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| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah but a worldview can be wrong and or flawed. Then alignment can make people double down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:26 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes, but people constantly confuse values with implementation and methods. Practically a lot of people use the value argument as excuse to mean they want someone who validates all of their beliefs. That's bad for society imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:18 PM |
| -1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They do matter, but it is quite annoying in my view when people just want to surround themselves with people who say what they want to hear. Sometimes you are wrong, and this applies to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:02 PM |
| 2 | What is wife material, and why women should want to be wife material?Are you asking what I consider that or what the average man considers that, because these answers are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 03:26 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes because people really are that callous 🙄 most people regardless of gender are decent. Not great, sometimes selfish, but they don't take pleasure in other people being murdered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 03:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵April was very dry and sunny but not that warm. We had a few hotter days but nothing crazy. And the predictions for may are quite bad; wet and cold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:56 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/I0SVd_Q5wIg?is=M9tODLzPjjPDnrCX One of my lifegoals is listening to this song while alone in Kyoto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ours are too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nature over hoes bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 08:07 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Beautiful cliffs <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 06:54 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You should visit Rugen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of the title of this subI think I somewhat disagree. There's a lot of diversity in feminism and their use of patriarchy, but when it comes to how that relates to men I feel the diversity is quite lacking and most strands align with eachother. There's a subtle undertone of "men have more power and women have it worse" but no real critical examination of the issue with aggregating power and wellbeing over a whole gender and then extrapolating it to most people. You can see this with how the concept intersectionality is u… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/26 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of the title of this subI agree that you can argue it is compatible but then the dominant interpretation of patriarchy needs to change. It's compatible with some interpretations, but incompatible with many others. "Patriarchy harms men too" is often very far from being good enough because it doesn't use the best interpretation of what patriarchy is. The side effect idea is a good example, this is very biased and imo sexist framing of the real pattern, which is that the oppression of men and women are connected. But cal… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have so many examples of me realizing like a year later that a woman was hitting on me. Like another coworker about a year ago started singing the lyrics of a very sexual song ( like about eating pussy and stuff)in my ears at a work party. At the time I thought this was weird but just told myself "I guess this is just how she is" and only recently I realized this was probably a flirting attempt lmao. Yeah naturally, not through skill but through ignorance 😂 That's the advantage of a poly relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 01:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well my monkey brain wants something more. It's extremely rare for me to feel quick attraction to someone because I lean more demisexual, but with her I felt it literally at my first day at work. But since I was in a monogamous relationship at that time, I didn't do anything about it. My neocortex doesn't want it though, because I know it's morally wrong to be a part of someone else being cheated on, and the more I get to know her, the more I also start caring about her, and the more I don't wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:22 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah the girl I'm in a relationship with is the one I was building a connection with a few months ago. It's going well I would say, besides a few misunderstandings that are normal when you're still getting to know eachother. I don't really feel much jealousy so I don't find it that difficult to switch from monogamy to poly. I really enjoy being with her. The one at work is a different girl, and somehow she started flirting with me when my previous relationship ended and my current one began even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think that's definitely a thing, since they are in a relationship themselves. I'm also in one, but it's a poly one, so I would not be doing anything morally wrong if it moved beyond innocent flirting. But they don't know that, they just know I'm in a relationship, so they probably think I'm safe. With one of them I do get the sense that she has been doing everything what is expected of her socially in her life to the point it's suffocating. And like I'm some kind of escapist fantasy for her. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:44 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵One advantage of working a female dominated field as a man is that you will be seen as more attractive and be flirted with, just because there aren't many other men there. I see myself as average, yet my female colleagues keep being flirty with me. Bizzare experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But they give better blowjobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 08:32 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah I love this song. Playing it rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 08:28 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, unfortunately not. This is just a childhood memory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:19 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/gTZLzm-CprY?is=VLRmhxOi4OvLkecj This song and driving through Scandinavian mountains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It was a coincidence we lived so closely together. I haven't been on dating apps since 2020. I think Reddit works better exactly because the main purpose is not dating, so you meet people more organically. Personally dating apps are very bad for my mental health, to me the experience is just inherently dehumanizing, I both feel dehumanized myself and like I'm dehumanizing others because people get turned into commodities. And there's a weird social game there where everyone has to become the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 07:09 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Tbh he didn't cheat. This is just rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵We met on Reddit, but not on this subreddit. 2 of the three girlfriends I have had in my life I met on Reddit lol. It's a good platform to find the introverted sapiosexuals, which for some reason is the type that is attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, we were both writing comments related to gender issues on Reddit before we met. I thought the way she wrote was hot, and she thought the way I wrote was hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:03 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My gf browses this sub lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:48 PM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Arguing a dumb opinion is one thing, but constantly strawmanning in a conversation is something else. I find the former way easier to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:45 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm glad you care. It's a dumb practice that needs to be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:52 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/XD6ASbQtKxw?is=ogrvctWsJCDOKWld Chopsticks you say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooBut providing economically is not the only way someone can be expected to provide tangible value. It’s not just about looks, the whole basis of performing feminine gender roles is that women are expected to have submissive, motherly/“moral” qualities. It’s the counterpart to what men are expected to perform. I agree with this, but there is something about the feminine gender role that makes you less dependent on external things to maintain your desirability. My angle is not that one is worse, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I like when my partner is not a boring normie and doesn't obsess about arbitrary social rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooA good post that encourages traditional gender roles without having the self-awareness to realize it's doing so? "Men value women for who they are" was indeed always a ridiculous simplification. But obviously came from something real, which is that the value women have is more internal to themselves, at least in current society. That doesn't mean you're loved for who you are but that does mean you're under less social pressure to compete economically at least when it comes to finding a partner. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooI mean assuming everything you said is true why would they not feel jealous and mad? It what you say is correct then that seems like a completely valid thing to be jealous and mad about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:05 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well at least I got to eat focaccia for free at the wedding 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I kinda like them, weirdly enough. That said the last wedding In my family I was on the couple ended up divorcing 2 months later lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Law is dickpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 06:55 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My personality to people I like: ❤️🥰🥺🫂🌈💐 My music choice when feeling internal anger towards people who wronged me: https://youtu.be/LPTlvQ1Zet0?is=s_AYPenrK42IZzwu Ah the duality of man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Fighting my urge to respond in a certain, now predictable manner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 06:17 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think having enough conversations beforehand, and asking for something mostly on the second and third date, not necessarily the first. If the goal is to figure out agreeability and whether he will listen to you communicating your needs, I think that needs to be happen after you have already established some type of connection. A lot of these first filters seem more so a cope, like doing something for the sake of doing something, thinking you're learning a lot about who you are talking to when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is not a good way to test whether a man is romantic, is my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ehh I think there are more effective ways of thinning the herd, more open-minded and fair ways as well. I know this is my personal opinion, but I think people should also be as fair as possible when judging people and this is not an example of that for me. For example when you take a step back, you can even look at anthropology to understand that the meaning behind gestures can vary wildy between different people. This means that you cannot just look at the gesture itself to decipher what it mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well to be clear I actually agree that these messages are red flags of themselves to, just because of the way they are phrased. I just mean that there's a genuine way to want to reserve flowers for when you know each other a bit better. And there's a good way to communicate that, not like in these messages. But if we are talking about a guy like that, I think you'd be pretty stupid to reject him because of that. Dating is often a dance of people trying to make themselves seem as good as possible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵When you haven't talked for some time before? Less likely. Two type of men are being filtered out. The men who don't care and are low effort (this is what you want) But also the men who do care but who see romantic gestures as something serious that needs to be attached to genuine feelings and therefore don't want to do that before knowing your better (this is not what you want) More importantly two types of men are being selected for: Men who are desperate for any access towards you and who wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:54 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes but if a man is romantic without knowing you that just doesn't mean as much? In fact that's regularly dangerous. Sorry I just disagree with your reasoning, filtering in this way makes it less likely you will find the best men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:46 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think that's an illusion because an even worse option gets selected for instead of being filtered out this way. An abusive dude can easily buy you flowers and do all the cool romantic gestures just to reel you in so he can show his true colours once your guard is down. In fact I think they are more likely to do things like this because it's how they get what they want, loveboming is well known. Someone who is more modest and slow going is more likely to be trustworthy imo. Romantic love is not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:34 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Intimate yes, but not necessarily more awkward. Like, there's 2 reasons to give flowers imo. One is for formal events, for example a coworker becoming a parent. And the other is for people who mean a lot to you, that are close to you. But a first date fits neither of those, it's to informal for reason 1 to apply and you don't know this person enough for reason 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:26 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's a pretty stupid way to have high standards and filtering through men though. Whether someone gives you flowers on the first date or not is not a good predictor of their quality as a partner. There are all kinds of reasons why a man might not want to do that, and being someone who doesn't care about you is just one of those reasons. It's perfectly possible for example to believe that the meaning of such a gesture is in the fact that you don't just do it for anyone, meaning you can't do it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:24 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Bro that's after the date not before you have even talked in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:19 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Asking for them specifically on the first date just comes across a bit entitled. And maybe awkward? Well it depends on how long you have been talking I guess. If we have been talking for weeks I'd happily give flowers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wholesome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:03 PM |
| 27 | Still think "manosphere", is toxic? How about UN Women saying MRAs are "core part" of manosphere?There's a similar problem within the hostile sexism scale that is used in academia. There they ask questions like "women try to get power over men" or "women exaggerate sexual assaults" meanwhile the academics using this scale themselves often see no issue believing the same things with the genders reversed. Yes I know that society doesn't have to be perfectly symmetrical, but it's ridiculous how much heavy lifting the "it's different when done to them" does in these people's worldviews. It also… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/26 10:40 AM |
| 44 | Still think "manosphere", is toxic? How about UN Women saying MRAs are "core part" of manosphere?That's because they have all kinds of narratives that they tell themselves to continue to feel like the good ones in the story. Which is why a lot of people here become so frustrated. For example when men are discriminated against in STEM, that's to correct discrimination against women and therefore doesn't count. When they push for policies that discriminate against men who are victims of abuse or rape thats justified because "99% of rapists are male" or "well domestic violence is caused by pat… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/26 10:35 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Become a Buddhist monk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous?Well you're already fixing it by showing empathy to both men and women. The problem is that many people act like two things cannot be true at once; 1) women have valid frustrations about harassment and safety 2) men have valid frustrations about feeling shame for their identity because of how it is being talked about Often times people argue "well 1 is worse just get over it" but this ignores that these men who experience 2 are not the ones creating 1 so they don't have blame for 1 existing in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:27 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I mean maybe I'm confusing you with someone else but I thought you identified yourself as one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 03:05 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Proof that misandrists create their own problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 02:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I will never understand people's need to police what other people do to decompress. How entitled and egocentric can someone be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 02:14 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree with the core of what you're saying, but calling your partner fragile isn't exactly a smart way to have conflict | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous?I think there's multiple reasons why men aren't loudly policing this this speaking from my own experience 1)A lot of times these men hide these things from other men. We don't see that part of them so there's nothing in our frame of vision to call out. I'm not gonna accuse someone I know without evidence. 2)These men don't listen as much to other men as women seem to think. I don't think calling them out actually changes that much. The men who do these things already have issues with their socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:35 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have never understood the idea of "invading something". It's the same idea as cultural appropriation but I think it is ridiculous. You do not own a culture or something to do, others are allowed to also do what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Wanting female treatment while not doing what women do is stupid.The problem with this is that it confuses population level differences with individual treatment men receive Its all nice to claim men are less agreeable on average, this is correct but the difference isn't large. So there's still a large proportion of men that is highly agreeable. And these men don't suddenly get treated equally, an agreeable man might receive nicer treatment than a man that isn't, but it's still not as nice as what an equally agreeable woman would have received. I know this be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:34 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Real, introversion has superior aura | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:37 AM |
| 7 | Gender dynamics and the lack of empathy one may receive based on their sex.It's just as much misandry. Every form as sexism can be both seen as misogyny and misandry, but calling it misogyny removes the attention from the people who suffer the most from it in this case, which is men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 07:11 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Me when I use MSG in my cooking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 05:08 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I had to Google that book but it looks super cool. I have a Seneca book laying here too, it's more philosophical but it's nice. And yes probably because in Dutch they are usually pronounced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 04:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Haha! It is. Chinese is a very cool language. I have a book about Taoism by Alan Watts, and in it he basically admires the Chinese "alphabet" because they are literal drawings of the objects it refers to. I will add, her accent in English was cute. Hope you got that too! Can't imagine people won't like it. I have been told I have a French R and not at the same time, apparently I use it sometimes but not always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 02:58 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Zut alors, c'est dommage! My mother tongue is Flemish (Belgian Dutch). What phrases do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 01:42 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh boy. But now I wonder, do you actually speak Chinese? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 01:31 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This sounds like Chinese to me 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://preview.redd.it/eaxat09spvwg1.png?width=595&format=png&auto=webp&s=08b581a2f65f3ff384b57f5ca5ab69d9911eb757 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 05:51 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This sounds like English to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 01:21 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This sounds like Chinese to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:03 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵In my experience women do care about it but just a little bit. They won't not date you because of your dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵There's always a first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵An educational YouTube video right? RIGHT??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:45 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Plethora of family crisis and two deaths among family. I'm sorry to hear. Was it close family? What makes you feel unloved? I have people who love me, but I don't feel like they understand some parts of me. I'm an intuitive person, I have a deep intuition about things. But I feel like they see that as biased or just pure emotion. I think it's far more scientific than that, but I don't know how to show or explain that to someone else. They don't have access to the data I have, the time series whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?I agree with your core point then but I disagree it doesn't cause systemic discrimination. For example the Duluth model was invented by a feminist. That feminist later realized her model was wrong which I have a lot of respect for, but she was then attacked by other feminists and the model continues to be used today even though it's scientifically problematic and sexist. The way academia studies and talks about domestic violence is scientifically problematic and sexist towards men. This then als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 05:13 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Difficult why? Or do you not want to talk about it. What plants are you planting? I'm okay, things are kinda hard. Work is stressful, my grandmother will die soon, and I'm feeling kind of unloved by my loved ones at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Omg you're back. How are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do men who speak out in favor of men's rights and issues and object to misandry deserve to be canceled?A lot of MRAs just attack women and act like feminism is causing systemic misandry I agree they tunnelvision on feminism too much, but at the same time that's also just accurate that feminism causes systemic misandry. It's not the sole or main cause, but it still does cause that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:40 AM |
| 3 | No, An Online "Rape Academy" Did Not Receive 62 Million Views, Let Alone 62 Million MembersI understand, that said I think addressing the misinformation problem is kind of easier than completely removing rape and sexual exploitation from this world. A completely safe world is not realistic in my personal view, I understand that is not what people want to hear, but isn't it just how it is? Like, people who do things like that probably won't listen to the people that try to talk about it, and a lot of those people were abused themselves as children, so solving this problem is very compl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But it all feels so lackluster and like you're just coping by telling yourself these small things matter. Like the lyric in this song, I feel like doesn't move the needle. But at least we have music to feel our own soul. https://youtu.be/AwnfjcDCCmE?si=NVmdlcRC6iaNwoqk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:14 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well it is done by a minority of men, so it's kind of just irrelevant? The question is an overall assessment, so yes thinking negatively about a whole gender overall isn't good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor.I think it's more so that others lose power by not being desired so compared to them you do have power. It means you don't have to wonder whether you're capable of being romantically loved, and it means you can advocate for your own needs in relationships better. You will be less desperate to prove to someone else that you're lovable, you won't bend over backwards because you know that even if you lose one person, you can still be with other people. I'm saying this in a way that this also applie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵There’s a middle ground you can stay aware of injustice without emotionally absorbing everything or feeling personally responsible for solving it alone I guess. It's not easy though, my sense of justice is overdeveloped lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:02 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Low tier bait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:51 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵she only likes it when it's hard and shows disgust for it when it's soft, that tells me that she sees the man more as a tool than as a full human being. I have never met a woman like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:11 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/BL7HudkGdPY?is=KWAw5h2IdDRITCQe Time to jam to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 02:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They often go for the easiest target and most of the time women are, that's why it's gender based, that had they not been women they wouldn't have gone through that most likely Are you referring to physical strength differences? I do agree with where you are coming from, it is hard seeing unfair things in life and not being abel to do anything about it I used to feel the same way growing up in a non Western religious region and the best thing I did for my mental health is try avoiding things tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:42 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I find that still debatable. But the core issue is this: there's a huge imbalance in the intellectual tradition when it comes to understanding misandry and gender-based issues that harm men. This feeds into politics and law. Me and the other guy are afraid because we are aware that it will turn out in a predictable manner because of that which means equality under the law will not be there. And we are all alone essentially, both conservatives and progressives throw us under the bus immediately. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:26 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It can be but it doesn't necessarily have to be in my opinion. Oftentimes people only abuse their romantic partners so if a man is straight it might mean he only abuses women. But it does not come from wanting to abuse women as a gender. For something to qualify as a hate crime you need to have evidence that they hate a gender, not specific people of that gender. And that also runs into issues because sometimes "hate" gets defined in a very loose manner. The hostile sexism scale for example is v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:16 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That doesn't make it a hate crime? That just makes it more likely that it was intentional, but it doesn't mean hatred of an identity was the reason for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:08 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵These kinds of laws are among the biggest gender related legal issues in the EU together with abortion laws. Both violate core EU principles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:06 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I disagree. People largely think it's ridiculous that men can be the victim of hate crimes while they assume a woman is one even when it's clearly not the case. The way hate crimes get defined is subjective and not at all consistent, the conclusion of this law is that men will be considered inferior victims regardless of whether that was the intent or whether people are even consciously aware of it. Things like this are the number one reason I can't call myself a feminist anymore. I'm for equali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:02 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵when it is linked to gender-based motives or patterns The problem is who decides that. It's extremely common that gender-based motives get invented out of thin air, which just serves to rationalise the stronger emotional response people feel when a woman dies compared when a man dies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 12:57 PM |
| -1 | Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor.I don't think the power is "the same" as the power money gives you, but being desired by others does give some power that someone who is not doesn't have. That doesn't mean you want that power or that you care about it a lot. People can have power while they did nothing to get it and didn't even want to have it. When you're less desperate to get your needs fulfilled it does give you power compared to someone else. This is not unique to women, men, or even what that need is. This is just a core p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 12:43 PM |
| 4 | No, An Online "Rape Academy" Did Not Receive 62 Million Views, Let Alone 62 Million MembersYou have to balance not just how many people something affects, but the severity as well. Taking this as an isolated incident and ignoring other things that can contribute to feelings of guilt or frustration for men on the internet, I think the real world harm of 1000 men potentially raping people and coaching others to rape people does more damage than the misinformation on this news story. Maybe if you compare it to this specific news story only yeah, but if you compare it to the pattern of ne… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/26 12:15 PM |
| 4 | No, An Online "Rape Academy" Did Not Receive 62 Million Views, Let Alone 62 Million MembersBut severity needs to be compared with frequency. Yes 1000 men doing that is far more severe, but it's also way less frequent and affects a way lower number of people than the misinformation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/26 10:37 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It exists, but mainly in the form that jobs more often done by women are underpaid relative to their societal importance. This is not caused by a conspiracy against women, but because the price signals in capitalism are imperfect and positive and negative externalities are ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Yeah but I also move through the world thinking "I need to be cautious around men" when I'm in public and "I need to be cautious around women" in private as I have been hurt multiple times. It seems to me like men are just less likely to feel fear and anxiety. And I say that as a man who is way more anxious than the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.My hypothesis is two factors: The male gender role means looking afraid is frowned upon Men have more testosterone and therefore tolerate more risk. I'm aware the way this hormone works is more complex than this, but I think there's still some truth to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Ok so why is it being said in your opinion? And why do men not say or do the same things then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.“Women take precautions around men” isn’t the same as “men are dangerous” as a character judgment. One is about behaviour under risk, the other is a blanket statement. You keep treating those like they’re the same thing. My point is that this is rarely what gets said. The blanket statements are more common in my opinion. I almost never see someone saying "women take precautions around men" or a woman literally doing a precaution such as guarding her drink and men going "not all men" in response.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.You’re trying to make this symmetrical, but it’s not. Why is it not? I'm not claiming it's perfectly symmetrical, I'm just not convinced it's asymmetrical enough to justify the way it gets framed? They’re responding to a specific kind of risk that actually affects how they move through the world. That’s why it’s gendered. Not because men don’t face risk, but because the pattern and context aren’t the same. Well it's not just about being different, it's about whether those differences are relevan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Changing the wording might soften the message, but it doesn’t remove the uncertainty or the risk, so it doesn’t change the behaviour. Changing the wording also just changes the content of the message. So I don't agree with this. I'd also argue that you can't collapse everything onto one thing. There's a difference between being cautious and talking negatively about the male gender. You’re focused on men feeling unfairly seen as a threat. Yes because of the damage that does to someone's mental he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Safety is also about feelings. That's not really a point imo. Women feeling unsafe is just as much caused by both real and imagined things as men feeling shame. All I'm saying is you're still responsible for how you talk about safety. The way safety has been talked about in the last few decades has clearly created shame in men while it has not meaningfully changed anything imo. This is not good. And men aren't to blame for being too fragile or whatever nonsensical excuse I see being made all the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 10:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I barely know any men who hold both of those positions simultaneously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?I think people of any identity have the responsibility to be moral and healthy citizens. That means that sometimes men and women should change. Not in a coercive way, but they themselves should want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.But if you drop the crucial "some" word you're contributing to a culture that creates shame in innocent men who did nothing wrong and women still have responsibility for that regardless of how valid their concerns about safety are. It's not the abusive men that suffer from being described negatively constantly, it's the most kind-hearted men who suffer from that. So I don't agree that saying not all men is useless, it's necessary because there's nothing good about creating shame in men who are i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Both "not all men" and "not all women" are valid in my opinion. It's not hard at all to communicate in a more clear fashion than just saying "women do x" or "men do x" it's pretty basic shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 03:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵There's different ways of judging someone. You can judge their beliefs and actions as they harm themselves and the people around them. But you can also judge them as people and I don't feel comfortable doing that. When I was a teenager I experienced a lot of bad luck that luckily got better later. But it could have always been worse as I also grew up with many privileges others don't have. I don't know if I would have turned out any different if I lived in their shoes. There's a lot of things, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 08:07 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree I think experiencing your first love is important for self development. It can be the most shitty relationship ever but that doesn't matter, the validation from the fact that someone was capable of loving you, no matter how flawed is an important step in development. That's why I don't feel comfortable judging incels because I still remember how much impact it had on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Thanks. TIL I'm a cinnamoroll. Well at least when I'm not on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 07:02 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Someone please explain this or I won't be able to sleep tonight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 06:53 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Stellaris is based. I should play it again. Cosplaying as the galaxies moral police is fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 06:48 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 06:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵cinnamon rolls??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 06:02 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵In reality they just feel unlovable. Being loved romantically for the first time removes that and after that it doesn't really matter anymore what is provided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I wouldn't really enjoy having sex with someone who doesn't want it either. But often times it's less clear cut than that. I mean if my partner is sad, I'd probably have sex with them if that would make them feel better even if I don't really have much need for it myself. There's a big spectrum between "I absolutely want to have sex" and "I absolutely don't want to have sex". This is why this is genuinely confusing to me because it's so far removed from my own lived experiences? I just want to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But if the partner sees crying and like "oh, ffs, i'll let you fuck me" - then it will be manipulation and coercion. But that's also their own responsibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I understand the value behind the sentiment you're expressing. I don't really get the value of calling 95% of men rapists though. If you're consistent then you also have to call the majority of social interaction manipulation or coercion, but what does that achieve? Heck if someone starts crying because their partner rejects their intimacy for the 100th time in a row, are they a rapist in your eyes because the tears are automatically seen as manipulation? If the standards for being a rapist are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 08:11 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think you're taking for granted how much of what you say is not "a truth" but your interpretation of it. You can word any survey question in such a vague way that you can get an outrageous outcome but it doesn't actually say much about society. Also the reality is that human relationships require mutual sacrifices. Sometimes you do something you don't really enjoy for someone you love. I don't think this should be romanticized, but it's just how it is no? No one wants to clean up vomit but we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:59 PM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Have they tried not being super religious and homophobic? I will never understand why other people are responsible for stories people make up themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 03:55 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes. But it's not necessarily immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 03:33 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Claiming that itself is also often a form of misandry imo because it's not accurate so why do people say it? Because they want to downplay it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:19 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah they don't know about sampling bias, survival bias, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And the ability to understand statistics. Which many people don't have. And the thing is even the basic education on statistics you get in a science degree is just the tip of the whole iceberg that is statistics. I myself still don't understand a lot of things and I think I already understand more than most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 08:07 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ideally I agree, the problem is that it takes a lot of time and energy with no guarantee that the other person will engage in good faith. I used to do this sometimes here, but I stopped because it takes me hours to gather and discuss papers while the other person can just invent a mental gymnastic or just leave the convo. Then there's also the fact that sometimes you have analyzed papers years ago and you remember your conclusion but not every single detail of how you came to it and you don't wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 08:02 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I interpret this meme more so about having awareness that one can lie with statistics and that studies aren't free from bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 07:55 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I kinda agree with this meme tbh. The ultimate form of aura is having the intelligence to actually critique studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 07:54 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're not supposed to ask questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofGood chat, appreciate the discussion. Thanks. Likewise! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:55 PM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofOtherwise the term means whatever you want. Well the alternative is that the term means whatever the current status quo wants, and the status quo is not neutral. In fact it's usually the thing we are critiquing in the first place. I see myself as a progressive and scientific person, and because of that reason I also think my thoughts on how terms should be defined are generally better than those used by the status quo. Once you read a lot on science and philosophy you start to realize that there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:09 PM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofYou still have to show how it actually translates into laws, policies, or consistent patterns at scale. My impression is that those all align with that idea pretty much with maybe few exceptions (for example women are assigned more agency in childcare and nurturing tasks, and men are assigned less agency when it comes to controlling their own sex drive). Laws and policies seem to follow that pattern quite consistently. That’s where the other framework has more value. It doesn’t just say “this bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofYes, rights evolve. That doesn’t mean you can redefine them mid-argument to make a point. There still has to be a consistent standard, otherwise you can prove anything. But what's the alternative? Just sticking to the status quo even when you have a good reason to dislike it? The "you can prove anything" was somewhat my point that I was trying to make, the status quo definition is just as much an act of "proving something". It's not worth more than a minority definition imo just because it's use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 11:42 AM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofYour “agency bias” idea is interesting, but right now it’s mostly describing patterns, not clearly isolating causes. That’s the issue. You’re saying “this is what it looks like,” not showing how it operates in a concrete, testable way. But this idea comes from psychological studies that consistently find this? So it is testable clearly. You can perfectly claim that the agency bias is the cause of the outcomes we see, of course you can still ask then "well what causes the agency bias" which is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofThat doesn’t mean they’re arbitrary or that we can define them however we want in an argument. They still have structure and meaning, otherwise the term stops being useful. Rights changing and expanding has literally been possible because people dared to redefine them. And “ceteris paribus” is doing a lot of work there, because everything else isn’t equal. Rights and obligations exist across multiple domains, not just one. Highly depends on what country you're talking about. For example where I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 05:55 AM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofYou’re treating all interpretations as equally valid, and they’re not. Not all interpretations, but some are. I don't see the evidence for why yours is more valid. You can frame conscription as “men are disposable,” but that’s an interpretation. The actual policy is tied to a role, men as combatants, not a claim that men are lesser. That's rather bizarre considering there's plenty of evidence that people have less empathy for male suffering, feel less likely to help them, etc. You can easily obs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 05:49 AM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofIt’s not arbitrary though. There’s a difference between intent/bias and outcomes shaped by roles or history. You don’t prove “hostility” by guessing feelings, you look at patterns, laws, and norms. If something consistently restricts or targets a group because of their gender, that’s bias. That assumes that restriction is the only way hostility can be expressed and that restriction can only be done out of hostility, which is rather questionable considering how often restricting women's autonomy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofDefinitions are usually partly arbitrary and socially constructed. The history of rights is one where our conceptualisation of rights has gradually expanded over time. You can see it as a social innovation, a right only exists in the minds of human beings. The universe knows no rights. To make the world more progressive, expanding what we see as human rights is usually a good strategy. That's why I do not understand the value of your argument, it comes across as almost reactionary. Whether somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:11 PM |
| 0 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofThat’s not symmetry, that’s just expanding the definition until it includes any harm men experience. The one you're using does the opposite imo. Which makes one wonder why? For something to be misandry or misogyny, it has to come from bias against that gender, not just be a negative outcome that affects them. Things like conscription or dangerous roles come from gender norms, not hostility toward men as a class. I don't understand how this is not completely subjective and something that anyone c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 09:56 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's kinda funny how autistic people are described as rigidly following rules but neurotypicals themselves have these completely arbitrary social rules they treat as self-evident laws, not just for basic human interaction but for what concepts should mean. If the dictionary says so everyone apparently needs to follow the meaning there, even when the concept is arbitrary and has clearly changed over time. If you're concerned that one definition creates power imbalances you're told you're crazy an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 09:02 PM |
| 2 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofYou’re also treating misandry and misogyny like they’re symmetrical just because both words exist and can be graphed. They’re not. One has been baked into laws, institutions, and norms for a long time. The other mostly shows up as attitudes or rhetoric. Not the same scale, not the same impact. This just comes from how assymetrically people define these concepts. Misogyny often includes everything, while misandry gets defined in a far more narrow manner. This doesn't really say much about what ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:42 PM |
| 1 | "Misandry is a response to misogyny" is complete BS, and here's proofHow is this not completely arbitrary? How does it not violate the right to life, the right to enter your own contracts (instead of slavery, the right to expression etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:34 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Budapest needs to be liberated from this asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Being an adult is diabolical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 08:16 PM |
| 3 | There is a Taboo Against Making Statements Which Are Unflattering to Women as a Group; This Discussion Board is Not Evidence to the ContrarySweeping, inaccurate, negative generalization about women is misogynist. Thats not a “repercussion”. Thats just what the word means. Just as making sweeping negative generalizations about men is misandry. People push back because they don’t agree with your negative generalization, not because there is a taboo against making sweeping negative generalizations. But they don't push back equally? OP does have a point. There's some seriously unhinged papers out there in academia that write such things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 09:58 AM |
| 1 | There is a Taboo Against Making Statements Which Are Unflattering to Women as a Group; This Discussion Board is Not Evidence to the ContraryOP mostly has a point when it comes to academia, way less when it comes to society as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 09:54 AM |
| 1 | There is a Taboo Against Making Statements Which Are Unflattering to Women as a Group; This Discussion Board is Not Evidence to the ContraryThis is another example of a man on this subreddit pointing out something real but then self-owning with ridiculous examples. First of saying women tend to be cowards is not "truth" but moralizing. Women are more risk averse and this is a fact, but when you use the word coward you are not just saying that, you're expressing moral judgement about their risk aversion. This is not "truth" as being risk adverse can be both good and bad depending on the context. For example being risk adverse leads t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKYou want a relationship, maintaining a relationship require 100x more effort than the beginning stages of dating, for men and for women If you are unhappy with the effort in the beginning stages, you will not be happy with the effort required to maintain that relationship, and the problems that can happen bcs of that, you don’t want them, the other person doesn’t want them I have had three relationships so far and I kinda disagree with this. One of those was abusive so was obviously taxing, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKI'm not sure I agree with this. Dating is far more exhausting because you have to prove yourself. Being in a relationship takes work, but it's also often enjoyable work, work that comes naturally, work that you have intrinsic motivation for. That often can't be said about taking pictures for your dating app, and being the best possible marketed version of yourself on dates. That shit can get exhausting really fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 08:33 AM |
| 10 | University of Oxford professor Jonathan Herring, drawing on feminist ethic, argues state must impose curfew on all men to protect womenWhenever I read things like this I keep wondering if it's satire. It's like watching Trump post on Truth Social. That's how mind boggling it is to think this is real.. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/26 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Could it be that the manosphere and the Red Pill fuel MISANDRY?realising you've overstepped a boundary and apologising is an act of kindness, my brother apologizing was an act of humility that showed his willingness to avoid a useless conflict. She didn't just cross a boundary, she said something mean and manipulative. Your brother also shouldn't have apologized as he did nothing wrong. Even so, the consequences of misogyny are FAR WORSE than those of misandry, misandry can result in the hurt feelings of an innocent man and in a few cases, in him being excl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:20 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵We need pictures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 04:22 PM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menI think I might agree with you if you limit your criticism to NEOLIBERAL class-blind feminists It's kind of hard to identify this imo. Like are feminists in the United Nations all neoliberals? Or the feminists who push for Duluth like models of domestic violence? Or the feminists of NOW? Or the feminists academics that use shady research practices? I do think that countries that are more neoliberal have more extremists and polarisation, such as can be seen in the US, the UK and Australia and it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:52 PM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menHowever, I believe that many women do that as a reaction to the horrible red-pill ideology that dismisses the opinion of a person only because she's a woman. Well the exact same thing is true for the people who end up in that ideology in the first place. It's a reaction to a combination of conservatism that is still lingering everywhere in society that makes men feel stuck in their gender roles, increasing wealth inequality and the inadequate response to this by progressives, often using the mal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menYou can build a framework around suffering, empathy, neglect, all that. But it’s answering a different question. One is about who’s constrained, the other is about who’s ignored. Both matter, but they’re not interchangeable. And on oppression being political, I partly agree. People do use it that way. That just means you use it more carefully, not that the definition itself is useless. That would work in an ideal world but unfortunately I'm more cynical about the state of how current things are.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menI understand the value of making that distinction. There are relevant differences that should be discussed between those two things. At the same time I don't think I believe that strongly in the concept of "choices". And I believe social norms can be very oppressive in their own right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menYes, everyone has some, but the question is who is systematically limited. That shows up in concrete ways like laws, representation, and control over major life decisions. It’s not just “differences exist,” it’s patterns of constraint. Can't you say the exact same thing is true for more suffering related things? Such as people caring about it or not, whether you're seen as disposable and neglected? The disposability of men is just as systemic of a pattern in my eyes as the restriction of autonom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menBehavior and norms are shaped by the same system. The idea that formal restrictions are more important than informal ones is also another assumption that gets made based on vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menIf oppression just means “suffering,” the term becomes useless because everyone suffers. That’s why it’s tied to power and autonomy, it isolates structural constraints I don't understand the logic. Everyone also experiences power and autonomy and differences in those things between people. Why do those terms then not become useless? And suffering and power affect eachother. If people care less about my suffering because I'm male, that could be argued to be a way of having less power as I'm less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menYou could argue all of these are related to the male gender role, receiving less empathy, ineffective healthcare (particularly mental healthcare), problematic beliefs about men's emotions and their purpose, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle ment’s measured with multiple indicators tied to power and autonomy, things like legal rights, political representation, income, exposure to violence, and control over personal decisions. No single metric defines it. And why should these things be included, but life expectancy should not be? Why is oppression = lack of autonomy/power and not = suffering, lack of support, lack of empathy? This is really not obvious at all. And it’s not “who decides” in a random sense. These are standard measures use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 07:45 PM |
| – | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menI have read a lot of feminist literature and that question is not properly answered in those books and texts. Rather assumptions are made about all the questions I asked, and often they are treated as self-evident without elaboration. I'm an academic, so I think not transparantly discussing the assumptions one makes is problematic, no matter what field we are talking about. So when you say "men have more power than their female equivalents" what is the evidence for this that you are using? How d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menSo how is oppression is measured? and maybe more importantly, who decides how it should be measured? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 7 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menYou can argue the exact same thing for many metrics that get used as a measure of oppression for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 06:15 PM |
| 21 | Men will never support modern feminism because it exclusively benefits women while trying to lecture and belittle menWho decides how power gets measured, which type of power is stronger than another type of power, what should be included in an analysis of power and what shouldn't? Y'all always talk about power but it sounds more like an activism slogan than a deep analysis of what power actually is and how we should measure it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 06:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is something you experience disproportionately when you're socialised as male.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 03:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How are you still alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah don't do it. BPD is too high of a risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 03:19 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Luckily lavender is climate change proof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ok thanks for this advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Women collectively bring up extremely silly arguments to prove that they "have it harder" than men (Spoiler: They do not)It's so interesting how people admire the people from the past for standing up against injustices but support the injustices in the present or are completely blind to them. Most people never stand on the side of actual ethics or deep intellectual understanding. All they care about is their own group and saying socially desirable things even when they make no rational sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 05:41 PM |
| 11 | Women collectively bring up extremely silly arguments to prove that they "have it harder" than men (Spoiler: They do not)I mean people who fight for women's rights, and feminists more broadly speaking, very often do claim women have it worse, and even when they don't speak it out literally it's revealed through their claims and actions that they do believe that. Can we stop pretending like men are the main ones who have started this zero sum approach towards gender issues? They are responding to a movement led by women who already did that in the first place. It's so bizzare to me that anytime this topic comes up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:24 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I score fairly strongly introverted on MBTI, but I also score close to 100 on openness so maybe that compensates. I struggle more with not interacting with loved ones for a long time though. Maybe not individually for each person, but when I solo travelled for 2 weeks I started to go a bit insane from not talking to anyone for that long. I even started talking to myself which was weird. And yeah true, but sometimes life already does that for you, you can meet people in University. But I guess pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵There's more life than just not being alone tbh. Once you have your close circle those other things matter more imo. Idk I like being an introvert, there's something liberating about being underestimated too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:24 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵One of my coworkers has been kinda flirty with me. So we talked a enough so I know she's intelligent, but then I saw her post something about her astrology sign on insta and my brain couldn't process the fact that this was the same person lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think there's a lot of misunderstanding about the term introvert. Including people who self describe themselves as one. Ultimately it's about how you process information and what you gain energy from. Not about how socially competent you are. Of course what you say is true. Introverts are less likely to leave the house. But maybe they just need a smaller circle of deeper friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:16 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It also comes with massive advantages. Such as intellectual ability, introspection, deep insights, strategic thinking, integrity, economic planning, etc. Our society needs these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is my least reasonable ick. I have to actually tell myself not to judge someone who talks about astrology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah I'm questioning if this strategy is actually easier. And I'm tired of introverts being described as socially incompetent 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But what if you want friends who are also introverted? Idk I struggle to relate to this point made over again here about social skills. Maybe I take my own social skills for granted but it just doesn't seem that important to me. I'm introverted and I don't really struggle that much to make people like me. I still don't like large groups of people or speaking too much. Don't you think Americans constantly confuse being introverted with being socially anxious? I'm at a four person desk at work, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:48 PM |
| -2 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenSex can be a mutually beneficial shared activity. Trying to gain money from someone can't be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This what you get when you put a demented pedophile as the leader of the most powerful country in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This assumes that introverts want to be around extroverts. I definitely often don't want to be lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This doesn't make sense. Male loneliness is also caused by patriarchy, patriarchy is not a conscious, living being, and declining birth rates can be mainly explained by urbanisation, not the messages given to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:35 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't see facts, just an emotional post that simplifies a complex reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyI think this kind of naive. Just because something is a dating preference doesn't mean homophobia can't be the root of that preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"In our society everything that can't be economically quantified gets undervalued. This is not unique to things women do, but it affects them disproportionately because more of the labour they do more often is hard to quantify. Being a mother and running the household adds value that is hard to quantify in numbers. This is why it is hard to estimate what is fair; how much of their male partner's earnings was made possible by her labour? Giving her half of the wealth is only a guess of what is fai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"Just because you can't quantify it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. And when the law only addresses the financial side, it makes sense to me that men perceive it as unjust, because it kinda is unjust, there's just no good way to even make it just. So the solution is to abolish traditional relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"I'm not a fan of traditional gender roles, but the problem here is also that being the stay at home parent also comes with advantages that can't be compensated for in the case of divorce. You are in a more financially vulnerable position as the stay at home parent, but you also have a stronger emotional connection with your kids and the experience needed to care for them. During a divorce only the financial vulnerability of the stay at home parent gets addressed, but not the emotional vulnerabil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Would you be a Single FatherThis topic is filled with selection biases on all sides. Firstly people believe men are worse parents than women on average and care less about their kids. Of course part of this is cultural, but it's also a selection bias because women happen to have more agency over whether they become parents or not. This means that more men than women will be forced into parenthood, so a bigger fraction of women will have chosen to be a parent, which means they will also be more committed parents. It's selec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:44 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Meh some people who don't find certain things interesting are just themselves boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:16 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Who is it? Do tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 08:13 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵TIL I'm a betrayer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 07:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What makes one a boring conversationalist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 07:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Depth of conversation hinges more on the specific person you’re talking with than the setting of dates. Do you think that is more important than meeting physically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 07:24 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I guess some men have a trustworthy vibe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:21 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Touché | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 03:42 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Rude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes, or course 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 02:01 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No one has hugged me yet today. Underprivileged male oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵When a woman acts like a boss, that’s not congruent with taking loads down the throat and to the face. Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 05:17 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The global economy is cooked for real. Starting with Asia outside of China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 09:54 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah it's definitely a big part of religion. You can see it in the older generations a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:22 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is why I keep telling you I don't like this cultural idea of "the virtue of hard work". It's a type of morality that glorifies suffering for the sake of it even when better and easier solutions exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)I personally don’t see WHY we should even keep the possibility at the top of the possibility list (which is what you seem to be doing honestly) when there is no evidence for it. Just seems biased to me. I'm just wanting to avoid harm. If you assume any disparity in outcome needs to be corrected, it's almost certain you will cause harm somewhere. Besides, clearly people only care about correcting such disparities when they favour men, women outnumber men in universities as a whole, but that's not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)What if you consider it as a possibility, not a hard proven fact? Is it still sexist then? Also do you think this socialisation needs to be corrected? For example if a woman likes cooking, does she need to stop doing that because maybe it's the result of how she was socialised? How do we engage with this then? There is no clear or sufficient evidence that brain anatomy or genes deterministically explain differences in such interests. Imo there's also no clear evidence that socialisation explains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)It’s not THAT difficult to get a degree in a STEM field… I mean sure people having university degrees are already outliers within the general population but almost half of university degrees are STEM field degrees? There are women graduating successfully in STEM fields all the time. I feel like you’re treating it as needing exceptionally skills… Not everyone graduating is going to do a PhD and have a further academic career. Well STEM has different definitions based on who you ask. Usually the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)If you want to win a Nobel prize maybe. To just study STEM in university it makes no difference, like I said under the intersection of the two Gaussian curves is an equal amount of people… And if you move toward the left of the intersection there are even more and more women compared to men… So your conclusion doesn’t follow from what statistical variance means? Unless you don’t understand it? Your point only applies to extreme outliers. That depends on the exact distribution and what is require… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)Having an exceptionally high IQ is a bigger benefit in STEM subjects. Of course it depends on how high your IQ should actually be to graduate, which probably isn't that high depending on the specific field. It's not obvious to me that the variance would have no impact when it comes to finding employment. I don't think intelligence itself as measured in IQ is as much of an impact as the differing interests of men and women and I also think that it has more to do with men having better spatial int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)But that’s not the same as saying the framework itself is 100% constructionist or denies biology? The point I’m making is simpler: even if there are underlying biological differences, that still doesn’t explain how you get from differences in distribution to rigid social roles and institutions? Not inherently so, but I do think it has a bias to center nurture over nature. Now obviously in reality you can't really divide those two things easily. Imo the fact that this is such a big debate in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)I’ve yet to meet a feminist who thinks patriarchy happened purely “random”… I don’t really understand how you think feminists see the “construction of patriarchy”? Most commonly I observe people who do the following: 1) "Men are just evil and chose to oppress women" which is biological essentialism without explicitly naming it as such 2)"Men are taught to oppress women creating patriarchy" which is circular and not an actual explanation of how patriarchy developed 3) just silence about this topi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)I haven’t really heard anyone make a 100% pure constructionist argument anyway. I think what feminists usually mean is that biological differences get amplified through patriarchy Aren't you reading too much of your own thinking into other feminists? My experience both online and in the social science departments is that biology is considered a taboo subject when discussing gender, with the only exceptions being the fact that men are more muscular and that women can get pregnant. Obviously I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)I don't see why his claim contradicts the things you're saying. There are studies that found IQ distribution differences between the genders. So if these studies are correct then what he is claiming is correct even if you can question the extent and the conclusion he takes from it. That IQ distribution itself is a separate thing from how genetic traits are inherited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)But the claim is not "most men are highly intelligent or highly unintelligent", it's "of those highly intelligent or highly unintelligent, more of them are male". I think there's a confusion coming from the difference between the word variety and variance in a scientific sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)But this is about the population at large. Not about variety within an individual. It's true that the male variability hypothesis is about multiple things and not just intelligence. But if intelligence is a part of it, then the claim by OP that men will be disproportionally represented more in the high intelligence and the low intelligence brackets is correct. It doesn't mean they will fully dominate them, but it means one will find more men there than women. Of course this hinges on this hypoth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Men are the dice of humanity and will therefore always be the majority group in both positions of power (politics, military) and positions of powerlessness (homelessness, prisons)What OP is saying is that men are lumped into the smartest people and stupidest people And thats not how variety works Why is it not how variety works? How is what he said wrong if the underlying claim of higher variability in intelligence is correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 07:27 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm doing a PhD and I feel like I'm slowly dying inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 04:48 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You can also just not care and find a woman who doesn't care about that. There's plenty of them around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 04:47 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Gravity is just fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Women don't like when men have healthy boundariesThat makes zero sense. If someone is allowed to react to a boundary in any way, then someone else is also allowed to react to their reaction to their boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 06:59 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just listened to my girlfriend sneeze on a call for an hour. The emotional labour is unbearable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive.Top-level comments to Q4X posts should only be made by “X.” Please check the post flair and repost your comment under the automod if you wish. Top-level comments to Debate posts should clearly challenge or counter the premise of the OP. Please check the post flair and repost your comment under the automod if you wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 04:25 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's a special kind of annoyance at work to be given advice to do x only to hear "why did you do x, oh no I think you shouldn't have done that" a few weeks later by the same person who gave you the advice to do x in the first place. This has happened to me like 3 times in the last month and I have no clue what the socially appropriate response to this is. I'm afraid my facial expressions are showing my confusion and annoyance a bit too clearly. Also responsibilities keep accumulating on me. Fml … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 08:01 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah, being a simp has a more narrow motivation in wanting to have female validation. But there's also just people who ideologically believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:51 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You mean filled with people who want to downplay everything men do and exaggerate everything that women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:29 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's almost as if male and female suffering both exist and don't contradict each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Women are the safest gender(USA)That explains why people who are single do it. But it doesn't explain why people who are in a relationship do it, it seems to me that in that case it is a person being blinded by their own privilege. Like a rich dude saying "money is not that important". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 09:27 AM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh no. Anyway... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are the safest gender(USA)Very valid reply. But then we should also acknowledge that love and sex are important to most human beings instead of scoffing at people who fail to experience it. Else all of us wouldn't be willing to take such risks to get it. There's something so bizzare about people who try to downplay it as something completely casual and optional as if the desire for love is not a core aspect of the human condition. I will never understand how people like this can still take themselves seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:16 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I need to be in an old hotel lobby staring out of the window, mountains in the distance. Strong alcoholic drink in my hand, sun setting, my girlfriend with her head on my shoulder. Staring into the distance with an empty expression. Hating and loving my own mortality. Every memory once made will one day turn into nothingness, peace and anxiety, relief and worry, the joy of forgetting and the tragedy of being forgotten. The duality of man. This is what they call philosophy maxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:12 PM |
| 11 | Opinion Piece Published by The British Medical Journal: "Boys at Risk of Radicalisation must be Approached with Compassion, Not Suspicion"The point you meantioned about asymmetries in how perceptions are treated socially is very interesting. But then again: don’t we all perceive it is our own perception that is at risk of dismissal? So whose perception about the perceptions is the right perception? It should always be questioned obviously because of the human tendency to frame their own problems as the most important, but I don't think that in this case it is just about the fact that it is my own perception. Take DEI for example. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/26 08:25 PM |
| 10 | Opinion Piece Published by The British Medical Journal: "Boys at Risk of Radicalisation must be Approached with Compassion, Not Suspicion"It's true that perception of a thing or phenomenon is always the driver of behaviour in response to that thing or phenomenon , rather than just the object/pattern that is being observed itself. Now obviously, perception is usually not completely independent from what that thing actually is, sometimes someone's perception is accurate, sometimes someone's perception is inaccurate and more often someone's perception is flawed, existing somewhere on the spectrum between "completely accurate" and "co… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/26 07:33 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm fine with all of these. What I'm not fine with is lying about it, or when the ex is abuse and they keep going back to them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interesting to see these cultural differences. Here I think it's more likely to mean "you overdid your make-up" in my experience. I'm sure you looked lovely though. You probably wouldn't get that backhanded insult if you lived here 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | The courting process never ends for men.Choose better is kinda cringe advice imo because it's so self-evident. I think all of this just is just kind of symptomatic of how much transactional mindsets have increased with the invention of dating apps and social media. The problem is people attach their worth to these kind of rituals or gestures rather than focusing on just getting to know someone and doing nice things for someone you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why is looking like a doll a compliment in Amerika? I think when people say that here in Europe it's more likely to be derogatory or something lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | The courting process never ends for men.True, I think OP is referring to an imbalance in those things though. I wouldn't say it's the default, but it's not uncommon either to hear these ideas that men should mainly do those things for women but not in reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 2 | The courting process never ends for men.But sometimes life happens. Sometimes two people can be exhausted. It doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I can relate to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So does that mean you also see women as mainly responsible for creating patriarchy or is that natural conclusion of your reasoning inconvenient? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 03:22 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have this on my legs too. Even just sitting with my leg pressured against the desk or something and I have a bruise. Even though I feel zero pain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 03:17 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How much experience do you actually have? I'm hardly a chad, but in my experience women become huge freaks when they feel safe with you. So I don't buy this idea that hookup material guys are having this amazing sex that normal guys can't experience. It doesn't align with my own feelings either, sex feels way better the more you love someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:14 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's a raven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 04:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This used to be one of my favourite graphs in physics lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 07:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Way too much effort for not enough reward. I have other things to do such as doing science and reading books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 07:20 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Myron the true alpha man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 07:19 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have so much work to do but I can barely do anything. I feel constantly anxious and sad, I can't get anything done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 06:24 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah that makes sense. Even just the labour required for healthy communication, which you could have used for something else if you were single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:09 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah but then you don't have to sacrifice that freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:06 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You can also be poly though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Do you feel like being poly makes you more attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:48 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wtf that's awful. I'm sorry you had to deal with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:17 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Such a simp 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵He must be worth it for you to willingly sit through that. No ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah poor fella having to watch that raw meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:48 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What's wrong with you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵being the dominant one is just more exhausting regardless of your gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:53 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I guess its either a guy who's so stressed his brain stopped functioning, or a guy who's really too self-centered to be healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:30 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Myron, more like MORON | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:16 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm always surprised men like that exist. I always do the exact opposite, I prefer to listen more and ask questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It will have some effect no matter what, but it will more meaningfully flip your results if you're average. If you're really ugly, it might not be enough to change a lot, and if you're really good looking, you will already get interest anyway. But if you're average, it can make a big impact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:13 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Emotional intelligence maxing actually works if you're average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 03:00 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm also a Belgian so that makes two of us already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:28 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Belgian lovers are the best are they not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't eat these lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 06:41 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Extremely cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.On the lmwa and men's rights subreddits that happens from time to time. And they are lumped in with the manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Imperfect aggregation does not mean comparative analysis is meaningless. Researched still base themselves on indicators such as violence exposure, mortality, political representation, economic autonomy, legal rights… Say what you want but most world leaders are still male. Most gendered murders still end in men killing women. Even when you factor in race, poverty… and other confounders, there still are gendered differences. None of that addresses what I said. Even with finite resources the step … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.So you’re playing a “who introduced the zero-sums-game first” game instead of reflecting on if the zero sums framing is helpful and correct? I'm describing why men feel jealous. It's an understandable feeling given the context that feminists have helped create. Saying one group faces worse outcomes overall is a descriptive claim about patterns in data. It only becomes zero-sum if the proposed solutions require taking resources from the other group. That’s the level you’re operating on. Yeah the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Viewing women as cognitively inferior is an extremely sexist view. I know it’s linked to infantilisation, but everyone should fight these sort of -isms inside (sexism, racism, ableism). I do, as I said previously. I'm just saying not even the best effort can fully compensate for this systemic problem. So they see it as a zero sums game. How surprising. No they respond to someone else's zero sum framing. You continue to always put the responsibility for this away from feminists and I really don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.So yes, feminists experience damage too. Yeah, but not as much. I won’t be led by being liked, put it on my gravestone. Yes because your personality type is also like that. Children, animals, they are all equal to us. Equal in value, not in cognitive capacity or as "agent". Men never experienced such institutional sexism, and they’re still jealous it seems? Like they want to be the victim too? Why? They experience plenty of their own kinds of institutional sexism. They are jealous because too ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Still your agency, your choice. Yes? That doesn't change systemic factors. You’re seeing the world only through your own eyes. The patterns we see are influenced by our own perceptions. Yeah, but that doesn't mean patterns can't exist independently from our perceptions. Feminists won’t let themselves be guided by if they’re being liked. Neither should you. It’s not the best thing to be led by. This is also because a significant portion of men are more forgiving on that front. Men on average are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.So it’s your choice. A constrained choice, where I argue those constraints should not exist and are created by sexism. So you admit it’s subjective No I admit I can be wrong and mislead. I still think it refers to a real, observable pattern. But you just admitted you did these things by your own choice, it’s not an expectation, you subjectively experience it as such, but you might also be misreading. I choose to fulfill the expectation because the consequences are not worth going against it some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Do women really ask this or do you just do this by default on your own? A mix of both. When you don't do it's more likely that your peace will be disturbed than if you don't do it for men. I see you consistently push back on these things. I only really do that online for the most part. Do you? What if you don’t agree with that you were wrong when they feel like you were wrong. Do you really say this? Not always but yes. Because I don't want to fight for hours or be seen as a prideful or arrogant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Being extra diplomatic to not hurt their feelings. Sometimes just keeping a thought to myself and staying silent. Validating them before giving advice. Not pushing back when they see their own gender as the main victim of life and are ignorant to what being a man is like. Being the first to say "I was wrong in this way" when there is conflict. Going along with the idea that conflicts are 50/50 and that repair should also be 50/50 to appeal to their desire for harmony even when I don't agree with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.It's both, depending on how you define it. It also reinforces eachother. I even feel this within myself. Every single time I'm forced to emotionally coddle women more than men, I have to actively fight my own mind from seeing myself "above them". This is how sexism constantly gets reproduced but people don't understand this. The only way to make men less hostile sexist to women is by also allowing them to become less benevolently sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 07:45 PM |
| 9 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Things like having to be more considerate to the emotions of women compared to men, assigning men more agency, apologizing the most, ... Basically infantilizing women. A lot of people who claim to hate this still get mad when you don't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 07:27 PM |
| 11 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.OP's argument is really weak. That said, I think the title of his post is correct. He just argued his point very poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 07:22 PM |
| 0 | There is no blue pill ideologyYeah I'm not seeing how it cannot fulfill those 3 criteria and how it cannot have structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 07:52 PM |
| 1 | There is no blue pill ideologyHow is a herd mentality separate from an ideology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 07:40 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How can something that is the result of a shared activity ever be 100% one party's fault in a general sense? That makes no sense at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:39 PM |
| 2 | There is no blue pill ideologyThe majority of blue pill beliefs are inverse red pill talking points brought up by the redpill to create an opposition, the term did not exist until the redpill called everyone who leaned slightly from their idea of ‘reality’ blue pill, and people only ever use blue pill to either identify themselves to signify that they loudly oppose the redpill, as a form of mockery, or they might just flat out not know any better and have come from a redpill background. Can a reaction to an ideology not be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 09:27 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I mean I fully agree that redpillers overly emphasize looks and status. It's true that other things matter a lot as well, such as humor. But the performance thing comes from the imbalance in pickiness. Like I said you can do something about this as a man, but it won't fully go away either. As a man who was undesirable than became more desirable over time I can relate to the feelings these men are expressing. It does get disheartening sometimes when you feel that you're performing rather than con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:22 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think they are upset that women don't need to be funny in the same way. It's just not fun when everything you do gets reduced to a performance. But men also have agency over this, you shouldn't turn it into a performance. I have empathy for the feeling, but you can do something to feel better about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 5 | There is no blue pill ideologyit's like saying that i you need to prove that god exist as much as i need to prove that it isn't. It's not, because God is an unobservable entity. That's not the same thing as being an ideology or not. But anyway, ideology is a set of ideas, and i did show that blue pill didn't follow any specific set. If you think that it's not enough - the burden of proof comes to you. But what kind of proof? When you're analysing convergence or diversity of thought there's no obvious cut-off point where some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 11:45 AM |
| 5 | There is no blue pill ideologyI disagree with this heuristic on a fundamental philosophical level. I think I need to prove that just as much as you need to prove that it isn't. It is more productive when proof is given for both sides. That said in this case I'm not sure how it can be proven, just because the concept "ideology" is so flexible. There is no math formula that can be used here, it is subjective. That's why it's more useful to talk about what it is, rather than to prove labels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 11:28 AM |
| 6 | There is no blue pill ideologyYour second argument is the most questionable one. Within an ideology there will still be disagreements among those that follow it. The question is how correlated or similar do peoples belief systems need to be in order to be called an ideology or not, and how arbitrary and morally coded their beliefs are. For example most people believe the earth is round but that's not really ideological, that's just an observable fact. I think it's true there is significant disagreement within blue pillers bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 10:46 AM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I mean this checks out with my lived experience. Every intelligent woman I have ever gotten to know underestimates their own intelligence and each time I have to remind them they are doing it. As a man I'm not really insecure about my intellectual capabilities, more so about my intentions being read more maliciously than they are. Women have to deal with people assuming they are more incompetent than they are, men have to deal with people assuming they are more malicious/dangerous than they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotIf your only goal is to have sex then being a jerk helps. If your goal is to achieve something more than that, it's a terrible strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 06:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"you would look even hotter with this haircut" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Women Aren't the great Communicators They Think They AreI agree, that guy did the right thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 12:04 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Spain, Korea, Japan if I remember correctly. Might be more that I don't know about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not in every place no, but almost no one even argues for men, including men themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:34 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵In some countries and in many more it is debated. I don't think they should just endure it 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But people argue women should get extra sick days for example. I don't mind this, but it's interesting how people just seem to accept men die earlier. For example the UN gender equality index considers men dying 5 years earlier "gender neutral" lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My point is not that there is no biological explanation but rather that it is overplayed as an explanation. Social factors contribute a lot as well, but this is ignored. Furthermore, it's bizarre how this is not seen as a problem to fix just because there are biological origins. Almost no one sees periods and pregnancy as things that women should just endure, we try to make it less painful and dangerous as a society. But the gap in life expectancy is seen as an immutable reality by many, which s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're cool, I trust you. Unfortunately I don't trust many others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 07:17 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's true in some aspects and not in others. The thing is, there are some aspects where women should get more funding because they are disproportionately harmed or because of historical injustices. But I don't believe this is a good explanation for why men's issues get less attention. Instead I believe it comes from the fact that people have less empathy for men. One big reason why I can't call myself a feminist is that too many of them refuse to accept this reality and always try to frame every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Government funded research especially disproportionately goes towards women's issues for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 05:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well those are not the only spending programs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:41 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree that it is wrong. That's said there's something morally uncomfortable about how government money disproportionately goes towards women, even though men mainly pay for it. At least in my opinion. It's not really unsurprising that this gets turning into populist narratives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Saying women pay less taxes is not the same as saying they don't pay taxes. Not that I agree with how the argument is usually used, as it's a logical consequence of doing more unpaid or underpaid labour, but the argument usually is not that they don't pay taxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:20 PM |
| 0 | We live in the most competetive Dating Market off all time, and it isnt even close.Scientific research does not show that at all. In fact that's more true for women than for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:05 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So many people give such boring and useless presentations at work. Jesus Christ man, what a waste of my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:30 AM |
| 7 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I would see it as a green flag. And having it would be a neutral, because so many people have it. But not having it is unique. It shows me someone doesn't just follow any trend and does what they themselves want. And it shows me they aren't desperate for random attention. That's attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 06:27 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵In my experience there are plenty of women who do care about personality first. I'm hardly a chad physically speaking, but I have had multiple women interested in me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 06:29 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:29 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> Roasted vegetable pasta sauce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | If attractive men use women as disposable with all that entails simply because they have options, then logically any man who will have options will behave like that, and others will just quietly want to, what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life?Already found some like that 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:23 PM |
| 2 | If attractive men use women as disposable with all that entails simply because they have options, then logically any man who will have options will behave like that, and others will just quietly want to, what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life?Variety is the spice of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:55 PM |
| 3 | If attractive men use women as disposable with all that entails simply because they have options, then logically any man who will have options will behave like that, and others will just quietly want to, what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life?I agree that's the intention, but it ends up unintentionally being misandrist. guess food sharing is an option but not many people are into that kinda of thing. I noticed people need to be gently introduced into food sharing generally speaking. Maybe with the right kind of pie it can be enjoyable. Do you like pie? Food sharing is nice until there's too many people. I like some pies and really dislike others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 02:52 PM |
| 50 | If attractive men use women as disposable with all that entails simply because they have options, then logically any man who will have options will behave like that, and others will just quietly want to, what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life?It increases the likelihood, but it's not a guaranteed outcome. It's perfectly possible to have options and still treat women well. But yeah I agree it's kind of a self-own and men being misandrist to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 12:12 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just put an age limit at this point. All these senile men are incompetent as fuck. Although Biden actually did a decent job exactly because of how senile he was; he was just a pawn for the council of decision makers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:50 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah I hate how irrational it made me behave. Sometimes it still shows up a little bit and then a few hours later I have to apologize for overreacting 🙄 it's so annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 08:15 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's especially depressing because an otherwise kind and decent person can end up in this loop because of having PTSD from trauma. Of course other people don't have to tolerate abusive behavior, but as someone who had PTSD before I have a lot of empathy for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 08:02 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is actually studied in psychology. People who are hostile receive hostile responses and then get stuck in a loop where they become more and more hostile. I forgot the exact term for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:53 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵We had fun. No fights, many good conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:49 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I impressed her with my Reddit comments lmao. But I took this one on the trip: https://preview.redd.it/a6py4w1in3mg1.jpeg?width=1365&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68318ead28da75d4b884b4786a880953adb25f0d | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:47 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Reddit. Our first date was a 4 day vacation in the UK lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Did you run into challenges at first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 05:18 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How did you start being poly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 05:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 04:56 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So you're to blame for having a bad doctor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Men say that they don't have in group bias, because it's not proven, but it actually is.That's the sad reality of the polarized nature of gender discourse at the moment. Everyone has responsibility in perpetuating this. But at the same time no one has, as it's a systematic problem. It's not your fault they respond in this way, but it's not really their fault they respond in this way either. When every conversation has a good chance of turning into a "this gender is better or worse" type of convo rather than a "this is how biases work so we can address them" you end up with people r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Men say that they don't have in group bias, because it's not proven, but it actually is.well, you're one of a few men who think so, so i guess there is a reason to argue to show that it is true, at least for me. Yeah that's fair, I just meant I won't argue against something that's obvious to observe. Doesn't really change my point. What's your ultimate point? i can understand your point, but it's usually still brings out that effect. It can in specific situations just like it can bring out the exact opposite in other specific situations. Personally I don't think it matters that muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Men say that they don't have in group bias, because it's not proven, but it actually is.The competency bias is a real thing, there's no reason to argue with that as it's obviously true. But it's also perpetuated by women themselves, so is that in group bias or just general societal bias? Being competent is also not the same as being wonderful. Being deemed more competent actually sometimes causes the opposite because if you're deemed competent then that means you're assumed to be malicious more easily when you're doing something wrong. These two biases don't contradict each other, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 02:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How can you get the ick from this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Posting this about your own son is abusive, wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 10:42 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Being a switch is the superior way of being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 10:10 AM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How's that not degenerate but loving multiple people is somehow degenerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 08:00 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah, and that makes no sense at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 07:58 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵While saying casual is great too. Makes zero sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 07:44 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/wGcyklgrRg0?si=7nw4eFaCbwVi6hV2 I love this song. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I bought a new computer literally for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:49 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lol I'm now remembering that casually explained video on this topic "Again you really can't tell" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 09:40 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm rethinking the things female coworkers have said to me. But testing the waters was not really an option as we all had partners at that time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 09:30 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How do you know whether a woman is hitting on you or just being nice? Or maybe they just like you as a person but aren't attracted? I have been told I'm oblivious so now I'm questioning things lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 09:03 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sounds nice, I think I would prefer it like that as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:39 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵5'9, I am not that tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?You might have a point if you weren't strawmanning my position, and if I were the one trying to support uncalled for assumptions with Bayesian statistics to support a broader claim. How did I strawman your position? What's wrong with Mary's reasoning, or is it sound? I think there is some truth to it, but I think the military would be a better example to use. There's also contradicting evidence of that idea, because on the one hand there are places where this seems to be true (the military, spor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:36 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh that's awesome to hear, congratulations! Do you already have a wedding date? What type of wedding would you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 10:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Do they ever get offended about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 10:14 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Thank you Sarai. You're always so kind to me, I appreciate it. Are you and your partner still going strong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 10:08 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵She must also be able to put up with a lot of rhetorical arguments and hard to defy internal logic Yeah my mind is not for the weak. Most people would probably end up frustrated. But usually not the smart women. she must have a tough job if she wants to change your mind about things She already did on multiple fronts. do you ever debate with her about ppd subjects? Yes and I take her seriously each time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 10:05 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I also have long hair and like getting my hair brushes too hahah. It's so relaxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Thank you. She does. She's also very smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:54 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Eh I try. I have my own flaws like everybody else. But I think a good trait I have is that I'm aware of them and admit to them. That way you become better over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:49 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I didn't just gain a good friend. I gained 4 years of someone who showed me what love without abuse looks like, who taught me valuable lessons, who supported me with my own ambitions, who made me feel like my effort and love could actually mean something to someone as she's grown into a better person while she was with me who I'm proud of. When we met she probably didn't fully understand what she actually needed in a partner and neither did I. I probably still don't completely know, but I know a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:44 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Does this sentence have a double meaning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, things got too difficult. But we are still good friends. I met someone new recently who I like a lot though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not yet... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:26 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'd be open to trying, but with the understanding I'm worse than average at such things 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:24 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm incompetent on that front. But brushing and playing with their hair is nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?How is "attraction to dominance is completely independent from what women want in long term relationships" not a far stronger, more likely to be biased assumption than mine which is "it's not fully independent on the level of the total population"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?You don't seem to realize you're committing major reasoning errors that invalidate the probabilistic conclusions you're trying to draw. No, you just don't understand how bayesian statistics work. Which is fine, most people don't as it's not taught nearly enough. But accusing me of commuting major reasoning errors just because you don't understand me is annoying. My opinion however is based in a long history of men trying to subjugate women who won't submit and women generally preferring true ega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?If there's zeros basis for what I'm saying then there's less than zero basis for what you're saying, you don't seem to realize this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Being attracted to dominant traits doesn't mean you want them directed at you or that you want to be submissive. Nothing I said implies that. Why are you so stuck on that? Again, yes logically it doesn't automatically mean that on an individual level. But on the population scale it's likely this transfers between those two things for enough people to make it a pattern in terms of averages. I'm stuck on that because what you said is less likely to be true then what I am saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?... so if a man is trustworthy and dominant they would rather be submissive with them right? Like I said, when they are loved right. I didn't say anything about how many men can provide this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're making autism seem based ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Based upon human behavior? Attraction is involuntary, but people's preferences change over time as they get more experience because they figure out what they actually want. It is more reasonable to assume it will have some effect on the scale of the total population. Are you saying people don't act on their attraction? But honestly what you appear to be failing to ask yourself is why you think they must be connected. Why would you assume that being attracted to a person with some dominance assoc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 07:51 PM |
| 7 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://preview.redd.it/pstz5wjhpolg1.png?width=275&format=png&auto=webp&s=468db5bc4ffb41328cb443972500fdf47b3e13ef | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?there's no connection between what traits you are attracted to and how you want to be treated Why would I believe this? Whats the reason they'd be completely independent? Egalitarian relationships are diametrically opposed to one partner being submissive. If one is, it's not egalitarian. I don't agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?I mean, you seem to be trying to push the narrative hard given you're questionable leaps of logic. I'm reasoning probabilistically, it's not my fault that you don't understand this and then interpret this as questionable leaps of logic. Just because it does not automatically and logically follows from what I said doesn't mean there is no association between the two. If you want to redefine submissive out of what it means - that is inclined or ready to submit or yield to the authority of another;… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Maybe stop trying to read inaccurate intentions into what someone is saying? I ain't forcing anything or forcing anyone. I'm trying to describe and understand how the universe works. It's like your mad at me, because your shadowboxing a very specific type of submissiveness that I'm not talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?It's not complicated that attraction towards someone and how you want to interact with them can be two different things. E.g., men who fall in love with a woman who likes to dress provocatively and then is upset when she continues to dress this way in a relationship. Yes, but on a population scale why would you assume this is the case for such a number of people that it would change the average? The fact is the vast majority of women express preferences for egalitarian relationships. If you're l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:21 PM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.That has nothing to do with men having in group biases It does, because with how it is defined that would be contradicting. I can't think men and women are simultaneously wonderful as that concept is defined in a relative sense when used as an overarching thing. Your only counter to those studies would be that they have conceptual problems and that they are missing something, for example that there is no one such bias but multiple ones that are contextual. You think dudes threatening to take awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?But this is a flawed leap of logic that not only ignores individual differences but conflates attraction with how a woman might want to interact with that man. A woman can even want a dominant man to be submissive to her, for example. I'm not ignoring individual differences as I was precise about the fact that I was speaking about averages. There was no moral weight in what I said, I don't think women have to be submissive. So individual women can definitely be dominant or neutral. But the avera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:08 PM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.So how do you explain both men and women having a women are wonderful effect in many studies? Is there a conceptual issue in those studies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 04:03 PM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.You do find that sentiment here on ppd and in the manosphere. But it's pretty rare in the general population of men in my experience. Conservatives are usually misogynistic, but they don't think men are perfect victims at all. In fact they constantly victim blame men themselves. But also the "taken women's rights back" is clearly very often a response towards being shamed for being male. It's a predictable response when men as a whole are being described as evil oppressors, because it contradict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Then why are there studies where women are asked to self-report what they find attractive that show women find some level of dominance in men attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 03:35 PM |
| -2 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Aren't women on average naturally submissive when they are loved right? The men doing the coercing just want to bypass that condition no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 03:21 PM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.That's the point, they aren't claiming men are great. You just perceive it as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 12:02 PM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.Imo your post doesn't prove your claim/title. What you're observing is men responding because they feel internal shame. That's not the same thing as having a men are wonderful bias. Studies consistently find the opposite phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 11:41 AM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.Is it bias or is it a bayesian statistical analysis? If your prior knowledge is that people will try to shame you rather than offering a productive conversation then it just seems like a logical response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 11:39 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Except when discussing moral intuition tests! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 06:31 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think in both cases people can learn. I don't really believe people are ever "lazy", rather I think they have mental health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 04:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵One of the biggest issues is dealing with group members who have a lack of care/communication and work ethic yes. But even when you luck out on those, there is the issue of having people who don't have any skill in scientific writing or people who have no clue on how actually doing something if it's not filling in predetermined questions on a test. The education system ruins people's ability to work independently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:22 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Group projects just suck no matter who you're working with lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:37 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You can never know the intention of strangers, especially not online, so this should be your default assumption: that you don’t know their intention, whether they have strong morals or not, whether they care deeply or not. You simply do not know. Whether they hold frame or get upset easily. You should always assume you don’t know. So not assume indifference either. Yeah very true, often you can't reliably know someone else's intention, only your own 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:50 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's one of the most annoying debate tactics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:11 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's a skill and it's a responsibility everyone has. But at the same sometimes there's really nothing you can do to be perceived correctly. Which I find very frustrating. Probably not the most mature behavior of me but sometimes I then start to intentionally mess with people because they will misunderstand me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 10:08 AM |
| 15 | Men need to take charge and make most of the decisions in a relationshipThere’s a difference between authority and abuse, and collapsing them into the same thing is lazy thinking. Authority will always collapse into abuse on a population level unless the right checks and balances are invented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:58 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Very true. It's very bizarre for me as well sometimes. I seem more emotional when I write online, but the exact opposite happens in real life. Then I seem like I don't feel much, when I do, and then people hurt me because they think I didn't feel much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:51 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That makes sense and I agree. I'm just saying a lot of people can appear to be holding frame when in reality they are just indifferent or unobservant. It's not that they are good at emotional regulation, it's just that they don't feel any emotions about anything except for their selfish self interest, or they lack awareness about what is going on. This creates a problematic perception where people think someone who's genuinely concerned about society is emotionally unstable, while someone who do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:43 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Holding frame is overrated imo. Sometimes people who get upset are the ones who have the strongest morals and those who care the most about the wellbeing of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:30 AM |
| 7 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The fact that you keep bringing up this example is kinda sus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.It's not that it is an undeniable fact, it's that trying to guess other people's intentions is unreliable unless you spend a lot of time with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.Guys who don't get it simply don't understand how much scary shit women deal with from men, and worse, they often don't believe us. I've had men tell me I'm lying when I say multiple men have yelled at me for not wanting their number when they randomly approached me in public! So then why do I understand that and still think man vs bear is bad? I simply think people are responsible for what they say, regardless of their trauma. If your reaction to women being scared of men is "this sucks for me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.You understand yourself yes. But that is all that is highly reliable when it comes to intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.Dehumanisation? Feels like you didn’t actually read what I wrote. It’s symbolic, not literal. It’s not meant as category 1 (moral accusation = men are violent animals), it’s meant as category 2 and 3 (risk perception and emotional signaling). These are the intentions. They don’t point to dehumanisation. You “perceive it as such”. But it’s not the intention of feminists using the analogy. You’re misreading the intention behind the entire symbolism. I just don't agree with your whole framing or co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.Category error. That’s a direct moral and political claim about what women should be allowed to do (rights, obligations, explicit political view). That’s not a symbolic comparison used as emotion signaling. You appear to not really notice a difference between: 1) Saying “men are violent animals” (= moral accusation) 2) Saying “I statistically feel safer with X” (= risk perception) 3) Saying “my lived experience makes me distrustful” (= emotional signal) You make a category error collapsing these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:37 PM |
| 8 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.This sort of defensiveness is never healthy, neither morally justified. Whether from women or men. When someone signals something, you don’t center yourself in response. Period. You hold that space for them. So when someone signals to you that they think women are awful and belong in the kitchen, should have their rights taken away etc your response is to hold space for them? Not defensiveness? Not moral concern? Because it means you can’t separate your personal self from the group you belong to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 05:36 PM |
| 13 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.You do it to inspire for rethinking. Man vs bear is that. A test to inspire rethinking. I don't believe that that is what it is. I believe it is a dogwhistle for a bigoted belief system. It’s intellectually weak but socially revealing. The rage proves the mechanism works. Women aren’t making a risk calculation, they’re signaling distrust in accountability and seeing whether men can sit with that implication for 5 seconds without centering themselves. Imo it reveals that the women who say that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 04:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Having a cat and have it like you is as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:57 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A therapist once cancelled on me without letting me know 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.If your not trying to make anyone feel silenced, what was the goal of telling you’d remove my comments as a mod had you not been personally involved. The goal was letting you know you're breaking rules and giving a chance to do something about it. I don't remove comments or ban people quickly compared to other mods. I give them a chance to improve. If you removed my comments I would challenge them and then other mods would get involved too snd they would see you are abusing your power. No most l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.Exactly which is why your warning me here instead of just removing because you know you’ll break the code of contact but also by warning me here you are abusing your own power to silence me. It's the exact opposite. I do not want to make anyone feel silenced which is exactly why I do not mod my own comment chains. This is not even against the rules for the mods, it's something I impose on myself. But you kept doubling down further, so I had to at least say something. If I wanted to silence you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.I do not decide what can be posted based on my own preferences. I decide that based on the "no contentless rethoric" "be civil" and "debate post" rule which always require some level of interpretation. The content of your post is not the problem, it's that people who make debate posts are expected to actually debate counterpoints. I didn't warn you because I don't like you, I warned you because you keep breaking multiple of the subreddit rules. If I didn't care about my code of conduct I wouldn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:13 PM |
| 7 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.You and others are trying to steer it to suit your own personal agendas. If you can’t argue my points then stop wasting both our time. I am arguing your points. You just don't want to "lose" the debate because you know they make too much sense for you to easily dismiss them. So you make ad hominems instead. You’ve also tried to make it personal and tried to dismiss it as emotional, this is another tactic to avoid my actual points I have called an emotional response what it was; an emotional resp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:30 PM |
| 12 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.did. I’m sorry you didn’t like it snd made you emotional You didn't. You made one very weak argument that doesn't actually disprove what I said, and an ad hominem about what I'm supposedly doing. I’m keeping the debate to the actual points, not going off to your own agenda I disagree. You're keeping the debate to points you can easily dismiss. Else you respond with ad hominems. I’m not attacking men, I’m saying unless asked, we don’t want your opinions, and stop making our choices about you. Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:06 PM |
| 18 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.Again dude I’m sorry if your feeling emotional but let’s try to keep our personal responses out of it Projection. I’m not here to coddle you, No but you're supposed to respond to what I actually said. Which is not what you did. Instead you made up all kinds of things because you didn't want to engage with my actual argument. it’s mostly just personal attacks from men being offended that we don’t care for their opinions I'm not offended and neither did I make any personal attacks towards you. I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 11:49 AM |
| 16 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.I’m sorry if my post or comments made you feel emotional but this is a debate sub so please don’t take things personally. You're being far more emotional than I am as evident by how much you're reading into what I said that I never actually said. But it's not because you're a woman. The problem is you're not debating in good faith and I find this annoying. When you make a debate post you're supposed to show interest in counterpoints, not dismiss them with made up framings. And yes, you made wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 11:23 AM |
| 19 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.Comparing someone to a stationary plant is better than an animal mostly used as teddies? Yes because bear in that example really refers to a teddybear when the example is about violence 🙄🙄🙄 Yeah, this is called moving the goalposts. Men made womens choices about them and just like in your comments tried to play it that men are the real victims here as men can’t find their identity, completely ignoring the violence against women that brought them to picking them bear in the first place. I'm not p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 11:04 AM |
| 34 | Men need to stop making everything about themselves.I keep finding these types of takes on the man vs bear debate to be incredibly ironic and deeply lacking in self-awareness. You call young men selfish and entitled for responding negatively to it, but you are yourself responding negatively to their reaction by calling them selfish and entitled. Which suggests you yourself are selfish and entitled by your own logic as you don't allow them to respond based on their own experiences either. You're suggesting women are entitled to expressing opinions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 10:51 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timejust think there’s a trade-off: I agree it's a trade-off. Unfortunately intellectual integrity is itself in a trade-off with doing advocacy and your own sanity sometimes. If someone’s position depends on external validation to remain stable, continually providing that reassurance can actually reinforce the dependency. This is true, I'm just talking about doing that once in order to make someone feel acknowledged. And then hopefully they can take a next step themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeNo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:37 PM |
| 3 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeLikewise... And the original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:37 PM |
| 2 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeIt's not that I am worried about being seen as performative. It's that I'm saying it is not necessarily a good strategy to overly please women by being "nice" if you want to attract them. Neither is it a morally good thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI’m not sure how appearing to defend denigrating women on dates is supposed to inspire rethinks in their belief systems… if anything the consequence is they think that is what you actually believe and they won’t take you serious on your ideas. I only said it is true that I could have explained it more clearly. Not that I think it is reasonable for them to think that with my current explanation. The fact that they focus on what I quoted and not on what I said (which is not compatible with the typ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 11:10 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeMaybe my ultimate aim was not to be perfectly understood in this case, but to inspire a rethink of their belief system and to reveal more information about their own beliefs system and assumptions. Just like you know me from other comments I made, I know them from other comments they made. And I think their belief system as a whole is inconsistent. But I can't say that directly to their face as it would just be dismissed. Communicating as clear as possible is only important to me if wanting to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 07:25 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI agree I could have made it more clear. But having been on this subreddit for years I'm unsure they would have responded differently if I had been more clear. Sometimes on this subreddit you don't have to show all your cards outright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:57 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI understand it can be misunderstood. But I didn't agree with his framing in the first place. It can just as easily be that a woman who can't handle a conversation about that is the neurotic one. And in my experience a lot of women of my generation would respond badly to merely daring to have an opinion on that as they have been damaged by polarisation just as much as the men, which is something else entirely than denigrating someone. But of course by making it about denigrating someone, you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:45 AM |
| 3 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI didn't say it did. But it still means being normal is cringe and an euphemism for what is actually being said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:47 AM |
| 1 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeNot if you also read the original post. What he said doesn't make it any less cringe to say "be normal". He's putting all of the responsibility of a woman not being able to handle pushback on her opinion of the wage gap on men. Because apparently you're not normal if you don't treat women as delicate flowers who will run away the second you disagree with them on something. That's reinforcing benevolent sexism. In that case it's still cringe to tell people to be normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:39 AM |
| 3 | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeThe original comment didn't specify the first date. At some point you need to discuss your opinions with each other while you are dating. I just reject his framing of denigrating someone. Talking about the wage gap is not automatically doing that. It's suggesting someone needs to cater to what women want to hear but imo this is counterproductive because women see right through it and don't even like it when men are overly performative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:30 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI didn't say you were, but when did I ever say I would force someone into a debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:20 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI'm sorry dude but not making a backhanded insult like you just did, because you're not even understanding where I'm coming from is also "basic politeness". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:18 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeEven debating is not equivalent to arguing. Arguing is like yelling and insulting in my view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Banned from a popular sub for bigotry for... *checks notes*... calling out bigotryYour comment/post was removed, because it made a derogatory statement about a demographic group or individual, based on their race, gender, sexual orientation or identity. It is good practice to qualify who you are talking about, especially when it comes to groups based on innate characteristics. “Many men” used instead of men in general, or “many white people” used instead of white people in general will likely avoid accusations of violating this rule. If you disagree with this ruling, please a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/26 06:15 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeWell no, of course. Not on a first date. But I don't understand the idea that discussing a topic is the same as arguing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:05 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Statistics show that men are less likely to leave relationships where they are unhappy. This is a valid thing to be concerned about in itself. It's related to how society teaches men that their feelings are unimportant. But they don't say there are zero happy marriages from the side of men. People generally report higher wellbeing when married then when single, regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:59 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeI don't know if I still think this is true. A maybe surprising number of people (including women) prefer someone who dares to have their own opinions instead of being overly nice about it. It just doesn't seem that way on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:49 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeBecause a “normal man” would know you shouldn’t be trying to argue and denigrate someone if you realistically want them to like you or date you So a normal man changes his opinion based on how much pussy that gets him? How is that having any integrity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Thanks for being able to acknowledge it. And for helping them with it. Normally I don't automatically believe someone when they say they care about men who are abused as it's often used to win a reddit argument but you have been a consistently kind and good faith person here so I believe you. We need more people like you in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:41 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If a woman is an abuser or rapist or something, it's just relegated to her Even that often doesn't happen. Then it's "well what did you do to make her behave this way" 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:34 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Agreed on all fronts. But it doesn't change what I said. It happens so many times here that people pretend men magically cause all of their own problems. I'm only saying it because the cases where this is claimed very often make no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:18 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Because they selectively pretend the world is just/fair and that when someone (usually a young man) has something bad happen they had it coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How hyperbole drives division and how to recognize derailingYour post/comment was removed, because it contained a personal attack on another user. Please try to keep your contributions civil. Attack the idea rather than the individual, and default to the assumption that the other person is engaging in good faith. If you disagree with this ruling, please appeal by messaging the moderators. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/26 01:46 PM |
| 3 | How hyperbole drives division and how to recognize derailingI appreciate the high effort post, thanks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/26 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Women are objectified for Sex, Men are objectified for ViolenceYour post/comment was removed, because it contained a personal attack on another user. Please try to keep your contributions civil. Attack the idea rather than the individual, and default to the assumption that the other person is engaging in good faith. If you disagree with this ruling, please appeal by messaging the moderators. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/26 01:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You have never been insulted here??? I have been insulted so many times and I'm literally a mod, they still don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:21 PM |
| 8 | «The Male loneliness epidemic is a good thing because it means women's freedom» -Elizabeth Lemay, on francophone channel of the Federal state-sponsored radio-station.Yeah that's very true. Although I don't feel that way when it comes to my personal relationships with women, when it comes to doing activism for women I don't really see it as my responsibility anymore to the extent I once saw it. And its because of how common things like this are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/02/26 10:07 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ah yeah. I guess mostly in the hilly areas. I'm going to England next weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:02 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So long? In which country do you live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 09:51 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah we had snow today and I made a photo walk in the city. More than 10 years ago since I had that opportunity lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 08:58 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My mom played this shit too many times, sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 08:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah that's still not great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes, country music sucks ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 05:54 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So you didn't read anything I said? I already said that killing animals for food isn't necessarily morally wrong. Making them suffer a lot is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 09:58 PM |
| 2 | «The Male loneliness epidemic is a good thing because it means women's freedom» -Elizabeth Lemay, on francophone channel of the Federal state-sponsored radio-station.How do you mean disability | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/26 05:26 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao. Well don't be too hard on yourself, you made me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:17 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not necessarily, you can farm tuna in an ethical way. That just doesn't really happen currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 12:56 PM |
| 20 | «The Male loneliness epidemic is a good thing because it means women's freedom» -Elizabeth Lemay, on francophone channel of the Federal state-sponsored radio-station.Yeah it has allowed people to self select friends that are ideologically as similar to them as possible. Which encourages polarisation. Its hard to dehumanize a group of people when you regularly talk to them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/26 12:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Things like: X tiptoeing around the fact that life is not fair for anyone X excessively shielding feminists and leftwingers from criticism and responsibility for their own mistakes X acting like men who struggle with dating only do so because of their own actions or beliefs X reducing any criticism of their framework to "you're used to privilege" instead of acknowledging it's weaknesses X underestimating how gender neutral abuse is, and acting like abused men are rare exceptions to the norm X in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 11:48 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My opinion of redpill is that it's mostly wrong but not completely wrong. Bluepill is defined as not being redpill, so I'm more bluepill then redpill in that sense. But bluepill in practice usually is a marker for the types of takes that imo are as inaccurate and emotionally loaded as the redpill is, so I don't feel that label practically represents my own beliefs well. So I call myself purple because I think it most accurately reflects my belief system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 11:29 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I call myself purple pill to avoid this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 11:25 AM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The stronger argument is that the meat industry creates unnecessary amounts of suffering that could be avoided. From that pov the idea is not that eating animals is morally wrong but that making them suffer unnecessarily is morally wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 11:24 AM |
| 56 | «The Male loneliness epidemic is a good thing because it means women's freedom» -Elizabeth Lemay, on francophone channel of the Federal state-sponsored radio-station.These kinds of people are operating from defensiveness but they don't understand how much of a strategic failure they are being. Not only is this untrue, but it also pits women and men against each other and it alienates and hurts men to the point more of them will become misogynistic because of rethoric like this. Which doesn't protect women, it harms them as well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/26 10:58 AM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadEverything you said is in alignment with what I said. They are expected to not be stable, so they are considered professionally inferior. It harms women. But it is not an expectation of being mentally stable, it's the exact opposite of that expectation. And it can lead to women desperately trying to prove that they are stable, and resenting their own emotions which is real suffering that deserves to be discussed. But it's not the same as being expected to be stable and stoic. That's all I'm sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 09:00 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah, but in both directions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 05:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 10:24 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 07:04 PM |
| 5 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadI think my own view is more accurate 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:51 PM |
| 6 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadI look forward to you also chiding all the men who love to say "choose better" if you consider that advice. There is an active thread right now that is just waiting for you to sweep in with the perfectly useless statement. 1) I'm a mod here and my reaction needs to be understood as coming from that angle. People are not allowed to make posts asking for advice so that means when people make posts describing dynamics people in the comments should also focus on that instead of offering personal adv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:42 PM |
| 2 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadAre you talking about society or in a relationship? Because you are comparing apples to oranges. OP is claiming that men do unrecognized emotional labor in a relationship, not that society is more accepting of when women lose their cool than men. These things are connected to each other in my view. . In society, women are expected to cool down their men all the time and deescalate situations when their men get a temper. Yes but that only refers to anger and usually in specific contexts. With any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:57 PM |
| 9 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadReally not to the same extent. Who do you think received the most acceptance and empathy? A woman who cries in public or a man? A woman who loses their patience or a man? A woman who is hitting someone or a man? A woman who is yelling or a man? A man who is asking for help or a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 01:47 PM |
| 10 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadSome women who grew up with inconsistent fathers (like she said) were taught to tiptoe, measure temperature, adapt and be mentally stable and dependable as well. Maybe that’s not specifically a script around courtship like the OP described but women experience these things as well, depending on their attachment styles and bonds with their parents (fathers specifically). That shows that there's variability between men and women as gender is not the only relevant explanatory variable. I'm not clai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 12:45 PM |
| 8 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadThis isn't fully gender neutral. The expectation to be stoic and mentally stable in a romantic relationship leans disproportionately towards the male side, do you deny this? This is also a debate sub, not an advice sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 07:17 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes that should be the main priority in a country collapsing under its own inability to regulate the wealth distribution and to prevent corruption resulting in fascism 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 07:58 PM |
| 2 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.I also think biological differences do have an influence, but saying they are the main driver of these ideas imo simplifies things too much. I do think men have a biological driver to be more skeptical towards female promiscuity, because of the uncertainty of their paternity. While women have a biological driver to fear male sexuality and to expect greater shows of commitment and mental stability during crisis from their partner. That's however not the same thing as the cultural scripts that are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningThis completely ignores that redpillers regularly make claims that are easily disproven empirically. Deductive reasoning does not necessarily require empirical grounding, as a logical chain can still be logical even if it doesn't describe anything real. But you're bringing empirical observation into it and from that point someone critiquing the false conclusions being made does not imply they don't understand deductive reasoning. It can also mean they just disagree that it is accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 06:52 AM |
| 2 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.But how do these "scripts" appear in peoples heads if feminists have sucessfully wiped it all out from essentially all media? Where is it then coming from? Socialisation within families and friend groups. These things don't just function as top down dynamics they function as an interaction between top down and bottom up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 08:59 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What on earth did I just read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 02:48 PM |
| 1 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.A guy randomly told you that? That's also creepy in its own right damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 02:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah but my point is anyone can frame that in an innocent or problematic, there's no way to know what's actually going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:24 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nothing wrong with that, but how is not also exploiting wealth disparities by his own logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Didn't you recently say you were fucking women in Brazil? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:30 PM |
| – | From a woman’s POV the disparity isn’t that “more men get murdered than women,” it’s that more men kill women than women kill men.Is that what is offensive, or does the offensiveness come from endlessly repeated messages about how bad men are but without any path towards improvement being offered? I think there's nothing wrong with what you described in your comment but lots of people go way further than that. There isn't really anything any human being can do about being negatively affected about being stereotyped in a negative way. That's something that happens automatically. If you endlessly hear negative messages about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 05:27 PM |
| 2 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Thank you! She deserves a lot of pleasure 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.Yes, especially the older I get. I recently experienced this with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:52 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It is one of the most radicalizing things to see tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 2 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.As a fellow demisexual and sapiosexual and I can confirm this can happen from personal experience. There is a lot of confusion because casual is often seen as a synonym for superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:38 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 02:53 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemNot of anonymous men on the internet either. They either tell you to be a pushover or to be an abuser. I don't want to be either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 09:02 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah you indeed can't explain something that either isn't true or that has no meaning. That's what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:35 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's just categorically false unless you define this concepts in such a way that the phrase you uttered becomes completely meaningless. But why did I even try, the intellectual level of this subreddit is still abhorrent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:28 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You have to sign up for it? So in your interpretation a draft can never be called a right violation until it is actually happening at which point there is no time anymore to even oppose or dismantle it. What ifs aren't imagination, it's understanding how possibility works. There is always a chance there will be war and a draft, so that right violation exists constantly below the surface as a latent reality until one day it becomes active while no one can predict when that day will come. That sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:21 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Again, that is not relevant. The very fact that you have to sign up and women don't means there is a difference in rights. Whether someone is drafted or not in practice is a separate topic which is about how much that matters or not. In fact if I have to follow your reasoning the other person ends up having a way stronger point that they didn't even make themselves. Because almost no laws or rights are actually enforced in a gender neutral manner. Most rights that are equal on paper are not in p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 08:35 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You have just conveniently redefined rights in such a way in this conversation to tiptoe around the core point. Because over the years on this subreddit I have seen you use rights in a different definition whenever it concerned women or girls. I am not blind and neither do I forget. By your own reasoning defining the concept of rights in such a way that obligations are not properly incorporated into them and then claiming women have less rights all over the world is just as ludicrous. But you wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:31 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sounds like a claim to me. You just made your scope smaller from globally to 1 specific domain. Still a claim. Yes, not a claim that was relevant to what she asked. "What rights don't men have" is not relevant to my criticism. I pointed out that her challenge didn't actually challenge what the other guy said. The draft only shows that men have more legal obligations in this specific domain. An obligation is not automatically the mirror image of a right, unless you explicitly define and defend it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So no one can ever discuss the concept of rights without being accused of pretending to be a victim? 50 years isn't even long from a historical pov and your own country is literally going full blown fascist and threatening all kinds of countries all over the world with military invasions while a mad man in the white house desperately wants a war so has an excuse to suspend elections. But we are supposed to look to the past 50 years instead of the likely future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 08:38 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I didn't say men have less rights. I'm saying in the case of the draft in the US they do have less rights and nothing she said addresses that. The only valid argument she could have given is by pointing out there are other rights where the assymmetry goes the other way around and compensates for this one. But even then quantifying it is impossible. If you don't operate under that premise then every talk about rights and who has more or less becomes completely meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Makes absolutely zero sense. There is almost no precedent of a draft being equal especially not in the US. And it still doesn't address the difference in right. That's what they call being bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵For example saying the draft hasn't been put into practice doesn't address the difference in rights. That's still a difference in rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 08:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 07:56 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's not what I asked. I'm not making any claims. I'm saying what you said didn't disprove what he said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 07:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes please do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 07:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You didn't address what he said. He said men have less rights and you just said that this is not a big deal. Not that it isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 05:37 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's almost as if your feelings get stronger the more you love someone 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're getting mod privileges from me now (jk) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:32 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I disagree, kindness consistently ranks somewhere in the top 5 in studies about what people find attractive both in men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:01 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Please tell me it's the real thing and not a fake American version | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 11:39 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Let's be real here being kind and good isn't that common. Unless he's defining it as "not an asshole" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 11:32 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They have gruyere in the US??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 11:31 AM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Not everything that is moral or even practical needs to be legal. If someone leaves another person because of a silly reason I don't have to agree with how they conduct themselves. The truth is some reasons for leaving someone are stupid and/or self-sabotaging. But for some reason we always like to pretend all choices, preferences and wants are equally defendable. They aren't, even if you're allowed to have them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.No one individually decides it completely that's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 06:21 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Basically I don't assume that what someone wants is something they purely decide for themselves. What someone wants is influenced by all kinds of factors. So just saying "everyone should do what they want" is not as morally obvious as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:09 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Can you be more specific on what part you want an example of? I appreciate that you're trying to understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Yes, thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:02 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I already addressed this, I believe anyone has the legal right to leave at anytime, so clearly I am not doing that. That doesn't change the fact that social norms exist. That also doesn't change the fact that people don't just exist as individuals in one relationship but that all the people together create macro effects. People don't find others boring randomly, it's related to social norms, the way technology interacts with their senses, and their ability to introspect. We live in a world where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:40 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.I personally don't understand why this topic always has to be stretched towards two extremes. You can simultaneously believe that that anyone has the legal right to leave at any time and still look critically towards some reasons people cite (I'm saying people because this is gender neutral for me) for leaving. And towards the macro outcome of people being quick to leave. I don't think anyone is owed an explanation, but the truth is that the macro outcome of enough people leaving over the smalle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:14 PM |
| 20 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?I second what another person said. In my experience most women don't seem to understand how much emotional labour they themselves require from a male partner and so the whole emotional labour conversation that is had on their terms feels alienating to many men. Also I'm not actually simple, I'm as emotionally complex as you so yes if you do something without actively considering my feelings, thinking I didn't feel anything, it will hurt just like it would if I did the same in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Homelessness and Men (thoughts on feminist arguments)Argument 1 describes something true, but it doesn't mean the conclusion is warranted (that it should be considered an equal form of homeless) but both cases are bad. Because people shouldn't be living without shelter, and they shouldn't be having to sell their dignity for shelter either. Argument 2 is partly true but incomplete. It's true women will end up doing sex work when in poverty more than men. The incompleteness comes from the fact that men will end up doing criminality and be in gangs m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/26 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenInformation isn't always of the kind "this is how the world works" It can also of the kind "I care about you" or "I don't care about you" When you're communicating information it's a failure if you can't say "this is how the world works" without also saying "I care about you". That's why just always being brutally honest doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenThat doesn't fully address what I said though. Maybe I don't just want to hear what I want to hear, but I still have some boundaries and standards for what is acceptable to think. For example someone saying"men are trash" or "women are inferior" is going to make me lose respect for someone. But something like: "I disagree with the epistemology you're using because..." It might not directly be what I wanted to hear in the sense that it doesn't stroke my ego, but it is honest feedback that can hel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenThat's just the sad reality of people judging you based on what's considered normal. Making deprecating jokes is more normalized in male groups than in female groups. And exactly because it is normalized, it is not seen as reflective of any bad motivation. It is assumed that it was a joke and that there was no malicious motivation. But when you do it, that's not in alignment with the norm, so they wonder "did she actually lose respect for me" instead of assuming you wanted to joke around. Is it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenIt's kinda hard to know whether someone is mad about the directness or about the content of what is said as well to be honest. Like, if I say something extremely hateful or something that's utterly false and they don't like it, I don't really get to call another person a hypocrite just because they asked for direct communication. Like if I ask for direct communication and someone tells me they deny the holocaust happened I'm gonna be mad. But not because they were direct. Because what they said … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.Eh I don't believe it sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 01:47 PM |
| 13 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.If every single person you meet insults you to much it could be that you're misinterpreting what they meant. I have male friends who have never insulted me, except when it was clearly meant as a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenI agree. Generally I only employ being tactless with someone who has crossed multiple lines though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:08 PM |
| 6 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenBut that’s not what guys advocate on this sub. They don’t lead with nuance. They lead with edgelordiness. And many of them claim to want “brutal honesty.” Yeah I agree. It seems to be a (young) male thing even tho I don't think it's the majority of men. There's also a form of this that's more useful and not as assholish. Which is being the devils advocate to actually improve understanding. But you need to have enough empathy to pull that off. And it’s not just this sub, I’ve known guys IRL all m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:03 PM |
| 21 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenIsn't there a grey nuance zone here? Can it be that men want slightly more direct communication on average? Without that meaning they want to overly blunt brutally honest communication. I mean I definitely don't want the latter and I don't pretend otherwise. There's also a way to be direct without being offensive, that's just something that takes skill and most people don't have that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:46 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Every time I scroll ppd I see you talking about cooking lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:49 AM |
| 5 | I'm infuriated by how casual misandry thrives in academia and places that claim to be "forward-thinking" or "progressive."The point of history is to study the things you should never do again. Not to erase it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/26 07:38 AM |
| 2 | I'm infuriated by how casual misandry thrives in academia and places that claim to be "forward-thinking" or "progressive."Yeah I think people don't realize that the US Civil war had less virtuous motivations. It was more about economics than dislike for slavery imo. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/26 07:00 AM |
| 7 | If she wants you, the sex doesn't matterThat doesn't make sense. Being selfish itself makes one less attractive. Being generous (in all meanings of the word) is considered a desirable trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismThat’s the type of visibility that doesn’t infantilise men or force them into a socially humiliating role. It’s also the type that aligns best with your technocratic instinct: visibility as input into design, not visibility as moral theatre. I agree with most of what you wrote, but this still puts you into a socially humiliating role. People see you saying the truth as a failure to be a man. I can't explain how much of a minefield this becomes. I'm not saying we should let that stop us, but you … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismI fully agree with everything you wrote here and I enjoyed reading about your experiences. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismWhere I want to keep us precise is: what counts as “smart design” in social theory and policy? Not starting from demographics but from mechanisms would be one example. And making sure the structure is actually open to change, which means being more precise in a claim. For example using patriarchy in such a way that a society can become something that is no longer seen as a patriarchy. I’d just treat that as a hypothesis about conformity dynamics, not as evidence about what feminism is “in princi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismBut “can’t eliminate” is a much weaker claim than “can’t meaningfully reduce” Yes, that's a valid counterpoint. What do you call that selection process if not scope… and how do you do it without doing it? Would you agree that “scope” is unavoidable and the ethical question is not whether to scope, but whether the scope is explicitly declared, continuously audited and corrected when it creates blind spots? If scoping is intrinsically dishonest, how is any finite model possible at all? You have ma… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismWithin any group I’m in I’m always seen as “the difficult one” because I notice I’m more comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty than most people. Yeah, me too. Although truthfully these days I often just keep my mouth shut. I still judge silently though, to refine my own thinking. Every day that I improve my own perspective, I become more disconnected from most of the rest of humanity. The cumulative long term effect of someone who does that consistently vs someone who doesn't can't be under… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismWhen it comes to the dating related discussion. I'm not really attached to any belief or very confident about anything in that respect, and I also agree it's messy and subjective. Also to be clear I'm very far from a redpiller, I don't think women live life on easy mode, or dehumanize their emotional complexity in my own mind. You're claiming that women pretend to be more fine without a male partner than they actually are. I'm willing to consider this as true. I just want to ask though, do you t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismNo I agree with you it is a corrective lens, that's just not mutually exclusive with it assuming "moral superiority". I didn't claim they are intentional conspiracies in a way that's somehow mutually exclusive with them being emergent historical dynamics. Patriarchal belief systems clearly assume "women are cognitively and physically inferior to men" just like feminist belief systems assume "women are the disadvantaged party and need to be helped". The second feminism makes any mistake at all in… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismWhat would you count as evidence that feminism is not ontologically committed to “women matter more”? I know you're asking this question for falsifiability concerns, so I appreciate it. I would see as evidence the following things: If I saw continued improvement, refinement and change in it's frameworks, as that would prove the reason is "we are imperfect people doing our best" and not "we can't let any attention be taken away from women" or "ideological purity is most important" If their framew… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismI’m still struggling also with that I think you sometimes reverse the logic in a way that turns “imperfect optimisation” into “moral villainy” and I’m not personally convinced the jump is justified yet. I see "imperfect optimisation" as a euphemism for what is actually happening. I can't imagine some of the things I have read or seen being done by someone accidentally being wrong or blind. I'm not saying they are some caricature of an evil villain either to be clear. But the problem with their b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/26 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismI hope you enjoyed the snow. I like snow, but I can't ski. They register as intellectual dignity That's how my mind works. My claim that Feminism controls the DV policy that was a hyperbolic simplification on my part because I didn't want to make my comment even longer. But I will explain. All the organisations you named are heavily influenced by feminist agents, feminist theory and ideas except for those that belong to the far right when it comes to DV policy. But when it comes to control, I'm … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What I don't get is the desire to keep getting upset about it. Comparison is the thief of joy. Like sure it's a valid insecurity to have to be settled for as the safe option, but it's not this black and white in reality. Many safe options are still deeply loved and desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:41 AM |
| 3 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.They do social engineering to counter the existing social engineering that privileges men. Yeah but that's contradictory on some level. If you have the power to make institutions do social engineering in your favour, then you can no longer claim someone else has the power to use them against your favour. But clearly men see addressing an equality imbalance as discrimination bedause they are accustomed to privilege. Reality is far more complicated than that. You can't prove that this engineering … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 04:00 PM |
| 3 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.That depends on how you define a patriarchal society. "Doesn't take away" really obscures the difficulty of actually understanding the world imo. I think that even the academic theories of patriarchy don't really deal with this complexity very well. There's an inherent contradiction in activism too, because it usually centers around those considered injusticed. The problem is that having your injustice seen and addressed by society in the first place is already a privilege that seems to contradi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:26 PM |
| -2 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.This doesn't address the contradiction. Clearly if men were truly oppressive tyrants over women they wouldn't have been reachable by campaigns and protests and neither would some of them have participated in those protests themselves. And there's another contradiction, which is that men themselves have had to do the exact same thing for all of human history. Are men truly oppressive tyrants over men too, or is the conclusion that using "men" and "women" as unified groups doesn't actually make se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:03 PM |
| – | The UN’s Gender Inequality Index was designed to discriminate against menEvery counterargument and critique of your logic that could possibly be said have most likely already been exhausted He's probably frustrated because there isn't really a possible counterargument or logical chain of reasoning to be made that actually disproves the core of his claim. Only at the edges can counterarguments be made, because the core claim is just objectively correct by definition of the concept of inequality and basic mathematics. But that doesn't result in people being outraged, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Opinion: Men are terrible at advocating for themselves. We have to change this.I don't think you're being fair towards him. Just pointing out the moral asymmetry does not magically change the reality we are forced to live in. Blaming them is not effective enough, it does not change the opinion of the population at large. This question should not be about blame in the first place but about strategy instead. It's not men's fault they struggle advocating for themselves but the reality is no one will magically come to save us from that fact. A group that is systemically mistre… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/26 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismYes I have a question. How do you actually deal with the distinction between revealed and stated preference when it comes to this topic and how do you talk to people about it without them assuming you're being bad faith and "twisting words" or "reading things into it". I often feel like I'm not allowed to say that something is implied when I read feminist theory. I'm supposed to take everything literally on a sentence by sentence basis, and not form a holistic conclusion about the whole text. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismSure, yes, I should clarify that when I describe claims at feminism being nuanced or complex as an excuse for low intellectual rigour, that is describing impact, not intent. Feminists in general would have to be cognisant in the first place of their ideological priors to be wilfully deceptive in that regard. That's fair. what if feminism’s core, axiomatic claims are just straight up wrong? What then? Are you prepared to wear the moral harm of what entails from acting on bad information? I think … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismThis part of my analysis first arose when I zoomed out and asked myself, what does “nuanced” and “complexity” actually mean? I feel like it's kinda natural to wonder that for some of us who read social science papers. Because this goes deeper than just Feminism, oftentimes you see scientists using extremely difficult or rare words to describe something fairly simple just to show off basically. Not all of it is as enlightening as it wants to seem. And, once understood, every time a feminist appea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismThis is illustrated rather well by how one can rather predictably map feminist theory with limited exposure to foundational feminist dogma, because the way Foucaultian “powerknowledge” epistemologies progress is exactly as another commenter observed elsewhere: that evidence is found or fabricated to prove the theory rather than the theory adjusted in light of evidence and rigorous analysis. In short, my first observation: even in academia, feminist theory isn’t really that complex at heart, and … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismThank you for writing this all. Of all the people who responded to this post the things you said here make the most sense to me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 08:00 AM |
| 7 | Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight?They shouldn't. The tension comes from the fact that I can't automatically believe anyone who claims they do everything is being accurate in their assessment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 5 (the final part): Finally on empathy being oriented toward women: I struggle with that framing because historically, women received very little empathy at all for sexual harm, harassment or boundary violations. I understand, I struggle with that too. My own intuition is that empathy is not the all be all explanation and that other factors more than overcompensated for that historically. But I also feel like a male advocacy movement cannot make use of these things like feminism did, becaus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 4: I’m probably more of an Enlightenment optimist here than you are: I think humans can become aware of their own tendencies, not just individually, but collectively, and consciously correct for them. Yes and no. You're more optimistic in the sense that you believe people at large are capable of removing their own biases. But you're more pessimistic in the sense you think people will misuse any theory equally, but I'm more optimistic on that front because I believe smart design of the theor… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 3: And the reality is that you can't actually talk about this on the level of society without people always bringing it back on the individual level and assuming the worst about you. Because doing this is a no go, you will be seen as someone who is projecting his personal frustrations, rather than as someone who is doing analysis. But the advice given on the individual level doesn't fix the societal problem, it just makes you better able to compete with other men when it comes to finding a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 2: Where I differ is that I don’t think cleanliness maps well onto how social problems actually get addressed. Well I don't think social problems men disproportionately suffer from actually get addressed currently. Neither do I even think women's problems get addressed to their maximum potential in the current approach. For example, there is reason to think the lack of support for men who experienced DV actually causes a part of the women who are murdered by their own partner. Because part … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 1. It took me a while to integrate it all, I care about not skimming through it too much and addressing the things that you said properly as I value your style of conversation a lot. Thank you, I appreciate the effort and open mindedness. I also will need more time to think about everything you said and also to actually figure out how to phrase a lot of things that came to my mind while reading your comment so they make sense to someone who isn't me. So it's possible it will take a while be… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismI don't understand how one can believe that it's impossible to create a movement that strives for both sides equally, yet simultaneously believe that two separate movements can always perfectly counterbalance each other in such a way that their existence is still in alignment with the stated outcome goal of equality. I believe that is more difficult to achieve than creating one single movement. But because specific issues ask specific responses. This says nothing about how specific something sho… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/26 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 4: Where we differ is that I don’t think the solution is to abandon its analytical tools entirely. Monopoly should be challenged by building alternatives, not by discarding useful diagnostics out of protest. That’s why I’m critical of male advocacy when it defines itself primarily as “anti-feminist.” Here I can follow your reasoning and also your conclusion. I also don't think male advocacy should be defined primarily as anti-feminist. But the reality is that feminists block those alternati… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismpart 3 You also repeatedly frame support for women as necessarily worsening men’s position. No this is a strawman of my position. For example when you say “in those situations where women already have it better, further support makes men worse off.” I said in a relative sense because I'm linking it to the concept of equality. Absolute wellbeing can increase even when relative wellbeing decreases. That’s not an empirical fact, but it’s a narrative assumption. It presumes that social support is in… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 2 People inevitably feel more drawn to certain issues (because of proximity, biography, skill set, or emotional resonance) I will agree with you that this can be the case on an individual level and your reasoning on that level makes sense. But on a societal level, emotional resonance is affected by the women are wonderful effect to such a degree that your perspective on activism can't fix my issues and guarantees I will face sexism as a man. I'm not saying this because I blame you or becaus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismPart 1 think you’re still treating this as a zero-sum moral competition when that’s precisely the premise I reject. That's because you're misreading the meaning/goal of my arguments. I happen to align quite strongly with your dislike for zero sum thinking, in its broadest sense. I think a lot of nationalism and geopolitics employs zero sum thinking which gets framed as "rational selfishness" even when it's not rational at all for example. Clearly I have failed to communicate what I tried to say,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismThat probably sounded confusing. What I'm saying is that currently there is no pluralism (which you and I agree on) and that feminism is now the dominant tool to understand equality, but that by just continuing to use that tool we do not get pluralism. What I'm questioning is whether continuing to use it just because it isn't useless just ends up supporting this kind of monopoly and whether this is worth it? I'm trying to make a moral analysis of what is the superior thing to do; keeping feminis… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismFeminism isn’t that goal, it’s one of several ways of trying to understand why the game still isn’t fair. I don’t experience those as competing categories. This is where I would challenge your thinking. In the sense that I don't think it's about experiencing in the first place. Rather, I think that a way of trying to understand being biased towards one gender can end up harming equality. Because there are multiple issues in society that harm men and women that can't be solved easily and where th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is female privilege, and toxic masculinity is internalized misandry/sexismI think this is where a lot of the apparent disagreement dissolves for me, because I don’t experience equalism and feminism as mutually exclusive categories in the first place. For me equalism is a value commitment (equality as an end goal). Feminism is one of several analytical traditions that tries to explain why that equality hasn’t been achieved yet, starting from women’s position in the system. But what guarantee is there that starting from anyone's position in the system leads to a framewo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/26 06:42 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Looks amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Going To Save The World!Part 2/2: En dat is absoluut niet jou individuele fout. Ik vind het ook geen goede zaak hoe mensen hier steeds het slechtste aannemen wanneer feministen hier in debat gaan. Maar het is hun schuld eigenlijk ook niet, het probleem is volgens mij echt systematisch. Een intellectueel probleem, maar ook zoals je zegt, een cyclus van wederzijdse verharding en polarisatie. Als man denk ik veel meer dan enkel dat. Ik denk eveneens "dat weet ik al want dat vrouwen bang zijn van mannen heb ik al heel mijn… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/26 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Going To Save The World!Part 1/2 Dan vind ik de manier waarop we onrecht aanklagen niet meer “strategisch”. Eens. Ik zou daar nog iets bij toevoegen, namelijk dat het perfect mogelijk is om niet akkoord te zijn met iemand over de mate van onrecht in een bepaalde situatie zonder dat 1 van beide personen in dat debat moreel verwerpelijk zijn. Een groot probleem is volgens mij dat mensen niet langer durven toegeven dat ze fout kunnen zijn of dat zulke dingen uberhaupt onzeker zijn, omdat dat meteen als een moreel falen be… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/26 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Going To Save The World!Zelf heb ik naar mijn gevoel wel seksisme ervaren in mijn opleiding, al zou ik nooit durven beweren dat seksisme in België nog heel erg ingebakken zit. Ik denk dat wij zo dicht bij gender gelijkheid zitten dat het niet de moeite is om het op te blazen, al blijf ik graag precies. Als je het vergelijkt met andere landen zullen wij inderdaad dicht bij gender gelijkheid zitten. Maar denk eigenlijk persoonlijk dat seksisme nog altijd de default is bij de meeste mensen zelfs al beweren ze van niet, zo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/26 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Going To Save The World!I’m wondering if the confusion comes from me using the term “intersectional feminist” there… I only meant that to signal that I’m taking the racial axis seriously in that part of the discussion, not that I’m assuming gender inequality in every context or defending unexamined interventions. Intersectional feminism means that I’m trying to take multiple axes of inequality seriously at the same time (particularly race, class and gender) without assuming that any single axis automatically explains e… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated?I don't believe in gatekeeping. No one owns a hobby and has the right to prevent someone else from participating. I hold the same beliefs when it comes to cultural appropriation, as far as I'm concerned it's not a real thing. No one owns a culture either. One thing I will say is that once a space flips from male dominated to female dominated there is suddenly more censorship and indirect communication. I don't feel as happy in those places, is the most honest thing I can say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I can't relate. My dick does the exact opposite. I find it hot when a woman disagrees with me and/or holds me accountable for a mistake I made. That's how I know I have a partner and not a dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Being concerned for your own safety and taking precautions is valid. Hating a whole group of people based on an immutable characteristic is not and neither is making negative generalisations about that whole group of people to the point you try to make them feel collective guilt. This really isn't complicated. Trauma and fear doesn't remove accountability from your behavior regardless of your gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Going To Save The World!So my concern isn’t whether inequality is real or whether intervention is justified (I don’t doubt either, if I did calling myself an intersectional feminist would be a scam). Why? I live in the same country as you and I saw how my female friend's professor told people to hire her as a PhD student in an official document just because she's a woman. My friend is very smart and hardworking and didn't need such a thing, however I do think such clear hiring decisions based on gender should be critic… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Feminists Co-Opted the Power Dynamics of ClassDo you have any examples where the framework does include some kind of limits? Because my view is that the framework is limitless by design, so if that's the case then it seems to me like it necessarily does follow from the framework in its current form. That doesn't mean it's impossible to have a patriarchy harms men to explanation with clearly defined limits but as far as I'm aware that simply doesn't exist currently, whether academically or in the popular discourse. The only thing I see is "w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.Well judging by the current state of the world this isn't exactly working out well or is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Feminists Co-Opted the Power Dynamics of ClassWhere I differ is that I see this as a failure of application and incentive structures, not proof that the framework cannot function analytically at all. Why though? I agree that naive falsificationism as proposed by Popper doesn't work however to me it seems clear that in this case the framework itself encourages this type of failed application. If your theory is so open to fitting any datapoint even those that would contradict each other you create a downward spiral towards such failed applica… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/26 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Feminists Co-Opted the Power Dynamics of ClassThe issue here is that "serious feminist theory" is mostly confined in academic papers, while "strawman feminists" are the majority of the one you find in blogs/articles and in social media. I don't agree with this. The academic papers are also often written by these strawman feminists. Serious feminist theory does erase class in favour of gender, and they don't need to openly say so to do so. What they don't write about in comparison to what they do write about shows this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/26 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.Yeah, ans we built those ourselves and advocated for ourselves. Men are the ones who put us in those shelters and gave us a reason to need one I never understand this argument. When looking historically y'all constantly frame men building something exclusive for themselves as oppression, sexist, exclusionary, unfair etc. But somehow when women build something for themselves and exclude men from those things it's something admirable and "self-made". It doesn't change the fact that the outcome of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:12 PM |
| – | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenIts just being kind and nice is the bare minimum too. How though? Do you think the majority of people are kind? I'd even argue with how the word kind is defined in many places it's impossible for it to be bare minimum by definition. Because when someone is called kind, it usually implies "kinder than the average person" or "kinder than other people I know". There's so many people with personality disorders, general selfishness, lack of emotional intelligence, excessive insecurities, emotional in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 09:26 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?It's possible I'm in the minority I don't know. I have never experienced "blue balls" personally, although science says it is a real thing and can actually hurt for some men. But I don't think it justifies going mad. I kind of have the opposite problem. I can't always finish because my mind is scared of losing control because I have shame regarding my sexuality. And then I start thinking about how the woman I'm with might blame herself if I don't finish, which gives me performance anxiety and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:10 AM |
| 7 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?What's funny about it? There's so many examples of this. Men being expected to go to war, to fight off intruders, to protect women, to work long and hard hours to provide for their family, to ignore their own emotions, to do the dangerous tasks etc. Men are socialized to express love and care through self-sacrifice through the hero fantasy that is fed to them. Now I personally think the female gender role requires just as much as sacrifices. But arguing this is something uniquely female doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:46 PM |
| -1 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?Imagine how most dudes would react if women didn’t care if they finished every time or not. They’d go mental. Would they? I don't think I would to be honest. I don't mind not finishing each time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:37 PM |
| 7 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?Men are somewhat naturally selfish and women are socialized to be self-sacrificial These kinds of claims always confuse me. Isn't self sacrifice something that is mainly associated with the male gender role? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:35 PM |
| 10 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenMost advice given towards men in life in general is quite bad because most people including men themselves give less empathy towards other men and most people get emotional satisfaction from painting a narrative to men that it's their own fault because it confirms their own cultural narrative. Gender roles harm men far more than people are willing to admit. When I was in an abusive relationship when I searched for advice people were hellbend on making it into a "well what you did you do to make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.I will give some real advice supported by science. Stop setting some grand dating or relationship ambition or goal. You will get overly nervous and will try to force women to like you. The hobby advice is actually good, because it's better to find joy in the moment and try new things rather than obsess about a big long term goal. The stepping stones towards finding a good partner cannot be known in advance. It's random interactions that determine which people you meet, but you increase your chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 01:05 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Intelligence/emotional intelligence, voice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 09:13 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I definitely agree. Sometimes easier said than done though. Many people are shamed from a young age, myself included unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:56 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Being in the actual dominant role without being a violent asshole is an extremely loving thing to do to someone else but people aren't ready to hear that. I have a theory that being dominant is how you express love for someone else and being submissive is how you feel loved by someone else. And this extends far beyond just sexually. Your parents are a dominant figure in your life as a child and they can either show you that you're loved by not abusing this power or they can show you you're unlov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menSays who? Based on what evidence? My personal perception/experience is the exact opposite. Where I live (Western Europe) I feel like the culture considers women's preferred manner of communication in romantic relationships the correct/right communication style. There is far more of an expectation on men to adjust to that than in reverse. Telling men to be more indirect, careful and validating in their communication style is considered very common and normal relationship advice. Meanwhile suggest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menThat doesn't make sense. Having to change your communication style does create constant additional work. I don't even agree with your premises but even if I follow them your conclusion doesn't make sense. Communication is work just like anything else in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 08:51 AM |
| – | Is Western society today equally comfortable with parents giving both sexes specific lessons on how to treat their opposite-sex partners right (not to be confused with simply teaching respect for others in general)? If not, why not? Is it justified to give these lessons to one sex but not the other?Western society emotionally neglects boys and teaches girls to be overly docile and indirect in their communication. Neither of these things are great imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenOverly exaggerated imo but it still contains a kernel of truth imo. Even if I don't completely agree, this alternative explanation as pushback to the most popular one was very much needed. The whole idea that men expect women to do emotional labour for them because they don't have as big of a social circle is not completely without merit, but it kind of takes some very questionable assumptions for granted, such as that men generate as much emotional labour for the people around them as women do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a PerpetratorMy counter is that it's a human problem. Both men and women do it to other men, and men even do it to themselves. I'm speaking from experience unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a PerpetratorBoth men and women also belong to the group of "human" which makes this point moot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableYeah effort. But not necessarily effort done for expressing affection towards their partner. You can have a woman taking care of the house who still treats you with indifference and as a placeholder. You can have a man be a breadwinner and still treat you with indifference and as a placeholder. There's far more to relationships than just doing chores or providing financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableI mean, I'm someone with the opinion that it's problematic that unpaid labour (and even unpaid consumption) doesn't get properly valued in our society so that's not the reason why I didn't see the relevance. Doing household chores is labour that should be valued but it doesn't necessarily say much about how much someone loves you and sees you as special. That's why I was confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableThat seems irrelevant to the comment they made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableTruly being “irreplaceable” is actually a toxic codependent dynamic. I'm glad someone said it. I found this out the hard way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:06 PM |
| 5 | The misandry denialism staircaseYeah just like how they see the genders associated with it. Men do things out of choice, women are acted upon by their environment. They perpetuate the same gender bias they claim to find problematic | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/25 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want.Why do so many women on this subreddit act like they are some innocent individual that was somehow forced into the gender war with no agency at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That phrase is annoying because it presupposes someone is privileged in the first place. It's a phrase on the level of "none of your criticism matters to me because you're just a hater". It's just a way to dismiss what someone's saying based on an ad hominem rather than on the merit of their argument. The assumption that any skewing towards a gender is the result of discrimination and should be corrected is also problematic. It creates a situation where no group of people is allowed to be better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:43 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think it is more nuanced than what you're making it seem. What if his pleasure depends on being able to please you without using certain toys? Validation is a form of pleasure itself. Things like vibrators are fine as far as I'm concerned but things like penis sleeves are icky to me. I don't think it's absurd that someone feels this way. But that's my view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵... people wanting to feel like they are good enough is absurd to you??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It depends on the type of toy. But also, I'm kinda tired of people making it seem like it's never okay to have an ego thing. You have an ego for a reason, both having too little and too much of it is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Why do men think there are so many good menRespectfully but how? How do you think there's no one who thinks that? I feel it all the time myself too. When I'm out with my girlfriend or a female friend people treat me way better than if I'm out alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:36 AM |
| 2 | If a spouse sacrifices 18 years of their career to rear children, what is an equitable payout during divorce?You could also argue that the government enforcing alimony is making traditional relationships more competitive than they'd otherwise be. If alimony didn't exist you'd be a fool to decide to be a SAHP. But my problem with alimony is not the paying of money itself it's that I feel like it's an attack on the autonomy of the past breadwinner. Meaning the idea that you have to provide a lifestyle you had in the past. It practically means you're not allowed to change your life anymore. What if you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 12:44 AM |
| 18 | Why do men think there are so many good menDepends on how you define good. That's such a vague word that it's almost impossible to debate anything about it. I agree no one picks a partner mainly because they lack evilness. But men who can't find a partner are often implied to be evil so there's a lot wrong with the messages that are being given to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:50 PM |
| 17 | Why do men think there are so many good menI don't see the world in a simple binary of good and evil. Most men are average on the spectrum just like most women. They are selfless sometimes selfish other times. Most men are not excessively cruel and violent but most men aren't extremely wholesome either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | If a spouse sacrifices 18 years of their career to rear children, what is an equitable payout during divorce?less interested in compensating SAHPs or breadwinner parents for their respective sacrifices, and more interested in ensuring both parties have their financial stability covered in the future, regardless of whether the marriage persists. But that favours one party over the other even if that's not the intention. I'd argue that instead the government should ensure no one ends in poverty regardless of the reasons why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If a spouse sacrifices 18 years of their career to rear children, what is an equitable payout during divorce?Imo no, they should get something but it's also kind of immoral to force someone to continue to work to provide a lifestyle they had in the past. Like imagine you're a breadwinner doing a taxing but high paying job for 10 years and then realizing it's bad for your health and that you wanna do something else even if it means a downgrade to your lifestyle. But then you can't because you're forced to pay alimony to maintain a previous lifestyle. This is a form of slavery of sorts. I think we should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | If a spouse sacrifices 18 years of their career to rear children, what is an equitable payout during divorce?There's one problem though. Breadwinners sacrifice as well, namely their own health and emotional wellbeing, and connection and closeness towards their kids. Should we take this into account as well when calculating alimony? Because otherwise the breadwinner loses if you only focus on the lost financial value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 02:53 PM |
| – | Men, would you date a woman that says she’s a “girls girl”?No. That's a type of value or belief system I don't respect. And it can literally put me in danger to be partnered with someone like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.It's even worse for relationship advice when you're already in a relationship. Both men and women will give you advice that will make you remain stuck in an abusive relationship if you're unlucky enough to have picked someone abusive. The whole shtick is basically "you're a man so you're responsible for how she feels no matter how unreasonable". It's way better to figure this out for yourself than to listen to anyone in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Men are more violent than women, not more abusive.In general men in abusive relationships could leave those relationships without a fear of being beaten, raped or murdered as a result. But you can get thrown in jail for a false accusation, or in some countries become homeless by being thrown out of your own house and lose access to your kids. Even when you call the police yourself there's a reasonable chance you will be arrested yourself. Your reputation and career can be ruined just by words and very few people will ever believe you. I swear p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenI think I fundamentally disagree that peoples emotions such as anger are mainly determined by how they think about the purpose of others. It might influence it somewhat but it's not the main driver of someone being mad. I think it's more accurate that people who are staying mad do so either because they don't feel like their needs are being met, or they have lived through traumatic experiences caused by that other group or people they are mad at. Or sometimes they are mad at something else entir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 11:47 PM |
| 2 | No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women.I'm not bitter at all but I'm still told these things from time to time and I'm 27 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:19 PM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofIt's almost as if the small minority of rich men with power don't care about the majority of other men who don't have any more power than you do. This is not a case of not getting it, it's a case of not wanting to get it because you're being to stubborn to change your belief system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 12:33 PM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofI was agreeing with your title but in your post you're still doing the same thing that pushes men away. There is no need for endlessly going over the suffering of other groups before you're allowed to speak about men. Same with calling men more privileged than women. Based on what and defined by who? The concept of aggregated privilege is very subjective when there is mutual sexism in both directions. This kind of overconfidence in assessing that women have it objectively worse is what has ruine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 12:20 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Emotional support, someone who warms your heart, cuddles, kisses, shared vacations and trips, a unique perspective on life and an opportunity for growth, shared division of labour, a family, ... Y'all's views are self- fulfilling prophecies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 03:28 PM |
| 5 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenyeah as someone from Europe this is alienating to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 09:18 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?But if you (or anyone) think of all feminism as all men as perpetrators and all women as victims then we’re not even discussing the same frameworks. Because that's what it often comes down to. Have you never heard of the Duluth model? Have you read feminist papers in criminology and sociology? I have, because I was abused by a female partner when I was just 21. I was looking for answers because I realized how much the messages I received culturally caused me to stay far longer than I should have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?Again a lot of things you seem to see as underlying themes in feminism, are outside of my understanding of it at all? I don't understand this. Women can’t commit domestic violence? Men aren’t victims of patriarchy (and women can’t enforce it as well)? ANYTIME women are underrepresented it’s discrimination (no nuance, no intersectionality)? All men are powerful Yeah that's what most of it comes down to, if you aren't overly generous in your interpretation of the cases where they will write "well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?You can disagree with parts of an idea, or the implementation of an idea, or even the common beliefs of an idea, and still believe in the idea itself. That’s why I like to be precise in what I actually believe in from any school of thought. But isn't this naive and impractical? I'm not a communist exactly because I believe it's implementation requires so much authoritarianism that I think it will always fail. Believing in a theoretical idea that can never become real can be kinda irresponsible i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 07:45 PM |
| 4 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?However, to use an example, just because I believe the United States does representative democracy in a flawed manner, and has flawed beliefs surrounding representative democracies, doesn’t mean I disagree with the theory of representative democracies overall. I understand your point, but this gets used to just remove any responsibility. It's like with communism, I'm leftwing myself but this argument "well the sovjet union was not true communism" is annoying for the same reason. I don't like no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:32 PM |
| 6 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?I mean reading academic feminism and observing feminists at the universities I have studied and worked at? Like am I supposed to ignore how sexist and unscientific their theories about domestic violence are? How they teach police to arrest men by default even when they are the victim? How they engage in nothing less than scientific fraud by misusing statistics to support their unfounded theories? How they intimidate scientists (including with violence) who demonstrate the problems with their the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?But academic feminism is similar... I don't get why people pretend this is some kind of online phenomenon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:31 PM |
| 0 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?In my case I just disagree with what you're claiming it is. You're being overconfident in your ability to know what anything truly is. I think your interpretation of what feminism is here is highly idealistic, naive and theoretical. It doesn't align with the actions that have actually been taken in its name. Whether feminism does or does not attack men as a social group is very dependent on interpretation and how much you trust people. In my experience many people intellectualize and rationalize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:30 PM |
| 18 | The terms: "Internalized Misogyny" and "Toxic Masculinity"It would be nice if you gave actual arguments for your position, because what you have done now is merely describe what your opinion is and called someone else dumb for disagreeing. Society has created two different classes based on gender: men and women and men are inherently at the top of this hierarchy. When a woman conforms to the patriarchy, it comes only at the cost of herself, maybe to other women through some judgement but that doesn't even necessarily have to be the case. And women conf… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/12/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Between two identical looking men, who’s going to have the most casual sex: the intro or the extro?Most casual sex as in just the amount or with how many different people? Because this is a different metric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingPlay stupid games, win stupid prices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:53 AM |
| 3 | What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they sayA problem is also is that you don't have to be brought to court to have your reputation damaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:50 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThis assumes sexual selection selects favourable traits regarding survival, which is not always the case. I'd even argue that the men women select naturally contributed to patriarchy developing in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:35 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseBut you expressing a value judgement on all of this is nurture. You think one situation is immoral and the other isn't. Biology doesn't have that. Nothing is supposed to happen. I think you can see a fascist leader as a the nurture form of cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:04 PM |
| 3 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThe social norms in communities eventually developed into patriarchies though and then started evolving back towards a more neutral state so I still don't see how they are supposed to be anything. I don't see how you can even separate nurture from nature here, as ideas and norms also evolve in a evolutionary manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:29 PM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThere's absolutely nothing in biology that says anyone is supposed to be able to freely select their mates or that evolution should select a particular outcome. Genetic drift and rape exist in nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseI have no clue what point you're trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:54 PM |
| – | Women don't need a social circle or amazing social skills to get a boyfriendI don't understand the glorification of social skills on this subreddit tbh. Or maybe it's that I feel like those people usually described as having many social skills are just really extroverted people with little conscience who don't mind lying to others. Rarely does it seem to include awareness of your oan emotions, self-control and the ability to apologise and self-improve. So why would I want to have "social skills" if these are often not included? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:46 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Doesn't align at all with my experiences. Almost every woman I have ever met enjoyed listening to me talk about my passions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 11:37 AM |
| 3 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseKnowing better what's good for someone than he knows himself is just a general problem in academia, to be honest. Academia tries to solve problems, but hereby, it also runs into questionable terrain because did people even ask for their problems to be solved? What if someone doesn't want their problems to be solved for them? You can see this in food policy and what happened during the covid pandemic. The question of what is good is extremely hard to answer. If I want to eat unhealthy food and li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:43 AM |
| 3 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseI mean, one problem also is that studies consistently find that most people assign more agency towards men. This implies that blaming men, rather than women, is the default behaviour both in women and men themselves. So it really comes across to me as if people are just upset when people don't blame men, so they accuse them of blaming women. It's projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:38 AM |
| 5 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseNothing in biology or nature is supposed to be. Your own argument eats it's own tail but you don't seem to realize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:49 AM |
| 4 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseI'm genuinely confused where people are seeing all these men blaming women for their loneliness. This is talked about so often, but it's always a woman starting the convo, I have never actually seen a man talk about loneliness and blame it on women. It seems to be more so that people are far to quick to assume men are blaming women when they are just complaining about their life, and not pretending like everything is the fault of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:58 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If she loves you enough this would work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:43 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't cheat because 1) I'm not an asshole and recognise the impact my actions have on my loved ones 2) Cheating creates drama and suffering for myself. I don't want to get yelled at or having to remember my own lies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Cuckoldry and Polygyny is the Future Which Redpillers Need to AcceptThen why don't I see this happen in society around me? Monogamy is still the default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 06:24 PM |
| 13 | Boys to be taught to respect women and girls as part of curriculumThis another one of these solutions that will make it worse, which will then be used as a reason to double down even further. The tragedy of modern society is doing things that don't work and just doubling down because it looks/feels good. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/25 08:49 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm 27 and recently broke up with my gf of 4 years. And I feel old, there's not enough time in this life to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Domestic labor being a point of contention in marriages is the fault of feminism, not menI think men should learn something from feminists in this case. They should stop finding it okay to be pushed in the provider role so easily without conversation about fairness and division of labour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Domestic labor being a point of contention in marriages is the fault of feminism, not menI am a man, did you miss this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:18 PM |
| 11 | Domestic labor being a point of contention in marriages is the fault of feminism, not menI don't understand this angle. Women wanting to have autonomy over their lives is a reasonable request. Obviously, this means more negotiation is needed in relationships about dividing the labour. Why would you not be allowed to want the autonomy to pick the job you want and also want a relationship where the division of labour is discussed in a productive manner? This isn't unreasonable to want. It sounds sexist because it is sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyWhat’s ironic is that women also grow up realizing some deeply uncomfortable things about men, and while we don’t like these discoveries, we generally learn to navigate them without turning them into an ideology built on resentment. I agree with your criticism of red pillers being outraged but I don't understand this claim. The popular branches of feminism clearly express resentment towards men. This is clearly also an example of an ideology built on resentment just as much as the redpill or man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:18 AM |
| 0 | Men misinterpreted “I choose the bear” because they’re media illiterate or so defensive they chose willful obtusenessThats just one interpretation. My interpretation is that a woman who says that is sexist and chronically online. Which seems to be supported by the fact that older women are less likely to pick the bear even though they grew up in a time where there was more crime and less attention for sexual violence towards women. If women saying this was just a response to men harming them, you'd expect to see the opposite pattern of older women being more likely to say "bear" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Boring is a term used by those who themselves are boring... oh wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:09 AM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as wellI don't see how someone could know someone did this. I still don't see what you'd gain in those situations from shaming someone for having feelings for you. Just be polite but clear towards them, and take it as a compliment. This shit really isn't hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as wellIf a female friend accuses you of betrayal and tries to make you ashamed of yourself rather than processing it like a mature adult just because you happened to develop feelings for (something you can't control) then she's a shitty friend. Normal people are surprised, and then maybe disappointed for a few days, and then they get over it. This shouldn't be such a complicated debate topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Nah, you can be victim and still be a person outside of it who can learn and take accountability. You don't help an abuse victim by reducing their identity to a victim and keeping them stuck there. This only prolongs their suffering. I say this as a man who faced abuse far worse than what OP describes here before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Nothing is actually *that* hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument"Yeah no, human intuition is a real and studied thing. It's just not infallible and it depends on the context whether it works or not. That context is the thing that is debatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 09:45 AM |
| 26 | This is what I don't get as a guy: Yes, men face issues. But why deny that women face discrimination and violence at the hands of men? Aren't you sort of doing the same thing you claim feminists do?What I don't get is, it seems obvious to me that we live in a world where women are discriminated against. Based on what I've heard from women both online and in my personal life, the majority of women have faced harassment and/or violence at the hands of men. The majority of sex crimes and violent crimes are committed by us and the majority of victims are women. Women can't walk down the street safely at night because of men. Most people in positions of power are male. Most people here don't de… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | "You should read Bell Hooks" a semi-rant about the experience of talking to feministsMaybe that is a blessing though since you seemed pretty upset at the time that you wrote this. Definitely. I'm not that upset anymore though. I am also working on the assumption the book you're talking about is The Will to Change since that is where most of Bell Hook's Pro-men stances come from. A book I quite liked :( It was "feminism is for everybody". As far as I can tell in my research Hooks doesn't claim her books are scientific. My problem with that is that some claims Hooks makes become b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I know, but I'm just saying there is an extra layer to the dismissiveness. They do say that to dismiss their concerns, but they simultaneously also don't really want therapy and attached social science fields to be improved. They want it to contain the bias it currently has. Yet they don't see either how they are shooting themselves in the foot. Having independent institutions and care is extremely important, regardless of your political orientation. Thinking otherwise because you think your tea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:12 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree. I'm just saying people who say "go to therapy" are often not taken seriously because their intentions are dubious. Especially the ones on this subreddit basically just think anyone who doesn't feel about things the same way they do is in need of therapy. It's an euphemistic way of saying "if only you weren't mentally ill you'd agree with me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's also because therapy has a bias problem against men especially in the US. For some reason those people telling men to go to therapy almost never want to talk about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:27 PM |
| 10 | Mankeeping: New misandrist term invented by feministsOf all the concepts feminists have come up with, emotional labour is really the one I find the most perplexing. Because the idea that women do more of that is genuinely alienating if I think about everything I have observed or experienced in my life. Of all the concepts this really is the one with the least truth or accuracy to it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/07/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityI don't even disagree necessarily, I don't like most MRA's either whatsoever. But all that shows me is that the standards for expressing love, compassion and understanding towards men are completely in the gutter. I express far more of those things towards literally everyone, and I'm not so egotistical to think I'm exceptional at all. Bell Hooks writings are offensive. Whatever the fuck most MRA's, redpillers and others write is also offensive. I expect more from people than whatever we currentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityThere is a whole subsection of feminists who do push the concept of healthy masculinity defined on their terms. So they already don't agree with me. Then there is a whole subsection of feminists who theoretically agree with my conclusions but don't practice what it preaches and do push for what they themselves would call patriarchal gender roles/expectations just in a rebranded way. I get that making assumptions about what people think can easily end up in strawmans and/or dogwhistles but the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityI have read multiple Bell Hooks books and it's literally filled with pseudoscientific, overly confident and misandrist claims. I'm so confused that people don't understand that it's offensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityThat just leads to the conclusion that most people who call themselves feminists are lying and aren't actually feminists. Which I think becomes so confusing that it makes conversations impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:49 AM |
| 6 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityYou definitely do have a point, especially since this post is hyperbolic. But at the same time, it feels like for y'all, you're just not allowed to make any aggregated conclusions about a group of people because they don't literally say those conclusions out loud. When that conclusion could easily just be the implication of their actions and beliefs on the aggregate without them explicitly saying as such. The weirdest thing about that is that you (not personal you) seem to understand this when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:36 AM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"Where did (insert group they like) do/say that. That's a strawman. No one says that. That's not what (insert group they like) means." Simultaneously "(Group I dislike) hates (group I belong to) because of propaganda and its sad" No one here cares what is true lol. If it goes against their own side you need to give mathematical proof for something that is obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.think a lot of people identify as feminists and take the surface-level lessons from it without fostering the understanding/compassionate spirit and the critical thinking required to integrate a feminist perspective into a more comprehensive worldview, especially regarding contemporary issues (because the social landscape has changed significantly in the last five years or so). I'd find this argument acceptable if academic feminist and those feminists in lobby organisations didn't lack such under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.I appreciate how well thought-out your response is and that you meaningfully engaged with what I said. Likewise, thank you for being civil and good faith. But there are things and experiences they can’t understand or speak to – which could be complex or incredibly simple. If I understand it correctly you're making the argument that women can't fully understand what is like to be male, so therefore they can't create "masculinity". I think this argument is partly valid, but it only proves that men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.About the last point specifically: toxic masculinity IS something that men create for themselves. Masculinity in general is something men create for themselves. How can you prove that they create it for themselves? Why should we believe only men create "masculinity" when women have disproportionate power over the socialisation of children? How can you argue that any individual creates it for themselves when their are countless pressures in the environment to push you into being certain way? The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 06:48 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.But the thing is there are too many cases of incels or men who do just outright hate women or have a personal vendetta against them causing extreme harm in a way that just dosent compare to men. This is mostly the result of social media outrage making you think like this. Don't get me wrong, incels and the manosphere is very toxic and you're right to be concerned about it. But it doesn't really cause a significant amount of women to be murdered. That doesn't mean they can't harm women, they can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 01:43 PM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.See I disagree with this because I believe this is to some extent build into feminist theories/worldviews. So you can have a perfectly decent, kind feminist woman but she still does believe women are superior without consciously deciding to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:53 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.For one, there are no studies that link misandry as a direct link to more female homicide and SA besides a few one off cases that aren’t enough to create a concrete link, This proves the opposite of what you think it does. There is no strong empirical evidence that misogyny causes homicides either, as the personal characteristics of the perpetrator are usually a far superior predictor compared to something vague like "misogyny". Most men who kill women in the west are men with personality disord… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:46 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.Please point me to mainstream feminist sources that “rabidly advocate” that women are superior to men? They do say that implicitly without directly phrasing it like that. Feminists endlessly invent concepts/theories with no scientific basis to make it seem like women are superior to men. Just a list of examples: × Men created this system (with the implication the system is bad, and the scientific impossibility of identifying one single point in time when a whole society was created) which implie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:30 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.I agree with this. But isn't the exact same thing true for a lot of Western women in the feminist movement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:19 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It never evolved from serfdom and it still shows today unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Russian culture seems like the best example of wasted potential. They used to have the best scientists and works of art, all ruined by authoritarian bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Do you have a favourite computer science subject? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The problem with conscription is that these men don't give something to women per se. It's more about giving your time to the government. Yeah but in the case of South-Korea it provides protection against North-Korea invading and in North-Korea no one and especially not women have any rights. It also gives women an artificial advantage in the education system and the job market. There used to exist some compensation mechanisms for men when it comes to this, but feminists lobbied to reduce or rem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hey, yeah I have been busy with work. I still read some posts from time to time but rarely reply because I honestly no longer waste my time on overly emotional arguments anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah it does. It reinforces gender roles and encourages something I would describe as a complementarity mindset. It creates an expectation that women should give something back in return for this and when that doesn't happen it results in anger that can end in misogyny. Also, the completely inconsistent way Korean feminists respond to this issue reduces the moral authority of their arguments. The "equality" argument loses value when the person using it only cares about it when it suits them. I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Whether it excuses it is not really that interesting, it causes it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 03:12 PM |
| 7 | How representive of feminism is r/AskFeminists?In some respects they are and in others they are not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 02:29 PM |
| 52 | How representive of feminism is r/AskFeminists?Yeah, that's a special type of unintended comedy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How representive of feminism is r/AskFeminists?I agree for the most part, with the caveat that the two conservative options are not just as awful, they are more awful, and have the potential to be way way more awful including eroding democratic institutions completely. But this awfulness is not directly related to gender issues, it's just awful as a general ideology. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 02:24 PM |
| 5 | How can women possibly be suffering that badly?I’m just not sure why a lot of men (on the internet, really) feel the need to bring up their own issues as a response to women talking about theirs. I think this has a very simple explanation. For decades women's issues have been centered by powerful institutions, even going as far as human issues being reframed as women's issues which meant the men suffering from those same issues where harmed in the process, while men's issues were neglected But when anyone tried to talk about that they were i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 10:45 AM |
| 20 | How representive of feminism is r/AskFeminists?I think this subreddit tunnelvisions on feminism too much and ignores how bad conservatives are for men. But simultaneously some of us are too charitable to feminism, seemingly in a desperate attempt to be deemed good faith. Like academic feminism is just pretty bad, from to pov of someone who cares about men, but also from the pov of someone who cares about the integrity of scientific disciplines. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 06:38 AM |
| 43 | How representive of feminism is r/AskFeminists?I struggle to understand this take because I work in academia too and have observed how feminism is taught there, as well as reading academic feminist papers and I fail to see how that isn't almost just as bad as what is posted online. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/25 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.This is only true if you have no ambition in life besides having as much sex partners as possible. Which isn't the case for me, and also not for many other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 07:50 AM |
| 10 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killThis is a completely unscientific perspective, there is no evidence to believe this is true. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 04:23 PM |
| 19 | A short answer to the claim that misandry doesn't killConscription is framed as misogyny, to create these outcomes by design. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/25 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansThe influence feminism has over academia is a serious problem and way more of a systemic issue than individual traumatic experiences. It causes men who experienced trauma to be forced into silence. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You could argue those things are the result of changing material conditions. But also vice versa. All these variables are correlated and we don't have an endless sets of experiment worlds so isolating causes is very hard unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's also urbanisation and transitioning from agrarian economy to manufacturing and service economies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 10:39 AM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I hate how fake society is in general. Its all about being perceived as good rather than actually being good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 10:01 AM |
| 5 | The Economist: The stunning decline of the preference for having boys [full article in comments]The worst part to me seems to be the idea that a world is automatically better run if there is way less violence/aggression when the world can easily be terribly run without much violence. China's doesn't have that much violence or crime but it's deeply authoritarian and its filled with oppression because of it. Additionally it doesn't even discuss possible positive effects of this "male surplus" they are talking about. I don't support unnecessary suffering but competition does breed innovation … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/25 01:24 PM |
| 19 | Thoughts on this more nuanced definition of patriarchy?This is how these conversations always go. Someone lays out why and how they disagree with patriarchy, and the response is always "you didn't understand it". But that's not what it is. They understand what you wrote but they are just unconvinced by it. You can have reading comprehension and still disagree with what you just read. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The teachers sub is filled with people who have problematic attitudes towards boys. But it tracks with my own experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 12:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nice, good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 06:00 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What degree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menIf men are only “””allowing””” us rights, then none of the privileges that are inherent to women are privileges. If someone else is controlling our autonomy and agency, we cannot be privileged. Why? You can argue this for every single privilege because as an individual your autonomy and agency is always controlled by other people according to this reasoning. My right to make autonomous decisions only exists because other people in government allow it, that does not make it not be a privilege rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 09:36 AM |
| 10 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menThese kinds of posts are among the most bizzare I see online. You're effectively blaming men for caring about women at all instead of ruthlessly exploiting them. So let me get this straight just because most Western men don't want to exploit women, they have no right to complain about their issues or the unfairness they face? I don't think you understand what this type of thinking implies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 07:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionCreating/supporting a domestic violence policy that excludes and stigmatises male victims, spreading misinformation about domestic violence and rape, teaching law enforcement to arrest men by default in domestic disputes even when they are the victims. Encouraging discrimination in the education system by selectively applying affirmative action and educational reform so that women are advantaged, with little concern for fairness, consistency, or the disadvantages men face in it. Fighting against… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionYeah but the men who make posts like this have the exact same excuse for their behavior. I don't like the dramatic and hyperbolic ways this is always discussed here but I think that it's just factually accurate that western men's support for feminism has been abused, which has ultimately eroded this support. And the end result is worse for both men and women so here we are in a worse outcome for all but no one wants to take responsibility for it. Just shed blame to the other side to win ideologi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:26 PM |
| 13 | Why are you opposed to feminism?It also means that the people (men but also women with integrity) that exist in those academic spaces feel really uncomfortable challenging it because it invites bullying. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/25 10:19 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else get pissed when people say "the bar is low for fathers" because of how BS it is?This extends even further to other things as well, for example: 1) Parents who are abusive to their kids. If it's a mother doing it they will be excused far more often due to the circumstances they are in. I have some female friends who had very bad mothers, and they also say their trauma is often not taken seriously because a woman caused it. 2)Men usually had less choice over their reproduction, which would actually make it make sense that they'd struggle more with fatherhood because there wil… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.I don't see how he lied. The circumstances are barely different from how he described it if I'm assuming they were what you said they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 09:09 AM |
| 2 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.I just don't understand how there are circumstances here that are relevant. That said, it's a fact that women get lesser sentences for the same crimes than men do. I'm not sure what the appropriate sentence would be, but the relative differences are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 07:57 AM |
| 5 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.You don't set someone on fire because of a few negative comments lmao. What am I reading again on this app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 07:53 AM |
| 2 | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstrapsYeah my own university changed how they grade multiple choice exams because it caused women to have lower grades. Because originally you would receive higher grades if you left a question blank than if you answered wrongly, which causes way more women to leave questions open than men, making their grades decrease relatively. The problem with this is that this is a form of a soft skill, confidence, which in this case gets removed from the grade, but this is only done when removing it positively a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 07:37 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsMost people without being consciously aware that they are doing it. The key thing is that they don't perceive them as victims unless it's the most extreme and clear version of abuse. Once they perceive you as an actual victims they usually don't blame you, the problem is the bar to be perceived as such is far too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.What if we believe this is more common because of our life experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Women who “expose” a man for being a terrible person after they break up aren’t good peopleIf her reason for exposing him is selfish, self-serving and bitter so what, it's still true. Not necessarily. People of all genders usually frame their exes as worse than they actually were. The exceptions to this rule are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.Women are mostly taught to avoid conflict and to create harmony, whether with men or with other women. While that can definitely argued to be a negative thing for them, it's not the same as "prioritising men's comfort". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:36 PM |
| – | If women want to avoid being put in the "hookup only" zone, they should be honest up front early on.Breaking Reddit TOS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | New study confirms women don’t get “unconditional love” as defined by the redpillAssuming this is actually true (which is debatable) I just had the shower thought that maybe this is caused by unpaid domestic work not being properly valued in society. If you take the traditional division of labour, then men contribute more financially while women contribute more in domestic work. But with financial contribution you can accumulate wealth over time while you can't accumulate domestic work. You can't accumulate domestic resources for years ahead. This means that if an illness in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:22 AM |
| – | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingListen, not hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:40 PM |
| 12 | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingIf you only care about equality when it favours you then you didn't actually care about equality in the first place either, it's equally true in reverse (if not more). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 04:59 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Scandinavia seems like the better option then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:47 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's actually really smart lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 02:50 PM |
| 13 | “When You’re Used to Privilege, Equality Feels Like Oppression” is Projection, a Primitive Defence MechanismThe best option for dealing with those people is to walk away. It doesn't matter that you're right, they won't care anyway. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/25 04:27 PM |
| 6 | The WEF Gender Inequality measurement is knowingly biased (against men)Being well-behaved isn't toxic. My point is that the definition of being well-behaved is not automatically ideal and that it can be toxic, demanding unearned obedience for example and in my experience the education system does exactly that. It's also kinda bizzare and wasteful to me that being well-behaved as a kid plays a definitive role in the judgement of your potential intellectual abilities as an adult. Most schools draw the line at behavior that harms or distracts other children from being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 02:18 PM |
| 5 | The WEF Gender Inequality measurement is knowingly biased (against men)Assuming that what you said is true, how is it very relevant? I don't think an education system that sets back children that happen to be boys who will become equally smart adults is productive nor fair. My experience is also that "emotional maturity" is very often used as an euphemism for demanding toxic levels of obedience. Something that is also expected from little girls which I think harms their mental health in the long run. I also don't think it means ingaging in intellectual fraud is in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 12:32 PM |
| 15 | Is there a shortage of relationship material men as compared to women?Because if you do this as a guy your reputation is immediately ruined while a woman can do this and basically be infantilized. But that doesn't really help that woman nor the people around her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | The WEF Gender Inequality measurement is knowingly biased (against men)I don't understand this response. None of what you said (and the claim that women are better students is very controversial considering women aren't smarter, which suggests there is unfairness in how schools work) changes the fact that creating an equality index that measures it in just one direction is just a form of intellectual fraud that is meant to manipulate people. I don't see any possible justification for this, even in the most patriarchal of countries because if that country was actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 05:04 AM |
| 28 | The WEF Gender Inequality measurement is knowingly biased (against men)I don't understand this response. None of what you said (and the claim that women are better students is very controversial considering women aren't smarter, which suggests there is unfairness in how schools work) changes the fact that creating an equality index that measures it in just one direction is just a form of intellectual fraud that is meant to manipulate people. I don't see any possible justification for this, even in the most patriarchal of countries because if that country was actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut?I imagine my gf in the actresses place when I watch porn as well though. This isn't exclusive to smut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 07:30 AM |
| 18 | Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut?Yeah but smut often creates impossible standards regarding behaviour in the same way that porn creates impossible standards for someone's body. The issue is that men are largely raised to neglect their own emotional needs, especially in a romantic relationships, so they are less likely to actually do something about this even when it harms them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsGonna need a scientific reference then about most men feeling a sense of dominion over women ( whatever that even means scientifically because it seems to poorly defined to even measure) In your last sentence you said "men" btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 07:05 AM |
| – | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsIt’s not surprising at all to hear men speak of women as a shared commodity. As opposed to... checks notes... speaking of men as a monolith consisting of purely dark triad traits? Your comment is pretty ironic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 08:08 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The problem with this theory is that it makes zero sense to alienate your allies when this what you want. Europe would be far more open to doing this if he didn't spend months badmouthing us and pandering to Russia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:27 PM |
| 12 | Homophobia and Misogyny although linked aren't the same and people who say that think we aren't men.This issue is bigger than just regarding the topic of Homophobia. I have seen people describe the draft/conscription as caused by misogyny. There is no scientific reasoning behind this and it just serves to appropriate the suffering of men so we can focus on women instead. Both men and women deserve to have their suffering acknowledged and eased. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/25 06:01 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This post truth world is seriously dystopian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:16 PM |
| 41 | Men are sensitive and lack resilience because we are never corrected or receive criticismThis isn't just misandrist, it's delusional because gender norms work in exactly the opposite direction. In pretty much every part of the world people assign more agency to men meaning they also get blamed more. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/04/25 12:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵People usually have ideological blinders towards anything that is done in alignment with their own ideology. For example, if you talk to bluepillers/women on this subreddit, they simply don't see the issue whenever there is ideological meddling in the scientific process as long as its done with their ideology. It's not even perceived as this. Instead, this ideology is considered factually correct. For example I have talked here before about how problematic it is that the APA is incorporating fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 09:11 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm a leftist myself. But yeah, this aspect of the left is problematic, and Reddit is filled with it especially. One thing I absolutely hate about the left is their overconfidence, inability to understand anyone who is not leftwing, and the endless moralising. It means you can no longer have a debate where you might very well agree on ethical principles but just disagree regarding the current state of the world and/or the methods you consider best for improvement. Instead it's assumed (such as w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 08:49 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The fact that these theories are dominant in academia is kinda problematic imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 08:34 AM |
| 1 | A man who supports gender equality, but skeptical towards feminism. A red flag for you?You can read those books and still be sceptical towards modern feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 07:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah sorry I confused the two. Thanks for correcting me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 04:17 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵More and more I start to think "brave new world" by Orwell was a prediction and that we live in a post-truth timeperiod. https://www.euractiv.com/section/health-consumers/news/ukrainian-womens-football-is-prospering-despite-war-inequality/ Like this for example. How is this real? Ukraine being congratulated for gender equality progress... while men are drafted to the front lines. This is on the level of maga claiming Trump will fix inflation. Why are people constantly deluding themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?I never identified myself as a feminist, I was just explaining talking points I’ve heard them use. Then it's just bizzare that you brought it up at all. I’ve heard all of these be criticized by feminists since feminism is such a widespread group that even feminists don’t agree with other feminists. This barely happens at all. And when it happens it pretty much has no consequences. When it's about race or trans issues, feminists can make a stance against other feminists but when it's about harmin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?And I'm asking why I have to go through the labour of educating a feminist on the actions taken by their own movement while they themselves are claiming something about the movement that simply does not align with reality. I don't understand why people claim that feminism helps male victims of abuse when there is a long list of evidence that the opposite is true. I guess you conveniently haven't heard about the Duluth Model, about how the concept of coercive control was created, about the violen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?What do you mean how so? Aren't you literally making the claim it helps men with it? It's so tiring how many people on Reddit will defend feminism without even understanding the movement they are defending and the things that have been done under the banner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?— advocacy of male mental health — advocacy of reducing and calling out IPV against men (hetero and homosexual) ... what. Feminists have materially done the opposite of helping men with these things. They advocate against gender neutral approaches towards IPV and lobby for models that assume men are abusers and women are victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 01:16 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is this a serious comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 03:07 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I still see yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Whats wrong with modern womenI questioned the assumption they aren’t interested. But the arguments you used kinda imply the opposite, since women read more in general and go to therapy more often. Cynically I could say “because women want to improve themselves so they get picked, since women aren’t supposed to do the choosing of a partner.” This doesn't make sense to me. I generally think it is the opposite, the man tries to impress the woman. Because of this, a lot of women's dating related self-improvement seems to be rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Whats wrong with modern womenI read them as in I read the summary, skim through the chapters in the store, and look up reviews on goodreads. I don't want to financially support authors I don't find very good, so I don't buy their books. I strongly believe in voting with your dollar (or euro in my case). But I'm not interested in some subjective heated discussion about it. Let me instead ask you this; if it is true that women are more focused on self-improvement, how come that this contradicts agency biases? This doesn't mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Whats wrong with modern womenAs for your critique of self help, can you tell me which books you’re talking about? It's not about specific books. It's about the underlying theme. I don't remember the exact titles, but every time I visit a book shop and walk past the self-improvement genre aimed at women it's usually the same shit that I personally really find cringe. A book about "how to walk away from toxic situations", or a book about gaslighting, written completely from the female POV as if women don't do it themselves, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 08:05 AM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenThat's not how I was looking at it. I meant that the idea is to improve for yourself, not for others. I'm mainly struggling with your comment because we know that the population at large holds agency bias where it thinks men have more agency and women have less agency. This naturally means that men will be held more responsible, including by themselves. I think admitting that you're wrong is important for self-improvement and by this logic men would do that more often. If you go to a book store … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:08 AM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenI just remembered: Women are even blamed for men’s behavior. I was a young child during the Clinton scandal and what I remember most vividly was adult men and women saying in front of me, a little girl, that it was Hillary’s fault. She clearly wasn’t a good enough wife. When men hurt women, it’s women’s fault. That’s a pretty standard thing still. I remember people blaming Anthony Bourdain’s girlfriend for him committing suicide. Obviously it was Yoko who broke up the Beatles. I remember “I’m st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 07:46 PM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenI think the argument here would be that self-improvement for women is often more self-centered and focusing on validating their emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 07:44 PM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenA weird belief in the idea that men are objectively more privileged even though this is impossible to prove because there is no objective scale to compare the relative importance of different advanrages and disadvantages each gender has. Also, conformism and putting social desirability over truth or principles such as the scientific method. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This kinda does happen to me with my gf lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Or you could just leave and find someone better and peace of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵People who hate others usually are mentally unstable and will eventually make you regret interacting with them. Even if you're not the prime target of their hate initially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:50 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's not that there are zero articles about it. it's just way too little compared to other articles. There not really being a good solution can contribute to it but it's really not just this. It's also that most people are sexist and consider men more disposable, and that most journalists are too much of a coward to even frame something as a men's issue unless it's in a "woke" approved way. Here in Western Europe we used to have a journalistic tradition centered on being extremely critical but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:05 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Both as far as I'm concerned. But what especially irks me is how silent government funded media are on it in my country, while they otherwise jump at the first opportunity to talk about social justice talking points, usually completely uncritically too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:56 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This article in isolation is fine. It's part of a bigger whole that isn't fine, though. Which is that our Western media has erased Ukrainian men and their suffering completely from the discourse, its not even considered a human right violation publically. Instead we have nice and convenient articles about female refugees so we are distracted from the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The United Nations does say that, it really is such an awful organisation and then people are surprised people start hating "globalists". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:01 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A gay man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:00 AM |
| 16 | I'm so tired of male victims of women being tone-policedWhen you're a man who was abused by a woman, there is always this suspicion in the back of most people's minds that you're lying and were the actual abuser. It's why I pretty much never talk about it to anyone. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 08:28 PM |
| 13 | 'Tate phenomena' surges in schools - with boys refusing to talk to female teacherLet's be real here, being funded by taxes is not the same as contributing negative value to society. Government workers are paid by taxes and some of them create important value, else they wouldn't exist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/25 06:34 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You could also visit the old continent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Maybe an controversial take but women expecting men to pay on dates is the least problematic way they uphold patriarchy. It means pretty much nothing compared to other things they could do, such as disrespecting his emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 10:21 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What an outlandish question lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Couples therapy doesn't work because of perverse incentives..I’m willing to admit it happens for sure, but I don’t think it’s the norm like OP claims. I do think that either way, mens mental health needs to be more researched and given more attention. I'm not sure about the "being the norm thing", I think it could very much be the norm, but in my view it simply is not as severe as OP is making it seem. It's not that it is not the norm, but that it is far less black & white than he is painting. When a therapist is faced with a grey situation, somewhere whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Couples therapy doesn't work because of perverse incentives..Yeah but the issue is it's not like he has an alternative because men's issues are underresearched. I'm inclined to believe that there is a decent chance the therapist will be biased against men, more so than the reverse. But I simply don't have a study to even read because they don't exist. That said OP's post is extremely incoherent and sounds overly hyperbolic and emotional. This something that really gets on my nerves on this subreddit, with men posting claims with kernels of truth to them b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?The male perspective is on average less affected by concerns about social desirability and conformity. Many people (and probably many women) would probably consider this to be a negative (it definitely can result in negative outcomes, especially when someone is being an edgy ass for no reason, not denying that) but I consider this to be a positive for myself. I work as a scientist and I feel like this helps me to stick to the scientific method and to stick to finding reliable knowledge instead o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Couples therapy doesn't work because of perverse incentives..For the sake of playing devils advocate, it's not like OP can use sources because even if it was true it would not get studied. There is a severe lack of studies into things like this. Whether couples therapists pick the side of women is debatable, however I knew a man who works as therapist that was told by his female supervisor to pick the side of women because its better for business. Obviously just anecdotal but it could potentially be a thing I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:56 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How does something this cringe get so many upvotes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.Of course people have more empathy for women in Iran because duh, you don't need to have the exact same level of issues to discuss your problems. The point I was making is that antagonism against men is more understandable when women are living in an Iran type of situation. And that "women have it worse and need to be lifted up" is a more understandable perspective when there is actual strong evidence that this is the case. This evidence has been severely lacking in the west for a long time, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.There is no way you can tell me that there is no sexism anymore. I work in a male dominated field and it's only been a handful of years where I have started seeing women even get considered for management positions. A decade ago men were storming off jobsites I was in charge of because "they weren't going to listed to some little girl telling them what to do" That's not what I said or believe. If this conversation continues to consist of you dragging it towards things I never said it's not going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.I love this idea that women started the gender war when for centuries we were very much oppressed and didn't have the same freedoms as men, not even in the ballpark. I actually think that if you look historically this reasoning also applies. Many of the oldest feminists had pretty awful and inaccurate takes, but it was understandable in the context they grew up in in my personal view. I empathised with the environment that made them this way because their anger was largely justified in it. The p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.All you are saying is that you believe all the right wing propaganda. I'm not a rightwinger, have never voted rightwing and I don't watch rightwing content online. This is part of the problem, it is not just rightwing propaganda, part of it is very much real and the fact that this is constantly denied by the left creates only more fuel for rightwing propaganda. The best propaganda always contains a kernel of truth, if the counterresponse to this propaganda is to deny that this kernel is real the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Testosterone reduces the strength of your immune system. As a result men generally feel more sick than women for the same level of illness. The point is the person who is the most sick simply can do less to help the other. This would be like me complaining my gf can't lift heavy things, it's not like she's choosing to have less muscles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.I don't understand why you wrote all of this. I don't think women are my enemy, but I also think feminism contributed to this outcome. An outcome I don't support and find disgusting. For one, it is divisive and has pushed peoples attention away from from class related issues by pitting men against women instead of everyone against the 1%. And not just this, whether consciously or unconsciously, it has undermined trust and the legitimacy in democratic institutions, academic institutions and egali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 12:46 PM |
| 7 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.Who said anything about it being women's fault? It's almost everyone's fault, and idk why you're talking about fucking men when I gave clear examples that have nothing to do with that. It's crazy how much people want to avoid responsibility instead of thinking about how terrible outcomes could be avoided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:29 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The problem is men are legitimately more compromised by being sick biologically. Doesn't justify not reciprocating it, but often times people are sick at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"I really like you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Misogyny causes violence against women. Misandry causes hurt feelings.No one is entitled to people accepting their opinion uncritically, regardless of their gender. I'm gonna care about the stats, the arguments, the reporting biased etc because you can't solve something without understanding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:16 PM |
| 15 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.As if people didn't constantly attack the rights of men, both feminists and conservatives doing it all the time. Or they just keep a lack of rights in place. The difference is almost no one cares, so no one even notices this is happening in the first place. We have had decades of women being treated well in the west while men's issues were either neglected or made worse. Egalitarianism has never been legally enforced with men getting longer sentences for the same crimes, having almost no reprodu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:10 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's not misandry, it's just not accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Misogyny causes violence against women. Misandry causes hurt feelings.It's like the mirrored version of redpillers lmao. Just dismiss abuse victims to win some kind of emotional fight, absolutely disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 09:22 AM |
| 11 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.A movement to protect the interests of women can't be about equality just like a movement to protect the interests of men can't be about equality because interests often don't align with equality. If equality is the goal, then it needs to be inclusive towards both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 08:44 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think it's hilarious that the "amItheangel" subreddit exists. The original AITA subreddit is already extremely sexist in favour of women but apparently that wasn't enough and another one that is even worse had to be made lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 07:53 PM |
| 16 | Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringeThat's a very low quality argument. Everything he said was already going on even before Trumps first election, let alone his second one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.Well I thought this conversation was about historically speaking. I don't think protesting for equal rights is straightforward in places/times where they are not yet a thing. Where I live currently there is zero risk for me doing that for women, and I don't expect brownie points for it. There is however risk when you do this for men, and this is a serious problem in my opinion. If I'd openly voice my concern for how men's issues are neglected I think it could put my career at risk, and I assume … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.That's unrealistic. Going against the status quo for the benefit of others should always get gratitude, because doing so always comes at personal risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 06:16 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It isn't in its definition but generally it's pretty easy to guess what the stereotypical blue piller believes, just like the stereotypical red piller. A general heuristic I use for myself is that if I can accurately guess how someone will respond to certain takes or questions it usually means their beliefs are not very accurate and exist mainly to serve their emotions. When I'm talking to someone who surprises me and is not that easy to read, it usually means they are worth talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.It is gracious when it's average men supporting women's rights, because they aren't the ones who created the system that harmed women in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 05:58 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Okay but "freedom of speech" is not just a legal issue but also a moral principle. The idea of valuing free speech is that you listen to people who disagree with you, that you respect them as human beings and that you're able to have civil conversations with them. Obviously this has limits, when someone's opinion is either completely wrong or severely immoral, it's not possible not to make your dislike for them known. That however does not mean that limits can't be too narrow to the point one be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think this is because you're European, I'm not kidding. It's somehow only Americans who are paranoid about taxes and hold very weird puritan views regarding sex and have some weird fetish for punishment for your actions. They are more focused on assigning blame than reaching a superior outcome for everyone involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 07:37 PM |
| 3 | What is feminism?Okay but how can this be considered male friendly? This is honestly concerning. It suggests they can't even imagine how their ideological opponents think. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/25 07:25 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I like that you're discovering how inconsistent people are about this topic lol. This drives me crazy more than the reality itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 07:20 PM |
| 6 | What is feminism?I never understand this either. How are people interpreting her books to be so positive about her? I don't get it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.I mean, I definitely think there are plenty of men who think women are not as smart as them, but the complaint about DEI hires being deemed incompetent seems bizzare to me. Like how is this not just the natural/logical outcome of how DEI has been done for decades? DEI hires have been a thing for better or worse, its not that surprising that the end result of it is that DEI hires competence gets doubted. This seems like wanting to have your cake and eat it too. DEI as a concept has been terribly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Toxic BS from toxic dating subThe irony of accusing a whole gender of using women instead of going to therapy and then writing down this rant on Reddit. If she's in therapy it sure isn't working. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/04/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Moral elitism is kinda dumb though. I don't really have a need to feel morally superior but it just happens to be the case often enough that I care more about morality than someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://preview.redd.it/3tfhnf0l5gte1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=f85f72974c83c9e2b320935a9b3066c6219bc039 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 05:21 PM |
| 6 | How do you feel about this report from Australia regarding perpetrators of sexual violence?From the psychology courses I took I thought that it was actually women who have stronger social desirability bias generally speaking | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm kinda a jack of all trades when it comes to intellectual pursuits. I can easily switch domains/fields with little time needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:43 PM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Planted two pear trees and pruned the older trees today. The best form of workout by carrying bags of soil in the morning sun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 10:25 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 09:49 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah, but unironically. How can one even decenter 50% of the population? Makes zero sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 09:44 AM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I can't stand seeing the word "decenter" anymore, such a cringe concept. Why do people here keep talking about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.What professional community and what do they accept as Canon? The professional space embraces feminism and male specific concerns as both important. Depends on what professional space you're talking about but if it's academic they shouldn't embrace any ideology, whether it's feminism or something else because it should be based on the scientific method. That's unfortunately not what I observed there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.I'm talking about real life things but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 05:49 AM |
| – | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.I don't really see anyone holding feminists accountable though. All I see is cringe MAGA conservative takes which is basically like "feminism dumb whuuahahaha" which is not a constructive criticism or on the other side progressives who don't have any balls to say anything. Like it's really annoying how all the analysis is always about boys and men but not one talks about how radicalized young women have become. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:05 PM |
| – | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.I think the importance of offline issues is really underestimated especially when it comes to this topic. I don't think I'm really toxic, but what really radicalized me is not whatever happens online but the shit I observed at university. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 08:02 PM |
| – | Young men are radicalized into the manosphere by what WOMEN say in progressive spaces.Academic feminism is also pretty bad though, it's just that it is such a minefield to navigate that people don't have the energy or time to even do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.That being said — that was a really interesting read and very eye opening. It also has some references at the bottom if you're interested in reading more factual sources. I think I was trying to argue that I don’t feel like men are “shunned” from it so to speak, but that may be untrue. Depends on your definition of shunned, but regardless of what definition you use, I don't think it makes sense to say men just "choose" to not enter psychology. I think systemic factors usually explain aggregated … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.I do agree that men are more likely to build professional support networks. That doesn't mean it's not a privilege is what I'm saying. The reasoning is very weak because it suggests it's impossible for there to be any privileges in the first place. I have this opinion piece that I think does a good job describing what it is like to be a man in a female dominated field: https://criticaltherapyantidote.org/2022/10/21/on-being-a-male-in-female-spaces-a-personal-investigation-into-misandry-in-modern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.Doing a horrible job here at representing men's issues. There are so many issues that are magnitudes more important than the existence of onlyfans bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.I'll agree that there are some fringe people in every movement that howl loudly on the Internet, but they do not represent the real majority. They do represent the ones with power though, and they usually get away with manipulating the real majority to believe in falsehoods that lead to suffering. For example the "99% of rapists are male" which is a false belief that gets spread everywhere based on a rigged definition of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not.I don't think they are objectively correct at all and I encourage you to not be overly nice to both sides of this debate and instead keep a critical mindset. The reasoning they used about support networks can be equally applied to the glass ceiling or the wage gap. You can just argue that men build "professional support networks" to help other men, while women don't do the same thing so it's not really a privilege after all. This reasoning is very weak when you think it through properly. In real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 10:05 AM |
| 0 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?I have to admit I confused your post with some of your comments yesterday. Rereading your post I think it is mostly fine and it was only your comments I had some issues with. I apologise for this. I will be charitable and assume you made a post in good faith but then got triggered by bad faith responses. This has happened to me many times before as well. genuinely want to know why I've never heard anyone but radical feminists talk about it and I wanted to start the discussion Radical feminists t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?The reality where only women can take chemical birth control is indeed unfair. In both directions. But that doesn't mean the blame belongs to regulatory bodies or that the powers that be are being unfair. The pill was developed before our current ethical structure regarding medicine was established and if it were to be developed today it would probably not be approved. However because it was already in common use it is not possible to remove it from the market because so many women now depend on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?I don't even disagree with this opinion necessarily. What I'm saying is that this is not how these regulatory bodies look at it. They are supposed to judge ethically whether a drug is acceptable or not. For this they need to weigh risk against reward but because bodily autonomy has become a core aspect of Western bioethics, they are not allowed to weigh the risk of one person against the reward that someone else gets. In essence, they are not allowed to compare the side effects of male birth con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?My question is why aren’t we looking at the side effects of birth control for men and if they’re still less prevalent than the same effects resulting from pregnancy. Because of bodily autonomy ironically. Just like a man has no say about a woman choosing to do an abortion or not, a woman has no say about whether a man should take a medicine to save her from pregnancy. The ethical commission can't compare the side effects for men with pregnancy because men's body can't be held responsible for sav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?The men who enroll into a clinical trial are not the ones who decide whether the drug makes it to the market or not. Them subjectively not being able to stand it or not literally does not influence the decision of whether to approve it, what does is the objective symptoms they experience. The FDA in the US and the EMA in Europe determine whether it makes ethical sense to approve a medicine or not. Men as a collective have no say over this whatsoever, there is absolutely no way in which their per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?The only reason male birth control hasn’t happened is because men couldn’t stand the “side effects”. You know nausea, mood swings, acne, the same side effects we’ve been dealing with for decades. This is literally not how drugs get approved or prohibited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?That's also not what I said or think lmao. I'm saying that the complexity of one's hormonal cycle is not the sole determinant on how easy it is to make a birth control medication, there are even ways thinkable that it might work the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?If you did, you’d know what a moronic question that is. That’s like asking if I think gasoline is the sole thing that matters for a car to drive. That moronic question is build on the reasoning you are using. Maybe reflect a bit more on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:12 PM |
| 9 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?I made a post offering an option to level the playing field by giving men autonomy over their reproductive system and you somehow concluded I was blaming men. What am I blaming men for by saying they should have better options? You're focusing too much energy on dismissing men's reproductive concerns. I genuinely don't understand this kneejerk response so many people have towards men's fears regarding their lack of power over reproduction. Somehow the implication seems to be that if a man gets b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:10 PM |
| 8 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?Their mood swings were way more severe to the point of spiraling into depression. But sure euphemistically label it "mood swings" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?Do you actually believe the complexity of the hormonal cycle is the sole thing that matters for birth control medication? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:32 PM |
| 13 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?Unironically, yes, I did. But that's not what I'm calling false. What I'm calling false is that it implies that making male birth control is easier. It clearly is not, or it would already exist. Or do you actually think there are so little men globally wanting to take it for there to be a lucrative market for it? If that's your belief, then I just conclude you have misandrist beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?A few years ago I delved into this because someone made the same claim that you just made and I ended up on the conclusion that it isn't the same whatsoever. Exactly because men don't have a complicated hormonal cycle these medicines end up causing longlasting depression and from what I remember some interact with alcohol in a deadly way which is an obvious problem considering depression in men and alcoholism is clearly linked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:26 PM |
| 11 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?It's not a beating stick dude, nobody is victimizing you. Sure that's why you used the same old antagonistic "they wanna be victims so bad" kind of bad faith deflection from what someone is saying 🤔 I made this post to open up a discussion about another promising solution to these issues men bring up here every single day. The post and the comment chains are clearly defensive and borderline hostile rather than an honest discussion. Pushing for better male contraceptive options is an infinitely b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:23 PM |
| 13 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?Idk what to say to this, I think this is just false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 18 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?Okay but biology, technology and the capital market doesn't care about what should be standard. Especially not when big pharma exists. This whole post seems equivalent to blaming women for the fact that the neurological disorders they are more likely to suffer from don't have good cures, as if their lack of advocating caused it. Meanwhile the reality is that neurological disorders are harder to cure and that big pharma doesn't want to take that risk to develop these cures. The exact same thing i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?There are other male birth control options beside condoms and vasectomies out there that haven't been approved because of the side effects such as acne, mood swings, and weight gain which are the exact same side effects as female hormonal contraceptives. From my understanding this is not correct. The side effects were significantly more severe. Also though, because of how bioethics currently works the bar that needs to be crossed for a male birth control pill is higher because men don't experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 04:59 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's just bizzare. It's not like he himself did anything lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 08:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 06:52 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Your opinion is wrong, sweet wine is the best wine. Try some Malaga Virgen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 08:30 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Internal processing of your emotions is a superpower people constantly underestimate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 07:21 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Most people develop a theory of mind during childhood. Lacking a theory of mind is generally not possible unless you have a severe personality disorder, making your claim false. Instead you should say they lack empathy/understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have been saying this, it creates a new level of anonymity. That can be good or bad depending on how you look at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 11:53 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'd bet on a combination of the two. Any person who takes science seriously should imo. Pure nature and pure nuture people are really annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not really, our monkey brain still behaves as if those things didn't exist yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:29 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree. But the thing is, often times that argument is used defensively against someone who is arguing men are inherently worse people. Also, I do think men are more risk taking and inventive than women on average. This has both negative and positive outcomes associated with it. Either you acknowledge them both or you don't. But that usually doesn't happen on both sides lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵As if nature allows any species to organize the games lol. This argument is so annoying because it is unfalsifiable. Basically "even if a woman does something today she is living in a system set up by men" but with no proof whatsoever how and why it would he different otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You should keep the same energy when people say men mainly did the bad things throughout history as well. You can't lose either if you're not allowed to play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:02 PM |
| 4 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad.Big example: Majority of dysfunctional people coming from single mother household is taken at face value. I agree, it is taken at face value way too much. But bring up that 90% of rapists are men, then we see cries of sexism and not looking at other factors. Men aren't 80% of rapists if you use a gender neutral definition of rape. It seems obvious that you will receive backlash if you don't even use accurate statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 02:44 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It has become popular to frame men's intentions as more one-dimensional and malicious than they are Any statement that says "the only reason they/you do x" is already false. People don't do things for just one single simplistic reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:26 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How can someone even reach this conclusion lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:10 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Gotta find something to distract from economical problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Silver divorces are more common among couples where women have health issues. Does your personal experience support this study's findings?I think the conclusion is uncertain and overly simplified. You don't know whether men struggle more with declining health in their partner as it can be mediated by women struggling more with their own declining health which then leads to a response in the male partner. I can also be related to women having more people they can share the caretaking load with. When you take a very cynical view you could argue that women have a financial incentive to stay together until their partner dies while men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 08:09 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵In a house or in a tent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:35 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Because you're playing yourself, you learn it more organically and it's easier to understand how multiple things combine simultaneously. Whenever you're just reading you always have the issue that you're reading one aspect at a time and often different aspects are connected non-linearly so it's hard to understand them holistically. This is exactly why scientists use simulations and models to make things easier to understand. Victoria 3 is essentially a flawed economics and politics simulator, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:31 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Especially once you get older it is better to have a bit more. The perfect life expectancy maxing is being lean during your childhood, adolescence and early adulthood and to border between overweight and healthy weight during middle age and elderly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:05 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵History doesn't just consist of historical accounts and details. It also consists of patterns, intentions and motivations for which the exact date at which they happened is not important. If you want to know when something happened then video games are probably useless. If you want to know how or why something happened then they have value. Victoria 3 for example shows how economic imperialism developed by letting you play yourself and ending up with the same incentives that European powers had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 07:47 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes of course. There are multiple strategy games that can teach valuable insights into history, economics, logistics and warfare. Victoria 3 for example. Or anno 1800 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 07:38 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What's wrong with getting knowledge from video games. Simulation is literally used in science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm on my gardeningmaxing arc recently, I'm constantly working in the garden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Literally me for my girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 08:20 PM |
| 9 | Boys to get anti-misogyny lessons as TV drama Adolescence hits homeThis is what makes me so angry, this has been a bigger problem for decades and has actually bled into real life consequences, but absolutely nothing was done about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025They saw a desperate need for support and resources for the rising number of abused women and kids and they chose a path forward to get those resources to those people. Now we can argue if that was the best solution forward. We can look at specific data to measure the impact it had on men suffering with DV. I do not agree that seeing one group actively in need and helping them is inherently wrong. This is an inaccurate framing. The need existed for both men and women and they chose to completely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:29 PM |
| 7 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.You can't know that based on statistics though. Its very difficult to prove that both rape and false allegations happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:54 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Those are valid points, but I don’t think that’s an empathy issue. That’s just different opinions in how to best legislate to solve problems. I strongly disagree with this. Their view on legislation is only possible when you have a complete lack of empathy for men who are abused. Just total indifference and often it is even worse, literal hostility towards them for no rational reason. People's actions are dependent on their level of empathy and sympathy. But also I didn’t see much of any feminis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:47 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025To be clear I'm not saying they have no empathy at all. Just less than is up to my standards and what I think I extent to people, including women. For example, advocating for the Duluth Model on domestic violence, portraying domestic violence as a gendered issue of men beating women, lobbying for changes to the law so that equality under the law based on gender is violated, and continuing to support female abusers such as Amber Heard is in my opinion not empathic at all to men who suffer from ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:38 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Okay, I agree with that. I think he's using a pretty bad angle of criticism. That said, he's talking about feminists and imo they don't really extend empathy to men either. They don't reciprocate empathy for men who support women's rights at all. I think feminists employ the same zero sum transactional tribalistic attitude as OP. He should have focused on this instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:30 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025You literally quoted "helping women". How is helping not an action? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:22 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wow you're so edgy /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:56 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It is crazy making to see people claim "misandry is not systemic". Do these people know the definition of "systemic"? Do they not have dictionaries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:40 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's crazy how much misandry there is on this app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:36 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Feminism is not indifferent to men, it is antagonistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:31 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025I don't think feminists usually reciprocate this empathy though, do you think they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men also claim "misandry" when someone is actually misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're right it isn't, unless the person doing it hates men. But also, that's not what I'm referring to lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:07 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Let's be real here the women on this subreddit are just as hypocritical as the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/0hUsociiNNs?si=IN3-VzjyY6lUGuHw No one wants to talk about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Violence perpetrated by men may yet be a larger discussion, simply because we live in a society where psychological violence is hardly taken seriously wether the victim is a man or a woman. You can see examples of that in this thread. So if you take psychological violence out of the equation, then yes, men are considerably more violent than women. Having seen how psychological violence can cause at least as much (and often more) damage as physical and sexual violence, I think we do everyone, men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men have been the biggest recipients of care in the social discourse where I live in recent years. Norway must be wildly different than the rest of the west then, unless we have a different perception of what accounts honest care vs condescending fearmongering. How much of this comes from genuine concern and not just people being scared of radicalized men hurting women? Maybe things are different in Norway, idk. The trend when it comes to domestic violence policy however is that it is getting wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:19 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵not what I was doing I disagree. How is calling people gross, unempathic, and implying they identify with male abusers a fair thing to do and staying on topic? This poisons the well. The amount of tangents I went on is directly related to you misrepresenting my perspective and making emotional arguments about it, and then refusing to ingage with them or to even consider that I'm being honest about my thoughts. I'm not identifying with anyone who is abusive, and neither do I think people don't ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not being on the same page is not the problem, conversations just become tiring when you don't respond to what someone has written, respond in bad faith or borderline insult someone for absolutely no reason. But yes let's leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵She wants his views on masculinity, his views that have not only been formed by online crap, but also throughout his childhood. He used to be a creative kid who loved to draw, but that wasn't good enough so his dad dragged him to to sports to "toughen him up" and then blatantly showed his shame when his son didn't live up to his very narrow expectations. It was very relevant to the case. He was angry because despite asking her out "when she was weak" he still got rejected. This could just as eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I honestly don't understand this pack mentality of identifying with abusive men. That's not what it is and I'd appreciate if you stopped suggesting shit like this. It's seriously bad faith. When I hear about toxic femininity, about women being violent towards their partners or their own children, I don't feel bad for anyone other than the victims, because her simply being a woman doesn't make my identify myself with her. I'd never do that, it isn't about me, so I don't feel attacked. Yeah I wond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Apologies from my tongue Never yours Busy lapping from flowing cup And stabbing with your fork I know you’re a smart man And weaponise The false incompetence It’s dominance under guise All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid Nymph then virgin, nurse and a servant Just an appendage, live to attend him So that he never lifts a finger 24/7 baby machine So he can live out his picket fence dreams These are the main ones I guess. But I have more issue with the cultural context this song fits into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Another line that really hit is "It's not an act of love if you make her". It's vague enough that it can simply be interpreted as her being made to take care of him and everything else at her own expense, or it's a brilliantly simple way to touch on the subject of sexual coercion and abuse in romantic relationships. As you probably know, most sexual abuse is perpetrated by someone close to you, wether you're a man or a woman, and it is only in recent years that it's been made illegal(between spo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I do think it says something about the people who mainly listen to the song. But we can just agree to disagree, this conversation really pissed me off anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, with the YouTube comments that have over 1k upvotes which tells you something about the type of people who watch this music video. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 11:30 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵There's no lack of studies showing that women spend more hours on housework and childcare than men, dispite working full time. Denying that is just willful ignorance. I live in one of the most equal countries in the world, and I can name so many women who have lived or are living this. I'm talking about total work. Regardless of full time, men work more hours at their job and commute longer on average. I'm honestly baffled at men feeling offended by women who are used and abused in relations wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 11:11 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It did some good things historically, but the belief system is inaccurate, sexist and ironically leans into fascism. If there were significant criticisms from within it could be salvaged but unfortunately this pretty much never happens. Not very relevant to my dating life, except that I'm not going to date someone who's constantly shouting how trash my gender is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Imo, considering the context from the rest of the song as well as the comments under the song, this is more of a systemic criticism than a described individual example of an abusive relationship. I don't think people would feel the need to critique it if it was more individualized, and if it didn't 100% stereotypically fit feminist narratives. The problem is that this systemic criticism doesn't seem to be the most accurate in all aspects. The "apologies from my tongue, and never yours" for examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 10:22 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Most women are decent people who make good friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:52 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't believe women who are traded like cattle are the main ones listening to this song and/or commenting on it. I know multiple songs that do a way better job at talking about women facing abuse, for example: https://youtu.be/QNdHVGCM8Bs?si=2hg3mUU7b9zjy--H Now don't get me wrong, I'm pretty much "anything goes" when it comes to art, so I don't have a problem with this song existing. It's just hard to disconnect this song from cultural narratives that are problematic in my opinion. There is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:10 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This song seems to have a meaning beyond just abuse though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 09:10 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Isn't a portion of them just wanting to blame their ex and just exaggerating the situation they were actually in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Who do men expect women to do the work for themI have never understood this reasoning. Responsibility for what? For not corrupting the system and for lobbying for artificial advantages granted to them based on their gender? This person is blaming men for not being sexist enough and doesn't even has the slightest self-awareness about it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/03/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You know the timeline sucks when progressives love a superficial analysis made by an American big tech company just because it validates their own sexist beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:29 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Exactly lol, when a 13 year old boy commits murder its usually because he was born with anti-social tendencies and/or was severely abused as a small child. The manosphere has nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm getting annoyed at how much people are glorifying the adolescence series. Like yes the concept is cool and interesting and so is the acting, but half of it is essentially propaganda and doesn't align very well with real life, and people are taking the series as a commentary on real life. And of course, your stereotypical journalists spring in an uncritical manner which they do with anything that confirms their own worldview, which is ironically contributing to the subject of the series lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵First | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You gotta be in Bretagne to do that. EU local product rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenI completely agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicWhat do you mean by "frame"? It is homophobic, the question is whether that is morally bad when it comes to dating related decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 04:03 PM |
| 24 | Stephen Graham issues warning to parents after Netflix’s AdolescenceI felt like it had too much propaganda in it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/25 06:49 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I wash my hands every time except when I'm in private with my gf. She touches my 🍆 all the time anyway so it doesn't really make a difference lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"I was a weird girl. I struggled fitting in and I was bullied for it. Most of my bullies were boys. At a certain point in puberty I started being considered physically attractive and that's when the boys stopped bullying me and only the girls remained. Sorry to hear that. I'm also just going by what my female friends have told me. To be frank, the largest bias in research is not including women and girls at all. It is only in recent years that women have started to be consistently included. That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"Do they more easily notice, analyse, grasp and replicate social norms? Is it more interesting to them and therefore less burdensome? But isn't this true for neurotypicals as well? Doesn't this mean they just have to mask less? Girls have been shown to exhibit more pro-social behaviour than boys on average. It's been studied and replicated again and again. Yes but my issue is with framing that as masking. That doesn't make girls better than boys however. If a girl is pressured into agreeable beha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"I think they get bullied mostly by other girls while boys don't care that much whether a girl is autistic or not. Women are more rigid about social rules, which makes them more ableist but you will never see a paper even make that claim while there are thousands of papers making such claims about men. Sorry for giving you so much slack, it's not your fault but academia really has a gender bias problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"I said we don't know the cause of the masking, not that it doesn't happen more in girls. It does. How do you know this? Is it because it's easier? Are women just more agreeable by nature? Are they conditioned? Who knows. What do you mean by easier? Isn't being agreeable or not a core aspect of the self? How can you mask your self if the masking is part of your self? When surveying for masking, the emphasis isn't on how good you are at it, but how much you do it. Do you do this in that situation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"The control group is there to confirm the experience of masking for neuroatypical people. In gender based studies male or femalr control groups are used. Yes, but they don't address that women might be treated with more empathy. Being good at masking can be an advantage, but I want to stress that it can be very harmful as well. Burnout, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, suicide, being so agreeable that you get into dangerous situations and sexually victimised, end up in an abusive relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"Maybe some parts of your comment are missing? Sorry, that’s not what I meant but I didn’t clarify. I meant autistic men have different struggles than autistic women, but both are difficult. I agree that both are difficult but whether they are equally difficult is debatable. Probably a really unproductive debate though lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"Women and girls are generally considered better at masking because they more often than men go under the radar for super long. That could easily be because people tolerate their weirdness more. may get mkre empathy, but there are many studies that show how little girls behaviour, especially social behaviour us scrutinised and rewarded/punished more than that of boys, because there is a social expectation for girls to be more sociable, more agreeable and more pro social. To some extent I agree wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Many (not all) women don't really want vulnerability in a man for his own good. They want the guy's emotions to serve as a means for them to feel good, important, flattered and/or protected.Emotional injuries are similar. Something small, you can tough it out. This is when being stoic is a useful strategy. Sometimes you watch your buddies get killed while on deployment. Stoicism is a poor coping strategy then because bottling it up just makes you a fucked up person with PTSD when you are back stateside. That's when you need different tools for processing your trauma and grief. I don't agree with this analogy. Emotional injuries are not similar in the sense that you can heal them yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"A very stereotypical example: The little girl would prefer to organise all the belongings of the doll, taking things like colour, shape and texture into account. She has observed that the other girls pretend to feed the doll however, to change it's nappy and soothe its cries. In order to be accepted by the other girls, and receive positive feedback from adults, she imitates their play, neglecting her own interests. I was born as a gifted child and apparently when I was in kindergarten I intentio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:18 PM |
| 10 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"Sure, I think it’s pretty well acknowledged that women (autistic or not) have an easier time in the approach/introduction stages of dating. I wasn't just talking about dating. I'm not autistic but I constantly have to micromanage the fact that others perceive me as a threat just because I'm male. Women don't need to do that. People are more empathic to women regardless of context. All the other phases of dating and relationships are fucking hard for women with autism, whether it’s with sucking a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"What does masking actually mean though? I'm very confused what masking means scientifically, and how it relates to the concept of the self that is used. The concept of the self varies highly culturally and depending on the philosophical framework that is used. Is the concept of masking actually a falsifiable thing? In other words how does an outsider determine whether someone is masking their real self or is just really like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 06:52 PM |
| 12 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"If I, as a woman, kept talking to someone who didn’t want to talk to me, making uncomfortable eye contact, getting closer than they’re comfortable with, and generally just missing all the social cues telling me that I’m bothering them, people wouldn’t like that. That’s not cute. What if more people want to talk to you, more people are comfortable with your eye contact, are less bothered about you getting closer and more forgiving about social cues just because you're a woman? I think there are q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 06:46 PM |
| 15 | Autistic women are not "better at masking"Why would this be true though? It's pretty clear that men are perceived as more dangerous in general so it seems obvious that autistic men would also be more likely to be perceived that way than autistic women. Idk why people don't want to admit it. And that type of stuff is what a lot of girls learn to correct pretty early in life, so we’re a lot less likely to do it. It’s not that we’re doing the same things and being perceived differently, it’s that we’re not actually doing that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 06:40 PM |
| 6 | This community needs to open up to the idea feminism to at least some degree.Question: Why do you think "patriarchy is not real" is automatically reactionary? Is it not possible to conceptualise reality in a different way and still have it useful? Maybe even more useful? I take issue with attaching the word real with patriarchy in the first place because in my experience, it's usually just a subjective framing of reality based on the emotions of the person that believes it. "Real" or "objective" reality often doesn't even enter the equation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Many (not all) women don't really want vulnerability in a man for his own good. They want the guy's emotions to serve as a means for them to feel good, important, flattered and/or protected.Absolutely not, it's something that both men and women need. But girls are socialised and conditioned to BE more emotionally resilient, whereas aspects of boys socialisations about manliness actively hinders them developing the same competencies (e.g. being stoic when you have a problem rather than seeking help or talking about it with someone else). Based on what objective evidence is being stoic less emotionally resilient? Can't you argue the exact opposite just as much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Many (not all) women don't really want vulnerability in a man for his own good. They want the guy's emotions to serve as a means for them to feel good, important, flattered and/or protected.I can’t do anything about that double standard besides not perpetuate it myself, which I haven’t. I can’t speak for others or society if I’m not apart of the problem that you’re talking about. I agree, the problem is men are (imo) rightfully skeptical towards people who say things like that. They can't know whether you perpetuate it or not. If you have a problem with my verbiage, that’s okay but I explained what I meant. I can’t handle someone who defaults to crying often. If someone describes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 02:31 PM |
| 17 | Many (not all) women don't really want vulnerability in a man for his own good. They want the guy's emotions to serve as a means for them to feel good, important, flattered and/or protected.The problem is that if a man would dare to say something like that "my female partner should only cry when it is appropriate" he'd be labelled an asshole by almost everyone regardless of context. People wouldn't even ask or care about context and I know this from having dated an abusive woman with BPD. There is also a problem with the world appropriate. In practice it means "appropriate to me" and it gives one the ability to deem anything they want inappropriate. Add to this the fact that most p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I love citrus trees. They have the best scent of all flowering plants imo. My own peach tree is also flowering, unfortunately it's a variety with very small flowers. The peaches are the best tasting variety that one can grow in my climate tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 09:16 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Pretty sure the flowering tree on this picture is a peach tree tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What kind of ragebait is this again? Are you this blind to the amount of stigma men who work with kids face or are you just pretending to be to stir up shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have to say I prefer the kebab in the pita bread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao, I don't think kapsalon is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 06:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think they can be really good, but they can also be really bad tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 06:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yesterday I ate a burger in an airport hotel in Frankfurt at 10pm and it was the best one I had in years lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:43 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Maybe an equally controversial take: There is a difference between dropping your partner in cold blood, and having a mature conversation about needs in the relationship. I think it's far more respectable to maybe transition to a platonic relationship or to open the relationship. But suddenly not caring at all anymore feels cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Why is the kindness of lonely men always questioned?No one is kind just for the sake of being kind and neither should anyone be. It's completely valid to expect reciprocity, relationships in social animals are based on this principle and humans are no exception to this. Also kindness is not the same as sticking to moral principles. I can think someone doesn't deserve my kindness and still think they deserve the same rights as those that deserve. People seem to constantly confuse the two. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/25 10:35 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵He looks far older than his age but I don't think he looks ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:00 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/OBDZQzCcTQo?si=_J0e9A5_TsIL4dwf This goes hard especially when you watched the original one before he was famous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:38 AM |
| 3 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.I agree with this take. The problem is, it does not support the "men are to blame for feeling intimidated" narrative that some are pushing here. Women can both have valid reasons for not dating broke men while men simultaneously have valid reasons to feel worried about their female partner leaving them when they can no longer provide the main financial contribution. Life is not fair and both reactions can be acknowledged and understood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 08:41 AM |
| 14 | A question for the women of this sub.Don't you think it's kind of bizzare that a place geared towards creative expression has this much censorship. I thought art was about challenging taboos and expressing personal opinions, seems like it should be a perfectly valid opinion to hold that misandry is real regardless of whether the mods agree or not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/25 09:08 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Don't drag this innocent cat into the gender war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 07:03 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah but emotional stability is not the same as just being a punching bag that never responds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 06:40 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Also less severe offenses are often more frequent, meaning the overall burden on society could be larger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm not acting. I don't tolerate people in my personal circle who are constantly ingaging in bigotry. And yes it is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Isn't this kinda normal? What would someone say instead ? "No you're a total parasite and I hate you"? Luckily most people aren't that unhinged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I would tell her that what she's saying is fucked up, just like I would to a man saying women are evil. Even the use of the word offended here just serves to make someone sound crazy for not respecting bigotry. I'm not offended, I'm concerned about the lack of morals in such a situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 12:50 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The reason tech in America faces no competition is because the low levels of regulation on venture capital, the low regulations on tech companies themselves, the low taxes, and the ease of hiring and firing. And the fact that we let in a lot of H1B workers, which is gonna continue even under trump. Go to tech office in California, about 50% of the people there are gonna be first gen immigrants, and 30% are gonna be second gen immigrants.. This sort of multiculturalism is not tolerated in Europe,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Many will become even more delusional until in a few decades they will be the new "we didn't know" after one of the darkest periods in American history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:33 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah many Americans also believe this. They are told that America is the greatest country on earth with no evidence to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Were will Germany get more consumption, or production for that matter? It is an aging society with little family creation, high energy prices, since Russian invasion, overpayed workforce, that doesn't produce much these days. Lol at "doesn't produce much these days". The EU is more industrialised than the US and has a larger consumer market. US GDP is completely kept up by their tech giants. Tech giants that will face more competition the more US alienates its allies. The green tech spending is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sure but rn Europe is still weaker. This kind of bullying usually works for a short while but over the longterm you end up encouraging others to rival your power. Americans are under the flawed belief that American exceptionalism is a fact of the universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:04 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Bro interests rates have been close to zero since 2008 here because we had no economic growth exactly because of excessive austerity. Inflation has not been a concern here, growth is. We can handle a bit more spending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:01 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And like before their adversaries are not taking it seriously and underestimating the potential. Only this time, the rest of Europe is allied with Germany. In 10 years from now Americans will realize how dumb they were to stab their vassal in the back, when Europe has become a rival on their level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 07:58 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Germany is abolishing the debt brake and piling a financial bazooka into infrastructure, defense and green tech spending. FINALLY. Europe is back, after two decades of stagnation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Damn you didn't even miss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 07:39 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/KkD7a82mTvY?si=uIdAEp0LcmSyVb9S BTW do you know this song? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?They blame woman for courts being biased against fathers, yet data shows only 7% of fathers actually apply for joint or full custody and of that 7%, 70% are awarded. That's because most lawyers advice men against doing that unless there is a good reason to deem the mother an unfit parent. Instead they reach an agreement instead of going to court, in which often times the man does not get 50% custody. There is a wide range of evidence that suggests the court system is biased against men in genera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 06:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I haven't felt this proud of being European in a long time lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 05:29 PM |
| – | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?I wish we had more studies on the topic, so we would have more data on how we actually can help men. I do think that men tend to bottle things up more, and looking at addiction and suicide rates it doesn't seem that men are doing well. I think that as long we continue to frame everything through the lens of "masculinities" we won't be able to help much. But then again, this is essentially me saying whole domains in academia are useless, and they will never accept it because their income depends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:08 PM |
| – | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?The same number of men and women said that they rely on their partner for emotional support, but men scored lower in every other category. Considering that most people have more friends of their own gender, I don't think it's a stretch to say that men are more closed off towards their friends than women. I think I'm mainly struggling with the concept of "relying" on someone. I believe men just rely more on themselves, which is why they score lower in every other category. showing that men are mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 08:33 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm a cultured and civilised man! Either homemade or in the restaurant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:18 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not from a package | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:12 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ewww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice?Gonna call bullshit on the claim that a woman being a good person has a significant effect on how desired she is. Men are just as likely as women to be attracted to hot but immoral women, and many men tolerate abuse because they think its what they deserve. Many men and women are raised to think that abuse is normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵10 years from now the US will be in big trouble, but all of this American badasses can't see through the forest of their own ego lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵European Union prevents me from being cucked by the US, China or Russia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't think anyone really understands it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Healthy BMI guy in shambles, his whole life falling apart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No but you are a smoker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Pick-Me refers to women who commit self-harm actions for men, and judge other women for not doing the same. Basically, anyone who uses the "not like the other girls" kind of mindset. I know it refers to that. The issue is that you can stretch the meaning of "self-harm" however broad you want. Many feminists think that a woman not being a feminist constitutes self-harm. Actual pick-me's like justpearlythings are pathetic, but women who simply hold different opinions are often accused for pick-me'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why would anyone care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well not r/Europe anymore because I got permabanned for a tame comment that didn't break any rules with no explanation. And I'm like super pro pan-europeanism lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wtf he turned off caps lock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?True tbh, that's valid criticism towards his "evidence" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is the opposite of logic, it's irrational and emotional behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 12:40 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why is bro this rude lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 12:05 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How did he reject you? What did you even ask him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm becoming this person more and more and I'm proud of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 11:57 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This has nothing to do with gender. Often times people who push for poly just want to have their cake and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Anytime a post generates this many emotional rebuttals you know it hits at something that has truth to it. Not just when it's critisizing women btw, the same happens when someone makes a post critisizing men and you see mostly emotional rebuttals. Then it also usually has truth to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 11:50 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Creative writing gone wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?https://theconversation.com/happy-wives-happy-social-lives-men-are-more-emotionally-disconnected-than-women-what-can-be-done-about-it-239194 This article does not convince me that these claims are "objectively true" rather than a subjective framing of the author. This kind of hits on a lot of things I'm very skeptical about in social science as someone who works as a scientist in the intersection between exact science and social science. Just to give some examples: 1)it begins by suggesting we s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:40 AM |
| 7 | Men should compensate for pregnancy and childbirthDoes that mean you think men should be allowed to retire earlier and/or have a higher pension? Because men die younger partly because of biology, so they make a bigger sacrifice to society economically and deserve to be compensated for it if we follow your reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:49 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is impossible to fill in if you're not in the US. My income is low expressed in dollars but my purchasing power parity is way higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:43 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This seems more like you convincing yourself this is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:30 AM |
| 7 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?PPD is not a neutral sample that can be extrapolated to the rest of society. OP is clearly talking about averages and not outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Men also tend to rely on women more than on other men for emotional support, Is there actual proof that this is true? And I'm not just talking about self-reports. because of very negative connotation incels and manosphere in general created for themselves. They really didn't just create it for themselves. They would have been demonized no matter what they did. If public perception was solely/mainly determined by a groups actions/beliefs then feminists would have just as much of a negative connot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:00 AM |
| 4 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?That's just because feminists see any woman who does not tow the party-line as a pick-me. If that's your definition of pick-me, then obviously you're gonna see them everywhere, but that does not mean all of those women are denigrating women and defending men. They might just have their own complex opinion on life that doesn't fit in a more simplistic feminist framework. Also, feminists are an example of the type of women who should be called out but only rarely are. A lot of feminists are sexist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 06:52 AM |
| 3 | It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources.I find this post really bizzare. It comes across as sexist from two directions at once. On the one hand, you're claiming that women are largely self-serving, implying they are ego driven and basically just using men. This does not align with reality, the average woman isn't this cruel being whatsoever. But then, on the other hand, you're also absolving the agency and responsibility from the women who are actually like this by blaming "conditioning". I'm not saying social conditioning doesn't mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I will never not hate bank apps. Like the people that make these apps have negative EQ's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are the more empathetic sexEmpathy has a scientifically proven genetic component to it though, so I don't think this is necessary true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are the more empathetic sexWomen are more empathic, but your title does not align with what you're claiming in your post. Women being more empathic is different than that meaning it's the explanation for them having more expansive support networks. You didn't really give any argument for why this would be a causal relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:06 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nice your handwriting is as bad as mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 08:19 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah I can see that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 08:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My handwriting is atrocious compared to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Part Two: False Rape Allegations: An Overexaggerated TruthFor starters, thanks for actually putting effort into your post. I appreciate it. However there a some parts of your reasoning that are rather weak in my opinion. For example: -Informal estimates are hard to gauge. Since 2-10% of allegations to the police are false, the ratio of unreported rapes to informal allegations could be similar. Approximately 70% of rapes are not reported to the police. Meaning for every false allegation made to police there is likely 3 which are not made to police. I se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 05:28 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why is the world ruled by idiots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 03:09 PM |
| 11 | The patriarchy isn't realI think they are practically treated as synonymous by feminists themselves most of the time. For example: 1) Acting like this system was set-up by men at one point in time and then blaming men for this system existing. A scientifically impossible perspective to hold and clearly the result of confusing the two things. 2)Literally naming everything negative after men and weirdly singling out men when it comes to blame for issues women face while gender is one of the worst predictors for supporting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtu.be/Jkuxxznc6UQ?si=93d1Sa5gzZ309U67 JD Vance needs to hear this song | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 11:20 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It boggles the mind how many are seeing this as him being a strongman. He's acting like a bully on the high-school playground. Pathetic doesn't even describe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Bro just wanted validation for his feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is rightwing propaganda and false. Most funding for Ukraine came from Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Most checks are signed by Europe anyway. It's crazy how much arrogance Americans have, they really overestimate how important they still are. The empire is dying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 07:06 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think I have a different definition of getting absolutely bodied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I find it amusing when I see a report "this is threatening violence against a group" and its like the most tame comment ever lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 06:57 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵People of both sides do that here constantly unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What do you mean by "finding out" exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The problem with that statement is that it can refer to a wide variety of problems, some valid and others not so much. I think women do that just as often. It's just not retrospectively framed like this pattern most of the time. A man having relationship problems and a woman not listening to a man aren't treated as equally severe issues by most people in my experience. In summary I think that "I took her for granted" is more common than "I took him for granted" simply because society gives men l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 01:34 PM |
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