| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | I sent one text too many | maestro_123 | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 08:07 PM | |
| 4 | Tried to secure a date over text got the “I’m kinda busy response” | maestro_123 | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 07:35 PM | |
| 3 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls? | maestro_123 | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 01:32 PM | |
| 1 | Cold approached two girls over the past week. Both of them have stopped replying. | maestro_123 | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 09:18 PM |
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| 1 | You don’t always need to be in the ‘mood’ if you’re attracted to the person take a chance.I appreciate you expanding on your thoughts you sound exactly how I used to think. Read the last paragraph on the original post. What I will say is it’s important that you take some time out to do the self growth activities that I mentioned, there’s a lot more you can add to that list but this is what has helped me change my perspective on approaches and getting rejected. Before I used to reject myself in my head before she even said it herself (an would never approach) Through applying the self… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 4 | You don’t always need to be in the ‘mood’ if you’re attracted to the person take a chance.I think you’ve misunderstood the point in my post. It’s not about a successful approach and ‘guys follow my lead’ no that wasn’t my intention behind this post. It’s about giving yourself a chance and seeing what could happen and don’t always wait until your in the perfect mood or the ‘zone’ to make an approach. In some people’s minds they may see this as unsuccessful, due to the fact I’m not on here telling you that I’ve got a date set up. Or in some people’s minds you may see it as an inspirati… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 07:09 PM |
| 5 | You don’t always need to be in the ‘mood’ if you’re attracted to the person take a chance.That’s fair enough I hear your point. Even if that were the case, like I was saying on another comment, I’d rather that then l left the coffee shop wondering if I should’ve tried to speak to her. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | You don’t always need to be in the ‘mood’ if you’re attracted to the person take a chance.I hear why you may say that, but to me that’s a generalisation to not approach. Not everyone out there has a partner. I can see this turning into a long back and forth but I’m open to hear more of your thoughts. All I’m trying to say is give yourself at least a chance and if it doesn’t go how you envisioned that really doesn’t matter. That’s how I’ve been looking at things. I personally don’t think we should be putting so much of our mental headspace on whether they have a partner or not and all… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | You don’t always need to be in the ‘mood’ if you’re attracted to the person take a chance.Is there a rule/reason behind why not to? | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 8 | You don’t always need to be in the ‘mood’ if you’re attracted to the person take a chance.It wasn’t about the fact she had a partner, it’s about the fact I even gave myself that opportunity to find out. I’d rather have spoken to her and find that out rather than going away wondering ‘what if I just spoke to her?..? guess I’ll never know now...’ That’s how you start doing overtime in your head. Rather than taking 2-3 minutes to figure out if she’s interested or not. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.Alright cool yeah thanks I will do this when I next see her. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.Lol fair enough | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.True true this makes sense man | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.Alright cool yeah I will do. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.Definitely this makes sense so lay off her for a bit and come back when I am not as new to approaching women. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.Ahh okay cool I get what you mean, sharpen my skills up a bit through talking to other girls so when I next talk to her it won’t be a flop. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t been in the field for a while, had my first approach again today and my mind went blank.Yeah I get you. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls?This is very insightful, thanks for this. I’ll try to apply this over time. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls?I’ve ordered it now - Thanks | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls?Alright yeah that’s a good idea. I will do this. Thanks | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls?Alright yeah I see what you mean. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls?Alright cool I get you. This is a good piece of advice definitely. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How to bring out my personality instantly and stop appearing as a nice guy when talking to girls?Thanks a lot for this. I’ll keep what you’ve said in mind. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she doesn’t like going out.I see, Yhh fair enough point. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she doesn’t like going out.Haha fair enough | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she doesn’t like going out.Alright cool yeah I’ll try this out and then make my final conclusion based on that if she still acts difficult then I guess I’m better off without that sort of hassle and I’ll keep it moving. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she doesn’t like going out.Yeah alright I’ll bear this in mind naa don’t worry about not reading into too much. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she doesn’t like going out.I see that’s an interesting perspective, thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me she doesn’t like going out.Yeah I said to her so shall I just come to your house, I wasn’t even implying for a hook up it was literally if you don’t like going out we’ll get to know each other inside somewhere, she took it the wrong way so I had to change the topic quickly. | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I sent one text too manyDon’t you think I may have thought that. Which is precisely why I am practicing. You don’t become an alpha overnight. I’m new to this don’t get the wrong idea. | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I sent one text too manyYeah I see I don’t work currently so I can’t use that lol. I’ve decided to leave it to be honest. The right person will show up where it won’t just be me putting in all the effort if you see what I mean. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | I sent one text too manyYeah I don’t have the opportunity to see her in person as I only know her from a cold approach. I was texting to try and meet her in person again. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 09:20 AM |
| 2 | I sent one text too manyahh okay I see do you think that I should send a more direct message to her or just leave it seeing as I have sent quite a few already? | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Cold approached two girls over the past week. Both of them have stopped replying.Yeah it’s true we don’t have that kind of relationship as we only just met. I will try what you are saying out in the future and see if it works. Also next time I will go for the number. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached two girls over the past week. Both of them have stopped replying.Yeah I see, I never thought about it like that. (timing and interest level) thanks for the new perspective. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached two girls over the past week. Both of them have stopped replying.Yeah alright cool thanks. Makes sense. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Tried to secure a date over text got the “I’m kinda busy response”Yeah this is true, definitely makes sense. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Tried to secure a date over text got the “I’m kinda busy response”Ahh I see, yeah this makes a lot of sense. I definitely did make the clicking mistake. I guess this was due to “minimal reference experiences as you said. But I guess the more advanced I become I will be able to tell the different levels of interest that someone actually has in me. Whether it’s the fact that they are being nice or are genuinely interested in me. Thanks for the knowledge! | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Tried to secure a date over text got the “I’m kinda busy response”Yeah for sure, I have moved on. Thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 08:55 PM |
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