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| 1 | Most romance books/movies is toxicActually that’s exactly what good fiction is meant to do: reflect reality. Perhaps you just haven’t read any good literature that has deep psychological insights, like Charles Dickens or Dostoevsky or Tolstoy or Virginia Woolf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.An external behavior doesn’t show much about a state of consciousness of the person who is doing that behavior. Just because two people have done the same behavior, doesn’t mean the have the same motivations for that behavior or the same experience or derive the same lesson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have?Some men’s dicks can be so small that all vaginas will feel “loose” to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Are ladies more likely to become infatuated with a particular guy in their life than guys are with a particular lady?Wow you literally just explained why I became gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:33 AM |
| 3 | I don't like nice peopleYou just literally explained the entire logic of why many women are attracted to bad boys and/or guys who are assholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?I’ve had a similar experience, where him paying for dates makes him feel like he can just use me for sex by coming after 2 seconds… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 04:14 AM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onSomeone got triggered af, chill out and stop telling people who they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:02 PM |
| – | Am I wrong for not wanting to financially support an unambitious man?Why do you think you have to be married? You can just live with someone and enjoy your time together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Is this sort of thing creepy or cute?Right, kind of reminiscent of Joe Goldberg from You | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:02 AM |
| 10 | Is female sexuality discussed too openly in modern society ?Really? Never heard of Andrew Tate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 06:26 PM |
| – | Why do even women with high libidos prefer monogamy or sex with just one partner?Jesus Christ, never heard of condoms? Or plan B? The only valid reason here is sexual mediocrity and selfishness of many men in one night stands. Physical safety could be a concern too if one doesn’t have a decent intelligence to make sure the person isn’t some horrible douchebag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:01 PM |
| 2 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?I’ve never had a single good experience with Bumble either. Tinder is better, and it’s even more better if you pay for it. Like when I paid, they showed me so many people that swiped right on me that they didn’t show when it was unpaid. What sucks is that the price is insane right now, it used to be like $18 a month 3 years ago but now it’s like $12-18 a week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?It’s not true; I’m bisexual and whenever I compare most of women’s profiles I come across on Tinder to the men’s profiles, women’s profiles have so much more effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?That is just not true…I’ve been on so many dates with average guys; and many of them are just arrogant and boring. If they read books and tried to be more interesting instead of having victim mentality, it would be better for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:46 PM |
| 0 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?That’s crazy, you mean literally you didn’t even have a one match!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:44 PM |
| 13 | Halloween parties are a way for women in relationships to manipulate or put pressure on their men. They also are one of the most underrated and obviously red flags guys missDude do you know a definition of gaslighting? And most of my boyfriends have tried to manipulate me about my insecurities, I don’t make posts about what all men shouldn’t fucking wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:26 AM |
| 16 | Halloween parties are a way for women in relationships to manipulate or put pressure on their men. They also are one of the most underrated and obviously red flags guys missI’ve never seen a more desperate, insecurity screaming comment on the entire Reddit. Why don’t you just go cry to your mommy because women don’t ask you what they should wear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.“Men are the ones who hand out commitment” Jesus Christ, sexist much? I am not “discussing what matters to men”, I am discussing the nature of how people develop feelings for one another. You can put your sexist evidence void arguments up your ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:02 AM |
| -1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.You said that the hottest guys equals the best sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.Yeah that’s exactly what I’ve read too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.Common sense is not a very good argument. Just because you see couples where women are more attractive than men doesn’t mean those women have feelings for them. Being a couple and having deep feelings for someone are not one and the same thing. Saying they’re not wired to do something implies there is a psychology behind it. And yet you’re unable to provide any solid evidence for that argument. Do you not know a basic definition of respect? Respect according to the dictionary is: “a feeling of d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.“Men are incapable of respecting or catching feelings for women less attractive than them. They'll fuck 'em, sure, but that's where it ends. Women would save themselves a lot of heartbreak if they understood this.” 1) That’s an interesting claim…do you have anything to support it? Like books, articles, statistical studies? Or is this just based on your own douchebag “logic”? 2) So things like intelligence/IQ, talent, or personality aren’t a factor in what makes people be worthy of respect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.Not true at all. I’ve had experiences with guys who were extremely hot but had a small d*ck and didn’t even know how to use it (or their fingers). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Please don’t talk what you don’t know about. You’re making a bunch of assumptions that are literally not true, which is exactly what’s sexist. I’ve dated someone who was much chubbier than me and literally had acne; I was very much out of his league; and he still didn’t try at all during sex and only gave fuck about his own pleasure:( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 08:19 PM |
| – | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?Stfu and stop projecting your stupidity onto others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:35 PM |
| 14 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?Yes, it’s exactly like this. I was once telling this guy that I watched this show called Looking for Alaska, and instead of having curiosity about why I liked it he was just: “it looks cute” in a dismissive kind of way, even though the show is actually dealing with a lot of serious mental health topics. Another time, he told me about being upset that a soccer team lost, and I was: “that’s cute” and he just pretended like he has no idea what I was talking about and was like “What’s cute?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:29 PM |
| – | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?Are you stupid? The point of this sub is to literally have discussion based on facts. If you wanna stay a moron just get the fuck off here instead of wasting people’s time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?Are you fucking stupid? Ohh wait you’re just a sexist and misogynistic piece of shit. If society followed such a logic, people who are physically big and criminals wouldn’t be rotting in jail. And yet, it’s mostly men who are rotting in jail for being pieces of shit like you. Google it! “In federal prisons, about 93% of inmates are men, and at the state level, that rate is about 90%. Research shows that this higher incarceration rate largely reflects the increased danger that men pose to society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:18 PM |
| – | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?And yet you can’t even defend against any of those points because deeply down you know it’s true; your misogyny and egoism just won’t let you perceive the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:05 PM |
| 30 | Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large?OMG, the last two points are right on the spot. Especially the ones who think that watching stupid sports is better than having feminine hobbies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers?It’s all the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers?Because casual sex is shallow and doesn’t involve a meaningful intellectual or emotional connection. It’s an animal level behavior that was invented by men and is meant to make women turn to be more like men, more like animals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Are u fucking stupid or what? U don’t know anything about the men I date, I’ve dated the ones who were definitely below me and some of them are shit in bed too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Whatever you say incel is irrelevant to what I’m saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:58 PM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Fascinating, because I’ve literally had the opposite experience…by that I mean that majority of men are the ones who think the world revolves around them…they barely put in emotional effort then expect you to just want to give them the best sex, even though they can never reciprocate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:05 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?That’s interesting…what exactly do you mean by “I’ve gone on dates with women whose looks equivalent in a man very likely wouldn’t have chosen me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:01 AM |
| 5 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?I didn’t say one is more important; what I’m saying is that in most normal relationships men get physical intimacy but women don’t get emotional intimacy. In fact it’s the opposite, I’m pretty sure many men think that theirs is more important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?For real, it’s just pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?I don’t waste my time arguing with stupid incels that aren’t capable of thinking anything except what confirms their misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 07:46 PM |
| 4 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?I was talking about emotional intimacy and how for many women men are inadequate in that area because they’re only capable of fucking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 07:40 PM |
| 6 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Okay incel, why don’t you learn to read. Everything you said is literally irrelevant to what I said. I’m talking about men’s ability to develop deep emotional connections and have genuine empathy. Not freaking one night stands. No shit the standard for relationships are higher, because as I literally just said, many women don’t give a fuck about casual sex and don’t get satisfaction from it the way men do. Jesus Christ can you not fucking read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 07:37 PM |
| 9 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Sex and intimacy are not one and the same at all. I don’t know how many people you need to tell you that. What you wrote is incomprehensible, do you even know what you’re saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 07:07 PM |
| 7 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Sure but men who think that way don’t actually want intimacy. In fact, far less men want an actually deep emotional/intellectual connection than women. Hookup culture was invented to literally fool women into thinking they want the same thing as men: just fast meaningless sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 06:41 PM |
| 14 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?“Women have sex on tap” are you seriously that stupid? Many women, myself including, don’t care about sex without any emotional or intellectual connection because it’s just empty pleasure that makes you feel worst in the end… How much of an animal do you have to be to think that sex availability is the only thing that matters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Women don’t respect the average man?I don’t respect any man whatsoever (the exception being some writers such as Nietzsche and Dostoevsky who actually deserve respect). It doesn’t matter what their looks are. Respect is earned and not just given because someone is a freaking man. And in my experience, it’s much better to assume that a man doesn’t deserve respect and let them prove you otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 04:27 PM |
| – | Normalize being a cat lady. Kitties are great!Exactly! It’s such a low level, animal like behavior…you’d think that people would at least try to behave better and more sophisticated than freaking animals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:49 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.“Men do 10x more emotional support…” what kind of delulu land do you live in!? Have you actually been romantically involved with a man? Probably not, unless you’re gay…and if not, you don’t have a single clue what you’re talking about; most women have at least a dozen experiences and real life data to support what we’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.What’s golden girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:38 AM |
| 0 | So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to?what’s wrong with being a single mother? And what is high n-count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:27 AM |
| 0 | So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to?This is exactly it! Finally someone said what I was sensing was happening with all my shitty tinder experiences but couldn’t put into words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:25 AM |
| 2 | So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to?Well the last paragraph is just toxic masculinity…the way some woman look when “their looks begin to fade” can be better than some guys look in their 20’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemYou’ve literally just proved my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemActually they don’t. But humans are biased to think that just because someone is attractive it means they’re intelligent. It’s called Halo Effect. “The halo effect is a type of cognitive bias in which our overall impression of a person influences how we feel and think about their character.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemHave you ever thought that women just prefer to hold out in general, because the so called “reasonably attractive guy” is usually a lazy arrogant moron who can’t hold a decent conversation that involves emotional engagement and sucks in bed?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemRight though! The dude is projecting and trying to pass it as objective reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.Exactly this! One example of this is how they can have acne and be arrogant enough to think that they can “score a hot girl” without doing any skincare or foundation to cover it up; while women with skin problems have extreme insecurities, always covering it with foundation, and have extremely rigid skincare to avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:24 PM |
| 3 | I think men's compliments are fakeDepends what kind of beauty you’re talking about, cause sure there is such a thing as a beautiful personality or a beautiful mind (people who are very intelligent can have it); but, if you’re talking about physical beauty there actually have been universal patterns of things people find attractive, such as youthfulness and symmetrical facial features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 08:10 AM |
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