madstoltz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Housing post separation/divorce If you need time to think and you are in an area that has seasonal demand for Airbnb reach out to a few and lock in a 1-3 month lease to think it over.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/25 11:43 PM
2	At my wits' end, Is this normal? As someone going through a divorce stop and think for a moment. In a divorce you have to stop providing for her, make her start taking responsibility and step up into the real world. So start that now. It might save your marriage or bring on the inevitable. Treat the situation as though she is her own person with expectations and responsibilities. You may be surprised how well she actually steps up if you stop taking up the slack and cut off the spending money. Just stop and see how much suddenl…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/25 11:32 PM
1	I’m scared that I’ll never be able to see or have my kids again… You can file the motion yourself. Use chat gpt to help you. There is a court filing fee. Then pay a lawyer to show up on an hourly rate for the hearing. You need a lawyer to help you with the procedural stuff but you can put in the work to be prepared.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/25 11:27 PM
1	I’m scared that I’ll never be able to see or have my kids again… Your kids will always ask why dad didn't fight for them. I thought I couldn't afford attorneys either but when your kids are your priority you find a way to create that money. I have worked 7am to 1am to afford mine.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/25 11:16 PM