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You said “oh really women for what” in response to me saying there are negative “angry woman” stereotypes, but also noted there a seemingly larger stigma attached to men and MH dx, treatment, discussion, etc. I think we might actually be on the same side. Women and men face different but equally different trouble from society about emotions, mental health issues, seeking treatment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:58 AM
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This is hard to read. It’s all I wanted to do for my last BF and said it out loud. I can’t make someone love me enough to trust me and believe I love them. I can try, but I haven’t broken the code. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:52 AM
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Why haven’t we had a woman POTUS yet? Even other women say that women are “too emotional” to be the Commander in Chief of the “greatest country.” Facts. I’m not saying I agree or that they’re smart, but it’s an obvious stigma. There’s also the fact that in certain cultures and professions, men can get mad af, lash out, and act completely inappropriately, then never apologize or speak of it, but if a woman has any slip of a similar variety, she’s immediately labeled a nutbar. So many examples. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:29 AM
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There are negative stereotypes about “emotional displays” and mental health stigmas on both sides. I just balance a lot of “fuck what people think” and “oh shit, I can’t say fuck at a park with kids.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:10 AM
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Correct. And we aren’t mind readers or psychic. I’ll ask and probe a little but once someone is clear they don’t want to share, I’m generally ok with their choice, but it informs me of their levels of actual interest, trust, commitment to moving into a future with me. I don’t know the exact words but it’s something like “don’t bleed on people who didn’t cut you.” Sure, make sure the next person isn’t holding a knife, imagine a world where some women can hold thar safe space. We are single bc no …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:04 AM
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Ok right, so the reasoning is that the irresponsible men breeding are the only ones getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:58 AM
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Women need to be vulnerable too for this level of emotional connection to happen. We also get hurt. Crushed. It’s not a gender issue. I’d take the money, literally whatever it is, over every time my heat has been broken, often cruelly or unnecessarily in my life. OR…we can all have emotionally unfulfilling and unsupportive relationships with just the sex, shared expenses, chores, etc. Basically FWB, or RWB (roommates w/benefits). /s Edit: TL,DR: everyone gets hurt, don’t punish your next partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:49 AM
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Once again, I respect your opinion but not a single source. Edit: and to your point, if there are more men with multi baby mommas vs single women with multiple baby daddies, doesn’t that actually suggest the opposite of your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:40 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s going to sound cliche af, but that won’t happen with the correct woman. But it’s also ok if you don’t want to share that part of yourself. It’s just a personal preference for me in a committed relationship and thus, anecdotal. I’m going to share my shit so I prefer a partner who does the same. Not everyone says what they mean, nor means what they say, that’s life. Some people are just shit. I’ve been fucked over too, but I still take the high road best I can,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:46 AM
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Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:30 AM
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What if your letter carrier develops a meth addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:23 AM
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The single moms did not conceive like the Blessed Mother. I’m open to the rest of your argument if you have any source supporting the fact that there are more virgin men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:12 AM
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Anecdotal, but I actually find it very attractive when men feel vulnerable enough to open up to me. I’m also looking for a partner. I want to be my partners safe place, and vice versa. It’s actually really sexy to me when a man is secure enough to share those parts of himself with me and I feel closer, more intimate, in a relationship when it happens. A man can still be very traditionally “manly” and share the heavy emotional burdens he carries. But full circle to anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:00 AM
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Gotcha. Edit: I know that was just an example but I support age gap relationships for all consenting adults over 25 (when science says the prefrontal cortex is likely fully formed). No, not looking for a debate, it’s just an opinion. There’s a whole sub for that! 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:45 AM
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I did not. TBF, I’m not going to. That’s just a lot. I think the overarching point of civil debate, regardless of the delivery, was enough for me. A serial killer could make the same point, and I agree with the notion that personal attacks actually weaken an argument. It’s a sign the person making the argument is losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:48 AM
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Ok, I’ll restate what OP said in a more neutral way. Debate can and should be done respectfully without resorting to personal attacks. Further, sometimes people take statements not meant to be personal attacks as personal, so instead of resorting to an angry, defensive, personal attack response, if there’s any doubt that the perceived response was actually personal, the person feeling attacked can and should ask for clarification before responding in an ugly, unnecessary way. Alternatively, if s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:37 AM
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I agree with this. Perhaps not the best stated, but pedantry about the message delivery misses the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I thought I addressed how I read the OP’s OP in a fairly clear way in my original comment. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m not sure we are heading anywhere productive, or heading anywhere at all. Have a lovely evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:15 PM
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I’m also not getting pregnant. FFS. Edit: hold up - paternity fraud isn’t a thing. You literally file a paternity case, get tested, and confirm whether you’re the father. Source - I’m a lawyer. Before DNA, OK. But not anymore. I honestly can’t believe that is why (not all) men apparently care about a woman’s body count. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Edit 2: full circle to, what is the average age of this sub? Because even in my “childbearing years,” I took precautions, aka birth control, to prevent unwanted pregnancy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:04 PM
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If someone is harassing you via DM, I’m not sure about the sub rules but that’s a violation of the Reddit TOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:59 PM
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Hopefully the comment I just posted doesn’t offend literally everyone 😆 Not aimed at any gender or group, other than people still obsessing over others number of sexual partners if they’re over the age of 35. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I guess I should expect downvotes and personal attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:24 PM
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Yeah I did not do that. I did click a link someone posted where she was called a whore or similar. It was about N-count or body count. I’m 42. I haven’t asked or been asked mine in so long I think it’s funny that’s still a thing, but I don’t think it’s ever ok to slutshame a woman regardless of whether they’ve slept with 20, 200, or 2,000+ men. Same applies to men. I just don’t care, nor do I want to know, how my lover got to be so good in bed, and specifically how many people they’ve slept with…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:22 PM
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100%. I’m just not going to respond to anyone, of any gender, who resorts to calling me a whore, fat, ugly, stupid, or worse. I’ll laugh and move along. At that point, the argument is over. They can go forth believing they’ve “won.” IDGAF, but I’m not arguing or debating with insults. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:10 PM
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Oh man, I’m not reading the comments but I think one of my personal flaws is being too honest. I’m definitely not “society” and decidedly an outlier, and I’m single at 42, so clearly this strategy hasn’t worked, but it’s just how I operate. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:06 PM
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Whoa, is that a thing that happens here often?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:48 PM
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Like when? I’m unclear why any argument with internet strangers ever needs to get to personal attacks? I’m sorry you’ve experienced being personally attacked. Pls help me understand when it’s appropriate to use a personal attack (your opinion on when, since I don’t understand or otherwise agree). TIA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:47 PM
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I thought the original post read pretty straightforward as “not all men” and “not all women,” but not written in those words. Seemed carefully worded to avoid specifically generalizing “all men/all women.” First instance was her personal experience and it said “typically a man” which doesn’t mean always, every time, exclusively, or anything other than “typically” and only as it pertains to the OP’s experience. Next OP talks about “people” making personal attacks, but goes on to say “particularly…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:38 PM
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I now have Ron Burgundy in my head saying “I don’t believe you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:24 PM
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Yikes, antagonizing others purposefully is shitty. I understand it’s a debate sub. Debating beliefs, ideas, etc and personal attacks are much different. TBF, I’m not a regular here, and I enjoy a reasonable exchange of ideas, but I’m not interested in debating anyone who thinks that attacking someone personally improves the validity or strength of their argument. It’s the opposite, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:22 PM
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I posted this below but it kind of goes to your point: There’s a big difference between arguing your point in a civil manner, and attacking others who disagree. Frankly if you can’t support your point without resorting to attacking the opponent personally instead of attacking their argument, you’ve already lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:18 PM
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There’s a big difference between arguing your point in a civil manner, and attacking others who disagree. Frankly if you can’t support your point without resorting to attacking the opponent personally instead of attacking their argument, you’ve already lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:14 PM
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True, but also…it’s Reddit. I could say “full stop” there. On a platform with basically complete anonymity, people are often emboldened to say things they otherwise wouldn’t say out loud, wouldn’t say to their mother/grandmother/sister, much less say directly to your face in the real world. My expectations for Reddit users is just really low, IG. My expectations of humanity are pretty low atm too. It just feels like a lot of common decency, manners, and anything resembling empathy for other huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:11 PM
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Block and report people who DM you? But point well stated bc I’ve been a lurker v poster here for the reasons you stated 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:55 AM
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That’s a great point. OTOH, in most instances divorce is priceless, and avoidable by not getting legally married in the first place. In most states you can safely cohabitate indefinitely and even have a domestic partnership for insurance benefits, create estate and healthcare surrogacy plans. Basically if you’re committed but don’t want to be married, there are easily revocable documents you can put in place for the duration of your partnership. No tax benefits but ... ok. And for the other resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 04:29 AM
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