeing the rest of the world discover clips/storylines or characters from 90DayFiance organically while u/SmurfESmurferson and I have casually been keeping up with this mess🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:58 PM
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~10% actually do any form of sex work at one point or actively attempt to (sign up for a sugaring site, make an OF but never post etc). I’d say most girls have given a passing thought to it though. I would never partake in sex work but I have sometimes thought to myself “damn I wish I had a sugar daddy” without putting any legwork to find one or even thinking about it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:10 AM
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Thanks bestie❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:24 PM
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First day of my big girl post grad job😁 wish me luck PPD, I finally feel like an actual adult
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:13 PM
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Okay I forgot I recorded this episode so I can watch it right now and it’s so cringey how psycho Alina got. Ximenna describing Mike is what all the incels here think of when they say women aren’t attracted to their beta partners — first thing she literally says is that he’s shorter than she expected😂 My top storylines are the white lady with the Asian fetish, Memphis and Tunisian guy, and Gino and the crazy Latina (only because I saw a preview where she finds out he’s been sending her nudes to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:54 AM
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Thanks babes, you totally wouldn’t be watching it😉 Did you see Anfisa’s YouTube channel where she discusses her time on the show?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:32 AM
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I don’t have it and since I already get Hulu Live through my bf it feels like a waste. Wish they’d just show me the damn episodes on time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:32 AM
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u/SmurfESmurferson how do you watch our show? I watch on Hulu and the episodes that air tonight don’t show up until 1am☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:12 AM
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Melania and I are from the same country and younger her probably has my body type more than Anfisa. Anfisa is legitimately unattractive idk how she’s getting men to finance her lifestyle but I am proud of her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:16 PM
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I don’t necessarily disagree with a lot of Blackpill, I just don’t understand in your case what aspects are relevant. Iirc you’re 5’8, so practically average and albeit it’s short to me since I am tall for a woman, do you think something like that is holding you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:15 PM
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I can finally namedrop people and ask questions without getting banned😁 u/Aldabruzzo is nuts, all his replies read like he lives in the TRP sidebar but he’s apparently a married well off guy with kids so kudos I guess. Would you consider yourself BB? u/Bandit174 - I don’t understand how you’re an incel but I look forward to all your comments. I would appreciate any insight into how someone so rational could identify with blackpill ideology u/lull honest question bestie: what did us women do to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:17 PM
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I am getting downvoted too no worries😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:55 PM
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Yeah, men eat up these type of responses. You get downvoted to hell by them if you say “yes height matters/size matters.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:45 PM
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I am sure there are a few genuine responses but I am just comparing this with what I see from women IRL when they’re not in mixed company and most don’t praise small dick sex or have stories about how the guy with the small dick totally rocked their world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:42 PM
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Of course but you ask the same question to women in female only settings and you’re not gonna get 90% of them praising small dick sex. Only on Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:41 PM
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Fair point, my sense of average in every other category is wildly skewed up so this would probably not be much different for most women too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:34 PM
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Every woman in this thread had great sex with a guy that had a small penis apparently. Why is Reddit full of the strangest virtue signaling group of people.. At this point it’s pointless to ask a lot of women questions even on an anonymous setting because they’ll lie☠️ Edit: u/DangZagnut used to say “all women lie all the time” and he might have been onto something😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:26 PM
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Don’t disqualify yourself, let him do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:06 PM
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A SAHW that’s married is 100x better off than a stay at home gf. There are legal protections in place from your husband leaving you destitute, none really for a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:04 PM
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It’s a flex that falls flat for me but their audience seem to love it so more power to them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:42 PM
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Not sure why you decided to intentionally misunderstand what I meant by financial independence, I was quite obviously speaking contextually. So not being financially dependent on a bf who can leave you with your resume gap and wasted years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:16 PM
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As a joke it’s whatever and as a wife, it makes sense especially with kids involved. I just find instability of bf/gf relationships to be the issue and when you break up, you have nothing but wasted years to show for it and very little legal protection
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:13 PM
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It’s so weird how there is this trend of small niche content creators advising women to avoid 50/50 relationships and bragging about being stay at home gfs. This is also a growing trend online as a lot of these videos reach 100k+ likes and that’s rare within the relationship advice category of Tiktok. I don’t understand the logic behind being a stay at home gf— give up any semblance of financial independence for a boyfriend? A few months ago, when of my friends jumped on the trend where girls fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:05 PM
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We have had a lot more troll posts nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:57 PM
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You won’t regret it, it’s just an hour a week commitment. Get Hulu and enjoy🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:56 PM
2

Every post where they name the characters just screams fake to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:41 AM
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Here you go and u/gimpgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:38 AM
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Thanks🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:56 AM
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Hi you🥰, I was shocked when she literally pulled up with 2.5k worth of gifts. Absolute pickme, who calls themselves a “potential gf” and acts like a wife AND hints strongly to him having to sleep with her after she bought him ps5 and MacBook.. Did you see him say she was acting like his gf?? I am excited for the next episode since the promo makes it seem like there’s a hot chick they’re hanging with that asks what she’s doing there🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:56 AM
3

Just date men your age, why do you want someone so old? I am around the same age as you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:48 PM
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I feel like a 10 here simply being a young 21yr old with no kids and under 130lbs🥴. The men aren’t fit either though so it’s not just southern women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:38 AM
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PSA: Don’t move to the South…the food is outstanding and you might actually look forward to every meal🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:16 PM
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AMALT, they all hate it but want to watch all the episodes. It’s a train wreck we can’t look away from🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:33 AM
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u/SmurfESmurferson I got my bf into 90 day fiancé and idk what it is about this show, but he’s become addicted too. My dad is also super into it even though he hates reality tv shows usually. Have you gotten your SO into it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:13 AM
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If he’s really hot, I can see it being a small issue but nothing worth breaking up over. Although I prefer my man driving whenever we’re together
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:04 AM
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Bestie If he’s hot, all of that can be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:01 AM
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Not bpd but I am Eastern European, close enough😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:32 AM
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Found a true hate watcher😍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:23 PM
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watch (a television program) for the sake of the enjoyment one derives from mocking or criticizing it. This is the definition I am using. I am watching the show just to mock it because the plot is awful, the characters are shallow, the lead girl is turning down attractive men with money for her best friend’s broke ex chef bf. It’s a mess, and I like saying how terrible everything they do is. Scoffing at everything is pretty fun ngl🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:34 AM
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Yay! Finally a guy with taste when it comes to what to hate watch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:32 AM
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Even shows you have committed to previously I.e watched a season or two of?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:52 AM
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PPD men, do y’all ever “hate watch” a show? I am doing that right now and my bf was perplexed I wasn’t just turning it off. I’ve seen it with my female friends and it’s pretty common but I feel like guys actually like the shows they’re watching and “hate watching” is practically nonexistent to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:41 AM
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Investment banking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:07 AM
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Going into IB
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:51 AM
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Thanks for the nice overview! I wish I had been privy to just how much of a difference benefits package makes in a job offer before accepting with the firm I am gonna be starting in January. Things like what the % match is in a 401k, PTO, and how easy you can use your accrued time off (apparently some companies have blacked out dates) aren’t taught that they should be priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:21 PM
2

So this upcoming week you have Friday off, Saturday is Christmas so Monday off too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:04 AM
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Are you in tech? I have a feeling everyone that has these generous policies is in tech😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:03 AM
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Christmas Eve too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:38 AM
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I haven’t started my postgrad job yet but I was wondering if companies usually give you Christmas Day and the following week off before NYE?? That’s how colleges/schools tend to do it and I’ve heard practically all the holiday breaks I had as a student will be cut significantly in the real world👀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:22 AM
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Valid🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:40 PM
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Hope your Christmas isn’t cancelled too bestie🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:07 PM
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Hearing word practically everyone in my family and my fiancé’s grandparents tested positive for Omicron even with boosters so gonna have the smallest Christmas ever. When will Covid let us have fun😢😡, this feels like it’ll be the new normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:01 PM
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What’s the benefit of an EA account — are the games discounted on the store vs the normal PS store?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:40 AM
2

This makes sense, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:39 AM
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Question for PPD gamers: I bought a PS4 for a houseguest ~2yrs ago and don’t use it so I was going to give it to my nephew. But he sent me a list of games he wanted me to get before I give it to him. If I download a game by starting a subscription for EA Play and download the game, can he still play it even if I cancel the subscription the next day? It doesn’t seem like an astute business model so I am doubting that’s actually possible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:22 AM
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There’s definitely more to it than that or perhaps I am so eager to call someone else to do it that I lose all sense of reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:57 PM
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I’d date her😍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:01 PM
0

Stop flexing your ability to follow directions😩
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:29 PM
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Oops hated them as kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:28 PM
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How do some people get so good at furniture assembly? Had to call my fiancé after trying to assemble this bookcase for 20mins and he did it without much hassle. I have a feeling most people that are good at assembling furniture actually have an internet in it and enjoy doing it– or were lucky enough to learn it young🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:45 PM
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I had my physical in September and my doc ordered some blood work actually. Looking at the results now and either they didn’t check for vitamin d or it’s written as something else and I am too dumb for it. Could you be deficient in vitamin d even with frequent sun expose (sorry if dumb q lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:09 PM
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What was your old username👀 and I don’t think it’s my diet since I’ve improved it 3-4 months ago and this has only started since early November late October
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:06 PM
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I am probably somewhere on the depression scale even though my life is great and I am happy? Just seems like the past few weeks I’ve been on autopilot and have been experiencing less emotion other than exhaustion💀 that doesn’t go away after sleeping as much as 9hrs some nights. Do you get seasonal depression a bit? When there weather that’s gloomy/drab in your hometown etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:20 PM
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Oh yeah if you were strictly observing lockdown past June/July of 2020, I can see how much of a damper the pandemic has been. Sorry❤️ but good GPA is a nice symptom
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:03 PM
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Has anyone here felt the sort of fatigue that rest/relaxation doesn’t quite fix? Like you’re tired but you’re sleeping an adequate amount of time every night and aren’t doing anything strenuous to feel so tired
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:01 PM
2

Bring back fat shaming on a wider scale please
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:59 PM
1

It took 2yrs off but honestly real lockdown was only 5-6 months and then people started going out more so it’s be hyperbolic to say I lost 2yrs. What year are you in that it’s taken away your undergrad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:56 PM
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He has his life together, only explanation is that he’s ugly probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:22 AM
1

This comment stood out to me. What an HVM…he drove during the snowstorm for 3 hours😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:13 AM
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u/SmurfESmurferson I caught up on the new season of Before the 90 days and I am really rooting for Alina, the dwarf, and the reformed fuckboy. I want the Tunisian guy and the single mom to work out too. Not a fan of Usman preying on the elderly again though PPD men would lose it with Alina because she’s a dwarf and literally said “I have never dated another little person…I like tall men” 🤣. I feel really weird seeing the upcoming preview of the bald guy sending the hot Latina’s nudes to another …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:07 AM
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Oh I see, yeah no I was choosing to move to a city further away from him when I could have relocated to his city and stayed at the same firm. I wouldn’t move and be jobless💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:29 PM
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Shhh atlas he knows how to deal with me🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:28 PM
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You’d take a job far away from your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:36 PM
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Not quite, I was picking an office far away from him when I could just ask to relocate to the one near him. It was a pride thing for me and not rational to be 3-4hr flight away from my fiancé when i can be 10mins away with the same firm. He didn’t pushback on it right away until he got me a place near him. It’s not for everyone but I routinely struggle with my ego so I appreciate someone that doesn’t cater to it when I make little sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:35 PM
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Sometimes I don’t even know I am shit testing my guy until after the fact. I have been adamant about not moving to his city because it would be a sign of me just giving up my long term plans for a man and obviously my ego wouldn’t let me do that easily. So until he pushed back against it and told me to be ready to move by the 30th, I didn’t know what I actually wanted was for him to ignore whatever I was saying and put his foot down on being in the same city and make arrangements accordingly whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:02 PM
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Wish I could give you a million upvotes🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:06 AM
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This was not at all my experience in NYC/LA/SF on OLD. The few times I let my age range run wild, I was inundated with boomers aka men over 30. At that time I was like 18-19, you must be in a smaller city.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:33 AM
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Since there are 2 other couples as well,the logistics would be intriguing to say the least🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:54 PM
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Confirmed: men are nicer than women😩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:42 PM
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Y’all aren’t too bad❤️the bad ones just give you guys an overblown bad rep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:37 PM
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My guy had to leave our vacation early for work and I stayed because I don’t waste free trips. I was at the hotel restaurant when an older guy (mid to late 40s) approached me and talked to me a bit. I thought he was hitting on me so I was a little rude and showed him my engagement ring and said “I am not single” and this man literally laughed and showed me his ring too and said neither was he💀 most embarrassing moment of my life to date Apparently he only came to me because I was sitting alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:26 PM
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You could have done the same shit test at a normal restaurant. Glad it worked for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:40 PM
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No, it doesn’t. FDS actually says to never plan a date so suggesting even the fanciest place in town for a first date is against their rules. Regardless, my flair obviously says former and I just think you can get the same results by going to a normal place and seeing if she splits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:39 PM
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Um you took her to the fanciest place just to test her on a first date? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:33 PM
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Good morning from Madrid🇪🇸 Hope all of you have a good Saturday and for those still on Friday night — go get drunk😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:36 AM
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It all depends honestly. I think there is an element of hatred or errr distaste for your own culture + skintone if you’re main aim in dating is to date outside of your race. With the other traits, I do think someone broke whining about not having access to rich partners is laughably stupid. Not so much someone short wanting tall partner especially with women sense height isn’t valued the same (I judge them regardless on a personal note). Yes, an ugly person whining about not having access to ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:50 PM
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Yeah I did, but guys don’t go on them for me. I just date guys who are already on them. I wouldn’t stick around watch some guy I just started dating experiment with them…he’s already got what I like or doesnt. Which happens to be a certain subset of vain gymbros
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:59 PM
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My (fiance)…I wish👀 that’d be hot but no, he started them way before we met because he’s impatient and vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:53 PM
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Bestie don’t be hateful, here you go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:51 PM
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She didn’t mention that so I am assuming he doesn’t have any kids. Either way, 250k in retirement funds at 60 is wild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:48 PM
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The only two filters I remember people using were height and race, even paying for it. Makes sense if you generally don’t find certain height ranges or races attractive. I don’t think race is a big deal in dating though. Almost every stat shows most people find people that look like them the most attractive and I can’t be bothered to take the whining seriously of someone who exclusively wants to date outside of their race having a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:38 PM
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That stat is for an older generation. You’ll see it shift with Gen Z most likely which are the demographic of single women out earning their cohort of men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:31 PM
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Baby, you know better than to say that😹 Also, that thread had too much hamstering. Whoever is making more money, has more incentive to want a prenup and vice versa for the person making less money. Only 30% of women are breadwinners so ofc they’re against prenups
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:11 PM
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250k in retirement funds but I still think this is unacceptable for a man who’s 60 and with a wife in her 30s. She misunderstood the assignment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:09 PM
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Botched gold digging attempts are just downright embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:02 PM
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Just saw a post where a woman in her 30s is worried about her finances while married to a 60yr old man. What the hell is the point of marrying him if he’s not gonna set you up financially for life? He has considerably more money than she does but not enough for retirement for both of them. At that point, just throw the whole man away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:58 PM
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Remembering lies for some girl to find you more attractive is sadly too much effort for my liking but whatever helps you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:47 PM
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The effort men put in for mediocre pussy will never cease to amaze me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:24 PM
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Ew, this is just another example of us bidet people being supreme. Wetting toilet paper makes it not as smooth so I’d personally use flushable wipes instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:23 PM
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Welp, good luck to us since we won’t be living together and don’t plan to before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:23 AM
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I think we also have better performance bonuses but I’d take the lower ceiling for the insane work-life balance and wfh opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:39 AM
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Yeah, my plan was exactly that although I wanted to move into an NGO. I hated my summer internship in finance but it was probably the only time in my life where I felt like I could buy anything. Money > happiness for now🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:37 AM
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I am looking at an IB firm and accepted their offer because I am a gold digger and their pay was the highest. Reached out to alum from my school that worked there 2-3 yrs ago and he told me his gf of 5yrs dumped him during his first 6 months at that job because he was too tired to see her for a whole month😭. Meanwhile, some tech bro somewhere is working 20hrs a week making 100k+
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:52 PM
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He needs to ✨man up✨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:57 PM
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He knows how to cook, he just doesn’t want to have to when we get married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:55 PM
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The votes aren’t done by 20yr old interns for People. They are done by late 30s to early 40yr old women that are higher ups. This has got to be the weirdest attempt at trying to prove young women like older men. What 20yr old city girl is lusting after Blake Shelton…a man with a dad bod and a double chin?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:43 AM
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Your man knows about ppd👀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:42 AM
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What a strange conclusion. No, she’ll have to learn. She’s been married since she was 18 and didn’t have to do these things for herself. Just like how my father doesn’t wash his own clothes, cook, know how to fix a button on his shirt etc. I actually think she’d be able to adapt faster than he would if the other died.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:38 PM
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Not nearly as good as I should be. I am learning to get better though, my bf definitely wants home cooked meals when we get married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:34 PM
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Imagine having a child for a spouse My dad doesn’t know how to cook or do his laundry so their dynamic seems to work for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:25 PM
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Their marriage is just based on gender roles. My dad doesn’t cook/clean or do his laundry. My mom doesn’t have to handle anything with her car or pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:22 PM
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It’s okay, I am pretty my dad hasn’t done his own laundry or cooked since they’ve gotten married. I hate pumping gas so hopefully I can forget how to do it upon marriage too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:19 PM
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My mom called me this morning to chat and eventually told me she was at the gas station waiting for 15mins for my dad to finish up an errand and put gas in her car. Apparently, she hasn’t filled up her tank in 30+yrs since they got married, so much so she’s iffy on the whole process. Now I am wondering how much FDSers would love a relationship where they don’t have to do something as basic as that but they filter out all the men that would do that crap for them because they’re too politically in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:46 PM
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I don’t see a point in taking that level of risk and can’t afford it since I have a FIRE target year of 28-30. Got in early enough into 4-5 major stocks and the rest of my money goes into VTI. I can reliably automate my investments without having to worry that my portfolio lost 40% of its gains overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:22 PM
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✅One of the few movies that’s nearly as good as the book
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:31 AM
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Okay googled it and the reviews won me over. I’ll give it a watch tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:03 AM
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Okay haven’t seen it. I will and you will hear from my lawyers if it’s not good🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:00 AM
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Gosh I love Jimmy Stewart
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:52 AM
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I’ve watched it😌 good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:52 AM
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Charade keeps coming up on my Google movie recommended feed after watching a few Cary Grant movies — how is that among her work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:40 AM
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Do you have any romcom suggestions🥺 same era
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:36 AM
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I have seen 12 Angry Men, is the first one a true crime film?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:36 AM
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I need recs of really good old movies, around 1930s-1960s. Recently watched All About Eve, Whatever happened to Baby Jane, and a Touch of Mink and I am obsessed. Come thru PPD boomers🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:21 AM
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Not really. Her stuff is mild
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:03 PM
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Men are really letting 4s play them ☠️. The absolute state of men Part 2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:40 AM
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Thankfully, we don’t need to learn how to fix every “essential” good we own. If my washing machine breaks, I pay someone to come fix it. I don’t see why cars should be any different. As for only replacing something when it malfunctions, I tend to just follow my Audi’s maintenance schedule. Everything is in the manual and haven’t had issues. The only thing I wish I knew is how to change a tire but there are always men around to help or I can just call bf/brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:11 AM
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My guy read the Story of O to me and 😓 damn bestie you really know how to pick em. Considering reading Lolita next! u/SmurfESmurferson
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:03 AM
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That’s my experience too. My main issue is A) OP fucked up in their parenting if their eldest is literally a bum around the house and B) the concept of making your kids pay rent is weird. Unless they offer to chip in financially (which most do ime), make them contribute labor wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:29 PM
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She raised shitty kids and now wants to charge them rent. If she had raised them right, her eldest would contribute around the house and wouldn’t have had his parent wanting to make pay rent. Or hell, he’d take a look at himself and see he makes basically as much and offer to contribute a bit financially. I just find this concept of making your kids pay rent so stupid. Make them do the dishes or hell even all the chores, and instead focusing on raising the type of kid that doesn’t need you to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:28 PM
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There is always a post like this on Reddit that reminds me how messed up American family dynamics are. Parents want to charge their kids rent when they’re that young and the normalization of your kids not living with you when they turn 18. But also, imagine being such a crappy parent you raise ungrateful little twats? The kids aren’t much better usually too…they let their family members live in nursing homes. But people need to stop seeing having children as an 18yr project and complain about ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:16 PM
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Yeah, I have extreme commitment-phobia in general but with the right person, I stop seeing committing as a chore and more as just a happy symptom of being with them. Traveling a lot is fun with the right circumstances: get a travel friendly credit card & figure out which airline has a hub in your local airline. With a credit card that gives you lounge access, you can easily spend 1.5-2hr wait between flights if you get to the airport early like most people drinking at a bar for free or eating. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:36 AM
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Well, all depends on what “these type of folk” means but I am taking that as young marriage minded people. East Coast culture is very education -> career -> then start a family anywhere above the Mason-Dixon Line. I definitely think cities like Raleigh/Charleston are great for what you want. In the Midwest, you’d be around a demographic of people that probably marry earlier than the ones in big east coast cities. Places like Omaha, Milwaukee/Madison WI, and Oklahoma City are all relatively affor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:31 AM
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People suggesting NYC are crazy. The ratio doesn’t favor men until 30s lol early 20s men don’t outnumber single early 20s women to warrant all of this “go to NYC” bs. Also, he wants to start a family. Doubt New Yorkers are starting families in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:13 AM
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It’s funny a bunch of people are recommending NYC when you literally said you wanna start a family and you’re in your young 20s. Most NYC folks aren’t starting families in their 20s, pick a nice southern city or Midwestern one. MCOL But if you mean somewhere outside the US, hop on over to an Asian country and bon apetit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:11 AM
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It feels like an “adult” moment in a sense — remember when kids ask to eat out and parents say “we have plenty of food at home?” So much of the crazy prices at airports and to a much lesser extent movie theaters remind me of that. Like shit, my parents were right. We do have food at home😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:01 AM
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Business a bit for interviews since I am graduating in ~1.5 weeks but mostly because my fiancé lives in a different state and he likes to see me 2-3x a week. So hop on a 2.5hr flight for that if direct. But lately even when I get back, I’ve had to leave for an interview or to look for apartments in the new cities I am considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:56 AM
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I always just assumed it had a lot to do with the cost of operating in a place like an airport. It’s prime real estate and you have to pass on the costs to the consumers to afford it. They’re just less price sensitive than your average consumer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:35 AM
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I am flying so much the Dunkin workers at my main airport know my order. Practically spending more time at the airport than in my apartment🤡 And I used to think people that brought their own snacks were weird until I had to pay $6 for a medium sized Kit Kat bar ffs while waiting for my flight. Airport prices are criminal WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:24 AM
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Men aren’t allowed at baby showers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:25 PM
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Ooh, I am 21. Why did the first marriage end, if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:00 AM
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Thank you for leading me to dedicate some time to sleuth and find his now deleted account comment history. Now I just feel creepy😭✋ found this gem though My wife came from an intact, upper class traditional Christian household, with love for her father and mother. She wanted to be a mom since she was a teenager, and she loves helping people. She is kind, smart, beautiful, and a giving philanthropist. Sheesh, how was he exposed? That seems like a whole lot to find out about him just from his post…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:53 AM
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Q4Marrief People: When did you know you were “ready” for marriage? I feel hella immature but my current guy is the only man I can see myself actually making that sort of commitment to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:41 AM
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He opened his first factory at 15…maybe that’s a hint😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:26 AM
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It’s comedy gold
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:10 PM
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I think you misunderstood me because I would never date a man that looks like a body builder facially lmao😭. We want body builder physique but lean + good face bestie. I’ll send you a pic someday if you catch me in the right mood and say you love women:)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:10 PM
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Comments like this are why I love this sub. He really dropped his entire family tree just to respond to a post. u/Mark_Freed you need to ask people to drop their family net worths again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:07 PM
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Nope. He was in my old Reddit background pic tho. That’s my gbf that’s gone now😦
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:03 PM
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He’s much taller so distributed more but yeah he’s at ~9% now and Greg Pitt was always 5-10% iirc. But my boyfriend is on steroids so he’s not really the regular gymbro. Natty Zac Efron/ Shawn Mendes, and Channing Tatum would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:49 PM
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The physique I like is rarely achievable natty, think of the late Greg Pitt for instance. Single digit body fat % while being lean. Thankfully I tend to date guys that dabble in roid usage so it’s not impossible to find. I feel like the general population likes the physiques of someone like Channing Tatum in Magic Mike while I don’t think his ripped enough in that movie🤔 that’s probably normal gymbro physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:43 PM
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That’s definitely dad bod territory to me but I like gymbro physiques too much to be a good judge of anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:59 PM
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I would feel so weird posting something that 100% proves I’m not with my man because i am physically attracted to him. No idea what that comment is suppose to do other than show she’s not with a physically attractive man. Yuck, people posting their Ls disguised as “growth”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:48 PM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:22 AM
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As a “tall woman” (5’9), I have literally never been rejected for my height. Men care way less than women do. It feels almost disingenuous to say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:52 AM
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I just noticed having a big height difference with your bf is a whole personality trait now on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:38 AM
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Obese, shocked so many comments are saying just chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:30 AM
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Nah, balding young men are bottom tier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:29 AM
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I’m not sure what this means. Are you asking if he would try to prevent it (I doubt it, he’d just call the cops and go on with his life) or if he would want something like that legalized? His general stance on abortion is indifferent. He won’t stand in the way of keeping it legal but he won’t go out and campaign for it either. Although he’d vote to keep it legalized mainly because he thinks the foster care system is overwhelmed and unwanted kids are bad for our society/his taxes have to support …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:52 AM
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I’m still not sure why some men actually want abortions to be banned or extremely limited like the Texas law. I tried asking my boyfriend and his stance is that he doesn’t care what some woman does with “a baby” that’s not even his. So PPD pro-life men, why are you against abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:07 PM
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Sure, I dated multiple men until I became exclusive with one. I didn’t sleep with anyone though. I really don’t care what a man I have no ownership over yet does with his time or dick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:59 PM
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It just attracts office workers imo. Most of Reddit does, people who have the time and the type of job to slack off on Reddit during the work hours. The discord has a lot of tech workers which make a lot and have great work-life balance hence being able to argue on here for hours and not suffer any issues at work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:26 AM
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So a little informal research, fair enough. I do think there are quite a few 6 figure earners or claims of being such on here. I frequent r/FIRE and its sister sub and would even go as far as to say this subreddit has more claims of people who earn 6 figures. The thread about the millionaire status of people did shed some light. Lots of the older folks are waiting on parents and a few of the folks in their late 30s - 50s have hit millionaire status which I don’t find too hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:18 AM
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This is your second asset related question on here. Are you conducting some sort of research?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:07 AM
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How long have you been dating the current one? All I know about him is that someone on here once commented “can you get a new one” xD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:21 PM
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You’re next👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:07 PM
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Yeah, you’re absolutely right. Also, I can’t see most liberal men proposing in their early 20s or when they haven’t lived together for a while either. While conservative men tend to be religious and the aspect of not living together before marriage isn’t completely a deal breaker for them. My bf err fiancé has always been pretty open about wanting to be a young father too so that probably played a role
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:07 PM
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I said that too😭 but then I realized the relationship dynamics I want are the most common in conservative men and he agreed with me on my “deal breaker” issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:01 PM
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Thanks Swiftie!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:45 PM
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Crazy is the word for it, and he’s a Republican. Love really is weird How did he propose I somewhat recall on our 3rd date us playing a couple’s game and one of the Qs was what my ideal proposal and I said one that my family could be involved in so he did that. The immediate lead up was him randomly asking me how many languages I speak and asking me to say something in each one. It went from “how do you say the food here is really good” to “I love you” and finally to “will you marry me?” Which I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:44 PM
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I just got engaged to a man I’ve known for 5 months🥲 RIP my plan to get married only after 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:34 PM
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The worst kind lasts DAYS. Mostly because you’re not sleeping adequately Ever since thanksgiving, I’ve been half asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:12 AM
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6 flights in the past 10 days. Tomorrow I have another flight too so 7 in 11 days soon. I have spent more time in airplanes/airports than at my own apartment. Jet lagged AF even though there isn’t much of a time difference😦
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:06 AM
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What does that have to do with mandates/policy surrounding response to the variant? Read it again. I am literally commenting on conspiracy theorist lmao you’re just in a mood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:49 AM
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I made no comment regarding the policies the government wants to take in response to the new variant. If you’d like to have debate with yourself on that, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:08 AM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:07 AM
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I haven’t even seen or heard anything he’s said in months at this point. I tend to follow the advice of Dr. Walensky, and my university’s Executive Medical Director for ID. Both of whom are much more qualified than any politician to speak on the subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:05 AM
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I can’t even watch normal news coverage of the new Covid variant without seeing a bunch of comments like the ones on this video . I am genuinely tired of the 30-35% of Americans that are dumb enough to comment crap like “How interesting that a new variant magically appears right when the Ghislaine Maxwell trial is on.” These are the same people that probably drank bleach when oompa loompa told them to. Yep, it’s all a conspiracy🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:33 AM
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Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:39 AM
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I loved that movie🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:06 AM
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Good question I don’t know the answer to. But isn’t the rate of sexlessness in young men at 40% now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:59 PM
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I know, I wasn’t implying otherwise. It’s just we focus on them being sexless on here and how when they’re late bloomers, that usually just means they got a gf( aka got laid) later in life. But I think it’s missing out on all of those experiences that would be more detrimental IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:47 PM
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What’s the incident that led to you getting a giant gash on your head😮
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:44 PM
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Just an observation. I actually think we gaslight sexless men on here a lot by simply assuming if they start trying to make up for all of that at 24-25, they’ll be as happy as the people that experienced that at a younger age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:39 PM
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Most people that have all of those experiences in their primitive years are rarely incels. Every incel I’ve come across was introverted and didn’t party, go out drinking with friends, and/or was on the spectrum and shy. The few others probably had extenuating circumstances that prevented them from participating in that culture. I like to think alcohol is the great looks equalizer in the SMP too — literally every girl I know has a story about fucking a hideous guy while drunk because of him being…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:38 PM
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I am sorry bestie but we’re gonna need a story time. That seems like a very extreme outcome to you just trying to socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:32 PM
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🫂Have you compensated for missing some of those experiences in college instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:26 PM
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Sex is important but incels don’t miss only that. They most likely missed an entire phase of growing up/being young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:25 PM
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Met up with some old HS friends for lunch today and we reminisced about high school and now college since we’re all about to graduate. That whole discussion made me think of incels in PPD complaining about sexlessness but I feel like missing out not having sex would be least of my worries. But missing out on underage drinking in HS, parties with friends playing dumb games, rooftop hopping, spring break with friends, teen love, prom ask outs, and college game night after parties. It feels like ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:17 PM
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Bestie, age discrimination shouldn’t be okay. I remember when I was 18-20, I couldn’t check into most nice hotels either. Being young in America is a handicap!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:08 AM
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No, not directly at the airport. Maybe should have tried that…your ex h was over 25 probably😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:07 AM
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I am in Atlanta and tried renting a car and couldn’t because I am “too young.” Age discrimination in America needs to be stopped‼️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:47 AM
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I actually like having seasons — I love shopping for winter clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:13 AM
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I mean…I love him and he’s a great guy. I wish he had a lower n but it’s not the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:34 AM
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He’s actually a Conservative lmao the first one I’ve ever dated. He’s a reformed fboy now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:05 AM
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Nah, my n is lower than his & lower than he guessed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:04 AM
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Found out during thanksgiving my bf’s sister is a straight up communist, he slept around way more than I was previously led to believe, and my family can’t go 30mins together without talking about politics. And my limit is 8 shots of tequila before I start stumbling around Also, Minnesota is an extremely underrated state. Affordable houses + beautiful + great people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:32 AM
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Um she gave off scammer vibes all throughout. Reminds me of those fake gurus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:53 AM
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Giant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:45 AM
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Update: Blue Moon is actually a good beer if you have it with some crackers / chips😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:45 AM
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I HAVE!! I am so embarrassed for her if that’s legit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:45 AM
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Q4M: Why do all the beers you guys like taste like shit? I just had some Blue Moon with my bf’s dad and it tasted awful. Same experience with Heineken and Bud light. Please tell me there is a beer that’s actually tasty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:19 AM
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Men’s soccer, golf, and water sports😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:37 AM
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This woman knows basic bitches😌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:42 PM
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Not quite, it’s very one sided. I prefer all the beneficial trad roles in dating but complying to them 100% would be against FDS, so it’s misleading to say they prefer them overall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:35 AM
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…um is this normal or were your parents just chill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:37 AM
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For those of you in relationships, did you share a room when you visited family with your partner (before marriage if you’re already married)? Trying to see if my parents are trad or it’s more common We’re at our family’s place and my parents have put my boyfriend and I in different sides of the house😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:32 AM
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Not sure if I would be any good, I am a terrible good. Last time, I went through an entire box of eggs (yes…whole box) trying to poach a few with my bf’s mom. But with enough vodka, I am down to go through that traumatic experience again🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:03 AM
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Good luck bestie!❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:55 AM
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It’s weird to appreciate an entire gender. Should be women that appreciate the men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:41 PM
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Men say whatever will get them laid. So prioritize actions over words — and most importantly, you’re single until otherwise discussed. Too many women “like” one guy after a few dates and drop other men without being exclusive with the one they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:28 PM
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The vast majority of tall men don’t care because they fit the standard. My bf and his main group of friends are all 6ft+ and they have one friend that’s my height (5’9). He’s complained to them about OLD faux height filter since women put “must be over 6” and they have all said something like “Must be a preference/ you should be happy she’s saving you time.” Tall men aren’t gonna not date attractive simply because she has standards that 90% of men don’t fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:21 PM
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So entitled that I surround myself with considerate people. I don’t know why you’re bringing up men who’ve never had gf or have no one that cares about them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:21 AM
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This isn’t even something that people do for each other in romantic relationships only — it’s common among friends and family too. So I guess some men here just don’t have anyone that cares about them and/or surround themselves with inconsiderate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:44 AM
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It’s weird the men on here are trying to downplay it. This sort of inconsiderate behavior when you’re dating multiplies in marriage/living together. Just the tip of the iceberg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:30 AM
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I think it’s a small gesture that if a man doesn’t do, is a big red flag. It’s her first ever boyfriend so she’s inexperienced but she seemed bothered by it too which is good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:03 AM
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I was on FaceTime with her and told her to wave when she stepped out so he would bring the car around. She waved and she was like “oh he sees me he’s telling me to come to him” at which point I told her ew he wants you to walk in the rain. Why make your girl walk in the pouring rain because you don’t want to get out of the parking lot and come pick her up in the front? I just don’t believe a man that loves a woman ushers her to come out in the pouring because he can’t be bothered to get her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:55 AM
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He could have driven out when he saw her but he didn’t, and he was looking at her..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:47 AM
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I was on FaceTime with a friend and she was getting out of a store. She had to walk all the way to the parking lot in the rain instead of her boyfriend bringing the car around to pick her up at the door. He just sat in the car waiting for her to walk in the pouring rain to get to in. The state of men🤡 it’s such a small thing. Anyways, Happy International Men’s Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:44 AM
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I’d say RMV since it makes them more worldly or come off as more intelligent. My boyfriend is white and speaks Mandarin, found that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:43 PM
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I like your sister a lot, we’re cut from the same cloth except I am only crazy with men and men seem to like it so what’s the point of reforming. She must be a lot of fun to hang out with🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:51 AM
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That Touch of Mink, we bought it on YouTube. It’s a Cary Grant + Doris Day film. And where do you find normal men that are into them I have no idea, my boyfriend probably has a bit of nostalgia for that era so he’s unbothered by it looking dated. Best rec is to date conservative southern men, they’d definitely be more into that era than most other types.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:21 AM
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Yikes, I did not know it was that high. Last time I checked the stats, it was around ~40%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:18 AM
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Depending on the flavor of pringles, could be quirky
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:13 AM
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I must have been very good in my previous life because I somehow found a man that’s fine with watching Doris Day movies with me while eating pringles. On another note, in the movie they referenced how “the rate of unwed mothers” was rising in the past 5yrs and the movie was filmed in 1962. If only they knew how bad it would get…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:04 AM
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We didn’t date long enough for me to have PIV sex with him, but he gave great head. I only tolerated his bs because he was gorgeous and looked very good on my arm. I was also in awe of how obsessed/crazy he was with me while being physically up there. Nice ego boost in life. I am usually the crazy one in relationships so it was probably karma
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:53 AM
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I don’t have a saying like that but I sure as hell have dated guys that others have said are crazy. One of which got an artist to do a portrait of me from my Instagram so he could hang it over his fireplace BEFORE we officially started dating. He still has the portrait hanging there and has a new gf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:44 AM
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We chase money because we grew up relatively poor since our parents were new to the US. Having money fixed most of our issues in life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:39 PM
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Pretty well so far. My brothers can both provide for wives & 3-4 kids quite easily. I am still in college unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:20 PM
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Yeah definitely, it was encouraged in my household to go after high paying fields and do “what you love” on the side as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:26 PM
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Do they? When I was around, a lot of the girls were raised MC with college degree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:46 AM
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I dislike Moby Dick for the same reason I don’t like The Old Man and The Sea. I bet it’s great for English majors since the writing/description is up there with the best but it’s not gripping 80% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:38 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:37 AM
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What’s the genre and what did you love about it? I am trying to add to my reading list based on some of the suggestions here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:34 AM
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Alright I am sold on Dangerous Liasons…I love drama😂 Vaguely recall reading The Cherry Orchard but don’t think I’ve read any of his work in Russian. Next stop then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:34 AM
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Seeing Moby Dick quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:31 AM
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Sorry, Hamlet > MacBeth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:13 AM
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I love stories with unreliable narrators since they’re not common so I’ll give Lolita a try then. I vaguely recall seeing the movie version with Jeremy Irons. I heard Story of O is an erotica?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:11 AM
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WHAAAT The Great Gatsby was actually good😰 Agree with you easily on Crime and Punishment, have you read The Brothers Karamazov?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:09 AM
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Gone with the wind has a special place in my heart for being one of the few classics that had a film that was also excellent. Hemingway vs Dickens, who would you rather read? I find Dickens bearable but I am scarred by The Old Man and The Sea with Hemingway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:07 AM
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Fahrenheit 451 was a required reading for us so I naturally disliked it. I found the concept dull though especially during a time where dystopian novels were all the hype. Burning books just didn’t cut it What don’t you like about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:04 AM
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Oh meant to say Anna Karenina is my favorite now. The Story of O is on my bookshelf right now I haven’t gotten around to it but since you’ve mentioned it, I’ll give it a go tomorrow night. I am SHOCKED you put Lolita in there. Not too familiar with the novel, but if it’s anywhere as controversial as the movie was…bold choice😳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:02 AM
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Q4All literate people on here: What’s your favorite “literary classic” or the one you think is the most overrated? I finished Anna Karenina in Russian today and it soared up to the #1 spot easily for me. I wanna read Emma but I am kinda tired of Jane Austen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:49 AM
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To former? Because I noticed I don’t have enough trauma to fit in over at FDS. Got a little tired of everything a man does being twisted into some grand scrote move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:43 PM
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I hate body hair, imagine how much I’d hate facial hair. But on a serious note, I don’t know why men bust their asses in the gym for years just to get mogged by a guy that was on steroids for a year🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:01 PM
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Do it😋
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:47 PM
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My boyfriend and I probably go out 2-3x a week on a proper date so over a month that’s 8-12 dates. I think in most relationships people take turns paying so the financial burden is lessened and they’re not going to expensive places.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:46 PM
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You shouldn’t do anything you don’t want to. If you don’t want to look your best for yourself, then don’t. Who cares? Looking your best is #1 for yourself and a happy side effect should be that you can get better looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:52 AM
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This. Your statement also goes for beauty standards: what’s hot to older women isn’t usually hot to the young women the men here wanna target. So invest in that hair transplant, that gym membership, and wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:13 AM
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Yeah she’s not the first…she’s the first to do it and succeed. If she’s not a talented artist, I don’t know who is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:10 AM
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He’s dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:04 AM
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She’s an icon because she literally just paved the way for many more artists?? How are you gonna simplify her success to “being blond and hot?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:01 AM
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I loved High School debate because of that. We’d prepare for weeks for both sides and the day of the tournament, we’d get an email with the side we were suppose to be debating. I vaguely recall our team beating a team from the school the Obama kids were going to and it was sweet Much better than this sub since a lot of the debate wasn’t emotionally charged. Probably the best extracurricular activity I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:06 AM
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Leave it to Seil to make the impossible… ✨possible✨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:02 AM
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I am not sex positive at all but I don’t care enough about others to shame them for their sexuality either. I’ll judge you quietly but I am not gonna shit on you for living your life how you want to. That extends to most of the things you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:49 AM
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Bestie why is he being such a hater😭. I saw a RollingStones article with industry insiders all saying she won’t be able to do this and the re-recordings won’t be hits. Yet, the two she has released have been hits across the board. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:46 AM
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For re-recording her albums and somehow still topping charts with songs we’ve already heard. Big pull She’s also had the same bf for like 3-5yrs now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:45 AM
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Daily reminder Taylor Swift is an icon🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:07 AM
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I’ve just made a habit of ending texts and phone calls with it. I agree it won’t make a big difference if you say over text since your first “I love you” was in person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:11 AM
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Hope everyone had a wonderful Monday❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:41 AM
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Yep, I was sleep deprived when I did my summer internship. I gather it’ll be the same when I am full time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:02 PM
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For my sake, I hope it was and there is no tragedy coming my way in 2022🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:25 PM
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In college now but when I graduate in a month, going into Investment Banking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:50 PM
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So we’re in Greenwich Village and paid $400 for a psychic/tarot card reader. She told me this upcoming year would include a tragedy but also the happiest day of my life😭😭 now I am just paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:33 PM
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That’s what being a man is all about💪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:54 PM
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The most trivial thing was when i started crying because my hair products got delivered and they were downstairs in front of my mailbox on the floor and bugs were all over them. I cried, FaceTimed one of my friends to complain, and asked my neighbor if he could kill the bugs on the packages because I was too afraid to pick them up and he did and brought them in. I was just all over the place emotionally today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:53 PM
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People do nice things for others shockingly without expecting anything in return sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:48 PM
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Thankfully, not all men are like you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:46 PM
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I’ve cried 3x today over absolutely nothing and each time a man has done something about it. I❤️men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:43 PM
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Not surprised by the result honestly, I did some polling for their governor’s race and I heard a lot of moderates that may have voted for Biden in 2020 say they’d vote for Youngkin because of education. The best public high school in the country is located there and they turned to a lottery system to increase diversity…seems like a very unpopular decision among locals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:21 PM
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It depends on the woman’s definition of HVM. Mine is closely tied to financial security so I tend to position myself in proximity to those men. That’s everything from the university I go to, to the bars/lounges I frequented when I was single, to the hobbies I picked up and the social circle I was in. It’s a lot easier to also vet a man through his social circle than through Tinder/Bumble. IRL, his social circle does a lot of legwork as to telling you his lifestyle, income, and dating history etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:17 PM
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I don’t know about the time constraints of people with children. And if the worst outcome is some girl you barely know being rude…so be it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:11 PM
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What kind of people do you know that have baby mamas to call to get them off the streets😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:40 PM
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You’re overthinking this. OLD isn’t generally where you want to meet high quality people for relationships — whether you’re a man or a woman. With that in mind, FDS claims the probability you’ll find an HVM on those apps is low although it’s not impossible. I think it’s perfectly fine to approach women as long as you take no for an answer and move along upon being rejected. This weird “if I approach a woman, she’ll scream sexual harassment” rhetoric in the pillsphere isn’t how the real world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:29 PM
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Oooh yeah I am honestly tired of people using it as a journal. Not just with overused concepts but even the ones that are used fittingly. There is a trend where people are sharing their childhoods and there is a lot sexual assault ones w/family members. A part of me feels like “I am sorry but what do you get out of airing this to millions of people instead of therapy?” I obviously would feel differently if the people that assaulted them were public figures but it’s their Uncle Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:06 PM
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I feel like it’s more column b. It doesn’t make sense magically the % of bad parents skyrocketed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:36 PM
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Society has changed but it’s just weird seeing how easily people are getting traumatized. Your example is perfect for my point😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:33 PM
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I’ve said this before but I am baffled at how many people on social media have childhood trauma. Are there really that many bad parents or is my generation just soft
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:26 PM
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Yeah but all the men who have asked for it, it was because I ended the relationship abruptly over text/call so they felt blindsided.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:05 PM
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Depression. I am a bubbly person and this is probably the one I’ve run into and have stayed firm on rejecting men for having. I don’t care if he has it under control with treatment, it’s just a major turn off especially since I am a naturally bubbly person, I prefer similar people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:02 PM
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I am probably one of those women you’re describing and I’d say men shouldn’t ever fall into providing resources extensively to women they aren’t attempting to build a future with. That means more or less reserving real provision not paying for $40 dates for women that you consider valuable enough to wife someday and who show their gratitude when you do the little things in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:43 PM
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Well, ever since we had our chat I’ve mended my ways. The current guy I am seeing a conservative southerner and probably the most masculine so far. I dated gay men before our chat😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:39 PM
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I am 21. I would totally get it 25yrs earlier but in 2018 when I dated the one that just came out, being gay was perfectly socially acceptable but it took him til now to come out. The other one I understand why he’s in the closet since he comes from a conservative culture where homosexuality isn’t accepted. No hard feelings though, both wonderful men and wish them the best. Just odd
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:38 PM
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The only one that came out publicly I dated 3yrs ago so I don’t have to ponder that. Your ex is probably shocked by lesbian dating norms
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:17 PM
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I think one of them could be bi but the other came out of the closet today with an insta post as gay. Not long relationships, just interesting that soft features + men that shave or wax often has been a common denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:15 PM
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Good spin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:14 PM
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That’s more forgiveable. I am just attracted to pretty boys + men who are well groomed and now I am realizing there is a big overlap with gay men in those categories
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:54 PM
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Another one of my exes just came out as gay…wtf? How the hell did I date 2 closeted gay men😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:19 PM
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She literally said take a chill pill. Read the description and listen. He hit her because he’s a lunatic and her man is a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:23 AM
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What is this atlas😭 you wouldn’t be okay with your man watching you get punched even if you were in the wrong. All she said was take a chill pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:57 AM
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The lady recording the video said it too. Can you link where you got that he wasn’t her bf? And no one is entitled to anything but if I am in a relationship with a man, I’d hope he’d intervene in a situation like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:56 AM
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The lady recording said it but you can also see that afterwards, he kinda half heartedly challenged him, which a random guy on the subway might not do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:55 AM
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Just a video of how far modern men have fallen as they calmly standby while their woman is being assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:44 AM
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I have transitioned into a man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:25 PM
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Not the norm, people just think a few nights of being down or lazy = depression and therefore they need pills to fix their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:18 PM
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They’re not victims. It’s an active choice they made, once time may be a mistake or a miscalculation, but multiple times and it becomes their poison of choice and a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:00 PM
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How on this subreddit of all places it’s surprising that people don’t want to deal with your mental health issues is beyond me. People with Depression, PTSD, childhood trauma, and debilitating anxiety should just date each other. Nothing controversial or weird that Neurotypical folks don’t want to date someone that has those issues. As we say to PPD men, you’re not entitled to sex and relationships 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:59 PM
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Hobosexuality is on the rise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:42 AM
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I just saw a Tiktok of a woman packing food to send to her man in prison. Why do women post their Ls on social media🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:02 AM
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He looks 35. Isn’t a fuckboy usually young…? Anyways, women shouldn’t be taking relationship advice from men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:14 PM
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I think all of those things can be worked through with the right partner. Also, it’s better to know how life with a gf feels like than to never have had one and always have that “what if” in your mind..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:11 PM
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Definitely in the top 5 requirements and a deal breaker. I am tall (5’9) so 6ft+ makes sense aesthetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:18 AM
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And you’d call him a simp. Soo? Just shows men and women look down on simps/pickmes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:26 PM
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You’re down bad honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:03 AM
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She should just dump him if she’s young it’s not hard to find men that aren’t simping on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:20 AM
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Together for 5yrs and she’s just a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:55 AM
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Amex is still a charge card and you should probably pay it off by the end of the month but they’ve been trying to expand their consumer profile and have created a feature that let’s you pay over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:56 AM
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I think they might charge a larger than usual service fee perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:21 AM
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I even ironed his shirt yesterday I am expecting a proposal any second
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:16 AM
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Yesterday I was getting some coffee for my guy and like the high value girlfriend I am, I decided to cover it. And then the clerk rejected my Amex and discover card. Apparently it’s a well known fact in personal finance world that a lot of places don’t accept those cards abroad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:06 AM
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It’s on Amazon Prime🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:44 PM
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Why is it an issue? I think highly of mine so if a guy is similar to him, that usually speaks highly of him. Ask your boyfriend “Who Shot JR” and if he knows, he’s too old for you😂 although under that rule mine would be too old for me too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:32 PM
1

I am 5’9 so my heels aren’t at all uncomfortable. Not like I am wearing 6 inch ones
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:01 PM
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Wild af💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:00 PM
2

I figured the drinking culture had an effect on Brits’ weight as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:24 AM
2

Strolling around Manchester and I am taller than 99% of the men I am seeing since I am wearing heels that put me at ~6’0. And usually I see 4-5 guys taller than my boyfriend but ever since we landed last night I’ve only seen one guy and he was Dutch. A lot of times I don’t see the whole 6ft is a small percentage of men stat but holy shit is that right. And the UK is nearly as fat as the US damn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:08 AM
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Really bad, I’d see him as less of a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:24 AM
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Just in the week prior to them breaking up: He lets her walk from the dangerous part of the city alone, can’t afford the $15 Uber, we went on a double date and he told her to split the date with my bf because he paid for the Starbucks the day before and he’s 25 so not some broke college student (my guy just paid since he was appalled). He wants her location on but he doesn’t share his. She often comes over and instead of engaging her, he’ll play video games while she’s in his apartment He also p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:22 PM
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She’s in my sorority and the other girls have told her in a group setting her boyfriend is off compared to the kind of men she should be dating. I am just the one that talked to her the most and as a result told her he was a loser🤷🏻‍♀️ Either way glad she got out of the relationship. Just odd that women even outside of me have told her this stuff and a man telling her was the final straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:13 PM
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No, they used to not get along because she would always lecture him on his white male privilege😂. Now she just tells him how Christianity is fake news since he’s an Evangelical Christian
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:54 PM
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I am harsh with my judgements of men too so maybe that played a role but I spent MONTHS pointing out how wrong the guy was for her so I am salty it took a few comments from my boyfriend one night for her to get her sense back. Men do excuse other men’s behavior more so naturally that comes with more leniency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:45 PM
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He was a loser so either way good on her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:43 PM
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A few weeks ago my boyfriend asked one of my friends why she’s dating such a loser and she immediately dumped her boyfriend after his comment. Even though I had been telling her the same thing for the past few months, I am wondering why she drew the line at some guy telling her. Is there something fundamentally different about another man calling your man a loser🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:33 PM
2

Usually they take it and delete it but I keep it in an app since I like looking at them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:16 PM
2

You sure it’s the same guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:53 AM
2

No, he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. The sub shutdown because they brought a girl named Ella on that was a gold star Republican and also happened to be the most incoherent person on the podcast. It was a mess. A lot of people threatened to withdraw funding/support for the podcast if she continued on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:33 AM
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This is incredible. I already knew they paid for the podcast through Patreon but the content isn’t good enough to pay for it. I am excited to see how many people actually buy this reasoning 10k/month to pay women a fair living wage lool Call her Daddy, Dave Ramsey, and Our Thing are the only podcasts i would pay for and even they don’t ask for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:50 AM
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A waitress was flirting with him🙄 and asked him where he was from because of his accent and he answered. He got free appetizers and she touched his arm. I was so upset after dinner I am surprised I kept my cool through it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:32 AM
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Yeah I always did once a week because I was seeing other people xD good intuition there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:01 AM
7

Is it if you see each other weekly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:52 AM
1

Okay on second thought, I don’t want to fuck up my engine. Thanks 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:51 AM
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Why are some women this stupid? It’s so disgusting when a girl has no game ew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:50 AM
1

I am so jealous omg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:50 AM
1

I’ve heard of 7$ in parts of CA. What will happen to my car if I stop putting premium in👀 I drive an Audi and that’s what they recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:06 AM
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How much is it costing you to fill up your car and what region of the US are you in? I am starting to think about selling my car because premium gas is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:01 AM
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Why is it relevant that I “wouldn’t be able to enjoy a first world existence” without them when it’s their job? Same thing can be said of doctors but I don’t feel a carnal appreciation for them because they’re doing their jobs. These men aren’t volunteering. They’re being paid like everyone else to provide a service that’s been deemed essential so on that front it doesn’t make a difference. All the appreciation and credit they need for contributing to society should be reflected in their pay, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:41 AM
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Lol I am not walking back anything. In my original comment, I obviously stated I am elitist and with that comes me not seeing blue collar men as suitable matches. I didn’t sugarcoat it, I acknowledged there are good opportunities in that sector while maintaining I don’t care for them. Not sure where I was unclear or walked back anything. I even admitted to having a distaste towards dating them…confused as to how I was unclear at all. Ultimately, I don’t care outside of dating. Everybody’s gotta …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:25 AM
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I don’t think we’d be a good match so more power to them. There’s some good money in the trades and much more cost efficient training + education
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:50 AM
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Yeah I romanticized it since blue collar work helped my dad pull us out of poverty but 20+yrs later and even he tells me he wishes he had some desk job instead of the various odd jobs he held.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:36 AM
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About to finish uni this year and it’s influenced me so much so that I entered college seeing the trades as sexy/attractive hard work, and I am concluding college with a distaste for dating a man in them simply because they remind me of the type of “hard work” I don’t want anyone related to me to do. Going to a LAC where everyone wants to be a lawyer, a doctor, a finance bro, or a tech genius really changed me and probably made me elitist. Interested in seeing how as more women graduate college,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:21 AM
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I started eating healthier ~2.5-3 months ago and I ordered some fast food today for my neighbor and I. It made me feel nauseous , once again, and it’s kinda annoying that I can’t enjoy the food I used to like. If this continues, I won’t be able to have any fast food even once a month because it feels like a waste to eat for 20mins and spend the next 3-4hrs feeling like crap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:27 PM
4

Bestie throw the whole man away🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:22 PM
1

Some of us don’t have the genes🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:18 PM
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It decreases it for me since he looks older with it usually but a small scruff is neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:12 PM
1

If you have a flat ass, you’re just lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:12 PM
2

The ones I date do but I think it’s not common usually. My guy hates body hair on himself because he thinks it obscures his muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:37 PM
1

More likely to trust a man in a suit over one in a hoodie and sweatpants with his hood on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:34 PM
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Honestly I am physically intimidated by big guys and 99% of the time I find them unattractive so I see them as more a threat. Although I have locked my car door because of how a man is dressed too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:14 PM
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I would rope if an unattractive guy did this to me yikes I hope she’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:12 PM
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My thoughts are the only age gaps beneficial for women are those with wealthy older men and only of they secure marriage with those men usually or there isn’t much in it. If that girl was my friend, I’d tell her she’s a fool wasting her youth on him but she’s not and probably has issues if she is with a guy 8yrs older for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:06 PM
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This and certain fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:02 PM
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Yeah it is but it shouldn’t be something you feel often because a good partner will try to avoid situations that would lead to you being jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:01 PM
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OP is trying to make an argument for paternity test. Men should get it if they want to, just don’t tell your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:59 PM
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It’s disgusting how easy older men are if you’re a young woman. You tell them jump…they’ll ask how high. Enjoy the simping though, all women deserve it🥰 P.S, when you guys talk about sex tell him some lie about how younger men can’t fuck, they’re all suffering porn addiction, and/or they’re immature and can’t please a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:55 AM
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Yeah I like the gym bro physique. Have me mixed up with someone else on the feminist point, I am not one and don’t claim to be since I don’t want the responsibility of being in a 50/50 relationship. Why’d you leave the server, did it get too dull?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:38 AM
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No I had a pink username back then since that’s the FDS color. I distinctly recall a conversation where you said “I need roids to looksmaxx now” and I told you I am a big fan of roids but start lifting for a bit before experimenting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:29 AM
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Nope, not into astrology and don’t even own a yellow shirt oddly enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:18 AM
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This is hilarious but she looks really good for her age
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:01 PM
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From the server, I am Celeste. I missed you❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:36 PM
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I am shook you’re KPV..I never made the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:33 PM
2

They got a little too crazy for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:17 PM
2

Let’s not go from one extreme to another💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:33 PM
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I’ve started avoiding going to see my boyfriend at work because I can’t recognize him there. I am convinced he’s bipolar I’ve never met someone so sweet and laid back in private and so uptight and demanding at work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:14 PM
1

Damn, there was a time music videos were like that. Pretty neat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:19 AM
2

D) all of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:18 AM
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I am guessing same women that find Benedict Cumberbatch attractive. Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:39 AM
3

Okay I am really confused why I have never heard of The Beach Boys. Listening to their songs now and they’re really good, especially Kokomo & California Girls. Kudos u/SmurfESmurferson
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:32 AM
1

Enlighten us with your list then😤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:05 AM
1

No idea who Beach boys and Type O Negative are😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:01 AM
1

One Direction > The Beatles > U2 > Backstreet Boys > NSYNC > Jonas Brothers The true music hierarchy😌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:57 AM
2

Unfortunately mine is attached to a Republican welp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:40 AM
1

I used to HATE southern accents but dating a guy with it has made it my favorite. Least favorite has to be the Scouse accent…I need subtitles to understand it 99% of the time. Horrid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:08 AM
1

Did you at least get to bang her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:18 PM
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What happened to LVM ball sack with no car and wekacuck😦
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:39 PM
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